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Speaker 1: Hey everybody. Thanks watching this week's episode. We want to

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Speaker 3: Hey everybody, I'm Joe Gado and that's Steve Burn and

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Speaker 3: we are the two cool moms. Thank you for tuning

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Speaker 3: in to our newest episode. Stevie, you have some issues

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Speaker 3: with your shirt you ordered.

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Speaker 2: You say, what color do you think it is? I

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Speaker 2: would say your shirt is, uh purple lavender?

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Speaker 1: Lavender? Yeah, it was not even purple. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: alf purp.

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Speaker 4: I ordered a pink one, that's something, and it came

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Speaker 4: back this. I forget what the company is called.

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Speaker 2: It's called colorblind dot org. You can't read that, right,

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Speaker 2: I can't read that.

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Speaker 5: But it's like a pricey It's like a little price heer.

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Speaker 1: I will say this is nice. I like it.

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Speaker 4: It's a nice sweatshirt, but it's not the color I ordered,

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Speaker 4: nor is it a color I normally would wear.

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Speaker 1: And here's why, because it washes you out. It washes

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Speaker 1: me out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a terrible color for you would look it

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Speaker 2: on me though, So when you're done with it at

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Speaker 2: this episode, do you want to take it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that shirt for real. For sure. It

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Speaker 1: looks comfy. It's a good color for me. For you,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't do you any favors. Jesus. I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying you look bad. I've seen you look better.

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Speaker 1: It's all I'm saying, Stevie, and I'm gonna shoot you.

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Speaker 1: Strength is That's how I do. Okay, Oh I know?

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Speaker 1: And the hero she mat too soon. This alphant has

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Speaker 1: got a lot of misses.

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Speaker 6: I love you, buddy. All right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess I'll go get my Holocaust Shiller's list

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Speaker 1: hat on it. I got. I got a two strip

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Speaker 1: that says, you see my T shirt.

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Speaker 5: I'm a grown man. I do what my dog wants.

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Speaker 1: Get it. Yeah, he's a Christmas gift. Well you are

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Speaker 1: how many dogs you up to? Right now?

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Speaker 2: We got twelve of them in the hood. Right now,

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Speaker 2: we've got twelve of us. Well that's lower, Well, no,

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Speaker 2: twelve of ours. And then oh for us actually out

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Speaker 2: out to adopt only we're down to nine right now.

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Speaker 2: We've crushed it.

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Speaker 1: Gattops, how many? How many have you? How many have

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Speaker 1: you saved? We just did the numbers.

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Speaker 6: We just ran the numbers.

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Speaker 1: We had our big we had our big holiday Pawtye,

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Speaker 1: and we ran the numbers while we did our little toast.

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Speaker 1: We have saved one hundred and ninety six dogs come

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Speaker 1: since inception, one hundred and thirty four have been adopted

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Speaker 1: out to homes. Wow. The other ones either ended up

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Speaker 1: as a.

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Speaker 2: Ghatto pupp or had passed on and we gave a

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Speaker 2: hospice situation at our house, or we're unable to say,

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Speaker 2: but we gave it a good shot.

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Speaker 1: So two hundred lives, two hundred lives have gone. You've

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Speaker 1: changed for the better, for the better. Congratulate that, which

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Speaker 1: is great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Ghetto Pups is still running strong, Gatto Pups

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Speaker 2: and Friends dot com.

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Speaker 1: That's it. You got it going, got a little going.

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Speaker 2: This year, we're gonna try to do some big things here,

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Speaker 2: try to do some bigger things this year. We're going

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Speaker 2: going and growing. Because Bessie's just doing a great job

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Speaker 2: with it, and we've been having so much fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's become a real part of the fam,

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Speaker 1: real part of the real part of the mission of

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Speaker 1: being a Gatto.

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Speaker 4: I think, how did you get into just curious? How

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Speaker 4: did you, like, when did you nurture like your appreciation

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Speaker 1: When did that happen?

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Speaker 2: I think through Bessie, Like, so, we got Biscotti, our

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Speaker 1: That is. Yeah, I think that's the one of Piscotti. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah in the picture right, Yeah, they're they're in the

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Speaker 2: you'l watching on YouTube, there's a photo of me and

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Speaker 2: my two pups. And that got drawn by a fan,

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Speaker 2: which I love. I get a lot of I get

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Speaker 2: a lot of fan art. This one's actually good. A

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Speaker 1: One I get. I get so much people terrible I drew,

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Speaker 4: You really genuinely get a ton of gifts I do,

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Speaker 4: which is rich is very sweetier fans.

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Speaker 2: I don't mind. Listen the moment of the handing off

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Speaker 1: Right. For me, it's when I see what people think

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Speaker 4: But if you want to feel bad about yourself, ask

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Speaker 4: a child to draw you, and they'll trud they'll accentuate

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Speaker 2: My son draws a jelly bean family, like you know,

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Speaker 2: he's a jelly bean aproached to it. You circle with

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Speaker 2: legs and arms and a smile, right as my son does.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need three more pieces of paper.

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Speaker 2: Except he drew Uncle Vinnie. Once he drew Uncle VINNI

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Speaker 2: Hysterical, how big venue was everything else? Yeah, but uh,

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Speaker 2: I do like I do get a lot of fan art.

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Speaker 2: I do have gotten some great dog stuff. I've gotten

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Speaker 2: my Instagram, and she did it with shiny beads. She

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Speaker 1: I actually got it from her. It took her forever.

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Speaker 2: So sweet and I was like, wow, they take all

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Speaker 1: It has the same blood type as me. It was cool.

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Speaker 4: It was good to go back. So Bessie got you

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Speaker 2: Literally were literally her dream and literally I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: Did it, and I was like it really was like

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Speaker 2: It's her mission, it's her purpose, right, and you know

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Speaker 2: when you love somebody and you want to support them,

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Speaker 2: like it's like a right, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: And I always say, I gotta go to work for

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Speaker 1: It is one of our pack now. Because you know,

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Speaker 1: it's French fry. Because you're pretty cut and dry kind

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem like you know, you know, but to

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Speaker 2: But you know, it's it is. You know, we get

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Speaker 2: But they're you know, they get in the We get

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Speaker 2: But we've been doing great with a lot of homes,

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Speaker 2: they have rewarding years. Bestially literally broke into tears two

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Speaker 2: do it. You know, it's unbelievable. So's yeah, it's really

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Speaker 2: really cool. And uh, you know, I love dogs.

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Speaker 1: And now my dogs that we are getting old, you know,

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Speaker 2: But Scotty, my girl, we got her one and a half,

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Speaker 2: she's ten and she can't get up on the bed anymore.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna have to like lose her and

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be like, ah, so gut wrenching, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because uh, BEMONI went on the road. Money comes

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Speaker 6: With me and my little girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's my littlest she I adopted her on the road.

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Speaker 2: She's eight now, she got some she got some time left.

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Speaker 2: She's any dog, so she'll be around in like a

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Speaker 2: little monster. She'll be a little goblin. You know, we

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Speaker 2: have a seventeen year old at our house, Mocha. We

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Speaker 1: to talk about the mental health here.

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Speaker 5: The fact that they're opening your house.

439
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Speaker 1: Is that's nice to them. They're doing it to be controlling.

440
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Speaker 1: We don't know this.

441
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Speaker 2: I don't want to get into it either, but I

442
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Speaker 2: would definitely I think there's always so much there is

443
00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:47,080
Speaker 2: progression to that.

444
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Speaker 1: Look you're talking to a guy. I moved back home.

445
00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,199
Speaker 2: I was living in mommy's basement for a while, and

446
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Speaker 2: I will say that it probably.

447
00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:56,680
Speaker 1: Inhibited my freedom.

448
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,960
Speaker 2: I remember when I moved out finally, I was like, oh,

449
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Speaker 2: this is unbelievable to me out on your own and

450
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Speaker 2: do that. So I will say I did move back

451
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Speaker 2: in after I was moving it lived out on my own,

452
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Speaker 2: and I did feel like a heavy, like, uugh, this

453
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Speaker 2: isn't good. So I would definitely say stay out and

454
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:14,359
Speaker 2: about and well, you know what, then you can entertain

455
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Speaker 2: your boy at your place, which is so nice.

456
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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think in terms of like mental health,

457
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,280
Speaker 4: you know, everybody's dealing with issues, right, Everybody's got things

458
00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,679
Speaker 4: they need to and what better time to do it

459
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,800
Speaker 4: than when you can reflect on your own and have

460
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Speaker 4: your own space to do that in. And whether you

461
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Speaker 4: move in with your folks or whether you do it

462
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,159
Speaker 4: five years or whatever, you're going to have to do

463
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Speaker 4: it eventually. Sure to just get to it now and

464
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Speaker 4: develop all those resources and be dependent on yourself, you'll.

465
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Speaker 2: Make it work better on you exactly. Yeah, that's what

466
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Speaker 2: I would say, bet on you for sure. How old

467
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 2: do you when you moved out? You moved across country

468
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Speaker 2: at a young bucket? What twenty one, twenty two.

469
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Speaker 4: Twenty two out of Ohio, went to New York, stay

470
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Speaker 4: with my folks for maybe four or five months, and

471
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Speaker 4: then I got a place on twentieth in dit Mars.

472
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Speaker 1: Nice roomy.

473
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Speaker 4: Yes, I had a roommate, first roommate who was it Nicky?

474
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Speaker 4: Her name was Nicky? Uh romantical or just a situation,

475
00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 4: just a she was. She was just my roommatemate. And

476
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,679
Speaker 4: then things happened.

477
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, Johnny Walker knocked on the door, and then so

478
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 2: you saw it was just a room and then she

479
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Speaker 2: moved down.

480
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Speaker 1: How did you how did you find? Do you not

481
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Speaker 1: want at this? It's fine, it is what it is.

482
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 1: How did you find? Okay, what do you.

483
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Speaker 6: Want to hear?

484
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Speaker 1: She was pretty hot? She was pretty hot? Yeah, So

485
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Speaker 1: what happened with uh? How did you find her? To start? Though?

486
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Speaker 6: Was it?

487
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Speaker 4: We were working together at a perfect so Caroline's Comedy Club.

488
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 4: I was working there as a as a greeter, like

489
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Speaker 4: a you know, ye whatever, the host, and she worked

490
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Speaker 4: upstairs a comedy Nation, which was the restaurant that's now

491
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Speaker 4: Junior's Cheesecakes, and Caroline has gone now too, it's now

492
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 4: like a ping pong thing. But I worked down there

493
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Speaker 4: and she worked upstairs, and we got to know each other.

494
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Speaker 1: She seemed super cool.

495
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Speaker 2: So then you moved in with you see the same

496
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Speaker 2: thing happened with me and our good friend Justin in California.

497
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Speaker 6: You guys, uh, very well, you know what.

498
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Speaker 1: We don't talk about it.

499
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Speaker 2: I don't think of it, but me and Justin we

500
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Speaker 2: worked together and became roommates.

501
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Speaker 1: I think that's a big thing in life. Like you're

502
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Speaker 1: like you end up work like, hey, you need a roommate.

503
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Speaker 1: I need a roommate. We're both struggling. Let's get together,

504
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Speaker 1: you know.

505
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Speaker 4: And by the way, one of the coolest dudes I've

506
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Speaker 4: ever remember, I say, the coolest dude I know. Just

507
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Speaker 4: a great, great hang. There's some people you meet instantly

508
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Speaker 4: go oh, this dude's cool. Yes, this dude's cool.

509
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Speaker 1: I like him.

510
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Speaker 4: Yeah, just a great hang. And what how fortunate are

511
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Speaker 4: you to have met somebody like that out of the

512
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Speaker 4: gates in l A right.

513
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Speaker 2: Yeah, in LA friend for life, friend for life man,

514
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Speaker 2: one of the best.

515
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Speaker 1: It's great.

516
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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that's a situation. Well, maybe you

517
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Speaker 2: could find maybe she could find a roommate. She got

518
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Speaker 2: someone she works with, and it'll help these the bills.

519
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well I should bring up with the boyfriend. H Well,

520
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Speaker 1: I hope that helped. I think that felt that felt good.

521
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: That felt good.

522
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

523
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Speaker 2: I would say stay we're on the same page. I

524
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Speaker 2: would say, stay on your own.

525
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

526
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Speaker 7: The next one comes from RJ, Hi, Joe and Steve

527
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 7: and Jiggy. I guess we'll just throw you in there too,

528
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Speaker 7: and Andrew.

529
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Speaker 6: Thanks r J.

530
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Speaker 7: I have a relationship quandary I've been having for years.

531
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Speaker 7: My wife thirty and I he's thirty one, got married

532
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Speaker 7: last year, and we're still discussing the topic of our

533
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Speaker 7: last names. She doesn't want to take my last name,

534
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Speaker 7: which is fine, but when we eventually have kids, we

535
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Speaker 7: both agree that we want our whole family unit to

536
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Speaker 7: share a last name. To complicate the matter, I'm the

537
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Speaker 7: only male left on my side of the family able

538
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Speaker 7: to carry on the last name, and she only has sisters,

539
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 7: so she's in a similar boat. Do we hyphenate them,

540
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Speaker 7: pick the cooler one, make up our own, help me

541
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Speaker 7: cool moms, you're our only hope.

542
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Speaker 1: Wow?

543
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Speaker 5: Wow, what's the name again? J rjj RJ's in.

544
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 4: A tough boat because I'm actually the last burn. So

545
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Speaker 4: I was like, if I don't have a son, it's

546
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Speaker 4: over right.

547
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 1: Same deal, are you really? Yeah? Wow? And you got

548
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: you got Remo? Yeah? Sorry, yeah, but you got Remo. Yeah.

549
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know if I was able to say the

550
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Speaker 1: name or whatever, my son's name. Yeah.

551
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, No, it's not he's not he's not Baltimore.

552
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 2: If you say three times, will pop out from behind

553
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 2: that planet with a calculator.

554
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Speaker 1: Got I do your taxes? No, that's that's that's interesting.

555
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 1: That's a tough boy. I wonder why.

556
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Speaker 6: You know.

557
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 1: Look, tradition says, Tradition says, you got to go with

558
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Speaker 1: the guy's name. I will say this, making up a

559
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: new name's bullshit. I wouldn't do that.

560
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not I you know, you leave it to

561
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Speaker 2: a coin flip. I mean you let fate decide somehow.

562
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Speaker 1: Maybe. I don't know.

563
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Speaker 2: I think you maybe when you name the kid, you

564
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: see what sounds like a better last name. Making up

565
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 2: a new name is is tough, I think, because then

566
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: you lose both of you.

567
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 4: I don't like the hyphenated thing, you know what, you

568
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 4: know what we and I just did this just to

569
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Speaker 4: do it.

570
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: Her main names the middle name, Yeah, it's gonna.

571
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 4: Say my because my nickname for my wife is Jansen.

572
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 4: I was going, hey, Jansen, Jansen. And so one time

573
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 4: we shoot, we were out with her sister Lawn and

574
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 4: she's like, would you call her Jansen?

575
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: She and she started laughing. She's like, that's pretty awesome.

576
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Speaker 1: So I call her Janssen. So our daughter. The middle

577
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Speaker 1: name is her mom's maiden name. That's I like that. Yeah,

578
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: I think you put the the loser of the name

579
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Speaker 1: goes as the middle name.

580
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Speaker 2: When you guys pick one, I would just put the

581
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Speaker 2: middle in the middle, because the middle name is wasted anyway,

582
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Speaker 2: the hyphenated.

583
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Speaker 1: It's not like that.

584
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Speaker 4: I don't like look the guy's name is. I'm just

585
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 4: a traditionalist. I like tradition and I think that you know, if.

586
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Speaker 1: I canna blame, I would say, I would say, the

587
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,199
Speaker 1: grandfather fucked up. You only had daughters. That's not on you.

588
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 5: Shot Zil in the water.

589
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: The name's dead. You gotta live with that man.

590
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 6: That's it goes with you.

591
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Speaker 2: Uh No, I would say I. I would think that's

592
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: a nice way to do it. It's like put the

593
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: the middle name as the as the last name, but

594
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 2: the girls.

595
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Speaker 5: You're you're going in between though. I'm staying with the girls.

596
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 4: Uh oh, you say the girl, I say, the wives

597
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 4: name is the boy name, and the boy gets that

598
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Speaker 4: because that's tradition. And it's like, okay, so she's got sisters,

599
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 4: she's got sister. Are they in the same dilemma?

600
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: I bet not. Ah, they might have a boy there

601
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: to carry it on or not. Yeah, yeah, interesting, Okay, Well,

602
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: I think I think I can see only so far

603
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: that to me would be and that's what I love

604
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: about you. You a line in the sand kind of fella,

605
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: and that's all you're gonna put right there. Then you

606
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: get this DP bitch sorry, wow, sniffery, snip. What's your pronouns?

607
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 6: God?

608
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: Say it? You know you want to fuck her? All right,

609
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: so I'll take all that out. Yeah, So I would say, use.

610
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 5: The middle phone answer dong wang, we gotta feed you lunch.

611
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 4: The last thing, the last thing anybody thinks about anythink

612
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 4: about Dix's Asians is the two worst.

613
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 1: Wang. Sorry, Okay, we're way off course here, gotcha.

614
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 2: I would say take the middle use that middle name

615
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: slot and and put put somebody's last name in there.

616
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: That's what I was, all right, Cool, we solved it.

617
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: Let's solve that one. Good luck to them, though. That'sms

618
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: like a tough one. I feel like there's not gonna

619
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: be a winter in that situation too. R J, your

620
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,959
Speaker 1: wife sounds like a cunt? Do we cut that up?

621
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 2: That's what that's a clip, that's that's that's the RJ's

622
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 2: wife is is the name of the episode. God, alright,

623
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 2: so you could just use that little.

624
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Speaker 1: I don't even know all the good stuff.

625
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 5: This is the stuff we cut is always the funniest.

626
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: It's always the funniest. Okay, we'll keep it. I love

627
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: the you see that Hollo Oat song.

628
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,919
Speaker 4: There's a guy in a studio, he's playing eight different

629
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 4: instruments and it's the one dent D D D den

630
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 4: it then it D and he goes, you're a cunt.

631
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 1: I love that video. That video makes me so happy.

632
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: It is because it's the it's the song. The song

633
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: has that little riff in it and then there's that

634
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: little he just says it. It's so perfect. It's such

635
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: a great video. Well, I'll get you that as a

636
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 1: T shirt for all right, we got to talk for

637
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: another one. Let's say it.

638
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 7: Okay, this one's pretty juicy. It comes from Live and

639
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 7: she says, my boyfriend broke up with me after over

640
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 7: a year. He completely blindsided me. I thought we were

641
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 7: hanging out, but he came to say he was done

642
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 7: with me and that he had trash bags.

643
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: Of my stuff from his place.

644
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 7: Two reasons for breaking up with me were one, he

645
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 7: didn't like the man he became because he got fatter,

646
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 7: became worse with his money because he spent too much

647
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 7: on me, which wasn't my fault that he bought me things.

648
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 7: He didn't hang out with his friends as much. Again,

649
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 7: not my fault, et cetera. And number two, he felt

650
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 7: a relationship with disproportionate. I am emotional and know how

651
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 7: to communicate and ask for help. He is the opposite.

652
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 7: He gave me things to be mindful of. A month

653
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 7: before the breakup. I worked on these things. He was

654
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 7: so impressed with how well I'd worked on them. But

655
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 7: then two weeks later he broke up with me for

656
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 7: entirely different reasons.

657
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: What should I do? Oh, my goodness, Wow, you say juicy.

658
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 4: I want both of us to go outside, get our

659
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 4: pants on, pull him up. It says juicy, juicy, and

660
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 4: we read them and then we sit down. Jesus is

661
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 4: very juicy. This episode should be called detail.

662
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 5: My God, there's a lot here.

663
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, lot. Well, your stuff's in the trash. That's

664
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: what I want to tell it. Take to talk to

665
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: put it in bad He's just throwing trash bags. He

666
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: got you out quick.

667
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: He didn't want to deal with any of it, so

668
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: I just throw it all in this I will say

669
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: he did you a favor. From my point of view,

670
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: it seems like he emptied it all for you. He

671
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 2: gave you stuff to work on and you did that,

672
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: and then there was other problems. It seems like there's

673
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: just a lot of problems in this relationship. So I

674
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: would say accept it and move forward.

675
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Look, obviously there's always two sides to the trash bag.

676
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: There's a recycling bent and there's the trash bag.

677
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 4: By the way to your point, like that's there's there's like, right,

678
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 4: you could put it in a hamper, You could put it.

679
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: You could. Yeah, when it's in a trash bag, it

680
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: means did he nodded, even kno rip ripped it up violently?

681
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: That says a lot.

682
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 5: And then to hear like he got fat and blaming,

683
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 5: it's like, what that's crazy.

684
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't like the person I becod.

685
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 5: I mean at your fuck God, Yeah, it's like.

686
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 2: She did it does seem like, I will say Devil's

687
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: advocate a little bit. She's not thinking any responsibility for

688
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: anything though, and what we're going there's a reason why

689
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: he broke up with you, right, And she's like, he

690
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: didn't like the many became not my fault, he didn't need,

691
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: he didn't spend it like he was it money not

692
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: my faulty bought me all this stuff, like it's always

693
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: just literally saying like okay, well like you did so

694
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 2: something went wrong, Like you know, it's not all it's

695
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 2: not built up out of no way.

696
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 4: Feeding him, it's like she's pulled out a trough and

697
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 4: like filling it with cool range doritos and go eat

698
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 4: you pig. Like he's making his own decisions. But then

699
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 4: he's blaming her for getting fat, right that.

700
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: One of that one, I'm not with him. Not my fault.

701
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: I get it that.

702
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 2: I understand he's buying me nice things, not my fault,

703
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 2: Like you know, okay, a lot of not my faults

704
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 2: coming at me, And I'm saying she could be the

705
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: San Andreas a little bit.

706
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Some of it could read fault, not my fault, some

707
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: of it is. Some of it something's got to be

708
00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: our fault.

709
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, look, there's probably a warning flair there

710
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 4: hearing not my fault, not my fault, What is your fault?

711
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

712
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because then she's saying a lot of stuff came

713
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 2: at me that was you know that he asked me

714
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 2: to work on this. Other stuff came out of nowhere.

715
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 2: So kind of it seems like he just wanted out

716
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 2: of the relationship too well, he couldn't wait to throw that.

717
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 4: Stuff communicated to her. Yeah, things that he didn't appreciate.

718
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 4: It doesn't sound like maybe she was accountable for him,

719
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 4: or maybe she was.

720
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

721
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: She said she fixed them those things, yeah, but he

722
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: didn't give her these other ones. So that just makes

723
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: me sound like he just wanted out. Anyway, He gave

724
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: you stuff to work on, you fix them, and according

725
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 2: to you, not according to him, but you said you

726
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: fixed them. But then I guess, you know what, To

727
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: be fair, she did fix them, because he's not. He's

728
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: not pointing to them when he's bringing up with her.

729
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 2: He's pointing at different things now, So it just sounds

730
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: like he's grabbing at anything.

731
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: Just he wants you out. He wants to put you

732
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: into trash.

733
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 2: And he did that physically and mentally and emotionally. And yeah, yeah,

734
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: so that he just wanted out. So I would say,

735
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: it's just don't try to salvage it.

736
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: It's over. Move on.

737
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 4: Year.

738
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, they were, they were in it a year.

739
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,479
Speaker 1: They were in it a year. Yeah, that's all year.

740
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: I mean three or sixty five. You get that back.

741
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 4: I know, it sounds like a lot, right, But they

742
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 4: say it's I think the grieving process is one week

743
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: for every month, really is what I've heard, So twelve weeks,

744
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 4: growth weeks, three months over it. But I think that's

745
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 4: also like, is what what's the science behind that?

746
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, who knows. I don't know. You could

747
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: get mathematical with it like that. That's what I've read.

748
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: Of course, you read it, we get it. You read

749
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: Did you watch the documentary about it too?

750
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 6: Or no?

751
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you? Yeah?

752
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: You probably did, right, the documented the science of the breakup?

753
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: Did you write say that's directed by John Polm. I would, yeah,

754
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: I would think. I think you're fine, right, I think

755
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 2: you move on from it. He's hurtful, you get out,

756
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 2: you're gonna get throw it though.

757
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 4: She seems cool, like again you can glean things from

758
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 4: very detailed that there's a lot coming at us, at us,

759
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 4: but she's also like I think she's setting the foundation

760
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 4: for like, hey make an educated choice.

761
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: Here here's the situation. And yeah, if it's a year,

762
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: it's like nothing, it's really nothing.

763
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know it sounds it's so easy to say

764
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 4: that to people, right, but you got so much road ahead.

765
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 6: For sure, time for one more of another quick one?

766
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: You got, you got? You got a mini one over there? Yes, okay,

767
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: give us give us not not as juicy steak, Give

768
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: us a tidbit.

769
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 6: Will you give us a skewer?

770
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, give us an app?

771
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 6: Okay?

772
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: This one's pretty Yeah, well you could. You could also

773
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: just make one up if you want. I can't do that.

774
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: I mean we can. If you don't have one, we

775
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: can just make one up.

776
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 7: This one sounds good. Okay, it's from Tyler. This one's

777
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 7: a kabab. I say it's a veggie. It's not juicy,

778
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 7: but you know what, it's still good healthy. This one's

779
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 7: from Tyler. What advice do you have for a newly

780
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 7: engaged couple.

781
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: Oh, don't talk to anybody about it. Make all your

782
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: own decisions.

783
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: You're gonna hear so much unsolicited advice and bullshit about it.

784
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: You're gonna spend that much on the wedding. You should

785
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: buy a house.

786
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: But just shut up everybody and let us enjoy ourselves

787
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 2: for this one year we have before we're gonna be

788
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: hitched together and my train is locked to you and

789
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 2: we're just going through the road of life.

790
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: And you don't know there's gonna be ice storms, it's

791
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: gonna be rough road, could be sunshine. You don't know.

792
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 1: Enjoy this moment because the rest of it is bullshit.

793
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 2: A second, I would say, you got two people out.

794
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: That was the number one thing I would say about

795
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: engage with.

796
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: Just tune people out. Enjoy your own journey. Yeah.

797
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 4: Right, By the way, that's great advice because you're gonna

798
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 4: you're gonna ask people for things and then people are

799
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 4: unsolicited gonna tell you things.

800
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: You need to do this. You have to get that Oh,

801
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: talk to that guy. You're gonna love this.

802
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: It's just like do it makes you happy. Yeah, yeah,

803
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 4: And I would say get to the butt stuff quick.

804
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: Quick quick? Why wait, you know you earned it. I

805
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: would say this too. This is something else I would say. Yeah.

806
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 2: I will say treat it as a time. You enjoy it,

807
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 2: don't treat it like a job. A lot of people

808
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: get engaged like, okay, we gotta do this.

809
00:34:58,960 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: Look, we all know this to do.

810
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 2: You got to plan this, do this, you know, deal

811
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 2: with the family dramas of integrating and whatnot. But I

812
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: will say, there's supposed to be an enjoyment to the engagement.

813
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 2: There's supposed to be you should be focusing on, Wow,

814
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 2: I found my person, I'm in love.

815
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: This is great. We're gonna start our journey together in

816
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: our next chapter.

817
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: Definitely revel in that and don't get caught up in

818
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: the in the administrative stuff that comes with engagement.

819
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think if I it's interesting to say that

820
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 4: because I've looked back on my marriage.

821
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: A handful of times, like the actual wedding.

822
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 4: Itself, and I don't think I ever gave myself enough

823
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 4: time to really enjoy it because everybody's there. You're like,

824
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 4: oh my god, they're all here. You gotta take the picture,

825
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 4: you got to shake the hands, you got to thank

826
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 4: you for oh my god, you flew from where. It's

827
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 4: just like right, and yes, you want to do that, right.

828
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 4: You want to acknowledge the people gave up a weekend,

829
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 4: people got a hotel, they got air fair, they got

830
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 4: to fill a thousand things to do too, but they

831
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 4: came out.

832
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: Of course, you want to acknowledge that.

833
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 4: But it is kind of like as much as it's

834
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 4: her day, because every girl dreams of it, like very

835
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 4: what dude dreams of this wedding? Yeah for sure, right, oh,

836
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 4: like but I do wish I enjoyed it a bit

837
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 4: more because it was more like, okay, are you happy?

838
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: Is everything?

839
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: Like for my wife, especially when it comes to the day,

840
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 2: I will say, you are going to be spending a

841
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: lot of doing a lot like you really just need

842
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 2: to remember, eat, drink and laugh, like that's what you

843
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 2: need to do.

844
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: Like that day, it's got to be something you want

845
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: to make memories of. You want to do that stuff.

846
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: You don't have to worry as much as you think

847
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 2: about being a host and people see people already there

848
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: celebrating you.

849
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, bump into people on the dance floor. It's enough.

850
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: You don't have to go table to table. I thank you.

851
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 2: Oh that's it's just making a party, make an experience,

852
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 2: but mostly make it for you too, because you're the

853
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 2: one paying for it, right, You're gonna have all this time.

854
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 2: You want to get something out of that day. You

855
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: want to be memorable for sure.

856
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 6: Yeah.

857
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: Take that moment before with your boys.

858
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's one of my favorite memories is just hanging

859
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 4: out with that with the fellas before and just I

860
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: remember doing a shot with everybody and just having it

861
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 4: was like, wow, this is this is pretty cool.

862
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: I remember we were all just laughing, getting dr I

863
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: love getting dressed together. That was fun. Yeah, we got

864
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: the tuxes together and all that or by knt of

865
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: the apartment. I thought that was really cool. So fun thing,

866
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: fun hanging there was some food out. We just hung

867
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: out and stuff. I think it'sportant.

868
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 4: You enjoy, enjoy it and again like to your to

869
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 4: your point, Joe, like that's something you guys are going

870
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 4: to do together that you'll never do together again. That's right,

871
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 4: and it's the most exciting. You might do it again,

872
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 4: but biggest cross you don't. But you know, enjoy that,

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Speaker 4: Enjoy all those decisions, because that's that you guys. It's

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Speaker 4: the beginning of a brand new life and a commitment.

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Speaker 4: And it's uh, I mean, what's better than that?

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Speaker 1: It's pretty cool? Nothing? All right, there we go.

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Speaker 6: We did it, Stevie.

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Speaker 1: Another episode in the bank. Thank y'all for two cool moms.

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Speaker 1: Thanks