WEBVTT - Tim Heidecker Disobeys Bridger 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:14.400 And I invited you here. I thought I made myself 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:21.239 perfectly clear. When you're a guest to my home, you 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:27.240 gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests, 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:34.400 your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.240 So how do you dare to surbey me? 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:54.200 Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Pritchard Wineger. We're 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:59.400 here in the studio an Aalise, our producer is not here. 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:04.200 They've cooked up some sort of some excuse I don't know. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:05.679 I hung up with the phone before they could lie 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:08.199 to me. I can't deal with it. But they're not here, 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:13.120 and you know, hopefully they can figure it out. So 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:16.600 I'm just flying free and loose here. What's going on. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:19.040 Most of my life now is just watching Little House 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.479 on the Prairie. That's most of my days and nights. 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:26.200 The Ingles family has kind of settled into their life. 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:29.520 I've read some behind the scenes. You know, it didn't 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:32.720 seem like it was that pleasant of a place to work, unfortunately, 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:38.480 so it adds another dimension to watching the show. It 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:40.880 occurred to me last night that I've been shopping for 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.319 a lamp for five years and still have not bought one. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:46.120 I think that's the one piece of furniture I'm just 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.880 really not capable of buying. So if you have any 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:53.400 tips or tricks, keep them to yourself. So anything else. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.080 I've experienced a little bit of parking rage this morning, 0:01:56.560 --> 0:02:00.920 blinding rage. Apparently there's something about someone in a Volvo 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:04.840 Crossover that just really taking their time sets me off, 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:07.640 but I didn't act on it. I'm coming down from that. 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.720 I have not had my baby belt cheese, which is 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:14.320 usually pretty grounding for me. So, oh, business, We're coming 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:18.440 to Chicago May twenty third the Den Theater. Go to 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:21.440 the Den Theater dot com or just find it online. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:25.679 I'm not going to hold your hand. And Patreon continues 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:28.920 to exist Patreon dot com. Slash I said, no gifts. 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.600 What a lovely way to support the podcast. You know, 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:36.399 this is a business ultimately, and we're business partners, and 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:39.360 so I need you to keep up your end at 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:42.720 the bargain ultimately. So go over there. We have the 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:48.040 bonus episode. It's all kinds of things. It's wonderful time. Okay, oh, 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:52.280 let's get into the podcast. I adore today's guest. Everybody 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:56.080 loves today's guest. It's Tim highdeck Er. Tim welcome, Dyson. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.880 I have so many enemies. Could you're starting off in 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.600 such a disingenuous place. It's unbelievable. 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.520 Oh, give me a break, But give me a break. 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.560 I am. It's so excited you brought up a little 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:09.919 house in the prairie. I don't know if you did 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:13.960 research on me. No, No, do you watch it? I used, 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:15.880 I used to when I was a kid, and I 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:17.760 was like even into I mean, I knew it from 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.240 it when I was a kid. But in high school, 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.800 my sister and I religiously watched it. Oh you're kidding 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:25.120 after school the reruns right right. I loved it and 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.480 I might go back and do a rewatch. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.040 When was the last time you saw it? 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:33.760 Uh? Many years ago? But I could. I could picture 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:38.920 every frame. I know all the characters. I love that show. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.119 And you know the story about the ending of the show. 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:43.400 Because I want to ask, because. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:45.920 I don't because my boyfriend keeps hinting at you won't 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:46.680 believe what happened? 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:48.320 Do you not want me to tell you? 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.400 I mean, what do you think? I mean? This is 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:52.160 the thing about the show. 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:55.080 It's very funds It's a very fund Hollywood story. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:56.240 Okay, then I guess I should know. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.360 Yeah, you should know. I'm sorry your boyfriend for ruining it. 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:03.240 You will eventually know this. I think it's true. I 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.520 think it's true the very end of this. The show 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.960 has been on for it's like seasons. 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.400 Is that it over two hundred episodes. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.720 But it feels much longer because you see like half 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:16.120 Pint and all the family grow from a nine year 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:19.320 old to like adults. So it's gone. It's on for 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:22.520 a long time, and the show comes to an end. 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:25.760 And I think the last episode of the show is 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:31.960 some railroad company or some outside forest buys little Walnut Walnut. 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:35.039 Growth, I believe creek, and I think it is a 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:35.960 real place. 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:39.839 Okay, Walnut Grove, and the town doesn't like it. It 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:42.640 means they're gonna have to change. Something's gonna happen. They 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:46.200 decide that they are going to dynamite the entire town. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:51.000 They're gonna, yeah, they're gonna out of spite, they are 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:52.600 going to blow up the town. 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:56.280 Oh, the the citizens, the citizens, Oh, good for them, 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:59.000 and and like, but I guess, but it also feels 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.200 kind of like the opposite of the ethos of the show. 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.880 You know, I mean, just something happening. It's the opposite 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:06.320 of the show. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:08.599 Yeah, well if you if we can't have this, no 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:13.640 one can. And what I learned is that it was 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.400 actually the production that said, we have to tear all 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:21.279 these sets down anyway, let's. 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:24.440 Let's just do it on camera. Yeah, that's so wild, which. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.720 Is such a bummer of a way to end that, 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:30.560 because that shows so wholesome about sweet It's about learning 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:33.400 lessons about how to behave and do right by people 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:33.839 and stuff. 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:35.720 And so do you see the town get blown up? 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:39.680 Yeah, the very last episode. I'm this is a memory. 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.839 It could be. I hope it's mean. I'm sure your 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:46.440 audience will correct me or you if it's incorrect, but 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:47.480 I think that's how it went down. 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:50.520 Wow. Yeah, wow, I can't wait to get to that 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:51.640 in ten years. 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:51.960 Yeah. 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:55.080 Yeah, two hundred episodes of like they're like over an 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:58.400 hour each of them. Yeah, and it feels over an 0:05:58.440 --> 0:05:59.240 hour sometimes. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:03.920 Yeah. I remember them getting trapped in a mine. Oh okay, 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:08.800 I remember the classic Albert. Albert was like the adopted son. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.200 Later he gets addicted to opium. So there's like a 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.760 drug episode. You know. The network was like, we need 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:15.560 a drug. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.680 How do we fit this into pioneer time, yes. 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:22.600 And Pauw had to like like he cold turkeyed with him, 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:24.600 so he like got him and it was like I just 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:27.160 remember sweat, I remember vomit. It just like it was 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:31.440 like early memories of the world are through the lens 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:32.159 of little House in the. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.320 First Wow, I didn't realize it got so tough on it. 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:35.760 It's hard out there in the prairie. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:37.160 I think we're only nine episodes in. 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:40.480 Oh my god, Yeah, you have such a journey ahead. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.280 I mean, it was it was shocking to me. I 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.960 think I purposefully avoided it as a kid because growing 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:48.240 up in Utah you were just like kind of there 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.040 was an overflow of like pioneer stories and I felt 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.480 like watching that would be like going to church essentially. 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.360 And are they they remaking it? 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.080 I think so. I was just talking to my sister 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:58.560 from the phone and she said, oh, you know, they're 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.479 they're remaking that. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:04.039 So who knows, And your sister is the executive of 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:05.479 Netflix or. 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:10.000 She's kind of taken the reins h No, but I 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:11.960 watched We watched the pilot and it's like, I think 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.080 it's like two hours or something. It's like a movie 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:16.000 and the things the family goes through. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:18.400 It's just like, I'm going to go, where is it? 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:19.120 Where can you watch? 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.240 I think it's on Amazon? Okay, And so far we 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.400 haven't encountered a commercial, which has been nice. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:25.000 Nice. 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:27.680 I'm sure that The Blindside is at some point. But 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.880 what a show? And who who would have thought the 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.120 ingles were going to have be such a pleasant time 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:34.840 to watch? Oh? 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.800 Yeah, and Michael Landon's always he's always crying. 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:41.160 Crying or looking for an opportunity not to wear his shirt. Yes, shirt, 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:42.360 I realized, so. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:48.120 No shirt, no shirt, but suspenders. It's amazing. I came 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:49.480 out a straight man. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.760 Yeah, it's amazing. I came out gay not having seen 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:57.080 the show. Maybe I'm going to double down now, but 0:07:57.920 --> 0:07:58.360 I'm through that. 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:00.600 You watch the show, yeah, and then I then you 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:02.520 have to after that, you have to watch Highway to Heaven? 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:06.760 What is that Highway to Heaven? So it's Michael Landon's 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:10.800 second show, second big show that he did with the 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.040 guy from the the his friend on Little House in 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:14.960 the Prayer, the goy, the Beard. 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:18.119 Oh, the guy. His name's Victor French. 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:24.239 Victor French, Yes, remember Victor French teams up with Michael 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.720 Landon for Highway to Heaven, which I believe is I 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.600 didn't see much. I didn't watch a lot of Highway 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.880 to Heaven, but it was I think Michael Landon is 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:35.160 an angel who's like back, has stuck back on Earth, 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.800 has to do good deeds to get back to Heaven 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:41.600 into Heaven, I think, And Victor French is like a 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:45.200 truck driver that he keeps running into It's you gotta 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:48.120 watch it if you're if you watch Little House, you gotta. 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.120 Keep keep you think that did that show go very 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:52.160 long that? 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:55.760 I don't know, Probably long enough. It was. It got indosyndication, 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.480 probably Okay, Yeah, it wasn't like a one and done 0:08:58.600 --> 0:08:59.360 kind of deal. 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:02.679 And like communication with God throughout or is it kind 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:04.280 of stranded on Earth exit? 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:06.880 I couldn't tell you. We'd have to we'd have to 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:08.960 pull up an episode, which I'm happy to do. 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.800 Just watch a whole episode of Have It right now. 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:15.120 It feels like Victor French's role in all of these 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.480 Landon programs is to kind of just randomly show up. 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:22.520 Because the episode we're watching right now of Little House, 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:26.400 they needed a babysitter because the Ingle parent Ingle's parents 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.480 are going on holiday and they need. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:34.360 Where are they going. They're going, They're going to Europe. 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:39.520 They're going to d No, they're going to some other town. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.320 He has to drop something off, but he's treating as 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:42.240 they keep saying. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:44.480 Holiday to St. Louis or something. 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.959 Yes, exactly. But the first night of their holiday is 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.960 them sleeping on the ground in front of a fire, 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:52.240 So I guess like that's kind of the getting away 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:55.880 for them. But the the babysitter gets a sore throat 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.000 and can't babysit. 0:09:57.600 --> 0:09:59.320 Which in those days means you eventually die. 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.679 She'll probably be by the end of And then here 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.160 comes Victor French, just kind of stumbling into town. Oh 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.559 you need a babysitter? Right here, I am. The kids 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:07.960 love me. 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:08.760 That's cute. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:12.080 But what a show. I can't recommend it enough and 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.400 there's nothing else for me to watch on TV. 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:18.160 Right Yeah, I might be with you, joining you. 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.400 A tough time. What have you been up to? Well? 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:24.160 I have two kids, sure, I tend to spend a 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:27.640 lot of time with them, go to their baseball games. 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.839 I'm a big baseball fan, so I watched a lot 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:34.920 of Are you watching the Dodgers or watching any baseball team, 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:36.959 if you're really into it ends up taking up a 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:37.640 lot of your time. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:38.959 It's a kind of a job. 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:41.440 It's on almost every day. 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.000 Do they play every day? 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.439 Play like four days a week or five days a week? 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:47.079 That does feel wild? 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.080 And the games are like three or four hours long. 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:50.880 Yes, that's almost a career. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:52.439 It's my part time job. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:53.320 Yet, how are they doing. 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:56.280 They're doing okay, but they're not doing as good as 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.360 they should be doing if you're looking at the stats 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:03.520 and the numbers and stuff. And this the NL West, 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:06.560 which is the division they're in, is very competitive at 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:09.199 the moment. Padres and the Giants are doing very well 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:12.840 as well. So it's it's it's exciting. I guess what 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:15.959 else free time? I don't know. I run and jaw 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:18.079 like you know, that's what I do in the morning. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.520 Is that a Have you been a runner jogger your 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:21.760 whole life? Uh? 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:24.440 Fits and starts. But I've kind of in the past 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:27.599 few years gotten into like pretty much every day. It 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:28.839 took a way to start the day. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.280 How far are you jogging? Running? Uh? 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:35.120 Three miles? That's pretty good, pretty good, And it's it's 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.480 it's a I lived live on a hill so I 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:41.200 run halfway down and then halfway up. I mean I 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.800 run all the way down and then half. 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:46.119 The way back up, okay, and then walk. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.920 Then do a walk the rest of the nice. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:50.440 So yeah, So it's just like you have to build 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:50.800 up to that. 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:54.000 I need to actually push it to the next level 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.360 because I've been stationary. I've been at that level for 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.120 a couple of years. Right, I get muscles. Yeh, see, 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:02.200 you got muscles. How do I get muscles? Because I 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.319 go to the gym sometimes I lift weights, but they 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:06.600 never turn into muscles. 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.480 I have a I kind of do an extreme thing. 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:12.800 Extreme things. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.560 This is the thing I do is I go to 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.000 this small gym and silver leg that's run by a 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:20.160 husband and wife team. They're lovely, and you go for 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:23.040 a half hour and they put you through. I mean, 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:24.640 it's kind of up to you. They give you like 0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:27.920 a thing, a list of exercises to do, and like 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:30.720 you're supposed to do five sets of each of them 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:34.040 or whatever, and you just do as much as possible. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:37.240 And so I walk away probably every other time, dry heaving. 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:43.079 Really it's very dear, not pleasant, but it's the only 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.520 I had never worked out before, right, And so This 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:48.280 is just how I've learned to exercise right. And it's 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:49.960 the nice thing is it's a half hour. 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.079 Yeah, it's like it's your in and out right. 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:53.760 Because if I go to a gym just by myself, 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:54.520 I'm kind of I know. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:55.920 That's what I do. I go to this gym I 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:57.880 go to and I just rent pick up things and 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:00.520 do the same thing. And I don't push it. Really 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.439 I don't. I mean, I don't know. I'm always you know, 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.680 it'd be interesting to get to have a bunch. 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:10.719 Of muscles go way too far with Now, when I 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.079 go to a regular gym, I'm so insecure because I 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.559 don't know how to work out without someone kind of 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:16.880 at least keeping an eye on me. 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.600 Well, so these people are doing that sort of. 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.120 They kind of there. I think at Max there are 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:25.000 probably seven people in the gym at once, and so 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:28.280 the people wander around and if you're doing something wrong, 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:31.040 they'll tell you and you can ask them questions. 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:32.880 And but it's not a set time. 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:35.840 No, you have to make an appointment. Oh you do, 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:38.080 do you have to make an appointment? But they're great, 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:42.320 they're wonderful. I think I'm suspicious. Miranda July has this 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:43.240 new novel out. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.920 Yeah, my wife read it. Everybody, everybody, all the women 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:47.600 in my life. 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:52.400 Of course, every woman I've ever met just read this book. Yeah, 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:53.600 of course the game. 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.560 Yeah, she's over there reading your lady books. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:02.600 But in this book, it's said in east eastern Los Angeles. 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.960 The protagonist lives, probably in Silver Lake. She ends up 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:09.600 going to this gym in a basement, in a basement 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:12.160 run by a husband and wife team. And I have 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.959 to imagine, right, this is the gym. 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:16.600 There's I used to I used to live in Silver Lake, 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:20.440 and I went to that very gay gym, you know, 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:21.000 the very. 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.000 Is it Pharaohs. It's like, that's the gayest gym I 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:24.520 can think of. 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:27.600 It's right on that main drag because that is like 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:32.360 a traditionally gay area of Los Angeles, right like back 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.000 in the day when it was like there were actual 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:35.960 I don't know, you know. 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:37.280 What I means of communities. 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:40.680 Yea, right now it feels like it doesn't matter. Hopefully 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:44.120 it doesn't matter. But this felt like real, like muscle 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:49.360 muscle men, you know, village people's style, you know, guys 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:53.000 working out in leather kind of. I went to that 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:54.040 gym for a while. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:56.680 But that was like a traditional gym. There wasn't a 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:57.600 it was. 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:04.080 Not only husbands, your husband material. But I had a 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:07.560 trainer and I didn't like that experience. You don't like 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.520 being told what to do well, I didn't like the 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:12.600 chit chat. I don't like this a small talk as 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.760 we're working out. So what'd you get up to this weekend? 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:19.920 I don't know, man, I don't really want to check it. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:20.960 I don't I don't know. 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:24.320 The chit chat at my gym is limited to almost 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:26.680 exclusively what we're watching on TV, and they have good 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.480 tastes in TV, so there's just a lot of me 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:33.880 complaining to them and them complaining back, and it feels good. Uh. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:35.800 The place I don't like to chit chat is my 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:39.440 haircut and my This has been a weird thing actually, 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:42.160 where my barber doesn't talk to me at all, and 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.320 my boyfriend has started going to the same person and 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:49.320 apparently has these long conversations. I don't know if it's 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.800 just I'm so off putting as a person that he 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:54.840 doesn't want to talk to me, or if he's just catching. 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:58.600 He's resting and yeah, yeah, interesting. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:01.120 But he comes back and my boyfriend and talking about 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:04.280 everything with this person. I mean, I have no complaints, 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.440 I don't want to talk right, but I'm feeling left out. 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.520 I could feel that. I imagine you would. Now this 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:12.840 sounds hacky. I always worried about this sounding hacky, but 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:14.320 it's true. It's very true. 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.720 I think true things are sometimes hacky. 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:19.160 But I get it at that. I get the small 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:21.680 talk at the dentist. Oh, sure of course, and I 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:27.160 got literally got so how are the kids doing? Like 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:29.960 I can't believe it's happening when it's happening, Like you don't. 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:33.120 It's fine, right, you guys. You guys have plans over 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:33.600 the summer. 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:40.320 Well do to me if I'm the hygienas or the dentist. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:43.040 I'm never getting clear answers from the patient like I 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:45.360 would eventually be like, I'm just not gonna ask them. 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.560 I'm not having a healthy conversation with them. 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.600 Yes, and maybe do it before you get the stuff 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:51.120 in the mouth. 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:53.320 Just ketch up, real ketchup, real. 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.840 Quick, as a as an icebreaker or whatever. 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.680 But I wonder if it's just because it's such an 0:16:57.680 --> 0:16:59.920 intimate thing they feel like it's. 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:02.360 The whole thing is awkward. Can you imagine you end 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:05.840 up becoming you end up you're a dentist and you're 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:09.200 like or a dental hygienist. You Thank god they're people 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:12.040 that are willing to do it, but just in people's 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:13.800 mouths and scraping away. 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:17.760 Oh awful. My problem with my dentist is they've installed 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:19.879 some of those overhead lights that are kind of a 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:23.000 bluish yeah, and I can't so I get they give 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.199 me migrants. I have to wait outside of the waiting 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:27.360 room until they let me in. Really, and I don't 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:29.760 have the heart to tell them. Just would you get 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:30.960 something a warmer light? 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:32.520 Right? Well? Can you wear certain glasses? 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:33.720 Maybe I should wear sunglasses? 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:37.560 They give me sunglasses at my dentist really, yeah. 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:41.359 Like tinted lenses. Oh that's interesting. But see this is 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:42.640 when I'm in the waiting. 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:45.120 Room, even in the waiting room, it's yeah. 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:47.840 It's I think it's almost worse. So I don't, uh, 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:49.440 I don't know how to approach that. 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:50.880 I would approach it. 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:52.479 And it's hard to find a good dentist, and I 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:53.119 like this person. 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:54.840 I have a great I do have a great dentist. 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:56.760 But I would just talk to them about. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.119 It, Okay, yeah, maybe just leave an anonymous c LP 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:00.000 review or something. 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.800 Well, well, I mean this is not something that they 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.360 can change. You mean the blue lights in the waiting room. 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:08.200 In the waiting room, it's it's almost that like they're 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:11.440 like led lights or whatever, and they obviously just put 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:15.280 no thought into like which bulb they should buy, and 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:19.960 so they're blinding really blue. And if you wait too long, 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:22.600 I guess I'm too sensitive. 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:26.720 Maybe you treat it like empathy, empathy towards the person 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:30.160 that is in the in the reception. Oh my goodness, 0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:32.480 how do you deal with these lights all day long? 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:35.359 That's such a good weight to approach. Yes, I'm worried 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:37.719 about you, right, I'm fine with it. 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:41.879 Yeah, I do have a problem with the daylight lights 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.120 being used in interiors. Do you know how that's been 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:45.479 going on? 0:18:45.720 --> 0:18:46.560 No, I'm not familiar. 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:50.199 So there's like color temperatures for different kinds of lights, 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:52.200 And this would be like the lights here, like an 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:55.080 indoor tungsten light as opposed to a day and a 0:18:55.160 --> 0:19:00.960