Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,
Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's
Speaker 1: tip is to be intentional about encountering and building relationships
Speaker 1: with people whose experiences are different from yours. In life,
Speaker 1: it can be easy to live in a bubble, but
Speaker 1: consciously bursting that bubble can make life more interesting. One
Speaker 1: of the more fascinating demographic trends these days is just
Speaker 1: how much people sort themselves into very similar communities. There
Speaker 1: are the political implications, of course, says the US has
Speaker 1: different states becoming known as red states or blue states.
Speaker 1: Plenty of folks don't know many people who vote differently
Speaker 1: than they do, even though obviously millions of people make
Speaker 1: those choices. But beyond that, people sort on other factors
Speaker 1: as well. For instance, if you have a professional degree,
Speaker 1: which I know many of my listeners do, you might
Speaker 1: not have many close friends who didn't go to college.
Speaker 1: Your children most likely know children from other similar backgrounds,
Speaker 1: and I know there are reasons for such sorting. But
Speaker 1: even if your job and neighborhood are what they are,
Speaker 1: it is possible to make some excursions outside the bubble.
Speaker 1: Doing so reminds us that people have lots of different experiences.
Speaker 1: So alongside your professional organization, which naturally has people with
Speaker 1: the exact same job, as you join a civic organization
Speaker 1: that recruits more broadly, if nothing else. As you meet
Speaker 1: and volunteer together, you will meet people in different lines
Speaker 1: of work and who might be at different life stages
Speaker 1: from you. Many houses of worship draw their members from
Speaker 1: all walks of life, which is great. Join the choir
Speaker 1: or the church softball team and get to know people
Speaker 1: you wouldn't otherwise. That said, if your house of worship
Speaker 1: is a bit more homogenious, maybe it is time to
Speaker 1: partner with a like minded church in a different neighborhood
Speaker 1: to do some projects together, or field that joint softball team.
Speaker 1: If you visit community institutions, you don't necessarily have to
Speaker 1: visit the ones in your exact community. Many towns libraries
Speaker 1: have multiple branches, and if you can return your books anywhere,
Speaker 1: why not check out the story time and met class
Speaker 1: options at a different branch. One of the reasons I
Speaker 1: love my YMCA is that the clientele is more diverse
Speaker 1: than the clientele I have encountered at other gyms. This
Speaker 1: is true for the group fitness classes there as well,
Speaker 1: so those could be worth checking out. Cast a slightly
Speaker 1: broader net with the restaurants you visit for lunch. It
Speaker 1: doesn't have to just be that upscale sandwich spot in
Speaker 1: your office building. Even a coffee shop represents a choice,
Speaker 1: and going somewhere a little different occasionally can remind you
Speaker 1: that the world is a varied place, plus that diner's
Speaker 1: coffee might be slightly cheaper. I'm just suggesting it. Even
Speaker 1: our online communities can become bubbles, but they don't have
Speaker 1: to be. I am not saying you need to expose
Speaker 1: yourself to strident voices, but ask around to find who
Speaker 1: your friends and colleagues consider to be the most thoughtful
Speaker 1: voices with differing opinions. You might try seeking out and
Speaker 1: following a few bloggers or influencers or podcasters whose lives
Speaker 1: differ in significant ways from yours. These days, our life
Speaker 1: bubbles can have walls that are a lot thicker than
Speaker 1: actual soap bubbles. And that's not necessarily because we are
Speaker 1: actively trying to limit interaction. It's just what tends to
Speaker 1: be easiest. If you spend most of your time working
Speaker 1: or caring for your kids, then you probably don't see
Speaker 1: that many people outside your extended family and neighbors and colleagues. Anyway,
Speaker 1: it does take effort, but at least from time to time,
Speaker 1: maybe it is worth that effort, if for no other
Speaker 1: reason then to remember what the broader world is like
Speaker 1: in the meantime. This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and
Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,
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