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Speaker 1: turn the mouth the word of the money up. Look

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Speaker 1: make me come come on you're thinking that, I sure will.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 2: You are listening to the varts, Come on, dig me

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Speaker 2: now one and only. Uh huh. Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 2: radio show.

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Speaker 6: Here you do.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey got a radio show. But like I said

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Speaker 2: the other day, you got something too, though, don't you.

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Speaker 2: God done done something wonderful for you. You just got

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Speaker 2: to thank Him for it, you know, in the midst

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Speaker 2: of all that's going on in my life and in

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Speaker 2: your life. You know, I always use myself as an

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Speaker 2: example because well, I mean that way. I guarantee one

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Speaker 2: hundred percent I know what I'm talking about here. Here's

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Speaker 2: the situation, you know, with everything that's going on in

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Speaker 2: my life and all the things I'm asking God for

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Speaker 2: in the midst of taxing and a very trying situation

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Speaker 2: that's very challenging for me right now. Man, God just

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Speaker 2: keeps on, keeps on surprising me. He keeps doing things,

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Speaker 2: And I want you to look at your life. Or

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Speaker 2: for a second, let's make two columns here. Let's make

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Speaker 2: a column of all the things you want from God.

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Speaker 2: You know, just do that throughout the course of the day.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, run down the list of all

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Speaker 2: the things you're asking God for, all the things you're

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Speaker 2: praying for, the things you aspire to, what your dreams,

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Speaker 2: your visions.

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Speaker 6: Whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: Just make a column a list of all those things.

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Speaker 2: Let's make three lists. And then the second list, I

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Speaker 2: want you to make a list of everything that you've

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Speaker 2: been asking God for, so I guess that could be

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Speaker 2: a little bit of the same. But this third list,

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Speaker 2: I want you to do a check off point. I

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Speaker 2: want you to do a make a list of everything

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Speaker 2: that God has given you that you've asked him for.

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Speaker 2: Just think about it like that for a second. I

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Speaker 2: may be explaining a little wrong right now, but I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna pull it together for you. Make a list of

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Speaker 2: everything you're asking God for.

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Speaker 6: Just just listed, you know.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, it's a dream board. You can call it that.

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Speaker 2: I got one. It's a vision board. You know everybody's

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Speaker 2: got something you hope for. Make a list.

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Speaker 2: I want you to make another list of everything you've

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Speaker 2: asked God for that he's given you already. See this

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Speaker 2: is a good list because sometimes and what I've been

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Speaker 2: on my dream board. I keep focusing so hard sometimes

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Speaker 2: I keep focusing so hard on the things that I

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Speaker 2: And I'm currently in the middle of that situation. And

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Speaker 2: but that's life. I started thinking of the blessings that

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Speaker 2: to always thank God for a roof over my head

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Speaker 2: Now I can't ever go back to him and go, hey, man,

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Speaker 2: really do appreciate this roof over my head because there

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Speaker 2: But see, so every morning I wake up, I gotta

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Speaker 2: I got to look back and go, Man, that was time, Steve,

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Speaker 2: But see, we forget what God has done for us

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Speaker 2: because in our column, the won't column, the need column,

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Speaker 2: that He's already fulfilled in our life. You've got to

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Speaker 2: I know we humans, we're not gonna do that. I don't.

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Speaker 2: But you've got to take inventory of your life to say, hey,

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Speaker 8: You know?

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Speaker 2: And remember something else too. Change is good, but change

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Speaker 2: is challenging. Accept the challenge that it is. Look a

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Speaker 2: lot of you come up to me all the time

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Speaker 2: and say, Steve Man, thank you and boy you in

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Speaker 2: the morning. Man, I really be needing that well, like

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Speaker 6: Is for me.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm in a sharing position where I can

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Speaker 2: open up and if I just if I just quit

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Speaker 2: I can maybe some of me that's happening to me

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Speaker 2: this in me. That's why I use myself as an example,

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Speaker 2: because man, I'm catching it too, y'all. I ain't perfect either.

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Speaker 2: So for those of you that come up to me

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Speaker 2: because man, I need these conversations from God. I need

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Speaker 2: God to continue to strengthen me, to show me the way,

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Speaker 2: to help me understand what's happening to me. And see,

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Speaker 2: as we've all those of you who have made the

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Speaker 2: of you who's made the decision to change, change is

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Speaker 2: a challenge, and accept the challenge because it's gonna come.

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Speaker 2: Because right out of that here come to haters. Here

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Speaker 2: they come people you don't even know, discussing your life

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Speaker 2: and your change. If God see you really really mean

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Speaker 2: what you say in spite of what they say about you,

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Speaker 2: God will raise you above the freight. He'll keep promoting you.

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Speaker 2: He'll keep blessing you. He'll keep moving you up. He

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Speaker 2: will use you as a show off point. He'll show

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Speaker 2: you off, man, He'll he'll make you look good the

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Speaker 2: people man, who wish you'd fall all day long. And

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Speaker 2: so to all your haters, all your haters will end

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Speaker 2: up just watching you rise. Man, They will watch you

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Speaker 2: continue to grow. That's what God will do for you. Man,

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Speaker 2: you can fool the world, but you can't fool God.

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Speaker 2: God know your heart, He know your every thought.

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Speaker 9: Man, you're listening to the seed Harvey. Morning shall.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, Today is today that the Lord has made.

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Speaker 2: Let us rejoice and be glad in it. That pretty

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Speaker 2: much sums it up. But in case you don't understand

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Speaker 2: what that's saying is you know when it says that,

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Speaker 2: that's you know how factual that is. Today is today

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Speaker 2: that the Lord has made. Can anybody else claim that?

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Speaker 2: Ever seen anybody body say that. Can't nobody produce it?

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Speaker 2: This is all God produced. Man, He does it now

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Speaker 2: our job. All he say to us is rejoice, be

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Speaker 2: glad in it. Be grateful that you hear you made

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Speaker 2: another one. You might be missing somebody.

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Speaker 4: I know I am.

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Speaker 2: You probably are too, But man, ain't you glad you

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Speaker 2: still here? Let's take advantage of it. Let's do something

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Speaker 2: great today. Let's ay y'all make some space in your

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Speaker 2: life for God. Spend a little bit of time with

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Speaker 2: a A an abiding piece in yourself that you didn't

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Speaker 2: even know could exist. It's it's an uncommon piece, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it is. We get into that, lady though, this deceive

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Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monic

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Speaker 2: and the legend that is Nephew tumbout Junior Junior steal out. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you right well when you bring it a

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Speaker 2: little back in here though, I'm just letting you know,

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Speaker 2: huh yeah, whenever he comes back.

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Speaker 9: Though, But you're not saying we can't take off. You're

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Speaker 9: not saying that this is not for a month.

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Speaker 1: Excuse why does he talk every time.

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Speaker 3: Show?

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Speaker 6: I can say what I want.

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Speaker 1: You don't come to workout?

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Speaker 6: I come, I don't come on Monday, missed the mont

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Speaker 6: so now.

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Speaker 1: And you missed more than just Monday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know he gonna and all this here

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Speaker 2: and I don't care.

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Speaker 8: I just.

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Speaker 2: I'm a pressing.

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Speaker 9: But but back to my question, though, you don't mind

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Speaker 9: if we take off? What is your problem with Junior?

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Speaker 2: That's what I want to know, because he ain't told

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Speaker 2: nobody he was going to take.

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Speaker 4: Off this show.

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Speaker 10: We did, we know?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, who tell you told me, you told me, tell

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Speaker 11: you Tommy.

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Speaker 12: I'm getting ready to take vacations. What ye, But he

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Speaker 12: ain't said he was taking the He ain't on vacation.

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Speaker 12: But Steve, let's go back to nephew. We gotta run

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Speaker 2: And we on vacation. No, he feels that way, he

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Speaker 1: We're not doing that, sir.

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Speaker 6: Is this something you want to do? Cherley and call

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Speaker 9: If I do, I know who to call and it's

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Speaker 9: not you believeable if you've ruined this man?

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Speaker 2: He called Monica, he tell her, he tell Monica everything.

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Speaker 9: Well, she's an executive producer.

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Speaker 6: You're talking about June.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, okay, he told somebody.

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Speaker 9: So now after the fact, coming up in thirty two

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Speaker 6: Is he still getting his check too?

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Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving,

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Speaker 9: It is time now for the nephew to run that

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Speaker 3: You are ready, Yes, do your job. I'm doing my

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Speaker 3: is also knowing when people want to go on vacation.

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Speaker 1: No, sir, vacation regular.

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Speaker 10: Alay.

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Speaker 3: This right here is called church fees. Church fees. All right,

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Speaker 3: we got some church fees. We're going down there to

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Speaker 8: Cat dog, if you would hello, Hello, I'm trying to

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Speaker 13: Hey you got her?

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Speaker 8: Hey, how you doing this? Is? Uh? This is brother

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Speaker 14: Hey, brother Glenn, how you doing.

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Speaker 8: I'm good, I'm good, I'm real good. Did you enjoy

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Speaker 14: Oh, I enjoyed it past the pasta brought it down?

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Speaker 8: Yes, Oh my god. That was a word for me,

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Speaker 14: So what do I owe the pleasure of this call?

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Speaker 8: I wanted to give you some information that the that

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Speaker 8: I didn't interrupt you, no.

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Speaker 8: Okay, well, you've seen me at the church quite a

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Speaker 14: I'm just trying to place it. I can't place it

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Speaker 8: But what Nevertheless, I just wanted here's here's what's going on. Uh. Now,

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Speaker 14: Yes, I know, I'm sorry about that, but you know, yes,

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Speaker 8: So okay, okay, Well here's what's going on. The officials

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Speaker 14: That could not come at a worse time. I don't

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Speaker 14: I'm sorry, I'm sorry that we're late. I am We

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Speaker 14: are doing our best. I have three kids. I have

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Speaker 14: to get the church on time and to tell your book,

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Speaker 14: when we get there, it's doing praise in worship, I

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Speaker 8: Sorry, I know it's not pass is not up yet,

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Speaker 8: like I said, this is a warning call, you know,

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Speaker 14: I can't even get in church with Okay, look I

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Speaker 14: But I need to tell you something. We are me

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Speaker 8: Okay, I mean, and I understand, I understand. I sund

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Speaker 14: But why are you called if you understand? Why are

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Speaker 8: Well I didn't at first of all, I didn't know

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Speaker 8: what you were going Why are you rasing yourvo Why

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Speaker 8: You know what? You know what?

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Speaker 14: I think? You're raising your voice at you? How dare

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Speaker 14: you call me about this? About a feat And I'm

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Speaker 14: raise them up is the way they should go, just

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Speaker 14: do this and why I'm lated why we got to

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Speaker 14: catch the bus. Do you understand why that is, brother Gleed, No,

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Speaker 14: I do not. That is because they.

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Speaker 8: To their daddy ain't And yes, so it's Tracy. You

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Speaker 14: Oh Jesus help me, Jesus help.

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Speaker 9: Me, Jesus.

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Speaker 8: Okay, listen, here's the deal. All I can do is

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Speaker 8: and get that a little earlier. But but I'm just

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Speaker 8: stating the facts that as of next Sunday, if you

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Speaker 14: You know what, Well, maybe next Sunday I just won't

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Speaker 14: be there, how about that? You know I'm already working

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Speaker 14: six days week. The only day I have office Sunday.

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Speaker 14: I've been breaking breaking my back. Do you know I

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Speaker 8: But you're coming in late, though, Tracy, you know what.

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Speaker 14: You know what late ain't bad. Okay, I might be delayed,

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Speaker 14: Then I have to get on the bus to myself

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Speaker 14: Daddy ain't doing nothing nothing for them. Do you understand

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Speaker 14: what I'm saying to you? I need to under that.

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Speaker 14: Number one, it's what hit daddy. For two, he in jail,

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Speaker 14: been there about five years he ain't And daddy number

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Speaker 14: I ain't heard from that. Tras listen in about seven

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Speaker 10: You don't.

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Speaker 14: You don't even understand what I'm going through. You don't

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Speaker 8: There is one more thing, sister Tracy, that the church

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Speaker 14: Know what One more thing does the church want me

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Speaker 1: This?

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Speaker 14: I fifteen dollars.

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Speaker 8: The Church just wants you to know that. This is

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Speaker 8: Patrece got me the prank phone call you.

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Speaker 14: I am gonna walk una, are you? You know I

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Speaker 8: Uh? Your sister got you, all right?

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Speaker 14: I got something for her? How about that?

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Speaker 8: She told me? She said, she tell my sister Carbroos down.

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Speaker 8: She says, she got these kids you over are struggling

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Speaker 8: She wanted you to put us. She wanted to put

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Speaker 14: Well, you want being settled out. I'm gonna have to

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 14: Wow, now that I know you y'all were joking and

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Speaker 8: Hey, I gotta ask you something, baby. What's the baddest

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Speaker 8: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

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Speaker 14: The Steve Harvin Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Babies thanking that you Coming up next, It is as

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Speaker 9: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Then make that house a home. Now, all that effort

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Speaker 9: She apologized and said she just moved into the area

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Speaker 8: Now?

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Speaker 2: the gun. Somebody cuts in front of you at the line,

443
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Speaker 2: you know, you cuss them out. The lady apologized, could

444
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Speaker 2: have had a lot on her mind. Wasn't paying attention.

445
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Speaker 2: Is it really that important?

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Speaker 4: Really?

447
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Speaker 2: And I don't think it is. Now she your neighbor,

448
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Speaker 2: and I think what you should do is not this

449
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Speaker 2: is where you were, just where you need to lie. Yeah,

450
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Speaker 2: listen to me, Hey, listen, I was having a horrible

451
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Speaker 2: date day and I just I wasn't myself and I

452
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Speaker 2: won't apologize to you and welcome you to the neighborhood.

453
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Speaker 2: And I'm sorry. I didn't want us to get off

454
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Speaker 2: to a bad start. You see, you're probably a wonderful person,

455
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Speaker 2: and I'm not normally like that, So please forgive me

456
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Speaker 2: that that wouldn't hurt at all, that that's something I

457
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Speaker 2: like it. Yeah, I mean, why create an enemy when

458
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Speaker 2: you can live.

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Speaker 9: In peace your next door neighbor? No, well, you know

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Speaker 9: want that all right? Moving on to Jaretha and Memphis,

461
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Speaker 9: Jaretha writes, my husband and I were at a house party.

462
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Speaker 9: I was ready to go, but he wasn't, so he

463
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Speaker 9: said I could go home and he would get a ride.

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Speaker 9: The next day, he told me that I'm too antisocial

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Speaker 9: for him? What was wrong with me leaving that boring party?

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Speaker 2: Hey, no, it wasn't none wrong with you leaving it.

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Speaker 2: He's got to call you anti social because he wanted

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Speaker 2: to stay. I don't even know why. He should have

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Speaker 2: just said, hey, you could take the car come later,

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Speaker 2: and then he didn't even have to bring it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he really didn't mind you leave it at all.

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Speaker 2: Now you go ahead, I'm want to stay here at

473
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Speaker 2: this house party jumping something in his head was right

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Speaker 2: after how party, and you got being now was gonna

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Speaker 2: straighten it right on out?

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Speaker 4: Oh man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then coming in and putting you on the defense.

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Speaker 2: You too anti social. What was wrong with me leaving

479
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Speaker 2: that boiling party? Nothing?

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Speaker 7: Nothing?

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Speaker 9: So would you have left with your wife if she.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to go?

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Speaker 6: I can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't.

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Speaker 9: I can't send my wife home, right, that's my husband exactly.

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Speaker 2: That that's not how because if something happened and I'm

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Speaker 2: not there, I'm not sending my wife out at night

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Speaker 2: to my go ahead, I'll get a ride. I'm not

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Speaker 2: finna do that. Send my wife home, I'm not dang.

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Speaker 1: My husband would have been like I've been ready, I

491
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Speaker 1: ain't want.

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Speaker 9: To go, exactly. I was waiting on you. Her name

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Speaker 9: is Daretha. So are they older or you think they're older?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And who the hell go to house party? I mean

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Speaker 2: people go, old people. Young people had rent out aired

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Speaker 2: Bee's and throw parties. I'm not throwing no house party.

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Speaker 6: No more.

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Speaker 9: Okay, all right? So he should have left with his wife,

501
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Speaker 9: all right, and not chastise her when he got home.

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Speaker 9: All right. Moving on to Akbar in Naples, Achbar rights.

503
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Speaker 9: I've been saving money to upgrade my wife's diamond. Our

504
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Speaker 9: oldest daughter fell and chipped her too, and she asked

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Speaker 9: me to borrow a lot of money to get it fixed.

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Speaker 9: If I do that, then the ring will have to wait.

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Speaker 9: What's more important, the ring or the too?

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Speaker 2: Well, when your wife is talking to your little chip

509
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Speaker 2: two daughter explaining huw you know how you might still

510
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Speaker 2: be able to get a man with your mouth looking

511
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Speaker 2: all raggedy and everything, cause you tell that wool machine

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Speaker 2: and getting that ring. That baby didn't have a ragged knout.

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Speaker 2: Now my question is how old is you? The oldest

514
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Speaker 2: daughter is probably how old you think it?

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Speaker 9: His name is for.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, so now he give her the money, get her

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Speaker 2: to fix.

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Speaker 9: A lot.

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Speaker 2: I'm just say this right here. I don't really know

520
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Speaker 2: much about innistry.

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Speaker 1: Work is expensive, no instrument.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know what it costs. I'll tell

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Speaker 2: you right now. You have got to get your mouth fixed.

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Speaker 2: You got to do that. Yeah, okay, you can explain

525
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Speaker 2: that little cut on your arm and all that hen

526
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Speaker 2: and how you got the back of your legs when

527
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Speaker 2: you as a baby, it's sitting have been there with

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Speaker 2: that hole in the middle of your head that ain't

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Speaker 2: put that chip on it.

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Speaker 6: Into your hand.

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Speaker 2: If you're gonna cut your tongue on it, you can

532
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Speaker 2: start a math. Get your tongue in that space. You

533
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Speaker 2: could do that that.

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Speaker 8: It.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you could just put your tongue over that chip

536
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Speaker 2: every time you smile. Yeah, yeah, but you got to

537
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Speaker 2: get your tooth fixed.

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Speaker 9: But he's torn though. He wants to know which one,

539
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Speaker 9: the tooth or the ring.

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Speaker 1: CLO said the tooth.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what going there and ask your wife

542
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Speaker 2: should we do? I'm trying to save upgrade this ring,

543
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Speaker 2: but our daughter need a new tooth.

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Speaker 8: What what?

545
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Speaker 2: How you want to handle this baby?

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Speaker 6: Then you have no business falling right?

547
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Speaker 1: She didn't look what she don't want you where she

548
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Speaker 1: was going?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you need my ring? Size?

551
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Speaker 8: Baby?

552
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Speaker 9: Goudahead?

553
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Speaker 4: It's bling up.

554
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: She needs to get to saving up. Yeah, yeah, all.

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Speaker 9: Right, last one, last one, CLO. This is from Wan

556
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Speaker 9: in Denton. Wan writes, I was having a water balloon

557
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Speaker 9: fight with my seven year old son, and my wife

558
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 9: ran outside and said, I can't hit her baby that

559
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Speaker 9: hard with the balloon. As long as is I'm not

560
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Speaker 9: aiming for his head, it's all good, Right? How do

561
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Speaker 9: I get my wife to stop babying our son?

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Speaker 2: I busted is there in that head with that water balloon?

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Speaker 2: My boy before I've been knocked them out before. That's

564
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Speaker 2: the tar yet Yeah, I'm trying to hit you in

565
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Speaker 2: your head with this water balloon. Yeah, so you know,

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Speaker 2: stop but ladies, ladies, ladies, stop stop babying these boys.

567
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Speaker 2: Stop doing that. Stop.

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Speaker 9: So what should she have done? I mean, she's worried

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Speaker 9: about her little boy. He's only seven. It's water, but

570
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Speaker 9: water can be heavy, you know that, traveling at a

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Speaker 9: fast seed.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm surely that same thing she said when

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Speaker 2: she was up there looking at it. So he got

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Speaker 2: a hit with the water balloon? And so what did

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Speaker 2: the boy cry? And all the boy was out there laughing,

576
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Speaker 2: having fun.

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Speaker 1: It's that mother's son.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he came out.

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Speaker 15: In her hair. He would have got it, all right. CEO,

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Speaker 15: all right, coming up of the Okay, coming up at the.

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Speaker 9: Top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for

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Speaker 9: you right after this. You're listening hard morning show. Essence

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Speaker 9: recently announced that Carolyn Wanga has stepped down as president

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Speaker 9: and CEO of Essence Ventures. We all remember this past summer,

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Speaker 9: Wanga received a lot of backlash and online scrutiny about

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Speaker 9: this year's Essence Fest. Uh Sundial Technology and Media Group,

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Speaker 9: parent company of Essence Ventures, released a statement that read

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Speaker 9: in part quote, we are profoundly grateful to Caroline for

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Speaker 9: her leadership, vision, and unwavering advocacy of Black women and culture.

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Speaker 9: The statement went on to say, Caroline has left an

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Speaker 9: indelible mark on Essence and Beyond and we celebrate them anyways.

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Speaker 9: She has amplified our mission and impact end quote. Wenga

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Speaker 9: has been on health lead and she will move on

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Speaker 9: to her next chapter of her life and career.

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Speaker 1: So there you go.

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Speaker 9: So we look forward to Essence Best next year then, yeah,

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Speaker 9: I mean, or will they skip a year?

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Speaker 4: See what you say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the regime that they had in that before Michelle E.

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Speaker 2: Banks and uh, the young sister that ran all the

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Speaker 2: booking and stuff, and that was a bad crew right there.

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Speaker 2: They've been on struggle ever since they left.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so they have some rebampping to do and maybe

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Speaker 5: talking to their readers and the festival goers and give

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Speaker 5: me back and see what they can do to bring

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Speaker 5: that magic back to Essence.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: And it was a big money maker for them as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tradition. We were there every year.

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Speaker 9: Uh huh every year yeah, yeah, Tommy yeah, and other

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Speaker 9: entertainment news, yeah, and other entertainment news. And then he'd

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Speaker 9: take off the following Monday for work. Remember that, Yeah,

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Speaker 9: Taylor Swift in Kansas City chief football star Travis Kelsey

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Speaker 9: are officially now engaged. The two started dating in the

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Speaker 9: summer of twenty twenty three. Taylor's engagement ring is a

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Speaker 9: square oval diamond known as an old mine, cut in

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Speaker 9: a gold bezel setting. President Trump, remember he once said

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Speaker 9: that he hated Taylor Smith Swift. Well, he commented on

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Speaker 9: the couple's engagement news. He said, quote, I wish him

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Speaker 9: a lot of Luck's up. Finally, pase, yes, just take congratulations, can.

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Speaker 1: Not take the high road.

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Speaker 6: Ever, you don't know what I say.

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Speaker 9: Sake congratulations and best wishes. That's what you say, all right?

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Speaker 4: Finally.

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Speaker 9: In trending headline news, the NAACP is suing the state

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Speaker 9: of Texas over a new electoral map. This is according

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Speaker 9: to the NAACP. The lawsuit accuses Texas of racially motivated

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Speaker 9: gerrymandering to silence black communities for next year's midterm elections.

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Speaker 9: The state of Texas is only forty percent white, but

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Speaker 9: white voters now control over seventy three percent of the

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Speaker 9: state's congressional seats. Derek Johnson, President and CEO of the

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Speaker 9: ACP set all this in the statement. So they're suing

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Speaker 9: the state of Texas.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Texas knew exactly what they're doing and they're

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Speaker 2: not going to change it.

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Speaker 9: So with the lawsuit, Yeah, see them all.

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Speaker 1: Let's go and don't get out of the vote. Let's go, y'a.

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Speaker 1: I gotta register to vote. I mean get out of vote.

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Speaker 9: You do, man, even though you feel hopeless, sometimes you

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Speaker 9: still got to.

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Speaker 2: Exercise that right right, I'm not begging nobody else to vote.

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Speaker 2: No more.

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Speaker 1: Look at his face.

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Speaker 9: You're not good yet. You don't want to bet?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't understand why they cannot vote. I

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Speaker 2: don't understand how you cannot understand the significance because not

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Speaker 2: voting is not participating. Not participating is laying down and

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Speaker 2: dying in it. And they get to do exactly what

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Speaker 2: they ain't.

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Speaker 9: No, but no, they're just as frustrated as you are

651
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Speaker 9: because they don't see the change they want when they vote.

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Speaker 9: That's the issue.

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Speaker 2: But they don't vote. See you hit the crazy part.

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Speaker 2: You sit up here, because after the election is over,

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Speaker 2: we get the numbers.

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Speaker 9: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: You complain.

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00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 2: About it. Don't go the way when you vote but

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Speaker 2: but then when the results come out, we find out

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Speaker 2: that you didn't vote.

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Speaker 9: But then we still are staying responsibilbility on this platform,

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Speaker 9: steve to encourage people to vote. I mean, no matter

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Speaker 9: what we have to do, we still have to do

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Speaker 9: our part in encouraging them to vote. We have to

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Speaker 9: vote and encourage others to vote.

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Speaker 2: That Latinos for Trump? How that work out? I don't

667
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 2: even understand, man, how you don't even understand all these

668
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: blacks for Trump? How that worked out for you?

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Speaker 9: What?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 6: What part of what?

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Speaker 2: What part of this that you don't you get? What makes?

673
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Speaker 6: For years?

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Speaker 3: You know, people every day at their jobs, they cause

675
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Speaker 3: every reparat.

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Speaker 2: They're a huge of Latin Tino was voted for Trump.

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00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: A huge percentage of black men voted for Trump. Think

678
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Speaker 2: the number is twenty eight percent. Now that's that's what

679
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 2: And listen, man, we do we we I don't know.

680
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 2: I don't know how we don't understand this.

681
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Speaker 5: What you vote didn't But if your vote didn't mean anything,

682
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Speaker 5: why they're doing all this redistricting, changing electoral map?

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Speaker 9: That part they don't that's all that's the disconnect. They

684
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 9: don't get that part.

685
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeahd in the sand and then pull it out and

686
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: want something to be different. Yeah, I ain't voting. I

687
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 2: ain't going down there and vote.

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Speaker 9: Okay, bro sister, that's the vote for the opponents when

689
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 9: you don't do that. But we still got to encourage him, Steve,

690
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 9: don't don't get too frustrated.

691
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Speaker 1: We still have to do it. Look it all.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty.

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Speaker 9: Minutes after the hour is.

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Speaker 2: Today all right?

696
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 9: Ispen's Ryan Clark is doubling down on his comments that

697
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 9: Chris Brown is more talented than Michael Jackson.

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Speaker 16: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 9: Ispn Sports media personality Ryan Clark is doubling down. Remember,

709
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Speaker 9: I guess a few months ago when he made the comments,

710
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 9: this was a few years ago. I guess that Chris

711
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 9: Chris Brown was more talented than Michael Jackson. And it

712
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 9: got everybody up in the arms. Everyone was, you know,

713
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 9: come on. Anyway. Ryan was a recent guest on the

714
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 9: Pivot podcast and he doubled down on that statement and said,

715
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 9: Chris Brown is the most talented artist that has ever lived. Okay,

716
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 9: I mean, it's your opinion. It's okay, ever, clock go ahead.

717
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: I like Ryan Clark, but y'all sportscasters need to learn.

718
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Speaker 6: From each other.

719
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Speaker 2: Had that same compassion when he went at that Rihanna Beyonce, Yeah, it.

720
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Speaker 6: Just do sports.

721
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Speaker 4: Dog is in your lane.

722
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Speaker 2: Chris Brown is so incredible. That boy right here, man

723
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 2: is everything. And then Son, yes, yes, but the magnitude

724
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Speaker 2: of stardom, and I think you could ask Chris Brown this,

725
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 2: it's not even a comparison. It's not even close. It's

726
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 2: not it's not even close.

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Speaker 9: He's like Michael Jackson's biggest fans.

728
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, he is.

729
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 2: I mean the boy he gets emotional when he talk

730
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: about the man Michael Jackson, and he is Chris Brown

731
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: is I can't take nothing away from I've never seen

732
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Speaker 2: a performer like this.

733
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he's on another level. His tour is selling

734
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 5: out all over the country. Everybody wants to go. He's

735
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Speaker 5: a bad boy like.

736
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Speaker 2: Michael Jackson, sold out the world. You can't even understand.

737
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 2: It's it's the Ron Jordan's argument. Yeah, it's it's it's

738
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 2: it's Chris Brown in this era. He is the guy.

739
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 2: He is the guy for sure. But I don't know nobody,

740
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 2: nobody will ever get to the magnitude of stardom, popularity

741
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Speaker 2: and all around the money, made the business, the album

742
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Speaker 2: soul of Michael Jackson. And you're free to have that opinion.

743
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: I think Chris Brown is everything. I can't take nothing

744
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Speaker 2: away for her.

745
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Speaker 1: Yeah he's firing.

746
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that Michael Jackson throusements he started.

747
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Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, but he's still saying Ryan

748
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 9: Clark saying that Chris Brown is the most talented artist

749
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 9: that has ever lived.

750
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 1: All right, Ran, Yeah, that is his opinion, all right.

751
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we

752
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 9: will check your voicemail. Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine.

753
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 9: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this,

754
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 9: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

755
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 9: to check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine,

756
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 9: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, call and leave

757
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 9: a message. You just might hear your call on the air.

758
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:36,800
Speaker 9: You ready, Steve?

759
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 6: Yep? All right? Excuse me? Yep?

760
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 9: Okay, that was a tiny bit better. All right, let's

761
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 9: hear from Roy and Shreveport.

762
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 17: Hey, good morning, Steve. Now, my name is Roy, called

763
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 17: him Treeport, Louisiana. My question is, how can you live

764
00:41:55,560 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 17: amongst people? How can you live amongst people and invironment

765
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 17: and in the world what people portray to be help

766
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 17: and to turn around and stay if you're right in

767
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 17: your back, how can you sleep at night knowing family

768
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 17: is not going to be there, and knowing you've got

769
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 17: nobody to turn to. How do they expect us black

770
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 17: men to live in society and not do what we

771
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 17: have to do for our children. Even if to me

772
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 17: it's getting down and dirty, I don't understand it because

773
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 17: from where I come from, from my neck of the

774
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 17: woods man, it's no.

775
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 9: Help down here periods.

776
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 6: Why everybody leaving?

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Speaker 17: I just needed some words of encouragement, man, because I'm

778
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 17: a father that's been through a lot, and that's trying

779
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 17: to do the right thing, and seems like everywhere I've

780
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,919
Speaker 17: been turning man, you know, reaching out for just even

781
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,959
Speaker 17: a few words and encouragement. Man, it's been a bump

782
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 17: the road, so you know, and I thank you for

783
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 17: everything I've been seeing. You know, your real inspiration to

784
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 17: me on TV. And you know, I appreciate everything you do.

785
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 17: That was the only thing I needed to know. Man,

786
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 17: How I'm only thirty three. How am I supposed to

787
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 17: keep with the things that's going on around me?

788
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 2: Thank you? Yeah, Hey, I feel you. I know exactly

789
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: where you're at. Manhood is difficult. It's very difficult. It's

790
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 2: fatherhood makes another set of challenges. On top of that,

791
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: the responsibility of being a man is hard. But Roy,

792
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 2: you can do it. You can do it because you

793
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: have been chosen for the role. See, you didn't accidentally

794
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: become a father. God, don't make mistakes. You are a

795
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: father because you had to produce these children that you

796
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: are now responsible for. Don't let the devil get into

797
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 2: your head and start making you think that you got

798
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 2: to do something sideways to make it happen. See the

799
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 2: devil users all types of tricks. Look, man, stop looking

800
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: for support from people who ain't feel they role. You

801
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: know the Usually the people around you are not fulfilling

802
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: roles in their life. You can't expect them to supper

803
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: your fulfilling of your role in your life. So stop

804
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: looking for it. See you don't get disappointed if you

805
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 2: don't look for it. Stop expecting people. Your help will

806
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 2: come directly from the most reliable source available, and that

807
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 2: is God Almighty. Now, one of the reasons that your

808
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 2: phone call got picked is because you needed to hear

809
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 2: this message right here that God knows what you're up against,

810
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 2: and God is available. If Steve ain't available, if your

811
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Speaker 2: father ain't available, and if the support system around you

812
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 2: ain't available, God is available. Twenty four seven. Keep your

813
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: head up, put your eyes on the prize, and do

814
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 2: the right thing. It's hard to do the right thing

815
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: when the easy thing seem like it's right there and

816
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 2: you can go get this money.

817
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

818
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Speaker 2: But if you go get this money and it don't

819
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: go right, which it normally doesn't, children who have counted

820
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 2: on you now they daddy behind the wall. Do you

821
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 2: know how many men sit behind that wall. Made that

822
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 2: decision you made for the sake of their family and

823
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 2: ended up costing them the very thing that they was

824
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: trying to save and support. You can't do that, bruh.

825
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 2: So now not only can you not support them, you're

826
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Speaker 2: not even there to walk them to school and hug them.

827
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 2: Your time that you're investing in these children are much

828
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: more valuable than you can possibly know. The fact that

829
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 2: you are there and they can say I'm go tell

830
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 2: my daddy and you can walk them to school or

831
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: be there for them. I know, financially it can get

832
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 2: tough for you out here. I know this, but that's

833
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 2: something some talent that you have. I don't know. If

834
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 2: it's washing cars, detailing, I don't know, if it's rims.

835
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, if it's working down at the tire store.

836
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. But whatever you can do, and sometimes

837
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 2: you got fake until you make it. Man, You got

838
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 2: to take a job that you don't really care to

839
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: have until you get to one you won't. But do

840
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 2: the right thing, brother, and stay on the course. Don't

841
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: let the double fool you. Don't let him get you

842
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 2: down that wrong path. Man.

843
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 9: All right, Steve, coming up next to it is the

844
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 9: Nephew and today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're

845
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 9: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

846
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 9: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,

847
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 9: it's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

848
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 9: I'm not as strong as I think I am. We'll

849
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 9: get into that find out what that's all about in

850
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 9: just a few I'm not as strong as I think

851
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 9: I am. Well, right now, the Nephew is here with

852
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 9: today's prank phone call. What you got for us, nep

853
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 9: Because you're as stupid as we think you are, you

854
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 9: really are.

855
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 6: I'm trying and I'm trying to really make you proud

856
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 6: on that. Today. I really.

857
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: Deep into archives of the Prancinary Book. You know, it's

858
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 3: the prank the What prankt the Prankinary, the Prankinary, the

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00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 3: Dictionary the prank No, not the Dictionary.

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Speaker 6: With the Prankinary, the Prankinary Book.

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Speaker 3: And I go deep into the archives of that, and

862
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: page three hundred and twenty one you will find Boogie snitching.

863
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 3: Boogie is snitching. This is in the Prankinary. So let's

864
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Speaker 3: just let's take a listen. Ketch Dog, if you would,

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Speaker 3: from the prankin eary, thank you, Hello man, I speak

866
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 3: to Boogie. Yeah this hey boogie, it's KB. Let me

867
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 3: ask you something, man. How you get out of jail

868
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: before Marcus got out of jail? How y'all go to

869
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 3: jail at the same time, but you get out a

870
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 3: month before him and he's still in there.

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Speaker 10: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

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00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 8: Hold what is this?

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00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 6: This KB?

874
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 3: This Marcus brother? Tell me how you get out of jail?

875
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 3: But Mark is still in there and you've been out

876
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 3: over a month now.

877
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 10: They say you hold up, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold.

878
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 3: On, No, they say you snitching, buggie. That's what's going on.

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00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 3: You up in there, snitching?

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00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 10: Hold on brother? Hold on you so slowing down? Slow

881
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 10: it down a little bit. Ain't hold up? You know what?

882
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 10: I really don't need to be having this conversation with you,

883
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 10: But you come at.

884
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 8: Me like this.

885
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 10: It's called bail?

886
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: How you how you?

887
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 3: How you out on bail? But Mark is still in there?

888
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 10: Tell me that, buggy man, how you gonna call me

889
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 10: with you know what?

890
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 8: You know what?

891
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 10: I ain't s in the trip with you, but you

892
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 10: now this, hold on, let me hold on, let me

893
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 10: pull it over right.

894
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 3: All I know is they the one saying you the

895
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 3: one that snitched on my brother and that's why he's

896
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 3: still in there and you out.

897
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 10: I don't know what you're getting this from, but I'm

898
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 10: gonna tell you what. I had to go to work.

899
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 10: I need to get the guy out of there. But

900
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 10: you ain't. You ain't hearing me. I went to jail too, bucket.

901
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: You're gonna mess around and get y'all what for snitching?

902
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 2: Man?

903
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: Because that's what you've been out there doing.

904
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 10: Mag What cause you talking about?

905
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 3: You've been out there snitching. That's why you out, and

906
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 3: my brother Marcus is still in there.

907
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 8: You you know what?

908
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 10: You know what it's called. Damn, that's what this car

909
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 10: is called. Bell. I had to go to work. I

910
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 10: don't know what you tripping on.

911
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 6: I'm tripping on?

912
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 3: Is that the fact that you're out and my brother

913
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 3: ain't out. He's still in there. No, I'm gonna tell

914
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 3: you something. I'm looking for you, buggy, You hear me.

915
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 10: I'm looking for you, man, But you but you know

916
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 10: you know where I'm at. You know where?

917
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 8: You know what?

918
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 10: Since you since you run around here like a little

919
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 10: it's like he is. Let me tell you what happened.

920
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 10: Let me tell you where. All I want to do

921
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 10: is go give me the bill. I'm jump in the car.

922
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 10: And then I was getting your mama some cigarettes. So

923
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 10: why are you coming at me like that? Okay, come

924
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 10: in the car with him, and then certain phase up one.

925
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 10: I tell him, now, don put that out. We just

926
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 10: going around the corner. He go here, stop putting it

927
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 10: out in the car. He throw to stop the one

928
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 10: and now we get pulled over, telling y'all, I jumped

929
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 10: out the car. Tell it all. I don't got with this.

930
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: Who was smoking? You a marker?

931
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 10: I don't even smoke. No, I had to go to work.

932
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 10: I go to work. I can't deal with that. I

933
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 10: told them dudes to put it out. Lord Porto, they

934
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 10: searching the car. How the hell you gonna be riding

935
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 10: like that? And Lord pull you on with they pop off.

936
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 8: In the trunk.

937
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 10: You gotta figure speak a box that back then when

938
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 10: no wires on? Now the hell you figure I'm a snitch.

939
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 10: You don't take no up scientists and know it. You

940
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 10: got to back there, Hell you guy, there main't them

941
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 10: me in that drinking water out of toilet. That ain't

942
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 10: them come at me that like that. You you won't

943
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 10: come in. You know exactly where I'm at.

944
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,760
Speaker 3: So just cause they got you up in there drinking

945
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 3: water out of tart, you gonna come up and start

946
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 3: snitching on everybody.

947
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 8: You know what? You you?

948
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 10: You guy had to go to work. Hell the hell

949
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 10: I used all my money trying to get out of

950
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 10: there on something.

951
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 3: No, this can't be a but you got to go

952
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,320
Speaker 3: to work. That can't be. But you got to have

953
00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 3: some heart somewhere.

954
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 10: Don't coming at me like that. I was just going

955
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 10: to the stove.

956
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 3: Can I say something of you?

957
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 10: Man? I want to No, no, what you can't say?

958
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 10: Let me let me tell you, Let me give you,

959
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:11,839
Speaker 10: shoot you something says you gonna be the man. Man,

960
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 10: Let me shoot you a.

961
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 8: Thing or two.

962
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 10: Tell tell your brother just don't drop the soap.

963
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: No, he ain't gonna drop the soap. I'm I'm gonna

964
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,320
Speaker 3: tell my brother no, no, no, listen to me. No no, no,

965
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: no no, I'm gonna tell you don't.

966
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 10: And I'm gonna tell you this, but you got to

967
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 10: tell me what you got to tell me.

968
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell your boss everything about you, and then

969
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 3: you're gonna lose your little job.

970
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 10: Oh no, it can't be you can no. You know

971
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 10: what what you studying for me?

972
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 4: What you studying?

973
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 10: Fun? I can't believe you called me with no like this.

974
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 10: Just lose my number, don't call me. No, come on

975
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 10: behind this.

976
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 3: Let me say something to you right now, booget what

977
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 3: you got to say this? Nephew timing from the Steve

978
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,720
Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked?

979
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 10: Oh bug, didn't do me like that?

980
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 8: Dog?

981
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 10: You know this this ain't nothing to play with this

982
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 10: ain't this ain't nothing? Really play with it?

983
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 6: All right? Bugie man, I'm sorry.

984
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 3: Dog you okay, but no.

985
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 10: Aim dog? You know what I listened to you. Man,

986
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 10: you an't supposed to do no boy like that were

987
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 10: supposed to be. Really you don't do me like that?

988
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 10: May I put I put this dude on blest.

989
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 3: Hey, man, look at it your boy Shannon? He said, here,

990
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 3: your best friend, Sannon is the one that put me

991
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 3: up to this.

992
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 6: Dog.

993
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 10: May you know what is that?

994
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 3: Your boy? That's your best friend saying?

995
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 10: May man, why y'all do me like this? I'm gona

996
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 10: I'm gonna take care of Snnon I got him, may y'all?

997
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 8: I just know?

998
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 3: Hey, let me ask you this what is the baddest

999
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 3: radio show in the land?

1000
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 10: Oh man, the steam harming Morning Show?

1001
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 3: Did I get you?

1002
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: Did I get you?

1003
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 8: May?

1004
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 10: You know what you got me? That's all you know? Boy?

1005
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 10: You got you gotta hold a bunch of people, but

1006
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 10: now you want them?

1007
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 6: So what y'all think enough?

1008
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:12,919
Speaker 7: Yes?

1009
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that is a rough question.

1010
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, snitching.

1011
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,760
Speaker 6: You, thank you, thank you. I'm so grateful.

1012
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 3: All right, Tomorrow night is jumping off. You already know

1013
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 3: it is me and it's Bill Bellamy. It is the

1014
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 3: Bockwell Auditorium, Baby, Birmingham, Alabama. All Right, you see what

1015
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 3: I said. I said Birmingham, al Abama. All right, we're

1016
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 3: gonna sell right now. I'm gonna say it one more again,

1017
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 3: me Bill Bellay Week zero Comedy Jam all right. That

1018
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:54,399
Speaker 3: is in conjunction with the week z LL that's going

1019
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 3: down Legion Field. Yes, Carl, I just wanted to know.

1020
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 5: You know, Bill Bellamy told us yesterday on the show

1021
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 5: you had about sixty three wardrobe changes on the show.

1022
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 6: This yeah, yeah, it's not is not.

1023
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: Are you packing?

1024
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 12: Now?

1025
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:12,479
Speaker 1: How many which rocking I brought?

1026
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 6: I have twelve? I have twelve right now?

1027
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 3: Pack?

1028
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,720
Speaker 6: Yea, that's all my suitcase could.

1029
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 3: Take was twelve, So I have twelve to be able

1030
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 3: to make to make the wardrobe change.

1031
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:29,439
Speaker 6: Yes, I do have twelve, all right for one show? Well,

1032
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 6: I sweat, so yeah, I have twin I have twelve.

1033
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 6: I listen.

1034
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 3: I have twelve drawls. I have twelve. No show socks,

1035
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 3: I got twelve.

1036
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 6: I got twenty.

1037
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 9: You're showering and then changing.

1038
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 3: You just I have wet wipes. I got quat wipes. Sure,

1039
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 3: I quite done. You got wet wipes. You know, Queen White,

1040
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 3: they got me and wet wife. When you take when

1041
00:54:54,719 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 3: you use wet wipes due stupid, I like being stupid.

1042
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 3: Y'all come hang out with me man Bob Well Auditorium

1043
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 3: tomorrow night, Friday night, Oh my god, Birmingham, Alabama. We're

1044
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 3: gonna have some fun. Me and Bill Bellamy and a

1045
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 3: few others. Miss beat Miss b is a local out

1046
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 3: of Birmingham. She's gonna we're gonna throw on stage and

1047
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 3: let her do her thing, and we're gonna get buck wow.

1048
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 3: So he is what it is, all right, laying in

1049
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 3: the cut hunts Bill Alabama. We'll talk about that later. Oh,

1050
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 3: while I'm on stage, I'll also be on TV at

1051
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 3: the same time. All right, ready to love? Okay, everybody

1052
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 3: a hate.

1053
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 9: Nephew, thank you. Coming up next, it is my Strawberry letter,

1054
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 9: the subject I'm not as strong as I think I am.

1055
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 9: We'll get into that right after this.

1056
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 16: Hey, it's Carla Farroll kick that old mopping bucket aside.

1057
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean?

1058
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 4: And half the time?

1059
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: Make the swap to Swifper Power Mop, the only one.

1060
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,919
Speaker 5: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down

1061
00:55:59,080 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 5: dirt and grind.

1062
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: I like magic.

1063
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 16: With hundreds of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs

1064
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 16: sticky messes with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling

1065
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 16: great for hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop

1066
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,839
Speaker 16: smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop.

1067
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

1068
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 9: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting,

1069
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 9: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot

1070
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:38,479
Speaker 9: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

1071
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 9: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

1072
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 9: to read this one right here, right now, and you

1073
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 9: never know, it could be yours.

1074
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 6: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

1075
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 6: Begut it for you. Here it is strawberry letter.

1076
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 9: Thank you nephew. Subject. I'm not as strong as I

1077
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 9: think I am. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty six

1078
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 9: year old married man. My wife is forty, and we've

1079
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 9: always had great chemistry. Our marriage was fine until my

1080
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 9: wife's favorite cousin moved in with us. The cousin is

1081
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 9: a very bad influence on my wife, and they have

1082
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,439
Speaker 9: been out drinking every weekend this summer. My wife comes

1083
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 9: home drunk and passes out, and the cousin starts flirting

1084
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 9: with me as soon as she hears my wife's snoring.

1085
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 9: It all started with her playing in my dreads and

1086
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 9: then rubbing my beer, trying to hold hands when we

1087
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 9: were talking, and even running around in her bra and panties.

1088
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 9: She's thick, but it's nothing I can't handle. I feel

1089
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 9: like she wants attention, so I try not to be

1090
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 9: mean to her, but she's driving me crazy in my

1091
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 9: own home. I am afraid of what might happen if

1092
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 9: she catches me on a night that I've had a

1093
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 9: drink or too. I have dropped hints to my wife

1094
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 9: about this. I told my wife that her cousin doesn't

1095
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 9: go straight to bed when they get home from the club,

1096
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 9: so we watch movies together. All my wife said is

1097
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 9: that her cousin is a night owl and she loves

1098
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 9: staying up late. She didn't get what I was trying

1099
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 9: to say. My therapist said I should record every interaction

1100
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 9: with the cousin to protect myself. He also said I

1101
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 9: should tell the cousin it's time to move out because

1102
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 9: she is coming between me and my wife. I can't

1103
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 9: do that because then my wife will be upset with me.

1104
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 9: I have to separate myself from the temptation and the stress.

1105
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 9: Do I tell my wife that her cousin has flirted

1106
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 9: with me? What if her cousin lies and says I

1107
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 9: flirted with her too, I can't say that I didn't.

1108
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 9: How do I get the cousin to leave? Not that

1109
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 9: it matters now because she has clearly overstayed her welcome.

1110
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 9: But you didn't tell us why the cousin is there.

1111
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 9: I mean, usually when people move in, it's for particular reason,

1112
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 9: and there's a time limit on how long they should stay.

1113
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 9: So the why it's very important here but since we

1114
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 9: don't have that information, we'll deal with what we do have,

1115
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 9: and that is that the cousin does not need to

1116
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 9: spend another day at your house.

1117
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 2: Period.

1118
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 9: Your therapist is right. Your cousin is coming. The cousin

1119
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 9: is coming between you and your wife, and you can't

1120
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 9: ever let that happen in your house. You mentioned the

1121
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 9: word temptation and your letter temptation is real. This girl

1122
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 9: waits until your wife goes to sleep and makes sure

1123
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 9: she's snoring, then she goes after you with a vengeance.

1124
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 9: I mean, this isn't the saint, right. I mean, she's

1125
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 9: taking advantage of you guys, hospitality, of your kindness, especially yours. Okay,

1126
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 9: this is betrayal in every sense of the word. She

1127
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 9: is there to kill your marriage and destroy it. I mean,

1128
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 9: I don't know how you don't see this and do

1129
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 9: something about it immediately. So, if you love your wife

1130
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 9: and you don't want to lose her or your marriage,

1131
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 9: because that could be what's going to that's what's going

1132
00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 9: to happen here. You got to tell your wife that

1133
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 9: the cousin has to go, give the cousin an exit

1134
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 9: date immediately, and you should never let anybody bring havoc

1135
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 9: into your home. I don't think you're taking this seriously

1136
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 9: enough because you're enjoying the attention that you're getting and

1137
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 9: you're kind of flirting.

1138
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 4: With her too.

1139
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 9: But don't be stupid. You gotta talk to your wife.

1140
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 9: The two of you have to agree to get this

1141
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 9: girl out of your life and out of your house,

1142
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 9: a house before his cousin ruins everything.

1143
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 2: You don't need to risk this, Steve, listening to this

1144
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: letter that's written from a man. See, I see all

1145
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: the other stuff in this letter, and that's what makes

1146
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 2: this letter even crazier than you know. Sherley, This letter

1147
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 2: is crazier than you know, because I'm gonna tell y'all something. Man,

1148
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 2: I've been a man my whole life, and I know

1149
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 2: a lot of men, and once you're a man, there

1150
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 2: are rules to this and we all know the rules.

1151
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 2: But he acts like he don't.

1152
01:00:58,680 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 8: Now.

1153
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: He's forty six year old, married to his wife. Forty

1154
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 2: had great Kendrashey until his wife's favorite cousin moved and

1155
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 2: then they started having an influence on the wife. They

1156
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 2: were staying out, getting drunk every weekend this summer and

1157
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: pass out, and then the cousin starts flirting with me

1158
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 2: as soon as she hears my wife snoring. Now, then,

1159
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 2: he said, it all started with her playing in my

1160
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 2: dreads and then rubbing my bed, trying to hold my

1161
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 2: hand when we were talking, and even running around in

1162
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 2: her bra and panties. She's thick, but it's nothing I

1163
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 2: can't handle. Stop. Let's stop right here. Listen to me.

1164
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: A Mandon wrote this letter, y'all. He noticed woman playing

1165
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 2: in his dreads, in his bed, holding his hand, rubbing

1166
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 2: his chest, running round in her bra and panties. Dog,

1167
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 2: you know good and well, what's going on you? Forty six?

1168
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 2: This ain't a new movie, man, everybody know what this is?

1169
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 6: Right here?

1170
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 2: He says, she's thick, but it's nothing I can't handle. Well,

1171
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 2: that's not true, dog, and it's not true that you

1172
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 2: ain't handled it. It's something that happened here, and I'm

1173
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 2: gonna tell you why. In just a second. I feel

1174
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 2: like she wants attention. It ain't no feel like nothing.

1175
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 2: You know what's happening.

1176
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: So I try not to be mean to her.

1177
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 2: So oh, so now you accommodate. See, y'all, this is

1178
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 2: what I want you all to understand. I try not

1179
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 2: to be mean to her, but she's driving me crazy

1180
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 2: in my own home. That means now he's faced with

1181
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: the options because if it's driving him crazy, he don't

1182
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 2: know what to do.

1183
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 6: Man, I don't want it.

1184
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:51,920
Speaker 2: Man, she come a kill's penis on the trunk, playing

1185
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 2: my damn my bed. All this here, I'm telling y'all.

1186
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 2: When I come back, I'm gonna tell y'all what the

1187
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 2: real deal is. And then y'all y'all help.

1188
01:02:59,360 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 4: Me help here.

1189
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 9: Okay, we'll have part two of your response coming up

1190
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 9: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Steve Today's Strawberry

1191
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 9: letter subject is I'm not as strong as I think

1192
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 9: I am. We'll get back into it right after this.

1193
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:21,240
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1194
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,880
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1195
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,600
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01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:32,760
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1198
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,120
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1199
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,680
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1200
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,640
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1201
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:47,200
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1202
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:50,439
Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1203
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 9: The subject is I'm not as strong as I think

1204
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 9: I am.

1205
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 2: Well, no, bruh, bruh, br bruh. Nice title. I'm not

1206
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 2: as strong as I think I am and all this here,

1207
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,959
Speaker 2: but I'm a man watching a man write a letter.

1208
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna tell y'all. Let me go through this.

1209
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 2: Try to get through this quick because I gotta get

1210
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:09,919
Speaker 2: to this part. I want to tell y all about

1211
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 2: him and his wife been married for a while, she forty.

1212
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 2: Her favorite cousin came to stay with her at a

1213
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 2: great marriage. So she's a bad influence. They go out

1214
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 2: on weekends, get drunk, she come home and she pass out.

1215
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 2: And then when she gets drunk and pass out to cousin,

1216
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 2: that's a bad influence on the wife starts flirting with him,

1217
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 2: and she waits. She heard his wife snoring, and it

1218
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 2: all started when she started playing in his dredge, holding

1219
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 2: his hands and even running around in her broad and panics.

1220
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 2: She's thick, but it's nothing I can't handle. That's not true, dog,

1221
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 2: that's just not a true. But it's nothing I can't handle. Okay,

1222
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 2: So what you write the letter for and I'm gonna

1223
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 2: show you deeper why he ain't handling this well. But

1224
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 2: it's nothing I can't handle. I feel like she wants attention,

1225
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 2: so I try not to be mean to her. But

1226
01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 2: she driving me crazy in my own home. Wait a manue,

1227
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 2: hold up, brother, So you know what she trying to do.

1228
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 2: You don't want to be a mean to her, so

1229
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 2: you accommodating it. But it's driving you crazy in your

1230
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 2: own home. You know why he's driving him crazy because

1231
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 2: he considering it. It stays on his mind. He go

1232
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 2: when he ain't home, He goes, man, I got to

1233
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 2: go to the house. She in here, ain't no telling

1234
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 2: what's she going to? Now listen to me, and then

1235
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 2: he says, I'm afraid of what might happen if she

1236
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 2: catches me on the night that I've had a drink

1237
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 2: or too. Bruh, that's not true. Stop saying that. Stop

1238
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 2: trying to blame it on the alcohol. You thinking about

1239
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 2: this sober, because you wrote this letter sober. So this

1240
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 2: ain't nothing that might happen when you have a drink

1241
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 2: or two. This is something that's on your mind right

1242
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 2: now because she in your house driving you crazy. Now,

1243
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 2: unless you drunk all the time in your house, there

1244
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 2: would be no need for this letter. But you ain't

1245
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 2: drunk all the time, and it's on your mind. And

1246
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you how I know something didn't happen.

1247
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 2: I have drop hints to my wife about this. What

1248
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 2: all you gotta do is tell her, baby, listen to me.

1249
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,920
Speaker 2: I'm uncomfortable with your cousin being here because when you

1250
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 2: go to sleep at night, I don't like the way

1251
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 2: she acts behind your back, and I think I don't think.

1252
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 4: She no good.

1253
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 2: I want her out of our house. Period. That's all

1254
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 2: you got to say. But see this her little statement

1255
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 2: he made at the top. I'm not as strong as

1256
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 2: I think I am. No, bro, you're trying to play

1257
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 2: the both worlds. See I told my wife that her

1258
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 2: cousin don't go straight to bed when they get home

1259
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 2: from the club, so we watch movies together. All my

1260
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 2: wife said is her cousbinan the night out and she

1261
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 2: loves staying them life. She ain't get what I was

1262
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 2: trying to say. Hold up, though, how is a woman

1263
01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 2: not gonna get what you trying to say? You ain't

1264
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 2: said nothing. I assure you. Women ain't stupid when it

1265
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 2: comes to they man, they ain't stupid at all. Now

1266
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 2: they are act stupid because they start listening to their

1267
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 2: heart instead of they head. But they not stupid people.

1268
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 2: She didn't give it. Now listen to this line. My

1269
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 2: therapist said I should record every interaction with the cousin

1270
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 2: to protect myself. He also said, I should tell the

1271
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 2: cousin's time to move out because she's coming between me

1272
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 2: and my wife. Hold up, bro, I'm not as strong

1273
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 2: as I think I am. As a Tyler letter. You

1274
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 2: done wrote the Steve Harvey Morning Show and you got

1275
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: a therapist. You then wrote the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

1276
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 2: and you got a therapist, and all of us know

1277
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:40,800
Speaker 2: about this big thick thing is running around your house

1278
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 2: and her braw and panties playing in your dreads. Now

1279
01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 2: listen to this line right here, He said, I should

1280
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 2: tell the cousin to move out because she's coming between

1281
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 2: me and my wife. Now listen to this line. I

1282
01:07:55,320 --> 01:08:00,440
Speaker 2: can't do that because then my wife will be upset

1283
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 2: with me.

1284
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 9: Brouh.

1285
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 2: If your wife find out you're not gonna have no wife,

1286
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 2: why would your wife be upset with you for trying

1287
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 2: to be loyal and staying true to her and call

1288
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 2: it out her cousin and not allowing her cousin to

1289
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 2: ruin your marriage. Ain't no woman, that's stupid.

1290
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 4: Man.

1291
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: I keep telling you stop talking.

1292
01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 2: Then she said, Then he said, I have to separate

1293
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 2: myself from the temptation and distress. This is ongoing even

1294
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 2: without the drink, y'all. Do I tell my wife that

1295
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:36,560
Speaker 2: her cousin has flirted with me?

1296
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 4: What if her.

1297
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 2: Cousin lies and said I flirted with her? Now watch

1298
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 2: this suppose her cousin lies and says I flirted with

1299
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:52,600
Speaker 2: her too. I can't say that I didn't like that

1300
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 2: right there? See that that See it's it's been some

1301
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 2: panic playing back and forth between him and the cubs.

1302
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 9: I'm just telling you what I know, panny playing.

1303
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 2: It's been some panty playing between him and the cups.

1304
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 2: They've been playing around because I ain't no way will

1305
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:14,640
Speaker 2: you run around in front of me panties own and

1306
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 2: draw and my wife in their sleep. And I ain't

1307
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 2: told her, but this didn't happen more than once, and

1308
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Speaker 2: it's creating stress in your house. And now you wrote

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Speaker 2: to Steve Harvey Morning Show and told your therapist and

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01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 2: then you said I should tell my wife her cousin

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 2: flirted with me. What if her cousin lies and said

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01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:36,679
Speaker 2: I flirted with her too, I can't say that I didn't. Well,

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Speaker 2: then your cousin ain't lying. See if you can't say

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01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 2: you didn't, then the cousin ain't lying. Hey, dog, who

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Speaker 2: did you think you was writing this letter to bro?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 9: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Record Stuff.

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Speaker 2: Don't body believe that?

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Speaker 15: And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free

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Speaker 9: Free never sounded so good? You can tell Unloaded today

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Speaker 9: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. We

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Speaker 9: got Tommy in for Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this,

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Speaker 9: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: All right, it is time now for sports talk, and

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01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 9: we got Tommy in for Junior. What you got for

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01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 9: is Tommy we talking football.

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01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:52,759
Speaker 6: Shirley.

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01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 3: Preseason is over. Some have been waved, some have been cut,

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01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 3: whatever the difference on the difference.

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01:10:58,360 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 6: So that is.

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01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 3: But anyway, y'all already know don primetime Sander says Shiloh

1342
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 3: gonna be all right despite being dropped by the Tampa

1343
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 3: Bay Buccaneers.

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Speaker 6: Take a listen.

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01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 18: I'm proud of my my kids, all of them, and

1346
01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 18: I prepared my kids for any and everything that could

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01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 18: possibly happen in life and in sports. That this part

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01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 18: of fathering, this part of parenting, this part of having

1349
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 18: a relationship. So he is mentally where he needs to be,

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01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 18: physically where he needs to be. We're praying that he

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01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 18: gets h another opportunity to go with a team, but

1352
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 18: if he doesn't, the plans have already been put forward

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01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 18: to what he's going to do next.

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01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 6: So Seano is a man of many talents.

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01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 18: I don't know, you guys know he's a man of

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01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 18: many talents, and uh, he's gonna be straight all the

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01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:49,839
Speaker 18: Sanders are gonna be straight with the withdat football.

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01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 6: You better believe that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, sir, I love to take care of mine, Okay,

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01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 1: I love that prime.

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01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you know this not the end of

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01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 2: the world. I mean, you know everybody and then in

1363
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 2: the football careers for the most part are so short anyway,

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01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 2: Like every football player has to prepare for the end

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01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 2: of that career because that's a sport you can't play

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01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 2: for a long time. You just can't play that sport

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01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 2: for a long time. You know, you Tom Brady was

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01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,280
Speaker 2: at forty, but you know he ain't out there every

1369
01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:27,519
Speaker 2: play or that boy that stuff that Lebron is doing it.

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01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 2: That's an exceptional mess because that's every play, eighty two

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01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:35,000
Speaker 2: games season, all the years. That's exceptional. But you can't

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01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 2: play football that long. There's too many injuries, too many.

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01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 2: I'm hoping Shallow gets picked up. I'm hoping. I'm still

1374
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 2: I'm still ruby he dee. I'm pulling for all the

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01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 2: Sanders because it started with a daddy men as daddy boys.

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01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:59,560
Speaker 3: So you go like that now now, But I like

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01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 3: the fact he's all he's prepared his boys for what.

1378
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 3: You know, football don't work out. And that's what I

1379
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 3: don't think every I don't think every student, like in

1380
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 3: high school, junior high you got to have your mindset

1381
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 3: what if this don't work out? I'm always in my

1382
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:13,880
Speaker 3: son here, Hey man, what if baseball don't work out?

1383
01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 3: You got to find something to do. We got to

1384
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,479
Speaker 3: figure out what else you like outside of sports. You

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01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:19,760
Speaker 3: got fad of.

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01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:20,639
Speaker 1: Being an athlete?

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01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, parents use your brain bothering exactly.

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01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know, especially for kids, man, you gotta

1389
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:31,400
Speaker 2: let him get prepared. You might be the best way

1390
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 2: you at right now, but we got to get out

1391
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 2: here on this national scale that that them numbers start dropping.

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01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody good, a lot of talent.

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01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:43,440
Speaker 6: You got to prepare.

1394
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 2: Yourself for because now we ain't in high school. Now

1395
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 2: you ain't.

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01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 9: You got thank you, Tommy. Coming up at the top

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01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 9: of the hour, young woman on social media needs some

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01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 9: advice Steve. She says she's wasting away her twenties and

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01:13:57,360 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 9: we'll talk about it right after this. You're listening into

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01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is from Elena on

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01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 9: Steve Harvey FM. Elena says, I'm twenty six and I

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01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 9: feel like my life never really got off the ground.

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01:14:13,880 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 9: After high school, I drifted without many close friends and

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01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 9: never dated. I pushed through college and earned a degree,

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01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 9: but now I'm back living with my parents because I

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01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 9: can't seem to land anything beyond part time work. My

1407
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:31,080
Speaker 9: days are just the gem Aaron's and home again. I

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01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 9: know I'm healthy and capable, but nights hit me hard,

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01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 9: and I can't shake the feeling that I'm wasting my

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01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 9: twenties while everyone else is moving ahead. Will I be able?

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01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 9: Will I ever be able to catch up with my peers?

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01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 9: Or am I already too far behind?

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01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 10: Wow?

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01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, if you've got to stop the

1415
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 2: comparison things, yes, thank you. Like I told you, comparison

1416
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 2: is the greatest thief of joy. You don't even You're

1417
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 2: not even giving your self credit for graduating, forgetting a degree,

1418
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 2: for being healthy, going to the gym. You're not giving

1419
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 2: yourself credit for them. You back home with your parents,

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01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:14,760
Speaker 2: You don't even see that blessing. It's some people ain't

1421
01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 2: got nowhere to go. You back home with your parents,

1422
01:15:18,040 --> 01:15:19,760
Speaker 2: You got a chance to save money, but you can't

1423
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 2: find nothing worthy. Have you ever thought this is the

1424
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 2: path that you are on, unlike your friends? And please

1425
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 2: stop thinking that your friends, all their lives is just

1426
01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 2: or butter cups and daisies, because I trust me, it

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01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: ain't trust me, it ain't. And twenties is hard on everybody.

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01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 1: And especially.

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01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 2: The majority of people I know blow their twenties and

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01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:52,600
Speaker 2: end up spending their thirties fixing what they did in

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01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 2: their twenties. That part, I mean, your thirties is the

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01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 2: repair years. I got all that excess party and stayed

1433
01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:07,559
Speaker 2: in college too long, hold these student loans back. Thirties

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01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 2: is repair and you know what, So this is what

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01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:15,839
Speaker 2: I would do. Stop focusing on your friends, Focus on yourself.

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01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 2: What is your gifts? What is your talents? What are

1437
01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 2: you passionate about? And start looking in that and and

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01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 2: and ask God what your gift is. It's very simple.

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01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 2: And once you discover that, become passionate about your gift

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01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 2: and get on with your life and realize this, you're

1441
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:36,599
Speaker 2: only twenty six. At twenty six, I was so fall.

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01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 2: I wasn't a stick, I wasn't an eight ball, I

1443
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:41,839
Speaker 2: wasn't a qball.

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01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:42,639
Speaker 1: I was chalk.

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01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 9: I was chalk.

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01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 7: But keep going, Steve, You'll make it one day. You'll

1447
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:55,120
Speaker 7: make it one No, listen to me. You're only twenty six.

1448
01:16:56,120 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 7: Stop berating yourself. A whole lot of people mess stay

1449
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 7: twenties up. I know I did that through mine out

1450
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 7: though window.

1451
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 2: Now I got married at twenty four, had twins at

1452
01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 2: twenty five. I'll go way too fast. I'm just now

1453
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 2: recovering from that.

1454
01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: You are grown with children of their own.

1455
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 2: I'm still climbing out that hole.

1456
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:30,200
Speaker 1: Look, you're a grandfather down Quit it.

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01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 9: See, keep going, you'll make it one day. Keep going.

1458
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:33,920
Speaker 4: Don't get it.

1459
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 2: It's no see, that's what.

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01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:36,679
Speaker 6: That's what the mob.

1461
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 2: Don't waller in the squalor. Get off and quit. Quit

1462
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 2: creating squalor that ain't there. You're twenty six. You're actually

1463
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:48,640
Speaker 2: okay if you quit comparing yourself to your friends who

1464
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 2: ain't doing all that great, if you really knew the

1465
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 2: behind the scenes story, stop following them on Instagram. Stop

1466
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:56,720
Speaker 2: looking at their little life because you don't know how

1467
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 2: it's going. Hey, man, I had this young dude. I

1468
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:02,840
Speaker 2: was talking to it one time. He's a very successful

1469
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 2: young kid, and they having some merit of troubles, and

1470
01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 2: he was talking with some people I knew. He said

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01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 2: the funniest thing.

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01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:10,720
Speaker 7: Man.

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01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 2: I had to laugh, But then I had to give

1474
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:15,719
Speaker 2: him some some some old school wisdom with him, he said,

1475
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 2: because he was having some real marital issues. He was

1476
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 2: just sitting there with his head down and he said, man,

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01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 2: you can't even cheat in peace.

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01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 6: What I laughed?

1479
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:31,800
Speaker 8: Man?

1480
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,240
Speaker 2: I laughed so hard I had to catch myself and

1481
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 2: then I said, come in, come in, little man, let

1482
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 2: me that's an oxy moron.

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01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:41,000
Speaker 6: That's that's something that.

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01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 9: Of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up and twenty

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Speaker 9: minutes after right after this, you're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show and trending travel news. On a nude cruise, Guys,

1487
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:03,639
Speaker 9: you think clothing is optional everywhere? Right, Well that's kind

1488
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Speaker 9: of close to the truth, but not the whole truth.

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01:19:07,160 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 9: New cruisers are free to roam in the buff except

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Speaker 9: in the dining room. It seems the cruise ships don't

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01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:16,680
Speaker 9: want bear butts sitting on their dining room chairs. But

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Speaker 9: if you're on a new cruise and don't want to

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01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 9: wear clothes, you can eat at the self served buffet line.

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01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:23,200
Speaker 6: So there you go.

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01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 9: You're planning on travel, Let me just.

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01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 2: Say this about that. Every place I've ever seen that

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01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 2: alloud nudity, Yeah, everybody, I saw needed to have some

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01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:44,639
Speaker 2: clothes on. I ain't elvow.

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Speaker 1: So you've been on a new beach or something.

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01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 2: You yeah, yeah, you.

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01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 17: Were.

1502
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:59,720
Speaker 2: You broke the rules then, right, well, see they had

1503
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 2: had the beach was nude. Half the beach was closed.

1504
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 2: I sat on the wall. I pulled my lounge up

1505
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,760
Speaker 2: on the wall or you know, I'm right there at

1506
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 2: the nude and the clothes beat. Now I saw some

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01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 2: people on with the clothes on that I needed to

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01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 2: then to get over on that other side so I

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01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:19,400
Speaker 2: could see what really going on. So you know when

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01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 2: we going on because they was innim bikini right, but

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01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 2: everybody that was on the neckd side needed to put

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01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:27,759
Speaker 2: their clothes on. I've never seen a group of fine

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01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 2: people had no newdest colin. I just never seen it.

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Speaker 4: Coming up.

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Speaker 2: We're playing on that look like somebody mama.

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Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: five or Ionic.

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Speaker 9: It is time now for a round of would you rather?

1527
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 9: Would you rather drink sweet tea? Or would you rather

1528
01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:23,200
Speaker 9: drink kool aid? At the barbecue this Labor day?

1529
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:24,519
Speaker 6: Sweet maid?

1530
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 1: Oh, y'all said two different things?

1531
01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 10: Yeah? Why? Wow?

1532
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:30,639
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm right away sweet tea?

1533
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:32,040
Speaker 1: Oh oh?

1534
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:32,920
Speaker 8: Oh? Kool aid?

1535
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 9: What why sweet tea?

1536
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:36,720
Speaker 6: It don't matter if both of them got two cups

1537
01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 6: of sugar. It don't matter.

1538
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 1: Sugar, you go get diabetes.

1539
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:43,719
Speaker 4: Me you're drinking.

1540
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with that because I don't like orange

1541
01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 2: kool aid. If you make orange kool aid, I don't

1542
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: want to talk to you.

1543
01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:51,679
Speaker 9: So oh you gotta mix it with a cherry.

1544
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,080
Speaker 6: You gotta have cherry and lemon mixed.

1545
01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 2: Yeah you have to.

1546
01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think I can cook?

1547
01:21:58,400 --> 01:21:58,840
Speaker 6: See there?

1548
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 9: Okay? Would you rather eat ribs with no napkins or

1549
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 9: no white bread? Which ones?

1550
01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:07,880
Speaker 2: How about?

1551
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 6: Kid about no nack? I got a whole sleeve over here?

1552
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 6: Why I got about a nack?

1553
01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 9: So you want that white bread.

1554
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:22,720
Speaker 2: I got big lips. I don't need no.

1555
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 1: Wow, true, that's true.

1556
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 6: All right.

1557
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:29,639
Speaker 2: I put that whole boone in my mouth and pull

1558
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:31,559
Speaker 2: it out and you won't even recognize it. You won't

1559
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 2: even think it was.

1560
01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:42,759
Speaker 4: Body clean, clean that bone?

1561
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 8: All right?

1562
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:48,720
Speaker 9: Would you rather you and your spouse give each other

1563
01:22:48,880 --> 01:22:51,560
Speaker 9: massages after a long day? Or would you rather you

1564
01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 9: and your spouse take a hot bubble bath together.

1565
01:22:58,040 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 2: We're not going to do.

1566
01:22:59,680 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 6: Let me.

1567
01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,800
Speaker 3: Vade by yourself that you may get earlier than I think.

1568
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 3: Let you don't get do what you need to do.

1569
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what you've been done all day?

1570
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 18: Now?

1571
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:17,599
Speaker 6: What we ain't gonna do? To sit in this tub

1572
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,439
Speaker 6: and watch the rain roll around?

1573
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 2: You think you clean in your wife?

1574
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 9: He thinks he's cleaner than everyone on the planet.

1575
01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 2: No, I can't take no bath. That's what That water

1576
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 2: way too hot? Yeah, that's how her bath water is.

1577
01:23:40,840 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, I'm.

1578
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 10: All right.

1579
01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:50,400
Speaker 9: Would you rather find a dead person?

1580
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:52,120
Speaker 1: Would you rather?

1581
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:56,120
Speaker 9: Would you rather find a dead person in your attic attic?

1582
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 9: Or would you rather twenty dead rats in your attic?

1583
01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 6: I don't know what to do with those dead body?

1584
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:04,640
Speaker 6: What am I supposed to do.

1585
01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had him twenty dead rats up there. What

1586
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:10,800
Speaker 2: that means that the dcon is working.

1587
01:24:11,200 --> 01:24:12,720
Speaker 9: But what I can't do is.

1588
01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 2: Explain the people when they come up. What does that

1589
01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 2: smell different?

1590
01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:28,320
Speaker 9: That's the decks around it. Would you rather coming up

1591
01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 9: in forty nine minutes after the hour? It is our

1592
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 9: livest break up. The decks smell like something in here

1593
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Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving,

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Speaker 13: planning and hard work to get in the door. Didn't

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Speaker 13: make that house a home. Now, all that effort has

1598
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Speaker 13: built something hugely valuable, equity.

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Speaker 1: It's the portion of your home you truly own that

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Speaker 9: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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Speaker 9: the day. It's been a fun day. We've had a

1608
01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 9: good time today. We always want to thank our audience

1609
01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 9: for listening. Appreciate, appreciate one of you.

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01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:27,360
Speaker 1: Thank yes, that's why we know, buter one.

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01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,880
Speaker 9: Because thank you appreciated.

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01:25:30,160 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all my closer remarks today, I want to do

1613
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 2: them on this because we had this young sister called

1614
01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:38,120
Speaker 2: in twenty six that just felt like her life was

1615
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 2: going nowhere. She had graduated from college, she had moved

1616
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,760
Speaker 2: back in with her parents. All she do is go

1617
01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 2: to jail. She's only found part time work, she hasn't

1618
01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 2: found anything full time. It just feels like she's not

1619
01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:53,200
Speaker 2: She's looking at her other friends and a life seemed

1620
01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:55,880
Speaker 2: to be moving along and everything, and she's just sitting

1621
01:25:55,920 --> 01:26:00,320
Speaker 2: there desponded. At twenty six. I try to remind her,

1622
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:05,400
Speaker 2: as I remind everybody, do you understand that your path,

1623
01:26:05,960 --> 01:26:10,599
Speaker 2: the one that you are on, is uniquely yours. Stop

1624
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 2: comparing yourself to other bodies, because I can promise you

1625
01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 2: there is no one on earth that's going through exactly

1626
01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 2: what you're going through, with the exact same set of circumstances,

1627
01:26:24,880 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 2: with the exact same experience, and with the exact same outcome.

1628
01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:34,560
Speaker 2: It's not happening. Yours is very unique. Your life is

1629
01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:38,439
Speaker 2: unique to you. Now, that doesn't mean that somebody ain't

1630
01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:43,520
Speaker 2: had the same thing happened to them. Occasions are occasions everybody.

1631
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 2: Somebody's dealt with grief before, someone has dealt with the

1632
01:26:47,280 --> 01:26:50,879
Speaker 2: firing before, somebody has dealt with the repoll before, Somebody

1633
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: has dealt with the sickness before. So that's not what

1634
01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I am saying that your path is uniquely yours.

1635
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:04,920
Speaker 2: And the moment you start comparing yourself to someone else,

1636
01:27:05,760 --> 01:27:10,280
Speaker 2: it brings up the saying that I heard that It's

1637
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 2: so true. Comparison is the greatest thief of joy. If

1638
01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:20,160
Speaker 2: you want to not feel good about yourself and not

1639
01:27:20,320 --> 01:27:22,960
Speaker 2: feel good about where you are, start lining up some

1640
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 2: other people and putting yours up against theirs, and you

1641
01:27:26,400 --> 01:27:29,519
Speaker 2: don't even really know the situation of the other person.

1642
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:32,559
Speaker 2: You're just putting it up there. You looking at their

1643
01:27:32,680 --> 01:27:36,600
Speaker 2: Instagram and it looked better than your Instagram, and you

1644
01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 2: looking at your life and they showing you just the

1645
01:27:40,120 --> 01:27:44,000
Speaker 2: good parts of day life. Well what they bad stuff at,

1646
01:27:44,520 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 2: what they problems at, because you do know they haveing them,

1647
01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:50,639
Speaker 2: don't you. You know everybody is going through some form

1648
01:27:50,720 --> 01:27:54,759
Speaker 2: of failure somewhere. You know that everybody is not getting

1649
01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:58,559
Speaker 2: it all right. You do know that, don't you? But Nah,

1650
01:27:58,880 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 2: you sitting up here thinking you the only one that

1651
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 2: ain't getting it right because you keep comparing yourself to others.

1652
01:28:04,680 --> 01:28:07,160
Speaker 2: And when you compare yourself to others, you lose sight

1653
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:10,920
Speaker 2: of what God has done for you. Y'all gotta slow

1654
01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:15,639
Speaker 2: this down. Man, don't fall into the comparison game, because

1655
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:18,240
Speaker 2: you will lose sight of what God has done for you.

1656
01:28:19,240 --> 01:28:23,240
Speaker 2: If I look at Tyler Perry, I could find ways

1657
01:28:23,320 --> 01:28:26,599
Speaker 2: to think I'm not doing well. If I look at

1658
01:28:26,680 --> 01:28:29,200
Speaker 2: Michael Jordan, I could find ways to think I'm not

1659
01:28:29,360 --> 01:28:31,519
Speaker 2: doing well. Tiger Woods I could find well. I can

1660
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,200
Speaker 2: look at Brad Pitton find ways to think I'm not

1661
01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:39,559
Speaker 2: doing well. But guess what I am doing well if

1662
01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:44,080
Speaker 2: I don't compare myself to them. You know, somebody asked

1663
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:46,680
Speaker 2: me a question the other day, Hey man, what other

1664
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:51,680
Speaker 2: celebrity would you trade lives with? And I went to nobody. Oh,

1665
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:54,600
Speaker 2: so you think your life is the best. No, but

1666
01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:59,000
Speaker 2: I'm accepting of the one I have. I don't really

1667
01:28:59,120 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 2: know what's going on in somebody else's house. I don't

1668
01:29:03,200 --> 01:29:05,519
Speaker 2: want what's going on. I don't want who.

1669
01:29:05,439 --> 01:29:06,200
Speaker 6: They married to.

1670
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 10: I don't.

1671
01:29:07,160 --> 01:29:10,680
Speaker 2: I don't want the problems they have. I'm okay with

1672
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:15,040
Speaker 2: where I am. I have found peace in what God

1673
01:29:15,200 --> 01:29:24,120
Speaker 2: has done for me. Gratitude eracist negativity. Comparison is the

1674
01:29:24,240 --> 01:29:28,080
Speaker 2: greatest thief of joy. If you wake up in a

1675
01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:30,679
Speaker 2: in a certain mood. Let's let's say tomorrow you wake

1676
01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:32,880
Speaker 2: up on what they call the wrong side of the bed,

1677
01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 2: which I never have that. I don't wake up on

1678
01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:37,640
Speaker 2: the wrong side of the bed. Long as I wake up,

1679
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:39,960
Speaker 2: I don't care what side I get up on, as

1680
01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:42,320
Speaker 2: long as you wake me up. Guess what I start

1681
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:49,639
Speaker 2: with some gratitude, and that that dissipates, that disintegrates all

1682
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 2: negative energy. It is hard to be negative and grateful.

1683
01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:55,880
Speaker 8: You know.

1684
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:58,560
Speaker 2: I learned that best lesson at my mother's funeral. We

1685
01:29:58,680 --> 01:30:00,640
Speaker 2: were all sitting there crying on the front row, me

1686
01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:03,840
Speaker 2: and my brothers and sisters, and the pastor got up

1687
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 2: and everybody had been talking and I was the worst

1688
01:30:06,280 --> 01:30:09,840
Speaker 2: day on my life. And he said to the Harvey kids,

1689
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:13,040
Speaker 2: I know y'all feeling bad, But Sister Harvey was a

1690
01:30:14,160 --> 01:30:16,599
Speaker 2: stand out member here at this church for forty years

1691
01:30:16,640 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 2: as a Sunday school teacher. Y'all haven't had a chance

1692
01:30:20,160 --> 01:30:22,120
Speaker 2: to look around, but I want you to look around.

1693
01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:27,440
Speaker 2: And that church was packed, he said. You haven't been downstairs,

1694
01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 2: but our overflow room is completely full.

1695
01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:31,439
Speaker 6: He said.

1696
01:30:31,479 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 2: You don't know this, but we had to put up

1697
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:36,759
Speaker 2: speakers outside in the parking lot because all the parking

1698
01:30:36,840 --> 01:30:39,280
Speaker 2: lots that the church is full, we can't let nobody

1699
01:30:39,320 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 2: else in the doors. That's the effect y'all's mother had

1700
01:30:43,680 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 2: over forty years of a Sunday school teacher, he said.

1701
01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:50,680
Speaker 2: And then I want you to think of all the

1702
01:30:50,880 --> 01:30:54,320
Speaker 2: lives your mama has affected. Look at these people in here.

1703
01:30:54,360 --> 01:30:56,840
Speaker 2: There's some people ain't been to this church in years,

1704
01:30:57,000 --> 01:31:00,559
Speaker 2: came here to pay homage to your mama. He said,

1705
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:02,760
Speaker 2: you know how much good she did. And then he

1706
01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:06,519
Speaker 2: told me the nugget that I needed. He said, joy

1707
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:13,560
Speaker 2: and depression cannot reside in the same space. Joy and

1708
01:31:13,760 --> 01:31:18,680
Speaker 2: depression cannot reside in the same space. And what he

1709
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,640
Speaker 2: was saying to me was when it looks dark for you,

1710
01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:25,040
Speaker 2: think of the good things. Think of all the stuff

1711
01:31:25,120 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 2: you can be grateful for. When you start feeling like

1712
01:31:27,960 --> 01:31:31,559
Speaker 2: you ain't got it going on, Because if somebody wish

1713
01:31:31,640 --> 01:31:35,519
Speaker 2: they had it going on just like you, So be grateful,

1714
01:31:35,760 --> 01:31:40,040
Speaker 2: show gratitude, and stop comparing yourself to others. Comparison is

1715
01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:43,240
Speaker 2: the greatest thief of joy. Those are my closing remarks today.

1716
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:47,000
Speaker 2: Hey listen, y'all, do yourself a huge favor today. Talk

1717
01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:51,400
Speaker 2: to God today. He would absolutely love to hear from you.

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Speaker 6: You feel me, Let's go.

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