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Speaker 1: I refuse to be my sister's maid of honor because

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Speaker 1: I wasn't her first choice. If I'm not your first choice,

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Speaker 2: I mean that goes with a lot of things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like what I don't know, Like, uh, let's say, like

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Speaker 2: I propose to someone, they say no, and then the

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Speaker 2: next day I proposed to another person. They knew I

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Speaker 2: got proposed to someone else, and then they were like,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be your second choice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, don't want to be your same choice. And

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Speaker 1: this is to answer the question of what behavior should

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Speaker 1: you Let's slide from siblings, so altruistic help eighty sixty

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Speaker 1: nine says I, thirty female come from a family of twins.

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Speaker 1: My mom fifty nine female, was a twin, my dad's

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Speaker 1: fifty eight male father was a twin. And four siblings

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Speaker 1: who are twins to each other. The first pair were

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Speaker 1: my brothers Alan thirty five male and Adam, and the

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Speaker 1: second pair were my sister's Bella thirty two female and Julia.

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Speaker 1: A lot of twins in this family, A lot of twins.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I have any twins in my family.

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Speaker 3: I have twins in my family. The real quick. These

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Speaker 3: two twins married twins.

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Speaker 2: Whoa Richard and Sally and uh Richard and that's Richard

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Speaker 2: and Sarah and then Edward and Sally. Did they plan

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Speaker 2: that No? I think they introduced each other to another

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Speaker 2: and then they were like, all right, we'll just we'll

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Speaker 2: do this. Wow, it's pretty cool. And now they have

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Speaker 2: kids and they're like siblings. Yeah, they both each twin

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Speaker 2: set marriage things.

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Speaker 1: Biologically that's your sibling wild or maybe it's half some.

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Speaker 3: Their siblings biologically siblings.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. When I was born, it was just me, and

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Speaker 1: the disappointment in that was made known throughout my entire

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Speaker 1: childhood because he's not a twin.

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Speaker 3: You already got two sets of twins.

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Speaker 1: More twins, come on, Come on. My mom prided herself

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Speaker 1: on being a twin mom and I didn't fit the yikes,

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Speaker 1: so she didn't put that much effort into me. My

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Speaker 2: Okay, being the fifth will is the worst? Yeah, to

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Speaker 2: your own siblings, like you can't hang out with either pair?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that sucks. And also the mom is probably seems

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Speaker 1: like she's kind of encouraging this like twin behavior, let's

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Speaker 1: sign them up for twin thingies classes together, and then

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Speaker 1: is like whatever, opie, go freaking sit in the corner.

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Speaker 1: Aw yeah, I hate this is not fun. Whenever my

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Speaker 1: to say that they were against it, while my sisters

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Speaker 1: would reluctantly let me come, but made it obvious that

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to come. My dad had to work

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Speaker 1: would almost let her twin children get their way. I

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Speaker 1: and developed really good friendships to fill the void. Fast

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Speaker 1: forward to high school and my siblings really wanted to

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Speaker 1: do an overseas trip on my parents' time, but my

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Speaker 1: as they were going to a country I was interested in.

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Speaker 1: So they're literally the only reason they want to have relationship

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Speaker 1: pay for their trip. That's they're just using OPI. My

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Speaker 1: that's when they started buttering me up and showering me

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Speaker 1: It took a couple of months, but I finally was

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Speaker 1: convinced that my siblings loved me, so when they mentioned

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Speaker 1: and all the funnivities that were scheduled were only for

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to last year and my siblings were in

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Speaker 1: Julia was supposed to be Bella's maid of honor, and

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Speaker 1: is gone. That's I think that's a bit too far.

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Speaker 1: Bella and Alan were triggered by my words and were

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Speaker 1: very upset with me, while my mom wants won't stop

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Speaker 1: berating me. Am I the a hole? And this is

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Speaker 1: to answer the question of what behavior should you let

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Speaker 1: to the part where she loses some of her siblings,

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Speaker 1: op was not the a hole. The parents should have

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Speaker 1: been making sure that their kids weren't excluding ope all

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Speaker 1: the time. However, I think that was too far for

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Speaker 3: Do you think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she necessarily has to be the bridesmaid.

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Speaker 1: I don't think like if she doesn't want to be

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Speaker 1: But I think saying to your sibling who just lost someone,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is a very close relationship A lost.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that she's I don't think she's the

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Speaker 1: I think that's fine. I just think that like saying

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Speaker 3: Was bottled up for years.

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Speaker 1: No, I agree, I think that OP is not necessarily

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Speaker 2: One more story, and yeah, we will have her. Good

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Speaker 4: He thought I might not be.

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Speaker 5: But here I am flipping up my collar like a

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Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa am I.

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Speaker 5: They hold for calling out my sister in law after

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Speaker 5: A month ago, my sister in law came to my

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Speaker 4: Then things took a turn.

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Speaker 5: My husband and I moved into our house six months

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Speaker 5: literally one week after I gave birth, we moved into

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Speaker 5: But for the first three maybe four months, I was

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Speaker 4: Over for dinner yet. So again there, they just moved

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Speaker 1: We're super busy, I just had a baby.

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Speaker 5: Daddy's father is working like crazy, and they're like, this

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Speaker 4: Why haven't you invited us her for dinner?

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Speaker 1: Why did you invited them over for dinner?

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Speaker 1: I've never babies out a three month old.

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Speaker 5: Let me know, you know, this visit was rare, by

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Speaker 5: She's going on that she's pissed because I haven't cooked

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Speaker 4: She just gave birth, she just had a baby.

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Speaker 5: So the brother in law and sister in law they're

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Speaker 5: you report to us with a fully made dinner, please

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Speaker 1: You have a sabbatical from work, which means you have

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Speaker 4: Forget your fan forget your immediate family and your newborn baby.

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Speaker 1: Forget up, forget about.

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Speaker 5: Then she starts to tell me that a week prior,

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Speaker 4: Been to like a barbecue together.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that her and her husband, my husband's brother,

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Speaker 5: You got to be as prepared, you know how we

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Speaker 4: He is extremely upset. Yeah, I didn't lose my place.

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Speaker 1: Baby must fry for our sins.

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Speaker 4: Than I see what you did there, sir?

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Speaker 1: What did you do?

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Speaker 4: Baby fry?

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Speaker 1: Oh see, I made a I made a Jesus joke,

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Speaker 4: Hey, aren't they the same ww JD.

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Speaker 5: My husband is pissed and hurt, and so am I

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Speaker 4: Thanks? There is an update, But yeah, Sophia, give me

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 4: Okay, give me the step by step of exactly what

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Speaker 1: And you've already talked to your husband. Then you go

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Speaker 1: say hey, sis, Hey, says husband, we'd like to invite

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Speaker 4: Wow, come out as straight, honestly, come straight.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you this.

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Speaker 4: I do to tell you this.

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Speaker 5: But we're straight and we're not afraid. He likes women

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Speaker 4: We I know this might be shocking, yeah, might take

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Speaker 4: it needed to be said quite frankly.

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Speaker 1: Quite frankly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and there you have it do it that way.

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Speaker 1: You know, you wanted him to be Adam and Steve.

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Speaker 1: But I'm sorry to say, we're out of.

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Speaker 2: It and.

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Speaker 4: Scene.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, if that is, we do we Actually the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it kind of reading in between the lines, it

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Speaker 1: Well he wasn't He wasn't there when she made that accusation.

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Speaker 4: Mmm, is she came privately.

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Speaker 1: And the baby, like the daughter.

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Speaker 5: Was there, they were talking together or sorry, they were

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Speaker 1: They were at a barbecue.

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Speaker 4: That's right, Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so he doesn't necessarily know. Yeah, so would

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just just why why did you say that?

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Speaker 1: Why'd you say that?

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Speaker 4: What? What do you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe she she's projecting.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she wants them to break up. That way she

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Speaker 5: He's got that new baby, daddy glow. Yeah, he's had

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Speaker 4: He's a dad.

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Speaker 1: He's wearing a pink shirt. He's in touch with his emotions.

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Speaker 4: He got a tote bag.

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Speaker 5: He's got beautiful caramel, not caramel, chocolate curls, blue eyes.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that scared me.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to like cut it. I like it

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Speaker 4: It looks bad. I'm still pro mullet.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, if you got a mullet, that'd be

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Speaker 1: so cool.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Sophia Good.

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Speaker 1: I understand.

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Speaker 5: It's like, it's like cool here, guys. Uh, let's get

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Speaker 2: Okay, like the video, like the video, like the episode,

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Speaker 2: Like wait, wait, like this, dude's let.

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Speaker 1: Me see it. Yes, exactly like that tous mullet.

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Speaker 4: There you go.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. My husband will be

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Speaker 5: saying something to his brother soon. Oh that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: Maybe it's best for him to do it since that's

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Speaker 5: his brother. Yeah, yeah, yeah, why do you call me

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Speaker 5: Thank you all for your advice. Update as of July.

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Speaker 4: First, my husband asked his brother about it, and he

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Speaker 3: Wait, get the ten year old in there.

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Speaker 1: Get the ten Yeah, collaborate, but you need to make

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to be like, okay, stay freaking here,

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Speaker 1: you ask her, Yeah, well, one on one, did mommy,

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Speaker 4: Did he do that?

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Speaker 1: Did she do that? And then she goes, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Guilty got him straight to jail. Jail, but we have

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Speaker 4: some relevant comments. Opion.

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Speaker 5: If her sister in law thinks her husband is hiding something,

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Speaker 5: I'm one trillion percent sure he isn't even a bisexual.

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Speaker 5: I was with him for a while before we got married,

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Speaker 5: who cares. It's the past and this and it isn't

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Speaker 4: But thank you for the advice.

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Speaker 5: Plus I said I don't care what my husband did

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Speaker 4: I posted about the issue of.

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Speaker 5: Opie says, I think so too. If it was my

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Speaker 4: Even though I didn't do anything at all. That's that's

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Speaker 5: We did tell my in laws what she said. My

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Speaker 5: sat here and told her my postpartum dispression depression struggles

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Speaker 5: for the first time, and then she told me that,

445
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Speaker 5: oh my god, what a great response. I know how

446
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Speaker 5: to support you, sis. I even texted my sister in

447
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Speaker 5: law two weeks after she told me what she told me,

448
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Speaker 5: and I said, I can't sleep and I can't stop

449
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Speaker 5: thinking about what you told me.

450
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Speaker 4: I don't know what to do.

451
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Speaker 5: And all she said was if you need someone to

452
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Speaker 5: talk to you, I'm here, and that she was sorry.

453
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Speaker 5: Now we have we have an update, and it is oh.

454
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Speaker 1: My god, I want to know what's soon to find

455
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Speaker 1: out the truth.

456
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Speaker 4: Well, I'm gonna give you the truth, or at least

457
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Speaker 4: the next the truth of what Opie wrote. There we go.

458
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Speaker 5: Update This is another day later, my thirty female husband's

459
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Speaker 5: brother for email and his wife told me my husband

460
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Speaker 5: is actually gay and married me as a front.

461
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Speaker 4: So my husband confronted his brother. His brother said he

462
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Speaker 4: knew nothing about what the wife said.

463
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Speaker 5: He then then my husband's brother told me that he's

464
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Speaker 5: been with his wife for twenty years and she would

465
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 5: never lie to him. Oh oh, and that maybe I

466
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 5: stretched a little bit of what she said to me low.

467
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Speaker 5: I definitely did not, not even a little bit. So

468
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Speaker 5: that's where it stands as of now. My husband believes me.

469
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 5: That's all that matters. If I wanted to stir the pot,

470
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Speaker 5: I could have thought of something better than this and

471
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Speaker 5: quick relevant comments.

472
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Speaker 1: No, yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sad that there's no more updates.

473
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Speaker 4: It's true. It's it's over. Commenter said she's a total psycho.

474
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Speaker 4: Who does that?

475
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Speaker 5: Opie says, I know, and now you're going to lie

476
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Speaker 5: on top of it. You got a lie, and you

477
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Speaker 5: know what, Lasa, gentlemen, that is it. So where we're

478
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Speaker 5: left at. She lied, The brother in law is not

479
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 5: not believing her. She can She's just lying. Saying, oh,

480
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:02,919
Speaker 5: I never said that that ever happened.

481
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 4: Blah blah blah. I don't know why she could have

482
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Speaker 4: gotten the text and the ten.

483
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Speaker 1: Year old, yeah daughter text in the ten year old.

484
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Speaker 5: But maybe she's like, I don't want to involve child.

485
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 5: I don't want to involve a child, which is good.

486
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Speaker 5: I don't like, this is just not worth it. This

487
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Speaker 5: is she's basically moving on and cutting her off.

488
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

489
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Speaker 1: I think that's the best you can do without any proof.

490
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Speaker 1: You're just like, okay, whatever, I know my husband loves me.

491
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Speaker 4: Yeah wow.

492
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Speaker 1: Wild ah boy, wild boy, oh boy.

493
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Speaker 5: When you're like, you know, I've been bored lately, let

494
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Speaker 5: me just let me just say that my stern in

495
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 5: law husband is yay and does the lover but you

496
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 5: know that feeling, you know, she she by the way,

497
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Speaker 5: she didn't invite me and cooked dinner for me. Yeah,

498
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Speaker 5: three months after she had her baby and moved into

499
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Speaker 5: her new house.

500
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Speaker 1: So I should just start up some drama.

501
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Speaker 4: I should start up some drama because she at least

502
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Speaker 4: owes me some entertainment.

503
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Speaker 3: She does.

504
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we she didn't be honest, she didn't entertain me

505
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Speaker 4: in her home dinner and a show. I'm at least

506
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Speaker 4: getting a show. That's what I'm talking about. But ladies

507
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Speaker 4: and gentlemen, I did look.

508
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Speaker 3: There's nothing else.

509
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Speaker 4: Man. We looked producer, the best producer in the world,

510
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Speaker 4: couldn't find it.

511
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Speaker 5: Not there, not there, It's not there. That is a fact,

512
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Speaker 5: very tragic news. This episode is over, so it is

513
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Speaker 5: the whole member's only stream. By the way, if you

514
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517
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518
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Speaker 4: love to have you. We would love to have you.

519
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Speaker 1: We would oh my god, I'm like ope. We would

520
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Speaker 1: love to have you over for dinner and a show.

521
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Speaker 4: And we will accuse your partner of not loving you.

522
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Speaker 1: We won't do it. But if you don't show up.

523
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524
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525
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Speaker 4: Get out of here, do go.

526
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Speaker 6: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

527
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Speaker 4: Time for okop ree wam.

528
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Speaker 6: My husband asked for a threesome with my best friend,

529
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 6: but what he said next is way worse.

530
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Speaker 4: Can we have a foursome? Can it be? Yo?

531
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Speaker 6: Daddy, your Mama, your whole family. Info.

532
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Speaker 4: Girl, those are things that are worst. Girl.

533
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Speaker 6: I want to sow my seed and every generation you've got.

534
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Speaker 4: Oh, good gravy.

535
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Speaker 6: Hey, Granny, hm, Granny Granny, you know what what what

536
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 6: those gums do? Girl, I'm trying to get some sloppy

537
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Speaker 6: toppy from the grandpoppy. If I'm saying no dentures needed

538
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 6: for this, r take those teeth out, man. I just

539
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 6: want that's Aliva all up in this thing. Mmm. I'll

540
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Speaker 6: give you a Granny Smith apple after we're done. Good

541
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Speaker 6: gravy if you can chew it. I heard old people

542
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 6: like extra salt in their food. Oh, gravy, salty snack.

543
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 6: My husband of five years asked for a threesome with

544
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Speaker 6: my best friend and she agreed. I twenty six female,

545
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 6: my husband thirty five male, seven years ago. We've been

546
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Speaker 6: married for five of those years.

547
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:04,959
Speaker 4: Wow.

548
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Speaker 6: I love my husband and all he has done for me,

549
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 6: But I fear that my marriage and my relationship with

550
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 6: my best friend might now be over. Oh God, not

551
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 6: to mention, I just found out I'm pregnant and this

552
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 6: only started happening after I told my husband. He was

553
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 6: very much on board with having a child with me

554
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Speaker 6: and who's been trying for around six months. For context,

555
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Speaker 6: my best friend, twenty eight female, let's call her Mia,

556
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 6: knew my husband before me, and they were incredibly close. Oh,

557
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 6: incredibly close before I even knew him. Let's just say

558
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 6: they were six to you know, four to ten inches.

559
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Speaker 4: Oh close.

560
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Speaker 6: You know, I'm being generous with this raide you.

561
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Speaker 4: Are you are given this man? Well, he you know, hoot?

562
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Speaker 6: How about one to ten one to ten inches, all right?

563
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 6: He was one to ten inches away before I first

564
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 6: met my husband. I suspected there was something going on

565
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 6: between them, oh, but they always denied it. However, they

566
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 6: admitted while they were drunk that they were indeed sleeping

567
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 6: together before I got with my husband. Oh, I mean

568
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Speaker 6: that seems a little problem.

569
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Speaker 4: This is yeah, this seems like an issue.

570
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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, but.

571
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Speaker 4: Maybe not, maybe not.

572
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Speaker 6: We'll see, We'll see. I'm sure this goes well. Yeah,

573
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 6: even though it's not important now, it still plays on

574
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 6: my mind, you know, especially considering what just happened. Anyways,

575
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 6: two weeks ago, my husband suggested a threesome for the

576
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 6: first time, and I was not on board with it.

577
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Speaker 4: Dang.

578
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 6: I quickly said no and hoped he'd never bring it

579
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 6: up again. Two days after he suggested it again.

580
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Speaker 4: What you do when boeing?

581
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Speaker 6: Hey, baby, you know how yesterday you said you didn't

582
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 6: want a threesome about not sweet? Hey, I know you

583
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 6: want some of this, but do you want someone that

584
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 6: ass over there?

585
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 4: Your friend to his company? But three is a body.

586
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 4: Maybe he's what I want to do with this? All right?

587
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 6: And once the end declined, he asked again that night

588
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 6: after we had sex, and once again I said no,

589
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 6: bro Is PERSI yeah, he watched that three stuff like

590
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 6: all of a sudden. After that he stopped asking, and

591
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 6: I thought that was the end of it. Girl, don't

592
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 6: you know it's not the no. However, three days ago

593
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 6: he asked me out to lunch, and I was excited,

594
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 6: considering he never takes me on dates anymore, red flag.

595
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 6: If he ain't taken you on dates, he's taken someone

596
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 6: else on a date. Let's just say that. I just

597
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 6: made like every person who hasn't been on a date

598
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 6: in a while, like super. When we got to the restaurant,

599
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 6: my best friend was sitting there and was confused because

600
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 6: he never mentioned that she'd be there. The vibe was

601
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 6: weird from the start to be honest, but I tried

602
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 6: to think nothing of it. Halfway through the lunch, my

603
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 6: husband asked me again. He said, hey, babe, be I

604
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 6: want to consider the idea of a threesome again. I

605
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 6: thought it would be a good idea if meal was involved.

606
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 6: I didn't know what to say. We stand at an

607
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 6: inclusive king. I'll just watch you ladies to talk about it,

608
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 6: you know, talk about all the things you're gonna do.

609
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 6: I asked Mia if she knew about this, and she

610
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 6: said yes, and that she known about his plans for

611
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 6: over a month. Oh, he's known about this for over

612
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,479
Speaker 6: a month, and this is the best plan he can

613
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Speaker 6: come up with. Pap, could I have a threeesome?

614
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Speaker 1: Bape?

615
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 6: Could have a three some? Pape could have a three some? Bape?

616
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 6: Could I have a threesome?

617
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 4: She's here, he's here, so you kids they don't know.

618
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Speaker 6: I was devastated. I said no, like the fifth time, seriously,

619
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 6: and paid for my meal and left with my car.

620
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 6: I feel so betrayed and hurt right now. I have

621
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Speaker 6: no word. This man is meant to be the father

622
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 6: of my child, but I can't even look at him.

623
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 6: I've been staying with my mom and he's been honing me,

624
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 6: calling me dramatically, and that he says he'll just drop it.

625
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 6: Mia has been spamming me too, saying the same thing.

626
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 6: It's almost like they're together. I don't know what to do,

627
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 6: rob his ass. I know, it's kind of like I'm

628
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 6: in founding with the well. You know, maybe we can't

629
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 6: be too harsh because there's a baby on the way.

630
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 6: I say, squirt that baby out, throw it out his face.

631
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Speaker 6: Get that alimony, baby, it's not alimony child support.

632
00:30:59,440 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 4: There you go.

633
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 6: Oh well, I guess also alimony his husband double up.

634
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 6: There will be an update. Oh no. They both agreed

635
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 6: to arrange a talk with me this morning to ask

636
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 6: for another.

637
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 4: So we've been thinking about it. We think need to

638
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 4: be really good.

639
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Speaker 6: I think we explained things the right way the previous

640
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 6: four times. But let me just be clear. It's freaking

641
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 6: down you me, me ya, and we're trying to do

642
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 6: three or some We're trying to you know, like maybe

643
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 6: if you two right next to each other, me going

644
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 6: in and out, one in and out on two utah

645
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 6: on top of each other. I go the old elevator floor.

646
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 6: I'm on four one, floor two one, I'm on floor two.

647
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 6: Bro the old h double licked the popsicle stick. You

648
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 6: know there are two sides, so many options. Some would

649
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 6: say because it's round, there's infinite sides. A few more

650
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 6: tongues in there.

651
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 4: We all know where Sam's mind is at.

652
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Speaker 6: Okay okop co host Mary's A Thousand Wives. I've always

653
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 6: wanted A thousand wives. When I arrived, they were sitting

654
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 6: so close to each other it genuinely made me feel sick.

655
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 6: They are touching themselves underneath the table. Oh, they didn't

656
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 6: seem upset at all. They were just talking like normal,

657
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 6: even smiling, which is so gross to me, seeing as

658
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 6: they both know how upset I am right now. Anyways,

659
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 6: when I sat down, I fought out asked them if

660
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 6: they had been seeing each other behind my back, and

661
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Speaker 6: everything I've been suspecting these last three days was confirmed. No,

662
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 6: they'd been sleeping with each other. I am so heartbroken.

663
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 6: I don't think I can carry this child. These past

664
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 6: few days have felt so unreal and I'm a complete

665
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 6: and utter wreck.

666
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: Wow.

667
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 6: I know that it's early to decide this, but I

668
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 6: do think an abortion is the correct decision for me.

669
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 6: What she's six months in? Did she say they've been

670
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 6: trying for about six months. Trying for six months. Ye, yeah,

671
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 6: it seems like she just just found seems pretty recent.

672
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 6: I also asked him why he decided to tell me

673
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 6: now and not earlier or when I wasn't carrying his

674
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 6: literal child, bro, and he literally just shrugged, shook his head,

675
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 6: and then said, oh, as if that was a good

676
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 6: enough answer.

677
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: Bro.

678
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 6: Mio was mostly quiet the whole time. But I don't

679
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 6: think she feels even the slightest bit of guilt, which

680
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 6: I mean, it seems like the sexual tension has been

681
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 6: building their whole marriage, so they're probably just happy to

682
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 6: be fucking again. To everyone saying divorce, that is most

683
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 6: likely what will happen.

684
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 4: Yep.

685
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 6: I'm terrified, as I've known him for most of my

686
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 6: adult life and he is the only man I've ever

687
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 6: been with using control of all our bills are rent

688
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 6: and oversees the finances. I literally have no idea what

689
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 6: I'm doing. Wow. I mean, okay, all you ladies and

690
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 6: boys out here who are in relationships, Yeah, let's do

691
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 6: a thought experiment.

692
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 4: Let's let's experiment.

693
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, think of your significant other's closest opposite sex friend

694
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 6: for a moment. How long have they known per him?

695
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 6: How long have they known you? Who are they going

696
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 6: to decide? Is their sexual tension? Is it building? Are

697
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 6: they giggling? Do they have inside jokes?

698
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 4: Whoa intimate?

699
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 6: Is there flirty text back and forth? Sub cutie? How

700
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 6: you doing if any of that is true? Are slash okop?

701
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 6: Show and tell us your fricking story so we can

702
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 6: diagnose whether she cheating with that longtime best friend, because

703
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 6: damn bro, I mean, there were so many red flags

704
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 6: before this happened. It seems like she maybe chose to ignore.

705
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 6: But this is a relationship o P should definitely get

706
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 6: out of because this guy sucks. Both of them suck

707
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 6: like it basically seems they're like, oh now we can,

708
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 6: but is like, why not just be together?

709
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:26,240
Speaker 1: Leave?

710
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 6: Man couldn't choose. He's like, she want vanilla or chocolate?

711
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 6: I want a double scoop of bull bro And then

712
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 6: the guy who shure an ice cream is like, yo,

713
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 6: you kind of have to choose one because maybe, like

714
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 6: the vanilla is okay with being the chocolate together, but

715
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 6: you know one of them is not okay with the other.

716
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,879
Speaker 4: Maybe the vanilla is pregnant with a.

717
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 6: Bean, maybe he has a little bean at the center.

718
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 6: You know what I mean, You never know.

719
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 4: You never know.

720
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 6: So if you want a threesome, just make sure everyone's

721
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 6: down wow, and just know it could end your relationship.

722
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Speaker 6: You like that story, check out our mega episode where

723
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Speaker 6: we have like our best stories back to back to back.

724
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Speaker 6: We had a ton of fun making this and I

725
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 6: don't think it's getting the love it deserves.

726
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Speaker 4: It.

727
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 6: It's not, it's not, so go check out this one.

728
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 6: The first one is a story where he did it

729
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 6: with both her ex boyfriends.

730
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 4: I'll see what that means, big stuff.

731
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:20,959
Speaker 6: Parents Pawn, he's engagement ring and he goes ballistick. Okayop,

732
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 6: this is Okayop. I'm samuel daughter and we tell the

733
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 6: funniest stories on the internet. And John, I have a

734
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 6: story for you that's kind of crazy. Oh hit me

735
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 6: baby features an old yeller because there's someone that yells

736
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 6: in this story. Parents Pawn, he's engagement ring and he

737
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 6: goes ballistick.

738
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Speaker 4: Makes sense. I'd be pretty peace.

739
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty beeaste. So I cannot sleep because my next

740
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 6: door neighbor is yelling at his folks. We will call

741
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 6: him old Yeller, Old Yeller, the old yeller, like the

742
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 6: old Yeah, they moved into his house temporarily because a

743
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 6: tree fell in their house. Uh, not a good movie.

744
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 6: Trees trees be attacking back, you know, they do. They're

745
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 6: tired of us fricking cutting them down and cutting them down,

746
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 6: so they're like, I'm gonna fall in your house now

747
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 6: the Lorex, and we get the Lorex. Yeller is helping

748
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 6: them pay for it, and we didn't hear about any

749
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 6: trouble with them for two weeks since they've been in

750
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 6: the neighborhood. Apparently, though, they are the type of people

751
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 6: that think that buying too many things makes you snobbish.

752
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 4: Hmmm.

753
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 6: They know, like they're minimalists. Minimal get aggressive minimalists, so

754
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 6: they're like, how dare you buy it to a brush items? No,

755
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 6: we live in a society. That's my favorite quote. We

756
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 6: live in a society. Just that for what I can overhear. Yes,

757
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 6: I know I shouldn't be listening and eavesdropping, but I

758
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 6: can't sleep for gosh. Dar. They had been selling off

759
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 6: some of his stuff, so game and game consoles, watches, clothes,

760
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 6: I believe, Oh my. Apparently they were putting that money

761
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 6: towards groceries. So it sounds like they are not keeping

762
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 6: that money themselves. So basically, these parents come into his

763
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 6: house that after their house has been smashed by the

764
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 6: trees and are just selling all his crap. Oh, just

765
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 6: selling everything.

766
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: Jeez.

767
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 6: So they did this yesterday and today and oh well,

768
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 6: apparently Yeller old Yeller went out to dinner with his

769
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 6: girlfriend and was proposing to her, Oh will you marry me?

770
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 6: Only when he opened the ring box. He opened it

771
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 6: up and he found that there was nothing inside.

772
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

773
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 6: Apparently this is the story that he's hearing. Apparently the

774
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 6: parents took it and pawned it for gas money and

775
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 6: cleaning supplies. How do you pawn an engagement ring for

776
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 6: gas money? And also like, as he was going to engage,

777
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 6: I know that's their way to the proposal, Like, hey,

778
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 6: I think it's the best time to take this ring.

779
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 4: We need to hit shell op.

780
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 6: He's thinking, well, I don't think his parents are staying

781
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 6: there much longer. They even pulled out the your stuff

782
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 6: is our stuff card and called him spoiled and that

783
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 6: we birthed you and thus.

784
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 4: We own you and all your belongings.

785
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 6: No, no, that's not how freedom works. I am hearing

786
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 6: him yell at them to get out of his house. Honestly,

787
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 6: in what reality is it okay to sell off your

788
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 6: host stuff, kid or not? Kid, it's rotten, which I

789
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 6: agree for real. I think they're quieting down a bit.

790
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 6: Hopefully I can sleep now, but as we know on Reddit,

791
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 6: OPI will never sleep because there's an update. That's right,

792
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 6: update found out that he called the cops on his folks.

793
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 6: He's going to make them sweat a bit until they

794
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 6: agree to get his stuff back or he will press charges.

795
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 6: He needs that engagement ring, right, I mean, good for him, honestly,

796
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 6: So I did ask. I did ask about how he

797
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 6: didn't notice that the ring was gone until he proposed,

798
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 6: And apparently it's because he checked the box earlier in

799
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 6: the morning and put it in the jacket I was

800
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 6: going to wear and thought I didn't need to check again, which, honestly, like,

801
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 6: why would you you put it in your jacket pocket

802
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 6: you checked the morning before and you're going to open

803
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 6: it later and that you're assuming it's gonna be in there.

804
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 4: Yeah.

805
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 6: Like, Also, just think of the implications that means for

806
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 6: the parents. That means the parents went through his jacket

807
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,959
Speaker 6: pocket to search for things they could sell, found this ring.

808
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 6: Box with the ring in it, decided to take the

809
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 6: ring out, sell it, and then put the ring box

810
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 6: back in the jacket.

811
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 4: And not tell him off, not tell him. Wow, this

812
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 4: is this is like worst parent of the Year award

813
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 4: right here.

814
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 6: Terrible, terrible, good God, But there is a positive update.

815
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 4: Oh.

816
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 6: I did ask how his girlfriend reacted, and she was

817
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 6: upset as he was, but they both concluded that the

818
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 6: ring might have just fallen out or slipped out. He

819
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 6: didn't want to think his parents had anything to do

820
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 6: with it right off the bat, and she said.

821
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 4: Yes, Hey, ope, be getting memried.

822
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 6: Well, OPI for Opie's neighbors getting married. Neighbors getting married,

823
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 6: invite us to the weddings.

824
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, for real, guys, it's only the classy thing to do.

825
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 6: We're telling your story. That's the least you could do.

826
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Speaker 6: But you know what else is the least you could do?

827
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Speaker 6: Hit us with a subscribe, Hit us with a subscribe.

828
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Speaker 6: Poll us on TikTok, follows on Spotify, support on Patreon.

829
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Speaker 6: Every view and subscribe counts.

830
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Speaker 4: Yeah it does, and we we'll see you next time.

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Speaker 6: See please