1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm Norah Jones and today I'm playing along with 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: a Nushka Shankar, my sister. 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: I'm just playing long with you. I'm just playing lone 4 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: with you. 5 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm Nora with me as always is Sarah Oda. Hello, Hello, 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: welcome to the show. 7 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: We have a very special episode today because we are 8 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 3: keeping it in the family. 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is special. Our guest today is a Nushka Shankar. 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: She's an amazing, brilliant, world renowned star player, and she 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: also happens to be my sister. Yes, we are half sisters, 12 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: and we have kind of an interesting story which we'll 13 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 1: get into a little but we basically both grew up 14 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: as only children and then we met when we were 15 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: sixteen and eighteen. I was eighteen. 16 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, this episode was so cool because you know, I've 17 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 3: known you for a long time, a long long time, 18 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 3: and its like I know that your sister is a 19 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 3: big part of your story, you know, and but I've 20 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 3: only kind of gotten bits and pieces over the years, 21 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 3: but like to hear you and her talk to each 22 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 3: other about those early stories about when you first reconnected 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: and everything is so special because you know, you each 24 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: kind of went on your own path and then met 25 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 3: in this way that's just so unique. 26 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: It is unique to us. We've also been close since 27 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: we've since we reconnected, and you know, we love each 28 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: other a lot. I love her so much. Also, she 29 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: is one of the most incredible musicians. 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 4: I know. 31 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: She's a virtue chuoso. I was gonna say she's virtuostic, 32 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: but I don't think that's a word. 33 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: That's so funny. Virtuostic virtuoso. 34 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 3: She's a virtuostick sitar player. 35 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: She's definitely a virtuoso. 36 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a master. 37 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: She's a master of the instrument and music in general. 38 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: I get to ask her about something that we've actually 39 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: never talked about, and that's when she started learning the 40 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: instrument at a very young age from our dad, who 41 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: was a very famous and brilliant sitar player. His name 42 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: was Ravi Shankar in case you don't know that, So 43 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: kind of hearing that story from her was special. But 44 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 1: she also comes from a very different way of learning music. 45 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: So we had some interesting talks about how we think 46 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: about certain things differently. And I found it very interesting 47 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: because I don't think I've ever completely understood the technique 48 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: of Indian classical music, and so she really explained it 49 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: well to me. 50 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 3: She's a good teacher. 51 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 1: I mean, she's an incredible musician, and we've got to 52 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: play music a few times together on a few of 53 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: her albums, but to sit in a room like this 54 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: and just play was super fun. 55 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, this was like the first time you kind of 56 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 3: did it that way in the strip. Yeah. 57 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really special for us. 58 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 3: She's also been nominated for nine Grammys and was the 59 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 3: first Indian musician to perform on the Grammys, which she 60 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 3: has done three times. 61 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, she's She's definitely been there a lot, and 62 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: we had fun on this trip. Actually, we were in 63 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: La and part of the trip was coordinating with her 64 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: if she was going to go or not. And I 65 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: had not seen her since twenty nineteen, so for me 66 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: to see her again and we spent maybe four days 67 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: in La together, it was really an intense like power hang. 68 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a power glam hang. 69 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 5: Yeah. 70 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: It was like a girl girl time. We sat in 71 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: the room and ordered takeout and our jammis and yeah, 72 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: it was like. 73 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: Half super glamorous and then half like in the jammis. 74 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because we went to the Grammys, so we 75 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: got all pretty top. 76 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 3: I also love that she requested to do a song 77 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: from your one of your early albums. 78 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was really fun. 79 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 3: Which I'm not going to say what it is. Yeah, 80 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: but we'll get to give it away, but it will 81 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: be a treat. 82 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I hope you enjoyed this episode. I love her 83 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: so much. I was gonna say we love her so much, 84 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: but I really love her so much. 85 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 6: I think you love her now too. 86 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 7: Yeah. 87 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: Well, you spent a lot of time with her that week, 88 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: so I feel like you finally got to know her. 89 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: I did, I don't. I feel like you've met her 90 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: a bunch but not. 91 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: It's always quick and in passing related. Yeah, this is 92 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 3: like a hang. 93 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we had so much fun, and please enjoy the 94 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: episode with the beautiful and the amazing anushkashenkr. 95 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 4: This said there now nine years. 96 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 8: The sun won't say. 97 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,559 Speaker 4: Than now nine years. 98 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 9: Golden numbers spinning bend, The day is almost I wonder. 99 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: How it falls the neatly evening, sir. 100 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 5: Each sunset keeps me still. 101 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 10: The tree, shets it sleeps our when the evening chill 102 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 10: is hardest. 103 00:05:52,040 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 4: See the sun won't say than now. 104 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, the sun wall said than now ninety. 105 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 9: Sam bel all the trees starting to get close, holding 106 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 9: on through change. 107 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 4: During the day we go and this the morning. 108 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 9: Far upon mahings, I wish tell you there it's always 109 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 9: sunset and space, the sun. 110 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 11: And now. 111 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, the suns. 112 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 7: M h. 113 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 4: I know, ny, then. 114 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 12: The sun won't save. 115 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 11: God. 116 00:07:52,640 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 5: Now nice the son sad night. 117 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: How do you feel about unresolving? 118 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 6: Do you ready to do or not to d Is 119 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 6: that what you said? The story of my life? 120 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 4: Oh? 121 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: My god, I thought that was really pretty. 122 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 6: It was really pretty. 123 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: I screwed up some of the phrasing, but I feel 124 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: like I caught up. 125 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 6: I was like, oh, she could have kept Yeah, she 126 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 6: did it good because. 127 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: I thought that was really pretty. 128 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 7: Yeah. 129 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 6: The fact that you did it meant that it was beautiful. 130 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 6: That's jazz baby different. 131 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: Okay, good. 132 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 6: I thought that I liked that little ending I did resolve, though. 133 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 6: Are you happy with the fact that I. 134 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, I thought that was so pretty. 135 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 6: It felt it to me. Yay, so hi, Hello, I 136 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 6: love you. 137 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: I usually end the podcast. 138 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 6: With I love you, but start with it. You can 139 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 6: start and end with it. I get I surely get 140 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 6: a little bit more. 141 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: I feel like this is so special for me to 142 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: have you to play music with you in this way 143 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: because we've recorded I feel like we recorded these songs 144 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: how long ago twenty thirteen. 145 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 6: I mean exactly ten years ago. Exactly ten years ago, yeah, 146 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 6: exactly ten years ago. 147 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, And this was a fun session because we got 148 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: to play together in the studio. It wasn't like an 149 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: overdub added later or something. 150 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I remember that, But that was funny because 151 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 6: that was only ten years ago in another sense, and 152 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 6: it was our first time sort of sitting in a 153 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 6: room and playing. Yeah, it really was. 154 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: And we and we hung out and wrote one of 155 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:03,839 Speaker 1: them together. Are kind of That was also fun. Yeah. 156 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 6: I wrote words and you made them sound good. 157 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: It was amazing, and the really emotional words, if I can, 158 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't remember remember one change that you 159 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: made where I had been like so painfully literal about 160 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:17,719 Speaker 1: one thing, Oh, and. 161 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 6: You were just really gently like, how about we just 162 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 6: changed that word to this word, and then I met 163 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 6: with this one instead, And I was like, yep, if 164 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 6: I thought of that, that would. 165 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: Have been we'll play that song later. Yeah, you'll have 166 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: to remind me or maybe we can keep me scant. 167 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 1: I don't know, that's so crazy. I remember. Do you 168 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: remember the first time we met? 169 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I mean slightly significant. 170 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: Very significant. And I just want to describe to you 171 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: how I felt when I saw you. You were sixteen 172 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: years old and I was eighteen, and of course we're 173 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: meeting our sister for the first time. 174 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 6: It was heavy. We don't have to get too heavy here, 175 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 6: but I mean I'm already feeling heavy. 176 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 11: I don't know. 177 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: But you walked into the room you got you got 178 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: home from school. 179 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, you were already there. 180 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: I was already there. And you walk into the room 181 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 1: and you had this gorgeous hair down to your butt. 182 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 6: Almost yeah, where did that go? 183 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 4: Oh? 184 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: I know? And you had jeans on and like a 185 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: T shirt, and you had blue eyeshadow, and you were 186 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: so beautiful and like bubbly and sweet and you just 187 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: came in and you gave me a hug, and I 188 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: love you. 189 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 6: I love you. Do you remember that before the day 190 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 6: we met, we'd been speaking on the phone for like 191 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 6: maybe some months, I don't getting to know each other 192 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 6: before you came. And I remember one day being on 193 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 6: the phone with you and kind of saying, I wonder 194 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 6: what it would be like when we meet, Like would 195 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 6: we hug or would we And you were like, I'm 196 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 6: mad at you? Why would you even ask that? Of course, 197 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 6: of course I would hug you. So then I felt 198 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 6: so much more confident that day to be like, okay, 199 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 6: I get time I'm mad at you. Like I'm mad 200 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 6: at you. 201 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Yeah, yeah, I don't remember. 202 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 6: And you gave me a Doctor Seuss book that day. 203 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 6: You gave me. You gave me The Places You'll Go. 204 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 6: Oh my god, you. 205 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: Found it recently. Ye sent me a picture that the 206 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 1: little inscription was really sweet. I used to be thoughtful 207 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: and sweet. 208 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 6: I haven't had anything with your writing on it to me, and. 209 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm Heaven's I'm the worst birthday remember, as you know 210 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: on the planet. I also don't care about my own birthday, 211 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: So I think that's why I like. 212 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 6: I'm like, oh my god, you just made it so 213 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 6: selfish on my part. Now I know why I remember 214 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 6: people's birthdays, because you care about I'm obsessed with my own. Yeah, 215 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 6: I think that's how it is. 216 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: I know some people say they're more givers than receivers, 217 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: but do you think most people know you. 218 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 6: And your birthday? Yeah? Yeah, Oh that's so sweet though, 219 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 6: we were sweet. 220 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: We were so sweet. 221 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 6: I think we had to be so intentional about building 222 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 6: our relationship that we kind of came very open heartedly 223 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 6: towards each other to be like, Hi, I want you, 224 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 6: I want you, choose you. Yeah, yeah, because we could 225 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 6: have not stay. 226 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: It's not like we were ever going to live together. 227 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: And you're better at that than I am. But it's 228 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: only because I'm bad at it, not because I don't 229 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: want it, just because again that's my personality. I'm just flaky. Yeah, 230 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: you have always been. I don't know, it's just so crazy. 231 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: I think we both said to each other, I've always 232 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: wanted a sister. 233 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 6: Well, I always knew I had you and that i'd 234 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 6: never met you. So maybe I don't know which came first, 235 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 6: chicken or egg, you know, like maybe it's because I 236 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 6: knew you were out there somewhere, or maybe it wasn't. 237 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 6: But I was always obsessed with this idea that I 238 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 6: had a sister, and like I used to think about 239 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 6: it and be like, well, if I had a sister here, 240 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 6: then this would be happening or if yah. 241 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I didn't know about you till I 242 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: was nine. Yeah, that was your story was just we 243 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: have such a weird family story, and it's very personal 244 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: to us and hard for other people to get right. 245 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 6: But why I find fun. I mean, I want you 246 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 6: to finish whatever you were saying as well. But I 247 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 6: feel like so often I hear stories that are so 248 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 6: much crazier than our. 249 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: Oh totally too, it's mild compared. 250 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 6: So sometimes I'm like, it's really crazy, and sometimes I'm like, yeah, 251 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 6: it's not that crazy. 252 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: It's just it's just specific. 253 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 6: It's specific, and I think everyone's own story will have 254 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 6: its own full feelings. 255 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: So like, yeah, our joy. 256 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 6: Was our joy, our pain was our pain. 257 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then our impressions of our own story are 258 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: different from each other's. Yeah, Because like I didn't know 259 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: about you until I was nine. Yeah, and then because 260 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't really around any of that part of the family, 261 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: I think I didn't really let myself think about you 262 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: that much. It was a little bit protective. Yeah, And 263 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: so when it came down to it, I got I 264 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: did get so excited. Yeah, but I hadn't really let 265 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: myself go there when I was a kid. 266 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 6: That makes sense. Yeah, Do you remember the first time 267 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 6: I came to visit you? 268 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: I remember the first time you came to New York. 269 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, and you had a bedroom that was pretty much 270 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 6: the size of your mattress. 271 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was tiny. 272 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, and it was like for me, it was exciting 273 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 6: because like I lived at home and it was like 274 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 6: getting to visit my big sister in New York where 275 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 6: she was like suddenly there making music and building a life. 276 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 6: And it was yeah, super like exciting to me to 277 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 6: come and see you there. 278 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: It was really fun. We had a ball, We did 279 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: all the things. 280 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 6: We did all the things. 281 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were grown. We were grown women. So if 282 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: we were not, we were very. 283 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:28,479 Speaker 6: Little, yes, but we felt like grown women. Yeah. 284 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: That was the funnest time. Well, it's so fun to 285 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: like talk and then play music. 286 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 6: Talk and so let's play music. Which one do you 287 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 6: want to do next? 288 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 7: Well? 289 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: Do you have an order of tuning. 290 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 6: Between them all? Should we try yours? Yeah? 291 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: Okay, I love that you wanted to do this. 292 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 6: I was so you know what I mean. I just 293 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 6: thought if I was coming into your space in this podcast, 294 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 6: like I feel like it's awesome that you're always reaching 295 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 6: out to play other people's music and you're so good 296 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 6: at that. And then I was like, but I never 297 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 6: quite challenged myself the same way with you. So I 298 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 6: was like, let me just like, also try and play 299 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 6: one of your songs. And I have fun always loved 300 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 6: this song, so. 301 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: I have too. I didn't write the song. This song 302 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: is called those Sweet Words, and I actually didn't write it, 303 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: but I do feel like it's my song. 304 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 6: Well you make it your. 305 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: Lee wrote it. Lee Alexander and Richard Julian you know 306 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: them both well from the old days of Hanging. And 307 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: they actually wrote. 308 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 6: It for a movie. 309 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: Did you know that. 310 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 6: I didn't know that. 311 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: They wrote it for a Rob Ryaner movie starring Kate Hudson, 312 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: No Way and Luke Wilson, amazing called. 313 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 6: You can do this insert later? 314 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: Remember right, it's the second one is called Sarah. Can 315 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: you google that and I'll insert it later. 316 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, my head's going to a lot of romantic comedies. 317 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 6: But I don't think. Yeah, they wrote ones. 318 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: They wrote it for that movie and it was in 319 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: the movie, but then we re recorded it for the album. 320 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 6: I didn't know that we did, like a different version 321 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 6: for the album because it was on your second album. 322 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: It was on my second album. Yeah, I love it, Yeah, 323 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: And it was just a I think, you know, I 324 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 1: think you picked it because you've always felt like it 325 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: sounded a little Indian. 326 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 6: There's something in there, there is. 327 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think there is. So I don't know 328 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: if it was from like Lee hanging out with you 329 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 1: guys and us going to see you play that it 330 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 1: felt like that or what, but it definitely has the virue. 331 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 6: Well, I love it, Let's try it, Let's tune for it. Oh, 332 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 6: you want to tune and to go major on a 333 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 6: couple of things. Thanks, And that's why we do long songs. Cool. 334 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: The tuning thing is intense. 335 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 6: Tuning thing is intense for situations like this where I 336 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 6: step out of like a more Indian raga context and 337 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 6: I'm playing like three four minute songs. I really have 338 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 6: to shape. If it's my own shows, I can really 339 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 6: shape it in a way that makes sense for tuning. 340 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 6: But otherwise it's like you can't be doing that yeah 341 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 6: every three Yeah, it's different. 342 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: Like when our dad would perform, didn't people clap at 343 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: the tuning because they weren't sure that that was Yeah, 344 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: it sounds. 345 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 6: That's like the story right, mm hmmm. I think that's 346 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 6: the concert for Bangala Dish recording that it's like on 347 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 6: record that he said that where He's like, if you 348 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 6: enjoyed the tuning so much, I hope you. 349 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: I hope you like that's so funny, all right? 350 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 6: Do I just start oh yeah, yeah, or or do 351 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 6: you set tempo? 352 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure we're in the same 353 00:18:33,600 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: age something like that. Cool cool? What did you say? 354 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 4: And no, SI say? 355 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 9: Man is one star ragon long enoughty? 356 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 12: Those sweet words? What did you say? 357 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 9: The end of the day? 358 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 4: The hour head has smoke. 359 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: Before the night stone. 360 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 5: I just have. 361 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 9: Those sweet words spoken lack mellowly. 362 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 5: All you love. 363 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 11: Is lost blue. 364 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 4: Rise enough. 365 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 5: Through the after? 366 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 8: No tail let confed on the head of. 367 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 6: B Come on he. 368 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 12: Did you have a hard time sleeping. 369 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 9: Because the heavy moon's keeping me awake? 370 00:20:31,400 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 12: And all nooys I'm discribed to see? Okay, seem alone. 371 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 4: That spoiled. 372 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 12: Rising through. 373 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 4: The after. 374 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 11: And then you pe. 375 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 4: What did you say? And no saw singing? 376 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 11: But ma's a long. 377 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 1: Stopping, long enough toy. 378 00:21:50,280 --> 00:22:00,160 Speaker 9: Those sweet words spoken lack of mellowy. I just wanna 379 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 9: oh sweet wood and just simple melody. 380 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 12: I just swoan hee. 381 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 4: Sweet wood. 382 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 6: I love that. 383 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 12: I know he yay. 384 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 6: And also that way your song sounds like different for 385 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 6: a reason. 386 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like it's like I love hearing you 387 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: do more rhythmic stuff. 388 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 6: Cool, that was so pretty. Thank you your song is 389 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 6: so pretty. 390 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: Oh well my song that I didn't write. 391 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 6: Your song, but you didn't write but you make yours. 392 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: But I make mine. Yeah, I think when I sing that. 393 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, it always really like I want to sing. 394 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: Like like like lot that one guest, but I can't 395 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: because I can't roll notes to save my life. I 396 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: never have been able to. 397 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,399 Speaker 6: So I kind of you do in a different way, 398 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 6: but I don't in the actual way, the Indian way. 399 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, even with R and B, I can't do those 400 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 1: kind of roles either. 401 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, whatever you do, it's working, So keep doing 402 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 6: fake my way through those. 403 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 13: Yeah. 404 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, but I love when you did that, even when 405 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 6: you sang buppies are our dads. I'm missing you, and 406 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 6: I feel like you hit a lot of those inflections 407 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 6: but in a way that you made your own, which 408 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 6: I find like more beautiful if you're going to do it. Yeah, 409 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 6: it's nice to hear it as you you know. 410 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: Thanks, Well, yeah that's the goal, right, But yeah, the 411 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 1: way you Latchmi sings that, it's so beautiful and there's 412 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 1: no way I could do it like her, so. 413 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 6: Neither can I. 414 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was fun. When did you start playing? 415 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 6: I started playing? I remember my first lesson was when 416 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,719 Speaker 6: I was seven, and it was with our dad. It 417 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 6: wasn't actually the very first lesson was with our dad's student, 418 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 6: gar of Mazoum there Oh I remember. Yeah, it's the 419 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 6: sweetest sweetheart, And like I really remember like being out 420 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 6: in the garden and being kind of called in because 421 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 6: it was time to do my first lesson. So it's 422 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 6: just set up badly, like from the beginning. I didn't 423 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 6: want to do it because it was like, but I'm playing, 424 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 6: you know, I'm playing on the playground. But I remember 425 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 6: like just being shown like just the first octave and 426 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 6: just where they were on the instrument. And I had 427 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 6: learned like very basic singing from my mom from much 428 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 6: before that, so I knew like what the notes were 429 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 6: in the Indian Okay which like self pedio system so Studayisa, 430 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 6: So I knew that octave. I knew those notes, but 431 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 6: he was showing me like where where on the instrument 432 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,959 Speaker 6: that would be, So I think I may I don't remember. 433 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 6: I may have had like a first just literally maybe 434 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 6: three or four lessons with him to set that up. 435 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,919 Speaker 6: But then from there our dad was teaching me. 436 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: But did you understand at seven the gravity of learning 437 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 1: to play this instrument with with who your dad is. 438 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:03,119 Speaker 6: I wondered if subliminally, even that kind of slight resistance 439 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 6: to like do I have to could have been a 440 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:06,959 Speaker 6: very normal kids resistant. 441 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't really know. 442 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 6: But also there was a way to it of some kind. 443 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: You weren't sure what it was. 444 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 6: I wasn't sure what it was, but if I look back, 445 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 6: it was like maybe there were some like aunties or 446 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 6: uncles or family friends around who would be like, oh, 447 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 6: so is she playing it? 448 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 14: Or oh, yeah, she playing You know. 449 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 6: They weren't asking me about my math homework or my 450 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 6: piano the same way. It was like, is she is 451 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 6: doing this? 452 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 1: You know? Yeah? 453 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 6: So I think that did add a certain pressure or 454 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 6: weight to it, as much as they tried not to 455 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 6: have it be too bad. 456 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: But you're so young. I just wonder how much of 457 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 1: it sunk in. 458 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,479 Speaker 6: I think those first couple of years it was, you know, 459 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 6: scales and songs and playing. And then as it got 460 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 6: a little better at it, like as happened so often, 461 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 6: I started enjoying it more as well. So I don't 462 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 6: think I was like in any way contemplating it or 463 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 6: serious about it until I was like ten or eleven twelve. 464 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 1: But what a strange thing to have him be your 465 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 1: teacher from such a young age. 466 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 6: Well, I mean strange. 467 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: I'd also like lucky. No, no, no, I don't mean it's 468 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 1: strange in about way. I mean it's super lucky and 469 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 1: incredible of course. But what I mean is like your 470 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 1: dynamic as him being your dad, like also being your 471 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 1: because in this kind of music, it's not just like casual. 472 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: It's very respects oriented and teacher student hierarchy, isn't it. 473 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, there is. I mean there's a there's a sort 474 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 6: of if you go back to like the more traditional setup, 475 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 6: like there's a whole sort of philosophy and lifestyle or 476 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 6: spiritual path even that comes along with learning from a 477 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 6: group like a teacher. And that's why they call it 478 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 6: your group guru. And so whether that's in my instrument 479 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 6: or in another instrument or in another field, it's that 480 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 6: same element of you, like you are learning something that's 481 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 6: being passed on to you in an oral tradition. So 482 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 6: it's like a living lesson that's being given to you 483 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 6: from this person. So it's very precious, but biproxy, so 484 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 6: is that person. So there is a kind of veneration 485 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 6: or respect for that, and you. 486 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 1: Should have that for your father anyway. Yes, but you know, 487 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 1: I'm so casual in that way with my teacher in 488 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 1: my parents, but I remember that. 489 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 6: When you when you started coming around, because when you 490 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 6: would come and stay with us, you just automatically had 491 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 6: a different kind of immediacy and comfort level with him 492 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 6: in the way you hung out with him, which would 493 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 6: make me realize in turn that I'd absorbed some of 494 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 6: that formality even though we were like super cleatly super close, 495 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 6: But there was just something slightly different about the way 496 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 6: I was with him then with my mom for example. 497 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: Exactly, which yeah, to be which I think is is 498 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 1: just very interesting. 499 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's fascinating. I think in that culture it's really common, 500 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 6: like music or any craft is so often passed down 501 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 6: from a teacher to their children, like to a point 502 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 6: that it goes too far. Like I think a lot 503 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 6: of people get really protective of their craft and their 504 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 6: family business to their children only. Yeah, which luckily Boppy 505 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 6: never did, like our dad never did that. But so 506 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 6: I guess I had a lot of references of other 507 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 6: people that were doing a similar thing. 508 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: That's right. I remember some of those people. 509 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, and so I could talk about that with them 510 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 6: a little bit sometimes. And also I think he like 511 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 6: to give him credit. He also didn't want it to 512 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 6: kind of ruin, Yeah, the father daughter's side of things. 513 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 6: So he did put some effort into, like I'm sure 514 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 6: building some boundaries around, like we're in the music room now, 515 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 6: that's we're in the living room. 516 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 1: Because I didn't know if he was conscious of that, 517 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: but it never seemed I never felt any formality between 518 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 1: you guys personally. I just I know that, like it's 519 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: a strange dynamic for me to imagine. Yeah, yeah, strange, 520 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: not bad, strange, just strange, just different. 521 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 6: Strange, unusual. 522 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, strange can be a loaded word, that's cool. And 523 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: then and then how old were you when you did. 524 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 6: Your first show? Oh my god, I was thirteen and 525 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 6: it was in front of like two and a half 526 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 6: thousand people. Oh my god, it was horrific. 527 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 1: So when did the idea start getting floated that you. 528 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 6: With the context It was that it was our dad's 529 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 6: seventy fifth birthday. Okay, so they started planning like a 530 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 6: big concert to just celebrate that and like have a 531 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 6: lot of his students from around the country like common perform. 532 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 6: So they started rehearsing like this big ensemble pees and 533 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 6: all the students that could be available to come came 534 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 6: and so given that context, I was sitting right there 535 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 6: next to everyone in the rehearsals, and I remember my 536 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 6: mom kind of coming to me at some point, going, 537 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 6: do you do you want to take part? Like are 538 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 6: you wanting You're also his student, you're his younger student. 539 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 6: And I kind of said yes with a bit of 540 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 6: like wonderment and confusion, like yeah, sure, Wait what can 541 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 6: I say? How what? So I kind of plugged into 542 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 6: the group rehearsals and started playing the group songs that 543 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 6: we were all playing together. But then they had everyone 544 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 6: put their instruments down in the middle and I had 545 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 6: like a solo because it was like my announced. 546 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was like you're coming out party Jesus. 547 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 6: Yes, it was very much like that. 548 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: That sounds so stressful, but I was really stressful. So cool. 549 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 6: I was so panicked, like beforehand. 550 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: So you were you let all that stress was there? 551 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 6: It was there. It was it was like the first 552 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 6: time in my childhood that I remember that feeling of 553 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 6: like I didn't know you could feel your own heartbeat, 554 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 6: you know, it's like feeling like it's going to beat 555 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 6: out of your chest. And I was like, Oh, is 556 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 6: this what being really really nervous is? 557 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is kind of nuts. 558 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 6: It was kind of nuts. 559 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: And then after that, was it just sort of you 560 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: were always playing with him? 561 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 6: Or was it within the Over the next year, I 562 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 6: did a couple more shows with him that were sort 563 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 6: of convenient nearby, like near where we grew up, where 564 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 6: I grew up in San Diego, so there was like 565 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 6: an LA show in a San Francisco show. But then 566 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 6: over the year that just felt really good, and I 567 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 6: started doing all his shows with him. 568 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: And did you get when did you start getting really 569 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 1: excited about doing it through that process? 570 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 6: Like I think for me, because it's such a it's 571 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 6: such an improvised form of music, and also because it's 572 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 6: taught from person to person, this stage ended up becoming 573 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 6: like this beautiful extension of our of our lessons at home. 574 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 6: So I was still learning, but I was learning in 575 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 6: this kind of really heady and beautiful heightened context, right. 576 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: And also to be sitting with him as a performer, 577 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: there was. 578 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 3: So much special. 579 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 6: There was so much learning from being up close to 580 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 6: him on stage. 581 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, really was. 582 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 6: That was a huge part of made me fall in 583 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 6: love with it totally. 584 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, like I hate rehearsing, but playing live it's 585 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: like there's always something special happens. 586 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. So I didn't feel like practicing at home, yeah, exactly. 587 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: So it was really with the tuner on. Yeah, And 588 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: so like. 589 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 6: That was a few years, you know, through high school, 590 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 6: so leading up to turning eighteen like that, all those 591 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 6: years I did almost all his shows and then I 592 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 6: finished high school and it was like, well, I guess 593 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 6: this is what I do. 594 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: What I do, But you put out an album in 595 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: high school? 596 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 6: Still, right, Oh my god, Yeah I did. My first 597 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 6: album was came out in my senior year. I think, 598 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 6: oh my gosh. 599 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, was that exciting or was that kind of like, 600 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: well it. 601 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 6: Was whatever, super exciting. No, it was really exciting. I 602 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 6: loved the idea that I was going to get to 603 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 6: do that and make music and make a record. And 604 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 6: also it was the nineties and things still happened a 605 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 6: certain big record label kind of way. Yeah, it's still 606 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 6: felt excited Yeah. It felt like being swept up into 607 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 6: this amazing whirlwind, you know. And it was a. 608 00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: Straight Indian classicool. 609 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 6: It was purely and that's all you did then. Yeah, 610 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 6: So that and then the next two records were like 611 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 6: purely Indian classical. But I remember like when it was 612 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 6: coming out. Do you remember Blockbuster stores? So there was 613 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 6: like a Blockbuster that was on the way from my house, 614 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,239 Speaker 6: I remember it to my high school, and so there 615 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 6: was like a month or a week, I can't remember, 616 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 6: but there was like some period of time where my 617 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 6: face was like on the window of the Blockbuster that 618 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 6: we would all see as I got to high school. 619 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 6: And so that was like the first time that things 620 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 6: my world's kind of collided, because up until then I 621 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 6: just had my like normal public high school life. And 622 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 6: then I disappeared now and then and go on tour. 623 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 6: And then that year when the record came out, Everyone's like, 624 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 6: why is your face on the. 625 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 1: Did they even register? Or they like, I mean that 626 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: that's cool. 627 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 6: Both It was weird and cool. Yeah, but yeah, it 628 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 6: was like things sort of clashed in a beautiful way 629 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 6: and it was like, no, this is this is what 630 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 6: I do it. It made it really real because I 631 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 6: just kind of kept it really compartmentalized until then. 632 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, sometimes I feel like that 633 00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: about my life. When I go on tour, it feels 634 00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 1: like unless my kids are with me, and sometimes you know, 635 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: I go without them, I feel like it's a double life. 636 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 6: Totally. It was just so different. 637 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just such a different every day is just 638 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 1: so different than being home and doing life totally. Yeah, Okay, 639 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 1: and then and then I remember when you started kind 640 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: of searching for different things. 641 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I saw a lot of you that 642 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 6: year when I started making Rise, which was my fourth album, 643 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 6: but it was the first one that I wrote and 644 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 6: produced myself. So in a way, I sometimes forget to 645 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 6: count my first three. I mean, I count that I 646 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 6: know what you mean. That one felt like my first baby, 647 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 6: you know. 648 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it felt like your first baby. I mean, did 649 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: you feel I feel like I'm My impression was that 650 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 1: you had a lot of anxiety about trying to venture 651 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,959 Speaker 1: out on your own and not just follow exactly what 652 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: you were taught. Totally right. 653 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, But I think whereas now, you know, obviously it's 654 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 6: many years later, but like there's a certain comfort to 655 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 6: just making music. However, feels like truthful to me. 656 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 1: It makes sense now, but then then it is to 657 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: kind of step. 658 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 6: Out of the only context I'd been in. But know that, 659 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 6: like as a person that wasn't the whole meet Like 660 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 6: I grew up learning this traditional music that I loved 661 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,720 Speaker 6: so deeply, but I also was this whole other person 662 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 6: that had grown up, you know, around the world and 663 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 6: listened to all kinds of music and you know, went 664 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 6: to music festivals and just had a lot of influences 665 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 6: raves I went. I was a little psychedelic transhead, Like 666 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 6: I spent my winters in go whenever I could, and 667 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 6: I was at like crazy three day drouts parties, you know. 668 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 6: So that was a big part of my life. And 669 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 6: so I really did want to make music that reflected 670 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 6: my soul and who I was a bit more. But 671 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,359 Speaker 6: it also felt really scary stepping out for the first time. 672 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt that for you and from you. Yeah, 673 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 1: And I was so excited for you too. 674 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 6: You guys named that record, Do you remember? 675 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 7: I do? 676 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: I remember? I think lead is Yeah. 677 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 6: I came to your house like the day at mastered it, 678 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 6: and we came and listened on your amazing Oh yes, 679 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 6: because once again I was audio fiah, but it was 680 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 6: a very different context, like once again I'm visiting my 681 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 6: big sister in New York and her like amazing more 682 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 6: grown up life. But now it was like your whole 683 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 6: new life. 684 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have money. 685 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 6: So it was this amazing place and this incredible music system, 686 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 6: and yeah, I just got to sit and listen to 687 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 6: the record with you guys, and I had like no 688 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,359 Speaker 6: time left to name it. 689 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: That's right. 690 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 6: And he was just leaning back, right, Lee was like 691 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 6: leaning back and listening to music, and suddenly out of nowhere, 692 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 6: he was like rise. 693 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: Did he pick a word from a song? 694 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 6: It wasn't any of the song names. He just said rise, 695 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 6: and I will give you like that like a little 696 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 6: like a Buddha. Yes, so yeah, thanks for that. 697 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: Yeah that's so funny. 698 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 7: Yah. 699 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I loved whenever that was all happening. You know, 700 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: it was exciting to watch. I think it's so exciting 701 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:55,760 Speaker 1: to watch young artists who you see at a young age, 702 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: and it's so exciting to see them grow into who 703 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: they become. And like you see that with these young 704 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 1: pop stars sometimes they grow up to be like incredible 705 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 1: artists that you just it's totally yeah, you just watch 706 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: them become that before your eyes. 707 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 6: In this last decade, where like the way people can 708 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 6: reach with music, I feel like we see more people 709 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 6: who just start that way where they're building their own 710 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 6: identity in their room with their little true set up, 711 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 6: and they can just come out kind of being themselves. 712 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 6: And I admire that so much. But I also, like 713 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 6: you say, like I love seeing people like break out, 714 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 6: like whether it's the kind of the Disney stars or 715 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:34,240 Speaker 6: whoever exactly. So they're already successful, they're already making there's 716 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 6: super talent, but you see the moment where they kind 717 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 6: of find themselves within what they're doing and bring that 718 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,240 Speaker 6: and infuse it into what they're doing. It's really beautiful. 719 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,720 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's like it's like everyone growing 720 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 1: up and becoming more yourself, even in life. But I 721 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: just love it in music. I love seeing it happen. 722 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 6: Well, you did it in a pretty brave way, I think, like, oh, 723 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 6: really leaving school and going to New York and kind 724 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,320 Speaker 6: of making that decision for music. 725 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 1: Did you know that I was? I don't know if 726 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: you know this, you might tell me. I did two 727 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: years of jazz college, right, and then at the end 728 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,680 Speaker 1: of the second year, I had to take eight or 729 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 1: six semesters of classical piano. 730 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 6: Is that when you play. 731 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 1: I had not started yet until the end the last 732 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,720 Speaker 1: semester of the second year, and I had this awesome teacher. 733 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 1: She was so cool and an incredible human, but I 734 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: think she liked me a lot, and she knew that. 735 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 1: She's like, you're gonna cram and really practice. When it 736 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 1: got closer to the jury, right, I was like, yeah, totally, 737 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,319 Speaker 1: and I did not. I failed my classical jury. I 738 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,840 Speaker 1: didn't know that, and I think, I mean, that's not 739 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 1: the only reason I dropped out of college, but I 740 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: think it being faced with eight semesters of classical piano, 741 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 1: which was just not what I was I'm sure it 742 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: would have made me a better pianist, but it's not 743 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: what my heart wanted to be focusing on. And I 744 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 1: was already doing gig and stuff and I was so 745 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: into this other kind of making music. I think that 746 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: was a big part of it. I just knew I 747 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:07,160 Speaker 1: couldn't do it. 748 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 6: I love that you share that because I just think 749 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 6: for someone listening as well to know that, like someone 750 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 6: like you, but you failed, and then like you found 751 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 6: your music, You know what I mean. I think that's 752 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 6: really beautiful. 753 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 1: That well, it's funny too, because I'd never failed at 754 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 1: music before, because it was always good at it, and 755 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: I was always like, you know, the person who got 756 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: the solo or like the person who could figure out 757 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 1: the cord first. 758 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,240 Speaker 6: Maybe let me let me reframe what I'm what I'm thinking. 759 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 6: I mean, which is that like, at least especially in 760 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 6: the UK for example where I live now, like the 761 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,799 Speaker 6: education system for music just gets continually more and more formalized, 762 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 6: more and more pedantic, more and more kind of uniform, 763 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 6: and I just think it funnels people through this way 764 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 6: that I think can be so disheartening. So I think 765 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 6: to hear that someone like you like failed within that 766 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 6: system because that wasn't the aspect of what you do, 767 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,360 Speaker 6: but still could find that, I think that's that's great. 768 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think all of that has good, 769 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: good value. It's not like I don't think that I 770 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: just for me at that time, I could not do 771 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 1: it totally. But it's funny. Yeah, So he went right, 772 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: I failed, and I cried so hard, and my teacher 773 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: was so sweet. She hugged me, and I think she 774 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,200 Speaker 1: was shocked. That I failed because she was shocked that 775 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 1: I didn't practice enough. In the end, it was really 776 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: just on practice. Yeah, I just didn't practice. Yeah, but yeah, 777 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 1: So then I moved to New York and I try 778 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 1: to figure myself out. Let's try Can we try traces? Yeah, 779 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: i'd love to. I love this song. 780 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 6: I don't know how we're going to do it as 781 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 6: two people. 782 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 1: I'll just like skip a few or something. 783 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 6: I'm like such a linear musician that I'm like, I 784 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 6: can be really good on my instrument with my two hands, 785 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 6: doing something really precise, and as soon as I just 786 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,879 Speaker 6: need to say something like hello at the right time, 787 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 6: I'm like, your time is off, my hand falls apart 788 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 6: my tip. Yeah. Yeah, it's I always look at people 789 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,840 Speaker 6: like you and go, how are you doing like four 790 00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 6: things at the same time. 791 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm I mean that's why I had that restaurant 792 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 1: gig in college. It was paid practice. It was coordination practice. 793 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 6: I remember seeing you somewhere that was on like thirty 794 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 6: third and third. Oh, remember that same first trip when 795 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 6: I came to visit you. 796 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm staying at a wine bar and you came. 797 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember, because I was going to go leave 798 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,799 Speaker 6: to see a boyfriend. I remember very well, and I 799 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 6: thought that thirty third and third was really close to 800 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 6: thirty eighth and eighth, and then I was just walking forever. 801 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 1: I remember this, Yes, I remember those boots. 802 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 6: Actually those boots were not meant for one. 803 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:38,879 Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then I remember it anyway, never mind, 804 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: what was that Imber? 805 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 6: I remember? Oh, I remember what you're not saying. 806 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to say it, but we can cut it. 807 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: I remember late at night, being home from my gig 808 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: and having said goodbye to you, and you were hanging 809 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 1: out with your boy. 810 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,400 Speaker 6: Fella anyway, mind in a little Korean hotel. 811 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 1: That's right, you were hanging out and you'd realize you'd forgotten. 812 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,720 Speaker 1: Oh you had my house to Yorkey's and I didn't 813 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: have them. Oh my god. That's so like young young 814 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:11,879 Speaker 1: lady in New York. 815 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 6: Yes, that kind of thing. 816 00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 1: And I had to find you. 817 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, how did you find me? 818 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, because before phone yeah, it's not before 819 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,000 Speaker 1: cell phones. 820 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 6: But I booked that. I booked that hotel by looking 821 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 6: it up in the Yellow Pages. 822 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: How did I know where it was? 823 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 6: That's what I don't know. 824 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 1: I think because I knew how far you'd walked and 825 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: I knew the streets it was on. 826 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 6: Or did I tell you where I was going to be? 827 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 6: So if I got murdered, you'd know. 828 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: I think you did. 829 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I would have asked. 830 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 1: I'm very protective. 831 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, you always were. Yeah. 832 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 1: I had to go to your hotel like two in 833 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: the morning and get the key. Oh my god. I 834 00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: just remember sweating in New York so much, Just like 835 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,319 Speaker 1: doing stuff like that and being drenched in sweat and 836 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,800 Speaker 1: so sexy. Yeah, all right, all right, So Traces of You. 837 00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: All right, this is from that album you made after 838 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: our dad died, right yep. And so this whole all 839 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 1: these songs are very touched by that. 840 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,440 Speaker 6: They're very touched by that. I think the ironic thing 841 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 6: about this song Traces of You, is that to me, 842 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 6: originally this one wasn't about him. It was more kind 843 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 6: of universal or spiritual. 844 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 4: It is. 845 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 1: It's very much like. 846 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 6: A and it's like a prayer song. But because he 847 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,359 Speaker 6: passed away while I was making the record, and then 848 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 6: the other two songs you and I wrote together are 849 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 6: about him, this one kind of ended up being in 850 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 6: the same collection. In my fad after a while, I 851 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 6: think so a lot of people heard it and listened 852 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,719 Speaker 6: to it as being very much about him, But for me, 853 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 6: originally this song wasn't. 854 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,360 Speaker 1: It kind of reminds me. The sentiment reminds me of 855 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 1: I Am missing you in that it could kind of 856 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,720 Speaker 1: be anything, but it's also kind of like a prayer. 857 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 1: It is like a prayer, which is what I like. 858 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,759 Speaker 6: That's what I was writing about. Not to be too 859 00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 6: like about it, but I love that it was that connection. 860 00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 1: I've written more spiritual songs in the last five years 861 00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,399 Speaker 1: than I ever thought I would. 862 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,760 Speaker 6: I know, watching you join me and hit you world 863 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 6: up the last few years, I'm like, hey, Crystals, I 864 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 6: feel like I want to write his gospel. You know 865 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 6: that's beautiful. All right, let's see what happens. There's a 866 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,879 Speaker 6: lot of repeats, which actually makes me forget where things are. 867 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 6: So I know, you mean, I'll try. It's tricky, tricky 868 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 6: without that. 869 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I feel like if you could play any 870 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: more rhythm that might be helpful in the verse stuff, 871 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:28,719 Speaker 1: like just more aggressively. 872 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, I'll do that. 873 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't hear you enough, but I don't know. 874 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,759 Speaker 1: I don't want to get off. I mean, I do 875 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,800 Speaker 1: want to get off. That's what fun about your mom? 876 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 6: Uh huh, your mom, not my mom. 877 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: I think it's funny that we were like teenagers. We 878 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: used to make all these your mom jokes because. 879 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 6: We didn't have the same mom, because it was like 880 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 6: your mom, yeah, your mom. 881 00:43:54,920 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 13: Yeah, Okayists. 882 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 11: Are like. 883 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 9: Joy said h lingalagaing Drama, fresh Body. 884 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 12: They beliod class sounds, body Lingalaica tin drama, like. 885 00:45:31,800 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 9: Besbahart sa Fian they belied sounds, Body, Jasons being along 886 00:46:10,120 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 9: to best Bonny babyl add choices, Oh Lame, the lago Vershaba, 887 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 9: Hot seats for you play. 888 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 12: With La Class. 889 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 4: Sounds po. 890 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,799 Speaker 1: I loved your intro on that thank you. 891 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a raga called which just has like those 892 00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 6: five notes. 893 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:53,719 Speaker 11: What is it? 894 00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? 895 00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, so no second and no fifth. I just think 896 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,839 Speaker 6: it has so much space for that's so nice. It's 897 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 6: really yearning and like yeah, I just I love it. 898 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:10,600 Speaker 6: And it was so funny because when we wrote Traces 899 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,360 Speaker 6: of You, I actually wrote the whole melody on the 900 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 6: cithar in that ruga, and then Nit then started playing 901 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,919 Speaker 6: guitar under and just suddenly was playing chords like really 902 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 6: focused on the fifth and it just cracked me up 903 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 6: because it works so well. But I was like, Okay, 904 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 6: I guess we're not in that rug. 905 00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: I guess we're not gonna avoid the fifth. 906 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,920 Speaker 6: That's that's why my soul I'm like, oh, hang it, okay. 907 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,320 Speaker 1: Well, that's kind of what I like about that song 908 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: is that it I couldn't figure out what he was 909 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 1: playing first of all, and then I like how it 910 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,279 Speaker 1: just kind of cycles through stuff, but then you can 911 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 1: change it and it's over the same thing. 912 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 6: It's a weird one to teach a band. Yeah, every 913 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 6: time you started to say, okay, so there's an A, 914 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 6: then a B, and an A and a B. But 915 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 6: then I'm playing the B and you're playing the A 916 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 6: and it slops around cyclical but it's like, yeah, random, 917 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 6: it just flips. 918 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. I liked that though. I love that kind of stuff. 919 00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:01,439 Speaker 6: Deceptively simple, yeah, which which please is my complicated brain, 920 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 6: because I'm like, we're pretending it's able, but actually. 921 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 1: It's a very complicated. You do have a complicated brain. 922 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,839 Speaker 6: I have a complicated brain. I also over complicate everything. Oh, 923 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:15,759 Speaker 6: you're a really good at problem doing. I disagree. I 924 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 6: think we have the same prop Sarah Sarah would disagree 925 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,759 Speaker 6: strongling with you. All I know is like all my 926 00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 6: tour manager friends say we're the best, like musical tour 927 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 6: managed people. 928 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 1: Well, we're very on top of things, yes, but sometimes 929 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: it's we're so on top of it that we overthink 930 00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 1: the future and all the scenarios that may. 931 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 6: Make it's keeping. But I think that comes from your 932 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,840 Speaker 6: ears of touring, like you're just I'm just automatically scanning 933 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 6: and preparing for like this is going to not be there, 934 00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 6: So if I'm traveling for something, it'll be like what 935 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 6: do I carry in my hand luggage for if my 936 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 6: luggage doesn't exact arrive two citaris stuff I need in 937 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 6: each citar box. Like there's just always planning. 938 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 1: Like the terminator scanning your future. 939 00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,399 Speaker 6: For Yeah, I literally say it, though it's like something 940 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,080 Speaker 6: complicated happens in life, like maybe there's like a lot 941 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 6: to manage with two different kids diaries or whatever, and 942 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 6: it's like I'm gonna dour manute. 943 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 1: I bet your your home home calendar for the kids 944 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,120 Speaker 1: is very well thought out. It's beautiful. 945 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,960 Speaker 6: I bet it's color coded color. 946 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 1: God, can you do one for me? 947 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 6: Yeah? Maybe would you follow it? 948 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 11: Though? 949 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't make it. I wouldn't actually confession I 950 00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 1: own a laminator, a laminator, I bought a label maker maker, 951 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 1: I never used it. I'm like that, like I'll think 952 00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,759 Speaker 1: all of these things through, but then I'll end up 953 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:36,840 Speaker 1: not finishing. 954 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, that too. My kids use the label maker more 955 00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,800 Speaker 6: to just stick things on each other's doors that should 956 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:46,720 Speaker 6: not be said. That's amazing. Yeah. What was that raga 957 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 6: called goney? 958 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 1: Is that one? 959 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 13: You? 960 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:53,600 Speaker 1: Okay? So you know me, I really don't know anything. 961 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,800 Speaker 1: I still don't completely understand ragas. 962 00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,319 Speaker 6: Are you gonna ask me to explain them? 963 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I am. 964 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,240 Speaker 6: It's actually really difficult. 965 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 1: Well you don't have to. You can give me the 966 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:03,839 Speaker 1: cliff notes version. 967 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:05,800 Speaker 6: So the cliff notes version is that a rugga is 968 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,480 Speaker 6: a melody form that isn't a scale or a mode, 969 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 6: or a set of phrases or a song. It's not 970 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,720 Speaker 6: any of those things. It can contain all of those things, 971 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 6: Like a ruga is based on a scale, Like every 972 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,919 Speaker 6: rugga has a set of notes that it exists within, 973 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,919 Speaker 6: but you could have tons of ruggas within that same 974 00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,760 Speaker 6: set of notes. So then you get into more detail, 975 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 6: like different ruggas may have different ascending patterns and descending 976 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,759 Speaker 6: patterns that differentiate them from each other. Oh boy, but 977 00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:39,080 Speaker 6: then also phrases, recognizable characteristics, and most importantly, beyond all 978 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 6: of those things that you could write down, there's a 979 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,720 Speaker 6: particular mood or a feeling or an association with that rugga. 980 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,879 Speaker 6: So you might even have two ruggas that are almost identical, 981 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 6: but one of them is played like in the morning, 982 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 6: in a more solemn, spiritual way, and one is more 983 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,280 Speaker 6: romantic and performable with that, you know, So it's really 984 00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 6: about like learning the characters of them. And I remember 985 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,719 Speaker 6: when like our was teaching me, the thing that really 986 00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 6: helped me the most is he would always say, it's 987 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,120 Speaker 6: kind of like people, Like when you meet new people, 988 00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:09,120 Speaker 6: sometimes they remind you of someone else. So at the beginning, 989 00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 6: when you kind of see that person, you're constantly thinking 990 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 6: of the person you know really well, which could be 991 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,279 Speaker 6: that other raga. But the more you get to know 992 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 6: that person, they start to exist like fully fleshed in 993 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,399 Speaker 6: their own Okay, can you stop thinking about the other person, 994 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 6: So you kind of have to get to know them 995 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 6: to know who they are. So there's like that's why 996 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 6: it's so much an immersion. It's about playing, it's about 997 00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 6: playing along with learning from because some aspects of it 998 00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,279 Speaker 6: just just can't be notated, can't be put. 999 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 1: That's what makes it so mysterious. 1000 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think yeah, I think so it can be 1001 00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,320 Speaker 6: really mysterious and elusive to people who are not coming 1002 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 6: from that tradition because it's so hard to step into it. 1003 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 6: Though I guess people who like come from there or 1004 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 6: grow up listening to it, like so many ragas would 1005 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 6: be like really recognizable to people really instantly, even lay 1006 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,360 Speaker 6: people who don't play, they'll be like, oh, that's Pelu 1007 00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:55,280 Speaker 6: or that's the young uncommy. 1008 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 1: Because of certain melodies as well. 1009 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 6: Well, I guess yes, some have really recogniz phrases in 1010 00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 6: melodais or some are just super popular and therefore a 1011 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 6: lot of popular songs that people grow up knowing or 1012 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 6: hearing are in those raugas so reference them. 1013 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,600 Speaker 1: So it made its way into popular music or Bollywood. 1014 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,560 Speaker 6: So just like Western classical music may have been a 1015 00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:20,879 Speaker 6: root for jazz for you know, folk music, and then 1016 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 6: you know, like all the kind of the commonalities that 1017 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,640 Speaker 6: exist in Western music that like all have evolved from 1018 00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:29,239 Speaker 6: each other. It's the same in Indian classical music. So 1019 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,840 Speaker 6: even though like Indian pop or film music isn't classical music, 1020 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 6: it's grown and evolved from that root. Okay, so you 1021 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 6: will hear raugas in film music all the time, but 1022 00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:41,919 Speaker 6: maybe they're used in a kind of lighter, more accessible way. 1023 00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:42,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1024 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:43,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, Oh my. 1025 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:44,680 Speaker 1: God, you're so smart. 1026 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,760 Speaker 6: I just said a lot of words. 1027 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:52,240 Speaker 1: You're so good at explaining things. You're so like well 1028 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 1: explained that. I felt really satisfied by that explanation. 1029 00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:56,920 Speaker 6: Good, thank you. 1030 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: That sounds really beautiful though, it's really good. I love 1031 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:00,399 Speaker 1: the mood thing. 1032 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's really beautiful. 1033 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,360 Speaker 1: But you can still play a morning raga in the 1034 00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 1: evening at a concert, for instance. 1035 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 6: That depends on who you talk to, I mean, interesting 1036 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,239 Speaker 6: people can be very purist about that. 1037 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:10,560 Speaker 1: Really. 1038 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 6: There's two main classical styles in India. There's the Hinduslani 1039 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 6: system that developed in the north and the Carnatic system 1040 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 6: in the south, and there are a lot of commonalities. 1041 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 6: But like in South India music, they don't have this 1042 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 6: time of day concept at all. It's just ragas have 1043 00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,600 Speaker 6: everything that I just told you, minus associations like that. 1044 00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:29,239 Speaker 6: So you can hear any rag at anytime Hinduslani music is 1045 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 6: really specific, Like there are sunset ruggas, sunrise rauggas. There's 1046 00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 6: even like monsoon ragas, spring ragas, harvest ragas. You know, 1047 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,640 Speaker 6: So there are certain things that if people really grow 1048 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,000 Speaker 6: up with that it feels jarring to them. To some 1049 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 6: people to hear things at the wrong time. So that's 1050 00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,000 Speaker 6: why you Occasionally you will have like in music festivals, 1051 00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 6: they'll do morning concerts or they'll do all night festivals 1052 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,759 Speaker 6: where people perform through the night, so people stay up 1053 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 6: and listen to, like people perform at three am, four 1054 00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,439 Speaker 6: am music that you wouldn't hear. 1055 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:56,680 Speaker 1: That's so crazy. 1056 00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 6: It's pretty amazing. 1057 00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,759 Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking about being awake at one last night 1058 00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 1: with you and being like, I'm so. 1059 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 6: Much I can't do this. I know, I can't think. 1060 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,440 Speaker 6: Like the last time I was at an all night concert, 1061 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 6: I was a kid, and I think they just let 1062 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:09,040 Speaker 6: me fall asleep on the scene. 1063 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 1: But it's so beautiful if you can, if you can 1064 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 1: stay up for it. And yeah, my mom told me 1065 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:17,400 Speaker 1: about a concert she produced for our dad at the 1066 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: cathedral Saint John the Divine. 1067 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, woah, was that the all night one that he did? 1068 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 13: Yeah? 1069 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, and people still talk about those too. 1070 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:24,440 Speaker 11: Me. 1071 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,239 Speaker 6: People could come up and be like, I remember when 1072 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,360 Speaker 6: your dad played like eight hours through the night, and 1073 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 6: I'm like, I can I can't even imagine. I think 1074 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:32,160 Speaker 6: about like. 1075 00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 1: Bruce Springsteen doing four hour concerts and that that just. 1076 00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,319 Speaker 6: Makes me tired. Yeah, I even doing that, even if 1077 00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,799 Speaker 6: I practice, like in rehearsals and stuff. 1078 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:40,280 Speaker 1: Eight hours. 1079 00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 6: I'm so impressed with myself. Yeah, I mean, I. 1080 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,200 Speaker 1: Love music, but you have to just get into a zone. 1081 00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,520 Speaker 1: It's a meditation. I think it is right, very much so, 1082 00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: and then you get carried by the energy of it. 1083 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1084 00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,759 Speaker 1: I love that. I don't know if I'll ever be 1085 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:53,319 Speaker 1: able to do it. 1086 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 6: We can love it from afar. 1087 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, So what do you think is it sacrilegious for 1088 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 1: me to try to play oh my god not raga 1089 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 1: with you? 1090 00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 6: Because not at all. 1091 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:04,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was a like a respect thing. 1092 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,280 Speaker 1: But can you kind of help? 1093 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:07,279 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1094 00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,960 Speaker 6: I think for me, I think so there are some 1095 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 6: ragas that get very very nuanced and complex with the 1096 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 6: things we were talking about, like really specific phrases or 1097 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 6: twisty ascending or descending lines, and I think when we 1098 00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 6: start playing, we always start with the slightly more scale 1099 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,239 Speaker 6: based drugas. So then it's really just about understanding what 1100 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,799 Speaker 6: scale that raga belongs to and then finding finding our 1101 00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,600 Speaker 6: ways to improvise and be as variable as possible, but 1102 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 6: within that limitation, so you wouldn't like modulate or change 1103 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 6: out of that. So like there's loads of pentatonic rugas 1104 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 6: that are really just like That'shupi or there's Durga. 1105 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,600 Speaker 1: And it almost sounds like it's in a different in 1106 00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,080 Speaker 1: g Yeah, yeah, exactly. 1107 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 6: And then there's another if we're still indeed, there's one 1108 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,279 Speaker 6: called Hamsubun, which is really beautiful, which is. 1109 00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:07,320 Speaker 1: That's really free. 1110 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,640 Speaker 6: The only thing within this draga that sometimes might happen 1111 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 6: is like a little focus on after anything you've played, 1112 00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 6: like to kind of pause on that note and give 1113 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 6: it some stress and then to resolve. So just chuck 1114 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 6: a couple of those in. 1115 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:36,640 Speaker 15: M's so pretty. 1116 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:40,400 Speaker 1: I like country it up. Well, it's funny because like 1117 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 1: the thought of doing this, but I don't have Bendi's on. 1118 00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:44,960 Speaker 6: But you're so good at that, like. 1119 00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,840 Speaker 1: You you make I try to, but it's you know, 1120 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,680 Speaker 1: I don't actually have access to those microtones on the piano. 1121 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 6: It's fascinating. There's some people like over the years, there's 1122 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 6: like definitely people who've kind of started bringing in Western 1123 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 6: instruments into Indian classical music. There's there's any credible cellist 1124 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,760 Speaker 6: to play fully classical concerts. But of course that's a 1125 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,920 Speaker 6: little easier. Yeah, as far as the Bendy's, Yeah, so 1126 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 6: I love our official term, by the. 1127 00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,440 Speaker 1: Way, Bendy's. I think I got that from Jackass. 1128 00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:14,320 Speaker 6: But yeah, on the piano, that's hard. But I have 1129 00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:16,520 Speaker 6: seen a few people who like really study and like 1130 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 6: just develop their style in a way to be as 1131 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 6: close to it as possible. Like the harmonium is a 1132 00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 6: really common instrument accompanying vocalists, and they're crazy, like they 1133 00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:29,160 Speaker 6: just yeah, they just do like really fast trails. 1134 00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,320 Speaker 1: To Yeah, yeah I remember that. 1135 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's fascinating watching that different technique. 1136 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so cool. So it starts 1137 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,800 Speaker 1: with a slow bit, which is called the lap. 1138 00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:45,480 Speaker 6: If you're playing in a classical it gets you'd introduce 1139 00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 6: the ruga in an a lapse, so it's like solo 1140 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 6: rhythm free, just bringing out the character. 1141 00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,400 Speaker 1: Okay, and then when do you get to the fast 1142 00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:54,480 Speaker 1: burning stuff? 1143 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 6: Whenever you want? Whenever you want, Really, I. 1144 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:01,160 Speaker 1: Really want you to play something, just show your range, 1145 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:05,040 Speaker 1: because it's so insane how fast you can play. 1146 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,320 Speaker 6: Oh, Carol, you got some chops. I like, I like 1147 01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 6: playing fast. Well you're good now. 1148 01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,160 Speaker 1: I like playing I know you do, and you're really 1149 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 1: good at it. So I don't know that I can 1150 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,680 Speaker 1: hang at all, but I could cover like droney bits, 1151 01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,520 Speaker 1: but whatever, I want to hear you do something. 1152 01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:20,200 Speaker 6: That's so funny because I was like, I'm at like 1153 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:23,960 Speaker 6: Nora levels of like speed right now, I'll come to 1154 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 6: like the relaxed slow songs like love practice that sounded 1155 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:30,280 Speaker 6: so much more insulting than I meant it, but like 1156 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 6: I'm not insulted by it. By being known for slow music, 1157 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:36,480 Speaker 6: I know that about IMiD like melodic, relaxed songs. 1158 01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,280 Speaker 1: I know that about myself I have I mean, I 1159 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 1: failed my classical jury. Hello, I have no technique. 1160 01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,000 Speaker 6: Because by the way, can we stop that? Because you're amazing, 1161 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 6: Like well, I literally watch your videos with people to 1162 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 6: go like look at her like level of piano playing, 1163 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 6: like your voice is so amazing. I feel like people 1164 01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,760 Speaker 6: sometimes forget to notice how amazing you're playing is. 1165 01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. I think I've been able to play a 1166 01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 1: lot more piano lately once they strip my band back 1167 01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,360 Speaker 1: to just bass and drum. Yeah, because I used to 1168 01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 1: have like two guitar players in the stage, which was 1169 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,040 Speaker 1: awesome for the music, but I didn't really you know, 1170 01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:08,960 Speaker 1: there wasn't a ton of room. Yeah, I've really been 1171 01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:09,440 Speaker 1: going for it. 1172 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 6: Like, yeah, I don't feel like there's that many people 1173 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,520 Speaker 6: in the world that like play at that level as 1174 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,680 Speaker 6: an accompaniment to their own singing. It feels like it'll 1175 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 6: usually be someone else there doing that, you know. Yeah, 1176 01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:19,360 Speaker 6: I think it's amazing. 1177 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: Well again, like I feel like I've grown into this 1178 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,920 Speaker 1: thing that I think is unique in my own But 1179 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:26,160 Speaker 1: I definitely don't have a lot. 1180 01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:27,240 Speaker 6: Of chaps that are fast. 1181 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,919 Speaker 1: So I don't know how you feel, but I would 1182 01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 1: love to hear something. 1183 01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 6: Oh my god, she was sticking that rug up. 1184 01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:38,320 Speaker 1: Sure, okay, see, I mean I will barely play. I'm 1185 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,680 Speaker 1: just going to stay out of your way. You can 1186 01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 1: set it up. 1187 01:01:41,760 --> 01:02:46,160 Speaker 16: I'll just do like a drumcambers stress. 1188 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:57,760 Speaker 11: Learnt. 1189 01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:14,080 Speaker 1: What did the hell that? 1190 01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,920 Speaker 6: I was scared all the time. I was like, I 1191 01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:17,840 Speaker 6: don't know what to do. 1192 01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,320 Speaker 1: Oh that's okay, Yeah, I was thinking about that. You 1193 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 1: did like a little thing on Instagram last month where 1194 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:25,439 Speaker 1: you were doing this crazy counting thing. 1195 01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:30,480 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, like something like that. Okay, thanks, yeah, sorry, 1196 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 6: that's going to let's going to. 1197 01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 1: Is it cool that I just drone under it like that? 1198 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:35,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1199 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,800 Speaker 6: Can I give you a different thing to do? Yeah? 1200 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 1: So actually I was going to ask about that if 1201 01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,920 Speaker 1: if you're emitting like the fifth from something, does the 1202 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:44,160 Speaker 1: drone have to change? Then? 1203 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:49,720 Speaker 6: I mean, within that context, the tonic would always stay 1204 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,440 Speaker 6: the same. So even if you're changing you could move. 1205 01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 1: No, what I mean, did they have to say? 1206 01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:58,200 Speaker 6: The dunstays the same. So the kind of tonic always 1207 01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 6: stays the same. So when I'm playing with people, like 1208 01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 6: in a band, will move chords to give it a 1209 01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:05,800 Speaker 6: shape and a feeling, but we're still staying within the notes, 1210 01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:07,920 Speaker 6: knowing where the drone is. Like we don't move the 1211 01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,000 Speaker 6: bottom if you know what I mean, Like I don't. 1212 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 6: I always think of sah in the same place within 1213 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:12,800 Speaker 6: a song. 1214 01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, what I do? 1215 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 6: Can you give me actually, like a more of a 1216 01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:20,160 Speaker 6: focus on those notes? 1217 01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:25,960 Speaker 14: So we're still in deep, but we're going into like 1218 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:35,200 Speaker 14: much come on, So it's. 1219 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:35,800 Speaker 6: Like all the notes. 1220 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,360 Speaker 1: I've heard you say this so many times and I've 1221 01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:44,800 Speaker 1: heard much. 1222 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, this is now we're going to Laila. 1223 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, yeah, yeah, now we do much. Yes, really 1224 01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 1: bad impression. 1225 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,800 Speaker 6: Every time you say something. He said, you put the 1226 01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:02,480 Speaker 6: accent on. It's really funny. Well he had sense, so 1227 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:03,800 Speaker 6: do you. 1228 01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:07,480 Speaker 1: But he didn't have a traditional accent that I think of. 1229 01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:09,840 Speaker 6: He didn't really like softened that. It was softened in 1230 01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:11,120 Speaker 6: an accent. I guess you did. 1231 01:05:11,520 --> 01:06:15,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, stimulation think. 1232 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,080 Speaker 11: On the community. 1233 01:06:27,000 --> 01:07:14,400 Speaker 7: When atty, Oh my god, that's hilarious. 1234 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:17,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think you mean all that, like you love 1235 01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 6: that stuff? Right then give to me. Yes, it's fine, 1236 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:51,280 Speaker 6: thank you. I think I love just coming to do 1237 01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:52,440 Speaker 6: some relaxing signs. 1238 01:07:52,520 --> 01:07:54,880 Speaker 1: Sorry you're saying, yeah, I wanted. 1239 01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:57,280 Speaker 6: You to play fast. That's cute. I'll play fast for you. 1240 01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:57,880 Speaker 4: I love it. 1241 01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,680 Speaker 6: I'll play slow for you. I'll play medium for I 1242 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:01,200 Speaker 6: love it. 1243 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 1: I've all that is so impressive. 1244 01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 6: No, I just think this is the first time you've 1245 01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 6: called me to play I know. Yeah, you know why 1246 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:11,800 Speaker 6: why Because I've been wondering for years. 1247 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,640 Speaker 1: Now, because this guitar has such a specific sound. 1248 01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 6: You know what. That's actually been one of the biggest challenges. 1249 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,240 Speaker 1: I was going to ask about that. 1250 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,519 Speaker 6: That's something I think about really consciously, and I still 1251 01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 6: feel like that's something I want to work on so 1252 01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:27,280 Speaker 6: much more because it's so embedded in like people's subconscious 1253 01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:31,720 Speaker 6: with the sound that our dads smashed through. Yeah, so 1254 01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 6: he kind of created something which is so incredible, but 1255 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,719 Speaker 6: that's just set the mold. Like people hear the citar 1256 01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:40,639 Speaker 6: and they think of like that popular culture phase. 1257 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's always used as like the incident music 1258 01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:44,240 Speaker 1: to a hippie. 1259 01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:46,200 Speaker 6: See, so it's like someone goes to India, or someone 1260 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:48,640 Speaker 6: goes to like a tarot card reader or something, you know, 1261 01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:52,880 Speaker 6: insert whatever, and it'll be like, you know, magic carpet, incense, 1262 01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:57,040 Speaker 6: citar wafting, and it's like so as soon as people 1263 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,679 Speaker 6: hear just just that first note and it's like we're 1264 01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 6: just the sympathetic. It's just a synthetic strings and you're like, 1265 01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:05,120 Speaker 6: oh you know. So actually, like that's something I think 1266 01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:08,280 Speaker 6: about really actively, is like how to put it in 1267 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 6: different context. I feel like that's why I keep working 1268 01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:12,800 Speaker 6: with so many different band setups, Yeah, because it's like 1269 01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:14,719 Speaker 6: what happens when I place it there with an upright 1270 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,880 Speaker 6: bass and a piano, or what happens when it's with 1271 01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:19,720 Speaker 6: a clarinet and a drum kit, you know, and I 1272 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,799 Speaker 6: just feel like, just continuously putting it in these different spaces, 1273 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:27,720 Speaker 6: it just kind of strips that exotic thing. Yeah, and yeah, 1274 01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:28,960 Speaker 6: I really enjoy finding that. 1275 01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 1: Well, you're good at finding it. But I wondered if 1276 01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:36,080 Speaker 1: you felt ever frustrated by this sound being so not 1277 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:39,320 Speaker 1: only like so generalized by people, but also just it's 1278 01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:40,639 Speaker 1: a very specific sound. 1279 01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:43,639 Speaker 6: It's a very specific sound. I feel like I really 1280 01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:46,680 Speaker 6: enjoy writing for other people as well because then I 1281 01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 6: get to think outside of my specific sound. And obviously 1282 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 6: I've usually done that more in my own projects, but 1283 01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 6: I would really love to develop more in that in 1284 01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:58,240 Speaker 6: that way, like you know, composing for other stuff. Yeah, 1285 01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,240 Speaker 6: and just getting taxs that. 1286 01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,479 Speaker 1: Do you ever play piano anymore? Because I know you've 1287 01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:03,920 Speaker 1: played for a long time when you were a kid. 1288 01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't play, like play play, but I'll, you 1289 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:08,640 Speaker 6: know what, randomly, when I feel stressed out, I'll like 1290 01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:11,400 Speaker 6: sit down and do hand and exercises or something so weird. 1291 01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:12,240 Speaker 3: I find it calming. 1292 01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:13,639 Speaker 6: I find it coming. 1293 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:15,960 Speaker 4: You would, my friend. 1294 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:18,360 Speaker 6: You totally would. 1295 01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:20,040 Speaker 1: That does not surprise me, you nut. 1296 01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, because it's right there and it's just easier to 1297 01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:23,479 Speaker 6: go and sit down and play the piano then to 1298 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:25,400 Speaker 6: go and pick up my sitar and put my Yeah, you. 1299 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,519 Speaker 1: Playing music is a release for stress, but doing hand and. 1300 01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:29,639 Speaker 4: Exercises is like. 1301 01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah that one. Yeah, yeah, it's fun. 1302 01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:35,879 Speaker 6: I think that like my brain. There's just something about 1303 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:40,760 Speaker 6: like the the clarity of that kind of thing, like scales, 1304 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 6: I find calming, like like I start slow and I 1305 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 6: you know, and then I'll and then I'll get a 1306 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,439 Speaker 6: little faster, yeah, and then like that's just something so 1307 01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:51,200 Speaker 6: clear about it and progressive, whereas music in general is 1308 01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:53,760 Speaker 6: so open ended, like when did you When did you 1309 01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:55,400 Speaker 6: do a take that was better than the other take? 1310 01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 6: It's so down to feeling and it's ambiguous, And with 1311 01:10:58,160 --> 01:10:59,760 Speaker 6: something like scales, I can just sit down and kind 1312 01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:02,000 Speaker 6: of go I played that scale. I started it and 1313 01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:03,360 Speaker 6: I finished it. I went from the bottom of the 1314 01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 6: piano to the top of the piano, and then I 1315 01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:07,760 Speaker 6: get up and I can like feel like I did 1316 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:12,959 Speaker 6: something I don't know that's crazy Ukra right like structure. 1317 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And we didn't even get into the whole 1318 01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:20,040 Speaker 1: there's my whole therapy session in there about why the 1319 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:23,760 Speaker 1: counting stuff too. Yeah, you have such a math brain. Yeah, 1320 01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:27,280 Speaker 1: and you and you, I mean you must also just 1321 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:30,400 Speaker 1: from playing this music and playing in different time signatures 1322 01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:33,320 Speaker 1: all the time. And was it you that taught us 1323 01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:36,320 Speaker 1: that trick? There's a bunch of numbers tricks. I feel 1324 01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,320 Speaker 1: like I may have that you and then my dad 1325 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:41,639 Speaker 1: taught us when which was we can't really get into 1326 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,960 Speaker 1: three three against four? Yeah, it's like that's well, no, 1327 01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,960 Speaker 1: like this counting thing and then it always anyway, I 1328 01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 1: don't know if we can get into it, but. 1329 01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:50,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's well, it's fascinating and this is just a tip. 1330 01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:51,880 Speaker 6: There was just that. 1331 01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's a there. 1332 01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,000 Speaker 6: There's so much in there. There's a whole universe in there. 1333 01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,320 Speaker 6: But I found it really because it's it's just coming 1334 01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,160 Speaker 6: from different places, right, And that's what I find so 1335 01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:04,960 Speaker 6: lovely about things like this, where it's like where do 1336 01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,320 Speaker 6: you meet in the middle? Like, first of all, what's 1337 01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:09,040 Speaker 6: the middle? Like are you coming more towards me? Or 1338 01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:11,240 Speaker 6: am I moving more towards you? So like on that 1339 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 6: very first song we wrote together easy on All Earthing Underwater, 1340 01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:18,200 Speaker 6: where you know, I think in a cyclical manner, in 1341 01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:20,519 Speaker 6: an absolute rhythm cycle, so like we may speed up 1342 01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:22,679 Speaker 6: or slow down. But if I've chosen that a song 1343 01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:24,920 Speaker 6: is in seven or it's in sixteen or whatever it is, 1344 01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:27,400 Speaker 6: that's what it's in. I can't help counting round and round. 1345 01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,040 Speaker 6: So wherever we move and start playing, I'm still thinking 1346 01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:31,800 Speaker 6: of like where the one is. And I don't know 1347 01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:33,840 Speaker 6: if you remember, like there's a phrasing you use in 1348 01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:36,519 Speaker 6: the middle of that song where you instinctively moved the 1349 01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 6: one to hit where you're oh yeah, and it's like 1350 01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 6: a change in the middle of the song where now 1351 01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 6: this is the one, and I swear we stopped the 1352 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:45,960 Speaker 6: recording and you and I were talking for like an hour, 1353 01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:48,320 Speaker 6: where in my brain I was like you can't you 1354 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,679 Speaker 6: wha why and go like but it is here, listen, 1355 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:53,920 Speaker 6: like there's a stress of that money. And we eventually 1356 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:55,720 Speaker 6: went your way and I just got used to it 1357 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 6: and it feels completely right, are you? I think it 1358 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,960 Speaker 6: was like as calm and like studies of an argument 1359 01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:03,800 Speaker 6: as it could be in a recording studio with like 1360 01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:04,720 Speaker 6: ten other people there. 1361 01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:05,800 Speaker 1: But don't remember that. 1362 01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:07,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was like a long word curse just because 1363 01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 6: Curs did that album with me cal and he just 1364 01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:11,559 Speaker 6: was like, I'm just going to sit back on this one. 1365 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,280 Speaker 1: Funny, so you guys decide, wait till you decide where 1366 01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:17,599 Speaker 1: one is. Yes, but that song we did earlier, those 1367 01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:20,599 Speaker 1: sweet words, yeah, is like that yee is always kind 1368 01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: of movie. 1369 01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:22,680 Speaker 6: Which is why it took me a while to figure that. 1370 01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:23,559 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1371 01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:24,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't think i've. 1372 01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:26,960 Speaker 6: Written out like where I'm like and and and a 1373 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,439 Speaker 6: bar and a bar and then and then I come in. 1374 01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:32,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I feel like that stuff I 1375 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:36,080 Speaker 1: find very easy when I'm not counting. And if I 1376 01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,760 Speaker 1: have to feel counting it, you can't remember it. 1377 01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:42,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, which is also like a really correct and 1378 01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:43,519 Speaker 6: beautiful approach. 1379 01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,800 Speaker 1: It's just it's just funny. That's not where you come from. 1380 01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:47,759 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I have to like slip my brain across 1381 01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:53,080 Speaker 6: into like another way. That's what she said, slip my 1382 01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:56,439 Speaker 6: brain across. Really, it's never not funny. 1383 01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:58,479 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1384 01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:00,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. What I love is that I'm always the one 1385 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:02,559 Speaker 6: that does it. But right now you're the rude one. 1386 01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:04,639 Speaker 1: Right now, I'm the one doing it because you're trying. 1387 01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:07,800 Speaker 1: I'm busy doing your You're trying to stay professional. 1388 01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:15,120 Speaker 6: No, I'm just busy doing your mom Oh okay, my. 1389 01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:18,920 Speaker 1: God, that's so creepy on so many levels. I love 1390 01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:23,559 Speaker 1: you so much that I love you too. 1391 01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,880 Speaker 6: I knew this would be so fun with you. Well, 1392 01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:30,080 Speaker 6: I think it's dangerous, like when you do interviews with people, 1393 01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:33,680 Speaker 6: you know, because you just can't help being more. Yeah, 1394 01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:34,479 Speaker 6: through the filters. 1395 01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:38,760 Speaker 1: There's no filter here. So you want to try our 1396 01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 1: last song? One said, So we're going to end with 1397 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:54,719 Speaker 1: the emotional teacher. Thanks for teaching me the raga stuff. 1398 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,599 Speaker 6: I don't know literally. 1399 01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:02,679 Speaker 4: You know what's. 1400 01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,759 Speaker 1: Funny is I remember when I was in India once 1401 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:08,479 Speaker 1: with I don't even know if you were there, actually, 1402 01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:12,000 Speaker 1: I think it was. I was going through that weird 1403 01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:19,240 Speaker 1: time and I went when you came with your guitar. Yeah, yep, 1404 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,120 Speaker 1: when you India with your guitar, with my guitar, only 1405 01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:26,160 Speaker 1: you're really teaching yourself to play guitar that trip. Yeah, 1406 01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,320 Speaker 1: I had already started. But yeah, I was really into 1407 01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:31,160 Speaker 1: guitar for a while and that was definitely the phase. 1408 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,120 Speaker 1: And I remember our dad. I think I asked him 1409 01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 1: to maybe like teach me something. I was a little 1410 01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:40,479 Speaker 1: shy to ask him, and he was probably shy to offer. Sure. 1411 01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:43,640 Speaker 1: I think that's it was just like so funny that 1412 01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:48,439 Speaker 1: we'd never sat and really done anything musical. And I 1413 01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,680 Speaker 1: was probably twenty eight or twenty seven at the time, and. 1414 01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:58,160 Speaker 6: Oh, okay, breakup trip. I was thinking of the one 1415 01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:01,000 Speaker 6: when you were twenty and came with your tar and 1416 01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:02,920 Speaker 6: stayed and I was there and you made write and 1417 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:04,320 Speaker 6: come away with me and what am I to you? 1418 01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:04,960 Speaker 4: Oh? 1419 01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,639 Speaker 6: That was the that trip. Okay. So I wasn't there. 1420 01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,040 Speaker 1: No, you weren't there. This is a later trip where 1421 01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:13,760 Speaker 1: it was very like soul searching for me. So you 1422 01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:16,160 Speaker 1: were you were with him? Yeah, I was with him, 1423 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,080 Speaker 1: and it was nice to have. I mean, I missed you, 1424 01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:20,120 Speaker 1: but it was kind of nice to just be forced 1425 01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:23,439 Speaker 1: to spend time with him in that way, because, as 1426 01:16:23,479 --> 01:16:25,439 Speaker 1: you know, it was hard for me to sort of 1427 01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:31,639 Speaker 1: get in there sometimes and just like my own stuff. 1428 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:35,880 Speaker 1: And so we sat in his little music room and 1429 01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:39,400 Speaker 1: I had my guitar, which was very funny, nice, and 1430 01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,720 Speaker 1: I wasn't really trying to play anything specific, but I 1431 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:44,880 Speaker 1: just had it, and he was trying to teach me 1432 01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:50,320 Speaker 1: a song. But I think I was a little rigid 1433 01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:54,040 Speaker 1: in wanting to be loose, and he was a little 1434 01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 1: rigid in wanting to teach me properly. This song when 1435 01:16:57,520 --> 01:16:59,639 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, man, I. 1436 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:01,280 Speaker 6: Just want to I just want to play and I 1437 01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,240 Speaker 6: just want to Yeah, I think I was. 1438 01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:06,800 Speaker 1: It was a little awkward, yeah, and it was really 1439 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,439 Speaker 1: well intended on both of our parts. But it's funny 1440 01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 1: because I wasn't really in. 1441 01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:13,439 Speaker 6: The place to be a pupil, right, and I don't 1442 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:15,160 Speaker 6: think so you still wanted to connect that way. 1443 01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to use musically, but I didn't know how 1444 01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 1: to sit. 1445 01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:21,120 Speaker 6: I know exactly what you mean, because I think you 1446 01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,160 Speaker 6: know in a way that is such a core of 1447 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,439 Speaker 6: why he was so great at what he did. He 1448 01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,680 Speaker 6: was a teacher through and through, Like he just had 1449 01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:31,840 Speaker 6: this like passionate obsession with sharing his art and his music. 1450 01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,760 Speaker 6: So I feel like every collaborative experience he ever had, 1451 01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:37,080 Speaker 6: if you look through his career, was always about like 1452 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,680 Speaker 6: teaching Indian music and putting it. It wasn't like a 1453 01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:42,240 Speaker 6: jam session. It wasn't like I'm going to play like 1454 01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:44,000 Speaker 6: I'm sow into like I'm going to play plumbing, go 1455 01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:45,559 Speaker 6: on this and there, I'm going to try and learn 1456 01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:47,559 Speaker 6: other words. He was coming from that place of let 1457 01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:50,639 Speaker 6: me introduce you to this thing which had never happened before. 1458 01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:53,200 Speaker 6: But I don't feel like he ever moved out of 1459 01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:55,960 Speaker 6: that so right to he was teaching. I totally get 1460 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:58,000 Speaker 6: why that would have been an agy plug in between the. 1461 01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:00,280 Speaker 1: Two of you. It was like a near It was 1462 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,880 Speaker 1: a good near miss, but I mean it was still 1463 01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:06,200 Speaker 1: a really nice memory. It definitely there was nothing. There 1464 01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:10,200 Speaker 1: was no like fighting, but it was funny and it 1465 01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:12,880 Speaker 1: was so nice to just be able to have you 1466 01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:17,640 Speaker 1: explain it in a way I could hang with you know. 1467 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:21,719 Speaker 1: I love you. I love you too, Thanks for doing 1468 01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:26,040 Speaker 1: this with me. And it's funny that we're in La together, 1469 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:27,400 Speaker 1: so happy to be here, and we're going to go 1470 01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:30,080 Speaker 1: to the Grammy store together and you're going to perform. 1471 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:31,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1472 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:34,000 Speaker 1: And twenty years ago we were both at the Grammys together. 1473 01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:34,320 Speaker 12: Yeah. 1474 01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:36,400 Speaker 6: I mean we've both been nominated in the middle a 1475 01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:38,240 Speaker 6: couple of times at the same time, but we've not 1476 01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:39,120 Speaker 6: been here together. 1477 01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:39,840 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1478 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 6: So twenty years ago when your world changed. 1479 01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but you were there. 1480 01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 6: You were nominated that year, and it was like, I remember, 1481 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:50,320 Speaker 6: like through the night, we just kept going to the 1482 01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:52,000 Speaker 6: bathroom together and it was just like we'd. 1483 01:18:51,840 --> 01:18:53,719 Speaker 1: Be like, do you because I don't remember much. 1484 01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:56,400 Speaker 6: Because you must have been in job I was hungry too. Yeah, 1485 01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:58,760 Speaker 6: you were hungry. Yeah, and you drank a lot and 1486 01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:00,759 Speaker 6: you need to peel a lot going to the bathroom, 1487 01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:02,280 Speaker 6: and in the bathroom will be like, oh my god, 1488 01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:04,680 Speaker 6: what's happening. This is crazy. I didn't go back out 1489 01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:08,080 Speaker 6: there and it was like whoa. Yeah, it was a 1490 01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:09,360 Speaker 6: wild times see times. 1491 01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:12,479 Speaker 1: All right. So this is the song you wrote the 1492 01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:15,479 Speaker 1: lyrics to that I put music to and I changed 1493 01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 1: what like one lyric? 1494 01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:20,680 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I wrote the words on the plane on 1495 01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:21,639 Speaker 6: the way to come see you. 1496 01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:24,080 Speaker 1: Really, and this is about a year after our dad died. 1497 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:26,919 Speaker 6: Nope, thirty days Are you serious? I'm serious. 1498 01:19:27,240 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 1: I didn't realize that. 1499 01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:30,400 Speaker 6: Yep, I was on the plane twenty nine days after 1500 01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:31,040 Speaker 6: he passed away. 1501 01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't remember that that was that soon. 1502 01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:33,479 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1503 01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:35,280 Speaker 1: Oh so it was really raw, and I say it 1504 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:43,479 Speaker 1: was wraw. Yeah yeah, okay, all right, now I think 1505 01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:46,320 Speaker 1: you started, do you do like a oh? 1506 01:19:46,400 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 6: Yes, you're right, I can't start. M hm. 1507 01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:31,920 Speaker 9: Love wasn't left unsaid, thank you? That was left unsaved. 1508 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:46,000 Speaker 9: I know, maybe left unsafe. I don't know what. 1509 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:48,880 Speaker 11: Said. 1510 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:58,640 Speaker 6: My heart, my heart speaks to you. 1511 01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:02,680 Speaker 5: Your No. 1512 01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:07,360 Speaker 4: It was small, in true. 1513 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:19,880 Speaker 10: In bady, blood and socking, I walked in long and. 1514 01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:26,320 Speaker 12: In shape, hard skin speak. 1515 01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:28,720 Speaker 11: When Lad. 1516 01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:34,519 Speaker 12: Skinned there was bald. 1517 01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:47,480 Speaker 17: I lost my chance word the things I should have done. 1518 01:21:47,600 --> 01:22:01,920 Speaker 9: It's too late now, Lad, your gold love wasn't left unsaid? 1519 01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:10,400 Speaker 12: Thank you? That was left unsaid. 1520 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:20,040 Speaker 9: I see, maybe left unsaid. 1521 01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:26,639 Speaker 12: I don't know what was said. 1522 01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:35,000 Speaker 1: Fortune smiled on me. 1523 01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:42,520 Speaker 4: Man the chances not to say. 1524 01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:50,040 Speaker 12: In yoursy was loved. 1525 01:22:50,479 --> 01:23:08,559 Speaker 9: Live the world isn't once we left unsaved. 1526 01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:12,080 Speaker 8: Let you. 1527 01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:18,120 Speaker 11: I'm going. 1528 01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:42,400 Speaker 5: On like. 1529 01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:56,320 Speaker 11: A wo. 1530 01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:29,519 Speaker 12: Ah wow. 1531 01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:35,160 Speaker 1: That was so pretty Thanks for listening to this episode, Sarah. 1532 01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:36,960 Speaker 3: Hi Hi very meditative. 1533 01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:39,160 Speaker 6: Yea last one. 1534 01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:44,559 Speaker 3: It's so interesting that you reconnected with her later, but 1535 01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:50,000 Speaker 3: you've both developed your personalities and music and then come together. 1536 01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:52,639 Speaker 3: These songs are such like an encapsulation of like your 1537 01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:53,759 Speaker 3: two worlds together. 1538 01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, from the moment we met, I think we 1539 01:24:58,200 --> 01:25:03,000 Speaker 1: felt connected or similar in some way, even personality wise, 1540 01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:05,920 Speaker 1: even though there's so many ways were very different. There's 1541 01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:06,479 Speaker 1: just something. 1542 01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:09,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I feel like a family thing. You know. 1543 01:25:09,600 --> 01:25:13,040 Speaker 3: It's like discomfort and natural feeling. 1544 01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:14,120 Speaker 6: No, I mean it is. 1545 01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:15,280 Speaker 1: It's just a weird thing. 1546 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,280 Speaker 3: You know, we could be It feels like there's an 1547 01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:22,000 Speaker 3: inside joke behind everything it does. Do and say it does. 1548 01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:24,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of feel like it does, but it's 1549 01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:33,519 Speaker 1: usually your mom joke. But who's mom exactly? Oh. I 1550 01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:35,759 Speaker 1: like how we kind of revert back to our teenage 1551 01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:40,760 Speaker 1: selves too, kind of when we got really close as teenagers. Basically, 1552 01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:42,759 Speaker 1: I love her so much. 1553 01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:48,320 Speaker 3: I also learned a lot about traditional Indian classical music, 1554 01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:50,839 Speaker 3: which you know, and just the sitar in general. 1555 01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:52,160 Speaker 1: It's such a different world. 1556 01:25:52,280 --> 01:25:55,760 Speaker 3: Yes, I mean training, her level of training is like 1557 01:25:55,800 --> 01:25:57,479 Speaker 3: an Olympic ast level. 1558 01:25:57,560 --> 01:25:59,760 Speaker 1: It kind of is. But then you still have to 1559 01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:01,040 Speaker 1: have the emotion and the heart. 1560 01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:01,599 Speaker 13: Oh god. 1561 01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:04,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, watching her play is like incredible. 1562 01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:07,639 Speaker 1: It's beautiful and if you if you have never seen 1563 01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:10,840 Speaker 1: her play live, please go check her out, check her 1564 01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:14,479 Speaker 1: her website or her socials because it's a it's a 1565 01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:19,080 Speaker 1: really special thing to see and I encourage you to 1566 01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:22,000 Speaker 1: do so. Yep, thanks so much for listening. 1567 01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:27,960 Speaker 6: Oh excuse me, Hey, I'm. 1568 01:26:27,680 --> 01:26:29,800 Speaker 1: Just playing a long dude. 1569 01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:32,000 Speaker 12: Weezy do do doo doo. 1570 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 3: Don't forget to subscribe to Nora Jones as Playing Along 1571 01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:37,760 Speaker 3: wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss a 1572 01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:38,720 Speaker 3: new episode. 1573 01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:41,320 Speaker 1: If you're wondering about the songs from this episode, the 1574 01:26:41,320 --> 01:26:43,599 Speaker 1: first song we played was called the Sun Won't Set 1575 01:26:43,880 --> 01:26:47,280 Speaker 1: from her album called Traces of You. The second song 1576 01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:51,240 Speaker 1: was Those Sweet Words from my album called Feels Like Home, 1577 01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:53,760 Speaker 1: and the third song we did was the title track 1578 01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:57,160 Speaker 1: from her album Traces of You. We did a traditional 1579 01:26:57,240 --> 01:27:01,240 Speaker 1: raga called Mama, and we also did another song from 1580 01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:08,479 Speaker 1: Traces of You called Unsaid. This episode was recorded at 1581 01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:13,439 Speaker 1: Golden Hour Sound in Glendale, California, by John Yeston, assisted 1582 01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:17,559 Speaker 1: by Eric Raczinsky, mixed by Jamie Landry, edited by Sarah Oda, 1583 01:27:17,760 --> 01:27:22,600 Speaker 1: Additional engineering by Greg Tobler. Artwork by Eliza Frye. Photography 1584 01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:27,320 Speaker 1: by Shervin Liniez. Produced by Me and Mioto,