WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Train Wreck

0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Bread and butter wines pair with the life moments you love,

0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:06.320
<v Speaker 1>offering a rich and jammy Cabernet Saubignon, a silky smooth

0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:09.000
<v Speaker 1>piano now are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter

0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:11.600
<v Speaker 1>wines are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in

0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:19.640
<v Speaker 1>your favorite store. Second date Update. We got an email

0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:22.560
<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second

0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:26.400
<v Speaker 1>date update today. He said, it all just happened so fast,

0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.400
<v Speaker 1>and then it was over. Now he needs our help.

0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:35.199
<v Speaker 1>That's so really bad on the first don't be embarrassed, Okay,

0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:38.120
<v Speaker 1>happens to a lot of us. Have you tried thinking

0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:44.320
<v Speaker 1>about baseball? Or were your grandma covered in curry sauce? Actually,

0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:45.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what, that would just make it go faster

0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.519
<v Speaker 1>for me. I don't know. I don't know the advice,

0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:50.880
<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna try and help you, all right, Brandon, First,

0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:52.239
<v Speaker 1>tell us about the woman you want us to call.

0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:55.040
<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Jessica. He's like, I

0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:58.560
<v Speaker 1>don't even know how to respond to people. Where'd you

0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:02.880
<v Speaker 1>meet Jessica? Brandon? We met on Tinder? Okay, nice? Have

0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.399
<v Speaker 1>you been on Tinder for a while? I mean I

0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.720
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say a while, but I've been on it, Okay,

0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:11.600
<v Speaker 1>so for a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica

0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:14.080
<v Speaker 1>to you? We just kind of clicked. It's just you know,

0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:17.039
<v Speaker 1>I swiped and she swiped, and then we just started messaging,

0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:18.880
<v Speaker 1>and you know, we decided to go out. I know

0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:21.600
<v Speaker 1>there's sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely

0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:24.080
<v Speaker 1>agree with you. Like sometimes you just know on Tinder,

0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:27.440
<v Speaker 1>within the first highs, you gotta have that text chemistry. Yeah, yeah,

0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.160
<v Speaker 1>like right away in the first couple of messages, you know. Okay,

0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:32.240
<v Speaker 1>so what did you guys do for your date? So

0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:33.959
<v Speaker 1>for the date, you know, I went to pick her

0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:36.800
<v Speaker 1>up at her place and I was fifteen minutes late.

0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:44.720
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I know, I think fifteen minutes is fine,

0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Like that saves you because I'm always someone who's running late.

0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, thank god, he's fifteen minutes. Yeah. It's

0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.120
<v Speaker 1>not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that

0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:55.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to show us. True, it's just awkward

0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.640
<v Speaker 1>to sit there. Yeah. Yeah. But when when people say

0:01:57.640 --> 0:02:00.639
<v Speaker 1>that they're fifteen minutes late, in reality, they're like twenty

0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.440
<v Speaker 1>what'd you show up? Like? Forty five minutes later. No,

0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.440
<v Speaker 1>it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,

0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:14.679
<v Speaker 1>we're around, Oh, Jeffrey, keep going up. That's okay. We'll

0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:16.960
<v Speaker 1>trust you on this. So when you got there, what happened?

0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:20.200
<v Speaker 1>So she comes out of her apartment. I'm parked across

0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:23.120
<v Speaker 1>the street, and she walks across the street shakes my hand,

0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.880
<v Speaker 1>and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot my idea. I

0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.399
<v Speaker 1>need to run back in and get it. Okay, okay,

0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:31.679
<v Speaker 1>hand shake. That's a little interesting. I don't know there,

0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who does. No, No, that's not a thing.

0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what are you gonna do? Like fist bump?

0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:41.600
<v Speaker 1>Huh huh. I mean maybe she was just nervous and

0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:43.280
<v Speaker 1>it was awkward for her too, and she's like, oh

0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.040
<v Speaker 1>my god, why did I just shake his hand? Yeah,

0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:48.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd even go back inside for a minute. So she

0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:51.320
<v Speaker 1>went back in. So, yeah, she goes back in, and

0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm waiting, you know, five ten minutes, she's not coming out.

0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:58.400
<v Speaker 1>So I text her, I call her. She's still not

0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:03.400
<v Speaker 1>coming out, no responses. She's ghosting you from inside her apartment. Suddenly,

0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.240
<v Speaker 1>did you know she's there? Yeah? I mean so I'm like,

0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.880
<v Speaker 1>what is she doing? I'm right out here. We literally

0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:12.639
<v Speaker 1>just shook hand. Maybe it wasn't a very impressive handshake,

0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:16.320
<v Speaker 1>A little bit of limp on the wrist, that's it.

0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.480
<v Speaker 1>When did she finally come out? So she didn't come out,

0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.760
<v Speaker 1>so I decided, you know, if she's ditching me, I'm

0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:24.800
<v Speaker 1>not going out like this. So I waited until the

0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.680
<v Speaker 1>apartment door opens up when someone comes out, and I

0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.040
<v Speaker 1>went inside and started knocking on doors. Oh no, that's

0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:34.840
<v Speaker 1>too aggressive. That's weird. Like it's cute to do desperate

0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:40.400
<v Speaker 1>stuff for a lot, but that's aggressive. I'm not trying

0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.680
<v Speaker 1>to be super aggressive. But I just couldn't let it go.

0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:44.840
<v Speaker 1>So I had to find out what was going on.

0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.440
<v Speaker 1>So you said not today, Yeah, I'm going in. It

0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:51.360
<v Speaker 1>does feel like you got ghosted and like to your face, yeah,

0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.800
<v Speaker 1>but I see what you're saying. You want some real answers,

0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.680
<v Speaker 1>find out what happened. Did you ever find her? Yeah?

0:03:57.760 --> 0:04:00.320
<v Speaker 1>So one of her neighbors directed me to her unit

0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:05.080
<v Speaker 1>and I knocked on her door. Wait did you knock

0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.360
<v Speaker 1>on the door? Would you do? Well? She opened it

0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:11.560
<v Speaker 1>and she was all shocked, and oh my god, what

0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:16.840
<v Speaker 1>an awkward moment. What did you say? Well, I asked

0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.320
<v Speaker 1>her if she was okay, and she, you know, is

0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.320
<v Speaker 1>still sticking with the ID thing. So she's like, I

0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.400
<v Speaker 1>can't find my ID and then lies to me and

0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:29.040
<v Speaker 1>says she didn't hear my texts or miscalls. I mean,

0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.839
<v Speaker 1>did you just give up? I mean, I know that

0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you wanted to call her out for being rude, but

0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.520
<v Speaker 1>is it really worth it. I wanted that closure, but

0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:37.760
<v Speaker 1>I gave her an out, So I said, look, if

0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to ditch, it's okay. I'd rather just tell

0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:42.400
<v Speaker 1>me to my face. I just want to know. Wow,

0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.560
<v Speaker 1>what she saying? She didn't say anything. She just well,

0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:50.400
<v Speaker 1>she pulled me in for a makeout session. Wait, what

0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.680
<v Speaker 1>what is he to say? She like grabbed your shirt

0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.880
<v Speaker 1>and started making out with you. Yeah, like real passionate.

0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:59.359
<v Speaker 1>And then next thing, we're kissing on the counter. Oh

0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:02.039
<v Speaker 1>my god, that's she felt guilty. You didn't say Sometimes

0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I like to do that at the end of arguments,

0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:10.279
<v Speaker 1>wrap it up. Wow, this has been so weird for you. Yeah,

0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:16.159
<v Speaker 1>but it went from like being bad weird too good weird. Yeah,

0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:20.039
<v Speaker 1>don't fight the weirdness. If it's going this way. How long?

0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.640
<v Speaker 1>How long? Did you guys make out for ah? Well,

0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean it ended up being a one night kind

0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:30.320
<v Speaker 1>of thing, so it went into the morning. Oh you

0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:33.480
<v Speaker 1>stayed all the way. Your lips must be exhausted. Bro.

0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:37.280
<v Speaker 1>Did you ever find her ID? I don't know if

0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.120
<v Speaker 1>she ever found her ID, because I just wrote a

0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:43.320
<v Speaker 1>note on a piece of paper towel and left it

0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.240
<v Speaker 1>on the counter and that was it. I feel like

0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I need to give you a little spoiler alert here.

0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:51.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's looking for her ID. Yeah, but

0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.080
<v Speaker 1>that's so confusing though, Like what kind of vibe did

0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you get when you guys? I mean you had time

0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:59.040
<v Speaker 1>to talk. I would assume you didn't just like lock

0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:03.720
<v Speaker 1>faces together all night long. There wasn't a whole lot

0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.120
<v Speaker 1>of talking. I mean there was barely any time to

0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:14.680
<v Speaker 1>come up for breath, perfect date money. Now you don't

0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:17.120
<v Speaker 1>have to ask her about like what she lying, marry her?

0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:21.440
<v Speaker 1>I answers remember her name. The thing is I do

0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.880
<v Speaker 1>like her and I want to hang out with her,

0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:25.720
<v Speaker 1>like on a date. I don't want to be that guy.

0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:28.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh you don't want Yeah, I think that ship may

0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:31.360
<v Speaker 1>have sailed for you. She's calling you back. Yeah, and

0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's a lot of other guys out there

0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.760
<v Speaker 1>that do want to be that guy. Um, but so

0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:38.839
<v Speaker 1>what do you think the problem is? Why do you

0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.479
<v Speaker 1>think she's been avoiding you? If I'm being I'm not

0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:43.680
<v Speaker 1>the greatest looking guy in the world, but I'm pretty fun.

0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it sounds like you're good enough looking because

0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:52.839
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like it's more about personality. Well, you didn't

0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.080
<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you. I didn't really have a

0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.880
<v Speaker 1>chance to show her my personality outside of the text.

0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:00.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, like we shipped hands and then we were

0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:07.920
<v Speaker 1>shaking Let's find out. We're gonna play a song, we'll

0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.560
<v Speaker 1>come back, we'll call Jessica for you, and we'll try

0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.920
<v Speaker 1>and get you your second date update. All right, man, alright,

0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.240
<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for the second date update,

0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.920
<v Speaker 1>we're talking with one of our listeners, Brandon, who might

0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:23.840
<v Speaker 1>accidentally be the smoothest guy we've ever had on this show.

0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.720
<v Speaker 1>Definitely by accident. I say that because he hardly spoke

0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:32.760
<v Speaker 1>a word to his date Jessica. They shook hands, she

0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:37.560
<v Speaker 1>immediately ran back to her apartment to quote find her ID. Yeah.

0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.800
<v Speaker 1>After a few minutes, he followed her inside, found her

0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.120
<v Speaker 1>door knocked in before he even knew what was happening.

0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:47.640
<v Speaker 1>They were making bacon. That is a weird way to say. No,

0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:52.480
<v Speaker 1>it's got to be something better. Yeah, knocking boots just

0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:57.960
<v Speaker 1>so cold. They were doing what she said, No, you

0:07:58.080 --> 0:07:59.720
<v Speaker 1>have to have a way to say. They were doing

0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:02.840
<v Speaker 1>the Amsterdam boogie. And he didn't know how it happens. Okay,

0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:06.960
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you have to pay for the Amsterdam Okay. Whatever,

0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:08.960
<v Speaker 1>things happened, and he ended up staying the night. And

0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:12.720
<v Speaker 1>now for the second time, Brandon's being ghosted by the

0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:17.720
<v Speaker 1>same woman and he does not know why. Yeah, so

0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:21.880
<v Speaker 1>our goal is to figure out what's going on. Ye, Brandon,

0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:25.680
<v Speaker 1>how you feeling right now? You know, I'm confused. I

0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:27.560
<v Speaker 1>just kind of want to know what's going on, get

0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:30.760
<v Speaker 1>some closure. Yeah, I just Brandon, are you sure you

0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:33.680
<v Speaker 1>want to do this? I think I'm just worried because

0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.440
<v Speaker 1>a woman who's willing to literally ghost you in a

0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.480
<v Speaker 1>parking lot, like just leave you sitting outside of her

0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.079
<v Speaker 1>apartment and not come back out. I have a feeling

0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:49.120
<v Speaker 1>can be pretty ruthless. She lit him inside, right, And now,

0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and maybe it's a test, a test. Yeah,

0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.240
<v Speaker 1>people are doing tests. Tests are weird. Dating things. I

0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:59.120
<v Speaker 1>do tests, Yeah, exactly. I mean maybe the first test

0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.160
<v Speaker 1>was to follow her back to her apartment. Maybe this

0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:02.839
<v Speaker 1>is test number two to see if you're going to

0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:07.040
<v Speaker 1>reach out and find her again. That feels through a

0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.679
<v Speaker 1>radio station even maybe she's hoping that we're going to

0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:14.320
<v Speaker 1>call her a lot. You never a big red flag

0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:17.720
<v Speaker 1>to me, but okay, the last time I confronted her

0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:22.320
<v Speaker 1>about ghosting me, it went pretty well, So I'm valid point.

0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:25.439
<v Speaker 1>Who knows what's going to happen if you can get

0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:28.920
<v Speaker 1>her on sends him a nude right away. Yeah, all right,

0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Well let's not waste any more time. Let's just call

0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:43.199
<v Speaker 1>her number. Here we go. This is Jessica. Oh, hi Jessica.

0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:48.439
<v Speaker 1>I was looking for you. I was hoping you would answer. Well,

0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:54.559
<v Speaker 1>I usually to ask stay hi, Hi, Hi Jessica. This

0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:56.800
<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:59.440
<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called

0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.520
<v Speaker 1>a second day Update. Are you familiar with that? You've

0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:05.920
<v Speaker 1>ever heard of that before? Um, maybe we'll take that. Yeah,

0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:08.640
<v Speaker 1>if you're not familiar, it's where if you go out

0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:10.680
<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and afterwards, if that person

0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:13.280
<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back. You can email us and we'll

0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:14.840
<v Speaker 1>reach out to them for you to try and figure

0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:19.680
<v Speaker 1>out the reason why. Oh great, Yeah, it's good. It

0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:22.840
<v Speaker 1>could be great. I think so, because we had somebody

0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.559
<v Speaker 1>reach out to us about you. His name's Brandon brands

0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.439
<v Speaker 1>In called. Sorry. I didn't mean to catch you off

0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.640
<v Speaker 1>guard there, but he thought he had a really good

0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:34.280
<v Speaker 1>time with you when you guys hung out together. Is

0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:38.839
<v Speaker 1>that not true? It was an interesting time. I mean,

0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you know it was awkward. Awkward awkward. It doesn't sound awkward.

0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.680
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you knew exactly what you wanted. Listen.

0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:50.160
<v Speaker 1>He is a nice guy. I have just gotten out

0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:54.560
<v Speaker 1>of a like my sost really long relationship and like

0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:58.720
<v Speaker 1>went online and he seems nice, but like she didn't

0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:02.080
<v Speaker 1>look like his pictures, and I kind of just got chicken.

0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:08.280
<v Speaker 1>Really he told us that he does look like his pictures.

0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Not really, Okay, I mean I want to recap because

0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:15.520
<v Speaker 1>normally this is the part where I would recap and

0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I would tell you what he told us about the date.

0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:21.040
<v Speaker 1>But there really wasn't a whole lot of date from

0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:24.200
<v Speaker 1>the sounds of it. Yeah, I mean, he can pick

0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:26.760
<v Speaker 1>me up like he was a gentleman but as soon

0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:28.800
<v Speaker 1>as I met him, I was like, yeah, I don't

0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:33.280
<v Speaker 1>think so made up like some excuse and went back

0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:36.640
<v Speaker 1>to my apartment and just like turned my phone on silence,

0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Like fuck, I dodged a bullet. So wait, you were

0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.240
<v Speaker 1>actually trying to ghost him while he was out in

0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:46.880
<v Speaker 1>the parking lot of your apartment buildings. Oh yeah, that

0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:52.480
<v Speaker 1>is terrible because you didn't find him physically attractive enough. Yeah,

0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.920
<v Speaker 1>in real life, she just didn't seem to you know,

0:11:56.240 --> 0:12:00.720
<v Speaker 1>why hook up with him if he's not your expectures? Well,

0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:05.360
<v Speaker 1>and that is so rude. Really, I get it. This

0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:07.360
<v Speaker 1>guy is at your house. I mean, like, if you're

0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.920
<v Speaker 1>not gonna like him, fine, go to coffee, do the

0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:13.000
<v Speaker 1>twenty minute thing, like he came all the way over there.

0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:17.720
<v Speaker 1>At least show him some respects. Yeah, I mean, but

0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Jose brought up a good point. If that's how you felt,

0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:24.360
<v Speaker 1>why did you continue and actually hook up with him? Basically,

0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:28.440
<v Speaker 1>he actually came into my apartment, like I mean, you know,

0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:30.800
<v Speaker 1>I have a gated apartment, but he found his way in,

0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.719
<v Speaker 1>and when he came to my door, I didn't know

0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:36.120
<v Speaker 1>what to say, so I just kind of like started

0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:38.439
<v Speaker 1>making out with him. That's your go to move when

0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:42.160
<v Speaker 1>there's awkward silence. I mean, I would love to see

0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:45.240
<v Speaker 1>you a job interview. Yeah, it was so weird. I

0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.719
<v Speaker 1>mean I like applauded his zeal to keep going even

0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:52.760
<v Speaker 1>though I literally left him outside apartment building. But Ben,

0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.520
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, I was like, it's been a

0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:57.880
<v Speaker 1>while since I've wet my whistle. So I was like,

0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Oh, that's what girls call it. But

0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, like he doesn't want to be used either,

0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:09.079
<v Speaker 1>Like then use woman all the time. It's time that

0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not an eye for an eye thing. Man, that's

0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:14.200
<v Speaker 1>the problem. Well it's not like I thought i'd beat

0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:19.560
<v Speaker 1>cold on it. Okay, So wait, does that turn you

0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.680
<v Speaker 1>on like it did before him calling you out? No,

0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you

0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.960
<v Speaker 1>feel any more mortified than you already do, but I

0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:31.760
<v Speaker 1>need to tell you the Brandon's actually on the other

0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:33.960
<v Speaker 1>line listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh

0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:37.000
<v Speaker 1>heck no, yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got

0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:42.080
<v Speaker 1>an answer to Brandon? You there? Uh yeah, yeah, I'm here.

0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Whoa look at that swab? I don't know w what

0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:53.280
<v Speaker 1>is that? Um? What is going on? It's hilarious. Look,

0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I just I think it's kind of hard to say

0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.280
<v Speaker 1>that we're not a match because you don't really know

0:13:57.360 --> 0:14:01.160
<v Speaker 1>me at all. You don't know my personality, You're right,

0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.720
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I really wasn't ready. It was

0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:07.400
<v Speaker 1>not right that I like just left you there, but

0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I really couldn't think of anything to say. I feel

0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:13.600
<v Speaker 1>really bad. Um, I mean, I feel really bad because

0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.720
<v Speaker 1>you guys are calling people like I actually didn't really

0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:22.040
<v Speaker 1>feel that bad, like no offense. You know, people sometimes

0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:25.040
<v Speaker 1>just go on to hook up and you know you're

0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:27.520
<v Speaker 1>just not mine. Okay, you know what, You're not gonna

0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.440
<v Speaker 1>go out with me again? So why don't why don't

0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.520
<v Speaker 1>we just get to know each other right right here?

0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Right now? Oh? What? Right? What does that mean? Right here? Right?

0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.600
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? The volume up on both

0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:42.080
<v Speaker 1>your ends? Thank you? Okay? You want to do it

0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:45.000
<v Speaker 1>like a quick phone date? What? Yeah? Look, I mean

0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:46.760
<v Speaker 1>I get it, I'm not the most handsome guy, but

0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:48.880
<v Speaker 1>if you just got to know me a little better,

0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe there could be something more here. How are you

0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:55.520
<v Speaker 1>not angry at her? Are you trying to make at

0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:59.920
<v Speaker 1>each other like she's just so? That was so again? Really,

0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:02.160
<v Speaker 1>I think you are a great You really are a

0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:04.640
<v Speaker 1>great salesperson. I mean, you don't give up. But I

0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:08.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't think that. I'm really not ready. I feel like

0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I want more of a hook up type of situation

0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:16.280
<v Speaker 1>at this point. Well, I just I think I have

0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.840
<v Speaker 1>more to offer than just the physical you know, I have.

0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I have connections next to what do you like music? Oh?

0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.360
<v Speaker 1>You get free concert tickets every once in a while.

0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Is that? Do you like the band Train? My uncle

0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:38.880
<v Speaker 1>is their manager, and he used to take me Backstasia

0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:40.880
<v Speaker 1>all their shows and we travel around with him. I

0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:45.840
<v Speaker 1>could take you, Oh, take your tour to all the

0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:50.760
<v Speaker 1>local casinos. Your managers honestly or your uncle's honestly the

0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:57.880
<v Speaker 1>manager of Train? Yeah? Yeah, Jeffreys so excited me music career.

0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would

0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:07.920
<v Speaker 1>definitely reconsider for Train for Train if nothing else, could

0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:17.840
<v Speaker 1>go to the Grammys if a song gets nominated, Okay,

0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean I did listen to them in middle school.

0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.200
<v Speaker 1>He sold me, but I don't know if he sold

0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.880
<v Speaker 1>you to the Grammy. We would love to offer to

0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.400
<v Speaker 1>send you and Brandon out on another date and we'll

0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:31.000
<v Speaker 1>pay for it. I really would just prefer to listen

0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:39.320
<v Speaker 1>to your radio. Brandon, I am so sorry. I've never

0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.640
<v Speaker 1>in my life had a girl turned me down to

0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:44.280
<v Speaker 1>meet Train before, so this is this is really shocking.

0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.760
<v Speaker 1>You know what, Brandon, I'll go through to Okay and

0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll pay for it. What do you say, I mean

0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:56.800
<v Speaker 1>as a friend date. Sure. I have a feeling we're

0:16:56.800 --> 0:17:01.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna be playing more Train on this station. Brooke and

0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:02.280
<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.