WEBVTT - Ari: Running Into Your Ex on a Podcast 0:00:05.400 --> 0:00:09.240 Vic, What is the only thing worse than running into 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:11.960 an EX when you're out with friends? 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:12.520 Oh? 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:14.360 Wow, I don't know, what is it? 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:18.160 Maybe running into an EX on your podcast? 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:24.880 Okay, well, welcome listeners. This is Date My Awalid, the 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:31.240 first where our incredible plays matchmaker for one lucky main dat. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:35.159 She'll sort through three lovelorn contestants before sending one of 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:37.000 them off on a one on one date with. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:39.880 Our star dater. I am your host, Vico or This 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:49.280 is joined by the hilarious what do you mean? 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:52.720 What do you mean running into an X on your podcast? 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:55.120 Because you have more XES than I do, So is 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:55.640 it yours? 0:00:55.640 --> 0:01:01.320 It me the nerves hitting you something to say? Or 0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:05.959 maybe hid? How about the answer It's not me? 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.920 Oh my god, you're what X. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:11.960 Really? 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:13.240 Which? 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:13.920 Oh god? 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:14.240 Which? 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:17.160 Because that will determine whether I'm excited or not. 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:24.480 Today our main contestant is your ex Ari? 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:27.800 Oh my god? Yes, okay. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:30.240 I feel so much more relieved now because, yeah, if 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:31.800 it would have been a different X, I would have 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:34.520 been like, well, I'm gonna have to stop recording run 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:36.559 away drive my car. 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.319 But no, Ari is fucking amazing. Oh my gosh, yeah 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.080 about her? Yeah, yeah, Ari? 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:45.120 Is a thirty one year old musician interested in anyone 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:49.720 who is tall, dark, and handsome, no matter their gender. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:53.360 She's incredibly close with her family and had a very 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:58.559 special relationship with their grandmother before she passed, even getting 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:04.360 multiple tattoos in her honor Leel. She has Leo all 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:06.960 over her chart and tries to balance all that fire 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:09.480 with frequent visits Studio Ocean. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.840 I can definitely attest to that. 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.079 Oh my goodness, what do you think? Do you think 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.840 that Ari and I are so compatible? I mean, I'm 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:24.760 not tall, handsome. Oh, I'm so excited about this episode. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:29.520 Let's just bring them in. Ari, come on in. Hello, Welcome, Welcome. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.320 It is just so nice to see you here. 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:34.919 This is an excellent opportunity for me to kind of 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.320 be like, you know what, I'll meet three contestants and 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:38.960 be like, don't be like me. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:44.040 Oh absolutely not. I see the opposite, and I just 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:45.600 want to say, Bigo, you were tall enough. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:49.400 Oh, thank you for that. I really appreciate that. Thank you. Okay, 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:54.560 so we're looking like five seven above. This is good. No, 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:55.679 I thank you so much. 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.240 Honestly, what an amazing opportunity to bring someone that I 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.440 used to date to the show and then find a 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:04.400 wonderful person that aligns with you and your journey. 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.600 Ah, it's perfect. I mean, you know me so well 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.240 for real, of all my exes, you're someone that I 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:13.120 have like a very cherished friendship with no shay to 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:16.120 the other exes. We're good too, We're good. But Vico, 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:18.639 you've always been a friend like before, during and after. 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:22.360 Oh well, listen, Vico knows you really well, but a 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.480 will Leita doesn't. Yes, So let's get to talking a 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.000 little bit about what you are all about. What is 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.840 it that you are looking for today on date Maya Alita? 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.119 First, well, I will I have to say I feel 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:36.040 like I'm in very good hands, so thank you for 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:40.320 having me. You're well and I mean tall, dark and handsome. Yes, 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:44.440 Gender aside, it's that's not a factor for me and 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:48.720 someone who is connected to themselves. That's the first thing 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:53.600 that's coming to mind, and lives life boldly, courageously, honestly. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.440 I think I want a partner's who's ready to face 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:57.720 the world together. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:02.680 You're ready to settle down. I am you are? What 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:03.880 made you decide on that? 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:07.240 I actually spent the last year single. It's the longest 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.400 I've been single, and that connected me not only to 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.560 myself but to the world, and like how I want 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:15.080 to relate to the world and show up who I 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.320 want to show up as. And so I think because 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:21.320 of that time spent with myself dating myself, I can 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:22.279 date someone else. Now. 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.800 Yes, Now, when you and I were dating, we were 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:27.120 both exploring polyamory. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.159 Is that something that you're still inclining to? 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:32.480 Are you looking for something more monogamous or non monogamish? 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:33.600 Where are we at? 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:35.560 We're monogamish, monogamish. 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.800 I love that monogamish thing, love it into it. Let 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:40.480 me ask you about your grandmother. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.160 I know that you took care of your grandmother during 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:44.040 the pandemic. 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.400 Well she got ill, yes. 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:49.320 I did. Her caretaker needed to go work in the 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:53.159 hospital during COVID. So I moved in. And it was 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:55.880 in you know, a single day kind of decision because 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:58.600 I had to quarantine and all of that stuff. So 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.080 I like dropped everything and and quarantined for a while, 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:03.400 and then I moved in with her. And she was 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:06.560 my morning and night, I mean, my first thought in 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.400 the morning, my last thought before I went to bed. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.760 We had our routines. I would sing to her this 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.680 like morning song in the morning, and I sang her 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:18.040 to her at night and we watched Grace and Frankie 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:19.320 together until she fell asleep. 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.520 Oh I love that show. 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:26.320 What advice that Awilita gave you about life and love 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:30.560 that you can move on and Carrie always she was. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:34.800 So supportive of who I was that I felt, you know, 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.640 through all of the relationships, she supported the mess and 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.040 she was like, I'm here for you. I love you unconditionally. 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:43.880 You date whoever you want. And then I did ask 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.719 her when you know, it was one of her last nights. 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:49.479 I remember that because I had pressed record on my 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.160 phone and I was just listening to her talk and 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:55.480 collecting some things, and I said, Almah, what is the 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:58.800 meaning of life? And she goes wow, and she like 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:01.360 looked out at the ocean and she goes to give 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:02.520 life meaning? 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:03.400 And I was. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:07.800 Damn, absolutely wow. What a beautiful insight on what kind 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:09.000 of woman she was. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:10.719 Yeah, I love, I love. 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.640 Also, we see a tattoo on your arm here, do 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:15.240 you want to tell us a little bit of your tattoo? 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.839 So my grandma was an artist and she had a 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.800 gorgeous art studio that I was working out of when 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.480 I was living there, and I would go through all 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.320 like her old sketches, and I found this one when 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:28.880 we were cleaning up her studio after she passed away. 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:31.440 And it's for those of you who can't see, it's 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.839 the drawing of a woman. She's nude and she looks 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:36.000 eerily like my aunt. 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:38.279 Amazing. 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.800 We don't know who modeled for her, but I did 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.159 finish the painting myself. So I have the sketch and 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.600 I watercolored it and it's hanging up in the bedroom. 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:47.720 That is beautiful. 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.880 Now, going into the dating, are you looking for someone 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.800 who's also an artist or someone that's somewhat aligns and 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:57.760 compliments your artistry because you are multifaceted. 0:06:57.839 --> 0:06:58.720 You're right, You. 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:01.680 Sing, you draw, you pain? Do you you know all 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:02.560 the things. 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:03.160 I see you? 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.479 I know you had to see me never. 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:06.360 I did it voluntarily. 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:09.560 I want who. 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.800 Voluntarily sees me as the creative that I am. I 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.120 would love to date a creative I mean an artists 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:17.880 themselves or has the mind of an artist, if that 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.560 makes sense. I'm not like Steadfast. I will say that 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:24.840 I've never dated a musician. M so open to it. 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:26.000 That'd be interesting. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:26.480 You're here. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.880 You said you've been dating yourself this past year, and 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.840 I know you and I have talked a lot about 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.320 what we've learned in past relationships and how we want 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:36.920 to show up as a partner in the future. 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:38.520 Can you share with us and I will lead that. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:39.600 How does that look like? 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.600 And when you are looking for a partner, what are 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.480 those green flags that you're like, Oh, yes, I want that. 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:46.320 I want more of that. 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:48.600 Lets me have my morning routine. 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:49.239 Mm hmmm. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:54.120 And someone who listens without the intent to reply. Do 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:54.680 you know what. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.080 I'm just venting? Just listen? 0:07:59.040 --> 0:07:59.960 Yeah, no, need to fit. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.160 One question for you, Ari, How have your past relationships 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:10.160 and not naming any names affected the way that you 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:11.280 carry yourself? 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:14.200 Do you mind if you step away for a second. 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:21.280 I know exactly what I did so and we definitely 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:21.920 talked about it. 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:24.680 No, I definitely all right, ladies and gentlemen, this is phase. 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:25.560 The day. 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:32.600 When we met, I was coming out of my renowned 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:35.800 fu boy face, but I wanted to earnestly, actually date 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:37.240 and create an emotional connection. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:40.400 But I still had no tools yet to really be 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:41.160 able to lean in. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:44.160 I remember once we were talking when we're still dating 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.440 and I had a moment of like emotion where I 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:48.839 like cried a little bit and then Ari was like, oh, 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:49.800 it's nice to see you be. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.040 Human, and I was like, you've seen too much. I 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:52.920 gotta get out of here. 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.480 I could see you wanting to connect with me and 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:58.880 be vulnerable and like, let me be vulnerable, And I 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:02.400 had no tools yet to be okay with like letting 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:06.080 you see the threads of my composition. 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:07.960 So that's the last. 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.679 Mean, honestly why they said it all? 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:17.120 So how do you carry yourself into the next relationship? 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:18.719 What are you bringing to it? 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.240 I'm just really willing to set aside everything I think 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:26.040 I know about relationships and be so open to learning 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.400 along the way truly. And also we go like I 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:33.040 am constantly in a process of allowing myself to show 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:37.040 up messy with all my threads and accept that and 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:41.839 not strive for perfection. I heard recently that perfectionism is 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:43.640 the pursuit of the worst and yourself. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.880 It's a waste of time and energy. 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.200 Yeah. 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:53.480 So if you had one specific thing you want, a 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:56.520 Willita to make sure that it's part of this new relationship. 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:57.240 What is that? 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:04.319 Must love dogs here here in therapy, But I feel 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:05.760 like a lot of people are these days. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:07.760 Okay, muscle of dogs. 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:10.480 And ideally, I mean we can ask about the therapy 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:11.560 thing because it won't hurt. 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:12.520 I don't know why not. 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.600 You know nowadays everybody's in therapy. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:19.000 One can only home. Well, I think we've done it. 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:22.760 We are going to bring in three contestants for how 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.400 we lead that to connect you with and fingers crossed. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.199 By the end of this, we'll find you a special someone. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:32.840 So uh, let's bring on the contestants. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:40.120 We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Maya 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:43.240 Wani the first. Let's do it. 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:50.119 Let's welcome our contestants. Welcome contestants. First up, we have Abby. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.160 Abby was raised. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.160 In a religious family. 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.160 Her grandfather was a preacher, and it wasn't so easy 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:57.079 for her to come out. 0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.840 But now that she is, she says she wants to 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.800 be come more gay every day. 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:07.520 She's a once divorced, hopeless romantic who is unfortunately often. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:13.079 Drawn to people who play hard to get. Welcome Abby, Hi. 0:11:13.840 --> 0:11:15.160 Thank you for having me on the show. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:20.560 Yes, a pleasure. And now we have Iris. 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.360 Iris just got out of a long term relationship and 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:26.560 is looking to reconnect with the community. Their friends have 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:30.280 described them as sometimes being too sweet and nice. Iris 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.560 dreams of one day buying some land in Maico and 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.839 building a big, beautiful dream home. 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.120 Where's the invite. 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.120 They have trouble flirting, but are not afraid to live 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.760 and try new things as long as it doesn't have 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:44.600 to do with height. 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:52.400 Same say hello, Iris, say everyone a pleasure. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:57.560 And last, but certainly not least, Anthony. Anthony frequently gets 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:01.080 mistaken for bat bunny, which I I can see it 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.679 for those of you listening very much looks like that bunny. 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:06.079 I thought he was my cousin. But it's not the 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.280 ladies who get excited, it's the straight men. Flex I 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.800 love that he's an only child with a very close 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:15.040 relationship with his mom and his grandma. Anthony is drawn 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.360 to which he's spiritual, astrology loving women, and his self 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:22.240 described toxic traits are self deprecation and listening to Kanye. 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:27.800 Hello Anthony, Yeah that Kanye thing. 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.000 Yeah, we're gonna talk about it. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:33.720 Oh my goodness, what a treat to meet you all. 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:38.120 Let's get to know you further with our first game. 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:40.240 So here's the thing. 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.680 Our main dater is a musician who loves to pour 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:47.560 their heart into their songwriting. Today, we'd love to see 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:52.880 how you might react to certain relationship scenarios while also 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:55.200 getting a sense of your music taste. 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:59.280 This game of record reactions is simple. 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:02.920 We'll give you a scenario and you'll respond with a 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:07.560 song title that describes how you'd react. For example, if 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.800 the scenario was you run into an X and they 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:15.080 haven't changed one bit, I might say shallow as sung 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:18.360 by Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper or whatever you wants 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:23.360 that song? Good, yes, all right, fantastic, Liliana take it 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:24.920 away with your first scenario. 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:31.560 Okay, are we ready our first scenario? Your situationship texts 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.959 you that they'd like to start taking things a little 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:35.880 more seriously. 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.120 What would be the song that goes with that? 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:38.880 Oh? 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:40.440 Yeah, Iris, take it away. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.600 I think that the next thing would be kissed Me 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:48.120 by sixpence, none the richer, Oh Anthony. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.000 The one that I got was come when you call 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:52.360 by a TV. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:56.520 Girl, Come when you call by TV girl? And then Abby, 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:57.319 what's yours? 0:13:58.240 --> 0:13:59.880 I would say, over and over by the. 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.800 Into it, into it? Okay. I have the next scenario. 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:07.080 You're hooking up with someone and they ask you to 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:09.719 make animal Noises, Abby, go for. 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:16.120 It Tony by Jenuine Pony, Yeah, in. 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:16.839 It that one? 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:17.120 I know. 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:18.920 I love a good strip song. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:21.360 Yes, I say right it. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:26.200 Pony up. Incredible, Anthony, what would be the song for this? 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:27.240 Oh? 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:30.160 Well, since it's animal noises, I'm gonna say X go 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.040 and give it to you by DMX. 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:37.520 Okay, Eggs, gonna give it to ya. I'm definitely making. 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.800 A like the name. 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:40.520 Iris. Do you have a song? 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.800 I am just gonna go and be cheesy. Let the 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:44.680 dogs out. 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:47.440 Let the dogs out. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:51.600 Oh my god, too good. That is amazing, Alita, Do 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:52.560 you have another scenario? 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.480 Okay, now here's the final scenario. 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:58.320 Your mom asks to meet your partner after you've been 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:00.160 dating them for three months. 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:01.960 Abby, go for it, take us away. 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.840 I would do a Gora Hills by doshakat a Gora 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.080 Hills by do Cat where. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.600 She's like, I want to show you off. 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.680 Yeah, I want to show you off? Okay, cute? 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:15.440 Okay, how about you, Anthony? 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.160 I would do Pila Jones by Frank Oshan. 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.840 Oh Jos, Reness, it seems like y' all know what's up? 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:24.760 How about you? Iris? 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:27.200 It's a little difficult for me to answer that because 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:28.720 I feel like my mom would not ask. 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:29.480 To meet my partner. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.440 Maybe the song reflects that. Absolutely, I would say, like, 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:35.000 not gonna happen? 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:36.160 Is that a song? 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:39.640 No, I can make it up right now, not gonna 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:40.360 happen now. 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:44.360 Something like that. 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:49.600 Unfortunately, yeah, here, here, here, here noted. 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:53.640 It's clear to me that you all have impeccable music 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:57.680 taste and then yeah, sometimes some unquestionable relationship interactions. 0:15:57.840 --> 0:15:58.560 It all makes sense. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:01.040 Yeah, you know, you're right, But we. 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:03.680 Still have so much more to learn about these things, 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.880 beautiful contests, and so let's play another game. 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:07.680 Yes we will. 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:11.520 We're gonna play another game before I will eat that 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:15.080 decides who is not gonna be moving on in the competition. 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.480 We want to know a little bit more about your 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:18.840 communication style. 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:23.160 In this game, you'll be given a text. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:26.240 From your new partner that you'll need to respond with 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:32.560 a completely original acronym. So, for example, if I got 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:36.000 a text that said, I'm running late to our date 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:40.800 dot dot dot again, can we reschedule? Instead of me 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:46.000 texting NBD, no big deal, would make my own acronym 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:51.800 and be NTMA, which is never text me again. Maybe 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:54.280 I'll add a B there and be like bitch anyway, 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:58.360 just kidding. Do you want to give the first text? 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:03.160 Okay, everybody respond to this text. Had such a fun 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:08.080 time last night. Winky face made eggs after you left 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:10.600 for work and didn't have time to clean up. 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:14.680 Hope that's okay, kissy face, go for it. 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:15.680 Abby, What is your answer? 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:20.200 I think I would do like mbb xx bb no 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:23.480 bigdal kiss kiss baby ooh. 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.320 Cue are so forgiving? 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:31.720 I'm really nice into it, into it? 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:35.800 Iris. Do you have something yes, d w A. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:41.399 I BB don't worry about it, baby oh too and. 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:45.960 Your babies so cute, Anthony. 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:50.560 All right, I got like I see I y c A, 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.600 which is like I'll clean if you cook again. 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:01.080 A promise of a next time like that? Excellent? Well 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:02.080 I have another one. 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:02.680 Okay. 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.720 This is a new text performing my one person solo 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:09.359 show tonight. It's four hours long with no intermission, and 0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:11.520 it's about my personal relationship with worms. 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:12.679 Are you free. 0:18:14.320 --> 0:18:15.840 Worms? Like earthworms? 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:16.600 Earthworms? 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:16.960 Yeah? 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:17.480 Oh? 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:21.280 Do you have an answer, Abby? 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:21.920 Yeah? 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.600 I think it would be like WTF. 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:30.480 Bless bless to the point. Iris, what you get? 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:31.240 I have? 0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:35.600 I c w ts y BB. 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:38.200 And I can't wait to see. 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:42.199 You baby, I can wait to see a VB Oh gosh, 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.880 four hours no intermission about earthworms? 0:18:45.240 --> 0:18:46.639 Anthony, what's your answer? 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:50.920 Man would be U h N, which is just a 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:56.280 hell no, into. 0:18:56.119 --> 0:18:57.280 It, into it? Okay. 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:02.399 So a final text from new partner, come over tonight, 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:07.000 we're nothing but lingerie. How do you respond with a 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:10.880 new acronym? Come over tonight, we're nothing but lingerie? 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:12.560 Iris? Do you want to start? 0:19:13.280 --> 0:19:15.040 I have S I T W. 0:19:15.560 --> 0:19:16.600 Should I take whipping? 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:21.720 Yes? 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:23.040 Yes? 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:25.040 Abby? 0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:25.880 What's yours? 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:31.040 I have BEG b R or better get booty ready? 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:36.680 And this family show? 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:38.959 Okay? 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:41.200 Oh no, no, no, we say fucking a bunch of 0:19:41.240 --> 0:19:42.040 mothers stavi here. 0:19:42.080 --> 0:19:42.800 Especially. 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:47.520 That Anthony. What would be your answer? 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:52.000 Mine would be G G s R, which is a 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:53.720 go go speed racer. 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:59.800