WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Love in the ER 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:07.280 Looking jubil in the morning. Dates. A lot of people 0:00:07.320 --> 0:00:09.720 say a great place to meet people is at the 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:13.119 grocery store, you know, the bar, places like that, But 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:15.840 the best place to troll for dates, in my opinion 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:20.600 is the emergency room waiting area. That's right. Yeah, if 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:22.799 you're ever just looking for a night out to meet somebody, 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.840 that's where you go. People are upset and vulnerable and 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.080 the best spot you can prey on them. Yep, that's 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:32.280 where Sam met Amanda. What's up, Sam? How are you? 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.279 I'm good man? Hey, guys doing good man. It's good 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.000 to know that you also agree with me. And that's 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:39.080 where you spend like your Friday nights in the emergency 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:45.760 room times, just trying to hit on chicks. Here's trolling. Yeah, 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:50.040 I met someone. It just spontaneously happened. Okay, seem what 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:53.239 were you doing there? We always happened to coincidentally be 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.480 there waiting for family members who were undergoing surgery, and 0:00:57.640 --> 0:00:59.440 I just saw in the waiting room and she was cute. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:03.440 So we just started talking and we kind of clicked 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:06.280 and it was sort of effortless, and next thing I know, 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:08.480 there was like divide. How did that work? When you 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:10.160 were waiting there? Did you see her? And then you're 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.960 like slowly start to like sit in a seat next 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:15.200 to her, and then another seat closer, until you're finally 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.680 next to her to talk. How did you do that? Well? 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.360 I looked at her a couple of times and then 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:24.640 I saw I saw her notice me, okay, and kind 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.959 of smiled, and you're like, what are you in here for? 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:34.039 So awkward? Basically all right, So what did you guys 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:36.160 talk about? I mean you both were there for a while. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:41.120 I'm assuming yeah, for like six hours. Oh geezo. So 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:44.600 did you go in depth about what your relatives surgery 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:49.120 and tails? Romantic conversation like that, Yeah, which was in 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.000 a weird way. It just sort of cut through the 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:57.080 usual formality. And you liked her a lot. What was 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:01.000 so cool about her caught my eye? Obviously she was attractive, 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:04.120 but she was just she was funny. She had sort 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.920 of a dark sense of humor about the whole thing. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.560 And I guess what they say about sex and death 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:14.680 being sort of intertwined as true, because we're both thinking 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.640 these really dark thoughts at that moment about what's possible 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:22.519 and huh, and we never sam, I had never heard 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.079 the thing about death and sex being so intertwined. But 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.480 I know for me it's always been a thing, but 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:31.240 peoples been weirded out by that. But uh, it's nice 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:32.919 to see that you're out there too. I'm not saying 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.880 that death is arousing. I'm just saying it's like when 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.960 you're depressed at that moment, you're just thinking about anything 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:42.280 to cheer you up. And all right, works, let's move 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:44.320 away from that direction. What do you guys think? Did 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:48.240 you talk to her about sex on your hang out there? No, 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:52.799 we'll talk about sex, but we were just talking about 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:57.200 us families, all right, okay? And how did the evening 0:02:57.280 --> 0:02:59.960 end for you? So we've been there at four five 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.400 of hours and I was hungry. I asked if she 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.000 wanted a bite. She said sure, So we went to 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:08.720 the vending machines together. Nothing more romantic than an emergency 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:11.680 room vending machine like your style. You're right, this may 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:15.000 be the best place for a date dinner. She's forced 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:18.040 to stay there the entire time. Yep, she can't get away. 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:22.639 It was pretty casual. It wasn't a candlelight dinner or anything, 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:26.000 but it got the job done. So how did your 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:30.400 little six hour er waiting room romance end. I mean 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.959 it ended with me saying can I call you sometime? 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:35.880 And she said sure? All right? And how many times 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:37.880 have you tried to get ahold of her since I 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:40.640 sent her first text saying, Hey, it was nice meeting 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.920 you and hope bry had turned out okay, and then 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.560 I didn't hear back. So then I sent her another 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:49.200 text saying we should go out sometime, and I haven't 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:51.360 heard back, So she hasn't even talked to you at all. 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:55.120 She could just be distracted by taking care of her mother, 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:57.840 or I don't know. That's kind of why I want 0:03:57.880 --> 0:03:59.640 you guys to help. Okay, are we going to be 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:03.080 in instead of jerks? If like, something really happened here 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:07.080 and we're calling for a second date, Well, you have 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.280 listened to this show. We've been on this show for 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:13.320 a while, so it's true. Yeah, and we have no 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:16.120 moral standards, so let's do it. Well, we're gonna play 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.560 a song, comeback caller and get your second date update? 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:25.640 All right? Cool? All right, man, hang on looking jubil 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:29.839 in the morning. Nothing better than a six hour long 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:34.520 first date, right, which is what Sam had with Amanda 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:38.040 because he met her in the emergency room waiting area 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.279 while both of them were waiting on family members to 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:44.200 have surgery another romantic ideal location. And I think Sam, Sam, 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:46.760 I think you made a mistake being at the emergency 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:50.279 room and only hitting on one person. I didn't want 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:52.760 to get a bad reputation. Well yeah, but like after 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:54.400 after the girl that you want to call right now, 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.320 Amanda left, there's like there, you know, there's nurses walking around, 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.000 there's all kinds of people, Like, I think you spent 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.320 too much time on that one person. That's the first 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:06.080 rule of emergency room dating. Spread the love taught me 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.479 now I know. Yeah. See, you can learn a lot 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.560 from the show right here. All right, man, are you 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.400 ready to give Amanda a call? Absolutely? All right, We're 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:28.000 gonna call it right now. He Hi is Amanda there? 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.680 You got her? Hey, Amanda, how are you? This is 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:32.280 gonna be kind of a weird phone call. I'm just 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.200 gonna tell you that right away. This is Jewel from 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:35.960 Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:40.400 point five. Me, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:44.080 in the Morning on moving ninety two point five. I'm 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.159 kind of freaked out right now, Like I told you 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.360 it's gonna be a weird phone call. Do you remember 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:52.480 being at the hospital and meeting a guy named Sam. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:55.560 Sam really liked you and would like to go out 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:57.720 with you, but he hasn't heard from you, so he 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:01.320 emailed us to ask if you would be interested in him. Yeah, 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.479 I mean I was. I was stuck at the hospital 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.360 waiting for my mom. Yes, but I don't necessarily like 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.320 see how that warrants phone calls back from this guy. Okay, well, 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.520 but he said that you guys hung out for you know, 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.520 like six hours, and you had great conversation and he 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:18.600 thought you hit it off. He thought you were both flirting. 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.359 So when I first started talking to him, you know, 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.960 he was okay, he was a good listener, and it 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.240 just seems like, you know, it was nice, said I'm 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:28.280 going to talk to but it's time. Went on, he 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:32.520 just got weirder and weirder, and then like creepy. What 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:38.040 do you mean by creepy? Like making jokes out of ailments, 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.880 you know, you know, not knock, who's there? HPV? And 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:47.479 then nothing, you know, like that's one of my favorite jokes. 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:51.039 I mean, I get it, even if you do think 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.960 that's funny. You know, it's just with me. He crossed 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:55.719 the line when he brought up his grandmother. You know, 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:58.159 that's when it just got weird, the grandmother that was 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:02.440 in surgery. Yeah, what he told me still gives me chills. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.719 What what do you mean? What did he say to you? 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:08.520 And we're talking about my mom, they're talking about his grandmam. 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:11.320 And you know, like, you know, hey, I hope your 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:15.840 grandma makes it. And he said, um, you know, if 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:19.120 she makes it, she makes it, but it's okay if 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:24.960 she doesn't. You know, Oh my god, would you think 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:28.840 he was he was obviously just joking. I mean I 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.600 would hope that, God, he's joking. And I just, you know, 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.680 I was like kind of gave like a like a 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.520 you know, to see if he's laughed too, and he didn't. 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.760 And then he went on to say, well, you know, 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:43.840 she's lived a good life and she's prepared. She saves, 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.920 so she's rich. So I'll get a lot of money 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:50.800 when she bites it. Oh no, okay, no, Amanda, Do 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.760 you think that this guy just had a horrible sense 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:56.840 of humor? I hope to god it's that he has 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.680 a really bad that's of humor. But after he says it. 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.040 You know, he wouldn't mind that his grandma died. He 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:04.440 was going on on about the money that he would 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.480 get and how he'd spend it, like he wanted to 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:10.600 get a moosehead that had like a beer bottle opener 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:13.760 in the mouth or something. Now, that sounds like an 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:15.520 obvious joke to me, though. He's like, I'm gonna take 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:17.840 my dead grandma's money and bio moose thing with a beer. 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.640 I mean, that does sound like a joke to me. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:22.600 I mean to most people would sound like a joke. 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.200 But if you were there, like the glimmer in his eyes, 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.400 like you know, yeah, and even if it is a joke, 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:31.960 it's a really bad one, all right, Amanda, Well, why 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.200 don't we just ask Sam because he's actually on the 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.800 phone with us too. He's on the phone right now, 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:42.280 Yes he is. He's been listening this whole time. Sam. Yeah, 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:46.679 I'm here, Amanda. I think it was pretty clear I 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:49.560 was choking. I was just trying to lighten up the 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:53.400 situation a little bit. We're sitting in a hospital, you know, 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.559 waiting on some pretty serious news on both our relatives. 0:08:56.960 --> 0:09:02.000 Obviously it was a complete joke. Yeah, talking about death 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.800 in a hospital when your grandmother is in surgery just 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.600 does not sound like an an appropriate time to joke. 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:13.320 So I don't suit the big deals. Everybody made it out. Okay, 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.559 I like you, Sam, You know, I think you're funny. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:22.320 Noive you. I think I knew like a restraining order. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.600 This is weird, dude. You know, like it's like you're 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.440 creeping on the phone too. You know, like you're creeping 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.040 on the phone. You're like one of those guys that 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:33.400 like it's a video camera in a dressing rooms. Oh 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.520 come on, you know I'm not that dangerous a guy. 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.480 I'm pretty harmless. Oh yeah, I mean you're talking to 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:42.600 me for like six hours. She obviously wasn't so freaked out. 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:45.920 I mean she gave me your number. I was just 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.600 sitting there and you want to leave me alone, So 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:50.280 I was just like, give you my number so I 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:54.320 can just go. Yeah, Sam, you say that you were 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.320 making an obvious joke. Obviously Amanda did not get that. 0:09:57.960 --> 0:09:59.880 Is there any way that you want to try to 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:02.280 convince her that you're not the creep that she thinks 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.200 you are. Yeah, I listen, we don't even have to 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.439 go on a date, Amanda, Like she could just come 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.920 over to my grandmother's house. We could have dinner just 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.560 ane of us, you know, just three of us hang out, 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.079 and you could see that I'm actually like a really 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:17.720 good guy. I love her. I would never wish ill 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:22.200 upon her. Just Sam, that's even creepier, dude. Just well, 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:24.200 at least his grandma's rich. So you know you're having 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:26.760 dinner in a mansion. Amanda, do you want to go 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:30.680 over to Sam's grandma's house? Now he probably wants to 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:36.560 be assist in her murder. Sam, I was on your side, 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:38.959 so you went that route. Now I'm picturing you being 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:41.280 at home and you are your own grandma and she 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:47.320 shows up and you just turn around, honestly, just trying 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:49.880 to smooth this whole thing over, just trying to have 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:53.080 dinner with the three of us. You know me, Amanda, 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:56.720 my grandmother. Throw this whole thing out of proportion. I 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:59.440 know what it is. Sam, I know what you're trying 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.760 to do. You're trying to show Amanda that, hey, look, 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.559 you watch me and my grandma together, You'll see that 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.200 I don't want her to die. But it's just it's's 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:09.160 weird as somebody on the first date with your Grandma. Well, 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:12.800 technically it would be a second date only it's not 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:16.280 a tactic I would ever use. But she thinks that 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:18.960 I have some evil wishes, which is the farthest thing 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:22.040 from the truth. I just wanted to prove her wrong. Okay, Amanda, 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:26.920 some women might find a sweet night. Amanda, would you 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:29.320 like to go out with Sam again? We will pay 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:31.520 for it, with or without the Grandma pay for all. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:34.160 I don't because I will try to make my skin 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:37.760 into like a shirt or something. All right, there's no 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:38.880 way that we can get you to go out with 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:41.679 Sam again. To prove that he's not a creep. I 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:44.880 would have to be drugged and tied up. Wait, he 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:49.079 would talk. Sam could hook you up. Oh no, no, 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:52.440 broken jupil in the morning.