WEBVTT - Ruffin’ It: Episode 92 with Joe Gatto and Steve Byrne

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<v Speaker 1>Hey everybody. Thanks watching this week's episode. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>a ticket.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's coming that we can get eat with it?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey everybody, I'm Joe Gado and that's Steve Burn and

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<v Speaker 3>we are the two cool moms. Thank you for tuning

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<v Speaker 3>in to our newest episode. Stevie, you have some issues

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<v Speaker 3>with your shirt you ordered.

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<v Speaker 2>You say, what color do you think it is? I

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<v Speaker 2>would say your shirt is, uh purple lavender?

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<v Speaker 1>Lavender? Yeah, it was not even purple. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>alf purp.

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<v Speaker 4>I ordered a pink one, that's something, and it came

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<v Speaker 4>back this. I forget what the company is called.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called colorblind dot org. You can't read that, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't read that.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's like a pricey It's like a little price heer.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this is nice. I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a nice sweatshirt, but it's not the color I ordered,

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<v Speaker 4>nor is it a color I normally would wear.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's why, because it washes you out. It washes

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<v Speaker 1>me out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a terrible color for you would look it

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<v Speaker 2>on me though, So when you're done with it at

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<v Speaker 2>this episode, do you want to take it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take that shirt for real. For sure. It

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<v Speaker 1>looks comfy. It's a good color for me. For you,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't. It doesn't do you any favors. Jesus. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying you look bad. I've seen you look better.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all I'm saying, Stevie, and I'm gonna shoot you.

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<v Speaker 1>Strength is That's how I do. Okay, Oh I know?

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<v Speaker 1>And the hero she mat too soon. This alphant has

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of misses.

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<v Speaker 6>I love you, buddy. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I guess I'll go get my Holocaust Shiller's list

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<v Speaker 1>hat on it. I got. I got a two strip

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<v Speaker 1>that says, you see my T shirt.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a grown man. I do what my dog wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it. Yeah, he's a Christmas gift. Well you are

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<v Speaker 1>how many dogs you up to? Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>We got twelve of them in the hood. Right now,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got twelve of us. Well that's lower, Well, no,

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<v Speaker 2>twelve of ours. And then oh for us actually out

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<v Speaker 2>out to adopt only we're down to nine right now.

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<v Speaker 2>We've crushed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Gattops, how many? How many have you? How many have

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<v Speaker 1>you saved? We just did the numbers.

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<v Speaker 6>We just ran the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>We had our big we had our big holiday Pawtye,

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<v Speaker 1>and we ran the numbers while we did our little toast.

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<v Speaker 1>We have saved one hundred and ninety six dogs come

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<v Speaker 1>since inception, one hundred and thirty four have been adopted

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<v Speaker 1>out to homes. Wow. The other ones either ended up

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<v Speaker 1>as a.

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<v Speaker 2>Ghatto pupp or had passed on and we gave a

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<v Speaker 2>hospice situation at our house, or we're unable to say,

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<v Speaker 2>but we gave it a good shot.

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<v Speaker 1>So two hundred lives, two hundred lives have gone. You've

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<v Speaker 1>changed for the better, for the better. Congratulate that, which

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<v Speaker 1>is great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Ghetto Pups is still running strong, Gatto Pups

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<v Speaker 2>and Friends dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. You got it going, got a little going.

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<v Speaker 2>This year, we're gonna try to do some big things here,

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<v Speaker 2>try to do some bigger things this year. We're going

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out some other ways to make it keep

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<v Speaker 2>going and growing. Because Bessie's just doing a great job

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<v Speaker 2>with it, and we've been having so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's become a real part of the fam,

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<v Speaker 1>real part of the real part of the mission of

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<v Speaker 1>being a Gatto.

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<v Speaker 4>I think, how did you get into just curious? How

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<v Speaker 4>did you, like, when did you nurture like your appreciation

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<v Speaker 4>and love for dogs?

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<v Speaker 1>When did that happen?

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<v Speaker 2>I think through Bessie, Like, so, we got Biscotti, our

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<v Speaker 2>first rescue ten years ago, and I think that was

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<v Speaker 2>a big thing for me when we realized how much

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<v Speaker 2>a rescue dog happens.

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<v Speaker 1>That is. Yeah, I think that's the one of Piscotti. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Piscotti. There, that's Piscotti.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but Scotti is one of our little uh, our

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<v Speaker 2>first rescue, our sweetest one. My up tied for my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite dog. I go back and forth between Hern's Pomoni.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah in the picture right, Yeah, they're they're in the

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<v Speaker 2>photo there, that's right. So there's a photo here if

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<v Speaker 2>you'l watching on YouTube, there's a photo of me and

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<v Speaker 2>my two pups. And that got drawn by a fan,

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<v Speaker 2>which I love. I get a lot of I get

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of fan art. This one's actually good. A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of it is ship but that's a nice.

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<v Speaker 1>One I get. I get so much people terrible I drew,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's what I look like.

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<v Speaker 4>You really genuinely get a ton of gifts I do,

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<v Speaker 4>which is rich is very sweetier fans.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind. Listen the moment of the handing off

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<v Speaker 2>the gether. I always think it's so nice and I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate that someone to think of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. For me, it's when I see what people think

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<v Speaker 1>I look like and it's like, oh, I look like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like or reflex like, oh do I

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<v Speaker 1>really look like that? I need to get to the gym.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you want to feel bad about yourself, ask

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<v Speaker 4>a child to draw you, and they'll trud they'll accentuate

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<v Speaker 4>the worst parts of you.

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<v Speaker 2>My son draws a jelly bean family, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he's a jelly bean aproached to it. You circle with

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<v Speaker 2>legs and arms and a smile, right as my son does.

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<v Speaker 2>And the I'm always six to seven times bigger than

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<v Speaker 2>any other.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna need three more pieces of paper.

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<v Speaker 2>Except he drew Uncle Vinnie. Once he drew Uncle VINNI

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<v Speaker 2>wants right my brother in law, Vinnie, you know, Big Vin.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Hysterical, how big venue was everything else? Yeah, but uh,

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<v Speaker 2>I do like I do get a lot of fan art.

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<v Speaker 2>I do have gotten some great dog stuff. I've gotten

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<v Speaker 2>some really, my office is filled with a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>great fans stuff I've got to meet and greets and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really cool.

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<v Speaker 4>What's one of the odder more eccentric pieces or something?

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<v Speaker 2>So I framed it a woman I had posted a

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<v Speaker 2>photo of me and my kids a selfie photo on

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<v Speaker 2>my Instagram, and she did it with shiny beads. She

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<v Speaker 2>recreated the photo with shiny beads, really, and it was unreal.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually got it from her. It took her forever.

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<v Speaker 1>She shared the story and I was.

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<v Speaker 2>So sweet and I was like, wow, they take all

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<v Speaker 2>the time to do this, and it was like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>unlike anything I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>Real. It's me and my two kids in the shiny

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<v Speaker 1>bead art that I framed in a tanging in my office.

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<v Speaker 1>It's heavy, it's nice. Yeah, that's pretty sick. That's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Also a little scary, a little bit little.

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<v Speaker 1>It has the same blood type as me. It was cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It was good to go back. So Bessie got you

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<v Speaker 4>involved with the dogs. Yes, and then you guys both

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<v Speaker 4>is that something that a bond was just another asset

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<v Speaker 4>to the relationship between you and Bessie where it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's foster this part of our relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally were literally her dream and literally I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>am I, I'm going to dive in and support this thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So we we we.

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<v Speaker 2>Did it, and I was like it really was like

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<v Speaker 2>just such. She feels like it speaks to our heart.

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<v Speaker 2>It's her mission, it's her purpose, right, and you know

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<v Speaker 2>when you love somebody and you want to support them,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like a right, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, it's funny. We make jokes. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very expensive because they're old.

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<v Speaker 2>And I always say, I gotta go to work for

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<v Speaker 2>the dogs, you know, like that's what we do. Like

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<v Speaker 2>holcome when she'd be like, hey, we just found this

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<v Speaker 2>one and it needs a surgery. We have one dog

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<v Speaker 2>that we spent over thirty grand on to save, which

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<v Speaker 2>is real crazy, yeah, and lives with us.

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<v Speaker 1>It is one of our pack now. Because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's French fry. Because you're pretty cut and dry kind

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<v Speaker 1>of guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you seem like you know, you know, but to

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<v Speaker 4>know that you would go the extra distance thirty grand

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<v Speaker 4>on a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's yeah, yeah, I was like this better limp.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, it's it is. You know, we get

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of support from the community, which is good.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, a lot of people kick in. We've got

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<v Speaker 2>a great network of volunteers. We do a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>things right. But it's like it's senior dog is like

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<v Speaker 2>no joke. It's like, you know, these things, you get

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<v Speaker 2>them and messed up situate. Most of them are abandoned

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<v Speaker 2>because people can't afford to fix them or help them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so you get these dogs coming in the door,

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<v Speaker 2>which are you know, got the limp or the tooth

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<v Speaker 2>or the tongue of.

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<v Speaker 1>The cancer, and you're like trying to help them. They're

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<v Speaker 1>not pretty. They're not going to Westminster.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not Westminster there, they're there east they're Eastminster.

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<v Speaker 1>They're from the other side of the track, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But they're you know, they get in the We get

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<v Speaker 2>a lot that they like the vets are like all

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<v Speaker 2>this dog ones got a couple of months and then

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<v Speaker 2>they get in a loving home and these sons of

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<v Speaker 2>bitches they just come back to life and they're like

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<v Speaker 2>like puppies again and they live longer, and so it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>But we've been doing great with a lot of homes,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people you know, coming into UH to

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<v Speaker 2>help us with with adoptions. It's been really great that

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<v Speaker 2>they have rewarding years. Bestially literally broke into tears two

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<v Speaker 2>days ago because she got a picture an update from

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<v Speaker 2>somebody about the daughter cuddling this dog. That what we

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<v Speaker 2>had was like on its way out and gotten into

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<v Speaker 2>a loving home. We had helped rehabilitate it. We had

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<v Speaker 2>to remove an eye, and it was so sweet that

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<v Speaker 2>she sees this little girl cuddling her dog. And she

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<v Speaker 2>started crying, and I was like, this is why we

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<v Speaker 2>do it. You know, it's unbelievable. So's yeah, it's really

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<v Speaker 2>really cool. And uh, you know, I love dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>And now my dogs that we are getting old, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're older now.

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<v Speaker 2>But Scotty, my girl, we got her one and a half,

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<v Speaker 2>she's ten and she can't get up on the bed anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm gonna have to like lose her and

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be like, ah, so gut wrenching, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because uh, BEMONI went on the road. Money comes

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<v Speaker 1>on the road.

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<v Speaker 6>With me and my little girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's my littlest she I adopted her on the road.

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<v Speaker 2>She's eight now, she got some she got some time left.

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<v Speaker 2>She's any dog, so she'll be around in like a

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<v Speaker 2>little monster. She'll be a little goblin. You know, we

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<v Speaker 2>have a seventeen year old at our house, Mocha. We

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<v Speaker 2>had a sweet sixteen for her life. Can I guess

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<v Speaker 2>something comes out in the middle of the night you

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<v Speaker 2>come downstairs.

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<v Speaker 1>You know the power of price compel. You're like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those I swear to God that thing is you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if we talked about this last time,

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<v Speaker 4>but there was there was a moment where, oh, I

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<v Speaker 4>came out for your book, ready for your book read,

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<v Speaker 4>and because of where, because of where we were, you said,

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<v Speaker 4>you know it, just stay at my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, okay, great, and you're you have

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<v Speaker 4>a gorgeous home and your family's fantastic and your kids

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<v Speaker 4>are so sweet. Light comes, and it comes anytime you

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<v Speaker 4>hear this many compliments like.

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<v Speaker 1>Knock. You go, okay, we're going to put you in

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<v Speaker 1>this guest bedroom.

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<v Speaker 4>I go, okay, great, and it's a beautiful guest bedroom

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<v Speaker 4>and it's right next to the bar, which I appreciate.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, now just so you know, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, oh God, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 5>You go, Uh, there's a like a kettle underneath your.

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<v Speaker 4>The rescue is in the basement are sanctuary, and you're

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<v Speaker 4>right above two dogs, and you're gonna hear something that

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<v Speaker 4>you've never heard anything. You're like, the dog, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>sound demonic, it's gonna sound like not a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the house is not possessed.

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<v Speaker 4>Just you know, you're gonna hear it like six in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning, seven in the morning. So I was like okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm thinking, okay, this is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 6>And then.

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<v Speaker 1>The fellows then.

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<v Speaker 4>Here, like what the fuck is that? Like what you

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<v Speaker 4>said couldn't even prepare me for what the what noise

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<v Speaker 4>is that? Because it's I've never by the way, not

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<v Speaker 4>even a dog, like an animal.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never heard that in my Like.

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<v Speaker 4>Like no, Sperato should have like they should have recorded

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<v Speaker 4>it and used it in ar It was unlike anything

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<v Speaker 4>I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 2>And we had a dog at that point that was

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<v Speaker 2>making some that had a very weird and distinct bark

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<v Speaker 2>that was its part.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Quo quota the park. Yeah, that was living under

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<v Speaker 1>you at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we have since re home that when that

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<v Speaker 2>one got at home, so that one got a home.

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<v Speaker 6>They all get anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh you get a home, you get home.

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<v Speaker 4>An if that dog can get a home, anything is possible.

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<v Speaker 5>Who adopted it, like Lucifer, like is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's living in Transylvania. A beautiful name.

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<v Speaker 2>Man named van helsing it in No. But it's funny

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<v Speaker 2>because like you'll get some of those dogs like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But at feeding time, the house gets very loud, which

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<v Speaker 2>is interesting. Yeah, and the downstairs when the volunteers come

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<v Speaker 2>in to feed are the people that work with our

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<v Speaker 2>We have some wonderful women that work with our rescue

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<v Speaker 2>that come in to help feed and you know, do

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<v Speaker 2>it all. You'll hear the downstairs in the mornings. My

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<v Speaker 2>kids are such good sleepers, thank goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's out of necessity, it's just because.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty interesting that that they're gonna have that upbringing with

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<v Speaker 4>all those dogs and they're just gonna kind of become.

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<v Speaker 2>I said to my daughter, we talked about it all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. I was like, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>this is gonna be your thing. You know, when mom

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<v Speaker 2>and Daddy go, you're gonna have.

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<v Speaker 1>All these dogs and she's like, you know, I have

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<v Speaker 1>some friends that only have one dog. Only She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>only have one dog. You know. It's it's interesting to

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<v Speaker 1>see that.

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<v Speaker 2>But as our dogs start to dwindle, as they get older,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, eventually our pack upstairs at the Ghatto pups

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna start lower, and it's gonna be interesting to

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<v Speaker 2>see what that's like that only have It's crazy to say,

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<v Speaker 2>but to only have six dogs, that'd be half the

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<v Speaker 2>amount of dogs I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have, right, you know, which is nuts.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is interesting because in my Facebook feed, just

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<v Speaker 4>the algorithm knows that I will watch, like, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>We met this puppy on the side of the road,

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<v Speaker 5>and then it's a Dodo.

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<v Speaker 4>Dodo, yeah, Dodo, Yeah, So I follow Dodo and it's

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<v Speaker 4>just all these great animal videos and I'd say half

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<v Speaker 4>of them are like wounded or like neglected dogs that

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<v Speaker 4>you see the personality change and you see what love

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<v Speaker 4>can do it to an animal, and it's pretty interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>In order a human order a human yeah, sure.

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<v Speaker 2>You see some of these despicable humans and they get

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<v Speaker 2>a dog. And if everyone don't shows them love and

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<v Speaker 2>it's so interesting, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because the other way. I mean, look, my brother

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<v Speaker 1>came back from Iraq.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely affected with PTSD and got a dog named Cracker.

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<v Speaker 4>And Cracker, I would say single handily changed his life

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<v Speaker 4>may percent.

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<v Speaker 1>And he would attest to it too. Yeah, And Cracker.

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<v Speaker 4>Passed away two years ago and my brother, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it definitely affected him and he's waiting to get another

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<v Speaker 4>dog wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I know I put you guys in touch with

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<v Speaker 4>each other, but now but he is, uh yeah, it

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<v Speaker 4>really did turn him around. Absolutely, he was a lot more,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, because I think that a lot of things

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<v Speaker 4>is like in the nature of those guys, they they

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of they get super introverted. They stay sheltered

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<v Speaker 4>because they know they're going to be safe. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 4>this particular environment wherever they're staying. And then having that

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<v Speaker 4>dog force my brother to get out and take walks

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<v Speaker 4>and get some sunshine, get some vitamin D.

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<v Speaker 2>The bottom line is like nothing is happy to see

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<v Speaker 2>you as a dolt, Like you can't deny the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that thing doesn't care about anything and just as happy

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<v Speaker 2>to see you like that changes your you know, your

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<v Speaker 2>persona instantly, like even if like you're in the worst

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<v Speaker 2>mood or whatever happens, that dog comes up, Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll just have them. I remember when I got separated

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<v Speaker 2>with Bessie. I remember I was living alone and before

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<v Speaker 2>I decided to take the two dogs with me. Bescotty

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<v Speaker 2>Spimoni lives with me. That's why I'm so tight with

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<v Speaker 2>them too. It was like completely changing experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Having fun, but I would say, wow, it was like

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<v Speaker 2>such a different thing that I have to exactly like

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<v Speaker 2>get up, get out, go take them outside, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and just feel like, oh my god, I have a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of a purpose or like just start smiling

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<v Speaker 2>and playing with them or whatever, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it does for sure change it, so I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't recommend more adopting a dog and bringing a

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<v Speaker 2>dog in your home if you don't have them.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's great work that you and best do. And

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<v Speaker 4>if people want to get what is it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ghatto Pups and Friends dot com or at Ghatto Pups

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<v Speaker 2>and Friends on Instagram and A and D not a

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<v Speaker 1>You're not the fancy what's that called? Don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>that's called? You do know it's called an amber stand.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it called amber Stan, Amber Alert? Amber Nobler

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<v Speaker 1>is very different? Okay, umper stand. You know I knew

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<v Speaker 1>something you didn't know, and you're a reader. I use

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time. And I'm a reader and you're

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<v Speaker 1>a reader. Yeah, I don't even use readers. What's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most famous amber stands? I have a Crombie

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<v Speaker 1>and Fitch. I was thinking something like biblical. Okay, shall

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<v Speaker 1>we get to work. Let's get to work, baby, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what we do here is we help

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<v Speaker 1>people as best we can. We always do by giving

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<v Speaker 1>some advice.

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<v Speaker 2>You can send in your your queries and your your

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<v Speaker 2>your things that you need us to solve for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and I only do have to work. You're helping

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<v Speaker 4>humans and animals.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what will help everybody? If a dog

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<v Speaker 2>road in, we'd help them. So it's at cool Mom's

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<v Speaker 2>pod on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>You canmit there or to cool Mom's Pod at gmail

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<v Speaker 4>dot com. You could email us your queries, you could

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<v Speaker 4>email us questions. You could send a video of.

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<v Speaker 2>You as we do the talk We do the talkback

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<v Speaker 2>feature too, now right on the my heart feature.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So, what's the talk to tell them about it.

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<v Speaker 7>So, if you're on the iHeartRadio app, you click the

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<v Speaker 7>little microphone in the corner and then you can send

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<v Speaker 7>a message. It's like a VOICEMAILO.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, so thanky cool, we are so fancy. I

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<v Speaker 1>love the iHeart family. Yeah, all right, let's get some questions.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you got for us? All right? This one

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<v Speaker 1>comes from Lauren and be edny nicer. Impossible. It makes

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<v Speaker 1>me sick. This one comes from Lauren. Hi, It's Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>I need wise input help.

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<v Speaker 7>I've been on my own, working and traveling for about

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<v Speaker 7>three years now. I'm moving back to my home state

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<v Speaker 7>for grad school next year. I'm a teacher and twenty

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<v Speaker 7>six years old. Wondering if I should move back in

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<v Speaker 7>with my parents to save money or suffer financially, to

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<v Speaker 7>have stable mental health and continue living alone. Side note,

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<v Speaker 7>my boyfriend lives alone, so I feel bad constantly using

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<v Speaker 7>his place to get together. Please give me some of

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<v Speaker 7>your advice. Love you, mommy. Since day one.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name again? Lauren?

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<v Speaker 4>I love Lauren. I love the fact that she got

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<v Speaker 4>that experience right. She sounds independent and so I would

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<v Speaker 4>not move back in with your folks. It's almost kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like you're you're going back, keep going forward, keep

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<v Speaker 4>pushing forward. And that's so cool that she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to infringe upon her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, you could you could just

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<v Speaker 1>you could, you could disseminate a lot of good stuff

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<v Speaker 1>about Laura.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's like I like her out of the gates.

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<v Speaker 4>She's she's she's on a great trajectory and she wants

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<v Speaker 4>to She's being respectful to her boyfriend, being respectful to

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<v Speaker 4>herself with her parents, and being respectful to her parents.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she's just got She just sounds like she

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<v Speaker 4>got a great head.

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<v Speaker 1>She dropped a little mental health thing in that I

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<v Speaker 1>guess sounded felt like a little bit of a dig

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<v Speaker 1>to the parents. That's true. But that's what that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you heard. That heard the little team pockup, ready ready

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<v Speaker 1>to pour some tea? There are we pull it off?

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<v Speaker 1>Pull it off there?

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<v Speaker 6>Too hot?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's a little too hot there, too hot, too hot?

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<v Speaker 1>Too hot?

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<v Speaker 6>Baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, you know she wants to She don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>pull a pole abduls. She don't want to take two

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<v Speaker 1>steps forwards. She wants to take two steps back.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants to go right back in her own spot,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think, you know what, she needs to be

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<v Speaker 2>a DJ sassy cat.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name, j Scotcat, s got cat. She wants

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<v Speaker 1>to pull a scot Cat here. What I would say is

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<v Speaker 1>definitely live on your own, for sure, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe let's uh take it easy on the parents. They're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to help a little bit. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about the mental health here.

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<v Speaker 5>The fact that they're opening your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that's nice to them. They're doing it to be controlling.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know this.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get into it either, but I

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<v Speaker 2>would definitely I think there's always so much there is

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<v Speaker 2>progression to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Look you're talking to a guy. I moved back home.

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<v Speaker 2>I was living in mommy's basement for a while, and

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<v Speaker 2>I will say that it probably.

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<v Speaker 1>Inhibited my freedom.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when I moved out finally, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is unbelievable to me out on your own and

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<v Speaker 2>do that. So I will say I did move back

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<v Speaker 2>in after I was moving it lived out on my own,

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<v Speaker 2>and I did feel like a heavy, like, uugh, this

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<v Speaker 2>isn't good. So I would definitely say stay out and

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<v Speaker 2>about and well, you know what, then you can entertain

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<v Speaker 2>your boy at your place, which is so nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I think in terms of like mental health,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, everybody's dealing with issues, right, Everybody's got things

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<v Speaker 4>they need to and what better time to do it

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<v Speaker 4>than when you can reflect on your own and have

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<v Speaker 4>your own space to do that in. And whether you

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<v Speaker 4>move in with your folks or whether you do it

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<v Speaker 4>five years or whatever, you're going to have to do

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<v Speaker 4>it eventually. Sure to just get to it now and

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<v Speaker 4>develop all those resources and be dependent on yourself, you'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Make it work better on you exactly. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, bet on you for sure. How old

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<v Speaker 2>do you when you moved out? You moved across country

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<v Speaker 2>at a young bucket? What twenty one, twenty two.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty two out of Ohio, went to New York, stay

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<v Speaker 4>with my folks for maybe four or five months, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I got a place on twentieth in dit Mars.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice roomy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I had a roommate, first roommate who was it Nicky?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name was Nicky? Uh romantical or just a situation,

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<v Speaker 4>just a she was. She was just my roommatemate. And

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<v Speaker 4>then things happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Johnny Walker knocked on the door, and then so

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<v Speaker 2>you saw it was just a room and then she

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<v Speaker 2>moved down.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you how did you find? Do you not

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<v Speaker 1>want at this? It's fine, it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you find? Okay, what do you.

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<v Speaker 6>Want to hear?

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<v Speaker 1>She was pretty hot? She was pretty hot? Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>what happened with uh? How did you find her? To start? Though?

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<v Speaker 6>Was it?

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<v Speaker 4>We were working together at a perfect so Caroline's Comedy Club.

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<v Speaker 4>I was working there as a as a greeter, like

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<v Speaker 4>a you know, ye whatever, the host, and she worked

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<v Speaker 4>upstairs a comedy Nation, which was the restaurant that's now

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<v Speaker 4>Junior's Cheesecakes, and Caroline has gone now too, it's now

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<v Speaker 4>like a ping pong thing. But I worked down there

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<v Speaker 4>and she worked upstairs, and we got to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>She seemed super cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So then you moved in with you see the same

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<v Speaker 2>thing happened with me and our good friend Justin in California.

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<v Speaker 6>You guys, uh, very well, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think of it, but me and Justin we

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<v Speaker 2>worked together and became roommates.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a big thing in life. Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>like you end up work like, hey, you need a roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>I need a roommate. We're both struggling. Let's get together,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And by the way, one of the coolest dudes I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever remember, I say, the coolest dude I know. Just

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<v Speaker 4>a great, great hang. There's some people you meet instantly

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<v Speaker 4>go oh, this dude's cool. Yes, this dude's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I like him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just a great hang. And what how fortunate are

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<v Speaker 4>you to have met somebody like that out of the

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<v Speaker 4>gates in l A right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in LA friend for life, friend for life man,

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<v Speaker 2>one of the best.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I think that's a situation. Well, maybe you

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<v Speaker 2>could find maybe she could find a roommate. She got

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<v Speaker 2>someone she works with, and it'll help these the bills.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I should bring up with the boyfriend. H Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that helped. I think that felt that felt good.

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<v Speaker 1>That felt good.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say stay we're on the same page. I

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<v Speaker 2>would say, stay on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>The next one comes from RJ, Hi, Joe and Steve

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<v Speaker 7>and Jiggy. I guess we'll just throw you in there too,

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<v Speaker 7>and Andrew.

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<v Speaker 6>Thanks r J.

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<v Speaker 7>I have a relationship quandary I've been having for years.

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<v Speaker 7>My wife thirty and I he's thirty one, got married

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<v Speaker 7>last year, and we're still discussing the topic of our

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<v Speaker 7>last names. She doesn't want to take my last name,

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<v Speaker 7>which is fine, but when we eventually have kids, we

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<v Speaker 7>both agree that we want our whole family unit to

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<v Speaker 7>share a last name. To complicate the matter, I'm the

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<v Speaker 7>only male left on my side of the family able

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<v Speaker 7>to carry on the last name, and she only has sisters,

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<v Speaker 7>so she's in a similar boat. Do we hyphenate them,

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<v Speaker 7>pick the cooler one, make up our own, help me

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<v Speaker 7>cool moms, you're our only hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, what's the name again? J rjj RJ's in.

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<v Speaker 4>A tough boat because I'm actually the last burn. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, if I don't have a son, it's

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<v Speaker 4>over right.

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<v Speaker 1>Same deal, are you really? Yeah? Wow? And you got

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<v Speaker 1>you got Remo? Yeah? Sorry, yeah, but you got Remo. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if I was able to say the

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<v Speaker 1>name or whatever, my son's name. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, No, it's not he's not he's not Baltimore.

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<v Speaker 2>If you say three times, will pop out from behind

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<v Speaker 2>that planet with a calculator.

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<v Speaker 1>Got I do your taxes? No, that's that's that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a tough boy. I wonder why.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, tradition says, Tradition says, you got to go with

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<v Speaker 1>the guy's name. I will say this, making up a

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<v Speaker 1>new name's bullshit. I wouldn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's not I you know, you leave it to

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<v Speaker 2>a coin flip. I mean you let fate decide somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you maybe when you name the kid, you

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<v Speaker 2>see what sounds like a better last name. Making up

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<v Speaker 2>a new name is is tough, I think, because then

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<v Speaker 2>you lose both of you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like the hyphenated thing, you know what, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what we and I just did this just to

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<v Speaker 4>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Her main names the middle name, Yeah, it's gonna.

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<v Speaker 4>Say my because my nickname for my wife is Jansen.

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<v Speaker 4>I was going, hey, Jansen, Jansen. And so one time

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<v Speaker 4>we shoot, we were out with her sister Lawn and

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<v Speaker 4>she's like, would you call her Jansen?

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<v Speaker 1>She and she started laughing. She's like, that's pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So I call her Janssen. So our daughter. The middle

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<v Speaker 1>name is her mom's maiden name. That's I like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you put the the loser of the name

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<v Speaker 1>goes as the middle name.

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<v Speaker 2>When you guys pick one, I would just put the

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<v Speaker 2>middle in the middle, because the middle name is wasted anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>the hyphenated.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like look the guy's name is. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>a traditionalist. I like tradition and I think that you know, if.

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<v Speaker 1>I canna blame, I would say, I would say, the

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<v Speaker 1>grandfather fucked up. You only had daughters. That's not on you.

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<v Speaker 5>Shot Zil in the water.

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<v Speaker 1>The name's dead. You gotta live with that man.

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<v Speaker 6>That's it goes with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh No, I would say I. I would think that's

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<v Speaker 2>a nice way to do it. It's like put the

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<v Speaker 2>the middle name as the as the last name, but

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<v Speaker 2>the girls.

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<v Speaker 5>You're you're going in between though. I'm staying with the girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh oh, you say the girl, I say, the wives

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<v Speaker 4>name is the boy name, and the boy gets that

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<v Speaker 4>because that's tradition. And it's like, okay, so she's got sisters,

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<v Speaker 4>she's got sister. Are they in the same dilemma?

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<v Speaker 1>I bet not. Ah, they might have a boy there

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<v Speaker 1>to carry it on or not. Yeah, yeah, interesting, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think I can see only so far

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<v Speaker 1>that to me would be and that's what I love

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<v Speaker 1>about you. You a line in the sand kind of fella,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's all you're gonna put right there. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>get this DP bitch sorry, wow, sniffery, snip. What's your pronouns?

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<v Speaker 6>God?

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<v Speaker 1>Say it? You know you want to fuck her? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll take all that out. Yeah, So I would say, use.

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<v Speaker 5>The middle phone answer dong wang, we gotta feed you lunch.

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<v Speaker 4>The last thing, the last thing anybody thinks about anythink

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<v Speaker 4>about Dix's Asians is the two worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Wang. Sorry, Okay, we're way off course here, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say take the middle use that middle name

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<v Speaker 2>slot and and put put somebody's last name in there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was, all right, Cool, we solved it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's solve that one. Good luck to them, though. That'sms

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<v Speaker 1>like a tough one. I feel like there's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a winter in that situation too. R J, your

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<v Speaker 1>wife sounds like a cunt? Do we cut that up?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what that's a clip, that's that's that's the RJ's

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<v Speaker 2>wife is is the name of the episode. God, alright,

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<v Speaker 2>so you could just use that little.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know all the good stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the stuff we cut is always the funniest.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always the funniest. Okay, we'll keep it. I love

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<v Speaker 1>the you see that Hollo Oat song.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a guy in a studio, he's playing eight different

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 4>instruments and it's the one dent D D D den

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<v Speaker 4>it then it D and he goes, you're a cunt.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that video. That video makes me so happy.

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>It is because it's the it's the song. The song

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>has that little riff in it and then there's that

0:27:29.880 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 1>little he just says it. It's so perfect. It's such

0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:36.520
<v Speaker 1>a great video. Well, I'll get you that as a

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<v Speaker 1>T shirt for all right, we got to talk for

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<v Speaker 1>another one. Let's say it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, this one's pretty juicy. It comes from Live and

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<v Speaker 7>she says, my boyfriend broke up with me after over

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<v Speaker 7>a year. He completely blindsided me. I thought we were

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<v Speaker 7>hanging out, but he came to say he was done

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<v Speaker 7>with me and that he had trash bags.

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<v Speaker 1>Of my stuff from his place.

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<v Speaker 7>Two reasons for breaking up with me were one, he

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<v Speaker 7>didn't like the man he became because he got fatter,

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:08.720
<v Speaker 7>became worse with his money because he spent too much

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<v Speaker 7>on me, which wasn't my fault that he bought me things.

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 7>He didn't hang out with his friends as much. Again,

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:16.760
<v Speaker 7>not my fault, et cetera. And number two, he felt

0:28:16.760 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 7>a relationship with disproportionate. I am emotional and know how

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 7>to communicate and ask for help. He is the opposite.

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 7>He gave me things to be mindful of. A month

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<v Speaker 7>before the breakup. I worked on these things. He was

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<v Speaker 7>so impressed with how well I'd worked on them. But

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<v Speaker 7>then two weeks later he broke up with me for

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:33.159
<v Speaker 7>entirely different reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>What should I do? Oh, my goodness, Wow, you say juicy.

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<v Speaker 4>I want both of us to go outside, get our

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 4>pants on, pull him up. It says juicy, juicy, and

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.960
<v Speaker 4>we read them and then we sit down. Jesus is

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<v Speaker 4>very juicy. This episode should be called detail.

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<v Speaker 5>My God, there's a lot here.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, okay, lot. Well, your stuff's in the trash. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to tell it. Take to talk to

0:29:00.680 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 1>put it in bad He's just throwing trash bags. He

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<v Speaker 1>got you out quick.

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 2>He didn't want to deal with any of it, so

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<v Speaker 2>I just throw it all in this I will say

0:29:07.360 --> 0:29:09.640
<v Speaker 2>he did you a favor. From my point of view,

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:12.880
<v Speaker 2>it seems like he emptied it all for you. He

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:16.480
<v Speaker 2>gave you stuff to work on and you did that,

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:18.720
<v Speaker 2>and then there was other problems. It seems like there's

0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:20.480
<v Speaker 2>just a lot of problems in this relationship. So I

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 2>would say accept it and move forward.

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Look, obviously there's always two sides to the trash bag.

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 1>There's a recycling bent and there's the trash bag.

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 4>By the way to your point, like that's there's there's like, right,

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:38.000
<v Speaker 4>you could put it in a hamper, You could put it.

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 1>You could. Yeah, when it's in a trash bag, it

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>means did he nodded, even kno rip ripped it up violently?

0:29:53.440 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 1>That says a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>And then to hear like he got fat and blaming,

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 5>it's like, what that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the person I becod.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean at your fuck God, Yeah, it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>She did it does seem like, I will say Devil's

0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 2>advocate a little bit. She's not thinking any responsibility for

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 2>anything though, and what we're going there's a reason why

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 2>he broke up with you, right, And she's like, he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like the many became not my fault, he didn't need,

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't spend it like he was it money not

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<v Speaker 2>my faulty bought me all this stuff, like it's always

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 2>just literally saying like okay, well like you did so

0:30:25.640 --> 0:30:27.800
<v Speaker 2>something went wrong, Like you know, it's not all it's

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<v Speaker 2>not built up out of no way.

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<v Speaker 4>Feeding him, it's like she's pulled out a trough and

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<v Speaker 4>like filling it with cool range doritos and go eat

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<v Speaker 4>you pig. Like he's making his own decisions. But then

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<v Speaker 4>he's blaming her for getting fat, right that.

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<v Speaker 1>One of that one, I'm not with him. Not my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it that.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand he's buying me nice things, not my fault,

0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 2>Like you know, okay, a lot of not my faults

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 2>coming at me, And I'm saying she could be the

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<v Speaker 2>San Andreas a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of it could read fault, not my fault, some

0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>of it is. Some of it something's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>our fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think, look, there's probably a warning flair there

0:31:03.160 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 4>hearing not my fault, not my fault, What is your fault?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Because then she's saying a lot of stuff came

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<v Speaker 2>at me that was you know that he asked me

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<v Speaker 2>to work on this. Other stuff came out of nowhere.

0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 2>So kind of it seems like he just wanted out

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:17.280
<v Speaker 2>of the relationship too well, he couldn't wait to throw that.

0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 4>Stuff communicated to her. Yeah, things that he didn't appreciate.

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 4>It doesn't sound like maybe she was accountable for him,

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:24.400
<v Speaker 4>or maybe she was.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>She said she fixed them those things, yeah, but he

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 2>didn't give her these other ones. So that just makes

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 2>me sound like he just wanted out. Anyway, He gave

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<v Speaker 2>you stuff to work on, you fix them, and according

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:34.440
<v Speaker 2>to you, not according to him, but you said you

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<v Speaker 2>fixed them. But then I guess, you know what, To

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<v Speaker 2>be fair, she did fix them, because he's not. He's

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<v Speaker 2>not pointing to them when he's bringing up with her.

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.280
<v Speaker 2>He's pointing at different things now, So it just sounds

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:44.240
<v Speaker 2>like he's grabbing at anything.

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Just he wants you out. He wants to put you

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<v Speaker 1>into trash.

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 2>And he did that physically and mentally and emotionally. And yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that he just wanted out. So I would say,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just don't try to salvage it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's over. Move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, they were, they were in it a year.

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<v Speaker 1>They were in it a year. Yeah, that's all year.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean three or sixty five. You get that back.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, it sounds like a lot, right, But they

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<v Speaker 4>say it's I think the grieving process is one week

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<v Speaker 4>for every month, really is what I've heard, So twelve weeks,

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<v Speaker 4>growth weeks, three months over it. But I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>also like, is what what's the science behind that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Yeah, who knows. I don't know. You could

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>get mathematical with it like that. That's what I've read.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, you read it, we get it. You read

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<v Speaker 1>Did you watch the documentary about it too?

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<v Speaker 6>Or no?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Did you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You probably did, right, the documented the science of the breakup?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you write say that's directed by John Polm. I would, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would think. I think you're fine, right, I think

0:32:45.600 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 2>you move on from it. He's hurtful, you get out,

0:32:47.880 --> 0:32:48.800
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna get throw it though.

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<v Speaker 4>She seems cool, like again you can glean things from

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 4>very detailed that there's a lot coming at us, at us,

0:32:55.840 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 4>but she's also like I think she's setting the foundation

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<v Speaker 4>for like, hey make an educated choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Here here's the situation. And yeah, if it's a year,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like nothing, it's really nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know it sounds it's so easy to say

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 4>that to people, right, but you got so much road ahead.

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<v Speaker 6>For sure, time for one more of another quick one?

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>You got, you got? You got a mini one over there? Yes, okay,

0:33:28.560 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 1>give us give us not not as juicy steak, Give

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<v Speaker 1>us a tidbit.

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<v Speaker 6>Will you give us a skewer?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, give us an app?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>This one's pretty Yeah, well you could. You could also

0:33:37.120 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 1>just make one up if you want. I can't do that.

0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean we can. If you don't have one, we

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 1>can just make one up.

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<v Speaker 7>This one sounds good. Okay, it's from Tyler. This one's

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 7>a kabab. I say it's a veggie. It's not juicy,

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:52.720
<v Speaker 7>but you know what, it's still good healthy. This one's

0:33:52.760 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 7>from Tyler. What advice do you have for a newly

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<v Speaker 7>engaged couple.

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh, don't talk to anybody about it. Make all your

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>own decisions.

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna hear so much unsolicited advice and bullshit about it.

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna spend that much on the wedding. You should

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>buy a house.

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 2>But just shut up everybody and let us enjoy ourselves

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:11.320
<v Speaker 2>for this one year we have before we're gonna be

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:13.719
<v Speaker 2>hitched together and my train is locked to you and

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:15.319
<v Speaker 2>we're just going through the road of life.

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 1>And you don't know there's gonna be ice storms, it's

0:34:17.200 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna be rough road, could be sunshine. You don't know.

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Enjoy this moment because the rest of it is bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>A second, I would say, you got two people out.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the number one thing I would say about

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<v Speaker 2>engage with.

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<v Speaker 1>Just tune people out. Enjoy your own journey. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, By the way, that's great advice because you're gonna

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:36.040
<v Speaker 4>you're gonna ask people for things and then people are

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:37.600
<v Speaker 4>unsolicited gonna tell you things.

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:39.799
<v Speaker 1>You need to do this. You have to get that Oh,

0:34:39.880 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 1>talk to that guy. You're gonna love this.

0:34:41.480 --> 0:34:43.359
<v Speaker 4>It's just like do it makes you happy. Yeah, yeah,

0:34:43.400 --> 0:34:45.360
<v Speaker 4>And I would say get to the butt stuff quick.

0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Quick quick? Why wait, you know you earned it. I

0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 1>would say this too. This is something else I would say. Yeah.

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I will say treat it as a time. You enjoy it,

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 2>don't treat it like a job. A lot of people

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:58.800
<v Speaker 2>get engaged like, okay, we gotta do this.

0:34:58.960 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Look, we all know this to do.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to plan this, do this, you know, deal

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 2>with the family dramas of integrating and whatnot. But I

0:35:04.760 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 2>will say, there's supposed to be an enjoyment to the engagement.

0:35:08.239 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 2>There's supposed to be you should be focusing on, Wow,

0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:13.160
<v Speaker 2>I found my person, I'm in love.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great. We're gonna start our journey together in

0:35:15.600 --> 0:35:16.239
<v Speaker 1>our next chapter.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely revel in that and don't get caught up in

0:35:19.680 --> 0:35:22.360
<v Speaker 2>the in the administrative stuff that comes with engagement.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think if I it's interesting to say that

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:27.480
<v Speaker 4>because I've looked back on my marriage.

0:35:27.200 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 1>A handful of times, like the actual wedding.

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:33.160
<v Speaker 4>Itself, and I don't think I ever gave myself enough

0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 4>time to really enjoy it because everybody's there. You're like,

0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 4>oh my god, they're all here. You gotta take the picture,

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:41.319
<v Speaker 4>you got to shake the hands, you got to thank

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 4>you for oh my god, you flew from where. It's

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 4>just like right, and yes, you want to do that, right.

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:48.560
<v Speaker 4>You want to acknowledge the people gave up a weekend,

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 4>people got a hotel, they got air fair, they got

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:52.719
<v Speaker 4>to fill a thousand things to do too, but they

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 4>came out.

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Of course, you want to acknowledge that.

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:57.719
<v Speaker 4>But it is kind of like as much as it's

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:00.799
<v Speaker 4>her day, because every girl dreams of it, like very

0:36:01.360 --> 0:36:04.440
<v Speaker 4>what dude dreams of this wedding? Yeah for sure, right, oh,

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:08.839
<v Speaker 4>like but I do wish I enjoyed it a bit

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:11.760
<v Speaker 4>more because it was more like, okay, are you happy?

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Is everything?

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<v Speaker 2>Like for my wife, especially when it comes to the day,

0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 2>I will say, you are going to be spending a

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:19.040
<v Speaker 2>lot of doing a lot like you really just need

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:22.279
<v Speaker 2>to remember, eat, drink and laugh, like that's what you

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:22.640
<v Speaker 2>need to do.

0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Like that day, it's got to be something you want

0:36:24.120 --> 0:36:25.800
<v Speaker 1>to make memories of. You want to do that stuff.

0:36:26.160 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to worry as much as you think

0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:29.480
<v Speaker 2>about being a host and people see people already there

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 2>celebrating you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bump into people on the dance floor. It's enough.

0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to go table to table. I thank you.

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's it's just making a party, make an experience,

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:39.320
<v Speaker 2>but mostly make it for you too, because you're the

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:41.719
<v Speaker 2>one paying for it, right, You're gonna have all this time.

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:43.360
<v Speaker 2>You want to get something out of that day. You

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:44.600
<v Speaker 2>want to be memorable for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

0:36:45.160 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Take that moment before with your boys.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's one of my favorite memories is just hanging

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 4>out with that with the fellas before and just I

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:55.040
<v Speaker 4>remember doing a shot with everybody and just having it

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 4>was like, wow, this is this is pretty cool.

0:36:56.800 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>I remember we were all just laughing, getting dr I

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 1>love getting dressed together. That was fun. Yeah, we got

0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:02.960
<v Speaker 1>the tuxes together and all that or by knt of

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 1>the apartment. I thought that was really cool. So fun thing,

0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 1>fun hanging there was some food out. We just hung

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>out and stuff. I think it'sportant.

0:37:09.040 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 4>You enjoy, enjoy it and again like to your to

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 4>your point, Joe, like that's something you guys are going

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:17.799
<v Speaker 4>to do together that you'll never do together again. That's right,

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:19.560
<v Speaker 4>and it's the most exciting. You might do it again,

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:25.279
<v Speaker 4>but biggest cross you don't. But you know, enjoy that,

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:28.000
<v Speaker 4>Enjoy all those decisions, because that's that you guys. It's

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.720
<v Speaker 4>the beginning of a brand new life and a commitment.

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:32.840
<v Speaker 4>And it's uh, I mean, what's better than that?

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:35.800
<v Speaker 1>It's pretty cool? Nothing? All right, there we go.

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<v Speaker 6>We did it, Stevie.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm at the supermarkets, I'm at the I'm in the

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<v Speaker 1>Think I'm over a price, is that what you're saying? No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no no, I'll get a no. But vetics groupon

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird.

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