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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. This is from

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Speaker 1: Caprice in Jonesboro. Caprice writes, my husband got a loan

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Speaker 1: from a credit union to buy his daughter a car.

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Speaker 1: The cars in his ex wife's name, and he is

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Speaker 1: the co signer.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even mad.

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Speaker 1: I'm hurt because I had to find out from his

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Speaker 1: ex wife.

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Speaker 2: Why is he doing things without telling me?

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Speaker 3: Obviously because he didn't want to hurt you. That's his thing,

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Speaker 3: That's why that's his reason. Well, she said, I'm not

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Speaker 3: even mad, I'm hurt. Why is he doing stuff without

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Speaker 3: telling me? And that's why he did it because he knew,

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Speaker 3: first of all, you was gonna be mad. Secondly, he

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Speaker 3: would have had to run it by you to get approval,

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Speaker 3: and it probably would have been some debate and argument

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Speaker 3: about it. What he wanted to do was help his

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Speaker 3: daughter out. Now he did it by putting it in

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Speaker 3: his wife's name and.

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Speaker 4: Co sign it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, dog, that's a little crazy because it just seemed

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Speaker 3: to me like you could have put it in your name,

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Speaker 3: co signed for it and gave a car to your daughter.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna put it in your wife's name, your

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Speaker 3: ex wife's name so she can give it.

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Speaker 4: To the daughter.

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Speaker 3: It would have been a smarter move if you put

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Speaker 3: the car in your name, signed for it, and then

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Speaker 3: gave it.

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Speaker 4: To your daughter.

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Speaker 3: It would have cut out a lot of mess. But

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Speaker 3: you're intertwined that X and that's what created your problem.

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Speaker 2: Dog who couldn't wait to tell the current wife?

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Speaker 3: Ah, couldn't wait on your face? Oh you got him.

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Speaker 3: But where he wonta be is with me?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's still spending money on me.

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Speaker 2: He was a good man. Moving on to Aaron in Nashville,

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Speaker 2: so lucky.

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Speaker 1: Aaron writes out of full length mirror by my bed,

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Speaker 1: and when my boyfriend and I have sex, he loves

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Speaker 1: to watch himself. He said it helps him with his

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Speaker 1: technique and form. I told him that it sex, not weightlifting.

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Speaker 1: Why is he focused more on himself than on me?

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Speaker 3: M m, Well, listen to this logic. This is the

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Speaker 3: male logic. If he's thinking it helps him with his

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Speaker 3: form and.

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Speaker 2: Technique and technique, yeah, then.

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Speaker 3: You, if if that were true, would be the beneficiary

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Speaker 3: of this outstanding form and technique. But let me tell

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Speaker 3: you why he's really looking in that mirror. Tell it

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Speaker 3: because it helps him stay prepared. If that's the best

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Speaker 3: way to say it. It helps him be able to

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Speaker 3: perform longer.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, here a young young young you know you

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Speaker 5: get my You know that mirror don't help no moment.

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Speaker 5: It's just you see too many flows. There's too much going.

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Speaker 2: On you makes you flow her flaw.

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Speaker 3: It is hard the focus looking to the side, to

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Speaker 3: his hand. You can't really take care of your duties.

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Speaker 3: That's right in front of you, looking off to the side.

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Speaker 1: So what are you thinking when you when you see

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Speaker 1: what you see in the mirror?

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Speaker 2: Off to this?

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Speaker 5: Not to Yes, I thought I had Ooh my legs

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Speaker 5: need work. This is.

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Speaker 1: All of there bove all right, So that's why Aaron

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Speaker 1: and Nashville.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Leslie and t Neck.

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Speaker 1: Leslie writes, my boyfriend loves to FaceTime me and watch

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Speaker 1: TV with me and then fall asleep on the phone

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Speaker 1: instead of coming over and being with me. He only

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Speaker 1: sees me on the weekends and only at my house.

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Speaker 1: If he's married, how can he FaceTime me every day?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, lady, that's really a question you need

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Speaker 3: to answer yourself. If he's married, how can he FaceTime

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Speaker 3: you every day?

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Speaker 4: See, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Your problem is not that he's face timing you instead

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Speaker 3: of being over there. That's not what you're and stop

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Speaker 3: making this about that. You want to figure out if

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Speaker 3: your boyfriend is married or nothing? Yeah, well, why don't

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Speaker 3: you get to figure in that part?

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Speaker 5: What should she do?

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Speaker 3: I we I'm coming over your house. Since her, I'm

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Speaker 3: coming over your house. We're not doing this, no more

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Speaker 3: to it. Next time we do it, if we ever

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Speaker 3: do it again, it'll be at your house.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's all.

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Speaker 2: That's simple. Yeah, I'm very simple but effective.

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Speaker 5: All right, see.

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Speaker 4: Alone now if you if you do, go over this house.

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Speaker 4: But y'all had to do it outside. I didn't. Good

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Speaker 4: chance he married.

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Speaker 2: In the driveway.

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Speaker 4: It's good chance he married. Well we here at the

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Speaker 4: house now.

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Speaker 2: I can't get a foot in the door.

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Speaker 4: Gosh, you keep trying to go inside. Girl, We at

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Speaker 4: my house, but you wanted, isn't it?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Well, all right, celo. Last one. This is the last one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Oscar and Valley Ranch. Oscar writes, my

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Speaker 1: fiance has stopped having sex since we got engaged. She

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Speaker 1: said she's saving herself for our wedding night. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: can talk some sense into her because she can't do

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Speaker 1: me like that. I don't like games. Why is she

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Speaker 1: doing this to me?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not a game.

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Speaker 3: She really wants to prepare herself for the weddnight, so

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Speaker 3: that night of these special y'all will have missed each other.

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Speaker 3: That's the logic behind it. But I don't understand why

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Speaker 3: you think we need to talk some sense to her.

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Speaker 3: That's the part that's throwing me.

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Speaker 4: Man, I'm not in it like that. I don't care

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Speaker 4: what you do. Technically. Look, I don't care what you.

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Speaker 2: Do, uh huh.

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Speaker 4: I don't care if she cuts you off permanently.

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Speaker 3: I don't care if your sad and decided to go

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Speaker 3: down to the nun college.

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Speaker 4: I don't No, it's not no man you. No man

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Speaker 4: can change that month. The ladies won't stand for brother.

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Speaker 4: There's no man that can change. I can't. I got

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Speaker 4: nothing for you.

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Speaker 3: That's okay. You're gonna break up with it or just

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Speaker 3: move the wedding date up? Baby, Look, I love you

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Speaker 3: so much.

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Speaker 4: Let's get on down to this courthouse and do this

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Speaker 4: thing Friday. Yeah, pretty upset you're talking about the gate.

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Speaker 4: Wait till you say I do?

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Speaker 2: And why wait here?

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Speaker 3: After?

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Speaker 4: You think you ain't getting none that.

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Speaker 3: Ye all these Nashions, like we on a mission in Afghanistan?

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Speaker 4: What is all this about? How is that for a

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Speaker 4: road Awaken up? I'm trying to initiate it.

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Speaker 2: I have came and I have had my clothes off.

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Speaker 4: She said, put your clothes on. We gotta go eat.

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Speaker 2: You ain't see me. I wouldn't say it all, she ignored.

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Speaker 4: You just put your clothes on my phone? What you

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Speaker 4: lad up there? Got your junior draws on.

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Speaker 2: Got that new mustache and everything.

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Speaker 5: Nothing that's said.

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Speaker 2: Right on up, you're listening. Steve Harvey Morning Show