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Speaker 1: that'll be like fudge and I'm like, just say the word,

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Speaker 1: I won't. So you've never met any girls at church,

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Speaker 1: that's what you're saying. Not really, No, it's a second

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Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel at moine five dot com. We

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Speaker 1: have Matt on the phone right now. Matt, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Uh. Your email says that you met a

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Speaker 1: girl named Deanne. Is that her name? Yeah, Dane, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you met her through like friends and went bowling or something. Yeah. So, um,

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Speaker 1: any girl, Yeah, like as a group. There's five of us, Okay,

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Speaker 1: by our mutual friend. Okay, so it wasn't technically a

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Speaker 1: first date, but it's a first meeting. Yeah. So we

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Speaker 1: went bowling. It was a lot of fun. She's cool

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Speaker 1: and we had a good time. But then our group

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Speaker 1: and got some drinks. And then I walked through the

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Speaker 1: What did you say to her when you left? Did

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Speaker 1: you guys make plans? Like, Hey, what are you doing

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Speaker 1: I said a lot of fun. I made some lame

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Speaker 1: have you tried to contact her? Not more than three times? Okay, Dad? Right?

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Speaker 1: An hour. The thing is, I did do one thing

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Speaker 1: four days after our date? All right, I think that's

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Speaker 1: I said, I had a great time. I was a

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Speaker 1: lucky strike, something stupid like that, real length falling joke.

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Speaker 1: I called her one time after that and she didn't respond.

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Speaker 1: I think I know what it is. She's deathly allergic

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Speaker 1: but all yeah, Matt, Okay, we're gonna put you on hold,

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Speaker 1: back to you. Okay, cool brooking jubil in the morning,

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Speaker 1: are we got Matt on the phone with us? Matt

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Speaker 1: went out with a girl named Dianne. They went out

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Speaker 1: on a group date I met through friends. Um. He

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Speaker 1: hadn't talked and sweet. It might be a little too soon, though,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a little too soon, But you guys,

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Speaker 1: both Brooke and Lydia said it was sweet. So what

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Speaker 1: Don't ever give a girl carnation because old ladies like

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Speaker 1: carnations because they're cheap and they're they're awesome. Sorry, wow again,

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Speaker 1: Are you serious? That's not weird at all. No, I know.

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Speaker 1: Well here's the thing, though, you're not calling him back,

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Speaker 1: like four days after the date. Yeah, how much else

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Speaker 1: well where did he send him to? The post office?

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Speaker 1: And they just kind of figured out, Oh where Danne

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Speaker 1: Matt say out at Dann, d Hi, Um, I know

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Speaker 1: for you guys to go on a second date. Matt

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Speaker 1: know how to pressure people, I know, Danne. But listen,

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Speaker 1: like if you got the address from your friend, you'll

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Speaker 1: And Dan, don't take this the wrong way, but you

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Speaker 1: flowers what I've learned? All right, broken juwil in the morning,

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