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Speaker 1: from one of our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second
Speaker 1: date update today. He said, it all just happened so fast,
Speaker 1: and then it was over. Now he needs our help.
Speaker 1: That's so really bad on the first don't be embarrassed, Okay,
Speaker 1: happens to a lot of us. Have you tried thinking
Speaker 1: about baseball? Or were your grandma covered in curry sauce? Actually,
Speaker 1: you know what, that would just make it go faster
Speaker 1: for me. I don't know. I don't know the advice,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna try and help you, all right, Brandon, First,
Speaker 1: tell us about the woman you want us to call.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Jessica. He's like, I
Speaker 1: don't even know how to respond to people. Where'd you
Speaker 1: meet Jessica? Brandon? We met on Tinder? Okay, nice? Have
Speaker 1: you been on Tinder for a while? I mean I
Speaker 1: don't want to say a while, but I've been on it, Okay,
Speaker 1: so for a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica
Speaker 1: to you? We just kind of clicked. It's just you know,
Speaker 1: I swiped and she swiped, and then we just started messaging,
Speaker 1: and you know, we decided to go out. I know
Speaker 1: there's sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely
Speaker 1: agree with you. Like sometimes you just know on Tinder,
Speaker 1: within the first highs, you gotta have that text chemistry. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like right away in the first couple of messages, you know. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what did you guys do for your date? So
Speaker 1: for the date, you know, I went to pick her
Speaker 1: up at her place and I was fifteen minutes late.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I know, I think fifteen minutes is fine,
Speaker 1: Like that saves you because I'm always someone who's running late.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, thank god, he's fifteen minutes. Yeah. It's
Speaker 1: not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that
Speaker 1: you're not going to show us. True, it's just awkward
Speaker 1: to sit there. Yeah. Yeah. But when when people say
Speaker 1: that they're fifteen minutes late, in reality, they're like twenty
Speaker 1: what'd you show up? Like? Forty five minutes later. No,
Speaker 1: it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're around, Oh, Jeffrey, keep going up. That's okay. We'll
Speaker 1: trust you on this. So when you got there, what happened?
Speaker 1: So she comes out of her apartment. I'm parked across
Speaker 1: the street, and she walks across the street shakes my hand,
Speaker 1: and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot my idea. I
Speaker 1: need to run back in and get it. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: hand shake. That's a little interesting. I don't know there,
Speaker 1: I don't know who does. No, No, that's not a thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, what are you gonna do? Like fist bump?
Speaker 1: Huh huh. I mean maybe she was just nervous and
Speaker 1: it was awkward for her too, and she's like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, why did I just shake his hand? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd even go back inside for a minute. So she
Speaker 1: went back in. So, yeah, she goes back in, and
Speaker 1: I'm waiting, you know, five ten minutes, she's not coming out.
Speaker 1: So I text her, I call her. She's still not
Speaker 1: coming out, no responses. She's ghosting you from inside her apartment. Suddenly,
Speaker 1: did you know she's there? Yeah? I mean so I'm like,
Speaker 1: what is she doing? I'm right out here. We literally
Speaker 1: just shook hand. Maybe it wasn't a very impressive handshake,
Speaker 1: A little bit of limp on the wrist, that's it.
Speaker 1: When did she finally come out? So she didn't come out,
Speaker 1: so I decided, you know, if she's ditching me, I'm
Speaker 1: not going out like this. So I waited until the
Speaker 1: apartment door opens up when someone comes out, and I
Speaker 1: went inside and started knocking on doors. Oh no, that's
Speaker 1: too aggressive. That's weird. Like it's cute to do desperate
Speaker 1: stuff for a lot, but that's aggressive. I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to be super aggressive. But I just couldn't let it go.
Speaker 1: So I had to find out what was going on.
Speaker 1: So you said not today, Yeah, I'm going in. It
Speaker 1: does feel like you got ghosted and like to your face, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I see what you're saying. You want some real answers,
Speaker 1: find out what happened. Did you ever find her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So one of her neighbors directed me to her unit
Speaker 1: and I knocked on her door. Wait did you knock
Speaker 1: on the door? Would you do? Well? She opened it
Speaker 1: and she was all shocked, and oh my god, what
Speaker 1: an awkward moment. What did you say? Well, I asked
Speaker 1: her if she was okay, and she, you know, is
Speaker 1: still sticking with the ID thing. So she's like, I
Speaker 1: can't find my ID and then lies to me and
Speaker 1: says she didn't hear my texts or miscalls. I mean,
Speaker 1: did you just give up? I mean, I know that
Speaker 1: you wanted to call her out for being rude, but
Speaker 1: is it really worth it. I wanted that closure, but
Speaker 1: I gave her an out, So I said, look, if
Speaker 1: you want to ditch, it's okay. I'd rather just tell
Speaker 1: me to my face. I just want to know. Wow,
Speaker 1: what she saying? She didn't say anything. She just well,
Speaker 1: she pulled me in for a makeout session. Wait, what
Speaker 1: what is he to say? She like grabbed your shirt
Speaker 1: and started making out with you. Yeah, like real passionate.
Speaker 1: And then next thing, we're kissing on the counter. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's she felt guilty. You didn't say Sometimes
Speaker 1: I like to do that at the end of arguments,
Speaker 1: wrap it up. Wow, this has been so weird for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it went from like being bad weird too good weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't fight the weirdness. If it's going this way. How long?
Speaker 1: How long? Did you guys make out for ah? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean it ended up being a one night kind
Speaker 1: of thing, so it went into the morning. Oh you
Speaker 1: stayed all the way. Your lips must be exhausted. Bro.
Speaker 1: Did you ever find her ID? I don't know if
Speaker 1: she ever found her ID, because I just wrote a
Speaker 1: note on a piece of paper towel and left it
Speaker 1: on the counter and that was it. I feel like
Speaker 1: I need to give you a little spoiler alert here.
Speaker 1: I don't think she's looking for her ID. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that's so confusing though, Like what kind of vibe did
Speaker 1: you get when you guys? I mean you had time
Speaker 1: to talk. I would assume you didn't just like lock
Speaker 1: faces together all night long. There wasn't a whole lot
Speaker 1: of talking. I mean there was barely any time to
Speaker 1: come up for breath, perfect date money. Now you don't
Speaker 1: have to ask her about like what she lying, marry her?
Speaker 1: I answers remember her name. The thing is I do
Speaker 1: like her and I want to hang out with her,
Speaker 1: like on a date. I don't want to be that guy.
Speaker 1: Oh you don't want Yeah, I think that ship may
Speaker 1: have sailed for you. She's calling you back. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a lot of other guys out there
Speaker 1: that do want to be that guy. Um, but so
Speaker 1: what do you think the problem is? Why do you
Speaker 1: think she's been avoiding you? If I'm being I'm not
Speaker 1: the greatest looking guy in the world, but I'm pretty fun.
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like you're good enough looking because
Speaker 1: it sounds like it's more about personality. Well, you didn't
Speaker 1: want to talk to you. I didn't really have a
Speaker 1: chance to show her my personality outside of the text.
Speaker 1: You know, like we shipped hands and then we were
Speaker 1: shaking Let's find out. We're gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, we'll call Jessica for you, and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get you your second date update. All right, man, alright,
Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in for the second date update,
Speaker 1: we're talking with one of our listeners, Brandon, who might
Speaker 1: accidentally be the smoothest guy we've ever had on this show.
Speaker 1: Definitely by accident. I say that because he hardly spoke
Speaker 1: a word to his date Jessica. They shook hands, she
Speaker 1: immediately ran back to her apartment to quote find her ID. Yeah.
Speaker 1: After a few minutes, he followed her inside, found her
Speaker 1: door knocked in before he even knew what was happening.
Speaker 1: They were making bacon. That is a weird way to say. No,
Speaker 1: it's got to be something better. Yeah, knocking boots just
Speaker 1: so cold. They were doing what she said, No, you
Speaker 1: have to have a way to say. They were doing
Speaker 1: the Amsterdam boogie. And he didn't know how it happens. Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you have to pay for the Amsterdam Okay. Whatever,
Speaker 1: things happened, and he ended up staying the night. And
Speaker 1: now for the second time, Brandon's being ghosted by the
Speaker 1: same woman and he does not know why. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: our goal is to figure out what's going on. Ye, Brandon,
Speaker 1: how you feeling right now? You know, I'm confused. I
Speaker 1: just kind of want to know what's going on, get
Speaker 1: some closure. Yeah, I just Brandon, are you sure you
Speaker 1: want to do this? I think I'm just worried because
Speaker 1: a woman who's willing to literally ghost you in a
Speaker 1: parking lot, like just leave you sitting outside of her
Speaker 1: apartment and not come back out. I have a feeling
Speaker 1: can be pretty ruthless. She lit him inside, right, And now,
Speaker 1: I mean, and maybe it's a test, a test. Yeah,
Speaker 1: people are doing tests. Tests are weird. Dating things. I
Speaker 1: do tests, Yeah, exactly. I mean maybe the first test
Speaker 1: was to follow her back to her apartment. Maybe this
Speaker 1: is test number two to see if you're going to
Speaker 1: reach out and find her again. That feels through a
Speaker 1: radio station even maybe she's hoping that we're going to
Speaker 1: call her a lot. You never a big red flag
Speaker 1: to me, but okay, the last time I confronted her
Speaker 1: about ghosting me, it went pretty well, So I'm valid point.
Speaker 1: Who knows what's going to happen if you can get
Speaker 1: her on sends him a nude right away. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: Well let's not waste any more time. Let's just call
Speaker 1: her number. Here we go. This is Jessica. Oh, hi Jessica.
Speaker 1: I was looking for you. I was hoping you would answer. Well,
Speaker 1: I usually to ask stay hi, Hi, Hi Jessica. This
Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called
Speaker 1: a second day Update. Are you familiar with that? You've
Speaker 1: ever heard of that before? Um, maybe we'll take that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're not familiar, it's where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and afterwards, if that person
Speaker 1: isn't calling you back. You can email us and we'll
Speaker 1: reach out to them for you to try and figure
Speaker 1: out the reason why. Oh great, Yeah, it's good. It
Speaker 1: could be great. I think so, because we had somebody
Speaker 1: reach out to us about you. His name's Brandon brands
Speaker 1: In called. Sorry. I didn't mean to catch you off
Speaker 1: guard there, but he thought he had a really good
Speaker 1: time with you when you guys hung out together. Is
Speaker 1: that not true? It was an interesting time. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know it was awkward. Awkward awkward. It doesn't sound awkward.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you knew exactly what you wanted. Listen.
Speaker 1: He is a nice guy. I have just gotten out
Speaker 1: of a like my sost really long relationship and like
Speaker 1: went online and he seems nice, but like she didn't
Speaker 1: look like his pictures, and I kind of just got chicken.
Speaker 1: Really he told us that he does look like his pictures.
Speaker 1: Not really, Okay, I mean I want to recap because
Speaker 1: normally this is the part where I would recap and
Speaker 1: I would tell you what he told us about the date.
Speaker 1: But there really wasn't a whole lot of date from
Speaker 1: the sounds of it. Yeah, I mean, he can pick
Speaker 1: me up like he was a gentleman but as soon
Speaker 1: as I met him, I was like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: think so made up like some excuse and went back
Speaker 1: to my apartment and just like turned my phone on silence,
Speaker 1: Like fuck, I dodged a bullet. So wait, you were
Speaker 1: actually trying to ghost him while he was out in
Speaker 1: the parking lot of your apartment buildings. Oh yeah, that
Speaker 1: is terrible because you didn't find him physically attractive enough. Yeah,
Speaker 1: in real life, she just didn't seem to you know,
Speaker 1: why hook up with him if he's not your expectures? Well,
Speaker 1: and that is so rude. Really, I get it. This
Speaker 1: guy is at your house. I mean, like, if you're
Speaker 1: not gonna like him, fine, go to coffee, do the
Speaker 1: twenty minute thing, like he came all the way over there.
Speaker 1: At least show him some respects. Yeah, I mean, but
Speaker 1: Jose brought up a good point. If that's how you felt,
Speaker 1: why did you continue and actually hook up with him? Basically,
Speaker 1: he actually came into my apartment, like I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I have a gated apartment, but he found his way in,
Speaker 1: and when he came to my door, I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to say, so I just kind of like started
Speaker 1: making out with him. That's your go to move when
Speaker 1: there's awkward silence. I mean, I would love to see
Speaker 1: you a job interview. Yeah, it was so weird. I
Speaker 1: mean I like applauded his zeal to keep going even
Speaker 1: though I literally left him outside apartment building. But Ben,
Speaker 1: at the same time, I was like, it's been a
Speaker 1: while since I've wet my whistle. So I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, Oh, that's what girls call it. But
Speaker 1: you know, like he doesn't want to be used either,
Speaker 1: Like then use woman all the time. It's time that
Speaker 1: it's not an eye for an eye thing. Man, that's
Speaker 1: the problem. Well it's not like I thought i'd beat
Speaker 1: cold on it. Okay, So wait, does that turn you
Speaker 1: on like it did before him calling you out? No,
Speaker 1: I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you
Speaker 1: feel any more mortified than you already do, but I
Speaker 1: need to tell you the Brandon's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh
Speaker 1: heck no, yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got
Speaker 1: an answer to Brandon? You there? Uh yeah, yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Whoa look at that swab? I don't know w what
Speaker 1: is that? Um? What is going on? It's hilarious. Look,
Speaker 1: I just I think it's kind of hard to say
Speaker 1: that we're not a match because you don't really know
Speaker 1: me at all. You don't know my personality, You're right,
Speaker 1: I just feel like I really wasn't ready. It was
Speaker 1: not right that I like just left you there, but
Speaker 1: I really couldn't think of anything to say. I feel
Speaker 1: really bad. Um, I mean, I feel really bad because
Speaker 1: you guys are calling people like I actually didn't really
Speaker 1: feel that bad, like no offense. You know, people sometimes
Speaker 1: just go on to hook up and you know you're
Speaker 1: just not mine. Okay, you know what, You're not gonna
Speaker 1: go out with me again? So why don't why don't
Speaker 1: we just get to know each other right right here?
Speaker 1: Right now? Oh? What? Right? What does that mean? Right here? Right?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? The volume up on both
Speaker 1: your ends? Thank you? Okay? You want to do it
Speaker 1: like a quick phone date? What? Yeah? Look, I mean
Speaker 1: I get it, I'm not the most handsome guy, but
Speaker 1: if you just got to know me a little better,
Speaker 1: maybe there could be something more here. How are you
Speaker 1: not angry at her? Are you trying to make at
Speaker 1: each other like she's just so? That was so again? Really,
Speaker 1: I think you are a great You really are a
Speaker 1: great salesperson. I mean, you don't give up. But I
Speaker 1: didn't think that. I'm really not ready. I feel like
Speaker 1: I want more of a hook up type of situation
Speaker 1: at this point. Well, I just I think I have
Speaker 1: more to offer than just the physical you know, I have.
Speaker 1: I have connections next to what do you like music? Oh?
Speaker 1: You get free concert tickets every once in a while.
Speaker 1: Is that? Do you like the band Train? My uncle
Speaker 1: is their manager, and he used to take me Backstasia
Speaker 1: all their shows and we travel around with him. I
Speaker 1: could take you, Oh, take your tour to all the
Speaker 1: local casinos. Your managers honestly or your uncle's honestly the
Speaker 1: manager of Train? Yeah? Yeah, Jeffreys so excited me music career.
Speaker 1: I'm They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would
Speaker 1: definitely reconsider for Train for Train if nothing else, could
Speaker 1: go to the Grammys if a song gets nominated, Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean I did listen to them in middle school.
Speaker 1: He sold me, but I don't know if he sold
Speaker 1: you to the Grammy. We would love to offer to
Speaker 1: send you and Brandon out on another date and we'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. I really would just prefer to listen
Speaker 1: to your radio. Brandon, I am so sorry. I've never
Speaker 1: in my life had a girl turned me down to
Speaker 1: meet Train before, so this is this is really shocking.
Speaker 1: You know what, Brandon, I'll go through to Okay and
Speaker 1: I'll pay for it. What do you say, I mean
Speaker 1: as a friend date. Sure. I have a feeling we're
Speaker 1: gonna be playing more Train on this station. Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.