WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Second Chance Scott 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:04.920 The second date of day, Brook, do you believe people 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:06.400 deserve second chances? 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:08.400 Yeah? Why do you think I'd be here with you 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:09.000 if I didn't? 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:11.760 Does that mean. 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:13.760 Scond chance? 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:16.160 Yes? Okay, I don't know what I did. 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:19.919 I'm serious though, If somebody makes a mistake, are you 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:22.360 willing to let bygones be bygones and give him a 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:22.880 fair shake? 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:25.560 Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know, 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:27.880 like if you talk things out, I think you can 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.240 always work through something is amazing. 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:32.479 We have a return caller on the phone today named Scott, 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:34.680 who you were not too happy with the last time 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.480 he was on this You have an apology ready because 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.160 he put a little blue pill into his own drink 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.400 at the dinner table, and you use. 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:44.360 The word creep to describe him. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:47.280 So maybe we need to start with an apology from 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:51.159 Brook to Scott. Here go ahead, Broke, you said you 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:52.720 believed in second chances. 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:58.520 Especial here's my question. Have you yes? Yes? Yes, communication, 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.840 I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not gonna happen. 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:05.840 But what will happen is if you have stopped sneaking 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:08.320 those pills into your drink first. 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.760 Date, your self drink. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.400 Still not cool, Jeff. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:15.560 Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott? 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:17.840 You know, I think I've getten a lot better since 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:20.760 the last time we talked. Okay, I really do. 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.800 So now does he get the apology for what he 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:26.440 was big enough to look past all the mean things 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.480 that we called him on the show and give us 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:32.000 another chance? I think we should give him another chance 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:33.080 with his dating life here. 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:38.640 So okay, room, but welcome back. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.479 Yeah? 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:41.680 Should I leave you? 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:42.200 Man? 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:42.640 You're good? 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:43.560 I think you should. 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:44.000 Okay. 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:47.400 Well, so apparently you've reached out because there's a new 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:48.440 woman that you met. 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:50.800 Yeah. Yeah, her name's Mandy. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:54.000 Okay, okay, and how did you How did you meet Mandy? 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:58.160 I was shopping at a hardware store. She comes up 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.920 to me and asked me about like stuff I'm looking 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:05.480 at like she needs help. Maybe I look like I 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:09.000 was dressed like I worked there or something, or maybe. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:10.160 Just being a guy. 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:12.639 I'm sorry if you're wearing a polo shirt in one 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:14.399 of those stories you automatically fake. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:17.400 Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white Polo shirt. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:20.799 Well this is I mean, it's giving you the perfect 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:21.600 chance to talk to her. 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.519 So what do you do? Well? 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:25.679 You know, I thought she was cute, and I was like, look, 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:29.200 I don't know how it works. I'm sorry, I barely 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:30.560 know what I'm looking at here. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:32.160 Money it's good. 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.320 But I thought she was cute and I told her that, 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:36.720 and I asked if she would go out. 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:40.920 She said, yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:42.560 you end up seeing her for an actual date? 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:46.840 Yeah? We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:47.760 something stupid. 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.679 Okay, that should always be good. That is such a 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:53.160 good lesson to take from this show. 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:54.600 Yeah, so what was the date? 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.280 Like, we went to the beach? 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:58.359 Uh huh oh interesting? 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:00.920 Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:05.839 people watching, and I thought it would be funny if 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:08.280 we were like started to rate the women who walked by. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.040 Oh god, I didn't. 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:12.079 You didn't do that. 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:13.000 I didn't do it. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.200 Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:15.520 with it. 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.600 You know, I want you guys to know all the 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:18.960 bad ideas I didn't do. 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.040 This is growth. This is exactly what we wanted from you. 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:24.680 Hard for. 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:26.880 Your thoughts. 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:30.280 Okay, a worse idea that you had than that? 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:31.440 What else didn't you do? 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:35.040 All right? So, like the sun started to set and 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.400 I brought my camera. I like to take pictures and stuff, 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:41.240 and I started to photograph the sunset. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:42.440 Okay, okay. 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.920 What I wanted to do was ask for a model 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:46.440 for me. Didn't do that? 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:47.560 Oh you didn't. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.480 Ok It's not too bad. I mean some women would 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.280 be flattered by my picture. 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:57.240 Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking them 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:58.440 to model. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:02.040 Hey, get out of my frame. Trying to capture the sunset. 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.600 Don't make me get more in my head. I tried 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:04.160 to do my best. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.120 That was a good thing. Anything else. 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:11.000 I also didn't tell her about the camera because like, 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.960 I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:15.520 could go on for days about the text specs of 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:16.080 the camera. 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:22.240 Camera not hot, I don't know. You don't know what 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.560 to do. Just talking about the different. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:27.640 Camera. 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:31.720 That was a good choice. Don't tell her about the 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.200 details of your camera. Good call. 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.919 Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices. 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.000 Didn't bring that up. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:40.280 Are you focused on the date? 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:42.719 Did you talk much? 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:43.960 Yeah? What did you talk about? 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:44.760 What did you do? 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:46.360 Well? 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:50.520 I mean we talked about like our recent dating history. 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.000 I've been on a lot of dates, she's only been 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.400 on one lately. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.360 Do you think did that way at all. 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:01.440 Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.440 on as many dates, I sort of backed off and 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:04.799 didn't like go into detail. 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:06.719 Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want to hand that. 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:08.800 I didn't tell her that I was on the radio 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.120 and what I was on the radio. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:12.599 For for your last one. 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.840 You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.400 do you end this night with? 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:17.000 Mandy? 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.640 Walked her, actually she walked me to my car first. 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.000 I guess we gave each other a hug. 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:24.080 Okay. 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:27.080 I considered taking out the guitar from my trunk to 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:31.400 play a song, but I did not do it. Did 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:34.040 I learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that? 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:35.680 But you don't like that? 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.040 That's it, all right? 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:38.680 Maybe not till like the third or fourth day. 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.160 Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty soundrack. 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.479 Overall, that sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then? 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.120 You know? I thought it went well too, But nothing 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:49.839 radio silence. I haven't heard a thing. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.360 Interesting. I wonder if you were just like two up 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:55.720 in your head and you were able to actually be yourself, 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.040 you know, like I feel like the whole time you're 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.400 telling yourself what not to do not how great you are. 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.000 Yeah, maybe you should bust out tho Blue pillars again 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:04.200 and see how it goes. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.200 It's back on board. Okay. 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.120 Well, you know, you guys made me think that maybe 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:12.320 I'm not so great. So we didn't think that. 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:15.960 No, I didn't made me good. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.279 I was tossed her out. 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:22.120 Well it was. Here's a bad assumption to make on 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.000 a first date. 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.839 As he redeemed himself from the creep label in this date. 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:30.200 So far. Yeah, we haven't talked to her. 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.360 Yet, Jeff, all right, so so far it's pretty good. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:34.880 We're going to get the rest of the story when 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:36.880 we call Mandy for you and try and get you 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.880 your second date update right after this. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.360 Okay, sounds good. All right, don't move, you creep. Here 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:41.600 we go. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:47.039 If you missed the first part of the second date, 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:50.039 we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.720 with us. He went down a list of things he 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:57.080 considered but did not do on his date with Mandy, 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.280 including he didn't ask her to rate the other women 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:01.920 on the beach on a scale of. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:05.320 One to ten. He thought about it, but to his credit, 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:06.320 didn't do it. 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.920 You did when you think about it. 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:14.120 Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also, 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:16.800 when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug, 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.400 he considered taking out his guitar for a little John 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:23.280 Mayer serenade, but said, no, Brooke wouldn't like me to 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:23.760 do that. 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:26.160 I actually probably would have felt for that if I 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:28.200 was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry, 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.040 I'm a sucker for a guitar, such a stereotype. I 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:31.480 really am. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:35.280 Well, so Scott. 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.040 If we call her and she says that you whipped 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.760 it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed because I thought 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.640 you made significant growth here. And that's not a little 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.480 blue pill joke. That's just an honest observation of you. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:51.640 I want to hear. No, there is something wrong in 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:52.080 my head. 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:52.720 I just. 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.040 Saying that you're saying with a clean. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:08:02.400 Thoughts, that's you projecting what you want. That has nothing 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.720 to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that Scott 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.080 has turned a Paige. The only weird part is his date, 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.120 Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards. 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:12.440 So let's find out what that's about. Scott. You ready 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.280 to do this, Let's do it. 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.560 Look at that you did the whole first half not 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.240 getting shamed for anything. Scott, I think this is already 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:21.840 a good sign of how this him. 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:23.520 He's only said three words. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:27.840 If anything, Brooke is the creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts. 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:28.440 So there we go. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:33.080 Yeah, I keep the thoughts inside. Jeff, he just said 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.520 that that's a win, you said. 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:36.600 Okay, there we go. We're all in the winning page. 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:36.800 Here. 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:39.400 Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:49.560 Hello. 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:51.080 Hi is this Mandy? 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:53.120 Yes speaking? 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.920 Hey Mandy. This is a radio show. My name is 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:57.920 Jeff and I'm part of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.320 Sorry, You're sorry? 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:02.240 Did I say that? Weird? 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:03.200 Hey Mandy? 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.240 Hey, there's a random person in the background who just 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:08.880 said hi to you on the vote. 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:13.840 Was I guess technically we work together? But yeah, that's Brooke. 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:16.319 I'm Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:17.920 Morning with a whole room full of people. 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:19.920 Yeah, alexis here too. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:24.280 Hell, what what are you calling me about? 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.480 Okay, you get right to it. So, uh. 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:29.880 This is called a second date update. It's a segment 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.559 where we try to help our listeners reconnect with somebody 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.640 after they've gone out with them once and you went 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:38.920 out with a guy who listens to our show name Scott. 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.480 Yeah, so what. 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:46.520 Oh well, well, so Scott had a really good time 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.680 at the beach with you, and he was hoping that. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:50.280 It wasn't a nice time. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:50.800 It was. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.600 It was fun. I won't speak badly on anybody. It 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:54.880 was a it was a nice time. 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:56.880 Okay, Well, if you had a good time. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.559 We're just trying to help Scott figure out why there 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:00.680 hasn't been second date. 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:02.400 Yeah, he wants to see you again. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:06.920 The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, which. 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.040 We appreciate because we want to keep the word radio relevant. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.440 But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So is there 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:13.920 a reason. 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.679 Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.120 It was just a. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:22.120 Complete turn off for me that he had been on 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:25.480 eight dates already this year, that he's just kind of 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:28.960 juggling all these women, whereas I'm in a different place. 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.640 I've only been on one date. Like, it's just felt 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:32.400 like different life. 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:36.320 Arenas he's been on eight dates and that's too many 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:36.640 for you. 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.480 Yeah, I mean, he's just what if he have like 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:40.760 a little rollo deck. 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.880 That's not like you could still count that on two hands. 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:45.920 I think that's fine. 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.240 I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:53.360 I'm not into the short term casual dating that a 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.960 lot of guys are looking to hook up nowadays. I'm 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:57.400 not looking for that. 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:58.839 But do you know that he even hooked up with 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:00.600 all those people or was it just like it could 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.840 just be a bad day. Doesn't even mean did he. 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:05.880 Had a look in his eyes? 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:10.280 If he kind of implied it, I wasn't going to ask. 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.280 We can guarantee that one of those dates he did 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:13.920 not hook up. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:18.200 Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah, 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.440 it hasn't worked out for him. But you're saying he's 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:22.960 coming across like a player to you. 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.960 Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:28.920 hour or two with somebody, you know what you need 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:30.880 to know. You know if it's right and if you 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.000 want to make things a little more serious. So if 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:37.920 he was willing to commit to something a little more serious, 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.480 I would say yes, But it sounds like he dates 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:42.680 a lot and he's not looking for something like that. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.200 Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.880 current dating situation is. All we know is that he 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.760 reached out to us to get another date, specifically with you. 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.760 So that should tell you something and we should probably 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:56.679 ask him about it. If he does have a giant 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:58.640 roster of girls that he's seeing. Because he is on 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:00.079 the phone right now. 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.160 What can I get a handoff over here? 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:04.880 He's listening to this and wants to talk to you. 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:13.200 Yeah, hey, man, going Hi, she really turned it on. 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:22.120 I just wasn't expecting to be having this conversation in 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:22.880 this format. 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:27.880 Yeah, I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:28.840 just think I'm a player. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:33.079 Yeah, I'm not a player, younger. 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:36.640 I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:37.400 to be with. 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.360 Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:42.960 Yeah yeah, just for fun. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:45.120 You can date for fun. That's okay too. 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:47.839 I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour. 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:52.000 It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:54.439 willing to even consider going out with you is if 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:57.680 you agree to, like right now, not see anybody else, 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.480 and give it one hundred percent with her. 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:01.840 Is that something that big assumption? 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.800 Jeff? Are you sure that's what she's saying? 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.280 That's what I'm hearing. Is that right, Mandy? 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:10.480 Yeah, I had a feeling when I was on the date. 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.320 I don't know if that was mutual. What was the feeling, 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.679 just that I could see myself with this person. I 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:20.840 could see this progressing into something real, So see chemistry. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:23.280 You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:25.479 and you're not in that phase of dating. 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:27.760 Right exact, And I'm not looking to get her so 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.679 quick to give. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:28.960 Up on it? 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:31.840 I know, well you were turned off because you thought 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:33.520 that he's dating lots and lots and lots of women 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:34.120 all right now. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.560 You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women. 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:38.480 Yeah, if it's me, it's me. 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:39.360 Okay. 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.320 So Scott, is that something that you're even willing to 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.120 consider dropping any other girl that you're talking to right 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.960 now and only focusing on Mandy to clear the roster. 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.560 Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now? 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:51.760 Good answer? 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:55.800 Okay, nice, Mandy, he was already only talking to you. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.840 Maybe we should just go right so this then, and 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:00.839 ask Mandy, would you consider going out with Scott again? 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.280 If he says right now he is willing to commit 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:08.439 one hundred percent to you, not anybody else is scary. Basically, 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:13.360 agree to enter a relationship on this, not potentially. You 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:15.880 have to give in right now, one hundred percent, give 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:16.839 yourself to her. 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:19.760 I'm trying to have am I off, Mandy. I'm sorry. 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.120 I feel like you're a little laughing at me, but. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:23.880 Like that is what i'd like. 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:27.560 Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out. 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:28.320 What do you say? 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:30.360 Why not let's give it a shot? 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.800 Why not? Yeah? I mean why not? He has no 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:39.200 other options right now? Doesn't anybody? 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:45.520 Congratulations? Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:48.360 Look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't commit 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.200 this early, but I honestly I want to spend more 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:51.600 time with you. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:55.400 Mandy, isn't that nice? 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:56.160 Excited? 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:57.400 Can't break up with him? 0:14:57.400 --> 0:15:01.880 I'm glad you said that you were really open and 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.640 vulnerable on your end, So I'm going to be that 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:10.040 way with you that technically I'm engaged. 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:12.520 Wait, what my god? 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.480 That's why I need the commitment. That's why I need 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.920 the band. So I plan to end it with. 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:21.680 Him on what was your explanation? Why? 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:24.400 Like, that's why I need to know if he's in 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:25.560 this or not with me. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:31.520 So if your marriage engage because she needs to know 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.440 if the backup plan is sad before she dumps the 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.440 curry guys, is that what's happening? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.120 She's crazier than. 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:41.320 Okay, But Scott, you don't need to listen to them. 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.400 I'm just really excited to spend time with you. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:45.720 No, we're not hanging out. 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:46.840 Okay, maybe, Scott. 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:48.400 Now you should tell you wanted to rate all the 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:52.240 other women on the beach on your I didn't go. 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:54.200 You wanted to. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.160 Okay, Well, the good uses Scott at the end of 0:15:57.200 --> 0:15:59.240 the day. The big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong. 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:01.320 He did nothing wrong. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.840 He just ended up with a strict, controlling, pre engaged 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:05.520 kind of nut job. 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.040 So can gradual engage, very engaged engage? 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:11.520 You have fun? You too. 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.720 I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:15.600 yourance is. His number? 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:17.960 Doesn't he sound so in love? 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:18.960 He sounds like he's. 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:19.560 Nervous with the day. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.160 Yeah, yeah, relationship. 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.160 And I could serenade her with your guitar, Scott, good work, 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:27.240 Brookie Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man, with that woman 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:27.920 on the phone. 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:30.280 Now it all makes sense how she's only been with 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:33.640 one man in the last year, because that was her fiance. 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:38.200 Yes, oh god, I put that together. But aren't we 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.680 applauding her for what she didn't do? Go on other 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:41.360 dates with her? 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:45.400 Just go went on this one. 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:49.160 But again, that is on us for not saying, hey, 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.560 how did your last relationship end? Because her answer would 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:55.000 have been it hasn't ended. We're engaged right now. 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:56.160 I see, that's all. 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.280 I'm just looking for a backup. How did we miss that? 0:16:59.320 --> 0:16:59.600 Brooke? 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:01.560 Where worry on that question? 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:03.360