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Speaker 1: Second date up date.

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Speaker 2: Normally, our goal during this second date segment needs to

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Speaker 2: get two people back together for a second try, second

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Speaker 2: chance for a romantic connection because up with the name, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we know, we put a lot of work into this,

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Speaker 2: but maybe there was like a misunderstanding. Maybe someone's fly

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Speaker 2: was down on accident or on purpose, doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Matter, it's usually.

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Speaker 3: It happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, today, before we can even get to any of that,

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Speaker 2: we might need to solve a mystery because there's been

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Speaker 2: some strange text messages exchanged and I don't know what

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Speaker 2: they are, but apparently it wasn't enough for our listener

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Speaker 2: Kiki to reach out for help about it.

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Speaker 1: So let's talk to our Kiki. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you must get that we're getting distracted already, Sorry,

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Speaker 5: tangents all over the place, Skiaky, how are you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing okay, just a little confused.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of picked that up from your email.

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Speaker 2: What's going on with you and this guy that you met?

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Speaker 2: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: Okay? His name is Chase.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm guessing you guys met online or on an app?

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, an app? And he checked all my boxes okay,

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Speaker 4: one of it sounds like who.

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Speaker 3: It's felt like a red flag when she said anybody

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Speaker 3: else you.

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Speaker 1: Did have a sensual tone.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I know I get that a lot. But

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Speaker 4: we moved pretty quick. He asked me if I wanted

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Speaker 4: to go out that Friday, which was two days after

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Speaker 4: we went on the app.

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Speaker 3: Is that too fast? I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean I kind of get just getting to the

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Speaker 6: screening instead of texting, and we see your time.

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Speaker 2: I guess I would take it as a positive, like

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Speaker 2: he's really excited to see you as quickly as possible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I said, yeah, I was really looking forward to it.

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Speaker 1: So how did it go?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: The day of, three hours before the date, I get

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Speaker 4: a message from him saying he's really sorry, but he

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Speaker 4: has to postpone because he had to take care of

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Speaker 4: M period E period period.

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Speaker 3: White periods, take care of my elephant.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, maybe he has an elephant?

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Speaker 3: Did you ask him? Like, well, who's who's that? What

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Speaker 3: does that mean?

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Speaker 4: He googled M E. I was like, either he's working

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Speaker 4: on his master's of education or he has something called

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Speaker 4: my algic anthemous.

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Speaker 3: It's either a positive or negative.

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Speaker 6: We're not sure you know what that means, Well, it

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Speaker 6: means extreme fatigue.

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Speaker 7: Oh and that actually makes sense, super exhausted.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I literally have to take care I got.

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Speaker 3: I mean if he was super fatigued.

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Speaker 5: He didn't seem very fatigued when he was on the app,

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Speaker 5: you know, just said so.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't here what it was. I wanted to send

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Speaker 4: him a message back, with a generic message back to

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Speaker 5: What it was. Yeah, like, you don't know if you

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Speaker 5: want to say, oh my god, I'm so sorry or congratulations.

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Speaker 3: So what did you say?

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Speaker 1: Would you write?

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Speaker 4: I said, sounds tough.

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Speaker 3: Sounds tough.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's true, that's nice middle ground.

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Speaker 5: Let's pre schedule, let's reschedule, okay, and did you.

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Speaker 4: Well, sure enough the next day he did for schedule

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Speaker 4: for later in the week.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're back on track now.

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Speaker 4: The day rolls around and he says, no, you're gonna

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Speaker 4: hate me, but I'm totally floating right now.

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Speaker 1: Floading floating. Oh is it like.

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Speaker 8: Floating like when those pods?

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Speaker 5: Or is emmy some sort of drug We don't know

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Speaker 5: about a special case.

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Speaker 1: It's really weird. Did you know what that means?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 3: I google that.

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Speaker 4: I google that.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't think that's going to come up with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna get like all sorts of things hot

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Speaker 2: air balloon buoyancy lessons.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, apparently it's when you have to pretend to be

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Speaker 4: really busy at work for your boss when you're really

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's floating floating, like floating by at work.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if he meant that, but that's what

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Speaker 1: His master's program.

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Speaker 5: You're still interested in this guy. He's like talking in

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Speaker 3: He's like, you're not following through any day?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he didn't cancel twice, he postponed twice.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, Okay, it's not very nice to say about someone

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Speaker 2: with my algic emphasis.

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Speaker 1: And yet I mean.

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Speaker 6: We're scheduled to go out it is Saturday. Well no,

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Speaker 6: because he's just saying I might have to push it

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Speaker 1: Can I say something?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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Speaker 1: At least these aren't last second. He's giving her a

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Speaker 1: date notice, he even gave her three.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he did the other day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, before the date, not for a woman, I think.

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Speaker 5: Do you think he's catfishing. You do you think he's

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Speaker 5: real Like maybe, like here's the thing, Like he's coming

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Speaker 5: real close to the date and then suddenly canceling and

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on. I don't know if

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Speaker 4: he has a girlfriend or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, okay, we didn't think of that. That Maybe

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Speaker 2: he's just like trying to push you off until he

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Speaker 2: can get rid of his current girlfriend or something exactly, and.

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Speaker 5: The girlfriend keeps being home. I mean, we haven't come

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Speaker 5: up with a positive theory yet, is it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to keep waiting. I just want to

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's something we can do, because honestly, I'm

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Speaker 2: tired of guessing of what's really got.

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Speaker 1: Let's just give him a call.

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Speaker 2: We'll come back and we'll solve this mystery once and

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Speaker 2: for all. What's really going on with Chase and his

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Speaker 2: M period, E period, floating period, weirdness period.

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Speaker 3: If it was just a period, we could figure it out.

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Speaker 1: All right. We'll come back and get to the bottom

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Speaker 1: of it right after this.

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Speaker 2: Second date update Three scheduled dates two have already been postponed,

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Speaker 2: and one is on the verge. Yeah, which is where

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Speaker 2: we come in to save the day.

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Speaker 3: We're always living on the verge, aren't we, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I'm a virgin.

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Speaker 2: That means we're going to try to get to the

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Speaker 2: bottom of this once and for all. Because there's been

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Speaker 2: some confusing texts being exchanged between our listener Kiki and

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Speaker 2: the guy that she's trying to meet.

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Speaker 1: Up with named Chase.

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Speaker 2: She is tired of waiting and postponing and postponing. She

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Speaker 3: I think this was good. I think it's good she

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Speaker 3: came to us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you said, Broke. Should we just call

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Speaker 1: Chase and figure this out?

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Speaker 5: I think that he owes you some explanation, Kiki. Oh,

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Speaker 5: he definitely does all of us I feel, I mean,

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Speaker 5: we don't need to come out him hard or anything, but.

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Speaker 1: You just speak for yourself. Wait a minute, don't do this.

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Speaker 2: Has been waiting like it sounds like a month to

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Speaker 2: get this date locked down, So it's time to finally

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Speaker 2: get to it.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. I'm gonna dial his number right now.

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're gonna speak with Chase.

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Speaker 8: Uh speaking Okay, Hey, Chase.

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 8: Okay, or radio show's.

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Speaker 3: Ray it still exists.

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Speaker 2: We're doing something called a second Date Update, which is

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Speaker 2: a segment where we're trying to help out one of

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Speaker 2: our listeners, you know, smooth out the bumps in their

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Speaker 2: dating life, not that they have any bumps, and just

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Speaker 2: that's weird.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, bumps. That was a terrible thing. She said

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Speaker 1: he was going to come out of hard. Now this

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Speaker 1: it's a bump free lady. And her name, her name

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Speaker 1: is some curves. Well, I don't know, bendy wady lady.

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Speaker 2: I don't know anything about what she looks like or

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Speaker 1: I know she seems really sweet when we talked to her.

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Speaker 1: Name's Kiki.

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Speaker 8: What is going on with Seky?

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Speaker 3: Yeah we heard you guys have plans this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well tentative plans. Here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: You've already postponed on her twice, at least that's what

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I guess that's technically true.

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Speaker 3: And you're the one that said let's do it another.

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Speaker 2: Time, and you've already sent her that you might have

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Speaker 2: to postpone again for your date on Saturday. It's just

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Speaker 2: leaving her with a lot of questions because your texts

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Speaker 2: have been a little bit mysterious.

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Speaker 1: For why happening?

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Speaker 5: He told you my text Well, I mean not all

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Speaker 5: of it, not the personal ones, just the ones that

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Speaker 5: she didn't get.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, for example, she told us about one message

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Speaker 2: where you said you're totally floating right now.

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Speaker 1: And you can't make it.

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Speaker 8: Oh, yeah, we.

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Speaker 3: Just assumed you're on drugs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, no, we all thought I'm joking. I'm joking. What

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Speaker 1: We don't understand.

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Speaker 8: I meant like I had had a long day at

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Speaker 8: work and I was in the bath when I texted that,

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Speaker 8: So I meant like, I'm just kind of floating in

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Speaker 8: the water.

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Speaker 1: Right now, that literal literally floating in the water.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I didn't want to get out.

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Speaker 5: You canceled a date because you wanted to take a

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Speaker 5: longer bath.

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Speaker 8: Well, it's not an excuse. I really needed it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm still not one hundred percent clear on

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Speaker 2: what you mean.

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Speaker 3: There was he's a man that needs baths, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, hygiene is a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Can we go to your other text that you sent

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Speaker 2: where you said that you were taking care of M

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Speaker 3: What does emmy mean?

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Speaker 8: What it means like me.

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Speaker 1: As in yourself? Why do you put periods in it?

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Speaker 1: But got another bath?

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Speaker 9: Were I just thought it was like a fun way

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Speaker 9: to say me, like, what were you doing.

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Speaker 8: So I went home and I laid in my massage chair,

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Speaker 1: Just put off her for that.

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Speaker 9: If I can't take care of myself, who can I

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Speaker 2: But it sounds like I mean the saying is if

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I postponed it, didn't cancel.

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Speaker 1: It is important to me, not as important as you are.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I will say I feel like men don't

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Speaker 1: So, so you're.

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Speaker 3: Saying this is an okay, excuse me.

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Speaker 2: Maybe a whole pint of Ben and Jerry's is more

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Speaker 5: First or he could have invited her over to share

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Speaker 8: Why did you do that on the first day? That

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Speaker 5: Okay, you're already all right, so I'm not anti any

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess Brook's not. But that's not the person

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Speaker 2: is Kiki, who I need to tell you has been

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Speaker 1: Probably need to do some self care of her own

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: That's how this works. We have them on the other phone.

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Speaker 4: I'm just confused.

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Speaker 8: I didn't know I was going to be on there.

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Speaker 6: You Well, it's just funny because what you're saying it

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Speaker 3: I mean, it does sound lovely, It sounds amazing.

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Speaker 9: I believe everyone should self care all the time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, can you go back to your like messages Chase, Like,

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Speaker 9: I remember one of the time I had forgotten my

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Speaker 8: That just there, your whole day off.

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Speaker 1: I you didn't need anything, No.

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Speaker 9: I had a bagel while I was there and bought something.

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Speaker 5: It was yours.

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Speaker 9: I knew I had to go home and just have

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Speaker 3: Because you were so upset about the lunch.

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Speaker 1: Well, what do you like just by yourself? What do

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Speaker 9: So I just went home that day and I got

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Speaker 1: Four pairs?

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Speaker 3: How much?

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Speaker 5: Why do you have to drink to talk yourself into

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Speaker 1: He's taking full care of himself. Are cool?

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Speaker 8: All right?

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Speaker 3: And that means you couldn't go out with her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? How do you feel hearing all that?

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Speaker 8: I mean.

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Speaker 4: He comes very high maintenance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like he's so low maintenance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's maintaining himself. Yeah, he requires zero.

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Speaker 5: But it's like, where's the room to help her, you know,

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Speaker 8: I just got to get through my stuff.

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Speaker 3: I don't think always going to have a bad day

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Speaker 3: it's shut.

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Speaker 8: Down the whole day. I'm not gonna go anywhere, did

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Speaker 8: you guys not hear me?

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Speaker 9: I had to buy a bagel.

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Speaker 2: We're sorry for your plight, okay, and I don't want

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Speaker 5: Here, My god, can you imagine the self care you're

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Speaker 5: going to have to do after this phone call?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean I can tell this is already really winding

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Speaker 2: you up. Hopefully to put you at ease. We're going

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Speaker 2: to take a lot off your plate and pay for

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Speaker 2: your next date with Kiki.

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Speaker 1: If you're willing to go out with her. Yeah, no pressure,

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Speaker 8: Man, Yeah no, I still want to go out with her,

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Speaker 8: just not on the self care days.

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Speaker 5: Well, is there any day of any day of the

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Speaker 8: It just it depends on what happens on that day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so every day morning?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I could do a breakfast date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what if he gets a bad night's sleep though, Hey,

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Speaker 2: Just don't order a bagel at breakfast or are you

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Speaker 8: We can put it on callundar and see what happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, sous closes, we're gonna get Kiki. So congratulations,

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Speaker 2: you've got scheduled.

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Speaker 4: Your day, Chase. I'm looking forward to seeing you.

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Speaker 3: That may be the most understanding woman.

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Speaker 1: We're all gonna need to take a mental health day

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Speaker 2: I think it's funny like if the gender roles were

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Speaker 2: ones that we're getting right now saying you know what,

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Speaker 2: totally girl, you deserve a break, self care for the wind,

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Speaker 2: put yourself first, men's seconds.

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you the reason why it sits wrong with me.

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Speaker 5: It's not because I think self care is great for

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Speaker 3: And that's my issue.

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Speaker 2: Well, I do think it would be pretty hard on you.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of suffering when he has to go through,

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Speaker 1: His ear drums, and that's hard for him.

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Speaker 2: But I do think it is good that guys are

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Speaker 1: We should, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what, men have never been first in this society.

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Speaker 2: It's true, right, I think what everybody, man or woman

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Speaker 2: the world would be a much better place.

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Speaker 3: There'd be no seconds.

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Speaker 7: That's yeah, alright, So here's and here's for fighting for men, right,

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Speaker 7: that's right, yeah, right, everybody wins with today's second Day

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Speaker 7: and update.

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Speaker 2: You know what, go find more winners and more of

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Speaker 2: podcast wherever you gets yours at Brook and Jeffrey