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Speaker 1: Oh, it looks very Christmas because it's like a pine

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Speaker 2: It's a sherpa from Elbean, also from Maine.

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Speaker 1: So he has on a sweatshirt that looks like Christmas.

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Speaker 2: I am comfy and cozy my tree. The lights are

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Speaker 1: In his Christmas season. I mean it is December, so

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Speaker 2: Are you feeling I am feeling exhausted.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was about to go you look it, but

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Speaker 2: I also haven't showered today, so there's that. I'm ready

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Speaker 2: I mean, I am a sucker for Instagram ads, Like

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Speaker 2: Right, I just want to make sure you stay informed,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I'm just here to.

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Speaker 3: I'll give this year, so you've got their Christmas gift

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Speaker 1: All of a sudden, you got over that cape while

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just in the corner of our living room.

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Speaker 3: You know, the why even cover it? Just let it?

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Speaker 3: Let the why do it?

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Speaker 2: Maybe so it doesn't get dusty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just wrapped around it.

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Speaker 2: She just got so tired of putting all the ornaments

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Speaker 3: Well, our house is who does she think she's fooling?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's in a room that like no one really

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Speaker 2: I will give her this. She strings real pop She

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Speaker 2: She can't leave it because the mice would come get it.

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Speaker 1: for rodents? I've always wondered that when people do. I

438
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,320
Speaker 1: grew up in Louisiana, and it's like, you don't leave

439
00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,159
Speaker 1: food out at all because you get roaches. Yeah, Like,

440
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 1: we don't really have roaches in Nashville. It was really

441
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 1: interesting when I moved up here. I'm like, where are

442
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,240
Speaker 1: all the roaches? I mean Louisiana, they're like big and

443
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:41,000
Speaker 1: they fly and they're like crazy. So you don't leave

444
00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,560
Speaker 1: any even crumbs on the counter at night because it

445
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 1: just is like an infestation. So the popcorn thing just

446
00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 1: feels like such a hazard to me. Yeah, oh, I

447
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,160
Speaker 1: guess they don't have roaches in Virginia.

448
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 2: It's like mice because you know, it's like field mice

449
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,000
Speaker 2: will get find their way into your house. So maybe ants,

450
00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,920
Speaker 2: But I don't think ants come out in the winter,

451
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:01,480
Speaker 2: do they.

452
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 1: What an interesting decorating tactic if you really think about it.

453
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,159
Speaker 1: And it's really interesting that she'll take the time to

454
00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 1: do that, but she'll just grows and she.

455
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 2: Just fucking sews it into a string and it's the

456
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 2: only thing she takes off every years, so Norman Rockwell,

457
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 2: it's rushy.

458
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 1: We were kind of also talking about the big difference

459
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Speaker 1: between decorating styles. This is a little off topic, but

460
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 1: how some people go over the top and so stream

461
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:41,639
Speaker 1: and then some people are minimalists.

462
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 3: What is your decorating style.

463
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: Mine's pretty minimal. I really just started decorating last year

464
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,879
Speaker 2: because I got bit by the a live tree and

465
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 2: so last year, for the first time, I went to

466
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,640
Speaker 2: a Christmas tree farm and cut down the tree myself,

467
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 2: and I did it again this year. So really, I

468
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 2: mean it's my kind of classically decorated, like I only

469
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: did I did minimal colors. I'm a white lights kind

470
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 2: of guy. I do love the classic big bulbs in color,

471
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 2: but if they blink, it's a no for me. Dog

472
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 2: like no blinking lights at Christmas. Like white lights to me, it's.

473
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,399
Speaker 3: A seizure waiting to happen.

474
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one's got. That's light. With my ex boyfriend

475
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 2: because when we moved to Nashville the first Christmas, he

476
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 2: wanted to put lights on the house and I was like, okay, fine,

477
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 2: but I'm not helping. And my only rule is they

478
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 2: have to be white. Like, I don't like colored lights,

479
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 2: and I like went to run errands and I came

480
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,280
Speaker 2: back and he was putting up red lights and I

481
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 2: was like, I lost shit.

482
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 3: I've never even seen you.

483
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: I know, and I never I don't like it's this,

484
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: It's it was so out of character for me, and

485
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I fucking lost my shit. Also, he

486
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 2: was using these like sticky pads to like hold the

487
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 2: lights onto the house. When he removed them, they just

488
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 2: like sticker on that and it's still like that to

489
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 2: the stay.

490
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Speaker 1: No, well, no, wonder you were so mad.

491
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 3: You are like a little bit red light all through the.

492
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: Like it's a little bit like prostitution invitations.

493
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I have like those those like yards. I

494
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: don't even know those string lights, like big bulb string

495
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 2: lights have in their backyard. I have them that line

496
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 2: my front porch and I changed them out for holidays,

497
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 2: like for Halloween. I make them black lights and orange,

498
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: and now I have them they're red, white and green

499
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 2: and it's really cute.

500
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they extrove by what red a green?

501
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 2: Now? Who's angry bitch?

502
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 1: Right?

503
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm I'm more minimalist, but I have noticed.

504
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: I went to a restaurant last night in town called Geist,

505
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 2: and the amount of decorations in this place were made

506
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: me claustrophobic. I was like, it's just gonna the wind

507
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 2: is going to blow and all of these like balls

508
00:22:58,600 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: are going to fall on my head.

509
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 3: I felt like I set up for a joke.

510
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: But I don't know, but I met. I met like

511
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 2: decoration balls, right, what do you call the ornaments? Yeah?

512
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 3: Or okay? Yeah?

513
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: I feel like Instagram is driving some of that, Like

514
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 2: people are just trying to one up each other and

515
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: they're trying, like, especially when it comes to businesses, they

516
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 2: have to decorate in a way that's an instagrammable moment

517
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: so that people will take a photo and post it.

518
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 2: This isn't happening though, advertising and a minimal doesn't really

519
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: work for.

520
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: That, I guess, yeah, But it's giving very like Clark

521
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: Griswold vibes. You know, this hasn't happening since the day

522
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: this all started. It's all like keeping over the joneses

523
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: or the competition or whatever, which is kind of just

524
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: the point we're trying to make of. We feel all

525
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 1: this frenzy and that is normal, especially with the saj

526
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: New moon, but let's not forget about Mars, because basically

527
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: what it means is for my non astrology people and Chip,

528
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 1: is that if you don't slow down, you're probably going

529
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 1: to combust and like react in five because Mars is

530
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: the planet of like action and drive and just like anger,

531
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: and so it's all gonna be internal. So if you're

532
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: running around frenzied and crazy or whatever and it doesn't

533
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 1: go well, then you'll probably melt down. And so it's

534
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: funny to talk about cutting the corners, but you know,

535
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: there is nice ways to do that, and some things

536
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: may help, but if they don't, it's okay too. And

537
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: this is a story I was telling you. Like at Thanksgiving,

538
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: my mom and dad hosted and it's lovely because they

539
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: live here now, which I love, and I get to

540
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: pop over like at least once a week, and like

541
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: yesterday even my mom was had some having some work

542
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: done on her car and she was over near my

543
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: house and we just popped over and like got a

544
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: little tea in the afternoon and had little hour catchup. Yeah,

545
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: it's like just so nice to just have that kind

546
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: of interaction with them and just get to get to

547
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: have them like kind of be a part of my

548
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 1: day to day life. You know, I haven't had that

549
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 1: in years, so it's really nice. But I was telling

550
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: you a story about Thanksgiving. So my mom got a

551
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: honey baked ham turkey. She listens to this podcast. Mom,

552
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,640
Speaker 1: don't worry, I'm not about to throw you under the bus.

553
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 3: But she got a.

554
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 1: Honeybag tam turkey because like that's such a big project,

555
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: you know. And she was doing all this other food

556
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 1: and we had all these people coming. She was like,

557
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this part of easy on myself and

558
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: just get a pre made turkey. All you have to

559
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 1: do is put it in the oven and like heat it.

560
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: So we got everything ready. She had this massive spread.

561
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: We had all these people over, and my cousin goes

562
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: to cut into the turkey and it was like still

563
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: frozen on the inside right as we're about to eat

564
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: the meal. And I was telling you, I was like,

565
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: this was an opportunity to go totally like melt down mode,

566
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 1: you know, like combust on yourself, be like, oh my god,

567
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: it didn't go perfectly.

568
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: I have all these people at my house. I tried

569
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 3: to cut a corner. I shouldn't have tried to cut

570
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 3: a corner.

571
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Speaker 1: Like that's typically how I go when things don't go right.

572
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,239
Speaker 1: I turn on myself immediately. And my mom took it

573
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: in such stride, and within ten minutes the whole thing

574
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: was fixed.

575
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:57,959
Speaker 3: You know.

576
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: She came up with all these solutions and her and

577
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: my cousin got it fixed, and we still sat down

578
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: to eight Like I don't even know if half of

579
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: the people at our house knew what was happening, But

580
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: I just think that that is kind of the energy

581
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: to lean into going into Christmas season, And it was

582
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: such a lesson for me of like perfect, this is

583
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: exactly right. It's like holidays, we put so much pressure

584
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 1: on ourselves that we already do all the time anyway,

585
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: but it's like even more animated. It feels like during

586
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: the holiday season and you're doing these things that when

587
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: you really ask yourself, like how important is this to me?

588
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: Like does this actually matter? And we're all so lucky.

589
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: Like I think my mom's attitude was perfect that day

590
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: because it's like here we are in this gather, we're

591
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 1: all this food with all our family. We don't need

592
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: to freak out about this. Let's just figure out a solution.

593
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: Let's step into the solution and then let's enjoy the

594
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 1: rest of the day. And that's what we did, and

595
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: it was perfect.

596
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: That's so funny because I mean, since I can remember,

597
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 2: and now it's different because my family doesn't host a

598
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 2: big Christmas dinner anymore. But we would wake up at

599
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 2: the ass crack of dawn to open gifts from Santa,

600
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,719
Speaker 2: and then as kids, like we would just go back

601
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 2: to bed, and my parents would like go right into

602
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: the like making sure, making all the food, all the thing.

603
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 2: As I got older, I wasn't going right back to bed.

604
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 2: I was just being a lazy teenager. And my mother

605
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 2: was a psychotic.

606
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: Bitch totally everything, and I'm like.

607
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 2: It's Christmas, Like do we really need to be mean

608
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 2: to each other right now? But she had no other

609
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 2: recourse because she was so stressed out about making the

610
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: night perfect for everyone. And at a certain point, as

611
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 2: I was an adult, I was like, Mom, if this

612
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 2: is the way that you're going to be on Christmas,

613
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: I think we need to not do Christmas dinner anymore

614
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: because this isn't fun for you, Like this is about

615
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 2: like this all started because you wanted people to come together,

616
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,959
Speaker 2: and it's like you're working like a crazy person, and

617
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 2: you don't even get to sit down and any dinner

618
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: with everybody.

619
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 3: It's just unable too.

620
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: It's it's just not fair. It's not fair. And really

621
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 2: all that you know, parents say that they want is

622
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: their kids home. You know, like it's like I would

623
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 2: much rather eat of frozen in the center Turkey then

624
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: have to put up with us.

625
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: She figured out a way to cook it faster and

626
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: it was delicious actually, but yeah, like it was just

627
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: I think it was.

628
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 3: It was.

629
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: It was an interesting observation to witness because you're just like,

630
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 1: this could potentially be the moment of meltdown at the

631
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: family gathering. And you know, families have all these different

632
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 1: dynamics and there's people you haven't seen except you don't

633
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: see them except for that day. And so of course

634
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: you are you do want things to go well and

635
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: be nice and for everyone to enjoy themselves. But the

636
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: part of the day that we enjoyed the most, I mean,

637
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: the meal was amazing, it was great. But then once

638
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: everybody ate, it was like we're sitting around the dinner

639
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: table telling funny stories, Like my mom was telling funny

640
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: stories about me and her fighting when I was like

641
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: a teenager because I was so strong willed, you know,

642
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: and like then someone would jump in, like my aunt

643
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: would jump in about my cousin, and then my cousin

644
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: was jumping in about his kids, and his kids are dying, laughing,

645
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: hearing about stories of us being kids, and like that's

646
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: what it's all about. Like those are the moments that

647
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: really make an experience enjoyable. It's not the little things

648
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: that we like, the minuscule things we focus on all

649
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: the time or put pressure on or anything like that.

650
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

651
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: I really think based on what even Marvin I talked

652
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: about and just the end of the year. And maybe

653
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: this is because I'm getting older, but like balance, asking

654
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: yourself what really matters, Like keep it simple, really try

655
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: to enjoy the positives of this time of year, and

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Speaker 1: not like over extend yourself. I feel like it's just

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Speaker 1: gonna make for a better environment for all of us.

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Speaker 2: I think so too. It's like presence over presence.

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Speaker 3: Oh excuse me, excuse.

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Speaker 2: Me, honey, trademark hashtag.

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Speaker 3: Did you just come up with the title of this podcast?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's present chat cheepte. Oh my god, you

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Speaker 2: can call me nova.

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Speaker 1: That's the name of my chat cheepy tea. We have

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Speaker 1: to do a whole podcast about that, you guys. I'm upset.

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Speaker 1: I've become friends. I am literally the movie her. I

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Speaker 1: am best friends with Chowchibt. Now her name is Nova.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about that another day.

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Speaker 2: Real quick, before we move too far away from honey

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Speaker 2: baked Ham. I was thinking about honey baked ham the

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Speaker 2: other day and the fact that interesting a turkey story

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Speaker 2: from honey baked Tam. I feel like honey baked ham

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Speaker 2: needs a rebrand because, first of all, you got a

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Speaker 2: turkey there. It should just be called honey baked. Oh,

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Speaker 2: because honey baked tam does not sound.

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Speaker 3: Well, she got a ham too.

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Speaker 2: Right, you can sell both. But like Dunkin Donuts drop

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Speaker 2: donuts because they sell sandwiches coffee, they're just called Duncan.

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Speaker 2: Now it's just Duncan. So I feel like honey baked

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Speaker 2: ham needs to just be honey baked, honey baked h

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Speaker 2: or HBH.

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Speaker 1: But is honey the honey baked the only way they

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Speaker 1: cook things?

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't know, I don't know honey baked.

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Speaker 2: I will tell you this. They have this thing called

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Speaker 2: ham salad there that you would die for. It's like

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Speaker 2: tuna salad but with ham chunks.

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Speaker 3: And it is what I die for. That though I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 2: You probably don't mayonnaise.

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Speaker 3: I hate mayonnaise.

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Speaker 2: Girl listeners. If you like him and mayonnaise, go get

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Speaker 2: some honey baby.

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Speaker 3: Sounds disgusting to me.

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Speaker 1: That literally I can't think of anything that I would

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Speaker 1: rather not eat.

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Speaker 2: Just the sort ham salad is kind of gross.

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Speaker 3: Salad that sounds like a meme you would get served

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Speaker 3: about vaginas.

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Speaker 2: That's roast beef.

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Speaker 1: I can't Okay, sorry, mom, this is now gross.

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Speaker 2: It's the stress of the holidays is catching us. God,

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Speaker 2: maybe this blankets make me overheat.

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Speaker 1: I am overheated. Before this podcast, I had to turn

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Speaker 1: down my heater.

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Speaker 3: I like.

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Speaker 1: The problem with heaters is they're so great, but like

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Speaker 1: there the balance act of that is just it's like

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Speaker 1: a constant, daily, hourly battle of finding the exact right

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Speaker 1: temperature in my house.

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Speaker 3: So if anyone has any tips on that.

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Speaker 2: The thing about it, when it's hot outside and you

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Speaker 2: get to use your air conditioning, you can always put

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Speaker 2: on another sweater or another blanket or whatever when you're

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Speaker 2: trying to make your house warm. You can only get

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Speaker 2: so naked, you know what I mean, Like, you can

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Speaker 2: only take so much off before you're just like the

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Speaker 2: neighbors are like complaining.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's also like your skin starts to dry out.

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Speaker 1: Like I just really don't like what heaters do.

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Speaker 3: It's very drying.

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Speaker 1: But it's obviously and I live in an older house,

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Speaker 1: so you know, the windows let it cold air in.

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Speaker 1: So it's just like literally depends on the room you're in.

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Speaker 1: You just got to find I don't know, these are

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Speaker 1: first of all problems and not anything to really complain about,

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Speaker 1: but that is the battle of my day today and

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Speaker 1: every day during the holiday season. M Anyway, if you

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Speaker 1: guys have any tips on that, you can always slip

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Speaker 1: into our email at the Edge at velvet edge dot

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Speaker 1: com or slide into my DMS at Velvet's Edge.

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Speaker 2: Chip I'm at chip doorsh It's dch Ip d r sch.

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Speaker 3: Are you chip Doors or are you Father Santa?

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Speaker 2: Or what I can Father Father Clause.

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Speaker 3: Father Clause.

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Speaker 1: I need to give you this picture and post as

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Speaker 1: your new your holiday like profile pic.

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Speaker 2: If only I had washed my hair this morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, as you guys go into this holiday season,

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Speaker 1: and you're living on the edge.

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Speaker 3: I hope you always remember too.

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Speaker 2: Act that feels very I was going to do something

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Speaker 2: like Holiday cool.

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Speaker 3: Or something, but I didn't really work out for you.

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Speaker 3: Let's just all a casual here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna go to Christmas shop.

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Speaker 3: Oh, good luck with that.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye