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Speaker 1: We're gonna get to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building for your love questions.

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Speaker 2: This one is from Barbara in DC.

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Speaker 1: Barbara Wrights, I'm a single woman in my mid forties

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Speaker 1: and I have been waiting for my boyfriend to propose.

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Speaker 1: He said he's going to do it, and I want

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Speaker 1: him to stop dragging his feet and do it. I

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Speaker 1: went in his drawer while doing laundry and I found

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Speaker 1: a ring box, but no ring. I couldn't help but

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Speaker 1: ask him what happened to the ring? Now he's upset

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Speaker 1: and said, I ruined the whole thing. How can he

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Speaker 1: turn this on me when he's been teasing me with

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Speaker 1: a proposal for two years?

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Speaker 3: Because why would you go in there and say you

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Speaker 3: found a ring box? Why would you do that? You

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Speaker 3: didn't think it was getting close there? And now you

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Speaker 3: to ruin the whole surprise? Yeah, what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: So you're not?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't turn it on you. You created this yourself.

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Speaker 3: You went in his drawer, found a ring.

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Speaker 4: Box in the incumbentate ways? What's where the ring at?

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Speaker 4: You have messed up to? Surprise? True statement?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, why are you all in his stuff.

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Speaker 2: She was doing laundry whatever.

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Speaker 3: I got all of that. But you if you found

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Speaker 3: the Rien box, most women will go, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, and pretty packed. And then went over there,

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Speaker 3: set down and been bubbling.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Now, if it took two weeks, the bubbling would have

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Speaker 3: turned into an eruption.

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Speaker 4: But whatever.

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Speaker 1: Waited out, Yeah, all right, moving on, size.

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Speaker 3: Could have been gett some most stones put on it,

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Speaker 3: could have been doing anything anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: So Sherry and Jorraville Georgia says, I'm thirty seven and

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Speaker 1: I'm married to a man that was in a band

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Speaker 1: for eleven years. He's thirty five now and he's trying

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Speaker 1: to start up his band again. He's been working on

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Speaker 1: original music that he wrote in hopes that he can

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Speaker 1: get a deal with a record label. He has a

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Speaker 1: decent voice, but I wouldn't say he's a singer. He

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Speaker 1: finally let me hear what he wrote, and it was

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Speaker 1: a rap song with explicit lyrics. I think he's a

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Speaker 1: bit old for this, but I'm not a dream killer.

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Speaker 1: How do I handle this nicely?

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Speaker 4: Send a tape to me. I cut a dream right

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Speaker 4: off the back.

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Speaker 3: First of all, you got a band, well, last time

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Speaker 3: a band got signed number two, he old number two.

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Speaker 3: He can't sing. It's just so much going on now

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Speaker 3: of late. You can't get record deals without being able

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Speaker 3: to sing. But you was in a band for eleven years.

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Speaker 3: Now you're gonna start it back up. I mean, man,

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Speaker 3: good luck to you. You know, I can't tell you

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Speaker 3: not to support him and all this hit. It could hit.

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Speaker 3: Its unlikely, but it could. But if it's in his

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Speaker 3: hard to do it, he gonna do it. I ain't

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Speaker 3: no really, no dream killer. But please send me that tape.

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Speaker 3: I can care who he needs to pursue this any first?

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Speaker 2: So should how should she handle it nicely?

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Speaker 4: Just send that? Has anybody heard this other than me? Baby? Anybody? Steve,

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Speaker 4: don't be the very gordy?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 4: What do your brother think?

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Speaker 2: What does your brother think?

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Speaker 4: Does tell you the truth?

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Speaker 3: If you if you want to find out what your

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Speaker 3: idea sounded like, you tell your brother.

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Speaker 2: It keeps it one brother?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Benita in Detroit says, five years ago, my husband found

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Speaker 1: out he has an outside child. His child is ten

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Speaker 1: years old now, and my husband is doing all he

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Speaker 1: can to make up for lost time. His son is

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Speaker 1: very shy and has trouble making friends. So I arranged

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Speaker 1: a small get together at our house and told him

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Speaker 1: to invite a few friends. No one showed up, and

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Speaker 1: he was very sad. My husband blames me for doing

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Speaker 1: too much and making it worse. How do I get

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Speaker 1: him to see I was trying to help.

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Speaker 4: Uh, you were trying to help.

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Speaker 3: Can't help because you little boy ain't nothing, no man,

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Speaker 3: he ain't got no social skill. You have seen this before. Hell,

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Speaker 3: I been to little boy up at the school without

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Speaker 3: no friends. I know what it is like that ain't no,

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Speaker 3: no no. I studied big little, big nose. You know,

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Speaker 3: you got them them type of credentials, and you study.

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Speaker 3: You should have had no friends. But the only thing

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Speaker 3: saved me, my ass shore. I could play everything. That's

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Speaker 3: the only thing saved me. And I ain't got to

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Speaker 3: be a better study and don't work on basketball court.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, because all I got to do is just

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Speaker 3: grunt and make sounds anyway the ball be on the way.

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Speaker 3: They know I'm trying to say fast. I was trying

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Speaker 3: to well, hell no not when I studied you.

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Speaker 4: So you you you so.

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Speaker 3: They have called me about four five names by the

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Speaker 3: time I got it out.

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Speaker 1: But what about her husband though, Steve saying she's making

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Speaker 1: it worse.

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Speaker 3: She tried to help. It's what she did. I know,

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Speaker 3: I know y'all trying to find a way to help them.

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Speaker 3: They had a little something at the house. Invite your friend,

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Speaker 3: everybody coming over in tux they might no, might come

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Speaker 3: over the house people they don't like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe she can try other ways.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to take him to people house, take

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Speaker 3: him to a place, let him show him my other

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Speaker 3: kids in the act.

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Speaker 2: But you're not mad at her husband for doing what

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Speaker 2: he did it same.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's stupid, that's what I'm saying. He wronged for that.

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Speaker 3: All she was doing was trying to help. Just say, look,

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to help. But I'll tell you what,

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Speaker 3: I know, you're trying to have a relationship. I'll stay

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Speaker 3: back if you need me.

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Speaker 4: Let me know. He gonna need you, cause he ain't

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Speaker 4: gonna know what to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right, But you're trying to turn this little

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Speaker 3: boy into a social butterfly.

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Speaker 4: That ain't gonna happen, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on, Tara and Indiana says, I got married. My

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Speaker 1: husband has issues with wearing my clothes, I thought the

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Speaker 1: woman was supposed to wear the man's clothes, But he

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Speaker 1: wears my house slippers, my robe, and my T shirt. Yes,

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Speaker 1: he has a small frame, but he's tall, so he's

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Speaker 1: able to wear my stuff.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 1: The idea of wearing my clothes is a turn on

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Speaker 1: for him. I want him to stay out of my closet.

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Speaker 1: And how can I keep him out of my things

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Speaker 1: so our marriage will survive?

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 3: Enough?

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Speaker 4: Well lady, okay, Well I try to be careful to live.

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Speaker 3: Just tell you I'm not gonna be help Why because

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Speaker 3: I've never been in my.

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Speaker 4: Wife's closet trying to clothes.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 4: And the main reason I know you say he's small frame,

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Speaker 4: how small is well?

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Speaker 3: You know it's is this really your man? Or is

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Speaker 3: this just your baby? Because see something going on right here?

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Speaker 3: Because I can't wear nothing, margin, not a damn thing.

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Speaker 3: And the day that me and Marge is wearing the

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Speaker 3: same side, that's probably the end.

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Speaker 4: I mad thought over.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying she can't get bigger, because she can't.

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Speaker 3: She can't get this damn head. She can't. She can't

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Speaker 3: beat me. That's not fit to have what you're not

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Speaker 3: fit to do. It's something I'm trying to slip her

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Speaker 3: blouse over my head and that's around my neck, looked

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Speaker 3: like a choker.

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Speaker 4: It just it just ain't no way. It just ain't

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Speaker 4: no way.

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Speaker 3: I wish I would put on a pair of her pantings,

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Speaker 3: slide them pants up on me. Look like I got

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Speaker 3: on a band aid because she li some pants up

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Speaker 3: and my wife had on looking like a little band

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Speaker 3: aid over here. Man, I can't, I can't help you. Well,

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Speaker 3: it is when you write to see l O. I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you, c l O. We gotta go.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.

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