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Speaker 1: Hey Teddy, good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing doing okay? Man?

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Speaker 2: What's going on with this woman Lisa? It's waiting by

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Speaker 2: the phone. We're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like maybe you have, but we need the backstory.

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Speaker 2: How did you meet Lisa? Tell us about any dates

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Speaker 2: you've been on and then where things are now.

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Speaker 3: So we met on Hinge and I asked her out

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Speaker 3: to dinner and we went out. She was even funnier

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Speaker 3: hit in person than she was when we were texting.

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Speaker 3: We had a great time, I thought, and we were

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Speaker 3: planning date number two, but then she just sort of disappeared.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you look back on this date, I ask everybody,

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Speaker 2: but you look back on this date and everything went well.

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Speaker 2: I mean you left the date feeling pretty good about

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Speaker 2: where things stood. Hey, I'm we're gonna go out again,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm going to reach out and she's going to

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Speaker 2: be interested. The chemistry was there, the conversation was there,

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Speaker 2: and everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like I said, she was funny. I was

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Speaker 3: actually really laughing a lot, and I was having a

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Speaker 3: great time, and she seemed like she was.

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Speaker 2: Too, okay because the mood's light, you know. So then

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Speaker 2: what could possibly have gone wrong? I've said that many

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Speaker 2: times too, and then and then I find out. But okay, well, Teddy,

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Speaker 2: let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll call Liza.

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Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions on

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Speaker 2: your behalf, and you know, the hope is that we

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Speaker 2: can figure out what's going on. It's possible that she

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Speaker 2: has something on her end, and we can straighten things

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Speaker 2: out and set you guys up on another date that

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Speaker 2: we pay for.

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Speaker 1: Sound good jolly, it's not the radio.

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Speaker 2: up anytime. Search bet a Fred Show on demand and

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Speaker 2: make us a pre set. Hey, Teddy, Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: let's call Lisa. You guys met, you went on a date.

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Speaker 2: You thought the date went great, tales so oldest time,

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Speaker 2: But you have not heard from Lisa since the date,

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Speaker 2: and you're puzzled. You're disappointed. You want to know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I mean I've reached out to her, but

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Speaker 3: she hasn't responded.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's call Lisa and see if we can

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Speaker 2: get her on the phone and figured this out. Good luck, Teddy, Hi,

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Speaker 2: this is Lisa. Yeah, Lisa, Hi, good morning. It's Fred.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 2: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that

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Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now, and I would

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Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second? Okay? All right,

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Speaker 1: well thank you? That was yes. I like it.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Teddy and

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Speaker 2: he reached out to us, so that I guess you

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Speaker 2: guys matched on an app or something and recently went

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Speaker 2: on a date that he felt went really well. But

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Speaker 2: he says he's reached out to you since the date

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Speaker 2: and you haven't responded. He's puzzled. Why is why are

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: To Teddy?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, this is awkward. I mean, Teddy is okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm not I'm just not interested, all right, I'm justing.

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Speaker 2: Ah, but there's more of this story though, there's more

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Speaker 2: to this story. Why are you not interested? Like, here's

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Speaker 2: the thing. Maybe I don't know if you've ever been ghosted,

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Speaker 2: why why you've changed your mind about him?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So Teddy basically asks his mom for permission to

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Speaker 1: Okay, well what does that mean? Like give me an example?

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Speaker 4: So when we first matched, he he and I started talking.

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Speaker 4: It felt cool, and then I remember, right when we

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Speaker 4: started talking, he was just like, oh, I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: I want to eat?

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Speaker 4: And he's like, you know what I need to call

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Speaker 4: my mom and ask her. I need to call that no,

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Speaker 4: And I was just I was like, all right, in trusting,

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Speaker 4: but okay, kind of cute, like he wants to call

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just was like all right. Then when we were

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Speaker 4: the date, he made another comment and he was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: to see if my mom, you know, if we're committing

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, I'll just give you the benefit of the doubt.

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Speaker 4: You know, maybe you had plans, like maybe he just

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Speaker 1: And you know, that was that.

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Speaker 4: So I didn't really say anything. And then my final

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Speaker 4: finishing up dinner and I was like, Hey, actually, I

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Speaker 4: And he's like, oh, yeah, sounds fun. You know what,

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Speaker 4: I just need to run by.

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Speaker 1: My mom really first.

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Speaker 2: So this dude, he actually it was a good date,

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Speaker 2: like you you were going to overlook that and go

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Speaker 2: out with him again. So he didn't actually fumble necessarily.

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Speaker 2: But it turns out that the dude can't even like

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Speaker 2: that's okay, which is very unattractive. I mean, it's one

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Speaker 2: thing to have a great relationship with your mom. I

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Speaker 2: think that's usually a good sign. But I also, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't need to ask my mom like where to

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Speaker 2: take you on a date and if I can go

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a broadcast man, exactly.

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Speaker 4: I was. I was like, this is you know what now, dude,

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Speaker 4: like absolutely if you need to go to the bathroom

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Speaker 4: to check with your mom, Like no, no, this is

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Speaker 4: a lot, This is a lot.

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Speaker 2: I forgot to mention Lisa that Teddy is here, and

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Speaker 2: Teddy's been very quiet throughout this.

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Speaker 1: Teddy, what's the why do we?

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Speaker 2: Why are asking mom, you know, for permission to go

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Speaker 2: out like we were grown ups. We don't have to

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Speaker 3: Okay, So just to be clear, I don't need my

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Speaker 3: mom's permission, Like, I'm not asking for her permission. I

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Speaker 3: just I like to get her opinion. What do you talk?

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Speaker 4: You ask her for anything, all her opinions before you

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Speaker 4: do anything?

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Speaker 1: Do you not?

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Speaker 3: So what that's not weird?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it is weird.

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Speaker 2: It is. It is weird, like at some point you

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Speaker 2: have to make decisions for yourself because you were a

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember the last time I called mom to

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Speaker 3: So you don't consult your mom on anything?

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Speaker 2: Not on No, not as it pertains to you know,

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Speaker 2: life issues and decisions that I need to make for myself. No, Like,

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Speaker 2: my schedule is my schedule. You know what I do

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Speaker 2: with my daisy my call.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's you know you don't at your mound of

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Speaker 1: the calendar invite Well.

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Speaker 2: I mean yes, but that doesn't mean that doesn't mean

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Speaker 2: that she gets a vote. I mean she has a

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Speaker 2: right to know where I am at all times. But

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Speaker 2: other than that, you know, a couple facetimes throughout the date.

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Speaker 2: But other than that, No, that's crazy, Teddy, you're grown up.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, she I checked in with her before

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Speaker 1: Out your mom told you to come on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, in that case, you know, Mama's always now

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Speaker 4: we love Mama, get.

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Speaker 1: Out of here.

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Speaker 2: There is a difference between having a close relationship and

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Speaker 2: being a full on mama's boy. And I think this

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Speaker 2: and beyond just mama's boy. I mean, because this is like,

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Speaker 2: this is like you need permission, This is like she

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Speaker 3: Sometimes she says something's a good idea, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I just like to get her input.

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Speaker 2: But why can't on her own anything like that's not

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Speaker 2: an attractive quality? And why are you telling Maybe this

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Speaker 2: But I don't know that I would tell everybody that,

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Speaker 2: because again, I think women want a confident, decisive guy

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Speaker 2: who has a good relationship with family, but doesn't need

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I'm realizing that now. I mean

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Speaker 3: I did again, I'm not asking for permission, it's just

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Speaker 3: an opinion. You're you're asking all the time.

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Speaker 1: This is weird.

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Speaker 3: Checking in It's just checking in.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot whatever it is.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, next time you're going to ask if

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Speaker 4: we should have sex?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: What would mom say about that? Do you think you

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Speaker 1: think Mom would be in favor?

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Speaker 3: I mean my mom, she's very encouraging of using protection.

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Speaker 2: So I'm glad that mom says it's okay she has

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Speaker 2: sex with protection. Very strange. All right, look, Lisa, I'll

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Speaker 2: ask the question. I know the answer. It's rhetorical. Would

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Speaker 2: you like to go out with Teddy again? And we'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it? We'll ask Mom first and clear it all.

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Speaker 1: You know with her this is way too excessive for me.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not weird. Yeah, not going to work out.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Teddy, look again, I'm glad that you have a

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Speaker 2: good relationship with your mom.

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Speaker 1: That's a nice thing.

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Speaker 2: I might not tell everybody that I have to ask

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Speaker 2: for her permission to use the bathroom and and that

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Speaker 2: I run every decision by her. I might not share

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Speaker 3: I mean, I hear you. I think I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: I'll just say I need to think about it right.

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Speaker 1: To do it anyway?

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Speaker 2: Okay, All right, Well, hey, whatever floats your boat, I

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Speaker 2: guess Teddy right right, right right. We've really we've really

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Speaker 2: got nowhere here