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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello, and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shity. I am just out Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up, everyone says Robin Dixie. Guys, it is two year,

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year. I want some bells right here? D

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Speaker 1: d Happy New Year. Oh my gosh. Two. I mean

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Speaker 1: this is weird kind of a little bit. It's bizarre.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's just bird like, how do we get two?

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Speaker 1: It's January, like just the other day it was August.

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Speaker 1: I'm just how does this work? August was not the

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Speaker 1: other day, for the record, that was actually months ago.

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Speaker 1: But guess what. Guess what. We are happy that y'all

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Speaker 1: are happy and New Year's Eve or whatever New Year's

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Speaker 1: like when everybody goes to party. It was the other day.

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Speaker 1: And I just want to let everybody know I cannot

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Speaker 1: stand New Year's Like. I feel like when people go

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Speaker 1: out and party, um, New Year's is those are for amateurs.

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Speaker 1: Those are for people that don't know how to party,

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Speaker 1: have never party before. They at crazy, they drive crazy.

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Speaker 1: I just I just I don't really like it. I

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Speaker 1: think you just haven't gone to the right New Year's party.

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Speaker 1: Oh I've been. I've been to the right New Year's parties.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, have you? Yes, I have my parents.

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Speaker 1: So I remember every year my parents would go to

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Speaker 1: a party every year and they would look forward to it.

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Speaker 1: It was, you know, it's always in like a hotel

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Speaker 1: ballroom and with one of the organizations that they belonged to,

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Speaker 1: so it was just like a very nice crowd. They

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Speaker 1: would you know, all buy a table and invite all

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Speaker 1: their friends ends, and you know, they would have a

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Speaker 1: good old time. They probably would get a you know,

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Speaker 1: hotel room stay out and they dress all up. And

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you haven't done that, So maybe that's

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Speaker 1: what I haven't been. Okay, you ought to go to

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Speaker 1: like the bouge black people parties, yes, like the Links

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Speaker 1: the Guardsmen, Yes, yes, okay, bouge black people. Invite me

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Speaker 1: to your party? Yeah, okay, there we go. All right.

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Speaker 1: So one, we do want to talk about the year

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Speaker 1: in review. Year in Review. Boom boom boom. Okay that

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Speaker 1: was the sound effects. So one was a good year

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Speaker 1: for us. Robine was amazing. Yes, one we started in

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Speaker 1: May reasonably shady, So thank you guys for being with us.

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Speaker 1: We Birth the podcast We Birth did it? It came

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Speaker 1: out of our loins, birth out of my loins, Robin's loins.

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Speaker 1: Here we are somewhere in there. We picked up Carly.

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Speaker 1: She's you know, been rocking with us since where we

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Speaker 1: listen you brought her. You don't know where she came from.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the corners. Anyway, we would love the

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Speaker 1: fact that Carly has been rocking with us. Um, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna keep her with us. And you know what, we

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Speaker 1: would like to share with you all some of since

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Speaker 1: we're you know, talking about one and it was just

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Speaker 1: such such a great year. We've had like some very

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Speaker 1: memorable episodes. Yes, indeed, I feel like everyone is memorable.

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Speaker 1: It is, it is, And to be quite honest, I

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Speaker 1: love when Robin Dixon is either tired or hungry because

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Speaker 1: she's so freaking shady, Like I don't even have to

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Speaker 1: be shady, Like I'm typically shady when I wake up

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Speaker 1: in the morning, but when rob is hungry, I know,

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Speaker 1: it's so funny when people message me, they're like, Okay, Robin,

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Speaker 1: you were really shady in this episode. I think I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna starve you so that you could just be shady

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Speaker 1: all day, Robin, shade, I think that's what's happening. You

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Speaker 1: don't want that. No, shade turns into anger, true, true, true, true.

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Speaker 1: We don't want to get there. We we don't want

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Speaker 1: to get there, but I do want to know. Note

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Speaker 1: make note of I do like it sprinkled in Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: indoses um oka. Friends. We couldn't be friends if I

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Speaker 1: wasn't shady too. No, no, no, And sometimes I'm reasonable.

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Speaker 1: You know what's you know what's so crazy? We Robin

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Speaker 1: has not responded. Okay, So when you are shady, I

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Speaker 1: think I get reasonable. No, that's not do I get

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Speaker 1: more shady when you're shady. I just add onto the shade. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So listen. Our first episode was called started from the bottom.

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Speaker 1: Now we're here, so I want you all to know

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Speaker 1: that that was kind of like a prophecy, right because

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Speaker 1: we did actually start from the bottom. Welcome to Reasonably Shady.

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Speaker 1: This is just L Briant here and I am here

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Speaker 1: with hello everyone. My name is Robin Dixon. Yes, this

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Speaker 1: is our Reasonably Shady podcast. This is our first podcast. Guys.

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Speaker 1: We don't know the hell we're doing, but just bear

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Speaker 1: with us because we're going to figure it out and

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Speaker 1: by the time we're like on episode, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: twenty eight will be great. So we do kind of

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Speaker 1: want to tell people how we met, right, well, I

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Speaker 1: think we should start off with, um, just why are we?

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Speaker 1: Why is this podcast called Reasonably Shady? That's very important. Um.

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Speaker 1: So to know us is to know that Robin is

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Speaker 1: extremely reasonable, She's like practical, She's always like Switzerland. She

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Speaker 1: always tried to see the good in people. And I'm

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Speaker 1: just shady. Okay, yes, so Gesell's first um reaction to

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Speaker 1: something is a shady one, and then I think about it,

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Speaker 1: I processed it, and then I try to be like Robin,

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Speaker 1: which is very reasonable, but it doesn't really work. I

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Speaker 1: just stay on the shady side. Yes, you sure do, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, but sometimes you don't take that much convincing.

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Speaker 1: I have to, like, you know, we'll have a private conversation.

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Speaker 1: I'll say, well, look at it this way. Sometimes I

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Speaker 1: get through to you. Yes, yes, but yes, so welcome

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Speaker 1: to Reasonably Shady, where you will get a lot of

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Speaker 1: reason and a lot of shades. Yes, absolutely, Now I

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Speaker 1: can say that a hundred years ago I moved to Baltimore,

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Speaker 1: I got married, and um me and my husband at

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Speaker 1: the time went to the car wash and who did

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Speaker 1: I see but this beautiful woman. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she really pretty. She kind of looked

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Speaker 1: like me, you know what I'm saying, and beautiful. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's when she was beautiful. But no I saw her

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Speaker 1: and I was like, Wow, she's really really beautiful. And

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Speaker 1: I thought to myself, I wonder who that is. Then

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Speaker 1: years later I was at a party long Behold. This

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Speaker 1: beautiful woman was introduced to me by our French charies.

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Speaker 1: So she Reis invited us both to a charity event. Um,

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Speaker 1: So everyone was pissy drunk at this charity event except

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Speaker 1: who she was, She's Robin Dixon. It dawned upon me

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Speaker 1: because when I moved to Baltimore, Robin is from Baltimore

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Speaker 1: that everybody kept asking me was I related to Robin Dixon?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know, no Robin Dixon,

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Speaker 1: So then I was like, holy shit, you're a girl

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Speaker 1: opposed to an asshole, and it's you know, it's kind

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Speaker 1: bus that I would see. I hate robbing right now, Okay,

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Speaker 1: on metro buses as a billboard. Not because um, I'm

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Speaker 1: wanted for like a crime or something. Well no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: But um, it's hard. It's hard work. Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 1: And that's actually probably a testament to your parents because

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. Well, this is, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna budget my many better, I'm gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: So that's no. So you don't have any resolutions? What

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that I've ever made a

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Speaker 1: think I have either. I know I have. I know that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But it's so weird. It's like something in me resists,

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Speaker 1: like the whole January movement, and I'm like, I'll start

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Speaker 1: Is we don't care about that and sanity Robin Sixon.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not falling into that January trap because

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Speaker 1: then it becomes like pressure it's like that, it's true

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Speaker 1: and then in February, will you be doing the resolution? Probably?

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Speaker 1: I hope, so, y'all, I hope so, oh my god. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I want to be the better version of myself

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Speaker 1: in two Okay, what does that look like? That just

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Speaker 1: looks like, you know, me being a nicer person, me

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Speaker 1: being more compassionate, me being able to hear and actually

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Speaker 1: listen to people when they're talking. As a else is

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Speaker 1: just like zoning out. Feel like, um season, when do

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Speaker 1: we go to New Orleans? Four? Yeah, you said the

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Speaker 1: same thing I did, and I didn't. I didn't follow through.

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Speaker 1: It didn't last long. Okay, that's why you're my friend,

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Speaker 1: Robin se can let me know that my ship is

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Speaker 1: some bullshit. Okay, all right, I'm just gonna be me. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. I'm gonna be me. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: spend a little bit more time. I spent a whole

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Speaker 1: lot of time my Kids'm gonna spend a little bit

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Speaker 1: more time with them because I actually really really liked them. Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't have to make the resolution about going to

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be my wonderful self. I do want

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Speaker 1: to be more thoughtful when it comes to the people

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Speaker 1: that I don't talk too often, Like just stay in

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Speaker 1: touch a little bit more. That would be nice, that

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Speaker 1: it is. But don't put anybody else on your favorite list.

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Speaker 1: Now that I've made Robin's favorite list, I don't want

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Speaker 1: anybody else on there, do you, curly? I don't. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to be me and one kids and okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: your parents, but that's it. All right, Well we shall see.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna put somebody else on it? I mean

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Speaker 1: if we if we get to the end of two

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Speaker 1: and you have more people on your favorite list, I

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Speaker 1: I hear from anyone who says they can't believe I'm

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Speaker 1: not that they're not all my favorite lists. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: Oh that's gonna be bad. I know. Oh lord, well,

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Speaker 1: you could do them like you just did me and

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Speaker 1: like add them right then? Right, that's true in insanity?

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we are out of here. We love

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Speaker 1: y'all so much. Oh oh, I got to say reasonably

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Speaker 1: this shady d We got a whole lot of things

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Speaker 1: cooking in the fire, but reasonably shadys like what we do.

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Speaker 1: We're doing stuff, y'all. Y'all, just get ready, get ready,

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Speaker 1: get ready, in the words of TV Jake's just get ready, Okay,

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Speaker 1: reasonably shady. It's gonna be in your face, yes, your face,

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Speaker 1: like in your face, face, like in your face, face face. Okay,

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Speaker 1: just get ready. So just know that we're over here

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Speaker 1: doing our part. We're working to make y'all happy. We

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Speaker 1: are and we and we want to see y'all. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: we want to be in these streets. All right. We

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Speaker 1: love y'all. We think y'all are amazing. Is going to

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Speaker 1: be amazing, and until then, live your life either reasonable

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Speaker 1: or shady. Bye Bye, Happy Twins. Reasonably Shady is a

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