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Speaker 1: Welcome to the podcast. We got a new episode for

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Speaker 1: you today. It's your Second Date podcast with Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Yeah, we're home for this stuff.

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Speaker 1: Loving the dating drama, and we love the comment board

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Speaker 1: even more.

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Speaker 2: You know, whether you leave your comments.

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Speaker 1: On Spotify or on YouTube or you text them to

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Speaker 1: seven eighty five nine two, we see them all I do.

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Speaker 3: I try to peruse every social media out of ours

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Speaker 3: every day and see what I can find.

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Speaker 2: And I want to use that word. I know, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I feel about it.

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Speaker 4: I feel good.

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Speaker 3: But one comment I did see is Crusy from Canada said,

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Speaker 3: I'm from Canada and absolutely love this podcast. I dived

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Speaker 3: into this rabbit hole around six months ago and now

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Speaker 3: listening to every podcast kind of feels like one of

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Speaker 3: those bad relationships that you can't leave.

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Speaker 2: You're toxic for you.

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Speaker 5: We gotta drama, I know, but we're cute, will Yeah,

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Speaker 5: all right, Well let's continue this relationship with your brand

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Speaker 5: new Second Date starting right now.

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Speaker 4: Second Date update. Sports they're not just a good excuse

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Speaker 4: for excessive drinking and yelling at referees. Sometimes they're a

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Speaker 4: great way to accidentally meet somebody cute and if you're

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Speaker 4: playing them, get some exercise in while you're at it.

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Speaker 2: Yes to the cute part.

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Speaker 4: Apparently, how one of our listeners met the girl he

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Speaker 4: wants to call today through the magic of sports. Awesome.

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Speaker 2: I love adult sports.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Brian, were you watching sports or were you playing them?

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Speaker 6: I was playing nice.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Are you in a league for something?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm in a rec league that's a soccer league.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so you're athletic.

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Speaker 1: I was at one of those for a while and

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Speaker 1: the games were like at eleven o'clock at night.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, out, Yes.

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Speaker 4: The whole point is to roll it into like a

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Speaker 4: social activity afterwards, Like you don't want to do it

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Speaker 4: in the morning, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Maybe drink after Maybe I was too old for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's cool. You're in a REX soccer league

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Speaker 4: and who did you meet?

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Speaker 6: There was this new player, Hannah team. They put her

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Speaker 6: on our team. She just signed up and they put

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Speaker 6: her on our team.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and.

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Speaker 6: I thought, wow, she's really cute.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I got to play good today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Game.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You know, I welcomed her. You know, I tried to

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Speaker 6: be in her area and when I could be around

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Speaker 6: her and time out I would compliment her, you know,

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Speaker 6: don't get crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could obviously tell that you were totally flirting

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Speaker 6: I didn't want to come on too strong, but the

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Speaker 6: game and the game get going on, and I I

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Speaker 6: ended up scoring the winning goal.

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Speaker 1: Nice, you did it.

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Speaker 4: Exciting.

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Speaker 6: It was very exciting. Actually, you know, she congratulated me,

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Speaker 6: and everybody was all happy and everything.

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Speaker 4: And Hannah Joe up into your arms and give you

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Speaker 4: a big kiss right on the mouth.

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Speaker 6: No, but I got a high five at that point.

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Speaker 4: I thought, just as.

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Speaker 2: Good second best thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so wait, is this the dat or did you

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Speaker 1: finally ask her out?

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Speaker 6: Well, afterwards, we often go out drinking the team, and

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Speaker 6: And I do know some things about her, like she

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but you sound smitten.

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Speaker 4: The fact that you remember two details about her. We

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Speaker 4: are absolutely over the movie.

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Speaker 2: It's like the way he's saying it, like through a smile, like.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's so cute.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I can't even I mean, it's been a

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Speaker 6: couple of years I've been single, so she checked all

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Speaker 2: Ah, okay, so did you find out if she's single?

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Speaker 6: I mean, so we're talking and you know, and she

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Speaker 6: left before I did. I went outside the bar and

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Speaker 6: I was like, hey, you know, I know we're on

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Speaker 4: Out all right. What was her response, Well, she's.

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Speaker 6: Kind a hand and out. Yeah, I don't know about that.

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Speaker 6: And I was like, but I didn't give up. I

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Speaker 6: go back to being, you know, soccer teammate, right.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing to lose. It's not like you guys were

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Speaker 6: I was like, come on, give it a shot. And

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Speaker 6: I got her to say, you know, let me think

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Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta let me think about it.

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Speaker 6: A girl, I gotta let me think about it.

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Speaker 4: Women absolutely love a man drunkenly begging them to give

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Speaker 4: them a chance and go out like, come on immediately

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Speaker 4: if you keep asking, I don't know, she could say, oh,

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Speaker 4: he's persistent, or she could be like he's a little thirsty,

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Speaker 4: just so that you wouldn't have to keep on saying yeah.

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Speaker 2: So did she think about it.

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Speaker 6: Well, she was in. Finally she's like, okay, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, charm, I think it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 4: So she told you that outside the ball she was

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 6: No, We exchanged numbers and she texted me later saying okay,

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Speaker 6: let's do it.

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Speaker 2: So she really did think about it. That's better because

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Speaker 2: she meant it.

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Speaker 6: Ye.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So where'd you guys go?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 6: Nowhere. The next day she changed her mind.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: I got a text from her and she was It's

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Speaker 6: like I thought about it and maybe it's not a

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Speaker 6: good idea.

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Speaker 4: Oh no again, She's like right in the middle. She's

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Speaker 4: like part of her was like not really, and then

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Speaker 4: this is a mistake. There's still a chance here, though,

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Speaker 4: is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: She needs to stop thinking so much.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I know, I agree. I mean, you know, I'm

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Speaker 6: right with you guys. And I was like, stop thinking

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Speaker 6: so much. Let's say you know, you know you want

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Speaker 6: to That's what I was thinking, you know you want to?

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So after that, did she show up to the next

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Speaker 6: The next game, she didn't even show up, and I

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Speaker 6: and it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: I mean, everything you did is pretty innocent.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that it should be something that would

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Speaker 1: make her so uncomfortable to not show up unless you're

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Speaker 1: not telling us everything.

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Speaker 4: Are you being one hundred percent truthful with all the details.

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Speaker 6: And there's nothing I can think of that I'm leaving

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Speaker 6: out that I did anything dopey or anything.

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Speaker 2: And no unsolicited photos also got sent to.

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Speaker 6: Her fire.

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Speaker 4: When you were begging her for a date. Did you

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Speaker 4: have your pants on at the time? I did good,

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Speaker 4: but the pants were sure. I mean, I know seems

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Speaker 4: like ridiculous questions, but I swear you have no idea

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Speaker 4: how many times we've been blindsided In the second part

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Speaker 4: of these calls. With the details that come out, it'd

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Speaker 4: be like, yeah, you lit himself on fire. No, I

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Speaker 4: forgot to mention that. I don't think that was important. Okay, So,

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Speaker 4: and how long has it been since you last spoke

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Speaker 6: That we've actually text It's been over almost two weeks.

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Speaker 6: A week and half of them text day.

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Speaker 1: See if she even remembers you still, Oh, she'll remember

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Speaker 1: if she didn't show up at the game, there's a reason.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll come back and we'll try to find out

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Speaker 4: why your brand new teammate on your intermural soccer team

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Speaker 4: doesn't want to go out on a date or even

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Speaker 4: show up to the games anymore. Yeah, rude, we'll confront

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Speaker 4: her right after this second date update. If you're just

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Speaker 4: joining us for the second Date update, our listener, Brian

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Speaker 4: played a little game of intramural soccer and scored more

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Speaker 4: than just the winning goal. He scored a love connection

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Speaker 4: with his new female teammate, Hannah. Okay, Hannah a true

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Speaker 4: soccer battie or Saddie as we call her, well soccer battie. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: With an I thought it was Saddy because she wasn't

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Speaker 4: It works on so many different levels. I'm coming up

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Speaker 4: with all sorts of fuel slang for the gen z

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Speaker 4: It's going to be for Jen Alpha. They'll pick it

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Speaker 4: up and they'll actually appreciate it. The whole team, though,

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Speaker 4: went and grabbed drinks together after their game, and Hannah

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Speaker 2: Him after he asked her nine times.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, persistent. In fact, she texted him that later

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Speaker 4: on in the night and then suddenly changed her mind

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Speaker 4: the very next day. Classic saddie behavior. Yeah, but now

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Speaker 4: we're stepping in. We're going to try and fix it, Brooke.

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Speaker 4: Your take, oh, my take is going to ask yeah,

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Speaker 4: take it away.

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Speaker 1: My take is after she got home, she had a

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Speaker 1: couple more glasses of wine and was binging her favorite show,

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Speaker 1: and it's like, ah, fine.

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Speaker 2: I'll go out with him.

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Speaker 1: And then the next morning and she's like, what is

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Speaker 1: I thinking? Yeah, but I don't think that means that

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Speaker 1: we can't convince her.

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Speaker 4: Stiff Brian, what do you think of Brook's theory that

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Speaker 4: she's addicted to alcohol?

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Speaker 6: Well? I hope not. I hope she feels the same

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Speaker 6: way when she's not drinking. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think you need to come up with a prose list.

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Speaker 1: Be ready for it when we finally introduce you onto

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Speaker 1: the phone, like reasons.

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Speaker 4: Why that sounds like fun, doesn't it.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, okay, prosen coglas no, no.

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Speaker 2: Just pros just like reasons.

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Speaker 1: She should say yes, Like you kept asking her, but

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Speaker 1: you didn't give.

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Speaker 3: Her why you know, you love making pros and cons

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Speaker 3: list of guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's just call to see what happens. Hello, Hey

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Speaker 4: is this Hannah?

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Speaker 8: Yes, this is Hannah. Who is this?

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show calling. You called Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: But I like that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was way good morning.

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Speaker 4: I know, over Joe, you're probably not used having a

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Speaker 8: Okay.

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Speaker 4: It's when someone goes out on a date with another person,

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Speaker 8: Right, but I don't understand I didn't ever go on

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, okay, we know that he did tell us.

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Speaker 4: But according to him, you said yes to going out

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Fine, he just wants to know maybe why why you

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Speaker 8: I I guess where do I start? How much do

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Speaker 4: I mean, the snapshot of what we know is you

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Speaker 4: you said yes to day, but then changed your mind

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Speaker 8: Right, So I am single, and one of the reasons

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Speaker 4: I don't want to in case somebody else.

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Speaker 2: There. She loves a good midfielder, but she's open to

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Speaker 4: So does that mean that there was somebody else who

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Speaker 8: Well, not necessarily. So I was actually disappointed because every

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Speaker 3: Old photos from like you know, they're not that old.

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Speaker 8: And I just I was like, Okay, I don't want

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Speaker 1: And so, so you think he's Brian's in a relationship.

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Speaker 6: Yes, at the very least, you might be totally right.

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Speaker 4: He could be absolutely married and lying to us, But

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, Ran, So wait, you snooped on all our

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Speaker 6: That's weird.

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Speaker 2: That's not weird.

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Speaker 8: People do it all the time, and it's not like

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Speaker 4: And the fact that you're not immediately coming out saying

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Speaker 6: Brian, Well, I'm not married. It's an easy explanation. Okay,

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Speaker 6: I know exactly what picture.

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Speaker 2: Okay, have you kissing another woman that's my sister?

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Speaker 4: Oh that makes so much sense.

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Speaker 8: That doesn't make sense. You were kissing her on the

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 1: That does not look like a sister picture.

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Speaker 6: What the heck?

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Speaker 2: And if it is, that's even more worrisome.

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Speaker 4: Than whips on biological sister or stepsister, because clueless opened

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Speaker 2: Right, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: That's my sister. Listen, we're a close family, okay, and

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Speaker 6: it's not weird to us.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you would be comfortable introducing Hannah to the

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Speaker 4: My sister.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean, do you not like, you know, I don't

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Speaker 7: The let No, I do not, Okay, well we do.

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Speaker 1: I don't think kissing on the lips with family is weird.

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Speaker 1: I know you're gonna be like, oh, Brooke doesn't think

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Speaker 4: Of course you don't think your cousins is weird.

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Speaker 1: But like posting a photo of it and also holding

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where it doesn't feel there's.

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Speaker 6: Nothing sensual about it from my point of view, I

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Yeah, And I have the question I think

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Speaker 4: you gone to second base with her? Is that a

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 6: I wish you would have texted me and just asked me, like, Andy,

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Speaker 3: Should have tagged your sister so she could have stalk

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Speaker 2: Too, figured it out.

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Speaker 6: I did. I did have her tag, but recently she

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was just a photo that was taken at

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Speaker 2: Hannah, it's just a tongue.

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Speaker 8: It wasn't just one picture. He had like half a

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Speaker 4: Dozen wait, half a dozen sisters or half a dozen pictures.

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Speaker 4: I don't have that many photos.

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Speaker 4: Family? Come on, guys, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Not weird to us, guys, it's my sister, you know,

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: We're all ganging up on Brian right now, and Hannah,

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Speaker 2: You know, that's not bad, that's not that's a positive thing.

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Speaker 8: I know it is. I mean, listen, the fact that

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Speaker 7: I appreciate that gesture.

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Speaker 2: And he's taken this pretty well, like you're going hard.

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Speaker 4: And I'm sure Brian would be willing to have his

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Speaker 6: Oh that's nice. He's my kissing with my sister. Okay,

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Speaker 6: it's a normal thing. If you look at it, you

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Speaker 9: Okay, okay, and maybe part of the reason that you

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Speaker 8: I do, I do, I'm interested. Okay, it's weird that

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Speaker 4: Well maybe, okay, take a day, but in the MIDDI.

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Speaker 4: Oh right, okay, you have five seconds to decide would

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Speaker 8: Okay, yes, I will give him another chance.

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Speaker 6: There you go, Brian, and come and come back to

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Speaker 1: You.

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Speaker 6: Okay to that too, kiss.

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Speaker 2: Related, So come on faking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: You know, if you take all of the second date

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Speaker 4: I think it's pretty incredible that we got a woman

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Speaker 2: You know, we never asked if it was closed mouth.

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Speaker 2: I assume it was a pack. But why so many photos?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, where it's like we need to capture it.

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Speaker 2: I mean even the sister's like, yo, bro, you got

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Speaker 4: the sister kissers of the world seem normal and dare

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Speaker 4: I say it's sexy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, your sister's coming to town soon, isn't she.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yes, she's supposed to come visit my and see

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Speaker 9: Who knows what might happen for everybody we'll see.

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Speaker 4: But you know, if you need our help, kissing or

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Speaker 4: anything else, you know, you can always email the show.

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Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go

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Speaker 4: check out all of our second date updates. They're up

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Speaker 4: wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey