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Speaker 1: from one of our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second

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Speaker 1: date update today. He said, it all just happened so fast,

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Speaker 1: and then it was over. Now he needs our help.

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Speaker 1: That's so really bad on the first don't be embarrassed, Okay,

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Speaker 1: happens to a lot of us. Have you tried thinking

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Speaker 1: about baseball? Or were your grandma covered in curry sauce? Actually,

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Speaker 1: you know what, that would just make it go faster

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Speaker 1: for me. I don't know. I don't know the advice,

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Speaker 1: but we're gonna try and help you, all right, Brandon, First,

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Speaker 1: tell us about the woman you want us to call.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Jessica. He's like, I

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Speaker 1: don't even know how to respond to people. Where'd you

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Speaker 1: meet Jessica? Brandon? We met on Tinder? Okay, nice? Have

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Speaker 1: you been on Tinder for a while? I mean I

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Speaker 1: don't want to say a while, but I've been on it, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so for a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica

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Speaker 1: to you? We just kind of clicked. It's just you know,

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Speaker 1: I swiped and she swiped, and then we just started messaging,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we decided to go out. I know

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Speaker 1: there's sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely

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Speaker 1: like right away in the first couple of messages, you know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so what did you guys do for your date? So

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I know, I think fifteen minutes is fine,

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Speaker 1: Like that saves you because I'm always someone who's running late.

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Speaker 1: not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that

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Speaker 1: what'd you show up? Like? Forty five minutes later. No,

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Speaker 1: it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're around, Oh, Jeffrey, keep going up. That's okay. We'll

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Speaker 1: trust you on this. So when you got there, what happened?

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Speaker 1: So she comes out of her apartment. I'm parked across

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Speaker 1: and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot my idea. I

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Speaker 1: So I text her, I call her. She's still not

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Speaker 1: Definitely by accident. I say that because he hardly spoke

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Speaker 1: a word to his date Jessica. They shook hands, she

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Speaker 1: immediately ran back to her apartment to quote find her ID. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: the Amsterdam boogie. And he didn't know how it happens. Okay,

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Speaker 1: our goal is to figure out what's going on. Ye, Brandon,

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Speaker 1: Well let's not waste any more time. Let's just call

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Speaker 1: I usually to ask stay hi, Hi, Hi Jessica. This

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called

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Speaker 1: a second day Update. Are you familiar with that? You've

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Speaker 1: could be great. I think so, because we had somebody

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Speaker 1: reach out to us about you. His name's Brandon brands

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Speaker 1: you know it was awkward. Awkward awkward. It doesn't sound awkward.

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Speaker 1: of a like my sost really long relationship and like

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Speaker 1: went online and he seems nice, but like she didn't

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Speaker 1: I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you

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Speaker 1: heck no, yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got

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Speaker 1: an answer to Brandon? You there? Uh yeah, yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Whoa look at that swab? I don't know w what

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Speaker 1: Right now? Oh? What? Right? What does that mean? Right here? Right?

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Speaker 1: I have connections next to what do you like music? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is that? Do you like the band Train? My uncle

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Speaker 1: I'm They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would

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Speaker 1: I'll pay for it. What do you say, I mean

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