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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. Y'all listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 1: oftentimes we just complain about stuff and it comes up

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Speaker 1: stop complaining because God is able, Because God is capable.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I

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Speaker 1: with God and formulate this relationship. You don't have enough weapons.

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Speaker 1: you know what's crazy My Spanish roommate. I had a

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Speaker 1: You're you're Eduardo? Right? Yes? Is it? Word them? Okay?

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Speaker 1: But I wanted to see if you could come around

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Speaker 1: I need English, Man, I need English English. You what

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Speaker 1: my cousin. Now what does he have to do? It's okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Julio is the one that told me to call you.

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's what and what? Yeah, Man, I listen to that show. Man,

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Speaker 1: Holly you all right? Man? He got me Now, I

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the morning Man, he got me? Hey, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: Tommy bum before you go. Man home from the Hood

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Speaker 1: right now. All right, thank you, you're listening to show

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Speaker 1: to love Officer and Junior. Here we go. But Tina

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Speaker 1: Are ready? You didn't got a last damn I don't

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Speaker 1: You didn't stole that latest boys, that baby he's twa

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Speaker 1: the vontee like spaghetti. Put this stuff together? But stop? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: think the second time to John, No, this is not working. Leave.

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Speaker 1: She had told you to come in here. Stop talking

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Speaker 1: day at your mouth. She had told you already. Now

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Speaker 1: quit going down and talk about what Darrel doing without

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Speaker 1: well I don't want to hear it. We we got

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Speaker 1: blood we have Okay, Cody had talked me with Darrel

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Speaker 1: We got to take the first time. I ain't known,

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Speaker 1: my bed. The TV in her room is broken, so

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Speaker 1: she sleeps with me to watch TV. She has a job,

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Speaker 1: but she uses her money to shop, hang out and travel.

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Speaker 1: I know I made this problem, but how do I

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Speaker 1: fix it? Oh? We got to go cold Turkey. We

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Speaker 1: gotta cut this off right here. No, you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: be just laying up with me, laying up with me

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Speaker 1: in my room watching my TV. No, you got to go.

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Speaker 1: We got you got you got. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: Help your daughter get her first month's rent at an apartment.

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Speaker 1: But let's move the hell out of here now. First

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Speaker 1: month rent put a little sum on her count. And

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Speaker 1: now you own your own. You got to maintain and

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Speaker 1: you got a job, so that all that's shopping and traveling.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna have to balance that but your own check.

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Speaker 1: But at this point when you got to get your

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Speaker 1: butt out of my house, this is it, this is it.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got that, and build her little house out

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Speaker 1: back somewhere, night little house or something. Telling her mom

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Speaker 1: to build her daughter out her night little time to

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Speaker 1: one of them tining homes in the backyard. The one

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Speaker 1: you're getting that tining home here'll make you thinking about

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Speaker 1: what you really wanted, like get your ass in that

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Speaker 1: little tining home about yourself. But you can't. But you

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Speaker 1: can't be coming in and out of this house. We

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Speaker 1: threw with that or tying home on the one or

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Speaker 1: the two. I'm with. I'm telling you we gotta make

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Speaker 1: some dressing changes. Like times you gotta go. You got

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Speaker 1: to go through some extreme stuff. So I suggest, man,

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Speaker 1: you really want to teach your listen, take all the

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Speaker 1: stuff out the house. She liked, so she liked them TVs.

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Speaker 1: Take them TVs out of here. Get that couch she

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Speaker 1: liked to let the phone. Take that out. Get all

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Speaker 1: that table like. She liked to say to eat that.

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Speaker 1: Get rid of the table. Don't have no funch in

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Speaker 1: here with your come on, just boop everything out. Just

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Speaker 1: sit in that house within the dark. Don't pay the

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Speaker 1: light bell turning lights out in here. She can't get

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Speaker 1: your football nothing, just being here with me in the dark.

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Speaker 1: So long you can do out last. I got a job.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to work. Yeah, take all that stuff out it.

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Speaker 1: She liked anything in refrigeration, she like eat. Don't buy

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Speaker 1: none of that normal. Get all that out of this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, guys, thank you. Riddelow and Junior

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Speaker 1: appreciated coming up at the top of the hour, and

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Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening well, guys, still trending some of our favorite

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Speaker 1: moments from the NUBLEACP Image Awards. There was a moment

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Speaker 1: when Queen Latifa talked about our struggle and resilience as

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Speaker 1: a people. And then w NBA star Britney Grinder and

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Speaker 1: her wife Cherrelle Grinder surprised the audience when they walked

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Speaker 1: out on stage and received a standing ovation. Take a look.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Pause. Um, we are just truly so thankful

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Speaker 1: to all the people, media, of whom are black women

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Speaker 1: and black lead organizations who fought so hard to bring

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Speaker 1: Big home tonight. It feels so good to be here,

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Speaker 1: especially with my beautiful, amazing wife, and with all of

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Speaker 1: y'all here today. I want to thank I want to

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Speaker 1: thank everyone, and let's keep fighting the brain home. Every

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Speaker 1: American still detained overseas. Thank you. That was that it

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Speaker 1: was written. It voys has changed. Really, I'm say it

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Speaker 1: sounds different, a little wott. Yeah, well it's deeper. It's

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Speaker 1: deeper than what I what I remember me. So you know,

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Speaker 1: you went to schools, you went to high school here

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Speaker 1: in Houston, so you grow up, watched her grow up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. But it was a star studded

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Speaker 1: audience today, Serena Williams, Jonathan Major, you saw Dwayne Way,

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Speaker 1: everyone on their feet, Tracy Ellis Ross, you know clapping,

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Speaker 1: you know who you know who stole the show? A

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Speaker 1: turn to Benjamin Crop stole yeah, down stole the show.

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Speaker 1: It was Yes, that boy is a baseman. Yes yeah, Uh,

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Speaker 1: I ain't going to court with Benjamin Crawl. I don't

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Speaker 1: care ticket traffic ticket night. I'm going with Benjamin crap.

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Speaker 1: That's how I promise you you when you called me

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Speaker 1: down them me, I ain't coming in until me and

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Speaker 1: get here. Yeah. Well. Other NAACP image winners include Angela

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Speaker 1: Bassetts she one for Angela, one for Entertainer of the Year,

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Speaker 1: Black Panther would kind of for every One's Best motion Picture,

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Speaker 1: Avid Elementary one Big, including Best TV Comedy. According to

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Speaker 1: The Hollywood Reporter, I know I love that show, but

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Speaker 1: but this is the one that surprised to me sort

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Speaker 1: of kind of. Uh. Will Smith won for Best Actor

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Speaker 1: in a Motion Picture for his role in Emancipation and

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Speaker 1: then we'll post it on Instagram. Wow in double ACP.

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Speaker 1: I am absolutely humbled by this. You know, I think

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Speaker 1: it was a lot in that. You know, No, Greta,

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Speaker 1: he gave me award. You're not we'll gave you. We'll

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Speaker 1: gave you award. You not messing up this show, not

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Speaker 1: this No, no, too soon, too soon we will be

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Speaker 1: we'll be sending that two day mail. That'd be two days. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, he won, But yeah, like you say,

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Speaker 1: Junior violent David's I was so happy for this one.

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Speaker 1: One for the woman King, which was my favorite movie

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Speaker 1: of twenty twenty two, favorite movie. It was outstanding. Um yeah,

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Speaker 1: what a great movie and she deserved to win that.

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Speaker 1: The Social Justice Impact Impact Award winner Civil Rights Attorney

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Speaker 1: like you said, Tommy Benjamin Trump with an outstanding speech.

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Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union and Wayne Wade were emotional when they accepted

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Speaker 1: the President's award as they talked about their daughter Zaiah

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Speaker 1: and the issues faced by her and other black trans people.

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Speaker 1: And in Kerrie Washington presented Serena Williams with the Jackie

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Speaker 1: Robinson Sports Award. And you know, Serena was gracious as

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Speaker 1: always with her acceptance speech. Just just lovely, lovely, lovely

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Speaker 1: to see her win that award. Yeah, So congratulations to

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Speaker 1: all the NAACP Image Award winners. In other in other

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Speaker 1: entertainment news, it's awards season, the Academy Awards. Yes, Rihanna

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Speaker 1: will be one of the performance Get your mind right,

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Speaker 1: She'll be one of the performers. She's gonna sing the

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Speaker 1: nominated song list to me. Uh, she's going she don't

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Speaker 1: sound like that, Just like that from Black Panther Reports

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Speaker 1: with Conda Forever the soundtrack. You can't have all these

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Speaker 1: people up in the AFP. All these you can't have

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Speaker 1: all that at the at the Oscars. It's not just

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Speaker 1: whatever whatever. Yeah, won't think everybody. I don't think everybody

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Speaker 1: got their rope on. I'll be worried. I'll be trying

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Speaker 1: to see if they got their rope on ABC and

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Speaker 1: the Academy. You know, they risk getting a flurry of complaints.

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Speaker 1: We acc heard from more than one hundred viewers of

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Speaker 1: Super Bowl fifty seven on Fox. They complained that Rihanna's

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Speaker 1: halftime performance was too sexual, the dancers too suggestives with

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Speaker 1: their hip thrust. I know, just anything to read to

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Speaker 1: get on Rihanna right now. Yeah, that's what I agree.

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Speaker 1: They were. Definitely did pat She did pattic one time,

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Speaker 1: she did yeah, yeah, and yeah and then put it up.

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Speaker 1: I saw that somebody probably named Karen that wrote to

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Speaker 1: the FCC you think about Rihanna's halftime show. Yeah, they

545
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Speaker 1: said children shouldn't be exposed to pornography as an adult.

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Speaker 1: I don't wish to see it. Where has decency gone?

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Speaker 1: This is all for Rihanna's performance. Yeah, okay, Karen, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: come on, yeah, yeah, we've seen worse for sure. Uh,

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Speaker 1: finally an entertainment news. Nick Cannon says he will let

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Speaker 1: God decide if he's done having children. Nick, of course,

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Speaker 1: his father twelve children. Today, he said, is up to

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Speaker 1: God to decide when he will stop. Nicka's forty two.

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Speaker 1: He welcome to child in December. Yeah, the lords, I guess,

554
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Speaker 1: but he's saying there may be more. He doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: It's God's decision. It's not off. Yeah, I think it's

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Speaker 1: up to protection. This is what this is up to.

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Speaker 1: That's not know what I got to do it. This

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Speaker 1: is up to protection. Coming coming up in twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, the one hundredth episode of the hit

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Speaker 1: reality dating show Ready to Love. We'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to morning show. Congratulations yet

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Speaker 1: again to our very own nephew Tommy or Tommy Miles

563
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Speaker 1: as they call you, Unready to Love. Yes, you're one

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Speaker 1: hundredth episode of Ready to Love. It is a hit.

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Speaker 1: It is a hit, hands down. It's a hit. Um

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Speaker 1: reality dating show that we all love. We all love

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Speaker 1: the show on own network. Take a listen to Oprah

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Speaker 1: Winfrey's message to Will Packer and Tommy Miles when Will

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Speaker 1: Packer first came to me with an idea to help

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Speaker 1: grown black folk final love. I was more than a

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Speaker 1: little intrigued with all the dating shows on TMM. How

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Speaker 1: would people respond to a show that was about more

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Speaker 1: than just sex and skin, a show designed to help

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Speaker 1: singles find real love. Now, after one hundred episodes and

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Speaker 1: toughtless connections, I think the answer is pretty clear. We

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Speaker 1: all want to experience authentic love, whether it's in our

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Speaker 1: own lives or rooting for strangers on TV. We want

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Speaker 1: genuine connection. And so, as the show's original fan, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to say to you Will Packer, Tommy Miles, the

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Speaker 1: entire Lighthearted team, I want to thank you all for

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Speaker 1: a hundred, one hundred, yes, one hundred episodes of helping

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Speaker 1: grown folk fine love. Thank you, thank you, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Boy. You bet old that one.

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Speaker 1: What I'm telling you I don't know about in the world.

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Speaker 1: What upraid? Right? Oh my god? Your thoughts it's it's

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Speaker 1: you know, it's it's a milestone. Nothing, not something I

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Speaker 1: even put in my plans. I just, you know, just

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00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: was was blessed that Will Packer called me here so

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Speaker 1: many years ago and offered me a job I didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to Um didn't have to audition for it,

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Speaker 1: you know, he said, you just you fit this very well.

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Speaker 1: And I didn't know what you know, even going through

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Speaker 1: the first season. I was like, oh my god, I

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00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: didn't know. That's what was great about the first season.

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00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to expect, and they didn't know

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Speaker 1: what to expect. So it was new to all of us.

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Speaker 1: And uh to just to just be this much further

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Speaker 1: down the line to get one hundred here and we're

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Speaker 1: still rolling, getting ready to start Dallas. This this is

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Speaker 1: a blessing. Man. I don't take any of this for granted. Man.

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Speaker 1: I give this to God and all the glory because

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Speaker 1: this is this is um. This is what it means

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00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: when they say you're not in control. I I was

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00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: not in control. It just happened. This is and this

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00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: is just truly to me a blessing from God. That um.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm ready to go get another hundred, man,

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Speaker 1: because it's it's it's working. People are loving it and

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00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: and this opens right. You know, you are cheering for

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00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: people that you don't even know. You just when you're

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Speaker 1: sitting there on the couch watching and you'd be like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, he needs to be with her, not

612
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: her and she need to him. You're trying to piece

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Speaker 1: it together yourself. You know. It's just a beautiful thing

614
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: to watch them fall yell at the TV. All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, nep you, and congratulations again. We couldn't man

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Speaker 1: all right, Um. Coming up at thirty four minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour today's roundtable discussion, there's a new study out

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Speaker 1: on what are the patterns that lead to cheating? We'll

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Speaker 1: talk about it right after this you're listening show. A

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Speaker 1: new study aimed to look at the causes and effects

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Speaker 1: of cheating in a relationship. Okay, that's what's out now,

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Speaker 1: because for decades, researchers have debated the question of if

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Speaker 1: cheating was a direct cause of relationship problems or is

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Speaker 1: it just a response to a problem already present in

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Speaker 1: the relationship. Okay, so you've got two things going on there.

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Speaker 1: Recent study in Germany released some new data. It said

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Speaker 1: infidelity maybe a consequence rather than a cause of relationship trouble.

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Speaker 1: And then it said data showed the relationship's well being

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Speaker 1: started to decline before infidelity happens. Then it said after

630
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: the cheating happens, both people in the relationship reported more

631
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 1: conflict and less satisfaction. Yeah. Yeah, So is it a response,

632
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: you guys think, or is it the cause? I think

633
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: it's I think it's a response. I think it's like

634
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: Germany said, Germany said, a consequence, right, m yeah, maybe

635
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: a consequence rather than I think it's I think it's

636
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: after so many things have going bad in the relationship.

637
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: I think people revert to that. That's what I think.

638
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: That's just timmy talking. Now, that's what that's the that's

639
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: the case study I've gathered hearing. Then you read a lot,

640
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 1: read a lot. This is my research. I think I

641
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: think most most let's let's let me just say men.

642
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: I think most men when they're not getting when they're

643
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,879
Speaker 1: not happy at home, when they're not getting what they

644
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: you know what, I think some men are not getting

645
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: what what what they were getting at the beginning of

646
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: a relationship. And and you know what the old people say,

647
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: you know, whatever it took to get this man, that's

648
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: what it takes to keep this man. I think when

649
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: people don't have, when that doesn't stay consistent, then then

650
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: you know, mind wonders, your wonders over. Yeah, yeah, that's

651
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: that's that's that's how they're working on it. That's how

652
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: they're working on it, working on it by by working

653
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: on something else, that's how they're working on So okay,

654
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: Junior newly married. Well, yeah, that's not the study I had.

655
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: My research din't come back like that. My research came

656
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 1: back that I wanted out. That's what I think. It

657
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: can't right directly back to that, I just won't out.

658
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 1: You see me with somebody else, that's what clear saying.

659
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: I won't out. I don't I don't want to be

660
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: with you. That the research I came up with this

661
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: is he shows me. Have you ever heard the phrase

662
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: marriage takes work? Relationships take work? And it does. It does,

663
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: But you guys say you don't want to work on it,

664
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: you just want to leave or cheat. No, no, no, no, no,

665
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I told you what the case

666
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: study was. I told you. I ain't said nothing about

667
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: no damn timing. I said nothing like this. You're saying

668
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,439
Speaker 1: that could be the cause of it. Yeah, that could

669
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: be the call. I'm happy when I man, I'm gonna

670
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: go good. We know that, we know that I left

671
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: all kinds of evidence I wanted out when she found them,

672
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: phone him in my pocket that's a sign right there.

673
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get out. So you're gonna keep this

674
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: numb in your pocket like I gonna find out what

675
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: what was that phone? The fact that fact that you

676
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,959
Speaker 1: had number's own paper is what's surprises for me. Yeah,

677
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: here was this. Oh this is like in ninety seven eight,

678
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: you know, want that's back back when you kept a

679
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: pin in your pocket. That's fine. I mean, you know,

680
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: I mean even with her, you know I got cheated on.

681
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: I saw her. What the dude? I knew then she

682
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: wanted out. I saw her and she would even let

683
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: his hand out when she saw me. She kept holding

684
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: me out. I knew she wanted out see me, and

685
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: still kept his hands Come on, now, let his hands out,

686
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: dropped his hand, na, you see me, let his hand down,

687
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: Just kept on walk. That's okay, okay, okay, on going out.

688
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,720
Speaker 1: That's what this is. Back in college, I was so crushed.

689
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: I walked in on something. Oh man, what oh I

690
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: saw it. I saw it. Cheating on you, Yeah, man,

691
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: I saw it. He ran down the hall with his

692
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: clothes hand kid. What yes? Blown away? Yeah? Put that

693
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: in your head and that visual is still out of

694
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: this day. Better Yeah, because you've actually seen it. All right,

695
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: it's a lot yeah, all right. Coming up next, today's

696
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: frank phone call from the nephew who still traumatized after

697
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: all these years. Now we understand you a whole lot better.

698
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: That's frank phone call is coming up right after this

699
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour,

700
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,

701
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: and the subject is get this subject. It's a player.

702
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: It's a player's ball every weekend. What he is? What? Wait?

703
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: Do you This letter is funny, but right now the

704
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's frank phone call. What you

705
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: got for us? Naff? Surely this is for all your

706
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: ladies out there. It's got the eyelashes that go pass

707
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: your nose, you know them, them long eyelash nose. Yeah, yeah,

708
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: I mean that. There's gotta be a limit to your thing.

709
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 1: There's a limit to these eyelashes. Some of y'all know better.

710
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: You know you can't see, but it's okay. But what

711
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do is put them lashes on my wife.

712
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 1: That's what you're not gonna do. He can't come he

713
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 1: can't come home, and can't see me. Call he can't

714
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: see me. Just don't make no sense. Okay, Well, this

715
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 1: right here is called lashing out. Lashing out cat dog,

716
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: if you would, Hey, it's clashing out. How can we

717
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: lash you out? I'm trying to reach Bianca is Hey, listen.

718
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: My name is Brian, my um, my wife Jamie. Come

719
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: up there and get out eyelashes done? Is uh? Who

720
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: who's the owner of this place? I am Brian. What's

721
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: going on? Okay? Going on? You you're Bona? Are you

722
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 1: the one that own the place? I'm Bianca. I'm the owner.

723
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: We opened about a year and a half ago. Proud, happy,

724
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: black owned, women owned, woman owned establishment. What can I

725
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: do for you? Here's the deal. I'm sick and tired

726
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: of my wife coming up there and then when she

727
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: get back home, she got these thick eyelashes on and

728
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: they long as hell, you know, I mean, it's these

729
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: ere lashes thicking on somebody's mustash. This is a damn shame,

730
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: you know not, and told her to take this hold up. Brian. Now,

731
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,800
Speaker 1: I may or may not be the person doing it,

732
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: But whoever, I'm pretty sure probably that sounds familiar. But whoever,

733
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: we have a lot of customers. But whoever comes in here,

734
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: they picked their lashes. We we you know, we collaborate.

735
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: But the girls are saying what they want done. They

736
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: pick it. So if they're thick, they're thick because they

737
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: want them okay too they too thick, and then and

738
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: they too long. Your our ladges ain't supposed to be

739
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,479
Speaker 1: sticking away. I pass your nose. That's a damn shame.

740
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: But let me let me tell you what I'm getting

741
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: at though. Here's here's here's my reason for calling. If

742
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: my wife come home one moti say what can you

743
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,280
Speaker 1: send her down? Because I mean, I'm running a business

744
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: here and you sound crazy. They can steer you through

745
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: the phone. The girl. They're looking at me in the chair.

746
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. I don't know. Can

747
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: you calm down? You're loud and screaming. All I'm saying is,

748
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: if my wife come home with the long thick as

749
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: our lads is again, I'm gonna come up there and

750
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: raise holy hell at that damn place. I'm telling you

751
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: the truth about that. You know, what are you talking about?

752
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: What are you threatening me? You are not coming up here.

753
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm coming up there. You my wife coming home with

754
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 1: them thick as long as our ladges. Again, I am no,

755
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 1: you're not coming up here. We just opened a year

756
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: half ago. We are doing this. We don't need no

757
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: drama for nobody. You need to talk to your wife,

758
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: fix your marriage, don't come up taking up. Ain't nothing

759
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: wrong with my marriage. The only thing wrong with my

760
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: marriage is the damn thinking as I landed and they

761
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: too long? That's the why are you? Why are you

762
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 1: calling me with this? See now, I'm yell. I'm calling

763
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: because this is where she got her eyelash is done.

764
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. Didn't you need to

765
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: talk to your wife? Okay, I need to calm down.

766
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm running a business here. What you're trying to do

767
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: sabotazing me? What you work for? The car ain't trying

768
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: to sabotage numb. But I tell you what if she

769
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: come home with the long thinking as I last again,

770
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come up there and I'm gonna find all

771
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: the violating and coldes and everything building colds and I

772
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,919
Speaker 1: will get you shut down if we if we don't

773
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,919
Speaker 1: stop these long thinking as I last. Okay, Brian, I'm

774
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: from the south Side, so you need to back up,

775
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: because now you're threatening my livelieshood. Yes, I'm gonna go

776
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: there with you. You're threatening my livelihood, You're threatening the

777
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,959
Speaker 1: jobs of so many girls here. What are you doing?

778
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: You need to talk to your wife and need to

779
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: back the fie up. And I am sorry to courage.

780
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 1: We try to speak class here, but now you're making

781
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: me lash out at from lash out. But you need

782
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,720
Speaker 1: to back up. This is my job and people have jobs.

783
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: What are you going threatening to come up here? All

784
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: the cops on you, and you will not be able

785
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: to come here, and we will not let yours get

786
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: her her eyelashes on you. And you need to fix

787
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: your marriage because you got some anger issues. Clearly you

788
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: pissed off at your wife and you're calling us threatening

789
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: to ruin our business. Ryan, What is your wife's name?

790
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: What my wife name is? My wife name is Jamie? Okay,

791
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: because anybody is here, no Jamie or do Jamie's lashes? Okay.

792
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: It's like four girls raising their hand because everybody goes

793
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: to somebody different, so I don't know who it is

794
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: does Jamie lashes? But you got some anger issues, okay.

795
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: I ain't got no anger issue. The only problem I

796
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: got is my wife having some long, thick eyelashes and

797
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 1: they further out thank her nose and thinking into somebody's

798
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: much there. That's what I got a problem with. Okay,

799
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: you know what, Jamie just needs to leave your because

800
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: if you got an you call her. Why are you

801
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: calling us people? They put Why wouldn't I call the

802
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: people that put the thick lances on? Why wouldn't I? Well,

803
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: first of all, you need to talk to Jamie and

804
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: send her up here. We're gonna tell her that to

805
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,439
Speaker 1: leave your first of all, thinking of all, I don't

806
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: I can I help you? You are interrupting my grinding. Okay,

807
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: we are interrupting our grinding, and we got a business

808
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: going here. What is your problem? Can't you go do

809
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,479
Speaker 1: some work, go and talk to your wife and seek

810
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: your marriage? You know what? You know what you I'll

811
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: tell you what. I'll tell you what. You're not trying

812
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,439
Speaker 1: to fix. No, no, no, you're trying to fix the problem.

813
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: I'll be up there. I'll be up there and I

814
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: will bring somebody that will shut that boy. Call the

815
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: car right now, call them down. Tell them somebody who's

816
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: coming up here? And they threatening us aid last out

817
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 1: call see the three girls calling right now, So bring

818
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,879
Speaker 1: your little up here, mother, Come on, come on, bring

819
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: bring it up here. Let me ask yours is calming

820
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: up there? Yeah? Carmen is sitting in my face right now.

821
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 1: What is going on? Joy? You know him? Carmen? Why

822
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: are you asking me about Carmen? Where's calming it? Right now?

823
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: She's right here looking at me? What what is is? She?

824
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: Is she laughing? Hold on, yeah, now she's starting to laugh.

825
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: What's going on? Y'all? God? Me looking crazy at night

826
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: byca Calm down, baby, check this out. This is nephew

827
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marty Show. Your girl, Carmen

828
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: got me the prank phone call you. Oh oh my,

829
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: calm okay, you know what y'all got me out here

830
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: looking dad. I cannot Tommy, Tommy, nephew Tommy. Oh my god,

831
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What's up girl. I'm just lashing out

832
00:51:55,880 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: a little bit, that's all. I'm just laughing. Oh, oh

833
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: my god. I'm sorry, Matthew, Tommy, I was acting crazy.

834
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: You got to tell the nephew, what is the baddest

835
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,

836
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: the one, the only Steve Harvard Morning Show, always forever.

837
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 1: All right, So y'all let me know, y'all gotta tell

838
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: me what what's the limit? Now? What's the limit on

839
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 1: lashes on my pends on your style what you want.

840
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: You can have a natural look or you have to

841
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 1: tell all the more dramatics. Yeah, yeah, the last check

842
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 1: what you want when you're looking. But when they look

843
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 1: like a whole, like a whole, feathery, feathery, just a peacock.

844
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: I mean, if y'all know what I'm y'all seeing the

845
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: ones I'm talking about. Yeah, and we wear lashes. We

846
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: wear lashes every day because I love lashes. I want

847
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: me to stop wearing. But I can't tell that those

848
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: are nut y'all lashes. I can't tell that. Yeah, you

849
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: start look like a Disney character that with your last

850
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: come on now, just a whole lot here, now, come

851
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: on now. But you know what, nephew, you said it

852
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 1: best win is enough a limit? I think when you

853
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: can't see I think exactly you draw the line shirt. Yes,

854
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: have you ever seen a Chinese parade which are really incredible?

855
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: You ever seen that dragon? If you ever seen the

856
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: lashes that right now, that's a bit far. Yeah, I'm

857
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: sorry it's a bit far, so I mean these that's

858
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: what the men say. That's what I've always heard from

859
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: men about women's lashes, that they can get too long

860
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: and too much. I can't see it a s. I

861
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: can't see that as your pupil. I can't collecting dust

862
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 1: and everything. Enough. All that, all right, listen coming up

863
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters. Subject. The subject is it's a player's

864
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: ball every weekend. We'll get into that right after this.

865
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: You're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show. It is time

866
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,760
Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice

867
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 1: on relationships, work, dating, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

868
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click

869
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letters see

870
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: that here that live on the air like this from

871
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: right here. We could do it every day. It could

872
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: be yours. You never know, You just never never know.

873
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 1: So let's buckle up and hold on tight. We got

874
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject It's

875
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: a player's ball every weekend. There's Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty

876
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: five years old and my husband is your age, Steve.

877
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: We met online and hit it off quickly because we

878
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: loved to Dan's cook and collect antiques. I lived in

879
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: Detroit and he lived in Florida. When we met, and

880
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 1: after we talked on the phone for a couple of months,

881
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 1: he flew me to Florida for a visit. When I

882
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: got to was a little dusty house. My allergy wouldn't

883
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: allow me to stay there, so I had to get

884
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: a hotel room. His house is stuck in a time

885
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 1: warp and I'm still trying to fix it up now.

886
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 1: What shocked me the most about his place was the

887
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: very old furniture that he's had since his early thirties.

888
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm into antiques, but he took it to a new level.

889
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,959
Speaker 1: The same goes for his wardrobe. He's proud that he's

890
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: not gained much weight since he was twenty five, and

891
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: he can still wear his old suits. I'm talking old,

892
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: and she put old in all caps. He said the

893
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: new clothes style don't fit him right, and they're not

894
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: good quality material like the old fabrics. He shocks me

895
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: with his belted suit jackets, leg pants and all the

896
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: turtlenecks he owned. We're compatible in other areas, so I

897
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 1: tried to overlook his style. At first, I thought I

898
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: could buy him new things after we got married, but

899
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: he's not going to let that happen. Every night that

900
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: we go out, he looks like he's going to a

901
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: player's ball and I'm his daughter that tagged along with him.

902
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: People love taking pictures with him and often call him

903
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: old school. He seems to love the attention he gets

904
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: from the others, but from the others when we're out,

905
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: but I feel like the people are making fun of

906
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: him and it's embarrassing. How do I get him to

907
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: lose his seventies don Cornelius vibe and switch up his

908
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: wardrobe a little bit? Or is it wrong to try

909
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,959
Speaker 1: and change him now that we're married? Please help? Wow?

910
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: How do you answer this letter? Your husband is stuck,

911
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: like you say, he's stuck in the seventies. At the

912
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: players ball with Superfly and the Mac. It was obviously

913
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: a great time for him, and he has fond memories

914
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: of his heyday. The issue is life is about change

915
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: and moving on, moving forward to make new memories. That's

916
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: what life's all about. Can you change him? You ask?

917
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like it, you know, we can only

918
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: change ourselves. The problem with him is the attention that

919
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: he gets. He gets a lot of attention. He loves it.

920
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: It's hard to tear him away from all of that.

921
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: He should want to make you happy too, though, and

922
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: he should be open to your suggestions. If you want

923
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 1: him to try something new and different, try to nicely

924
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: persuade him to wear a new piece. And when he does,

925
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta do the old. Baby. You look

926
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: so good, you look sexy in that. You gotta fawn

927
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: all over him and make him feel good. Maybe you

928
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: can influence him that way. Otherwise you're gonna have to

929
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: take the good with the bad, you know, meaning, keep dancing,

930
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 1: keep you know, keep going out you guys having fun,

931
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: keep antique shopping with him, and keep cooking together. Those

932
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: things are good. Those things are in place, and you're

933
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:43,479
Speaker 1: happy with that. But his wardrobe sounds like it's gonna

934
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: be what it is, the blaired pants and the belted jackets.

935
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's sixty six. Hard to change him, Tommy,

936
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: And you're not the rules, pretty baby. Come on, Cozie,

937
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: and you know how Right now I'm gonna wear what

938
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: I want to wear. And when we go out, you

939
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,479
Speaker 1: understand me. All right, I'm gonna put on my mink

940
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: coat and my window pane pants, baby, and that's how

941
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this thing. You understand now, I want

942
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 1: you to get over there to that bar, baby, and

943
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: bring me a whiskey sour. You understand what I mean.

944
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: I mean that I'm saying because when daddy wants something,

945
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: that's what daddy wanting. Look at me, tell you someone.

946
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: When I get back in this house, I don't want

947
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: to hear nothing about this couch that I bought it

948
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: money gonna be warded in nineteen seventy one because this

949
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: is the baddest thing that they was making at the time.

950
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: You understand me, right across from my high five stere Yo,

951
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: you did it? I mean that all right? This these

952
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: speakers are from Jensen. You understand what I'm saying. And

953
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, I got some ken woods in there

954
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: that's gonna be bouncing the baby. Okay, So did it?

955
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: When I talk to you, I want you to make

956
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: sure that daddy always got what daddy need. Now you

957
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: get in there and you polish up my platform, my

958
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: platform shoes, and you make this look right for me. Okay,

959
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: And before we go out tomorrow night. I'm gonna need

960
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: you to straighten my hair and get Daddy the way

961
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: Daddy want to look. You feel me, and that's what

962
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm digging with right here. You get that straighten income

963
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 1: and put it on that stove. Yeah, I'm gonna sit

964
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: in the kitchen with you and we're gonna get this

965
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: as straight like Daddy wanted. You understand me, Okay, Now,

966
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to hear nothing

967
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: about no Louis Batons and no Gucci's up in here,

968
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: all right, because I didn't have it's doing it up

969
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 1: in here, baby, all right? So when you dig it,

970
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: dig it when I'm talking to you, you know the rules.

971
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: You chose me. Now we can settle this like we

972
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: got some class, or we can get into some gangster business.

973
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: You understand that, and I mean that. Now, bring me

974
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 1: my belt to my meat coat and let me tie

975
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 1: it in a knock because I'm feeling sexy. You feel me.

976
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: They wanted me to be sweet daddy on good times,

977
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: and I tear that down because I already knew I's

978
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: been too much. I'd have been too much for the

979
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: Evans family. You feel me, baby, Yeah, yeah, all right,

980
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: But because I am the original sweet daddy. Yeah, So

981
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 1: all I can say is what you gotta do is

982
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: you gotta blend into what sweet Daddy want baby, all right,

983
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 1: what I was sweet Daddy asking for. That's what you do.

984
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 1: But you don't come up in here with no Calvin Klein,

985
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 1: a little town and a Gucci and definitely not none

986
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: of that that that that that aremoney stuff. Man. No,

987
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: we're sticking to what we've been wearing. Baby silk shirt,

988
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: open up to the second button with chains hanging in

989
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: the middle. You're gonna lock me the way I am. Baby.

990
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: Let my passing on to my man junior boy, he

991
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: gonna handle it on the next break man, because that's

992
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: how we do it, all right, That's how players play,

993
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 1: you feel me? Yeah? All right, listen, we'll have part

994
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: two of the response to the shrubbery letters you got

995
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: to say coming up. Subject today is it's a player's

996
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: ball every weekend. We'll get into it right after this.

997
01:00:54,640 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: Stick yourself, stick yourself. You're listening show all right. Time

998
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: Now to recap the strawberry letter, The subject is it's

999
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: a player's ball every weekend. A fifty five year old

1000
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: woman wrote in about her husband, who is sixty six.

1001
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: She said, he's Steve's age. They met online. They hit

1002
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: it off because they I missed that the first times.

1003
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 1: I'm fifty five and my husband is your age, Steve,

1004
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 1: so he's sixty six. That's the first line, right. They

1005
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: met online. They hit it off because they had so

1006
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: many things in common. They both loved shopping for antiques,

1007
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: they both loved dancing, and they both loved to cook.

1008
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: So she lived in Detroit, he lived in Florida. She

1009
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: moved to Florida. When she went down to his house,

1010
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: she couldn't believe it because his house was stuck in

1011
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: the when he was in his early thirties. The furniture

1012
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: was the same. She said. She had to move out

1013
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: and get a hotel because it was really, I mean

1014
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 1: literally dusty in there. He wore the same clothes his

1015
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: wardrobe was. It's terrible, she said, because he's still dressed

1016
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: like he was thirty. He hadn't gained much weight, so

1017
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: he could still wear all of those old clothes. He said.

1018
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 1: The fabrics that they make these days don't compare with

1019
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 1: the fabrics of back in the day. He still wears

1020
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: he still wears belt and jackets. He still wears bell

1021
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: bottoms or flared leg pants, and you know, he walks proudly.

1022
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: When they go out into the club. He gets a

1023
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: lot of attention. She's afraid that the people are really

1024
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: making fun of him and not you know, loving him

1025
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 1: like he thinks they are. So what she wants to

1026
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: know is how does she get him to lose his

1027
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: seventies don Cornelius vibe and switch up his wardrobe a

1028
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 1: little bit? She wants to know is it wrong to

1029
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: change him since they're married? She needs help. She says

1030
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: she can't tell us how many turtlenecks he owns because

1031
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: she doesn't know. She's never seen so many turtlenecks on again.

1032
01:02:56,160 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: Eight tents. Yeah, all right, Junior, we need to hear

1033
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: from you now what you got with that boy. I

1034
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: don't even know what to tell you, because, yeah, I

1035
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 1: didn't get here till seventy eight with the hello. I know, yeah,

1036
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: I can't even understand. I mean, I remember seeing some

1037
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 1: of this stuff. Now you know what I mean? If

1038
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: he ended these black lights, he just end the black lights.

1039
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, Lava, Now, I mean, hes gonna have

1040
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: nuggets on every hand. I mean, this is what the

1041
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 1: nuggetings gonna be there, Cadillac, you're finna get in it?

1042
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 1: You getting out of It's the same one seventy fold?

1043
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: Come on, what do you want us to do? He

1044
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: is him? This is him. You should have asked what

1045
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: he looked like or got a picture before you went

1046
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 1: down the Florida. You would have known this already. Yeah,

1047
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Same. He probably told you

1048
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: to bring you some of them what you call them

1049
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: for darls, the hats timing from Detroit to down down

1050
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: to see things and bring me one of the hats

1051
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: back down here. Yes, I'm old school. That's him. That's

1052
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 1: who he is. Old school. That's his dress, that's his style.

1053
01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: That's him. And they may be making fun of but

1054
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 1: he's a player. He don't even care. Every day this

1055
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 1: is what I bring him. Yeah, yeah, what his name is?

1056
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: Tommy probably got what his name is? Just give me

1057
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: a name. That's him, Simp slim, that's sick slam all

1058
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 1: day long. Man, I don't know what you want to be, Okay, Tommy,

1059
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 1: everywhere you go, what's your theme music? I know you

1060
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: got theme music. Every time you take a staff, it's

1061
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: theme music playing in the back. That's him him all day. Baby,

1062
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: that's him. They call him old school Junior. They called

1063
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 1: old school O, old school oh ge, that's him all day.

1064
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: You're not changing that. He's not giving that up. You're

1065
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 1: not getting him in twenty twenty three. He's not coming. No.

1066
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: That's why I said, you know, be happy with the

1067
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: things that you do have together. You have the shopping

1068
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: for antiques, you have the cooking, you have the dance thing,

1069
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: the wardrobe. You may have to let that go. It is,

1070
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 1: but but look at the bright side though. If you

1071
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: need stockings, he got stocking socks. He got there. You see,

1072
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: y'all can share some of this stuff. He got them

1073
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,680
Speaker 1: pinstriped socks. Now, I'm telling you he got them. You

1074
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: can wear them socks. All he is is this his

1075
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: to his hard is in there. It's in there. It's

1076
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: not coming out. It's not coming out. And he's not changing.

1077
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 1: That's nothing she could do. This is your man, watch it,

1078
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: suckerime time turkey. That's him. Maybe if she called ain't margin,

1079
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 1: ain't margin is the only one I've seen poor list off.

1080
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: He actually pulled uncor Steve out of them eighteen buttons shoots.

1081
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: He actually poured them out of transformed she transformed it.

1082
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: I mean he un Steve had buttons on his drawers

1083
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: back in there, he I mean he had buttons. The

1084
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: airwere airwere and ain't margin got him? What's all these buttons?

1085
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: What's your button? And only stop fun? You can't get

1086
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: in no pockets? All them got buttons? Stopped quit doing this?

1087
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: Why you gotta cover in your pants with a button

1088
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 1: on it? What did you are? You're gonna uncover it later?

1089
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: What is that fall? You gonna uncover it? Nobody got

1090
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: no pull over T shirt with no buttons on? Why

1091
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: you have all these buttons? Like? Yeah, let me tell

1092
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: you about my hands, baby, I got some when you

1093
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: come in, I got some beads in the front room.

1094
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: And when you come through there, and you're gonna come

1095
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 1: through the beads, you understand me. Get over here to

1096
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: the right, there's a big wooden spoon and fog hanging

1097
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 1: on the wall. It just lets you know that we're

1098
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: gonna be eating up in here. You feel me? Come

1099
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: on in the back. There's a lava lamp over there

1100
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 1: on the h Yeah, on that console, you understanding that?

1101
01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: Now that console got a it's a long time. So

1102
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: there's a TV in the bottom, but it don't work

1103
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: no more. You feel men? All right, old school. Post

1104
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve MARVFM on

1105
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on Demando.

1106
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour, Junior

1107
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 1: with Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey

1108
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk.

1109
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 1: What you got Junior? All right, Shirley, Well, let's just

1110
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 1: go ahead and put it out here. Man, let's just

1111
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 1: go ahead and just saying, hey, man, congratulations to Damian Lillard.

1112
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 1: Damian Lillard dropped seventy one points by itself, only just

1113
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: by his damn self. No help, No wasnom, no other guards.

1114
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: Seventy one Tommy, man, he wouldn't miss nothing. Oh my god,

1115
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 1: I ain't knowing about this. No, he just missed seventy

1116
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: one points by hisself. Just yeah, of course we lost,

1117
01:07:55,720 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: we lost, yes, seventy one points. Man. I just got

1118
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: to say nothing like, I've never seen anybody shoot like that. Baby.

1119
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 1: He Maybe we all to do this, man, Maybe maybe

1120
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: the Texans football team ought to go play basketball. And

1121
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 1: didn't send the basketball team to the football might let

1122
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: him switch. Maybe thinking outside the bus, that's really think

1123
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 1: that's side the bus there, that's Joe's looking across the

1124
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 1: street like when we don't have nothing to do with him.

1125
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 1: We don't know, we don't we have a World Series.

1126
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 1: We're not told we're not doing none of that. That's us. Yeah,

1127
01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 1: we had that also, man want to give a shout

1128
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 1: out man to I'm just just out here working. Come on,

1129
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 1: Lamar Jackson, we still need you. He is still not

1130
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: signed his franchise tag with the Baltibore Ravens, so we

1131
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: still don't know what's gonna happen with Lamar Jackson. He

1132
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 1: wants more money than Deshaun Watson guaranteed, he won't. He

1133
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: wont more than two hundred and thirty million. And he

1134
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: keep coming in with his hunting and he won't massage money,

1135
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 1: is he He won't way, he won't molding that, and

1136
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: so they keep offering him the money and he won't

1137
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 1: take that. He would have hit want He want all

1138
01:08:57,720 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 1: his money guaranteed. That's what he wants. So that's where

1139
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,719
Speaker 1: we know where he's going. What's gonna happen now, Aaron

1140
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:04,600
Speaker 1: Rodgers is out the dark cave. Now he out the

1141
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 1: dark retreat. We still don't know where he wants to go.

1142
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: So we got a car. Yeah, Aaron, he just sat

1143
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: in the room for the three hundred square feet for

1144
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,400
Speaker 1: from four age by himself in the dog He said,

1145
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: I gotta think this out. What food? Was the lights off? No? No,

1146
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 1: he wasn't dark in a cave. Well was the electricity off?

1147
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: I hadn't done that before at my apartment. That they

1148
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing spectacle. Now I didn't managed through a

1149
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 1: week with them lights off? Yeah, nothing amazing, he say

1150
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 1: nothing to Mading. He doing, man, So that's our sports man.

1151
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 1: Don't forget to catch being your favorite play cousin. Julia

1152
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 1: and my man nephew Tommy. April First, Dallas, Texas. Trust theater. Man,

1153
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna be in the building. I'm telling you, Ben Dominique, Rodger,

1154
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: Perry Monique headlining and hosted by nephew Tommy, and I'm

1155
01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:54,439
Speaker 1: just on the show with him. Man, We're gonna rock

1156
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 1: this thing out, Dallas. Just get rid of April foods.

1157
01:09:56,280 --> 01:10:00,679
Speaker 1: That's gonna be stupid. Carlin, I will be there front

1158
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 1: and from I got something to do that day. Ohala

1159
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 1: go like the only one book working, working, excited, coming

1160
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. This woman on

1161
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 1: social media needs some advice about her roommate. Your diet

1162
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 1: is not my problem. I'm not giving up my Girl

1163
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 1: Scout cookies. We'll talk about it right after this What

1164
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: You're Listening show. Jamila on Facebook writes, my roommates New

1165
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: Year's resolution was to get back in shape, and she's

1166
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: still going strong. She's going to the gym five days

1167
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: a week, she's eating better, and she's not snacking as

1168
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 1: far as I've seen anyway. Me, on the other hand, well,

1169
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm basking in the glory of Girl Scout cookie season

1170
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: and this has created some tension. It's not like I'm

1171
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 1: eating them in her face and gloating, But now she's

1172
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: saying that even seeing a box in the trash is

1173
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 1: torture and temptation, and I should have more respect for

1174
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 1: what she's trying to accomplish. I do respect it, But

1175
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 1: ain't nobody giving up then mints? Uh so Tommy and

1176
01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 1: j No, Tommy and Junior. Is there some sort of

1177
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 1: resolution uh here? Because it's all right for you to

1178
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: have your cookies, but you just can't flaw on them

1179
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:32,920
Speaker 1: like that. Now, keep your cookies in your in your room,

1180
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 1: under your bed, okay, under your bed somewhere, don't don't

1181
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: just trust me. When she see that box in that

1182
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: trans can, she goes in that trans can, she see

1183
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: if it's one moment in there, he's seeing that checking.

1184
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: Now she ain't just tempted. She tried to get one.

1185
01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know he didn't try to get one.

1186
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 1: Everybody that work out going backslide. I promise you so help.

1187
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: I don't put it all up in a face. You

1188
01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 1: just you just you just right there eating right then

1189
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 1: dead in front of not doing that. She said the

1190
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: box the tsh. She burned the box, do something, leaving

1191
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: this evidence around, Junior. No, I'm telling now the thin

1192
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,479
Speaker 1: mints and girls gotta cookies. They are to not to

1193
01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 1: be played with it. I don't say if you're trying

1194
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 1: to lose weight, I'm eating the right in front of you.

1195
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about you. You the one want to

1196
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 1: be thin, not me. Gona eat thin mints don't want

1197
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 1: to be thin though, I just doesn't know. I go

1198
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,760
Speaker 1: eat the right in front of her face. I don't care.

1199
01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 1: I pay renting here too, but I pay my half. Okay, Yeah,

1200
01:12:37,479 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 1: as I eat a thin mint, I'm telling you that

1201
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: that's it. What what do you care? It's not your fault,

1202
01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 1: it's not your business. She the one got the pressure

1203
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 1: on her. Now she's going into trash smelling that box.

1204
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 1: Every time you put one in there, I put two, three,

1205
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:49,760
Speaker 1: And then the day I just get all the long.

1206
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 1: I eat them cookies all day long. Couple of them

1207
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 1: cook Yeah, leave a couple of them cookie land on

1208
01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 1: the counter. Just leave a land on the count. Yeah, yeah,

1209
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 1: test her. Ain't nobody that diet and diet you for that.

1210
01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 1: You got to mentally be prepared, and this is helping you.

1211
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:12,600
Speaker 1: Put them cookies on that counter and leave them now

1212
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 1: all days a week, and get stronger. And then the

1213
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: next week put an oxtail up there. Let's leave get

1214
01:13:19,200 --> 01:13:25,679
Speaker 1: wipe her down. Try tail. I'll tell you what's gonna

1215
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:28,599
Speaker 1: stop it. Put something chick. Put something chick filate nuggets

1216
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: up there. I'll bet you no, it's got to be fried.

1217
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't want them, damn. I don't want them grill nuggets.

1218
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want a healthy nugget. I don't

1219
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 1: you're going in. Let's go going in? All right? I

1220
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: think we have time for one more. Sorry, you're on

1221
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 1: your own. You're on your own, Jamilla, you're on your

1222
01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: own girl? Are you eating him right now? That's what

1223
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 1: that's what's sound like every day and they're you look

1224
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:14,799
Speaker 1: at gooda coming out right? All right, let's get to Tisha.

1225
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: On Steve Barb FM, Tisha writes, my husband has been

1226
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,439
Speaker 1: a know it all for as long as I've known him,

1227
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 1: but he's actually right a lot of the time. Although

1228
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,559
Speaker 1: I don't like to encourage him. He's warned me several

1229
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 1: times that he thinks I'm taking a big chance parking

1230
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: my car on the street when I go to work

1231
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:32,360
Speaker 1: in the city. But I tell him stop worrying that

1232
01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: it's perfectly safe. Well, yesterday I came out at the

1233
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 1: end of the day and someone had crashed into my

1234
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: rear bumper. I don't want to tell him because he'll

1235
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 1: never let me live it down. So should I just

1236
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: swallow my pride and admit he was right? Or secretly

1237
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: get it fixed? Should I tell him a little lie

1238
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't parked on the street when the damage happens.

1239
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: What should I do this. Ain't worry lying, but yeah,

1240
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:56,640
Speaker 1: I don't know why would you do this? Ain't nothing

1241
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: to lie? But I keep you don't get your car fixed?

1242
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 1: At him? You did? Maybe you know what? She was right?

1243
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 1: I seen in the parked on the street. He was

1244
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 1: so so right. I got hit and you know what,

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Speaker 1: I need to get the car fixed. That's all. It'll

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Speaker 1: take it on the chain. Yeah, tell your many. I

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Speaker 1: agree the truth. Man, last, I can't stand there all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show ticket Later November seven,

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Speaker 1: Rivera says he attempted to get the ticket back from

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Speaker 1: Reggie since it apparently was a winning entry, but Reggie

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01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:37,479
Speaker 1: told Rivera that the ticket had losing number. Still, Reggie

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Speaker 1: said he would give half of the jackpot to Rivera

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Speaker 1: if the ticket won. Now, it seems that a different

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Speaker 1: man altogether won the powerball edwin. Castro was found to

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Speaker 1: have the winning ticket and reportedly chose to take the

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Speaker 1: nine hundred and ninety seven point six million dollars lump.

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Speaker 1: Some After learning this, Rivera went back to the California

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Speaker 1: Lottery and again asked for an investigation. The California Lottery

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Speaker 1: released a statement in part saying they are not authorized

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Speaker 1: to investigate criminal activity among its players. Such allegations are

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Speaker 1: subject to investigation only by local law enforcement. You got

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Speaker 1: to keep these lottery tickets in your drawls. You cannot

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Speaker 1: be open with these tickets and confused with it. Who

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Speaker 1: is Edwin? I mean, what if Reggie come up missing?

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Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: play a round of would you rather? Right after this?

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show? All right, guys, it's time now

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Speaker 1: for a round of would you rather? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: never use the internet again? Or never fly on a

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Speaker 1: plane again? Which one? Hey you need? I don't know

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Speaker 1: how we're gonna book these tickets without this dawn internet,

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01:16:56,960 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: But yeah, I rather I got the fly you call

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Speaker 1: you could call it airline. Now we're back to walking. Well,

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Speaker 1: now we're back to walking in there, bying a ticket

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Speaker 1: at the count, back to doing that, which is cool.

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Speaker 1: I still gonna get there putting it being put on

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Speaker 1: hold for hours and that because I can't bust it

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Speaker 1: across America. Normo, I can't do that for you? All right?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be? In a real life version of

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Speaker 1: the Walking Dead, okay or Jurassic Park, which which one

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not. I'm not doing any dead people. I'm

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Speaker 1: not doing I'm not doing I'm with you, dinosaur, the

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Speaker 1: terra docto, I'm doing all that, but I'm not I'm

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Speaker 1: not the the dead people walk around. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: do it. Okay, Yes, Carla, have y'all seen Jurassic Park? Yes,

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Speaker 1: we'd rather run from a dinosaur than the zombies. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: Because one the dead people bite you, that's it. You

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Speaker 1: become dead too. I don't want that. But missed a

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Speaker 1: round and got a big wasn't paying attention a sudden.

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Speaker 1: I'm seeing my uncle Fred, who's been dead twenty years.

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Speaker 1: We know, all right? Would your brother? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: exist in the world with only your wife? Or everyone

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Speaker 1: but your wife? Oh? Yeah, wife, that's it. But just

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Speaker 1: you and her though, that's cool, Not me and my baby?

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Speaker 1: Just awell awell, ain't but time? Oh yeah, ain't nobody

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Speaker 1: else in the world but us, right and cool? We

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Speaker 1: just Adam and Eve. We neck it in afraid. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what what time are we in? You? Where? We don't care?

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Speaker 1: It don't matter because it's just it's me and huh,

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Speaker 1: all right, here's one. Would you rather eat one raw

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Speaker 1: onion or one hundred candy bars in one sitting? Which

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Speaker 1: one a raw onion? Onion? Pledge? I need a raw onion?

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Speaker 1: You can eat row. Yeah, it takes it takes bout

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01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: three weeks to get out of you know, it takes

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01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 1: bout three weeks. Yeah, okay, So onion on what one

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Speaker 1: hundred snickers? Hundred snickers? H give me that, give me

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Speaker 1: that purple on you know instead of that yellower white one. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Carl and I snickers all day long, girl, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll be eating hundred snickers, right, I know. All right.

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Speaker 1: That's today's version of I take that onion and kiss

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01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 1: y'all dead and y'all coming up in forty nine minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. It's our last break of the day

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Speaker 1: and we'll close out the show right after. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to last break of the day. We've got a great

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Speaker 1: morning today, Yes, Yes, we have fun today. Steve. It's

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Speaker 1: time for you now to take us home with your

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Speaker 1: closing remarks. What you got for us today, Steve, Well,

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Speaker 1: this is going to be shortened to the point I

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Speaker 1: think I just want to remind everybody something that your

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Speaker 1: dreams can come true if you're willing to fight for him.

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Speaker 1: You have to fight for your dreams. You have to

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Speaker 1: fight for the life of your dreams. You have to

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01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 1: fight to be free. You have to fight to be

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01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur. You have to fight to be successful. You

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01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: have to fight the nay sayers when you say I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna leave my job. You have to fight the nay

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Speaker 1: sayers when you say I want a better job. You

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01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 1: have to fight some forces out there when you go,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna leave here to pursue a

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01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:58,479
Speaker 1: better position at another company. You're gonna have to fight

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Speaker 1: for it. Change requires a fight. It just does. It

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Speaker 1: just does. I don't know why it is, man, but

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Speaker 1: there's people always in our lives somewhere who are going

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Speaker 1: to fight us on decisions that we make about ourselves.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why it is, but it seems to

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Speaker 1: happen for everybody. All of us have to fight to

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Speaker 1: get through to the other side. You have to fight

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Speaker 1: through the wall of fear. You have to fight through doubt,

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01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 1: you have to fight through confusion. You got to fight

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01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:42,719
Speaker 1: through the nay says. You got to fight through haters.

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Speaker 1: You gotta fight through the fact that it didn't go

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Speaker 1: your way. You have to fight through the fact that

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01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 1: you got up and you just wasn't feeling yourself today.

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Speaker 1: You gotta find a way to fight through. You gotta

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Speaker 1: find something in you that makes you key fighting even

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Speaker 1: when you don't. There's a poem that stands at a

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Speaker 1: point that says, if you can force your heart, your nerve,

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Speaker 1: and your SiNW to serve its turn, long after it

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Speaker 1: has gone, when there is nothing left within you except

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Speaker 1: the will to say to them, hold on, you have

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Speaker 1: to fight like that. Now. The funny thing about that

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Speaker 1: line and that point, I think that's uh if if

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Speaker 1: and the stand the stanza says, if you can force

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Speaker 1: your heart, your nerve, and SiNW s new is the

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Speaker 1: fibers that holds all your insights together. They call that

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Speaker 1: s new, those tenders or whatever it is, that that

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01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:58,280
Speaker 1: stuff that that there's lines and cords and fibers that

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Speaker 1: hold your heart and organ and all that stuff in place.

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Speaker 1: If you could force your heart, nervous a new to

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Speaker 1: serve your turn long after it has gone, when there's

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Speaker 1: nothing left within you, accept the will to say to

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Speaker 1: them hold on. That's how you got to fight. That's

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Speaker 1: how you got to fight. And it's all right, but

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Speaker 1: make it a good fight. Don't lay down. Don't let

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Speaker 1: nobody punk you out your dreams, don't let nobody trick

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Speaker 1: you out of what God has for you. Don't let

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Speaker 1: the fact that you got to fight stop you from fighting.

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Speaker 1: Life is a fight, man, it's a dog fight out here.

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Speaker 1: They're not walking money up to your house. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: they're not passing out you. They don't send free money

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Speaker 1: to nobody's house. You got to do something to get it.

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Speaker 1: And if you really want to get it, you are

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Speaker 1: involved in a fight. Like it or not. That is

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Speaker 1: what we are in. We are in a fight, So

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Speaker 1: get with it. Stop punking out. It ain't time for that.

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Speaker 1: You're in a fight. We are in a fight. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is every day. And if you think

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Speaker 1: it's not, keep sitting up in here lighting letting life

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Speaker 1: slap you upside your head, because that's exactly what it's

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Speaker 1: gonna do. You're in a fight, folks. You're in a

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Speaker 1: fight for your dreams. You are in a fight for

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01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: the life God has for you. You are in a

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Speaker 1: fight for your future. You are in a fight for

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Speaker 1: your promotion. You're in a fight for advancement. You're in

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Speaker 1: a fight to do life better. You are in a

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Speaker 1: fight to have more. You are in a fight to succeed.

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Speaker 1: You are in a fight to overcome. You are in

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Speaker 1: a fight to beat illness. You are in a fight

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Speaker 1: every day of your life. What you think this is

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01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: you got to fight and make it a good fight.

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Speaker 1: Here's the tip to fighting. If you have God in

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Speaker 1: your life, you will not lose the fight. Period. That's

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Speaker 1: all I gotta tell you. If you have God in

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Speaker 1: your life, you will not lose the fight if you

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Speaker 1: include Him in the process. Seeing all of my fights,

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Speaker 1: here's my partner here, my tag teen partner. When I

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Speaker 1: tag him in, everybody in the ring me declared. All

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Speaker 1: the people that take me to court falsely, all the

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Speaker 1: people who lie about me falsely, all the people who

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Speaker 1: try to brut me down for self gain. Yeah, I'm

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01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:37,400
Speaker 1: not over here by myself. I am protected by a

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01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:42,799
Speaker 1: scripture Isaiah fifty four seventeen that no weapon formed against

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Speaker 1: me shall prosper come from me. If you want to,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna take you. I'm gonna hand you the scripture.

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Speaker 1: Get out the way. I've seen him do it for

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01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,840
Speaker 1: me too many times. But I know I'm in a fight.

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Speaker 1: I just don't go to the fight alone. You can't

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01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 1: take a knife to a gun fight for God in

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01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:06,800
Speaker 1: your life, and you cannot lose the fight, because that's

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Speaker 1: what we're in. We're in a fight. You feel me, Yes, sir?

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01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:15,439
Speaker 1: Drop the mic, baby, that was a good one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, in a fight good, try to fight for

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01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:28,760
Speaker 1: your dreams. All right, Well, thank you, sir, y'all have

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Speaker 1: a great week here. Who yeah, well whatever for all

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