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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to let my

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Speaker 1: brother see my son?

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Speaker 2: After what he said at my husband's funeral.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to go down a limb and say absolutely,

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Speaker 3: you're the a hole, and I'm not going to have

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Speaker 3: any additional.

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Speaker 2: Context, no context, no context.

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Speaker 1: He Storry's over.

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Speaker 2: I now, now, like, what would you guess that the

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Speaker 2: brother told Op?

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Speaker 1: I think what's the ope's son, right?

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Speaker 2: Or so Op's brother said something at the husband's funeral, right.

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Speaker 1: I think he said, guys, I just got.

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Speaker 3: To let you know, I'm sorry for your loss. I'm

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Speaker 3: packing the biggest sausage.

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Speaker 1: In the room.

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Speaker 3: So any green widows you know, holler at your boy.

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Speaker 3: I think that's what he said. That's my guess, A big.

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Speaker 1: Hunk of hunk.

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Speaker 2: Forget wedding crashers, funeral crashers, baby, that's where you pick.

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Speaker 1: Up the greatest. You know. They're grieving, vulnerable, so emotionally vulnerable.

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Speaker 2: Lipin o my god. All right, my late husband and

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Speaker 2: what was he late for.

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Speaker 1: Living? I am going to cancel myself.

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Speaker 2: Be passed away from a car accident when I was

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Speaker 2: four months pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Fuck stop rewind all.

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Speaker 2: Right, this is serious, guys, serious, My late husband passed

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Speaker 2: away from a car accident when I was four months pregnant.

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Speaker 2: It's been difficult without him, but my family did so

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Speaker 2: much to support me. I moved in with them a

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Speaker 2: month after. At the funeral, my older brother asked me

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Speaker 2: for a minute to talk, then asked me if I

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Speaker 2: really wanted to go through with my pregnancyesh. I was

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Speaker 2: shocked when I heard this, but even more shocked when

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Speaker 2: he suggested that I make the right decision, not an

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Speaker 2: emotional decision, and reconsider having my son.

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with this guy?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: What the fuck is wrong with this person? Wow?

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Speaker 2: He gave me so many reasons why, including the fact

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Speaker 2: how single widtled me. Single womenow, single widow, single widowed

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Speaker 2: mom are considered too much of baggage for so many

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Speaker 2: men to date. Bro, are you trying to like date

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Speaker 2: your sister?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: My god, sounds that it sounds like you sound gross.

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Speaker 2: I lost it and kicked him out. That was the

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Speaker 2: last time we saw each other. Like, who says that

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Speaker 2: that's one creepy but two like I like not.

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Speaker 3: True and also like it's still an insane thing to say,

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Speaker 3: but at a funeral, dog, Like.

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Speaker 2: There's a time and a place like, no time, no place.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: My son is now three weeks old. The whole family

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Speaker 2: met him and were happy to welcome him, which that's

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Speaker 2: what family should do. My parents asked if I could

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Speaker 2: let my brother come and meet my son, even for

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Speaker 2: a few hours, but I refused. I refused, but they

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Speaker 2: said I was making a mistake, robbing my son of

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Speaker 2: a future loving relationship with his uncle. They asked that

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Speaker 2: I don't let my emotions that take a decision that

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Speaker 2: might have a lasting impact, but I still said no.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think she's warranted.

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Speaker 3: I would, I would bring an uncle around, but then

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Speaker 3: just like totally trilling and be like, Okay, so see

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Speaker 3: this guy he wanted to kill your evil motherfucker he said, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He wanted you to die.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it'd be like dude, I mean like maybe

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Speaker 2: I definitely a fuck up on on this. This uh

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Speaker 2: the brother's part, But like I don't know if she

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Speaker 2: should hold it against him forever, you know, I think

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Speaker 2: like I think he should apologize for sure.

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Speaker 1: He I mean forty sees him. It's like, I need

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Speaker 1: you to apologize to me before what you said.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my extended family got involved and started pushing me,

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Speaker 2: especially after my brother started insisting, saying, my husband was

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Speaker 2: a dear friend of his, and what I'm doing right

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Speaker 2: now would make my husband upset if he saw it.

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Speaker 2: Am I being bitter and selfish? I feel like a

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Speaker 2: little bit bitter. I mean it is like like, I mean,

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Speaker 2: you could do whatever you want. You don't have to.

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Speaker 2: It's your kid and it's your life. But and like

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Speaker 2: what he said was completely unacceptable. But if he's if

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Speaker 2: he apologizes and you know, truly apologize, you know, that's

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Speaker 2: that that that's one moment of just saying something.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's not like his actions had any like lasting repercussions,

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Speaker 2: except like the emotional damage.

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Speaker 1: I need him to know that he was wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And it's like like you should never be in anyone's

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Speaker 3: business like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, Like it's so weird too to say so

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Speaker 2: weird