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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: I think if she did something that you can never forgive,

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Speaker 3: Double down.

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Speaker 2: You divorce her from your family, send her maybe to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, another plan, cage? Yeah, don't let her out.

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Speaker 2: Feed her scraps, her own scraps, the scraps of her children.

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Speaker 2: Are the scraps of her children in a cage in

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Speaker 3: Sam, You're being just way too kind and easy on

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Speaker 3: this person. I am known for being the mother Teresa

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Speaker 2: Critics and loved ones say that to me, yeah, repeatedly.

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Speaker 2: But you know, guys, stop speaking of cages. We've been

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Speaker 2: let out of our cage.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we have the editing booth. This is not a

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Speaker 3: green screen anymore, guys, This is this is real. We

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Speaker 3: are in Bali right now. Should we say that? Should

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Speaker 3: we say that? Okay, says we can say that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's been approved. The thumb just kidding, save us,

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Speaker 2: save us. He's keeping us under duress.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look at these terrible conditions that we're living. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: do you think we could live in this condition? No?

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so this, uh, we're gonna we're gonna be

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Speaker 2: doing this episode from this, this from this villain Bali.

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Speaker 3: And many more. Yeah, this is this is a vacation edition.

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Speaker 3: That's right, okop, Yeah, all right, let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: I twenty seven female, got engaged with my fiance thirty

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Speaker 2: Delay after delay. Oh with the wedding, with the wedding. Dude,

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Speaker 2: PANDEMI always ruining weddings.

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Speaker 1: But also maybe it's like, hey, babe, like I just

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Speaker 3: And so let's let's just let's just move it a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just let's just you know, like let's just not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like listen, instead of saying Mary, let's just say,

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Speaker 2: I like hall pass. I think the COVID hall pass

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Speaker 2: is actually really important. Yeah, I like that we should

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Speaker 2: see other people. Yeah, I'm leaving you. But finally we

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Speaker 3: Cool. Okay, so we have a date.

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Speaker 1: My mother asked me if I can include my sister

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Speaker 3: After the ma married the brother, that's why read it

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Speaker 1: My mother asked me if I can include my sister

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Speaker 3: I could understand, so I agreed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but big butt, big butts always we love big butts.

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Speaker 2: We do love big butts, especially on this show.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, my sister in law has been nothing short

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Speaker 2: I mean, like it's a sister in law. That means

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Speaker 1: I do feel like generally the like brother sister in law,

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Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, automatically mother in law's a hole.

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Speaker 3: Yes, shout out to Sam's future mother in law.

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Speaker 2: Yeah against me. Well, shout out to Disney for making

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Speaker 3: You're an asshole ruining relationships everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we could have had a great relationship with

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Speaker 3: Cinderella hates the mother in law. Fucker. You know, she's

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Speaker 2: The corset really got you know, you know that way,

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Speaker 2: it's like it's like, uh, what's what's what's her name

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Speaker 3: Elasta Girl's got you covered. That's also like tightness, you know, moving.

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Speaker 3: This is too deep of a wormhole.

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Speaker 1: To go down. Never go deep into Elasta girl. Gotta

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Speaker 1: love it. Guys, This is island humor. Okay, this is vacation.

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Speaker 3: Here, boys, island boys.

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Speaker 1: My sister in law, my sister in law, has been

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Speaker 2: I'm getting the sister in law is trying to sabotage

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Speaker 2: how I think she's a lying piece of shit that's

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Speaker 2: trying to sabotage everything. Put it in comments pos if

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 3: But okay, oh damn they call back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So, like I feel like this person should just

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Speaker 2: When you've heard of disease quarantine, but now there's a

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Speaker 1: We just reinvented your boys, the face of prison reform.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there we go, not walk up all the karens. Hey,

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Speaker 3: that's something I can get. There we go.

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Speaker 2: Sure, that's our platform. Rein it from the mountaintop. That's right,

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Speaker 1: Will happened because she could not agree with a stylist

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Speaker 2: Alasta Girl would not have this problem. She stretches.

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Speaker 3: She is what is it? What are they called? Dress

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Speaker 3: Yes, of the dress. Yes, she can say yes to

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Speaker 3: This is great. Can finally bounce off all the cursed

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Speaker 1: We finally know how terrible of human beings we are,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, I'll have it enough for my mom. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Act god. Now he's gonna leave that where it is.

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Speaker 1: Everyone was encouraging, and I still have plenty of time

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Speaker 3: He's very complex. He's he has layers like an onion.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, this is I will table this. Yes,

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Speaker 2: But there was a girl who interviewed me freshman year,

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Speaker 3: This sistern law. Such Jesus Christ, you kidding me.

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Speaker 2: She's literally she's trying to sabotage right, Yeah, this is evil.

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Speaker 1: My fiance had already seen the Instagram picture, and I

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe have to be so dumb, such an idiot.

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Speaker 2: See this also just a thought to plant for you guys.

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Speaker 2: Put it in the comments. But John, let's get to

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Speaker 3: Too little, too late, Too little, too late, come on,

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Speaker 2: We can't move on. You're invited to the wedding, but

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Speaker 3: That sounds like moving on to me. I'm wedding without you.

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Speaker 1: go into bat for you stand up? Say which right now?

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Speaker 2: Oh so I believe it. I believe that he's learned

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Speaker 3: I felt this was enough, but my fiance demanded she

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Speaker 3: this is just it was not good. Yeah, it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: But you know, the sister in law was just like.

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Speaker 2: It's the sorry the brother, Yeah, I mean the brother

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Speaker 3: It was it was it was the sister in law

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Speaker 1: It'd be like I punch you in the face and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Riley apologize to say right now.

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Speaker 3: The way shout out Riley. Good. We see it works.

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Speaker 3: We actually felt that one though, really, I mean I felt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The passion rang in his voice.

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Speaker 1: His passion is so big you can see it from

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Speaker 2: Cameras like this, you just feel it. Yeah, all the

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Speaker 3: All over us. Literally glued to the seats right now.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's right in more ways than one. Baby,

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Speaker 1: Now, I felt the conversation went nowhere, and it became

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Speaker 1: Step en up for your lady, he said, for the

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Speaker 3: Sake of peace.

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Speaker 2: I love how dens this is guy I know, right,

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Speaker 2: peace and is gracious that he was willing to accept

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just.

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Speaker 2: Woman deserves the most stately apology, the most clearly apologies, the.

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Speaker 3: Best you've ever seen in all of them. Honestly, get

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to get a man like that right now.

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Speaker 3: Any any man's that can do that? Call us up

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Speaker 2: Need someone to spread their their their good stickiness.

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Speaker 3: O God, all over the passion. I think Riley's all

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Speaker 1: So I really thought that planning a wedding was going

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Speaker 3: There is a final update we're gonna get to. Turned

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Speaker 1: Honestly, yeah, this this man just deserves a congratulatory blow.

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Speaker 1: Sloppiest passion you've ever seen in your life, honestly, way

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Speaker 1: right before the show crew, which is the sloppies and passionate.

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Speaker 1: My god, my god, let's get into this last update.

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Speaker 1: My sister in law finally said that she absolutely hates me,

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Speaker 1: and it all stems Riley is.

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Speaker 3: So comfortable right now?

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Speaker 2: No resolution, right, yeah, everyone hates each other.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but final update.

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Speaker 1: Everyone hates each other at the end, and it all

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Speaker 1: stems from me ceasing to further loan my brother money

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Speaker 3: This came out of nowhere. This is the real.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my god, Wow, we are unraveling, like the

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Speaker 1: I know right, Like it's already forty two grand just

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Speaker 1: After my brother got a really steady job with steady income,

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Speaker 1: which like, yeah, forty two grand.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's a lot. I'm not giving you a pennymore.

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Speaker 3: I'm charged an interest. Oh yes, I'm becoming a bank

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Speaker 3: at this pik, I'm banks.

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Speaker 2: I'm becoming a payday loan twenty percent a week.

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Speaker 1: Fuck you to the wedding if you pay my fifty

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I were talking about some favors retribution right for

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Speaker 3: my brother in mind, okay, take back any WHOA, that's

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Speaker 1: My sister in law described my decision as a slap

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Speaker 1: them feel like beggars rather than family. You are beggars though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's all lost, like all credibility and everything in that

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Speaker 1: in respect and honestly, just you're dead to me, Samuel Donner, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're dead, you know, Like I kind of want to

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Speaker 1: treat them like how old people treated the people in debt,

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Speaker 1: where it's just like, if you're in debt and you're

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Speaker 1: in England, you just get thrown in prison.

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Speaker 3: Is that what they did back in the day?

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Speaker 2: Yea, debtors, Really, if you owe too much money, you're like, fuck.

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Speaker 1: You just going to prison? What about an old fashioned shootout,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, dude, I owe you

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Speaker 1: a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: I just freaking you know, luck of the draw at

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Speaker 3: noon with a tumbleweed settle it? Yeah, old fashion a way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I cannot believe this is the reason that she

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Speaker 1: no longer loan him money. He never expressed any anger

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00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 1: at my decision, and it felt like he understood. What

440
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,120
Speaker 1: solidified my decision to not include her in my wedding

441
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 1: at all was when she said that she could see

442
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:21,120
Speaker 1: where the money was going and reference to my weight. Oh,

443
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:25,000
Speaker 1: you got forty two grand from her? Shut the fuck up?

444
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 1: And why would you say it to anyone?

445
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:26,680
Speaker 3: Ever?

446
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 2: First of all, if you want money from someone, don't

447
00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,919
Speaker 2: call them fat, all right, just like like, this is

448
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,959
Speaker 2: a little piece of advice. You know, how to get

449
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 2: a loan, one on wash all dynamics, how to win

450
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:41,080
Speaker 2: friends and influence people, advice right here, right, You want

451
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:42,640
Speaker 2: money from someone, don't call them fat?

452
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 3: Boom?

453
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 2: Do you think Mark Zuckerberg went into investor meetings with

454
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 2: whoever invested into Facebook and was like, hey, fatty invest

455
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 2: in my company? No, he said, hey, you look great, Bill,

456
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 2: how about you fork over some cash.

457
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 1: I want my pockets as obese as your body. No,

458
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,879
Speaker 1: he did not say that. That's what he did not say.

459
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,119
Speaker 2: So first, well, shouldn't go into it just calling someone fat.

460
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 2: But like I had another point, but I lost it.

461
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: But that's that's the point was so strong it doesn't

462
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 2: mean no point. That was point number two boom.

463
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 1: I told her that she has no respect for me

464
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 1: and feels entitled when she has no right to be.

465
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: I told her that I hoped it didn't affect my

466
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,880
Speaker 1: relationship with my niece slash nephew, but that I did

467
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 1: not want to be around her if all she does.

468
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 3: Is spew hatred towards me.

469
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 1: I wish that she had been honest before I asked

470
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 1: her to be my bridesmaid, rather than deciding to put

471
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: me through hell. I've tried to call my brother and

472
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 1: tell him what she said, but he is not picking up,

473
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 1: and neither is my mom.

474
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 3: Wow, there was so much more than a good amount

475
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 3: of juice. A good amount of juice in juice. So

476
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 3: what is the question here?

477
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: Like?

478
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 2: All right, my question is and I asked it at

479
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 2: the at the you know, at the beginning, a little

480
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,439
Speaker 2: earth the middle, a little bit, but like, what are

481
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 2: your crazy bachelor slash bachel or at party stories?

482
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 3: Because I feel like.

483
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: That's when the bridle and groom shower kind of like

484
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:05,199
Speaker 2: bridle shower, grooms menache party, bachelorette party. Yeah, I know that,

485
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 2: but like you call it a bridal party, bridal partal shower,

486
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 2: but no, it's like, like, all right, the bridal party

487
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 2: goes to the bachelorette party.

488
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: Is that the grooms fleet bachelor and bachelorette that's like

489
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: before we getting married, we're just hanging out fun. But

490
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: I think that the bachelor that everyone goes to the

491
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 1: bachelorette party usually is in the bridle Yes is it bridesmaid?

492
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,639
Speaker 1: So what what is what is the I think the

493
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: bridle shower is like either like a rehearsal or getting

494
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 1: the dress or like.

495
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: But what what is a Okay, so you have all right,

496
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 2: bachelor party, bachelor arette party, those are the parties for

497
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 2: the people in the wedding, right, bridal party, grooms men

498
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 2: part because like the bridal party of the is the

499
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: party of people in the wedding or like in the wedding.

500
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 3: So what do you call the grooms men? Do they

501
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 3: have one? I honestly don't just call them the grooms men?

502
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 3: What are they called grooms But do they have a party?

503
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: But but but it's roomsman and then it's uh, but

504
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,439
Speaker 2: then yeah, those are the names of the two. But

505
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 2: then it's it's groomsmen, and then you have oh yeah,

506
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 2: I guess it is the bridle.

507
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 3: Trying to get the definition. There we go. I love

508
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 3: how we didn't define this till the end of the party.

509
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 3: Grooms men.

510
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 2: Yes, that So the bachelor and bachelorette parties are where

511
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 2: the bridal party and groomsmen like first kind of like

512
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: all get to know each other. And I feel like

513
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 2: that's when the chaos starts.

514
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 3: And so I want to know.

515
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 2: Any chaotic stories or any lovely stories of your bachelor

516
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: and bachelorette party experiences. Let us know in the comments.

517
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 2: Sure there's some juicy ones.

518
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 3: I remember. One of my friends was a U in Australia.

519
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: He was part of Thunder down Under, which is like

520
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 2: an Australian stripping group. Oh boy, and so he would

521
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: wear the speedo's and all the stuff and like do

522
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 2: the hip thrust and he would do bachelorette parties and

523
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 2: the dirty, stinky things that I heard from him at

524
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 2: these bachelotte he said that the whole thunder down Under

525
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: troop ran through the actual like person that was going

526
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 2: to get married.

527
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 3: Wow, like all of them.

528
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: Okay, the bar has been set, Uh share your stories, because.

529
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 2: That is and it like it was and it was

530
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: like like it was not clean, it was raw and filled.

531
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 2: Oh this is again I wasn't there to experience it.

532
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: Wow.

533
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: We don't have a firsthand with fourand but this is

534
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: what I was told.

535
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 2: And so now I'm just like bachelor and bachelorette party.

536
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 2: Is this sounds nasty?

537
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 3: Wow? So I'm sure there's crazy stories out there.

538
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: If you want to fill our holes with your stories,

539
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: please leave them in the comments.

540
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 2: We leave them gaping and wet. Oh yeah, and uh, well,

541
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: you know, massage it on our bodies.

542
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 3: On that note of should we get into the next one,

543
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 3: let's get into the next one. Let's do it, am I?

544
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 2: The actual if I demand my wife abandoned her career

545
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 2: to take care of.

546
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 1: Daughter, how dare you have a job, earn and contribute

547
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,919
Speaker 1: to the household?

548
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 3: No? And what let should be a crime?

549
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 2: I think let's go back to the nuclear family in

550
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 2: the nineteen fifties.

551
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: There it is no jobs, problems solve, no jobs, get

552
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: them out of here.

553
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 3: You no jobs for women.

554
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: That's I love how you always end up saying the

555
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: terrible quote the clips we could have the clips.

556
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 2: Career is fact, it's done so My wife and I

557
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: have a three year old daughter, Alexis cute name. Both

558
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 2: of us were and Alexis has attended daycare since she

559
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: was one. In the two years since, we've been asked

560
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 2: to leave two programs because my wife is a micromanager.

561
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: So they've gotten kicked out of two daycares for micromanaging.

562
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 3: What is she like? Uh? Do not do the cinnamon

563
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 3: apple sauce? Do the organic apple sauce.

564
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: I like her to pay chess instead of putting the

565
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 2: square peg in the square hole.

566
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 3: I noticed little Timmy was pooping on the floor.

567
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 1: I cannot have my child witnessing that and have a

568
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: terrible Yes, she needs to join.

569
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: Him pooping on the floor so she knows about the quality.

570
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, teaching the good lessons over here. I

571
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: quickly learned that they can't provide personalized care, and after

572
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: learning from her teachers, I reset my expectations. My wife, however,

573
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 2: has a lot of anxiety and worries about our daughter.

574
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 2: She hates when she gets even a little upset. She's

575
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: in therapy and is working on it. Okay, okay, So

576
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: first program, my wife would constantly watch the live feed

577
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 2: and call the daycare multiple times.

578
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 3: A doll there's a live feed. I guess, so to

579
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 3: your kids. I mean it makes sense world, but kind

580
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 3: of wild. Yeah.

581
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 2: Also, if you're constantly watching, well, I mean maybe it's

582
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: a good parent thing, but I'm like, maybe you have

583
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 2: too much time on your hands.

584
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: It's too much. You got you gotta let your kid

585
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: like leave the nest. You know what.

586
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: Happened to go on on your bike and you know,

587
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: getting bruises and.

588
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, letting kids up.

589
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 2: Back in the day, my dad's parents would just like

590
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: let them free in the world and they would just

591
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 2: like do like, hey, we come come home before the dark.

592
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 3: And that's it. That's it.

593
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 2: That's way I can't find. That was literally the only

594
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: parenting thing. Come back before dark. And if they didn't,

595
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: you know, they were I guess abducted or something. Hey,

596
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: you know, and yeah, that's why you have ten kids

597
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: because you're there, we go all these parents are now

598
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: having like one or two. It's like, dude, I no

599
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: wonder they're micromanaging. If you have ten, you're like, just

600
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: please please get out of this house.

601
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: The account for the abduction buffer, I mean, you gotta

602
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: have the aduction buffer exactly right.

603
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 2: Turtles have like four hundred eggs because they know they're

604
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: going to get abducted by seagulls.

605
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: If true crime podcasts have taught us nothing, it's that

606
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: everyone will die or get abducted.

607
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: You know what's actually annoying is we're probably gonna have

608
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: less abductions and less true crime podcasts because all these

609
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 2: parents are micromanagers. They're not letting their kids be abducted anymore.

610
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 3: How dare they rob us of good content like murder.

611
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: B I want more serial episodes. I'm just saying, yeah, true.

612
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: We had several talks about it, and the school talked

613
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 2: to us twice. My wife ended up screaming at one

614
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 2: of the teachers and then the director.

615
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: We were terminated immediately. I love how verified from the

616
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 3: day I we're firing you from the daycare. Hilarious.

617
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 2: Second daycare was a little better because my wife began therapy,

618
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 2: but my wife was still so nervous and had a

619
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 2: complaint every single day.

620
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

621
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 2: These were not important things. They were small things, like

622
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 2: she saw another child took a toy away from Alexis

623
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 2: and she would cry, that's called the real fucking world. Alexis.

624
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 2: Get used to it. Used to it, get used to it. Toys,

625
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: I steal your toy, stomp on it. The teacher would

626
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 2: give the toy back to Alexis, but my wife didn't

627
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: understand why the other child wasn't punished for it. What

628
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: do you want like thirty lashings?

629
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: Like you can't like put at that point, you're just

630
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: like writing down one thousand things a day because the

631
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: kid's gonna like just yell kind of you know it

632
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: in your face.

633
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's literally part of child. If you're not getting

634
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: shit in your face, I don't think you had a

635
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 2: child exactly. This daycare didn't kick us out, but did

636
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: a eventually suggests that this may not be the best

637
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 2: program for us. I love that it's you or it's not.

638
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 2: It's not me, it's you. It's it's not you, it's us.

639
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: You know, we're not the best the best factory. We

640
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: wish we could do better, but we just can't. It

641
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: won't and refuse to because you're dicks ause you suck.

642
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 2: My wife and I decided to pull out.

643
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 3: If only did that earlier, you know, that would have

644
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 3: solved all of their problems.

645
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 2: Would at the very very beginning, my wife, because of

646
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 2: her anxiety myself because I knew my wife had burn

647
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: bridges and was becoming one of those moms. We chose

648
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: a smaller home daycare this time, as we couldn't afford

649
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: another center. The woman who owns it is very nice

650
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 2: but also firm. She stands by her boundaries and won't

651
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,239
Speaker 2: let my wife break any rules. Whereas the centers were

652
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 2: definitely more accommodating. My wife would take any inch she got.

653
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: This time, she doesn't get that opportunity.

654
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: I thought all was.

655
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 2: Well as the owner only speaks to my wife for

656
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: the most part, and then I get put in a

657
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: group text saying my wife has been bombarding the owner

658
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: with text every single day. Despite the owner saying she

659
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: will text her at lunch when things are settled, she

660
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 2: said at this point she will only be responding at

661
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 2: specific times of the day and not looking the rest.

662
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 2: The owner then added several pages of the contract with

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Speaker 2: passages highlighted, reminding us of certain policies my wife had violated.

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Speaker 1: When you're in daycare, citing your contracts, something you're getting fucked.

665
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: I was pissed. When Alexis went to bed that night,

666
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 2: my wife and I talked. I said this was our

667
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: last option for daycare if it kicked out of every

668
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 2: other daycare. The other centers are too expensive and this

669
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 2: was the only home daycare in the area that we like,

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00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: and nanny is not in our budget. My wife made

671
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: a million excuses, including that it's not her fault that

672
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: she's anxious.

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00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but like, but it is.

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00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 2: It's like, like, yeah, you're anxious, but it's like you

675
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: need to take action to resolve that or you're gonna

676
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: be in a worse situation.

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Speaker 1: But Sam, what about your problem? Oh, that's a good one.

678
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Speaker 1: It worked for.

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Speaker 3: Gosh darn it.

680
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, they just shoveled coal and didn't think twice.

681
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 2: Keep shoveling that cool? And how well did that work out?

682
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: It worked out well?

683
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: Generational trauma, right, I said, If we are asked to

684
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: leave this program too, my wife will be the one

685
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 2: quitting her job to watch alexis not me. This upset

686
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 2: my wife, I pointed out. I've spoken to her kindly

687
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 2: about this plenty of times. I encourage her to keep

688
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 2: up her therapy, but she can't keep getting us kicked

689
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: out of the programs.

690
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 3: My wife is.

691
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: Now not speaking to me, So am I the a hole?

692
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: I want to know from all of you, what do

693
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: you think? Also, have you been I don't even know,

694
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: like how strict these daycare systems are? So yeah, if

695
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: you've been in the daycare system, like how accommodating are they?

696
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: And have you pissed off any daycare workers? So yeah,

697
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 2: what would you do in this situation is op the

698
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 2: a hole?

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00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 3: John? What are your thoughts? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think that like someone needs to stop this woman.

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00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: I mean she is just being And also like for

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00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: your own child's sake, like if you're just constantly monitoring

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00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: and like yeah, never letting them go out learn, explore,

704
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: like find repercussions on their own, Like how are they

705
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: ever going to grow?

706
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: And also, you hired this place to do a job

707
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: to watch your cot, to watch your kid. You are

708
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: not allowing them to do your job. You're you're you're watching,

709
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: You're you're watching them watch your kids literally of literally

710
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: hiring someone like if you're going to watch your kid

711
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: the whole time, just this is not a good parenting move.

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00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say it anyway.

713
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 2: Walk them in the room with the live camera feed

714
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 2: and then you're you're you're doing the same exact thing.

715
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 3: Give them some chickens.

716
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: Maybe to play with chickens, chickens and cages in lock room.

717
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: Amazing accomplished is the same parenting by Samuel Donner.

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00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: You're welcome. I'm going to write a parenting book you

719
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 3: You really should. The world would benefit so much, the

720
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: world would be way more fucked up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think I think the real question here

722
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: is is it an able question?

723
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 3: Wasn't good enough? No?

724
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 2: Yah? Yeah, yeah that question was good, But the real question,

725
00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 2: you're too stupid, So let's get the mind.

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00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: But like, is I think it's it's not like telling

727
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: her like, hey, you have to stop. It's like it

728
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: is telling her that she will have to quit her

729
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: job to watch her. Is that like too far?

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Speaker 3: Is that? Well? On the line, there has to be some.

731
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, like this is right. If you keep

732
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 2: doing this and fucking this up for us, both you're

733
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: going to be the one.

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Speaker 3: Quitting and they can't afford another one.

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Speaker 2: And also, it's like you've shown a lot of interest

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Speaker 2: in being the person that's going to watch our game.

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Speaker 3: Is true?

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Speaker 2: It seems like the thing you want to do is okay,

739
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: why not quit your job?

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Speaker 1: Do a full time I was hovering on the line.

741
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Speaker 1: But I think you brought me over to not the

742
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Speaker 1: a whole, so.

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Speaker 3: Not the ale.

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Speaker 2: That's that's our opinion. But we're just two guys, you know,

745
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 2: with no kids, childless bastards. So for all those kid lovers,

746
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: that's wrong you said, for those of you who have

747
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 2: kids that you brought into this world, not the ones

748
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: that you stole or I mean adopt. Watch yeah, if

749
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Speaker 2: you watch your you watch kids on a live feed,

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00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 2: something mighty be something might be opandiot man, I just

751
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 2: im we've just evolved at this point.

752
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 3: Where where the next story? What are we doing? Let's go,

753
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 3: let's let's get the next one.