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Speaker 1: This morning, he is a special guest of the show.

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Speaker 3: UH.

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Speaker 4: This is UH.

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Speaker 1: Pastor key On. He's a best selling author. He is

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Speaker 1: the senior pastor of the Lighthouse Church and Ministries in Houston, Texas. UH,

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Speaker 1: and he's he's got a new book out. And this

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Speaker 1: book just came out, everybody. The book is called Lazy Love,

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Speaker 1: and he's joining us this morning to talk about this book.

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Speaker 1: I think it's impactful. It's gonna be able to help

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Speaker 1: a lot of people. So please welcome to the show

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Speaker 1: for the first time, my dude, my man, pastor key

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Speaker 1: On Henderson, and welcome.

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Speaker 2: Thank y'all for having me. That introduction coming from the

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Speaker 4: Continue to need you to watch it for at least

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Speaker 1: I got a couple of things I'm working on, and

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Speaker 2: Feeling man, I'm doing great, sir.

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Speaker 4: How are you doing well?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Listen, man, you got this new book out. The book

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Speaker 4: is called Lazy.

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Speaker 1: Love, and uh the underlying uh I guess the subtitle

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Speaker 1: And this book is a god for strengthening just all

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Speaker 4: What? What is the takeaway for us here?

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Speaker 2: So so again, thank you for having me so recognizing

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Speaker 1: That Hey, Pastor key hang on one second, man, We're

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Speaker 4: And the book is called Lazy Love.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is available on Amazon, you can download it anywhere

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Speaker 1: We're back and we have our special guests this morning

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Speaker 1: as the senior pastor of the Lighthouse Church and Ministries

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Speaker 1: in Houston. Pastor key On Henderson, he's got a book

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Speaker 1: Y'all's one hour conversation on the golf course didn't amount

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Speaker 1: We're back with ke On, Hey Keith, So let me

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? And you know what I would venture to say,

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Speaker 2: And here's the thing about love. Most people only know

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Speaker 1: All right, everybody, we're back in our special guest. This

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Speaker 4: His book is out now. It's called Lazy Love.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about it and it's available on Amazon.

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Speaker 2: I've been telling the people. You know, the building is closed,

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Speaker 2: We didn't rely on that building to get here, and

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to rely on it to go forward.

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Speaker 2: And then our church is fifteen years old. It's took

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Speaker 2: We didn't have a building anyway. So if that's what

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Speaker 2: we need to grow, then we're not doing you know,

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Speaker 2: the Great Commission. All we need is God and we

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Speaker 2: we're still clothing and naked. Actually save feet in the

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Speaker 2: to give away backpacks and school supplies to seven hundred kids.

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Speaker 2: I refuse to let a building define the work we've

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Speaker 2: in bad shape, but the church is still in good shape.

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Speaker 1: He owned the land and the building before it was

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: He's not gonna tell you that because he's not gonna

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Speaker 1: brag about it. But I just want you all know

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Speaker 1: I learned a lot talking to him, and also passed.

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Speaker 1: When you thought you had made a mistake when you

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Speaker 1: said you had fed the naked a minute ago, don't

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Speaker 4: That's actually not a mistake because I have done that too.

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Speaker 4: And jeez, that that ain't in the book. Right there?

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Speaker 4: They was great. Can we say hip just till Shawn

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Speaker 4: hell for at sleep her first lady?

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Speaker 1: Yes, beautiful. I want you all to go online today

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Speaker 1: to Amazon. I want you to get out to Target.

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Speaker 1: I want you to get out the Bonds and Nobles,

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Speaker 1: and I want you to buy a copy of this

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Speaker 1: book called Lazy Love. People judging you from from a

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Speaker 1: decision you made in your twenties, and you don't know

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Speaker 1: until you get in your fifties what that decision was

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Speaker 1: based on, because I get caught up like that all

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Speaker 1: the time. And of course I did some things in

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Speaker 1: I think this book will go a long way in

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Speaker 1: So everybody.

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Speaker 4: The book is called Lazy Love.

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Speaker 1: You can get a copy of it on Amazon, Bonds

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Speaker 1: and Noble, and Target. Hey, key, one last thing, man,

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Speaker 1: is that anyway, if people want to make a donation

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Speaker 1: they help your church out, where could they go?

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Speaker 2: They can just go to LA's Houston Dot Church. You'll

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Speaker 2: see the giving tab on there and be quite frank,

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Speaker 2: I thank you for even saying that I would never add,

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Speaker 2: but anything that anyone could give in this recovery effort

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Speaker 2: would definitely help us to stay afloat.

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Speaker 1: Well, we put it on the website and make it available. So, hey, brother,

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Speaker 1: thank you for joining us this morning. Steve Harvey Nation,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do what we do. Let's get online today,

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Speaker 1: y'all and get a copy of the book. It's called

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Speaker 1: Lazy Love by Pastor key On Henderson Keith. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us this morning.

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Speaker 2: Man, Thank y'all so much. Tommy love you man. I

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Speaker 2: appreciate you all much. Love.

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Speaker 3: Brother tried to take another friend of mine.

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