WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Base Fam

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the podcast. We got a new episode for

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<v Speaker 1>you today. It's your Second Date podcast with Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. Yeah, we're home for this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Loving the dating drama, and we love the comment board

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<v Speaker 1>even more.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, whether you leave your comments.

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<v Speaker 1>On Spotify or on YouTube or you text them to

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<v Speaker 1>seven eighty five nine two, we see them all I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I try to peruse every social media out of ours

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<v Speaker 3>every day and see what I can find.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to use that word. I know, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel good.

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<v Speaker 3>But one comment I did see is Crusy from Canada said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm from Canada and absolutely love this podcast. I dived

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<v Speaker 3>into this rabbit hole around six months ago and now

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<v Speaker 3>listening to every podcast kind of feels like one of

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<v Speaker 3>those bad relationships that you can't leave.

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<v Speaker 2>You're toxic for you.

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<v Speaker 5>We gotta drama, I know, but we're cute, will Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, Well let's continue this relationship with your brand

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<v Speaker 5>new Second Date starting right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date update. Sports they're not just a good excuse

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<v Speaker 4>for excessive drinking and yelling at referees. Sometimes they're a

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<v Speaker 4>great way to accidentally meet somebody cute and if you're

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<v Speaker 4>playing them, get some exercise in while you're at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes to the cute part.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently, how one of our listeners met the girl he

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<v Speaker 4>wants to call today through the magic of sports. Awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I love adult sports.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Brian, were you watching sports or were you playing them?

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<v Speaker 6>I was playing nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you in a league for something?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm in a rec league that's a soccer league.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, so you're athletic.

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<v Speaker 1>I was at one of those for a while and

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<v Speaker 1>the games were like at eleven o'clock at night.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, out, Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>The whole point is to roll it into like a

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<v Speaker 4>social activity afterwards, Like you don't want to do it

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe drink after Maybe I was too old for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so that's cool. You're in a REX soccer league

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<v Speaker 4>and who did you meet?

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<v Speaker 6>There was this new player, Hannah team. They put her

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<v Speaker 6>on our team. She just signed up and they put

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<v Speaker 6>her on our team.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, and.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought, wow, she's really cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I got to play good today.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Game.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I welcomed her. You know, I tried to

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<v Speaker 6>be in her area and when I could be around

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<v Speaker 6>her and time out I would compliment her, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>don't get crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you could obviously tell that you were totally flirting

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<v Speaker 1>with her.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't want to come on too strong, but the

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<v Speaker 6>game and the game get going on, and I I

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<v Speaker 6>ended up scoring the winning goal.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice, you did it.

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<v Speaker 4>Exciting.

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<v Speaker 6>It was very exciting. Actually, you know, she congratulated me,

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<v Speaker 6>and everybody was all happy and everything.

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<v Speaker 4>And Hannah Joe up into your arms and give you

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<v Speaker 4>a big kiss right on the mouth.

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<v Speaker 6>No, but I got a high five at that point.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, just as.

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<v Speaker 2>Good second best thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so wait, is this the dat or did you

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<v Speaker 1>finally ask her out?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, afterwards, we often go out drinking the team, and

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<v Speaker 6>so she went out with us and we started talking.

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<v Speaker 6>And I do know some things about her, like she

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<v Speaker 6>likes the cattle board and she had the cad. She's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but you sound smitten.

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<v Speaker 4>The fact that you remember two details about her. We

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<v Speaker 4>are absolutely over the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the way he's saying it, like through a smile, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's so cute.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I can't even I mean, it's been a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of years I've been single, so she checked all

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<v Speaker 6>the boxes.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, okay, so did you find out if she's single?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, so we're talking and you know, and she

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<v Speaker 6>left before I did. I went outside the bar and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, hey, you know, I know we're on

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<v Speaker 6>the same soccer team, and maybe it's okay if I

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<v Speaker 6>could ask you.

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<v Speaker 4>Out all right. What was her response, Well, she's.

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<v Speaker 6>Kind a hand and out. Yeah, I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, but I didn't give up. I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, come on, if it doesn't work, we'll just

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<v Speaker 6>go back to being, you know, soccer teammate, right.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing to lose. It's not like you guys were

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<v Speaker 2>friends previously exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, come on, give it a shot. And

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<v Speaker 6>I got her to say, you know, let me think

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<v Speaker 6>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you gotta let me think about it.

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<v Speaker 6>A girl, I gotta let me think about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Women absolutely love a man drunkenly begging them to give

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<v Speaker 4>them a chance and go out like, come on immediately

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<v Speaker 4>if you keep asking, I don't know, she could say, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>he's persistent, or she could be like he's a little thirsty,

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<v Speaker 4>just so that you wouldn't have to keep on saying yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So did she think about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, she was in. Finally she's like, okay, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, charm, I think it's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 4>So she told you that outside the ball she was

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<v Speaker 4>willing to go out with you.

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<v Speaker 7>No.

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<v Speaker 6>No, We exchanged numbers and she texted me later saying okay,

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<v Speaker 6>let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So she really did think about it. That's better because

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<v Speaker 2>she meant it.

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<v Speaker 6>Ye.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So where'd you guys go?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>Nowhere. The next day she changed her mind.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 6>I got a text from her and she was It's

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<v Speaker 6>like I thought about it and maybe it's not a

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<v Speaker 6>good idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no again, She's like right in the middle. She's

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<v Speaker 4>like part of her was like not really, and then

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<v Speaker 4>part was like actually yeah, but the drunk part of

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<v Speaker 4>her is like maybe, and then the sober parts like

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<v Speaker 4>this is a mistake. There's still a chance here, though,

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<v Speaker 4>is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>She needs to stop thinking so much.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I know, I agree. I mean, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>right with you guys. And I was like, stop thinking

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<v Speaker 6>so much. Let's say you know, you know you want

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<v Speaker 6>to That's what I was thinking, you know you want to?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So after that, did she show up to the next

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<v Speaker 4>game or the next.

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<v Speaker 6>The next game, she didn't even show up, and I

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<v Speaker 6>was thinking, oh, man, I made her on comfortable, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>and it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, everything you did is pretty innocent.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that it should be something that would

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<v Speaker 1>make her so uncomfortable to not show up unless you're

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<v Speaker 1>not telling us everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you being one hundred percent truthful with all the details.

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<v Speaker 6>And there's nothing I can think of that I'm leaving

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<v Speaker 6>out that I did anything dopey or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>And no unsolicited photos also got sent to.

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<v Speaker 6>Her fire.

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<v Speaker 4>When you were begging her for a date. Did you

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<v Speaker 4>have your pants on at the time? I did good,

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<v Speaker 4>but the pants were sure. I mean, I know seems

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<v Speaker 4>like ridiculous questions, but I swear you have no idea

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<v Speaker 4>how many times we've been blindsided In the second part

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<v Speaker 4>of these calls. With the details that come out, it'd

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<v Speaker 4>be like, yeah, you lit himself on fire. No, I

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<v Speaker 4>forgot to mention that. I don't think that was important. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 4>and how long has it been since you last spoke

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<v Speaker 4>with Hannah.

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<v Speaker 6>That we've actually text It's been over almost two weeks.

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<v Speaker 6>A week and half of them text day.

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<v Speaker 1>See if she even remembers you still, Oh, she'll remember

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<v Speaker 1>if she didn't show up at the game, there's a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we'll come back and we'll try to find out

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<v Speaker 4>why your brand new teammate on your intermural soccer team

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't want to go out on a date or even

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<v Speaker 4>show up to the games anymore. Yeah, rude, we'll confront

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<v Speaker 4>her right after this second date update. If you're just

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<v Speaker 4>joining us for the second Date update, our listener, Brian

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<v Speaker 4>played a little game of intramural soccer and scored more

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<v Speaker 4>than just the winning goal. He scored a love connection

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<v Speaker 4>with his new female teammate, Hannah. Okay, Hannah a true

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<v Speaker 4>soccer battie or Saddie as we call her, well soccer battie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>With an I thought it was Saddy because she wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>calling back.

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<v Speaker 4>It works on so many different levels. I'm coming up

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<v Speaker 4>with all sorts of fuel slang for the gen z

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<v Speaker 4>Ors to use.

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<v Speaker 2>Wordine.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to be for Jen Alpha. They'll pick it

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<v Speaker 4>up and they'll actually appreciate it. The whole team, though,

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<v Speaker 4>went and grabbed drinks together after their game, and Hannah

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<v Speaker 4>told Brian she'd be open to going out with.

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<v Speaker 2>Him after he asked her nine times.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah, persistent. In fact, she texted him that later

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<v Speaker 4>on in the night and then suddenly changed her mind

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<v Speaker 4>the very next day. Classic saddie behavior. Yeah, but now

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<v Speaker 4>we're stepping in. We're going to try and fix it, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Your take, oh, my take is going to ask yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>take it away.

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<v Speaker 1>My take is after she got home, she had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple more glasses of wine and was binging her favorite show,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, ah, fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the next morning and she's like, what is

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<v Speaker 1>I thinking? Yeah, but I don't think that means that

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<v Speaker 1>we can't convince her.

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<v Speaker 4>Stiff Brian, what do you think of Brook's theory that

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<v Speaker 4>she's addicted to alcohol?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? I hope not. I hope she feels the same

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<v Speaker 6>way when she's not drinking. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you need to come up with a prose list.

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<v Speaker 1>Be ready for it when we finally introduce you onto

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, like reasons.

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<v Speaker 4>Why that sounds like fun, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, yeah, okay, prosen coglas no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Just pros just like reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>She should say yes, Like you kept asking her, but

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't give.

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<v Speaker 3>Her why you know, you love making pros and cons

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<v Speaker 3>list of guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's just call to see what happens. Hello, Hey

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<v Speaker 4>is this Hannah?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, this is Hannah. Who is this?

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<v Speaker 4>This is a radio show calling. You called Brook and

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>But I like that.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it was way good morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, over Joe, you're probably not used having a

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<v Speaker 4>radio show call. But this is a segment that we're

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<v Speaker 4>doing called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's when someone goes out on a date with another person,

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<v Speaker 4>or they met somebody really cool and they're not getting

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<v Speaker 4>a call back for a second meetup. We can reach

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<v Speaker 4>out on their behalf to try and help them figure

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<v Speaker 4>out why. And Okay, in this scenario, you met a

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<v Speaker 4>guy recently named Brian.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, but I don't understand I didn't ever go on

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<v Speaker 8>a first date with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, okay, we know that he did tell us.

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<v Speaker 4>But according to him, you said yes to going out

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<v Speaker 4>on a date with him and then changed your mind

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<v Speaker 4>the next day and didn't even show up to the

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<v Speaker 4>soccer game.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Fine, he just wants to know maybe why why you

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<v Speaker 2>changed your mind?

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<v Speaker 8>I I guess where do I start? How much do

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<v Speaker 8>you know? Why do you want to ask me.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, the snapshot of what we know is you

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<v Speaker 4>played soccer together, you went and grabbed drinks afterwards. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you said yes to day, but then changed your mind

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<v Speaker 4>the next day.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, So I am single, and one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 8>that I wanted to play soccer on this in this

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<v Speaker 8>league is because I wanted to meet other people in

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<v Speaker 8>the city. And if I'm being honest, I looked up

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<v Speaker 8>all the guys on the aster just to see their status.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to in case somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>There. She loves a good midfielder, but she's open to

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<v Speaker 2>the goalie, you know what A.

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<v Speaker 4>So does that mean that there was somebody else who

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<v Speaker 4>caught your eye on the team?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, not necessarily. So I was actually disappointed because every

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<v Speaker 8>single man on the team is married. Oh wait, it

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<v Speaker 8>was confusing. I'm not sure what he is because it

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<v Speaker 8>says that he's not married, but he is kissing a

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<v Speaker 8>woman in his pictures.

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<v Speaker 3>Old photos from like you know, they're not that old.

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<v Speaker 8>And I just I was like, Okay, I don't want

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<v Speaker 8>to get involved with any drama.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, so you think he's Brian's in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, at the very least, you might be totally right.

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<v Speaker 4>He could be absolutely married and lying to us, But

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<v Speaker 4>it would be strange to have him reach out to

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<v Speaker 4>our show and have him listening to this call the

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<v Speaker 4>entire time, because I need to let you know, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 4>he is there listening to this.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, Ran, So wait, you snooped on all our

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<v Speaker 7>media pages.

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<v Speaker 6>That's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not weird.

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<v Speaker 8>People do it all the time, and it's not like

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<v Speaker 8>I was digging through it. I just wanted to see

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<v Speaker 8>what everyone's relationship status was before I embarrass myself.

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<v Speaker 4>And the fact that you're not immediately coming out saying

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not married is a big red flag here.

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<v Speaker 6>Brian, Well, I'm not married. It's an easy explanation. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I know exactly what picture.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, have you kissing another woman that's my sister?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that makes so much sense.

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<v Speaker 8>That doesn't make sense. You were kissing her on the

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<v Speaker 8>mouth and you're holding her waist.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That does not look like a sister picture.

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<v Speaker 6>What the heck?

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<v Speaker 2>And if it is, that's even more worrisome.

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<v Speaker 4>Than whips on biological sister or stepsister, because clueless opened

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<v Speaker 4>the door to a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 6>That's my sister. Listen, we're a close family, okay, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's not weird to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you would be comfortable introducing Hannah to the

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<v Speaker 1>woman that was in that photo.

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<v Speaker 4>My sister.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, do you not like, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know if you have a brother, or do you not

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<v Speaker 6>kiss your brother or you're now on.

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<v Speaker 7>The let No, I do not, Okay, well we do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think kissing on the lips with family is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're gonna be like, oh, Brooke doesn't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course you don't think your cousins is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But like posting a photo of it and also holding

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<v Speaker 1>their waist at the same time, is yeah, there's something

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<v Speaker 1>sensual about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, where it doesn't feel there's.

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing sensual about it from my point of view, I

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<v Speaker 6>mean for a very close family. I'm poud of the

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<v Speaker 6>tightness of our family.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, Yeah, And I have the question I think

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<v Speaker 4>is going to finally clear everything up here, Brian, have

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<v Speaker 4>you gone to second base with her? Is that a

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<v Speaker 4>family thing?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, he has a limit.

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<v Speaker 7>Anna.

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<v Speaker 6>I wish you would have texted me and just asked me, like, Andy,

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<v Speaker 6>who are you kissing this picture. I mean, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 6>have gone on to the radio to find this Outum, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Should have tagged your sister so she could have stalk

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<v Speaker 3>your whole family on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, figured it out.

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<v Speaker 6>I did. I did have her tag, but recently she

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<v Speaker 6>said could you take the tag off because she thought

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<v Speaker 6>it was weird?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was just a photo that was taken at

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong time, and it's a totally innocent thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Hannah, it's just a tongue.

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<v Speaker 8>It wasn't just one picture. He had like half a

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<v Speaker 8>dozen on here, half a.

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<v Speaker 4>Dozen wait, half a dozen sisters or half a dozen pictures.

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<v Speaker 8>Of kissing his sister.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have that many photos.

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<v Speaker 2>Of my brother's normal. What do you guys do where

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting to craft that off.

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<v Speaker 4>Family? Come on, guys, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Not weird to us, guys, it's my sister, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't. I don't know what else to say,

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<v Speaker 6>you guys is like, why why is this so weird?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>We're all ganging up on Brian right now, and Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>what if he really is just a good family guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, that's not bad, that's not that's a positive thing.

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<v Speaker 8>I know it is. I mean, listen, the fact that

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<v Speaker 8>he got on the radio and wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 8>with me so badly.

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<v Speaker 7>I appreciate that gesture.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's taken this pretty well, like you're going hard.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm sure Brian would be willing to have his

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<v Speaker 4>sister call you directly and be like nothing has ever

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<v Speaker 4>happened between and rate.

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<v Speaker 2>Him on how good he is at kissing.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that's nice. He's my kissing with my sister. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>it's a normal thing. If you look at it, you

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<v Speaker 6>can see it. I mean, listen, kissing my sister and

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<v Speaker 6>kissing someone i'm interested is totally different.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, okay, and maybe part of the reason that you

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<v Speaker 9>were so upset by the picture is you were a

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<v Speaker 9>little bit jealous, Hannah, So yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>I do, I do, I'm interested. Okay, it's weird that

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<v Speaker 8>it's his sister, and it might take me a while

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<v Speaker 8>to get over that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well maybe, okay, take a day, but in the MIDDI.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, don't let her take a day. Last case,

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<v Speaker 6>that's time she changed her mind.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh right, okay, you have five seconds to decide would

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<v Speaker 4>you like another date with Brian?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, yes, I will give him another chance.

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<v Speaker 6>There you go, Brian, and come and come back to

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<v Speaker 6>the team to come on for.

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<v Speaker 1>You.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay to that too, kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Related, So come on faking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if you take all of the second date

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<v Speaker 4>updates that we've done this year alone, it's been a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>like one hundred, one hundred and twenty maybe just this year.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's pretty incredible that we got a woman

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<v Speaker 4>to say yes to a guy who admits to mouth

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<v Speaker 4>kissing his own sister. Oh man, we should be proud

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<v Speaker 4>of that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we never asked if it was closed mouth.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't ask if there was clothes either. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>good question.

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<v Speaker 2>I assume it was a pack. But why so many photos?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, where it's like we need to capture it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean even the sister's like, yo, bro, you got

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<v Speaker 2>to take that down.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you'd hope. Oh she did take it down. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>he at least is proud of his family and the

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<v Speaker 4>family bond that they share. And we should be proud

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<v Speaker 4>because it says something about us that we can make

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<v Speaker 4>the sister kissers of the world seem normal and dare

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<v Speaker 4>I say it's sexy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, your sister's coming to town soon, isn't she.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, yes, she's supposed to come visit my and see

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<v Speaker 4>my new house.

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<v Speaker 9>Who knows what might happen for everybody we'll see.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, if you need our help, kissing or

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<v Speaker 4>anything else, you know, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go

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