1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: Okop. Hey, this is OKOP. I'm Samuel Donner and I'm 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: John Fry. We tell the funniest stories on the Internet. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 1: And John, what do you got for us? 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: Oh man? We got a juicy one today. Am I 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: the asshole for going ballistic after my brother in law 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 2: forced my son to pee himself? 7 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? What It's not a good situation we have going 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: on here. My son has ADHD, He's hyperactive and has 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: a medical condition. There's lots of variables at play here. Also, 11 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 2: days ago, my best friend of ten years passed away. 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 2: Ohp He asked her husband if he could stay with 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: my four year old son while I could attend the funeral. 14 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: My husband said yes, but then took him over to 15 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 2: my sister and her husband's house to watch him without 16 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 2: telling me. At the funeral, I received a text from 17 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 2: my sister in law telling me to come get my son. 18 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 2: I was all kinds of shocked and confused and had 19 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 2: many questions that come to mind, like how the heck 20 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: did my son end up at my sister in law's 21 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: house when I left. 22 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,319 Speaker 1: She's totally blindsided, and then she comes with this information like, Hey, 23 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: your kid made a puddle at my house. 24 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like, why is he at your house? 25 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: Is he even there? 26 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: So I called my husband but he didn't answer or 27 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 2: call back. I went over there quickly and found my 28 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 2: son crying. He was still wet, like he had still 29 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: not been cleaned up. 30 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: Bro. They didn't like give him a change of clothes. 31 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 2: Or hey, like, you know, go take a shower, we'll 32 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: find some like. 33 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: You know, that's a nice thing. If someone wets their 34 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: pants or just like spills something on their pants, you 35 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: give them an extra pair of pants. 36 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: Bro, It's human decency. 37 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you people? 38 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: I asked my sister in law and her husband what happened, 39 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: and they said my son was making so much noise 40 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: while playing with the kids they had to put him 41 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: in time out. Gottie, g he's having. 42 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: Too too much dem fun and you can't stand to 43 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: hear that. 44 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: Joy, Why are you a parent? I don't know. 45 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be a parent now. 46 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: After that, my son told him that he needed to 47 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: use the bathroom, but my sister in law's husband said 48 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: he couldn't go while on time out and denied my 49 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: son access after he begged, which resulted in him peeing 50 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: right where he. 51 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: Was standing, Bro, you've gotta go, you gotta go. 52 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: This isn't like, oh, he's in high school and you 53 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: want to go to the bathroom for twenty minutes like 54 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 2: text as friends or whatever. Yea, No, this is a 55 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 2: four year old, four year old who doesn't understand, bro, 56 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 2: and he. 57 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: Just needs the pee. Let the kid pee. The kid 58 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: pee like also like with teachers that don't let their 59 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: kids pee, let him pee. 60 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: Honestly, we need to get some sort of machine so 61 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 2: we can like peere. While we were recording, I think 62 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: it's diaper. I lost it on her and her husband completely. 63 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 2: I lost it on her husband for denying my son 64 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: access to the bathroom, damn straight, and her letting this 65 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: happen and not doing anything about it. Her husband explained 66 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: to me that he thought my son was like any 67 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: other kid and is old enough to hold it in time, 68 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: which was ninety minutes according to him. So someone goes 69 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 2: to you and they're like, hey, I have to pee, 70 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: and you're like, no, you have to hold it for 71 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 2: a ninety minutes, Brandy minutes. 72 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: I hate that. 73 00:02:59,040 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: It's awful. 74 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: It's so thinking about being a kid, like like childhood innocents, 75 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: all that that's great, but like you don't have any 76 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: agency over your life. No, or at least this kid 77 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: doesn't when he's over at this freaking numbskulls place. 78 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 2: I berated them for treating my son so cruelly yeah, yeah, 79 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 2: deservedly so, and denying him a simple request. I asked 80 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 2: how they could do this to a child with a 81 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: condition when they themselves are parents. 82 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: A great question, great question, you should not be parents. 83 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: So then my sister in law got offended that I 84 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 2: implied that her and her husband were neglectful parents. 85 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: They are, You are right, you're guests, keid themselves. 86 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: So then we argued, and then I took my son 87 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: and went home, and my husband still wasn't there. Bro, 88 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: where's the husband, where's the seriously? He My husband then 89 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: came home, fuming, asking why the hell I berated his 90 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: sister and her husband after they've done him a favor 91 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: and watched his step son for him because he had 92 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: an emergency. 93 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: Bro no bru. 94 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: I asked him, was he okay with the way they 95 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: treated my son? And he said no, but the way 96 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: I went about it was totally wrong, and said I 97 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: should apologize to them both after insulting them and their 98 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: parenting skills in their own house when they were doing 99 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: us a favor. Then I said, no, they did him 100 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: a favor because I never asked them to watch my son. 101 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: He did. He said, is still apologize, But I loudly 102 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: said to him, in your dreams after how my son 103 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 2: was treated, He was taken aback and described my behavior 104 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: as juvenile for refusing to take responsibility for my actions. 105 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: Bro responsibility for her actions? How about them taking responsibility 106 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 2: for their actions. At that point, things escalated and I 107 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: had to take my son away and go stay with 108 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 2: a friend. My husband kept texting me stuff like how 109 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: I was avoiding confrontation and refusing to admit I overstepped, 110 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera. He said he expects me to 111 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 2: come home only after I apologized to his sister and 112 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: brother in law. 113 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: First thing I disagree with here, If you're raising a 114 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: child together, sharing responsibility of that child, So I don't 115 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: think it's fair to say, like, oh, like that's your responsibility, 116 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: he's doing you a favor. Like whoever's minding the kid 117 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: is doing the favor. Yeah, for whoever's not minding the kid. 118 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 2: Also, like he didn't tell her where the kid was. 119 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: It's been a simple text like hey, I have to 120 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: run out for emergency whatever, leaving son with you know, anyways, 121 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 2: a fun and nuanced discussion on the skills of parenting 122 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: from two non parents. 123 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: Editors cut that ship down as long as fuck. But 124 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: you know what, you could never f up and uh yeah, 125 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: you subscribe. Ascribe, deliver, deliver, you know what. 126 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: You know what, guys, if you subscribe, you'll be enjoying 127 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 2: your life as loudly as op. 128 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: At the top of your lung. 129 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 2: You'll be laughing so hard that people will be like, 130 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 2: you need to pee yourself as you're enjoying yourself too. 131 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: Damn game In those comments below, baby, see you next time, 132 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: See you next time.