Speaker 1: The second date of day, Brook, do you believe people
Speaker 1: deserve second chances?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why do you think I'd be here with you
Speaker 2: if I didn't?
Speaker 1: Does that mean.
Speaker 2: Scond chance?
Speaker 3: Yes? Okay, I don't know what I did.
Speaker 1: I'm serious though, If somebody makes a mistake, are you
Speaker 1: willing to let bygones be bygones and give him a
Speaker 1: fair shake?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know,
Speaker 2: like if you talk things out, I think you can
Speaker 2: always work through something is amazing.
Speaker 1: We have a return caller on the phone today named Scott,
Speaker 1: who you were not too happy with the last time
Speaker 1: he was on this You have an apology ready because
Speaker 1: he put a little blue pill into his own drink
Speaker 1: at the dinner table, and you use.
Speaker 3: The word creep to describe him.
Speaker 1: So maybe we need to start with an apology from
Speaker 1: Brook to Scott. Here go ahead, Broke, you said you
Speaker 1: believed in second chances.
Speaker 2: Especial here's my question. Have you yes? Yes? Yes, communication,
Speaker 2: I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: But what will happen is if you have stopped sneaking
Speaker 2: those pills into your drink first.
Speaker 3: Date, your self drink.
Speaker 2: Still not cool, Jeff.
Speaker 3: Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott?
Speaker 4: You know, I think I've getten a lot better since
Speaker 4: the last time we talked. Okay, I really do.
Speaker 1: So now does he get the apology for what he
Speaker 1: was big enough to look past all the mean things
Speaker 1: that we called him on the show and give us
Speaker 1: another chance? I think we should give him another chance
Speaker 1: with his dating life here.
Speaker 3: So okay, room, but welcome back.
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Should I leave you?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 2: You're good?
Speaker 3: I think you should.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: Well, so apparently you've reached out because there's a new
Speaker 1: woman that you met.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, her name's Mandy.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and how did you How did you meet Mandy?
Speaker 4: I was shopping at a hardware store. She comes up
Speaker 4: to me and asked me about like stuff I'm looking
Speaker 4: at like she needs help. Maybe I look like I
Speaker 4: was dressed like I worked there or something, or maybe.
Speaker 3: Just being a guy.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry if you're wearing a polo shirt in one
Speaker 2: of those stories you automatically fake.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white Polo shirt.
Speaker 1: Well this is I mean, it's giving you the perfect
Speaker 1: chance to talk to her.
Speaker 3: So what do you do? Well?
Speaker 4: You know, I thought she was cute, and I was like, look,
Speaker 4: I don't know how it works. I'm sorry, I barely
Speaker 4: know what I'm looking at here.
Speaker 3: Money it's good.
Speaker 4: But I thought she was cute and I told her that,
Speaker 4: and I asked if she would go out.
Speaker 1: She said, yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did
Speaker 1: you end up seeing her for an actual date?
Speaker 4: Yeah? We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing
Speaker 4: something stupid.
Speaker 2: Okay, that should always be good. That is such a
Speaker 2: good lesson to take from this show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what was the date?
Speaker 4: Like, we went to the beach?
Speaker 2: Uh huh oh interesting?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like
Speaker 4: people watching, and I thought it would be funny if
Speaker 4: we were like started to rate the women who walked by.
Speaker 4: Oh god, I didn't.
Speaker 3: You didn't do that.
Speaker 4: I didn't do it.
Speaker 3: Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through
Speaker 3: with it.
Speaker 4: You know, I want you guys to know all the
Speaker 4: bad ideas I didn't do.
Speaker 3: This is growth. This is exactly what we wanted from you.
Speaker 2: Hard for.
Speaker 3: Your thoughts.
Speaker 2: Okay, a worse idea that you had than that?
Speaker 3: What else didn't you do?
Speaker 4: All right? So, like the sun started to set and
Speaker 4: I brought my camera. I like to take pictures and stuff,
Speaker 4: and I started to photograph the sunset.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: What I wanted to do was ask for a model
Speaker 4: for me. Didn't do that?
Speaker 3: Oh you didn't.
Speaker 2: Ok It's not too bad. I mean some women would
Speaker 2: be flattered by my picture.
Speaker 1: Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking them
Speaker 1: to model.
Speaker 3: Hey, get out of my frame. Trying to capture the sunset.
Speaker 4: Don't make me get more in my head. I tried
Speaker 4: to do my best.
Speaker 3: That was a good thing. Anything else.
Speaker 4: I also didn't tell her about the camera because like,
Speaker 4: I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I
Speaker 4: could go on for days about the text specs of
Speaker 4: the camera.
Speaker 3: Camera not hot, I don't know. You don't know what
Speaker 3: to do. Just talking about the different.
Speaker 4: Camera.
Speaker 1: That was a good choice. Don't tell her about the
Speaker 1: details of your camera. Good call.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices.
Speaker 4: Didn't bring that up.
Speaker 3: Are you focused on the date?
Speaker 2: Did you talk much?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What did you talk about?
Speaker 2: What did you do?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 4: I mean we talked about like our recent dating history.
Speaker 4: I've been on a lot of dates, she's only been
Speaker 4: on one lately.
Speaker 3: Do you think did that way at all.
Speaker 4: Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been
Speaker 4: on as many dates, I sort of backed off and
Speaker 4: didn't like go into detail.
Speaker 3: Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want to hand that.
Speaker 4: I didn't tell her that I was on the radio
Speaker 4: and what I was on the radio.
Speaker 2: For for your last one.
Speaker 1: You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how
Speaker 1: do you end this night with?
Speaker 3: Mandy?
Speaker 4: Walked her, actually she walked me to my car first.
Speaker 4: I guess we gave each other a hug.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: I considered taking out the guitar from my trunk to
Speaker 4: play a song, but I did not do it. Did
Speaker 4: I learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that?
Speaker 4: But you don't like that?
Speaker 2: That's it, all right?
Speaker 3: Maybe not till like the third or fourth day.
Speaker 2: Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty soundrack.
Speaker 1: Overall, that sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then?
Speaker 4: You know? I thought it went well too, But nothing
Speaker 4: radio silence. I haven't heard a thing.
Speaker 2: Interesting. I wonder if you were just like two up
Speaker 2: in your head and you were able to actually be yourself,
Speaker 2: you know, like I feel like the whole time you're
Speaker 2: telling yourself what not to do not how great you are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should bust out tho Blue pillars again
Speaker 1: and see how it goes.
Speaker 3: It's back on board. Okay.
Speaker 4: Well, you know, you guys made me think that maybe
Speaker 4: I'm not so great. So we didn't think that.
Speaker 2: No, I didn't made me good.
Speaker 4: I was tossed her out.
Speaker 2: Well it was. Here's a bad assumption to make on
Speaker 2: a first date.
Speaker 1: As he redeemed himself from the creep label in this date.
Speaker 2: So far. Yeah, we haven't talked to her.
Speaker 1: Yet, Jeff, all right, so so far it's pretty good.
Speaker 1: We're going to get the rest of the story when
Speaker 1: we call Mandy for you and try and get you
Speaker 1: your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: Okay, sounds good. All right, don't move, you creep. Here
Speaker 3: we go.
Speaker 1: If you missed the first part of the second date,
Speaker 1: we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back
Speaker 1: with us. He went down a list of things he
Speaker 1: considered but did not do on his date with Mandy,
Speaker 1: including he didn't ask her to rate the other women
Speaker 1: on the beach on a scale of.
Speaker 3: One to ten. He thought about it, but to his credit,
Speaker 3: didn't do it.
Speaker 2: You did when you think about it.
Speaker 1: Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also,
Speaker 1: when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug,
Speaker 1: he considered taking out his guitar for a little John
Speaker 1: Mayer serenade, but said, no, Brooke wouldn't like me to
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: I actually probably would have felt for that if I
Speaker 2: was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: I'm a sucker for a guitar, such a stereotype. I
Speaker 2: really am.
Speaker 3: Well, so Scott.
Speaker 1: If we call her and she says that you whipped
Speaker 1: it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed because I thought
Speaker 1: you made significant growth here. And that's not a little
Speaker 1: blue pill joke. That's just an honest observation of you.
Speaker 2: I want to hear. No, there is something wrong in
Speaker 2: my head.
Speaker 5: I just.
Speaker 2: Saying that you're saying with a clean.
Speaker 1: Thoughts, that's you projecting what you want. That has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that Scott
Speaker 1: has turned a Paige. The only weird part is his date,
Speaker 1: Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards.
Speaker 3: So let's find out what that's about. Scott. You ready
Speaker 3: to do this, Let's do it.
Speaker 2: Look at that you did the whole first half not
Speaker 2: getting shamed for anything. Scott, I think this is already
Speaker 2: a good sign of how this him.
Speaker 3: He's only said three words.
Speaker 1: If anything, Brooke is the creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts.
Speaker 3: So there we go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep the thoughts inside. Jeff, he just said
Speaker 2: that that's a win, you said.
Speaker 3: Okay, there we go. We're all in the winning page.
Speaker 5: Here.
Speaker 3: Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi is this Mandy?
Speaker 5: Yes speaking?
Speaker 1: Hey Mandy. This is a radio show. My name is
Speaker 1: Jeff and I'm part of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Sorry, You're sorry?
Speaker 3: Did I say that? Weird?
Speaker 2: Hey Mandy?
Speaker 1: Hey, there's a random person in the background who just
Speaker 1: said hi to you on the vote.
Speaker 3: Was I guess technically we work together? But yeah, that's Brooke.
Speaker 1: I'm Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: Morning with a whole room full of people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, alexis here too.
Speaker 5: Hell, what what are you calling me about?
Speaker 3: Okay, you get right to it. So, uh.
Speaker 1: This is called a second date update. It's a segment
Speaker 1: where we try to help our listeners reconnect with somebody
Speaker 1: after they've gone out with them once and you went
Speaker 1: out with a guy who listens to our show name Scott.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so what.
Speaker 1: Oh well, well, so Scott had a really good time
Speaker 1: at the beach with you, and he was hoping that.
Speaker 5: It wasn't a nice time.
Speaker 6: It was.
Speaker 5: It was fun. I won't speak badly on anybody. It
Speaker 5: was a it was a nice time.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if you had a good time.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to help Scott figure out why there
Speaker 1: hasn't been second date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to see you again.
Speaker 1: The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, which.
Speaker 3: We appreciate because we want to keep the word radio relevant.
Speaker 3: But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So is there
Speaker 3: a reason.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious.
Speaker 4: It was just a.
Speaker 5: Complete turn off for me that he had been on
Speaker 5: eight dates already this year, that he's just kind of
Speaker 5: juggling all these women, whereas I'm in a different place.
Speaker 5: I've only been on one date. Like, it's just felt
Speaker 5: like different life.
Speaker 2: Arenas he's been on eight dates and that's too many
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, he's just what if he have like
Speaker 5: a little rollo deck.
Speaker 2: That's not like you could still count that on two hands.
Speaker 2: I think that's fine.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person.
Speaker 5: I'm not into the short term casual dating that a
Speaker 5: lot of guys are looking to hook up nowadays. I'm
Speaker 5: not looking for that.
Speaker 2: But do you know that he even hooked up with
Speaker 2: all those people or was it just like it could
Speaker 2: just be a bad day. Doesn't even mean did he.
Speaker 4: Had a look in his eyes?
Speaker 5: If he kind of implied it, I wasn't going to ask.
Speaker 2: We can guarantee that one of those dates he did
Speaker 2: not hook up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah,
Speaker 1: it hasn't worked out for him. But you're saying he's
Speaker 1: coming across like a player to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an
Speaker 5: hour or two with somebody, you know what you need
Speaker 5: to know. You know if it's right and if you
Speaker 5: want to make things a little more serious. So if
Speaker 5: he was willing to commit to something a little more serious,
Speaker 5: I would say yes, But it sounds like he dates
Speaker 5: a lot and he's not looking for something like that.
Speaker 1: Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his
Speaker 1: current dating situation is. All we know is that he
Speaker 1: reached out to us to get another date, specifically with you.
Speaker 1: So that should tell you something and we should probably
Speaker 1: ask him about it. If he does have a giant
Speaker 1: roster of girls that he's seeing. Because he is on
Speaker 1: the phone right now.
Speaker 6: What can I get a handoff over here?
Speaker 3: He's listening to this and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, man, going Hi, she really turned it on.
Speaker 5: I just wasn't expecting to be having this conversation in
Speaker 5: this format.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You
Speaker 4: just think I'm a player.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not a player, younger.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone
Speaker 4: to be with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, just for fun.
Speaker 2: You can date for fun. That's okay too.
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour.
Speaker 1: It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is
Speaker 1: willing to even consider going out with you is if
Speaker 1: you agree to, like right now, not see anybody else,
Speaker 1: and give it one hundred percent with her.
Speaker 3: Is that something that big assumption?
Speaker 2: Jeff? Are you sure that's what she's saying?
Speaker 3: That's what I'm hearing. Is that right, Mandy?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a feeling when I was on the date.
Speaker 5: I don't know if that was mutual. What was the feeling,
Speaker 5: just that I could see myself with this person. I
Speaker 5: could see this progressing into something real, So see chemistry.
Speaker 6: You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating
Speaker 6: and you're not in that phase of dating.
Speaker 5: Right exact, And I'm not looking to get her so
Speaker 5: quick to give.
Speaker 2: Up on it?
Speaker 1: I know, well you were turned off because you thought
Speaker 1: that he's dating lots and lots and lots of women
Speaker 1: all right now.
Speaker 3: You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if it's me, it's me.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So Scott, is that something that you're even willing to
Speaker 1: consider dropping any other girl that you're talking to right
Speaker 1: now and only focusing on Mandy to clear the roster.
Speaker 4: Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now?
Speaker 4: Good answer?
Speaker 2: Okay, nice, Mandy, he was already only talking to you.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should just go right so this then, and
Speaker 1: ask Mandy, would you consider going out with Scott again?
Speaker 1: If he says right now he is willing to commit
Speaker 1: one hundred percent to you, not anybody else is scary. Basically,
Speaker 1: agree to enter a relationship on this, not potentially. You
Speaker 1: have to give in right now, one hundred percent, give
Speaker 1: yourself to her.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to have am I off, Mandy. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: I feel like you're a little laughing at me, but.
Speaker 4: Like that is what i'd like.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out.
Speaker 3: What do you say?
Speaker 4: Why not let's give it a shot?
Speaker 2: Why not? Yeah? I mean why not? He has no
Speaker 2: other options right now? Doesn't anybody?
Speaker 1: Congratulations? Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you.
Speaker 4: Look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't commit
Speaker 4: this early, but I honestly I want to spend more
Speaker 4: time with you.
Speaker 3: Mandy, isn't that nice?
Speaker 2: Excited?
Speaker 3: Can't break up with him?
Speaker 5: I'm glad you said that you were really open and
Speaker 5: vulnerable on your end, So I'm going to be that
Speaker 5: way with you that technically I'm engaged.
Speaker 3: Wait, what my god?
Speaker 5: That's why I need the commitment. That's why I need
Speaker 5: the band. So I plan to end it with.
Speaker 2: Him on what was your explanation? Why?
Speaker 5: Like, that's why I need to know if he's in
Speaker 5: this or not with me.
Speaker 6: So if your marriage engage because she needs to know
Speaker 6: if the backup plan is sad before she dumps the
Speaker 6: curry guys, is that what's happening?
Speaker 2: She's crazier than.
Speaker 5: Okay, But Scott, you don't need to listen to them.
Speaker 5: I'm just really excited to spend time with you.
Speaker 4: No, we're not hanging out.
Speaker 3: Okay, maybe, Scott.
Speaker 1: Now you should tell you wanted to rate all the
Speaker 1: other women on the beach on your I didn't go.
Speaker 3: You wanted to.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the good uses Scott at the end of
Speaker 1: the day. The big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 3: He did nothing wrong.
Speaker 1: He just ended up with a strict, controlling, pre engaged
Speaker 1: kind of nut job.
Speaker 6: So can gradual engage, very engaged engage?
Speaker 3: You have fun? You too.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who
Speaker 4: yourance is. His number?
Speaker 3: Doesn't he sound so in love?
Speaker 2: He sounds like he's.
Speaker 3: Nervous with the day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, relationship.
Speaker 3: And I could serenade her with your guitar, Scott, good work,
Speaker 3: Brookie Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man, with that woman
Speaker 3: on the phone.
Speaker 1: Now it all makes sense how she's only been with
Speaker 1: one man in the last year, because that was her fiance.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh god, I put that together. But aren't we
Speaker 2: applauding her for what she didn't do? Go on other
Speaker 2: dates with her?
Speaker 3: Just go went on this one.
Speaker 1: But again, that is on us for not saying, hey,
Speaker 1: how did your last relationship end? Because her answer would
Speaker 1: have been it hasn't ended. We're engaged right now.
Speaker 2: I see, that's all.
Speaker 3: I'm just looking for a backup. How did we miss that?
Speaker 1: Brooke?
Speaker 3: Where worry on that question?
Speaker 2: My head is not in the game today.
Speaker 1: Step it up on these calls going here on out.
Speaker 1: That would have saved us a whole lot of time.
Speaker 3: But in the end, happy ending.
Speaker 2: Kind of for who.
Speaker 3: No, definitely not for her.
Speaker 2: I mean she's got the big of a letter.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that HiT's for her. She's got commitments from not one,
Speaker 3: but two different men. Sure's a couple of people on
Speaker 3: the textboard that one her too. Yeah, but we can
Speaker 3: have you living here happily ever after.
Speaker 1: If you email the show, we'll call that person who's
Speaker 1: not calling you back and go check out all of
Speaker 1: our Seconday podcast wherever you get yours at Broken Jeffrey
Speaker 2: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning,