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Speaker 1: you today. It's your Second Date podcast with Brooke and
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Speaker 5: new Second Date starting right now.
Speaker 4: Second Date update. Sports they're not just a good excuse
Speaker 4: for excessive drinking and yelling at referees. Sometimes they're a
Speaker 4: great way to accidentally meet somebody cute and if you're
Speaker 4: playing them, get some exercise in while you're at it.
Speaker 2: Yes to the cute part.
Speaker 4: Apparently, how one of our listeners met the girl he
Speaker 4: wants to call today through the magic of sports. Awesome.
Speaker 2: I love adult sports.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Brian, were you watching sports or were you playing them?
Speaker 6: I was playing nice.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Are you in a league for something?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm in a rec league that's a soccer league.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so you're athletic.
Speaker 1: I was at one of those for a while and
Speaker 1: the games were like at eleven o'clock at night.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, out, Yes.
Speaker 4: The whole point is to roll it into like a
Speaker 4: social activity afterwards, Like you don't want to do it
Speaker 4: in the morning, that's weird.
Speaker 2: Maybe drink after Maybe I was too old for it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's cool. You're in a REX soccer league
Speaker 4: and who did you meet?
Speaker 6: There was this new player, Hannah team. They put her
Speaker 6: on our team. She just signed up and they put
Speaker 6: her on our team.
Speaker 2: Cool.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and.
Speaker 6: I thought, wow, she's really cute.
Speaker 4: Okay, I got to play good today.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Game.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: You know, I welcomed her. You know, I tried to
Speaker 6: be in her area and when I could be around
Speaker 6: her and time out I would compliment her, you know,
Speaker 6: don't get crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could obviously tell that you were totally flirting
Speaker 1: with her.
Speaker 6: I didn't want to come on too strong, but the
Speaker 6: game and the game get going on, and I I
Speaker 6: ended up scoring the winning goal.
Speaker 1: Nice, you did it.
Speaker 4: Exciting.
Speaker 6: It was very exciting. Actually, you know, she congratulated me,
Speaker 6: and everybody was all happy and everything.
Speaker 4: And Hannah Joe up into your arms and give you
Speaker 4: a big kiss right on the mouth.
Speaker 6: No, but I got a high five at that point.
Speaker 4: I thought, just as.
Speaker 2: Good second best thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so wait, is this the dat or did you
Speaker 1: finally ask her out?
Speaker 6: Well, afterwards, we often go out drinking the team, and
Speaker 6: so she went out with us and we started talking.
Speaker 6: And I do know some things about her, like she
Speaker 6: likes the cattle board and she had the cad. She's funny.
Speaker 2: I don't know, but you sound smitten.
Speaker 4: The fact that you remember two details about her. We
Speaker 4: are absolutely over the movie.
Speaker 2: It's like the way he's saying it, like through a smile, like.
Speaker 4: Okay, she's so cute.
Speaker 6: I mean, I can't even I mean, it's been a
Speaker 6: couple of years I've been single, so she checked all
Speaker 6: the boxes.
Speaker 2: Ah, okay, so did you find out if she's single?
Speaker 6: I mean, so we're talking and you know, and she
Speaker 6: left before I did. I went outside the bar and
Speaker 6: I was like, hey, you know, I know we're on
Speaker 6: the same soccer team, and maybe it's okay if I
Speaker 6: could ask you.
Speaker 4: Out all right. What was her response, Well, she's.
Speaker 6: Kind a hand and out. Yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 8: Oh.
Speaker 6: And I was like, but I didn't give up. I
Speaker 6: was like, come on, if it doesn't work, we'll just
Speaker 6: go back to being, you know, soccer teammate, right.
Speaker 2: There's nothing to lose. It's not like you guys were
Speaker 2: friends previously exactly.
Speaker 6: I was like, come on, give it a shot. And
Speaker 6: I got her to say, you know, let me think
Speaker 6: about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta let me think about it.
Speaker 6: A girl, I gotta let me think about it.
Speaker 4: Women absolutely love a man drunkenly begging them to give
Speaker 4: them a chance and go out like, come on immediately
Speaker 4: if you keep asking, I don't know, she could say, oh,
Speaker 4: he's persistent, or she could be like he's a little thirsty,
Speaker 4: just so that you wouldn't have to keep on saying yeah.
Speaker 2: So did she think about it.
Speaker 6: Well, she was in. Finally she's like, okay, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, charm, I think it's kind of cute.
Speaker 4: So she told you that outside the ball she was
Speaker 4: willing to go out with you.
Speaker 7: No.
Speaker 6: No, We exchanged numbers and she texted me later saying okay,
Speaker 6: let's do it.
Speaker 2: So she really did think about it. That's better because
Speaker 2: she meant it.
Speaker 6: Ye.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So where'd you guys go?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 6: Nowhere. The next day she changed her mind.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 6: I got a text from her and she was It's
Speaker 6: like I thought about it and maybe it's not a
Speaker 6: good idea.
Speaker 4: Oh no again, She's like right in the middle. She's
Speaker 4: like part of her was like not really, and then
Speaker 4: part was like actually yeah, but the drunk part of
Speaker 4: her is like maybe, and then the sober parts like
Speaker 4: this is a mistake. There's still a chance here, though,
Speaker 4: is what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: She needs to stop thinking so much.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know, I agree. I mean, you know, I'm
Speaker 6: right with you guys. And I was like, stop thinking
Speaker 6: so much. Let's say you know, you know you want
Speaker 6: to That's what I was thinking, you know you want to?
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So after that, did she show up to the next
Speaker 4: game or the next.
Speaker 6: The next game, she didn't even show up, and I
Speaker 6: was thinking, oh, man, I made her on comfortable, you know,
Speaker 6: and it doesn't.
Speaker 2: I mean, everything you did is pretty innocent.
Speaker 1: I don't know that it should be something that would
Speaker 1: make her so uncomfortable to not show up unless you're
Speaker 1: not telling us everything.
Speaker 4: Are you being one hundred percent truthful with all the details.
Speaker 6: And there's nothing I can think of that I'm leaving
Speaker 6: out that I did anything dopey or anything.
Speaker 2: And no unsolicited photos also got sent to.
Speaker 6: Her fire.
Speaker 4: When you were begging her for a date. Did you
Speaker 4: have your pants on at the time? I did good,
Speaker 4: but the pants were sure. I mean, I know seems
Speaker 4: like ridiculous questions, but I swear you have no idea
Speaker 4: how many times we've been blindsided In the second part
Speaker 4: of these calls. With the details that come out, it'd
Speaker 4: be like, yeah, you lit himself on fire. No, I
Speaker 4: forgot to mention that. I don't think that was important. Okay, So,
Speaker 4: and how long has it been since you last spoke
Speaker 4: with Hannah.
Speaker 6: That we've actually text It's been over almost two weeks.
Speaker 6: A week and half of them text day.
Speaker 1: See if she even remembers you still, Oh, she'll remember
Speaker 1: if she didn't show up at the game, there's a reason.
Speaker 4: Well, we'll come back and we'll try to find out
Speaker 4: why your brand new teammate on your intermural soccer team
Speaker 4: doesn't want to go out on a date or even
Speaker 4: show up to the games anymore. Yeah, rude, we'll confront
Speaker 4: her right after this second date update. If you're just
Speaker 4: joining us for the second Date update, our listener, Brian
Speaker 4: played a little game of intramural soccer and scored more
Speaker 4: than just the winning goal. He scored a love connection
Speaker 4: with his new female teammate, Hannah. Okay, Hannah a true
Speaker 4: soccer battie or Saddie as we call her, well soccer battie. Yeah,
Speaker 4: coming up.
Speaker 2: With an I thought it was Saddy because she wasn't
Speaker 2: calling back.
Speaker 4: It works on so many different levels. I'm coming up
Speaker 4: with all sorts of fuel slang for the gen z
Speaker 4: Ors to use.
Speaker 2: Wordine.
Speaker 4: It's going to be for Jen Alpha. They'll pick it
Speaker 4: up and they'll actually appreciate it. The whole team, though,
Speaker 4: went and grabbed drinks together after their game, and Hannah
Speaker 4: told Brian she'd be open to going out with.
Speaker 2: Him after he asked her nine times.
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, persistent. In fact, she texted him that later
Speaker 4: on in the night and then suddenly changed her mind
Speaker 4: the very next day. Classic saddie behavior. Yeah, but now
Speaker 4: we're stepping in. We're going to try and fix it, Brooke.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Your take, oh, my take is going to ask yeah,
Speaker 4: take it away.
Speaker 1: My take is after she got home, she had a
Speaker 1: couple more glasses of wine and was binging her favorite show,
Speaker 1: and it's like, ah, fine.
Speaker 2: I'll go out with him.
Speaker 1: And then the next morning and she's like, what is
Speaker 1: I thinking? Yeah, but I don't think that means that
Speaker 1: we can't convince her.
Speaker 4: Stiff Brian, what do you think of Brook's theory that
Speaker 4: she's addicted to alcohol?
Speaker 6: Well? I hope not. I hope she feels the same
Speaker 6: way when she's not drinking. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think you need to come up with a prose list.
Speaker 1: Be ready for it when we finally introduce you onto
Speaker 1: the phone, like reasons.
Speaker 4: Why that sounds like fun, doesn't it.
Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, okay, prosen coglas no, no.
Speaker 2: Just pros just like reasons.
Speaker 1: She should say yes, Like you kept asking her, but
Speaker 1: you didn't give.
Speaker 3: Her why you know, you love making pros and cons
Speaker 3: list of guys.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's just call to see what happens. Hello, Hey
Speaker 4: is this Hannah?
Speaker 8: Yes, this is Hannah. Who is this?
Speaker 4: This is a radio show calling. You called Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: But I like that.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it was way good morning.
Speaker 6: Sorry.
Speaker 4: I know, over Joe, you're probably not used having a
Speaker 4: radio show call. But this is a segment that we're
Speaker 4: doing called a second date update.
Speaker 8: Okay.
Speaker 4: It's when someone goes out on a date with another person,
Speaker 4: or they met somebody really cool and they're not getting
Speaker 4: a call back for a second meetup. We can reach
Speaker 4: out on their behalf to try and help them figure
Speaker 4: out why. And Okay, in this scenario, you met a
Speaker 4: guy recently named Brian.
Speaker 8: Right, but I don't understand I didn't ever go on
Speaker 8: a first date with him.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, okay, we know that he did tell us.
Speaker 4: But according to him, you said yes to going out
Speaker 4: on a date with him and then changed your mind
Speaker 4: the next day and didn't even show up to the
Speaker 4: soccer game.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Fine, he just wants to know maybe why why you
Speaker 2: changed your mind?
Speaker 8: I I guess where do I start? How much do
Speaker 8: you know? Why do you want to ask me.
Speaker 4: I mean, the snapshot of what we know is you
Speaker 4: played soccer together, you went and grabbed drinks afterwards. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you said yes to day, but then changed your mind
Speaker 4: the next day.
Speaker 8: Right, So I am single, and one of the reasons
Speaker 8: that I wanted to play soccer on this in this
Speaker 8: league is because I wanted to meet other people in
Speaker 8: the city. And if I'm being honest, I looked up
Speaker 8: all the guys on the aster just to see their status.
Speaker 4: I don't want to in case somebody else.
Speaker 2: There. She loves a good midfielder, but she's open to
Speaker 2: the goalie, you know what A.
Speaker 4: So does that mean that there was somebody else who
Speaker 4: caught your eye on the team?
Speaker 8: Well, not necessarily. So I was actually disappointed because every
Speaker 8: single man on the team is married. Oh wait, it
Speaker 8: was confusing. I'm not sure what he is because it
Speaker 8: says that he's not married, but he is kissing a
Speaker 8: woman in his pictures.
Speaker 3: Old photos from like you know, they're not that old.
Speaker 8: And I just I was like, Okay, I don't want
Speaker 8: to get involved with any drama.
Speaker 1: And so, so you think he's Brian's in a relationship.
Speaker 6: Yes, at the very least, you might be totally right.
Speaker 4: He could be absolutely married and lying to us, But
Speaker 4: it would be strange to have him reach out to
Speaker 4: our show and have him listening to this call the
Speaker 4: entire time, because I need to let you know, Hannah,
Speaker 4: he is there listening to this.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, Ran, So wait, you snooped on all our
Speaker 7: media pages.
Speaker 6: That's weird.
Speaker 2: That's not weird.
Speaker 8: People do it all the time, and it's not like
Speaker 8: I was digging through it. I just wanted to see
Speaker 8: what everyone's relationship status was before I embarrass myself.
Speaker 4: And the fact that you're not immediately coming out saying
Speaker 4: I'm not married is a big red flag here.
Speaker 6: Brian, Well, I'm not married. It's an easy explanation. Okay,
Speaker 6: I know exactly what picture.
Speaker 2: Okay, have you kissing another woman that's my sister?
Speaker 4: Oh that makes so much sense.
Speaker 8: That doesn't make sense. You were kissing her on the
Speaker 8: mouth and you're holding her waist.
Speaker 6: I don't.
Speaker 1: That does not look like a sister picture.
Speaker 6: What the heck?
Speaker 2: And if it is, that's even more worrisome.
Speaker 4: Than whips on biological sister or stepsister, because clueless opened
Speaker 4: the door to a little bit.
Speaker 2: Right, what's going on?
Speaker 6: That's my sister. Listen, we're a close family, okay, and
Speaker 6: it's not weird to us.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you would be comfortable introducing Hannah to the
Speaker 1: woman that was in that photo.
Speaker 4: My sister.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean, do you not like, you know, I don't
Speaker 6: know if you have a brother, or do you not
Speaker 6: kiss your brother or you're now on.
Speaker 7: The let No, I do not, Okay, well we do.
Speaker 1: I don't think kissing on the lips with family is weird.
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna be like, oh, Brooke doesn't think
Speaker 1: that's weird.
Speaker 4: Of course you don't think your cousins is weird.
Speaker 1: But like posting a photo of it and also holding
Speaker 1: their waist at the same time, is yeah, there's something
Speaker 1: sensual about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, where it doesn't feel there's.
Speaker 6: Nothing sensual about it from my point of view, I
Speaker 6: mean for a very close family. I'm poud of the
Speaker 6: tightness of our family.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Yeah, And I have the question I think
Speaker 4: is going to finally clear everything up here, Brian, have
Speaker 4: you gone to second base with her? Is that a
Speaker 4: family thing?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 4: All right, he has a limit.
Speaker 7: Anna.
Speaker 6: I wish you would have texted me and just asked me, like, Andy,
Speaker 6: who are you kissing this picture. I mean, I wouldn't
Speaker 6: have gone on to the radio to find this Outum, you.
Speaker 3: Should have tagged your sister so she could have stalk
Speaker 3: your whole family on social media.
Speaker 2: Too, figured it out.
Speaker 6: I did. I did have her tag, but recently she
Speaker 6: said could you take the tag off because she thought
Speaker 6: it was weird?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was just a photo that was taken at
Speaker 1: the wrong time, and it's a totally innocent thing.
Speaker 2: Hannah, it's just a tongue.
Speaker 8: It wasn't just one picture. He had like half a
Speaker 8: dozen on here, half a.
Speaker 4: Dozen wait, half a dozen sisters or half a dozen pictures.
Speaker 8: Of kissing his sister.
Speaker 4: I don't have that many photos.
Speaker 2: Of my brother's normal. What do you guys do where
Speaker 2: you're getting to craft that off.
Speaker 4: Family? Come on, guys, I don't know.
Speaker 6: Not weird to us, guys, it's my sister, you know,
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't. I don't know what else to say,
Speaker 6: you guys is like, why why is this so weird?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: We're all ganging up on Brian right now, and Hannah,
Speaker 1: what if he really is just a good family guy.
Speaker 2: You know, that's not bad, that's not that's a positive thing.
Speaker 8: I know it is. I mean, listen, the fact that
Speaker 8: he got on the radio and wanted to go out
Speaker 8: with me so badly.
Speaker 7: I appreciate that gesture.
Speaker 2: And he's taken this pretty well, like you're going hard.
Speaker 4: And I'm sure Brian would be willing to have his
Speaker 4: sister call you directly and be like nothing has ever
Speaker 4: happened between and rate.
Speaker 2: Him on how good he is at kissing.
Speaker 6: Oh that's nice. He's my kissing with my sister. Okay,
Speaker 6: it's a normal thing. If you look at it, you
Speaker 6: can see it. I mean, listen, kissing my sister and
Speaker 6: kissing someone i'm interested is totally different.
Speaker 9: Okay, okay, and maybe part of the reason that you
Speaker 9: were so upset by the picture is you were a
Speaker 9: little bit jealous, Hannah, So yeah.
Speaker 8: I do, I do, I'm interested. Okay, it's weird that
Speaker 8: it's his sister, and it might take me a while
Speaker 8: to get over that.
Speaker 4: Well maybe, okay, take a day, but in the MIDDI.
Speaker 6: No, no, no, don't let her take a day. Last case,
Speaker 6: that's time she changed her mind.
Speaker 4: Oh right, okay, you have five seconds to decide would
Speaker 4: you like another date with Brian?
Speaker 8: Okay, yes, I will give him another chance.
Speaker 6: There you go, Brian, and come and come back to
Speaker 6: the team to come on for.
Speaker 1: You.
Speaker 6: Okay to that too, kiss.
Speaker 2: Related, So come on faking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: You know, if you take all of the second date
Speaker 4: updates that we've done this year alone, it's been a lot,
Speaker 4: like one hundred, one hundred and twenty maybe just this year.
Speaker 4: I think it's pretty incredible that we got a woman
Speaker 4: to say yes to a guy who admits to mouth
Speaker 4: kissing his own sister. Oh man, we should be proud
Speaker 4: of that.
Speaker 2: You know, we never asked if it was closed mouth.
Speaker 4: We didn't ask if there was clothes either. That's a
Speaker 4: good question.
Speaker 2: I assume it was a pack. But why so many photos?
Speaker 4: Yeah, where it's like we need to capture it.
Speaker 2: I mean even the sister's like, yo, bro, you got
Speaker 2: to take that down.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you'd hope. Oh she did take it down. Well,
Speaker 4: he at least is proud of his family and the
Speaker 4: family bond that they share. And we should be proud
Speaker 4: because it says something about us that we can make
Speaker 4: the sister kissers of the world seem normal and dare
Speaker 4: I say it's sexy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, your sister's coming to town soon, isn't she.
Speaker 4: Oh, yes, she's supposed to come visit my and see
Speaker 4: my new house.
Speaker 9: Who knows what might happen for everybody we'll see.
Speaker 4: But you know, if you need our help, kissing or
Speaker 4: anything else, you know, you can always email the show.
Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go
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