WEBVTT - Will Ferrell

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<v Speaker 1>When Will Ferrell said he'd be my guest on Ruthie's

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<v Speaker 1>Table four, I expected some laughs, some great stories, but

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<v Speaker 1>not happy birthday In Swedish.

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<v Speaker 2>Yah more healeva inte who roto yaviska haaleva javiska haalevva

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<v Speaker 2>javiska hileeva inteh.

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<v Speaker 3>Hurrah, Hurrah, hurrah hurrah. You have to say hooray four times.

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell people that I'm doing a podcast with Will,

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<v Speaker 1>their faces light up. Everyone seems to love him when

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<v Speaker 1>they remember working with him, or, of course watching him

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<v Speaker 1>on screen in those classic comedies Elf and Anchorman and

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<v Speaker 1>many more. We do have a mutual friend, Saturday Night

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<v Speaker 1>Live creator and producer Lauren Michaels, but we first met

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<v Speaker 1>last spring when I was invited to a lunch Now

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<v Speaker 1>walking into a lunch party late can be awkward. Conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>stop chairs are adjusted, introductions made. But there I us

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<v Speaker 1>heated next to Will, and all was right with the world.

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<v Speaker 1>He was here in London filming Barbie and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just off to New York. But we promised to continue

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you oh great? How are you doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>You're not allowed to go to the river cafe anymore

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<v Speaker 1>without me being there.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, so frustrating, keeping missing each other.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, where are you, by the way, are you

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<v Speaker 1>in your house?

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're in one of the studios here. Oh Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 1>Well would you like to read? Do you have it? There?

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<v Speaker 1>The recipe for.

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<v Speaker 3>I do so. This is a recipe for white truffle tagliarini,

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<v Speaker 3>not to be confused with tagliatelli.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct correct finer noodle.

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<v Speaker 3>It serves four and you need at least one ten

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<v Speaker 3>gram fresh white ruffle. I guess you could have more

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<v Speaker 3>two hundred and fifty grams of dried Italian made taglierini

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<v Speaker 3>or fresh rich egg, pasta, sea salt and freshly ground

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<v Speaker 3>black pepper, and twenty grams of unsalted butter. So what

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna do is you're gonna start by You're going

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<v Speaker 3>to clean the truffle. You don't want a dirty truffle,

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<v Speaker 3>trust me. Brushing the surface to remove any sand that

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<v Speaker 3>may be stuck in the crevices. You cool the tagle

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<v Speaker 3>arena until al dente.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I think you cook it rather than cool it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, you cook it. That makes no sense. See

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, okay, yeah, you cook that's fine. Cook the

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<v Speaker 3>tagle arena in boiling salted water until al dente. Now

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<v Speaker 3>in a in a pan large enough to hold the pasta,

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<v Speaker 3>gently heat the butter until just soft, adding a pinch

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<v Speaker 3>of nutmeg and black pepper, and a few shavings of truffle.

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<v Speaker 3>And now after that you add the pasta to the

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<v Speaker 3>warm butter mixture and toss again and again to coat

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<v Speaker 3>each strand. And then once you've done that, you place

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<v Speaker 3>into hot plates and grate the truffle generously over each portion.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds good, easy, Yeah, So tell me why did you

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<v Speaker 1>choose this recipe of all the recipes.

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<v Speaker 3>I chose it. I chose it because it seems relatively accomplishable,

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't seem too overwhelming. And I love a good truffle.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that flavor. I love black pepper. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>also just it's very comforting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's comforting. And it's also it's such a luxury,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't I mean? The idea of having white truffle. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a very special. It's very short season you have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you get them? I guess you must be able

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<v Speaker 1>to get them in California? Of course they must send

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<v Speaker 1>them over from Italy. But did you live in Italy?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have you ever spent any time there where

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<v Speaker 1>you would have white?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've I've worked there once, which was great.

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<v Speaker 1>What were you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I was working on Zoolander two. I was working there

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<v Speaker 3>for five weeks, but I didn't have to work every day.

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<v Speaker 3>It was kind of perfect. So I'd get some time

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<v Speaker 3>off to go and explore and you know, have a

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<v Speaker 3>good meal.

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<v Speaker 1>And where were you were?

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<v Speaker 3>Just in Rome? Yeah, and that that's such a luxury

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<v Speaker 3>to get to do that, and it was. It was

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<v Speaker 3>up until that point i'd had I had had a

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<v Speaker 3>career of where you're always talking to everyone else who's

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<v Speaker 3>gotten to film in exotic places. And the most exotic

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<v Speaker 3>place I would get to film is you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>San Fernando v uh Or. And so finally this was

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<v Speaker 3>this was after after decades, I was finally shooting a

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<v Speaker 3>movie in Europe and it was so much fun. It

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<v Speaker 3>was great.

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<v Speaker 1>I did an interview with John McEnroe recently, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying that when he was playing tennis, or when

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<v Speaker 1>he was even performing at evand there was no time

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<v Speaker 1>to eat. You were just working, working, working, So you

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<v Speaker 1>know you're being able to go.

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<v Speaker 3>That's usually Yeah, that's and that's usually the case. You're

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<v Speaker 3>you're a movie schedules in tens, there's long days and

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<v Speaker 3>you maybe have you know, you're catching up on your

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<v Speaker 3>rest on the weekend, so maybe have one night a

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<v Speaker 3>week ago. But this I had enough time off to

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<v Speaker 3>where I could kind of explore. But there was there

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<v Speaker 3>was also a really fun group of actors who uh

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<v Speaker 3>Christen Wigg was working at the time, and she would

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<v Speaker 3>organize these fun dinner parties and so that's that's another

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<v Speaker 3>when you can kind of combine great food with great company.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing better.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think about a location that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be filming and wonder what the food will be like?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's I always am envious of people who've able

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<v Speaker 3>have been able to like write something specifically, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like Mike White who did White Lotus as a genius.

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<v Speaker 3>His locations have been Hawaii, they've been you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>last one was Sicily, and then I think they're doing

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<v Speaker 3>a third one and it's going to be in some

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful location in Southeast Asia. So he's a smart he's smart,

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<v Speaker 3>smart guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So going right back, tell me about your family, Tell

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<v Speaker 1>about your mother and father and what food was what

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<v Speaker 1>meals times were like in your house.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, my folks divorced at an early age, so while

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<v Speaker 3>my dad did made a really good effort of still

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<v Speaker 3>being involved, my brother and I pretty much grew up

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<v Speaker 3>in a single parent household. Of course, my mom had

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<v Speaker 3>to work, and what did she do. She did a

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<v Speaker 3>number of various jobs, from landscaper to we used to

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<v Speaker 3>call her a plant lady at one point, which meant

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<v Speaker 3>she was worked for a company that took care of

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<v Speaker 3>plants in office buildings, so she'd go from office building

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<v Speaker 3>to office building and maintain the plants. And she was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of doing all these odd jobs while she finally

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<v Speaker 3>figured out she needed to go back to school and

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<v Speaker 3>get her master's degree and later went on to have

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<v Speaker 3>a great career in adult education teaching English as a

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<v Speaker 3>second language. But it's kind of remarkable to think about

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<v Speaker 3>now having been a parent myself, you know, being involved

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<v Speaker 3>with my wife and we we've always been able to

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<v Speaker 3>help each other, and we've always had help around the house.

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<v Speaker 3>But to think of the idea of just doing it

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<v Speaker 3>by herself, and the fact that she always got home

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<v Speaker 3>in time for dinner and made dinner, and she both

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<v Speaker 3>my folks are from North Carolina, so she she was

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<v Speaker 3>an amazing cook. Every night there would there would you know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the reason why I still I like liver and onions.

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<v Speaker 3>It's because my mom would cook. Yeah. She would make

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<v Speaker 3>this amazing livered onions where she'd kind of see it

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<v Speaker 3>and grill, yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 1>When she cook the onions right down, yeah, and very

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<v Speaker 1>soft onions.

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<v Speaker 3>But she just kind of she'd just do it all

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<v Speaker 3>by feel, and she would make or she'd make great

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<v Speaker 3>kind of stews in a crock pot, or she'd one

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<v Speaker 3>of her great things that we would request that didn't

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<v Speaker 3>have and all the time were she'd make a fantastic

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<v Speaker 3>fried chicken dinner with mashed potatoes that she did herself,

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<v Speaker 3>and green beans and sometimes and would make homemade biscuits

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<v Speaker 3>and things like that. So and I look back at that,

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<v Speaker 3>and my cooking skills are negligible at best. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Mom, how did you do that? And She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you just didn't think about it. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was raised to learn how to cook, and I just

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to make sure you guys at least had that

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<v Speaker 3>one meal every night. And it was it was our

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<v Speaker 3>time to kind of uh to kind of sit down

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<v Speaker 3>and check in, which I'm sure is a common story

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<v Speaker 3>you probably have heard, where you get to check in

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<v Speaker 3>about how the day was and how your lives are

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<v Speaker 3>going and et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>When you think about what that memory for you of

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down at the table and that she provided that

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<v Speaker 1>and did that with you know, and maybe maybe also

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<v Speaker 1>cooking was a great pleasure for her also after I

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<v Speaker 1>used to come home after work and start cooking and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody would say, relax, stop cooking, And actually I found

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<v Speaker 1>it quite Do you find that that sometimes just the

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<v Speaker 1>thing of cooking is kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Of oh yeah, that the times we're kind of find ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>I think cooking a lot more in the summertime, and

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<v Speaker 3>it really can be I'm kind of more of the

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<v Speaker 3>Soux chef to Vivoca to my wife. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>tell me what, tell me what to do now? Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>let me shop this, Okay, what do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Watch that? Yeah, and you get in a rhythm and

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<v Speaker 3>you put the baseball game on and you pour a

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<v Speaker 3>glass of wine and it's really nice. It's nice. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it matters.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you would see your dad, would he cook

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Would you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Dad would we'd kind of see our dad. And

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<v Speaker 3>then Dad started getting into cooking and he he was

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<v Speaker 3>he loved kind of you know, I feel like he

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<v Speaker 3>was always grilling a breast of chicken. Yeah, like that

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<v Speaker 3>was the main and or he'd there was a local

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<v Speaker 3>market with like a really good butcher section and he

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<v Speaker 3>would get like sweet Italian sausages and make some pasta

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<v Speaker 3>with sausages. And then of course there's the one infamous

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<v Speaker 3>time where we were eating something. We're like, Dad, what

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<v Speaker 3>is this? He's like, just try it, and he had

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<v Speaker 3>cooked us rabbit. The only problem was he just didn't

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<v Speaker 3>connect the dots that at that time, my brother had

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<v Speaker 3>a pet rabbit and we were like, Dad, what why

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<v Speaker 3>are you serving rabbit? And I think he got mad

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<v Speaker 3>at us for not trying the rabbit, but mad at

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<v Speaker 3>himself for not thinking that that would feel weird to us.

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<v Speaker 3>But that was a that was an emotional evening and.

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<v Speaker 1>We had that. We had that in Tuscany this summer

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<v Speaker 1>because we have always get rabbits for the little kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and they had them in occasion. Then night, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a rabbit, you know, and that that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>too good. But do you think that he kind of

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to cook or do you think he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>show you that he was taking care of you as

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<v Speaker 1>a as a parent.

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<v Speaker 3>He I think it was both. I think he learned

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<v Speaker 3>to enjoy it and he became pretty good at it.

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<v Speaker 3>And there was a stretch over the holidays. We still

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<v Speaker 3>laugh about it today where and he would listen to

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<v Speaker 3>the local cooking show on like AM radio and KBC

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<v Speaker 3>out here in Los Angeles, and it was and he

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you know what I want. I want to

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<v Speaker 3>cook a Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Goose at Christmas at Christmas.

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<v Speaker 3>And he worked so hard and we we and it

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<v Speaker 3>was just as tough as like leather.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just goose is challenge, really hard.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so bum like, yeah, it's okay, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>you tried your best.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll just yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll order a pizza. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's that sort of thing of cooking as

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<v Speaker 1>a performance. Yeah. I feel that in the restaurant because

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<v Speaker 1>we have an open kitchen and I serve something and

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<v Speaker 1>then I always look to see the expression of something. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure when they were eating it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I would think you are genuinely seeing a positive expression. Yeah, Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of nice when they say, you know, try this,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you see them, you know, sharing it. And

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes people send things back now they don't like it,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's fine, right, you know, you just redo it

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<v Speaker 1>or cook it differently or whatever. But it is it

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<v Speaker 1>is a bit of a before. I always feel a

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<v Speaker 1>bit sorry for somebody's cooking for a dinner party and

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<v Speaker 1>bringing it out and they've been working all day trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get it right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, no, he my dad would get very perfectionistic

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<v Speaker 3>about timing things out and has to go in at

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<v Speaker 3>a certain time. And yeah, but but I I've seen,

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<v Speaker 3>like we spend our summers in Sweden. My wife was

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<v Speaker 3>born there and we we over the years, we we've

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<v Speaker 3>always gone every summer and and we have a place

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<v Speaker 3>out there that's way out in the middle of nowhere

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<v Speaker 3>along in this collective of little summer cottages next to her. No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's actually, yeah, we're not anywhere near the ocean. We're

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<v Speaker 3>we're we're kind of in the woods, and we have

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of beautiful lakes around us and that sort

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<v Speaker 3>of thing. But it's I know, that pressure that my

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<v Speaker 3>debt because and we tend to grill a lot, and

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<v Speaker 3>the Swedes are all the Swedes are annoyingly good at

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<v Speaker 3>everything with and they don't really try, and they're they're

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<v Speaker 3>good bakers and and uh, my wife's cousins will come

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<v Speaker 3>and you know that pressure of someone watching over your

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<v Speaker 3>shoulder while you grill something, and they'll they'll be like,

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<v Speaker 3>you might want to take that off. I'm like, really, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And I always listen to them and they they they'll

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<v Speaker 3>just walk right up and go like, no, I do

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<v Speaker 3>two minutes longer, okay, wow. And they don't use thermometers

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<v Speaker 3>or timers or anything. And sure enough, every time I

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<v Speaker 3>listen to them, it's delicious, and it was it was

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<v Speaker 3>the right it was the right temperature and the right time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think, I'm trying to think of what

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<v Speaker 1>sweets maybe can they do comedy? Are they funny? I

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<v Speaker 1>think if Igmar Bergmann and all those kind of they

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<v Speaker 1>weren't exactly a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Of they're not considered culturally funny, but I think they're

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<v Speaker 3>like a little little, you know, sneaker upper type there.

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<v Speaker 3>They're very dry with their humor, very sarcastic, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>they're very clever, and they love to they love to

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<v Speaker 3>tease in a very gentle way, and so I find

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<v Speaker 3>them really kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't want to lose my Swedish listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>So right, Stockholm.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to Stockholm and we ate really really well

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<v Speaker 1>in Stockholm. There's a real food culture now in Sweden,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and they're all foraging and it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>foody place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're always trying to if we hear of a

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<v Speaker 3>new restaurant, we'll go, try to go a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>nights into the city and explore. There's an amazing hotel

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<v Speaker 3>we've stayed at a couple of times called at Hem,

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<v Speaker 3>and their restaurant there is as good as any I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever been. They have an excellent group of chefs there

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<v Speaker 3>and it's a very cozy place. It's like sitting in

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<v Speaker 3>someone's living room.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you eat Swedish at home? Does Vivica cook well Swedish?

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny because Swedes, for the most part, their day

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<v Speaker 3>to day kind of menu or died is fairly just continental. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and the only time you really eat specific quote unquote

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<v Speaker 3>Swedish food is usually around the holidays. So we always

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<v Speaker 3>host a big Swedish Christmas party, which is called a

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<v Speaker 3>yule Fest. And we have found this lovely couple, Mark

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<v Speaker 3>and Lena who have a restaurant out here in La

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<v Speaker 3>called open Face, which is all these types of open

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<v Speaker 3>face sandwiches and it's a small kind of pop up place,

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<v Speaker 3>but the main part of their business is catering. And

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<v Speaker 3>she's Danish, I believe, but we found her years ago

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<v Speaker 3>and she knows how to cook all the Swedish food.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's our big night where you have all the

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<v Speaker 3>herrings and they cook a ham and Swedish meatballs with

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<v Speaker 3>the lingenberries and all the cheeses and the kaneki bread.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's like our big night to have Swedish food,

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<v Speaker 3>and we invite it's a party for eighty people, so

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<v Speaker 3>all of our friends. We've been doing it for over

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<v Speaker 3>a decade now and everyone. In fact, there was one well,

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<v Speaker 3>there was one year we couldn't do it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we were out of town and people were people were

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<v Speaker 3>upset and thought we'd left them off the list, so

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<v Speaker 3>created quite an outrage. But no, that's that's our big

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<v Speaker 3>night to eat Swedish food. And then the other big

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<v Speaker 3>kind of Swedish meal is is what's called a creft weaver,

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<v Speaker 3>which is in August, and that's when you eat crayfish.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's really fun too, you know, you just boil

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<v Speaker 3>all these crayfish with the cheese. And of course it's

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<v Speaker 3>all done with aquavit and songs.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, sing me a Swedish song.

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<v Speaker 3>I can sing you happy birthday in Swedish.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, yah more.

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<v Speaker 2>Yoh more yah moreva into yaviskav javiska. I live Javiskava. Hurrah, Hurrah, hurrah, hurrah.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to say hooray four times.

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<v Speaker 1>I never expected to have a different too. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like a kind of marching salt of us.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the funniest. The funniest lyrics in English is like

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you live. I hope you live. I hope

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<v Speaker 3>you live for a hundred years, but if you don't,

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<v Speaker 3>but if you don't, we'll still drink to you. It's

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<v Speaker 3>something like that. Yeah, so it's this very The sweets

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<v Speaker 3>are so funny with how they accept life and death.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like, I hope you live, but if you don't,

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<v Speaker 3>don't worry, We'll still think you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be okay, all right, but on your birthday it's

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<v Speaker 1>your birthday. But let's just you know, maybe it's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be forever.

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<v Speaker 3>It could be, but maybe it's not. And but anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>the point is we're here and let's have a drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it'd Swedish accent. Did you know The River Cafe

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<v Speaker 1>has a shop. It's full of our favorite foods and designs.

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<v Speaker 1>We have cookbooks, linen, napkins, kitchen were tote bags with

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<v Speaker 1>our signatures, glasses from Venice, chocolates from Turin. You can

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<v Speaker 1>find us right next door to the River Cafe in

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<v Speaker 1>London or online at Shopthrivercafe dot co dot uk. When

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<v Speaker 1>you left your home and you had all those meals

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<v Speaker 1>together with your brother and your mother and then your

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<v Speaker 1>father and then did you go to college? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>eat out or did you eat in the dorm? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think was it a rude awakening?

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was pretty good dorm food. I was just happy

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<v Speaker 3>to have three square meals, but probably not by freshman

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<v Speaker 3>sob As I moved out of the dorms into more

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<v Speaker 3>of an apartment situation, That's where it was a little

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<v Speaker 3>more bleak.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it changed.

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<v Speaker 3>That's where it changed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And was that in college.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in college and then and then later after college.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that those are some pathetic moments in my

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<v Speaker 3>food life where I was like, you know, the struggling

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<v Speaker 3>actor and I working in a desk job that doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>pay a lot, where literally have twenty bucks that has

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<v Speaker 3>to last me the rest of the week. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>my my roommate at the time, who had a better

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<v Speaker 3>job and a little more money. I was literally sitting down.

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<v Speaker 3>I think my dinner one night was was pasta with

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<v Speaker 3>and the only thing I had was some mustard, and

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<v Speaker 3>I put the mustard on.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I don't think that is a far cry from

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<v Speaker 1>pasta with white truffles.

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<v Speaker 3>And my friend Chare Jerry was like, you can borrow

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<v Speaker 3>some of my tomato sauce. I'm like, oh no, I

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<v Speaker 3>like I prefer them. Yeah, yeah, but anyway, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you went to New York? Did you move to

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<v Speaker 1>New York?

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<v Speaker 3>Moved to New York when I was hired for Stay

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<v Speaker 3>Night Live, And I know I told.

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<v Speaker 1>I told Lauren that we were doing this, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was usually Lauren self saying how much he loved to sea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, that's such a you spend so much

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<v Speaker 3>time in that studio and then those offices, and at

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<v Speaker 3>that show, you're not really sitting down in your apartment

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<v Speaker 3>for a meal. But that was getting to kind of

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<v Speaker 3>go to some of these New York restaurants. That was

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<v Speaker 3>That was seven years of getting to explore. In fact,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a there was a great place down in

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<v Speaker 3>the village on Commerce and Barrow, and I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>it's there anymore. It's called Grange Hall, and we had

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<v Speaker 3>so many meals there where my my folks would fly

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<v Speaker 3>in that week to come see the show and we go,

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<v Speaker 3>like on a Thursday night to go eat at Grange

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<v Speaker 3>Hall and it was like the amazing, very cozy, neighborhoody

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<v Speaker 3>place where they I just remember always ordering the Hangar steak,

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<v Speaker 3>which was like cooked really well and great atmosphere and

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<v Speaker 3>just a very I was like, oh, this is the

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<v Speaker 3>typical New York place, which Lauren would always point out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny, he would always he made a great observation.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, you can tell like restaurants it's all

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<v Speaker 3>about lighting. And I was like, you're right, yeah, if

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<v Speaker 3>the lighting works, it's inviting and you want to sit down.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also had a really funny meal once with

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<v Speaker 3>Lauren at pastise at the old Pastise before he moved

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<v Speaker 3>and where Lauren kept saying that that Mic Jagger may

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<v Speaker 3>stop by, and I was like, uh huh, yeah sure,

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<v Speaker 3>and the meal was almost done, and then all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden, Lauren was like, oh, he's here, and then

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<v Speaker 3>we were both I don't see Lauren get nervous very much.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we both were incredibly nervous, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 3>will you sit there? Wait, no, hold on, I'll have

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<v Speaker 3>him sit here, and then you sit across from here,

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<v Speaker 3>and then okay, oh, hello, Mick.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>And then and there I was, you know, sitting next

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<v Speaker 3>to Mick. I didn't contribute to the conversation at all

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<v Speaker 3>because I just sat there. And but Mick Jager couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>have been nicer to me and kept he kept pulling

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<v Speaker 3>me in and everything like that, but I was too

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<v Speaker 3>scared to say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he was in the restaurant here two ya and

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<v Speaker 1>he was and he said, Ruthie, how are you? And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I am so excited because David Letterman is here.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I realized I was not the thing you

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<v Speaker 1>say to the Jagger I was. I was really excited

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<v Speaker 1>that David. And then he's a guy. He's a nice person.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that getting to eat in good restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>almost was a measure of your success when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you were able to go to a good restaurant or

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<v Speaker 1>be taken to a good restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think to some extent. I mean definitely, you're

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<v Speaker 3>definitely all of a sudden in this this new category.

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<v Speaker 3>And Lauren, part of the ritual and the schedule of

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<v Speaker 3>the show is his big Tuesday night dinners where he

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<v Speaker 3>has the host and he invites members of the cast.

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<v Speaker 3>So that would either be at Orso or Latanzi or

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<v Speaker 3>all the you know sometimes occasionally Joe Allen's and all

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<v Speaker 3>these kind of venerable New York restaurants, And that was

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<v Speaker 3>really eye opening to be Yeah, you kind of felt like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, country mouse in the big city all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden that hadn't been so uh my folk. I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't say we grew up. You know, we were very

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<v Speaker 3>very much lower middle class. We didn't have a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>They still would splurge on occasion and take us to

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<v Speaker 3>the interesting restaurant that had just opened up, you know

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<v Speaker 3>where we lived, and so they still gave us an

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<v Speaker 3>appreciation for I wouldn't say fine, but like, what is

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<v Speaker 3>kind of different in terms of culinary thing experiences and

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<v Speaker 3>force us to try different types of foods and this,

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<v Speaker 3>that and the other. So I definitely had a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit of that in my kind of dining background.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever work in a restaurant? Were you ever

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<v Speaker 1>a waiter?

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<v Speaker 2>I never did.

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<v Speaker 3>I avoided that because I knew I would be fired,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah immediately, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not why would they fire? Oh yeah, carry plates?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I would have been the one that how many

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<v Speaker 3>tables does a waiter usually handle? What? Four to five tables?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Maybe because maybe we don't well, we don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to have we share it around. So every waiter has

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<v Speaker 1>a section which is about three or four tables, and

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<v Speaker 1>then everybody helps, you know, we all you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>see managers changing the table class right, everybody does everything.

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<v Speaker 3>So you guys have a real team effort. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if I just I would watch waiters and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>I could never keep track of everything. I need. I

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<v Speaker 3>need a long I need a long grace period. I

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<v Speaker 3>would eventually get it down. So I knew that wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>an area that would be a strong suit for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a really hard job, you know, you send food out,

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<v Speaker 1>and the way all these young you know, sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>get impatient at somebody on the grill to say, where

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<v Speaker 1>is that sea bass? Where is that? And I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when I was their age, I couldn't cross

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<v Speaker 1>the street, you know, and they're they're amazing the way

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<v Speaker 1>they can, you know, send out food. And the mind.

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<v Speaker 3>When waiters just memorize it the order and they don't

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<v Speaker 3>write it down.

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<v Speaker 1>We write everything down, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Because when you go to a restaurant and the waiters like, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>go ahead, and I'm like, I get stressed out for them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you memorize lines, right, you can do that

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<v Speaker 1>or not?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, you obviously. So maybe that's a muscle you

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<v Speaker 3>develop if you're.

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<v Speaker 1>But you would be good, probably because you could be

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<v Speaker 1>really nice to people. I think you can get away

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<v Speaker 1>with a hell of a lot, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>are kind of nice, if you're not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>annoyed with people, then if you basically like people, then

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You know. Well, some of the jobs I worked and

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<v Speaker 3>I did survive with with charm and with with confronting

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<v Speaker 3>my mistakes in such an open way that it was

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<v Speaker 3>almost disarming. And when they when they said, you never

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<v Speaker 3>finished this one thing, and I would say, you are

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely right. I didn't and I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>And I worked as I worked as a waitress one

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<v Speaker 1>summer and I promise you my last day there, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>worked there for two months. I was still telling people

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<v Speaker 1>it was my first day. It's just like, I'm really sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot that. But I just started this sporting, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so if you get people on your side, you walk

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<v Speaker 1>into that room and you're serving people, it's like an audience,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Bartending is the one thing I thought maybe I could

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<v Speaker 3>handle because it's all kind of yeah right there in

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<v Speaker 3>front of you. Yeah, And I thought maybe I could

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<v Speaker 3>do that. But anyway, yeah, I somehow avoided that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not but you like going to and you go, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you come to the River Cafe and you like going out.

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<v Speaker 1>Have your kids ever worked? Have they worked yet in

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 3>They haven't? They should? Yeah, that would be a nice

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<v Speaker 3>wake up call.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a bad it's not a bad job for

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<v Speaker 1>kids because it's so collaborative.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I always say if you do something, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>do your job, then it's not your boss that gets upset.

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 1>It's your you know, the person who's depending on the

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<v Speaker 1>carpet being swept or the parsley being chopped. It's it's

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>not a bad idea. If you like listening to Ruthie's

0:30:13.960 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Table for would you please make sure to rate and

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<v Speaker 1>review the podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, Spotify,

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<v Speaker 1>or wherever you get your podcasts. Thank you. Should I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you your favorite food scene in the movie that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been in. Is there one?

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<v Speaker 3>The one that's kind of sweet that I'm asked about

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<v Speaker 3>the most, probably is eating the spaghetti and maple syrup

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<v Speaker 3>and in elf. Yeah, because that we didn't really plan

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<v Speaker 3>out what. They just put a bunch of stuff in

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<v Speaker 3>front of me and I just kind of improvised that

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<v Speaker 3>and then ate as much as I could. And so

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<v Speaker 3>hundreds of kids every year ask me, what does that

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<v Speaker 3>taste like? Uh, that's the one that stands out probably.

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<v Speaker 1>The most great movie, great scene. What are you working

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<v Speaker 1>on now? What's what's happening now?

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<v Speaker 3>Still kind of on a holding pattern?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that with the strike? After the strike? Because did

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<v Speaker 1>you eat more when the strike was going on? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you have time to be at home cooking.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we're still We just were. I mean we

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<v Speaker 3>were just out last night at an amazing place in

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<v Speaker 3>La called The japan House, which is two chefs who

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<v Speaker 3>were formerly the chefs for the the Japanese Ambassador to

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<v Speaker 3>the US. They've started this restaurant and it's yeah, really extraordinary.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I've been at home more and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of waiting for the next thing to kind of,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, happen.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you start cooking? When did you actually cook?

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<v Speaker 1>Or don't you really cook?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't. I can't lie and say that I'm that's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>really cook that much?

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<v Speaker 1>Your boys? Three boys? Do they cook?

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<v Speaker 3>The boys? Yeah, the boys. Our oldest is a sophomore

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<v Speaker 3>in college, so I think he's he'll he'll cook a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit. It's a really our middle son, who is

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<v Speaker 3>the big he's the big foodie of the three. He

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<v Speaker 3>really will love to get in there. And he's like, Dad,

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<v Speaker 3>should I make smash burgers? I'm like, do it?

0:32:43.000 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>And what's a smash burger?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? That's where you take the patty and you you

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<v Speaker 3>smash it down on the skillet. Yeah, and then you

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<v Speaker 3>don't leave it on too long. Then you flip it

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<v Speaker 3>and smash it. So they're they're really kind of thin

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<v Speaker 3>and kind of you have a nice char on the outside.

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<v Speaker 3>And then but he's he's he's the one who's like,

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<v Speaker 3>if we are traveling, he'll look up, Yeah, he'll look

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<v Speaker 3>up like restaurants we should go to and he just

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<v Speaker 3>loves all those experiences and through through food and and

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<v Speaker 3>he'll just occasionally I think he also finds it really comforting.

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<v Speaker 3>Our youngest boy likes it. He's like, Mom, should we

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<v Speaker 3>should we bake a cake?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it, And.

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<v Speaker 3>They'll just want to spend the couple hours, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>doing something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should just demand that your next movie's

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<v Speaker 1>made in London. We can sit in the river cafe garden,

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<v Speaker 1>or we can take a walk, or we can have

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<v Speaker 1>food at home, or we can love and maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see you in New York. So the last question, and

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<v Speaker 1>thanks so much for taking so much time, is if

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<v Speaker 1>you had a food that you would go to for comfort?

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<v Speaker 1>Is was it the liver and onions your mother made

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<v Speaker 1>or is it something that you cook or a Swedish

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<v Speaker 1>birthday celebration gake? What would be your comfort food?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's such a good question. Yeah, I mean, we've

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<v Speaker 3>touched on some of them, but the other one that

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<v Speaker 3>pops to my mind is I guess it's connected to

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<v Speaker 3>we have a chicken coop at our house, and there's

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<v Speaker 3>nothing more satisfying than going and getting the fresh eggs.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know if scrambling up eggs is the

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<v Speaker 3>hardest thing to do from a cooking standpoint, Probably not,

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<v Speaker 3>but it is. That's one of those connective moments of

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<v Speaker 3>when you know, if one of my boys we have

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<v Speaker 3>to get them up early on the weekend because they've

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<v Speaker 3>got a soccer game or a basketball game, that to

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<v Speaker 3>go ahead and grab some of those eggs and just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of gently scramble them and maybe put a little

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<v Speaker 3>parmesan cheese on the top, and toast a couple pieces

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<v Speaker 3>of bread and just sit and kind of talk as

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<v Speaker 3>we have Breakfast's that's very special to me, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I love the connection of all of that together.

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<v Speaker 1>Food and love. Well, thank you, and I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>we can see each other soon. Yeah, somewhere in London,

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<v Speaker 1>New York.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be great. I would love it. Ruthie, thanks

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<v Speaker 3>coming on.

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<v Speaker 1>We miss you, Sean and I are here. So Will

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<v Speaker 1>Ferrell chose for his recipe Tagulerini with butter and white truffles.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's such a luxury ingredient. Really. All the

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<v Speaker 4>chefs get really excited when the tuffle season begins and

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<v Speaker 4>you slice your first truffle and smell it and they're like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, that's amazing. When a lot of people

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<v Speaker 4>are having truffles in the River Cafe and the air

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<v Speaker 4>is filled with smell, it's really intoxicating.

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<v Speaker 1>People feel like people maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Getting high on the smell.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also the I think, well, there's there's a choosing

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<v Speaker 1>them as well when you have that. You know, they

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<v Speaker 1>bring in the white truffles and they sit at the

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<v Speaker 1>table and you look at them for their shape and

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<v Speaker 1>their firmness and how they how many holes there are

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<v Speaker 1>and where the cracks are, and how they will be

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<v Speaker 1>to clean and how they will be to shave. But

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<v Speaker 1>it is that sort of smell, you know. We always

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of worry that maybe they put truffle oil

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<v Speaker 1>on the box to make sure that they could smell

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<v Speaker 1>that strong. But that's why we're really careful if we

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<v Speaker 1>buy them from.

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<v Speaker 4>Because it's such a sort of high value ingredient. It's

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<v Speaker 4>open to people. When I was a younger chef. Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>not quite so much now, but people used to bring

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<v Speaker 4>them around London in their sort of wheelie cases and

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<v Speaker 4>then two judge dodgy guys would arrive at the back

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<v Speaker 4>door of a restaurant and ask if you want to

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<v Speaker 4>see what's in their suitcase and you'd be like, what

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<v Speaker 4>we let the guess alve in for? And then you'd

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<v Speaker 4>have to sift through, you know that We had one

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<v Speaker 4>man turned up with something that literally, I think was

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<v Speaker 4>a potato filled with truffle oil, and we were like,

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<v Speaker 4>we can't buy that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the other thing about truffle is that because

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a luxury, it's so expensive, so you're careful.

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<v Speaker 1>People try to be very very careful. You measure, you

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<v Speaker 1>sell it by the gram, so you sell you know,

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<v Speaker 1>two grams or five grams or ten grams. And then

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<v Speaker 1>there's you know, you have to weigh them. We weigh

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<v Speaker 1>them when we get them, we weigh them, have to service,

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<v Speaker 1>we make sure that we have it. But on the

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<v Speaker 1>other hand, when you're actually doing it, you just want

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<v Speaker 1>to give more and more and more, don't you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really the worst person because that thing of having to

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<v Speaker 1>judge it do you judge it or do you weigh

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<v Speaker 1>it when you're I freestyle.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, I shouldn't really say that. I've never I've never

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<v Speaker 4>undercut people. No, I just always probably go a bit over.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's the only time you see a little tiny

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<v Speaker 4>scales on the past.

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<v Speaker 3>What's that for.

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<v Speaker 4>I got one of the biggest bollockings of my career

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<v Speaker 4>when I was a young chef. God, I thought I

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<v Speaker 4>was going to get sacked. Literally, I got taken to

0:38:04.960 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 4>the chef's office and I was literally like torn down

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<v Speaker 4>the strip. But it was really like because often you

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<v Speaker 4>wrap the truffle in the tissue, don't need to stop

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 4>it from getting whatever. And he left the truffle in

0:38:18.520 --> 0:38:21.320
<v Speaker 4>the tissue on the front pass and so I was

0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 4>obviously cleaning down was soapy water, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 4>where's the truffle And I was like, oh God, I

0:38:27.840 --> 0:38:29.880
<v Speaker 4>haven't seen it. And then I realized I looked on

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<v Speaker 4>the floor where all the water and all the guys

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<v Speaker 4>were cleaning.

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<v Speaker 1>The floor ands with trodden on it in the water.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really cool that Will Ferrell chose that living in California,

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<v Speaker 1>and but he just said that he just loved that

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<v Speaker 1>was white trefles.

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<v Speaker 3>Ruthie's Table For is produced by Atami Studio for iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hosted by Ruthie Rogers and it's produced by William Lensky.

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<v Speaker 3>This episode was edited by Julia Johnson and mixed by

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<v Speaker 3>Nigel Appleton. Our executive producers are Fay Stewart and Zad Rogers.

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<v Speaker 2>Our production manager is Caitlin Paramore, and our production coordinator

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<v Speaker 2>is Bella Cellini.

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<v Speaker 3>This episode had additional contributions by Sean Wynn Owen. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you to everyone at The River Cafe for your help

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<v Speaker 3>in making this episode