1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. A heartbreaking reveal. Mommy says 2 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: her missing little girl, just six years old, was eaten 3 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:22,319 Speaker 1: by wolves. Really, Where's Oakley? I'm Nancy Grace. This is 4 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 1: Crime Stories. Thank you for being with us. The desperate 5 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: search for a missing little girl continues. What happened to Oakley? Carlson? 6 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: Where is Oakley? 7 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: And and and and. 8 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 3: Look? 9 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: I don't even take a son from me? 10 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 4: And so and he took his phone from you? 11 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: Did you have Andrew's phone? 12 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? 13 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 1: I love bost in Tokio, Maryland? Okay? 14 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: And and Andrew take it? 15 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: And then what happened? And and and him back in 16 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: Whose bed? Is there anything more precious than a little 17 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: baby girl? This case is haunting, not just me, but 18 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: so many others. And Jordan put okay? 19 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 5: Jordan put Andrew back in his bed? 20 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: He does she hit him? Okley? 21 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 6: Him dead? 22 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: Nick? Who do you Hondich? Why did she hit him? 23 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: Go to him? Gosh? Hoh? Him? Who is being meant? 24 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: Why does he be mean? How many nights? I have? 25 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: Lenawaite wondering where is Oakley? Joining me an all star 26 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: panel to make sense of what we know right now? 27 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: But first, I'm gonna go to a very special guest 28 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: joining us, Jamie Joe Hiles. Jamie Joe was Oakley's foster 29 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: mom and loved her so much. Jamie Joe, thank you 30 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: for being with us and leading the rally to try 31 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: and find Oakley. Tell me how you ended up getting 32 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: to foster Oakley To start with, we. 33 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 2: Were really fortunate when it came to fostering Oakley. She 34 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: kind of almost fell in our lap. It was as if, 35 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 2: you know, a family friend contacted us and said, Hey, 36 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 2: I know of a foster child that is most likely 37 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 2: going to be put into adoption. Is this something that 38 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: you're interested in doing? And my husband and I looked 39 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,679 Speaker 2: at each other across the couch and we just were like, yeah, 40 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 2: let's do it. And we weren't sure at first if 41 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 2: it was going to be a long term sit you 42 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: or a short term but as the years went by, 43 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 2: we were like, wow, like this is actually happening, Like 44 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: we're going to get to adopt her, and we love 45 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 2: the time that we had with Oakley. 46 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: Tell me about Oakley. I'm seeing all these fantastic photos 47 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: that you so kindly have given us as you and Oakley, 48 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: your husband with Oakley, and she's so happy. 49 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: She is so happy, Jamie Joe. Yeah, she was a 50 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: happy little girl, like I know that. I she definitely 51 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: had her toddler moments, but she was such a good 52 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: little girl. She was polite, she was adventurous, she wasn't 53 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 2: scared of anything. She tried all of her food that 54 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: we put in front of her, and she slept all night. 55 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 2: She was just the best little girl you could. 56 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 4: Ever think of. 57 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm looking at a photo of you, and that's when 58 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: she's little, and then progressing. Now she's got on tennis 59 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: shoes and walking. Now she's with you, she's got all 60 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: her baby teeth, and she's got a big smile. There 61 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: she is with your husband, kissing him, sitting on his shoulders. Here, 62 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: you guys are all dressed up. She looks like little 63 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: bo peep. Just the love on her face. That's what 64 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: happens when a child is really loved. Tell me about 65 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: your daily routine with Oakley. 66 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. So a lot of the time Oakley would go 67 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: to the daycare here in town. I'd pick her up 68 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: after school, and then we would always go to sporting events, 69 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: whether that was like the high school basketball or I 70 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: coached a dance team at the High School where I work, 71 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 2: and so she would often come to dance practice with us. 72 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 2: We had her in dance class also, so every Tuesday 73 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: she would go to her little ballet class. And then 74 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: the weekends we were always doing something, going to the zoo, 75 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: going to the hands On Children's Museum, going to the beach, 76 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: anything like that to kind of get those experiences with 77 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: her that every little kid should get to have. 78 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh my stars, Jamie Jo Hiles, you're minding me. And 79 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: when the twins were little, I felt like a cruise director. 80 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: Every weekend. I was trying to think, what can we 81 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: do with the twins this weekend, whether it's the hands 82 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: On Museum or some other museum or some festival, or 83 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: looking for pompkins or picking strawberries, or just anything to 84 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: get them out and about see their face light up 85 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: and have a brand new experience the dance classes, the 86 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: SoC or this that. Just there, I saw her in 87 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: the floor playing with pots and pans, something the twins love. 88 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: For me to take out all the pots and pans 89 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: out of the cabinet, put them all the floor and 90 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: give them two woodenspoons each and it was the most 91 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: beautiful music I've ever heard. Why couldn't you keep Oakley. 92 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: I know that Mom had gone to the rehab classes 93 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: that she was ordered to go to, and shortly after 94 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: she went to those rehab classes, she became pregnant and 95 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 2: stayed clean. And I don't know if it's because she 96 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 2: had stayed clean for so long or what kind of 97 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: law happens, but she was able to get Oakley and 98 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: her siblings back. 99 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: I saw you take a big swallow, like a hell cold, 100 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: and your throat just then from here, I could see 101 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: you swallow at that last sentence. 102 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 2: Why it never gets easier to talk about this because 103 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: my husband and I grieved the loss of Oakley, and 104 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: then to find out that she was missing. It still 105 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 2: hurts our hearts and it doesn't make sense to us, 106 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: and it never will make sense to us why we 107 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: didn't get to have her with us permanently. 108 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: What did they tell you when they told you they 109 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: were taking Oakley away and giving her back to Buyo Mom, 110 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 1: who had been just out of rehab. 111 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 2: So it was really confusing at first because in the 112 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,679 Speaker 2: spring we were asked by our sol worker, Angela Freese, 113 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 2: if we would be interested in taking the new baby 114 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 2: when it was born, and my husband and I were like, yes, 115 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: we would be interested in taking Oakley's younger sibling, and 116 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 2: then the next month at the next health and safety visit, 117 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 2: we were told never mind, like that's not an option anymore. 118 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: And then it slowly kind of came to that, oh, 119 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: she's going to be returned. And when my husband and 120 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: I went to fight it with the Grace Harbor Department 121 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: of Children, Youth and Families, we were told she's not 122 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: your daughter. 123 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: You need to let go of this. I've had that 124 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: hit like a ton of Briggs. 125 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm not a confrontational person, and I had 126 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: my whole listing of like, you're going to give this 127 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 2: child attachment disorder. She's barely spent any time at their 128 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: house and you want to return her in the next month. 129 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: Why do you think that this is conducive to her 130 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: or the parents? It seems like an asenine plan to 131 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: me for somebody that has struggled with drugs to have 132 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: a baby, get all their kids back at once and 133 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: be able to hope and do okay, Like, doesn't that 134 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 2: seem like a plan for failure at the kid's expense. 135 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: Joining me an addition to Jamie J. Hils, who love 136 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: Oakley with all of her heart. A renowned guest psychiatrist, 137 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: Emmy honored personality doctor Carol Lieberman, best selling author of 138 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: Lions and Tigers and Terrorists Oh My, she is on 139 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: a mission to help parents and teachers protect children. Doctor 140 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: Carrol Lieberman, thank you so much for being with us. 141 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: Can you explain something Jamie jo Hiles just said she 142 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 1: referred to attachment disorder? 143 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 4: What is that? 144 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: Well, what that is is when a child is being 145 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 3: raised by parents who are very traumatic towards the child, 146 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: in other words, who are their physical abuse or sexual abuse, 147 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 3: or neglect, some kind of problems. That makes a child 148 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: have a lot more trouble when they then are placed 149 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: in another home. But that's the thing that I was 150 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 3: noticing in these photographs that clearly she did adopt to 151 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 3: Jamie Joe, you know, did feel loved and did flourish, 152 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: and so she would have not had attachment disorder. She 153 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 3: would have continued with them and felt that love. 154 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: What happens when you disrupt that, doctor Leeberman. 155 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 3: Well, it's very difficult because you know, if she were 156 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 3: going to a loving home as well, it's still difficult 157 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 3: being disrupted, especially at a young age. But there might 158 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 3: have been some possibility of still growing and things being okay. 159 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 3: But going back to the place that she had to 160 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 3: be taken out of, I mean, obviously it was a 161 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: horrible situation that she wouldn't have put in foster care 162 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 3: to begin with. 163 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: To Cold Case investigative research founder, forensic expert, and star 164 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: of a hit news podcast, Zone Heaven, Cheryl McCollum is 165 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: joining us. Cheryl, I don't understand it at this point. 166 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: I don't try to understand it. I just accept that 167 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 1: it's true. Why defacts and I reserve this for very 168 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: few entities. May they rot in hell? Continue to put 169 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 1: these defenseless children. They take them out of the fire, 170 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: then throw them back into the frying pan with bio 171 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,839 Speaker 1: parents that treat them like crap to start with, and 172 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: then we're all surprised when the child goes missing. I'm 173 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: not surprised. Why does that keep happening? It's like Groundhog Day, 174 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: over and over and over again. 175 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 4: In this case, the foster mom emailed and emailed and 176 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 4: called her husband emailed. They documented the injuries on Oakley, 177 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 4: and those were ignored when that baby was given back 178 00:10:55,640 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 4: to the biological parents. It is without reason, I would 179 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 4: go ten months without a social worker go into that 180 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 4: home and visiting with Oakley, reinterviewing her, making. 181 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 7: Sure she was safe. 182 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: Straight back out to Jamie Jo Hiles joining us. This 183 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: is Oakley's foster mom, Jamie, Joe, How long did you 184 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: have Oakley? 185 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 2: We had her for a little over two and a 186 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 2: half years. 187 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,599 Speaker 1: During that time, did she have any visitation with the 188 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: bio mom or dad? 189 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,199 Speaker 2: She had on and off weekly visits with both Jordan 190 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 2: and Andrew. Sometimes it was just Jordan, sometimes it was Andrew, 191 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 2: sometimes it was both of them, but she did see 192 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 2: them pretty regularly. 193 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: And how would she respond to that? 194 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes she'd come home and she'd be upset because Jordan 195 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 2: or Andrew would be upset at the visit, So she 196 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:47,719 Speaker 2: would come home and be upset. Sometimes when she had 197 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 2: weekend visits, like right before she transitioned home, she told 198 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: me that she was at their house for too long 199 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: and that she would have liked to have come home sooner. 200 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: Did you ever notice any injuries on Oakley's face or body? 201 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 2: Yes, So one time she came home from a visit 202 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: with scratch marks on her face, and I documented them, 203 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: and I took a picture and I sent it to 204 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 2: the social worker and asked what happened, and I did 205 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 2: not really get any kind of response. She said that 206 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 2: she was going to be out on vacation and would 207 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: address it later. 208 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: So the baby comes home Covenant scratches, and the social 209 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 1: worker goes on vacation. Yeah, did she explain how she 210 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 1: got the scratches. 211 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 2: We never pushed her like we asked her, But we 212 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 2: also never wanted to give her an idea of like 213 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 2: Jordan or Andrew would cause harm to her, So we 214 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: never wanted to put that in her head. Just like 215 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 2: the video earlier of my husband in Oakley talking like 216 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: she came back from a visit and started to say 217 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: that violence happened, And I immediately got out my phone 218 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 2: to record that because it was shocking that she was 219 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 2: just talking about it as if it were normal. 220 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: What was she saying about violence in that video with 221 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: your husband. 222 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: She was at an overnight weekend visit with Jordan and Andrew, 223 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 2: and this was a month before she transitioned home, and 224 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 2: she said that she was watching Coco Mellon on Andrew's 225 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 2: phone and that Jordan took the phone from her and 226 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: was upset that Andrew must have given her the phone, 227 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 2: and then she began hitting Andrew. Violence is something she 228 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 2: never would have seen in our home, so it was 229 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 2: very unusual that she was talking about it. And you 230 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 2: could tell she was nervous because she was stuttering as 231 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 2: she was talking. That was not her normal dialect. She 232 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 2: never spoke like that, but you could tell she was nervous. 233 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: Crime Stores with Nancy Grace. Doctor Carroll Laberman is with us, 234 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: a renowned psychiatrist joining us out of Beverly Heels. Harold, 235 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: let me tell you a quick story. When Lucy and John, 236 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 1: Dave or Lila and I would have bath time with 237 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 1: each one would get their own bath time, and I 238 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: would read books to them, and I'd be getting ready 239 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,199 Speaker 1: to sneak out after the bath so I could go 240 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: to work at night. So I would read this one 241 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: book called Caps for Sale, I think it was, and 242 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: it would be I've got a point a guy that 243 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: sold caps, and they were it was a children's book, 244 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: and they were stacked up in a big stack, and 245 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: a bunch of monkeys got the caps and ran off 246 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: with them, and the salesperson the guy said, give me 247 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: back those caps, and in the book and has fists 248 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: like that, and so I would act it out like 249 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: I just did with you, and I remember Lucy would 250 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: go and just look at me, like when I see, 251 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 1: give me back those caps, And then she would look 252 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: at the book, at the picture of the man arguing, fighting, 253 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: arguing with the monkeys up in the tree. And it 254 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: was only later I realized she had never heard anybody 255 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: threaten anybody. This was just a book. And so I 256 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: would try to turn the page and she'd reach it 257 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: back and turn it back and just look at the page. 258 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: And then she'd look at me like, what's happening because 259 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: she had never seen anything like that. I mean, all 260 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: we watched was PBS for Pete's sake, Charlie and Lola. 261 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: And now I understand why that bothered her so much, 262 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: the confrontation, Doctor Carroll. 263 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 8: Yes, So your. 264 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 3: Point is that the fact that it wasn't bothering Oakley, 265 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 3: that she was telling the story as if she was 266 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: just saying and then we went to the store when 267 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: we got bananas, you know, that shows that this is 268 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 3: what she was exposed to all the time, a lot 269 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 3: of domestic violence, and how her parents must have just 270 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 3: treated it as if this was more. 271 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: They give the baby back and then a bizarre event. Listen. 272 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 9: Andrew Carlson calls police fire dispatch to report a fire 273 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 9: at the family home earlier in the day. He tells 274 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 9: dispatch his daughter used a cigarette lighter and caught the 275 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 9: couch on fire. Carlson says he doesn't need fire response, 276 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 9: just wanted to report the fire. Jordan Bowers tells others 277 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 9: Oakley started the fire and it took four hours for 278 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 9: her and Carlson to extinguish the blaze. Fire investigators confirm 279 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 9: a fire at the home, but say it appears to 280 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 9: have started in the microwave, not Oakley using a lighter 281 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 9: to start a fire. 282 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 4: You know. 283 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: Dave mack is joining me Crime online dot Com investigative reporter. 284 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: I worked really hard to develop an expertise in prosecuting Arson, 285 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: Dave mac as you and I have discussed when I 286 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: was a prosecutor, because first you have to prove a 287 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: crime even happened. Then you have to get to the 288 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: bottom of how it happened and who did it. They're 289 00:16:56,120 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: a technical type of prosecution and investigation. And an Arson 290 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: expert tells me it started in the microwave. I'm telling 291 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: you that's where it started. I don't know how it started. 292 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: But that's where it started. It's really, Dave mac not 293 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: that hard to determine where the fire started because just 294 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: think about it, Dave Matt, at your house, if you 295 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 1: threw gasoline on the floor in let's just say the 296 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: den where your TV is, and then the rest of 297 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: the house burned as well or with smoke damage. You 298 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: can see with the naked eye that the den is 299 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: where the most concentrated burning has been. That's where the 300 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: most damage is. You can even see where accelerant can 301 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: be poured onto the floor. Sometimes you can smell it. 302 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: So if they say it started in the microwave, they 303 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: know that to be true, probably from the naked eye. 304 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 1: But yet the parents blame Oakley. Oakley's just a baby. 305 00:17:56,000 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: They're saying Oakley started the fire. But ours investigators say 306 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: it started in the microwave. 307 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 9: Right from the earliest call to the fire, they said, oh, man, 308 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 9: she lit it. Our daughter was playing with a lighter 309 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 9: and the couch caught on fire. That was there to like, 310 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 9: blaming Oakley from the very beginning, and then even said 311 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 9: that with one of the other children who repeated the lie. 312 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: So Jamie jo Hils, when you heard there had been 313 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: a fire and an Oakley started it. What did you think? 314 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 2: I'm thirty seven and I can barely use a lighter, 315 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 2: So that was alarming to me that suddenly this four 316 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 2: year old has the grip strength to start a lighter. 317 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 2: But secondly, one of my friends shared the GoFundMe that 318 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 2: Jordan had started to get money to help them with 319 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 2: the fire, and that was alarming to me. So I 320 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 2: immediately screenshot all the pictures of the damage of the 321 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 2: house and I sent them to DCUIF and I. 322 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: Said, this is not right, This is not right. This 323 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 1: is like something something. 324 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 2: Else is going on, and you need to investigate it 325 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 2: because this is not what happened. This wasn't because of Oakley. 326 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 2: I didn't even get a response from oakley social worker, 327 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: not a single response. 328 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 1: Joining me an all star panel. Let me go out 329 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: to Jarrett Farantino, who's joining us along with foster mom 330 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: Jamie jo Hiles, who actually took care of Oakley and 331 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: really fought tooth and nail for her not to be 332 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: returned to these Let me just say no good bioparents. 333 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 1: Jarrett Farentino is host of Prime Time Crime on YouTube, 334 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: a former prosecutor in Pennsylvania at Jarrettfarentino dot com. Jared, 335 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: let me understand, why is it that defacts Department Family 336 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: Children's Services CPS, Child Protective Services anything but worked so 337 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:56,719 Speaker 1: hard to reunite the baby with the bioparents. The baby's 338 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: already been taken away from them. Why do they want 339 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 1: the baby back with the bioparents, you know, Nancy, that's 340 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: a great question. 341 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 8: The way those systems have been long set up is 342 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 8: they say the best interests of a child is to 343 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 8: be with their biological parents. If parents meet these thresholds, 344 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 8: if a parent is need of drug rehab, if a 345 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 8: parent is bettering their life, situation is taking certain classes, 346 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 8: the court's favor putting a child back in a situation 347 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 8: like this, and unfortunately it could have tragic consequences. 348 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes the desire, Jamie jo Hiles, maybe you know more 349 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: about it than I do. All I know is wrong, 350 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: and I have railed against it for years, seemingly without effect. 351 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: But I've seen one case after the next after the next. 352 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: Why does the system defects CPS put the priority on 353 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: the bioparents who have already either neglected, abandoned, or mistreated 354 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 1: their child. Why do they get what they want, not 355 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 1: what the child wasn't. I don't mean a child going 356 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: I want to go to the candy store, I want 357 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: to go to six Flags. I don't mean that. I 358 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 1: mean as to where they live. Does a child's voice 359 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: mean nothing into system? No, it doesn't. 360 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 2: And what's unfortunate is Oakley even had a CASA, which 361 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 2: is a court appointed special advocate, and he is supposed 362 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: to be the voice for Oakley and her siblings, and 363 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 2: he only came out to meet her twice in the 364 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 2: whole two and a half years, and so I don't 365 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 2: think he even had a thumb on how Oakley felt 366 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,959 Speaker 2: or anything. I think that he just kind of did 367 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 2: what the court suggested and what the social worker suggested. 368 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: But it's really unfair. 369 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: Because I could tell Oakley she wanted to see her 370 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 2: siblings and her biological parents on occasion, but she didn't 371 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 2: want to go back there permanently. 372 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: But I couldn't do anything about that, But she was 373 00:21:50,720 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: forced to crime stores with Nancy Grace. Where is Oakley? 374 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: The tip line? Three six zero five three three eight 375 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: seven sixty five repeat three six zero five three three 376 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: eight seven six ' five. First, the bizarre fire that 377 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 1: they blame on Oakley, and now. 378 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 9: This Oakley Carlson's six year old sibling goes to Principal 379 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 9: Swift's home for a playdate and sleepover. When Swift asks 380 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 9: about Oakley, the sibling gets upset and says, quote, Oakley 381 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 9: is no more. Swift presses and asks again about Oakley, 382 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 9: and the sibling tells her Oakley went to live with 383 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 9: her foster parents that she lived with before. Concerned about 384 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 9: what she is hearing, Principal Swift contacts the grays Harbor 385 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 9: County Sheriff's office saying she's concerned for oakley safety and 386 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,360 Speaker 9: requests a welfare check. 387 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: So, after the bizarre fire, then we have the Oakville 388 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: Elementary principal, Jessica Swift, stopping by with a care package 389 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: after this fire, never sees Oakley. Where's Oakley? And then 390 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: she goes back never sees Oakley. And I'm gonna circle 391 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 1: back to doctor Kyrol Lieberman about how very often we 392 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: see one child of several picked out as escapegoat, which 393 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 1: I don't understand. That tell me what happened. 394 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:16,200 Speaker 9: What happened is Principal Swift actually she knew something's going wrong, 395 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 9: so she orchestrates to have a sleepover with Oakley's older sister. 396 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 9: She can't find out anything about Oakley in a positive way, 397 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 9: so she calls police go check on her. 398 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: I didn't see her. 399 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 9: I've been there twice. Now I'm hearing something weird from 400 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 9: her sister. Please go check on Oakley. Now, by the 401 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 9: time police go to check on Oakley, the family is 402 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 9: not in their house where they had the fire. They've 403 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 9: actually moved out to a hotel and it's in that hotel. 404 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: What I mean, did you see the damage in the house. 405 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 1: I guess they did move into a hotel. Well, hold on. 406 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 4: So the. 407 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 1: Principal Swift is so worried she sets up a play 408 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 1: date for a sleepover, and this is with oakley six 409 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: year old sister. The sibling gets upset and says, quote, 410 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:11,719 Speaker 1: Oakley is no more. And then the sibling says, Oakley 411 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: went to live with her foster parents that she used 412 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,439 Speaker 1: to live with. Do I have that straight? 413 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 9: Dave Mack, Absolutely, That's what the principal was working on 414 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 9: that type of knowledge. So Principal Swift is being aggressive, 415 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 9: but within the what she's supposed to be doing, she's 416 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 9: looking after where is Oakley? 417 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: So we go from this bizarre fire in the family 418 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: home to Oakley not being present when the principal comes 419 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: by with a care package, to then the sibling telling 420 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: the principal Oakley is no more. Those are very odd 421 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: words coming from a child, so principal very wise the 422 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: cause for a welfare check. Listen to what happens due 423 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: to the fire. 424 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 5: Oakley Carlson's family is staying at a hotel when the 425 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 5: Tumwater Police Department conducts a welfare check. Andrew Carlson tells 426 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 5: police Oakley is with his parents Oakley's grandparents, but he 427 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 5: doesn't know his father's phone number and can't remember the address. 428 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 5: Carlson's father tells police he hasn't seen Oakley for quite 429 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 5: some time. 430 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 9: Returning to the hotel, the officer's report claims Andrew Carlson 431 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 9: doesn't seem surprised that Oakley is not with his parents. 432 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 9: Speaking to Jordan Bowers about her daughter Oakley, Bowers becomes 433 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 9: uncooperative and refuses to answer questions. After the officers leave 434 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 9: the hotel, Andrew Carlson calls police dispatch and reports Oakley 435 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 9: Carlson missing. 436 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: Jamie Joe, did you know at the time that all 437 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 1: of this was happening. What were you told, if anything? 438 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't told. 439 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 2: Anything until so I received two phone calls when I 440 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: was at school that day. One call was from the 441 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 2: Grace Harbor County Jai's office asking me if I'd seen Oakley, 442 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 2: and the second call was from DCYF from Grace Harbor 443 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: asking if I could take Oakley's younger brother and Oakley 444 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 2: when they found her. 445 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: So that's all I was told. 446 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 2: I still have never been told by DCYF. But Oakley 447 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 2: is missing to the capacity that she is. 448 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: So you take care of her, You take her in. 449 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm looking at all those pictures. You're the one that 450 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: bought that baby blanket right there. You're the one that 451 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: bought those clothes. You're the one that put the smile 452 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: on her face and took care of her. The bioparents 453 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: did nothing, nothing except a beglect and mistreat her. And 454 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,400 Speaker 1: now suddenly you're hearing the siblings stay, Oh, she went back. 455 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: She went back to live with the foster mom. When 456 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 1: you know, Darwill, she's not there. She hasn't come back 457 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 1: to you. And that's why they came and called you 458 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: while they came to see you. Because the sibling was 459 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 1: told she was with you. What went through your mind 460 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: when they called you looking for Oakley? 461 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: My first thought was, oh, my goodness, like where is she? 462 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: Is she okay? 463 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: And then when they said can you take her little brother? 464 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 2: And can you take Oakley? I thought, oh my gosh, 465 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 2: we're going to get We're going to get our girl back. 466 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 2: And so it was incidentally her birthday, and immediately I thought, 467 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 2: I have to run to party City to plan a 468 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: birthday party for when she shows up at my house. 469 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,479 Speaker 2: I had no idea for at least twenty four hours 470 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 2: that it was as bad as it is, no idea. 471 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: I checked my phone all night that night waiting for 472 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 2: a phone call that Oakley was going to be dropped 473 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 2: off at my house. 474 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: So when they called you looking for Oakley, you get 475 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: excited and they say, can you take Oakley when we 476 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: find her? That had to ring a red bill of 477 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: alarm in your head. Where we find her? And can 478 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 1: you take the little brother, the kneeborn, And you're like, 479 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to get her and a sibling. And your 480 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 1: thought was I got to go to party seat right 481 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: now because it's her birthday and we're going to have 482 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 1: a party. That's what was going through your mind. 483 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 2: Yes, I immediately told my husband and my father, and 484 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: I said, we need to get the nursery ready for 485 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 2: her younger sibling, and we have a guest bedroom which 486 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 2: is where Oakley would stay, and we'd figure it out 487 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 2: later to make it more like not so. 488 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 7: Non kid like. 489 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 2: And I thought, Okay, we have to make her birthday 490 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 2: special because obviously if she is not at home, or 491 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 2: if she is being placed back in a foster care, 492 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 2: she's had a really bad birthday already, So let's try 493 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 2: to do something to make the day at least good 494 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 2: for her fifth birthday. 495 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 6: And then this listen, investigators question Oakley's nine year old brother, 496 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 6: who says Jordan Bowers would put Oakley in the closet, 497 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 6: possibly under the stairwell, and has witnessed Jordan beat Oakley 498 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 6: with a belt and has been worried about her starving. 499 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 6: During a forensic interview with a child advocate, Oakley's six 500 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,959 Speaker 6: year old sister said her mother Jordan, had told her 501 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 6: to not talk about Oakley. She had gone out into 502 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 6: the woods, she said, and had been eaten by wolves. 503 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: To Jamie Joe Hiles, when did you learn the bier? 504 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: Mom told the other sisters and brothers that Oakley went 505 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: out in the woods and was eaten by wolves. 506 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 2: So I think it was on December ninth, the city 507 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 2: of Oakville held a really beautiful candlelight vigil for Oakley, 508 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 2: and a lot of us walked and just kind of 509 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 2: thought about Oakley and had hope for Oakley. And it 510 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 2: was as soon as I came home from that I 511 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: saw the police reports and the news reports that this 512 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 2: is what Jordan had been telling Oakley siblings, don't talk 513 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 2: about her. She's been eaten by wolves, that there was 514 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 2: abuse that happened, that she was starved. And the feeling 515 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 2: of knowing that that's what she endured is. 516 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 3: I mean, it just kills you, you know, Jamie Joe. 517 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: I torture myself the same way I have to stop myself, 518 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 1: Like as I think back on when my fiance was murdered, 519 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: and I wonder what happened, what did he endure? Did 520 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: he understand what was happening to him? Did he know 521 00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 1: he was dying? It? Guess me know where what goes 522 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: through yourma when you heard this story that mom is 523 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: telling people, the children that Oakley went in the woods 524 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: and was eaten by wolves. What went through your mind? 525 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: Do you remember that moment? 526 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I thought that was the stupidest 527 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 2: thing that she could say, because we don't have wolves 528 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 2: around here. But then I also thought, how incredulous of 529 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 2: Jordan to sit there and tell her children, you better 530 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 2: watch out, you better not talk about this, because this 531 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 2: is what happened to her, and it's going to happen 532 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 2: to you too if you're not good. Like that's terrifying 533 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 2: to as a little kid to be like, this happened 534 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 2: to my siblings, so I better be on my best behavior. 535 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 2: And it just makes me feel like I want to 536 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 2: go to DCYF and be like I told you so, 537 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: I told you that this was a major concern, and 538 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 2: I felt like nobody listened to me. 539 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: And now here we are. Well, it is dawn on 540 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: you that that story was impossible. She wasn't eaten by wolves, 541 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: and that mommy is trying to come up with an 542 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 1: explanation about why Oakley is gone forever. Yeah, I mean, 543 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: I mean, like a ton of bricks. 544 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:17,239 Speaker 4: And it did. 545 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 1: And it's just so. 546 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 2: It's so infuriating to know that that's the kind of 547 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 2: that's the story that her siblings are are thinking okay, like, uh, 548 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 2: you know, Oakley's gone that this is this is what 549 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: happened to her. Like that's so frustrating. And as a 550 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: as a foster parent, and I don't even like to 551 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: call myself her foster mom. 552 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 7: I was her mom. 553 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 2: Nobody wants to think of their kid being eaten by wolves, 554 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 2: and she just Jordan's talk. 555 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: First of all, she wasn't eaten by wolves. She wasn't 556 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: eaten by wolves. We don't have to think about that 557 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: happening because that didn't happen, which leads me to the 558 00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: conclusion something else horrible it happened. And what's also very 559 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 1: infuriating Jamie Joe is that there were so many red 560 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: flags that were waving in front of everybody, right under 561 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 1: their nose. 562 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 5: For instance, listen, Oakley's grandmother tells investigators the last time 563 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 5: she saw her granddaughter, quote, Oakley didn't look well. Oakley 564 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 5: had dark circles under her eyes, pale skin, and she 565 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 5: had scratches or sores on her face. Now, the Grace 566 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 5: Harbor County Sheriff's Office has renewed its call for information 567 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 5: regarding the girl's disappearance. Oakley Carlson is often referred to 568 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 5: now as the missing girl who was kept in a 569 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 5: cell under the stairs. 570 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: Dave Matt Crime online dot Com. What did I hear 571 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: about a cell under the stairs? 572 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 9: You mean, like Harry Potter, it was a place that 573 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 9: the children described like a cell, the under the stairs. 574 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 9: It was an obvious area where they would put her 575 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 9: where she was in the dark, locked in, couldn't get out, 576 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 9: and they all knew it. 577 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: Don't Kirill Lieberman with us nown psychiatrists, why do we 578 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 1: see over and over one child out of the whole 579 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: family targeted for abuse. 580 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 3: What it might have been is the fact that she 581 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 3: is so adorable and maybe that got her more attention, 582 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 3: like from the father or from people who would come 583 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 3: to see the family, and the mother couldn't deal with 584 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 3: that that she didn't want locally stealing attention that she 585 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 3: wanted for herself. 586 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: You know, I know that sounds far fetched, but doctor 587 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: Lieberman is absolutely correct that exact scenario has happened. Cheryl McCollum, 588 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: cole Case Research Institute Founder and director, Cheryl, We've seen 589 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: it one hundred times, five hundred times. Her one child 590 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: is targeted and they are abused horribly. 591 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 7: And let's talk about the mom's statement about the wolves. Nancy, 592 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 7: to your point, when she accepts number one that her 593 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 7: child is dead, she accepts that her child is dead 594 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 7: in the most violent, horrific manner that you could imagine, 595 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 7: and then she tells the other children about it so that, hey, 596 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 7: everybody knows there's no chance she's ever coming home. And 597 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 7: then they started go fundme where they talk about, hey, 598 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 7: we escaped with our three children, they had four. 599 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: You are so right, they said, we escaped with our 600 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 1: three children and they had four Jamie Joe Hiles, what 601 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 1: do you make of what Cheryl has just pointed out. 602 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 2: When we saw the GoFundMe and we saw that statement, 603 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 2: we thought that that was a really interesting statement that 604 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 2: they have four kids, But why does it say three? 605 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 2: And that was something I also mentioned a DCIF in 606 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 2: my email to them. This is not right, something's wrong. 607 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 2: It just might ignored. 608 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: Jamie Joe, what have you learned about Oakley being kept 609 00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 1: in a sell under the stairs in the dark, horrible things? 610 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 2: She was put into the cell all the time. It's 611 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 2: like a little cabinet, because I've seen pictures of it, 612 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 2: and sometimes they would push the couch in front of 613 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,399 Speaker 2: the cabinet. And she would be on the door until 614 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 2: she passed out from exhaustion, Like that was just like 615 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 2: her holding place, and everybody knew about it. 616 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 1: Jamie Joe, do you think there is any chance Ugley 617 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 1: is still alive? 618 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 2: In my heart, I hope, I hope I see her 619 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 2: again alive. I always will be a little hopeful. But 620 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 2: when you hear about the abuse that she endured, the 621 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 2: starvation or the drug use that the parents had, it's 622 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 2: hard for me to think that she's alive. But I 623 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 2: hope I get to see her again. I hope she's alive. 624 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: Have you ever Jamie jo Hiles confronted defects about what 625 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: they did? 626 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 2: I have written governor in multiple times asking for an 627 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 2: outside investigation. I have you know? As soon as this 628 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 2: kind of started to come to light and be in 629 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 2: the media, Washington DCYF called me and was like, Hey, 630 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 2: just a reminder that this is a private situation and 631 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: don't talk about it. And I was like, no, Like, 632 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,280 Speaker 2: her case is closed, so I'm going to talk about 633 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 2: it because you guys messed up and I've never gotten anything. 634 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 2: Patrick Dowd, the onbuds mid for the Department and Children, 635 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 2: Youth and Family. They say there was nothing wrong done 636 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 2: in her case, and we know that that's not true, 637 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,360 Speaker 2: so they will never take account of it. 638 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: Actually said, we did nothing wrong. They handed the baby back, 639 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 1: snatched out of your arms, and gave it back to 640 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: two no good parents who all they ever did was 641 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 1: sleep together and have a baby. That's it. And it's 642 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,800 Speaker 1: been the rest of their time is trading this baby girl. 643 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: And they don't like what I'm saying. They're more than 644 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:07,919 Speaker 1: welcome to join us. We've extended an invitation. They didn't join. 645 00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 1: I wonder why they steal defects. Still says they did 646 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: nothing wrong. 647 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 2: Yes, correct, And it's so it's laughable because I can say, 648 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 2: well what about this, and what about this, and what 649 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,879 Speaker 2: about this? And they say, well, we followed all the rules, 650 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 2: We followed all the laws. Okay, well why didn't If 651 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 2: I'm a mandator reporter by the state, why didn't you 652 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 2: check in on my claims of abuse? I contacted twice, 653 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 2: Why didn't you check in on them? That should have 654 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 2: been a red flag right there. 655 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: Did you ever hear back from Governor Jay Ainsley? 656 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 2: He won't even say her name, He's never said her name. 657 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 2: He says, oh, we're really sorry to hear about this, 658 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 2: but he's never said Oakley Carlson. 659 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: Let your voice be heard. The number for Governor Jay 660 00:37:54,800 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: Ainsley in Washington is three six zero nine zero too 661 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:05,719 Speaker 1: for one one one repeat, Governor Jay Insley, you know 662 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: what grow a spine? Do something, just anything, Governor j Insley. 663 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,799 Speaker 1: Repeat three six zero nine zero two four one one one. 664 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 1: I don't care if you have to blow the whole 665 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:28,680 Speaker 1: office up. This girl is very likely dead thanks to defects, 666 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:35,240 Speaker 1: putting her back in harm's way. With two drug addled parents, 667 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:41,840 Speaker 1: she had a slim chance at happiness, and they snatched 668 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 1: her away from that. Living in a dark cell under 669 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 1: the stairs, barricaded in by a sofa, she would scream 670 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 1: to get out until she passed out from exhaustion. Governor Insley, 671 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 1: how can you stand by and do nothing? Are you 672 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 1: like pontcous pilot? You just wash your hands and it's 673 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: all over, and you could turn away and just go 674 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 1: back to what you were doing. It's not that easy. 675 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 1: Tip line if you know or think you know anything 676 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 1: about Oakley three six zero five three three eight seven 677 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 1: six ' five repeat three six zero five three three 678 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 1: eight seven sixty five. There is a one hundred thousand 679 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: dollars reward for information. Jamie, Joe, thank you for being 680 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: with us. I fear deeply that when you do see 681 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: Oakley again, you will only meet in heaven. Thank you, 682 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 1: I hear that too. We stop now to remember an 683 00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: American hero, Deputy Sheriff Ned Bird Wait count Sheriffs North Carolina, 684 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 1: a US Air Force Vet Deputy Sheriff Bird survived by 685 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: his beloved canine partner Sasha, and nephews Tyler Logan Gavin Kobe. 686 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: An American hero Deputy Sheriff Ned Bird. End of Watch. 687 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,400 Speaker 1: Thank you to all of our guests, but especially to 688 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: Oakley's real mom Jamie Jo Hiles, Nancy Grace signing off, 689 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 1: Goodbye friend