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Speaker 1: Our blogs, audio journals, like writing in our diaries, Paulina, Yes.

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Speaker 2: Take it away, Thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So I got a friend. You guys know, my best friend.

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Speaker 3: You know, he has a lot of opinions. He's a

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Speaker 3: he's you know, just he's Jonathan Ray. We all know Jonathan.

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Speaker 3: Everybody has that one friend who I feel like just

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Speaker 3: speaks their mind. And right now I think he's mad

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Speaker 3: at me. And he told me it's because I don't

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Speaker 3: set him up with people.

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Speaker 2: Now, let me explain and break that down a little

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Speaker 2: bit more. It's more I.

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Speaker 3: Don't set him up with people because I don't.

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Speaker 2: He thinks I don't care enough to or whatever.

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Speaker 3: If I mentioned, oh I met somebody whatever and my

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Speaker 3: best friend is gay, so he'll be like, oh, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'll bring up another man or whatever, and he'll be like,

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Speaker 3: and he didn't mention me. I thought he was kidding.

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Speaker 3: I thought this man was kidding. He is not kidding.

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Speaker 3: He goes he didn't mention me, and I'm like, why

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Speaker 3: would I mention him? Talking about business or something else,

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Speaker 3: or like someone's asking about I don't know some thing

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Speaker 3: that I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why would you be brought up, and he.

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Speaker 3: Was just so offended and he wants to get specifically

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Speaker 3: with someone that I know, and I don't know this

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Speaker 3: other person's gay though, So now my issue was.

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Speaker 1: Like, well that would be a good first time.

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Speaker 3: That's so inappropriate in my opinion to ask somebody like

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Speaker 3: and be like, you know, I mean, I think he's game.

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Speaker 2: Most of us think he's gay.

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Speaker 3: I think he gives gay.

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Speaker 1: Is he going to be something if he's not. I

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Speaker 1: think I'm pretty confident he gives gay.

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Speaker 3: But I am, well, you know, he'll say certain things

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Speaker 3: and I could pick up on it, right, I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I see things like I like man.

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Speaker 2: A much, I mean pretty much, and and my other.

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Speaker 1: Friends the manhole this weekend, Like what that's what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: And what what what sorts? I love the property brothers?

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Speaker 1: Like what what sort of things does he say? I mean,

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Speaker 1: let's figure that out first.

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Speaker 3: Well, my friend did some investigation and I guess asked

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Speaker 3: him something about a vacation and he's like, yeah, like

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Speaker 3: my friend that I travel with, he this he.

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Speaker 1: That he doesn't mean.

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Speaker 3: Either, I mean it doesn't but you know the way

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Speaker 3: that he's talking about his friend. They're traveling and things

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Speaker 3: sound a little sexy. In my opinion, it sounds like

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Speaker 3: it might be a guy he's seeing, So I just

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Speaker 3: I can't straight up ask him that. I feel rude

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Speaker 3: asking him that. So I'm picking up on the cues here.

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Speaker 3: But if he is, I would love to set them up,

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Speaker 3: but I can't get over this step first that to

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Speaker 3: find out is he even interested in Jonathan.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you just put them in the same place

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Speaker 1: together and then let him do the work so that

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Speaker 1: you don't have to be the middle person.

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Speaker 2: I can try that, I can see.

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Speaker 1: What I can and let him do his own investigation.

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Speaker 1: Because that way then you don't have to ask the

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable questions. Thank you, you don't have to be told no,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to be the messenger. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: get it, but I've given you a hard time over

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Speaker 1: the years for not setting me up with your hot friends.

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Speaker 1: If one in particular, well that was early on.

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Speaker 2: That was early I think it was just one hot friend.

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Speaker 1: It was one hot friend. You just wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't not do it.

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Speaker 3: I was just like trying to keep my job. I

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Speaker 3: was so new here and I didn't talk back yet

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Speaker 3: I was like a little afraid.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I don't want to like, no, you talked,

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Speaker 4: you said, you said, no.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I was very afraid if this

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Speaker 2: was today.

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Speaker 1: But I don't blame you. But I don't blame you

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Speaker 1: because it gets weird when. Trust me, it gets weird

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Speaker 1: when there's middle people involved, you know, in one person

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Speaker 1: or the other. Ax up. Look, I get that. I

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Speaker 1: get that it can be awkward to be sort of

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Speaker 1: in the middle of a situation like that, and so

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Speaker 1: it's sort of like hey, but but what you don't

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Speaker 1: get to do, which a lot of people do, is dabble,

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Speaker 1: like get in the middle of it and then when

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Speaker 1: it goes bad, then step away like oh I had

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with it. You no, no, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you, this was today. We either avoid it or

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Speaker 1: you either you either support it or you avoid it.

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Speaker 1: But you don't get to play the middle. That is true.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that, But I'm telling if it was today, like,

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Speaker 3: look at my friends, I'll let them up for you.

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Speaker 2: You can take a pic. I don't care.

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Speaker 3: At that time, I think it was like a different me,

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Speaker 3: different like mentality. Now, I would love I would love

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Speaker 3: if you got one of my friends, I would love

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Speaker 3: I recommended you to my friends. Wow, I have I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I know a good guy.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell Jonathan because he'll I was gonna say.

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Speaker 1: Jonathan's like he thinks it sounds like he thinks every

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Speaker 1: man should. You should be like, hey, I nice to

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Speaker 1: meet you. How are you? I'm pulling him on the

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Speaker 1: radio and then oh, by the way, would you like

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Speaker 1: to have section with my friend? Jonathan? Like like, I don't,

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Speaker 1: That's not how it goes.

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Speaker 3: No, Like, you have to meet them, you have to click,

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Speaker 3: you know, see if there is a vibe, you catch

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Speaker 3: a vibe on each other.

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Speaker 2: Gay, Yeah, we'll find out if.

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Speaker 1: First step that part is. I would say that would

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Speaker 1: be priority number one, right if you're looking for a

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Speaker 1: high level of success. But I do think that at

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Speaker 1: this point, if I'm going to meet anybody who I'm

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Speaker 1: going to be with, like really really be with, I

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Speaker 1: do think it's going to be a setup. It's going

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Speaker 1: to be somebody who knows me well saying to someone

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Speaker 1: else who they know, well, you know this is a match. Like,

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Speaker 1: I think that's the only way it's truly going to work.

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Speaker 1: Because the dating apps every time are a total crapshoot.

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Speaker 1: You have no idea what you're really getting on either side,

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how people We've talked about this,

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Speaker 1: you know, for hours on the show about dating apps,

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Speaker 1: but it's a hot or not game. It is not

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Speaker 1: a chemistry game. And I feel like the chemistry is

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Speaker 1: probably what keeps people together. And and also somebody vouching

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Speaker 1: for common interests in common you know the quality of

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Speaker 1: the human you know what I mean? Like you just

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Speaker 1: don't know. You don't know if the person you thinks

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Speaker 1: hot online is going to be a person who you

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Speaker 1: want to be with in person.

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Speaker 4: And that's why I think I'm with Jonathan on this one.

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Speaker 4: I think if you have a hot single friend, I

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Speaker 4: try to hook my hot single friends up with everybody.

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Speaker 4: They don't always like it, Kaitlin, but I always try

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Speaker 4: to do it. I just think you should always play

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Speaker 4: matchmaker with your friend.

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Speaker 1: Why not that was a waiter that you thought was hot,

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Speaker 1: that was not your.

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Speaker 2: Friends friend is hot and single?

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Speaker 1: What you're doing? Yeah, Kiki, if you have to produce anything,

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Speaker 1: I have to be very selective for you.

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Speaker 4: Like I have to be because I got a loyalty

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Speaker 4: to mam afraid, like, I just can't have you out

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Speaker 4: here doing everything.

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Speaker 1: But Kaitlyn great, but Kaylin knit just what.

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Speaker 2: Mist hasman material.

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Speaker 1: That's my close personal friend. I mean, he just read

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Speaker 1: me to specials, but he wrote them slowly and deliberately,

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Speaker 1: and I I feel like we're extremely close now