Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? Is liot service? I mean j McGuire,
Speaker 1: I'm Lauri, y'all, I'm Jazz and Brand and we got
Speaker 1: a special guest. And she is a virgin to lip service.
Speaker 1: So wherever, Hey, girl, Hey, are you ready? I'm ready?
Speaker 1: Are you ready's ready? Ready? You're the girl? No, I
Speaker 1: just want to know because she says she's a virgin
Speaker 1: to lip service. Angela said that, So I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure she's ready because and then it's a
Speaker 1: complet question to ask off the break before are you ready?
Speaker 1: How far do you want to go? Let's see. I
Speaker 1: don't know what y'all got, you know what? I was
Speaker 1: just telling to show you how I was at Tonase's
Speaker 1: twenty one birthday party. So I feel really old today. Yes,
Speaker 1: you would turning this funny one. It was on the rooftop.
Speaker 1: I was there too. Yeah, yeah, I remember this party.
Speaker 1: It was like yeah, stop. It was in New York.
Speaker 1: M hmm. I know which when you're talking about I
Speaker 1: know which when you're talking. It had that like fish tank.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't know why. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, yes,
Speaker 1: I remember that impersonate building was behind us. Of course
Speaker 1: on thurthday like a special you know, because you know
Speaker 1: people turned twenty one, it's a big deal. But you've
Speaker 1: been traveling doing stuff on the road, so didn't even matter.
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't like I've never had a drink before,
Speaker 1: so I mean no, but it's still it's still cool
Speaker 1: to be able to, like we legally go into the spots.
Speaker 1: What's the first thing you did with your I D though,
Speaker 1: Like we're the point where you knew someone was gonna
Speaker 1: have for your I D. I had a fake since
Speaker 1: I was like six year seventeen, I've been sneaking in
Speaker 1: the spots. I couldn't wait. I went to a place
Speaker 1: that I just knew they were gonna ask for my
Speaker 1: i DS that I go perfectly with like no makeup,
Speaker 1: like looking busted like and it's gonna be the real
Speaker 1: real test fight. I was like a child, looking like
Speaker 1: I'm like sixteen years old and asked for wine. I
Speaker 1: think I was with my parents too, like on my
Speaker 1: real twenty first birthday parents party at my parents house
Speaker 1: in Turn, and there was a huge fight and the
Speaker 1: police came. Who was a who was fighting? And no,
Speaker 1: actually now I know, actually Benny Boom was fighting. Why
Speaker 1: what the hell? Yeah, that's random random? What was lit? Lovely?
Speaker 1: I would sell card to Nase right now, Like I'll
Speaker 1: be like crazy, Now you can't have that drink. You know,
Speaker 1: you gotta be twenty one to buy blunts and everything. Now, Um,
Speaker 1: we're really Do you remember your twenty first birthday? Hmm?
Speaker 1: I did that? Um, Mr Child, the one by Andrew's job.
Speaker 1: I had a birthday party there and then we went
Speaker 1: to PM after well it was called PM then, and um,
Speaker 1: I just went out and like I knew. I was
Speaker 1: cool with the club owner because, like you, I was
Speaker 1: in the club ever since like a teenager. So I
Speaker 1: was cool with the club owner and he gave us
Speaker 1: his table and we just kind of like finally and io,
Speaker 1: yeah I was here illegally for years now. Yeah, exactly. No,
Speaker 1: he had no clue that it was my twenty first birthday.
Speaker 1: It was just my birthday because he's seen me for years.
Speaker 1: So it's like that's the gag is when you actually
Speaker 1: turned twenty one and you have to give him. Like
Speaker 1: one of my friends had a fake idea with like
Speaker 1: someone else's name on it. Every year he's been going
Speaker 1: to the spot and he would call his other name
Speaker 1: that when she turned twenty one started using her real
Speaker 1: idea and like she just switched identities completely and like
Speaker 1: it's never hilarious. Never get away with that no more.
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like it's too strict now
Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah, I almost to leave same time. It's
Speaker 1: because they was like this isn't you want to? I
Speaker 1: was like, I changed my hair color. It's not that serious,
Speaker 1: Like du people did that? Shut up now? They did
Speaker 1: it all throughout her video. I was like, who is that?
Speaker 1: Switched it up? I I like, I like the what
Speaker 1: you call the thing, the mullet. I like ullet that
Speaker 1: was live. I had a vision. I was like I
Speaker 1: wanted to mullet that was from you think of like
Speaker 1: um trill or trash. To me, that was fly business
Speaker 1: at the front party in the bag and he was
Speaker 1: live streaming. You was live streaming on their getting nasty.
Speaker 1: That was the concept to me was like quarantine fantasy,
Speaker 1: like like we're stuck in this place and this is
Speaker 1: say like also kind of an homage to all this
Speaker 1: weird virtual stuff that we've been doing, because everything has
Speaker 1: become this weird like performance from your home. So I
Speaker 1: was like, imagine what it would be like. It's like
Speaker 1: say this character was live streaming twenty four hours a
Speaker 1: day and kind of lose his sense of like what's
Speaker 1: reality what's not reality? Are am I inside the house
Speaker 1: and I outside the house? Like just kind of going
Speaker 1: crazy a little bit like this quarantine kind of makes
Speaker 1: you a little nutty sometimes. I was thinking that from
Speaker 1: that video. I was like, I feel like to nactually
Speaker 1: likes to play dress up in the bedroom. I really
Speaker 1: felt that way. Huh, what about life? I just like
Speaker 1: to have fun, you know, like I'm a bit like,
Speaker 1: let's throwing a wig? So role play is that's something
Speaker 1: that you would ever like introduce? Why not? Absolutely? But
Speaker 1: I've never actually I can't say that I've ever fully
Speaker 1: like committed like to the wigs and stuff, Like I've
Speaker 1: never like came in the spot like but like I'd
Speaker 1: be fine, I'm down. But you can really dance to
Speaker 1: do you have? Do you ever dance for your man?
Speaker 1: You better? I mean yes, but not like not like
Speaker 1: not like strip club, but more like yeah, not like
Speaker 1: not like formally Okay, like how do you started? Are
Speaker 1: you like all right, I'm gonna put together this routine
Speaker 1: and then you do it? Or like, right, they weren't
Speaker 1: feel cheated. If you didn't dance, you have to like
Speaker 1: that made me a fan. We were at a show
Speaker 1: I actually went with and another time we went to
Speaker 1: a show that you had. I heard I believe and
Speaker 1: you perform, and I was like, this girl is you know,
Speaker 1: she's good, Like she can dance, she can sing, like
Speaker 1: you are really good at performing. So like you said,
Speaker 1: and if you didn't perform, or whoever you were dating
Speaker 1: at the time, I'll be like, hold on now, all
Speaker 1: that ship I've seen on stage here, if you didn't,
Speaker 1: he don't get the massage. Have you all seen her
Speaker 1: her dad dance together? Now, I haven't hurt on the law.
Speaker 1: Her dad kind of eats her up. Sometimes you got
Speaker 1: some moves somewhere A person's where you get it from.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you to since you're close with your appearance, right,
Speaker 1: do you tell them? Like when you lost your virginity,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell him. But because because she started and different,
Speaker 1: you got a little you had a little pet go up,
Speaker 1: Like I got a phone call. I got a phone call.
Speaker 1: It in the middle of it, like where are you No, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did the phone in the middle of losing your virginity.
Speaker 1: I knew it was my dad. Sometimes I'm not about
Speaker 1: to play that. I'm going home. So how did he
Speaker 1: how did he know? Who told him that? You both
Speaker 1: down at instinct? Apparently instinct? Wo, it's not got the
Speaker 1: house like maybe two or three times in my life,
Speaker 1: and every single time just new like how like how
Speaker 1: back in the virginity thing? So you didn't finish, So
Speaker 1: don't count. That don't count. Oh don't I don't count.
Speaker 1: You know he went live as soon as she went dry,
Speaker 1: because that would have made me to be like hell no,
Speaker 1: I was out of there so fast. I don't like,
Speaker 1: all right, that's it. So did you end up losing
Speaker 1: your virginity to him later at a later time? Oh?
Speaker 1: That was it? Yeah? They you count? I was. I
Speaker 1: was like so surematized. I didn't have sex for like
Speaker 1: a year. God do it? No, definitely do it. Your
Speaker 1: dad was like yes. I was like, that wasn't have fun,
Speaker 1: that wasn't worth it. And you got a chastity belt
Speaker 1: on you. You just can't see it. It must have
Speaker 1: been invisible visible. Yeah. Yeah, that is the cop blocker
Speaker 1: of all cop blocking cop blockers. Okay, do that I
Speaker 1: know he's still to this day, it's probably like, yeah, it.
Speaker 1: I never really talked to him about it, so I
Speaker 1: don't know. I was still cool. Oh yeah, oh I'm
Speaker 1: talking about my parents. I don't know your parents, like
Speaker 1: I'm a hotel that I'm talking years. Yeah. I was
Speaker 1: having this discussion with Jasmine earlier. Have you ever held
Speaker 1: back on having an orgasm? You know how sometimes that
Speaker 1: you're about to come and then you stop yourself. I
Speaker 1: know guys do it all the time, but just for fun,
Speaker 1: well just because you don't whatever reason, like maybe you
Speaker 1: don't want to come yet, not really not really like
Speaker 1: why for why? Life short? Life is short? But's that nut.
Speaker 1: But I was saying when I was we were talking
Speaker 1: about it, I was saying, I stopped myself two times. Number.
Speaker 1: The first time was because I was in my ex
Speaker 1: is his mom's basement, and I was scared I was
Speaker 1: gonna be too loud. It was like the middle of
Speaker 1: the night. So I was just like, but then, why
Speaker 1: why engage in the first place. It wasn't I didn't
Speaker 1: initiate it. I was just going to I kind of
Speaker 1: am a little it's a little it's a little childish,
Speaker 1: but I am a little out sometimes? Why is that childish?
Speaker 1: I like jazz calmed down. You don't need to. It's
Speaker 1: just a girl. When the spirit move, you got to
Speaker 1: boost that ego. I don't think when the spirit moves,
Speaker 1: you got to let it out. Baby sucking in the
Speaker 1: mom's basement is now the problem. I was younger, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thank god? Yeah, so what's the second time? Oh? The
Speaker 1: second time was this guy I was with. It was
Speaker 1: so good that I would like come really fast, and
Speaker 1: so I was embarrassed about it would just it would
Speaker 1: just happen consistently too fast, and I just was like,
Speaker 1: this is he was fine with it. I just felt
Speaker 1: again I felt it was child I'm what's this a right?
Speaker 1: And wait? You can't come again? Um? I can, but
Speaker 1: I prefer not to. I prefer to just to have
Speaker 1: one full one and just let him go and then
Speaker 1: just be done. But this is another getting hot talking
Speaker 1: about this. But I'm just crvous because it's like, do
Speaker 1: you say, like, get off of me after you come?
Speaker 1: Just I just I just was holding it after Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say this like after I come, it's kind
Speaker 1: of like I'm done in my head. I'm head. Really,
Speaker 1: you don't I back to back like that. I need
Speaker 1: a break like a guy, you do. Most guys soill
Speaker 1: need breaks. I don't want to all of them. I
Speaker 1: want to keep going. Yeah I might. So you guys
Speaker 1: have multiple orgasm and you keep gonna keep going, keep going. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I shud think the best something right now? Right.
Speaker 1: I think if it's my client, it's a different story.
Speaker 1: Like it's like he's giving me head and I come
Speaker 1: through my clay. Yeah that same. Yeah, it's kind of like,
Speaker 1: don't touch my right. But if it's orgasm dead, we
Speaker 1: got a couple in there. Um, I stopped myself from
Speaker 1: heaven orgasms when when his head, that's really really good.
Speaker 1: Or if I'm being because I just like that almost
Speaker 1: there feeling and pull back and they're like no, not yet,
Speaker 1: I think that's a masturbating thing. I think if you're like,
Speaker 1: all right, I don't want to come right like now,
Speaker 1: because you can make yourself come faster. I feel like me,
Speaker 1: I can make myself come like immediately. So if I'm
Speaker 1: trying to yeah, if I'm trying to make it last
Speaker 1: little a little longer than yeah, I might stop myself
Speaker 1: from coming or like do something different or whatever. Just
Speaker 1: like with sex, you know, when you switch positions, that
Speaker 1: kind of like takes a little longer time. And I say,
Speaker 1: have you been masturbating more during quarantine? I did less.
Speaker 1: I've been uninspired. Do you have maturating. I haven't been dating,
Speaker 1: so it's just been like I've just been getting through
Speaker 1: day to day, you know, like just one day at
Speaker 1: a time, during one day at a time, So no
Speaker 1: human masturbat or no human deal. Though, No, you don't
Speaker 1: masturbate more when you're not dating. Honestly, No, I like
Speaker 1: just kind of don't focus on it. It's what I
Speaker 1: think about it more, honestly, for me, it's like when
Speaker 1: I'm having more sex. Yeah, because the more good sex
Speaker 1: you get, the more good sex you want. So, like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you this if we're gonna playing a
Speaker 1: little game, and this is called first impressions, and I
Speaker 1: want to know because you know, we all make judgments
Speaker 1: about people when we meet them. So I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you some things about some guys, and you're gonna tell
Speaker 1: me what your first impression is. Nobody in particular, But
Speaker 1: if you meet a guy right and he's just head
Speaker 1: to toe and designer gear, like the print with the
Speaker 1: matching merce belt, loafer, shades, everything. What's your first impression
Speaker 1: of him? Man I can chell I think. I think
Speaker 1: if you try too hard with the logos and stuff,
Speaker 1: that means you flexing like money you ain't really got
Speaker 1: Like people who got money, they all like flex it,
Speaker 1: but like it's not like yeah, ye where and you
Speaker 1: can have designer head to toe, but it just can't
Speaker 1: be like logoed down. You know, you don't want to
Speaker 1: print all over. There's a way to do it. There's
Speaker 1: a way. I feel like that reminds me. I just looked.
Speaker 1: I saw on your page that you put up a
Speaker 1: tweet that said but also don't get and that's by
Speaker 1: no scammer. That's it. That reminds me of scammer. I
Speaker 1: can scammer right away. You ain't paid for that coming
Speaker 1: out trying to look like you have money, then you
Speaker 1: probably don't. Don't have a diamond pocket. And it's slashy too.
Speaker 1: I don't really like flashy like that. I do agree
Speaker 1: with you tonight. She like a subtle type of you know,
Speaker 1: and there's like a time and a place. But especially
Speaker 1: if you're like in the club black back, which is
Speaker 1: usually the case, but like what if you meet him
Speaker 1: and he's just kind of like, you know, like he's
Speaker 1: coming from the gym or something, and then he gets
Speaker 1: hyped because he's going on a date with you and
Speaker 1: he tries to wear all of his my best maybe
Speaker 1: that's what it was at Sunday Best. Then that is
Speaker 1: a splitting judgment. He's like, I usually don't just like this.
Speaker 1: He was like, I was at the Outlets. I do
Speaker 1: love the outlets, but this is last season where they
Speaker 1: begetting all the logo stuff. It's like it's like counted
Speaker 1: like a low low. All right, so how about this
Speaker 1: for my first impression. You go on a date with
Speaker 1: him and he's like, all right, I'm gonna send you home,
Speaker 1: but he puts you into uberpool. Oh damn, he know,
Speaker 1: but you don't know. They make a stop. I would
Speaker 1: immediately call my own umber. That's it, and never said
Speaker 1: up pretty much. That's a great response. You got me
Speaker 1: him grimy is funned up and they get try to
Speaker 1: do some funny ship like that, like uber moo for
Speaker 1: you bitch. It was like stars of all don't even call.
Speaker 1: But in a way I would kind of find it funny.
Speaker 1: Like he was funny. He had a sense of humor.
Speaker 1: He would do it, yeah, like you're cute. Not in
Speaker 1: these days and times when all of this coronavirus, COVID
Speaker 1: handnic ship happening. I'm not even getting into uber X.
Speaker 1: I need a luxury card, I need a SUV, I
Speaker 1: need x L Like you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: that's kind of like a grade for your pussy, like
Speaker 1: when you leave and sending you and pussy period. Yeah
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. If not something just got
Speaker 1: uberpool pussy like you funked along with me? Pussy like
Speaker 1: wait in safe call a ride ride found out pussy?
Speaker 1: Like the ultimate is if he doesn't call you a
Speaker 1: card and he drives me that's nice? Is that good
Speaker 1: or bad? Like something that's not? What if being over
Speaker 1: him at that point though, you're like, all right, what
Speaker 1: you don't? Yeah you got here and call your own stuff?
Speaker 1: Yeah all right? Now what if you go on the
Speaker 1: first date with a guy and he tells you, look,
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you something. I didn't have a baby
Speaker 1: last month. We're not together. It's enough for me. Dog.
Speaker 1: He was already like say number, Like I already don't
Speaker 1: date guys with kids. Oh you don't, Okay, how you
Speaker 1: have you ever? Did you ever dated a guy with
Speaker 1: a kid? Okay? And do you never plan the day
Speaker 1: a guy with a kid? Or this is where you
Speaker 1: are right now? At this I'm definitely cool with a
Speaker 1: lot of guys with kids, and I'm considered it up,
Speaker 1: like should I date this guy with the kids? And
Speaker 1: I've been like, no, that's my deal breaker. Guys, and
Speaker 1: do you tell them that you keep them as a
Speaker 1: friend or you let them now, I'll tell you that
Speaker 1: that's what If they're really good dad, then I will
Speaker 1: they're my friend. Everybody whose says they don't want that,
Speaker 1: that's what you end up with. That's like, you know
Speaker 1: sometimes like never say never, like end up with future
Speaker 1: you know, who knows? In time, maybe I'll would day
Speaker 1: the guy with the kid, but at this point in
Speaker 1: my twenties, but nothing. I also feel like it's an
Speaker 1: age thing. I feel like at a certain age almost
Speaker 1: every guy has mostly guys had kids, saying maybe in
Speaker 1: the future, but yeah maybe, Like I feel like the
Speaker 1: younger I was, the more I knew guys that had kids, like,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like, yeah, I feel like the old
Speaker 1: that I'm getting I meet more guys that don't have kids.
Speaker 1: But like, for some reason, all the guys that I
Speaker 1: really knew had a kid, like whether it was when
Speaker 1: they were young or whatever the case, like they had kids.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no judgment because there's great guys with kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it didn't. It didn't work for me. Yeah, like my
Speaker 1: guys lie about kids. If you met a guy who
Speaker 1: lied and didn't tell you he had, yeah, you know
Speaker 1: he's still because I feel like, if you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: claim your child, it's like, what are you gonna clan? Listen,
Speaker 1: I broke up with a guy because he locked to
Speaker 1: me about having kids. Actually, that happened to me twite.
Speaker 1: It happened to me three times. Who the first time
Speaker 1: that happened to me, I was still in college. Actually
Speaker 1: the two times, the first two times happened to me
Speaker 1: in college. But I think the guy was like, I
Speaker 1: didn't think you would date me if you knew I
Speaker 1: had a kid, because you said you didn't want to
Speaker 1: date guys or kids. I was to remember this there,
Speaker 1: but like that's not that's not okay. It's not to
Speaker 1: put into to him after that, because there's nothing worse
Speaker 1: than lying about your child. Yeah, why would you be
Speaker 1: why would you not feel like you're not cleaning your child.
Speaker 1: That's the thing with social media nowadays. It's hard to like,
Speaker 1: like if you don't claim your kid anywhere like nowhere,
Speaker 1: because like we'd be digging, Like if you started talking
Speaker 1: to somebody, like you started digging like that, right you know. Look,
Speaker 1: you know fatigue. So if you got a kid and
Speaker 1: you can't find it anywhere, that's kind of a red flag.
Speaker 1: I had a home girl in hand, you know this story,
Speaker 1: and she moved away for a dude and he told
Speaker 1: us her about two kids that he had, but she
Speaker 1: ended up finding out he had six. And the second
Speaker 1: part let me explain this though to y'all, this is
Speaker 1: what was really sick. Then one of the kids came
Speaker 1: over to the house and he introduced that like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is a friend, like this is my daughter's friend.
Speaker 1: And then she's like sister, and she was like, why
Speaker 1: do you keep calling her sister? And she was like,
Speaker 1: this is my sister. By the funk? Would you lie
Speaker 1: like that and then bring the kid around and then
Speaker 1: don't have a lie? That's some six ship, he was like,
Speaker 1: And he had the same excuse, but it was more
Speaker 1: so like if you knew I had so many kids,
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't think that you was two was okay,
Speaker 1: six is my limit? And it was all with different women,
Speaker 1: Like damn different women. Well, clearly he doesn't use she
Speaker 1: might still be what I'm sure no, no, So tonight,
Speaker 1: let's just say the date goes amazingly well, and you
Speaker 1: guys are are going together back at his place. Nice, perfect,
Speaker 1: and then and then right before it's about to go down,
Speaker 1: he admitsed to you, listen, I'm a little insecure about
Speaker 1: my penis eyes, just so you know I'm not the
Speaker 1: biggest you gotta see. Yeah, we're talking, we're talking about
Speaker 1: show me. Yeah, what are we talking? Inside of me?
Speaker 1: He has besides angels, he has umkay, let's say it's skinny,
Speaker 1: and it's like five inches and skinny. I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: kind of turned off by the admission of guilt. Guilt
Speaker 1: these rocket like like confidence. Don't don't tell me like,
Speaker 1: oh I have to tell you something. Just just give
Speaker 1: me all. Just give me all you got with that
Speaker 1: A little piece of work, A little timid did like
Speaker 1: I gotta perform. I don't need no big dig tear
Speaker 1: me up, blow the back up for it. And I
Speaker 1: think the skinny part is the problem. And the skinny
Speaker 1: part is definitely the problem. That's gotta be fulfilling. Yes,
Speaker 1: Like you know, man, he hurts. Sometimes they'd be like
Speaker 1: poking you like pencil. Yeah, you're at the doctor's office,
Speaker 1: like how goot this? Um? You guys are having a discussion, right,
Speaker 1: because when you're in a relationship, finances are important. Credit
Speaker 1: is important. You want to know how somebody's credit is.
Speaker 1: So let's just say you ask him and he's like, look,
Speaker 1: I made some poor decisions. You know. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get it together, but my credit score is a four twenty.
Speaker 1: Is that the lowest? No, girl, I didn't even know
Speaker 1: it's bad. Though it's bad. I thought that maybe the lowest.
Speaker 1: I never heard like like like three something. Right, it
Speaker 1: doesn't start. I wouldn't want the explanation as to like how,
Speaker 1: because that's how and why. Here's the thing, and credit
Speaker 1: can be fixed if you mess up and you pluck
Speaker 1: some ship up. There's ways for you to pick certain
Speaker 1: with a k A paying the ship off that you oh,
Speaker 1: you know, to get that stuff taken off and then
Speaker 1: you can get a secure credit card or you can,
Speaker 1: you know, go put some least to own ship in
Speaker 1: your name and build up your credit back from credit
Speaker 1: credit like sometimes you know, I don't know, there's other
Speaker 1: circumstances or like where if they so I'm I'm I
Speaker 1: am somebody who can talk to, so let me know why.
Speaker 1: I just need to know the truth. Yeah right, But
Speaker 1: if he has a Ferrari but he's still renting girl
Speaker 1: four credit score? That like, no, whose name is that
Speaker 1: in first and foremasts? I want to know that because
Speaker 1: mama's his girlfriend, hammer his baby, Mama's Hey, don't get
Speaker 1: don't get caught by those scammers. Have you ever had
Speaker 1: anybody tried to swindle you in a kind of way?
Speaker 1: Because I felt like that came from a place, let
Speaker 1: it outa that come from I'm trying to think that
Speaker 1: quite did I think say that? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just like I feel the most places that I've been scammed,
Speaker 1: just like in business, if anything, it's not really in relationship.
Speaker 1: It's hard to scare me. In relationships, I'm hard to reach.
Speaker 1: So that that tricky wording in them contracts that could
Speaker 1: trick up anybody. I feel like it's more so like
Speaker 1: things that I've gone along with in my career that
Speaker 1: I looking back on, it was like, why would I
Speaker 1: agree that? So that wasn't really a relationship e kind
Speaker 1: of statement. That was more of a yeah yeah, or
Speaker 1: just general like we see things. What kind of things
Speaker 1: when you say that I did you agree to? You know,
Speaker 1: just little things and it would be like manipulative and
Speaker 1: that's I'm like very insidious. That's why it's hard to
Speaker 1: tell when it's happening, like what kind of songs, what
Speaker 1: songs you should put out, how you should be, what
Speaker 1: you know you should look like in the video, what
Speaker 1: it is a hit, what's not a hit? Things like that.
Speaker 1: Did you have a feeling of looking back at it,
Speaker 1: did you have a weird feeling when it was happening,
Speaker 1: or it took later for you to understand like, oh,
Speaker 1: this wasn't right experience? It was so so like slowly,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like mind fucky that it was really
Speaker 1: hard to tell that it's happening all it's happening because
Speaker 1: the people that you surround yourself with, especially in the
Speaker 1: music business, typically hope that they have your best interest
Speaker 1: at her and they may actually think they have your
Speaker 1: best interests at her. But that to what an artist
Speaker 1: I think eventually learned and some are just used to
Speaker 1: know it. But definitely I learned is that you know
Speaker 1: better than them, even if they have the experience, like
Speaker 1: as the artist, as a person who's creating a content
Speaker 1: like period, and sometimes you think, oh, they've done all
Speaker 1: this stuff, their point of view makes sense. Let me
Speaker 1: listen to these people. And that's not always the case,
Speaker 1: especially when it comes to like creativity and yeah, and
Speaker 1: sometimes we try, it doesn't work. Sometimes you try and
Speaker 1: it does work. You just never know. Sometimes you feel like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know this person should know what they're talking about,
Speaker 1: so I rack with it and test it out and see.
Speaker 1: But what about relationships and business? Because I know a
Speaker 1: lot of people I'm one of guilty of that where
Speaker 1: I've been in a situation where I had a relationship
Speaker 1: with somebody I did business with. Would you put yourself
Speaker 1: in that situation? I have you ever? And would you
Speaker 1: recommend that for someone else? Like I haven't ever? That
Speaker 1: sounds very very nicey Um. Business inherently is really complicated
Speaker 1: and really and I mean for me, I guess you
Speaker 1: could say there is a relationship in business overlap when
Speaker 1: it comes to like your managers, because they're like your family,
Speaker 1: so it's not like romantic relationships. But when those people
Speaker 1: become like so close to you that you can't like
Speaker 1: tell them when they funk up or like messes up
Speaker 1: your judgment to a look, yeah, yeah, it talks up
Speaker 1: how you look at things then like it's dangerous. So
Speaker 1: it's important to kind of keep that separation. But it's
Speaker 1: hard have boundaries strong ment dating somebody you're working with
Speaker 1: definitely not in a way you seem strong with your boundaries,
Speaker 1: because even when you said, I'm not dating nobody with kids,
Speaker 1: I'm not dating anybody in the business and my business
Speaker 1: because it's it's a lot of people get kind of
Speaker 1: side checked with with those relationships that kind of vera yeah,
Speaker 1: I focus, it's not worth it. What about celebrities, You
Speaker 1: think you prefer to be with somebody who's not in
Speaker 1: the spotlight or somebody that is. Doesn't matter. I'm not
Speaker 1: necessarily it doesn't have to be somebody in the spotlight,
Speaker 1: but I definitely wouldn't want to just be with somebody
Speaker 1: with no kind of goals and careers so that it
Speaker 1: creates a like maybe they could be in some type
Speaker 1: of spotlight. Definitely not my same spotlight necessarily. I just
Speaker 1: like people who are like all the ship, you know,
Speaker 1: but if they dance is better than your dad, and
Speaker 1: every day he's like challenge, all right, let's throw it
Speaker 1: down the cardboard, you know what. I think it's important
Speaker 1: to guys that you could learn things from because sometimes
Speaker 1: I think like, at the level that you're at, you
Speaker 1: want to be with somebody that also you know, you're
Speaker 1: not the one that's giving all the time. They're also
Speaker 1: teaching you some things that you're like, you put me on.
Speaker 1: You want somebody that moves challenges you, moves your life
Speaker 1: forward in a positive direction. What about if he can't
Speaker 1: dance at all, Like what if he's like frying to
Speaker 1: you know what? What about when y'all go out like
Speaker 1: y'all somewhere in the club, you just gonna dance on
Speaker 1: them so she can teach them how to take that
Speaker 1: stand like this, talk him out, don't got no ranythm
Speaker 1: and talk about breaking his hand like that, like me
Speaker 1: right there, go ahead, and they get that she's already
Speaker 1: danced by myself at the club anyways. So like people,
Speaker 1: I just stand on the table, Like, what if he
Speaker 1: be trying to dance? It is terrible appreciate. I appreciate
Speaker 1: like I said, like the confidence like that. What I
Speaker 1: don't like is somebody who they can dance but can't
Speaker 1: like that gave me give me wrong confidence to people confidence,
Speaker 1: you know, by speaking of convidence, what if he's like, Look,
Speaker 1: let's say you're dating somebody you really like him, and
Speaker 1: he's like, some of the stuff you do with a
Speaker 1: little too sexy? We in a relationship. Has it happened before? Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure. So let's say you're not like sex. But
Speaker 1: is that something to take into consideration. I think it's
Speaker 1: something to consider, but you have to there's a skinny
Speaker 1: I got to know the found reies in the life.
Speaker 1: I think there's there's respect for your partner, and then
Speaker 1: I think there's also like being controlling. But I think
Speaker 1: that that depends on the situation and what they're asking for. Like,
Speaker 1: what did you do when it happened in your situation?
Speaker 1: I got fucking eated, like I read instead, I'm kidding me.
Speaker 1: This isn't what I do right now. It's how you
Speaker 1: met me? What it was? It was? It like something
Speaker 1: you posted on social media? Where is it a video
Speaker 1: or for me it was like something I was wearing.
Speaker 1: But it was when I was younger. Now, I feel
Speaker 1: like if you're acting away that that's different than like
Speaker 1: if you're dressing away. Because I'm all for like women
Speaker 1: being able to dress how the funk they aren't period like,
Speaker 1: I don't think that should affect really, I don't really
Speaker 1: believe that you should like be more modest and you're
Speaker 1: dressing for your perfect man. On the topic of the equality,
Speaker 1: let's just say you're dating a guy and he has
Speaker 1: then only fans page, spicy Me, Ryan, Ryan Stage. You
Speaker 1: know guys are getting into this money too. I think
Speaker 1: little Boosey has one. Oh does he? Yeah? Does he really? Jasmine?
Speaker 1: You sounded excited about that one? There? I would like you.
Speaker 1: I would like I would like it done out rolling Larry,
Speaker 1: No thanks, we love You were dating a guy and
Speaker 1: he had an only fans page? Right? Would you be
Speaker 1: cool with that? Why he's making money five thousand dollars
Speaker 1: trying to get his crass score right? Personally, I would
Speaker 1: prefer him to have a different source of income than
Speaker 1: only But if he's making major money, though, I am
Speaker 1: probably looks like a man but I don't think I
Speaker 1: would date him, Like it's just like not for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know. He doesn't seem like my type. The
Speaker 1: guy who has the only fans doesn't seem like my
Speaker 1: back that I don't think it's embarrassing for like I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for a man to be on only fans. It's
Speaker 1: just like what did that say about I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like what is the man doing? Is
Speaker 1: he showing his balls because and then he showed off.
Speaker 1: That's not thinking because I have a page and I
Speaker 1: mean my page is it's like bikini picks and it's
Speaker 1: very it's sexy, but it's not boring. I'm not naked.
Speaker 1: I'm not classroom pussy on the internet for the whole
Speaker 1: world to screenshot. But you have a teaser things like
Speaker 1: you could show damn there your teddy, Like what is
Speaker 1: he gonna show other than balls and dick likes leg
Speaker 1: right page bids. I mean, ain't Instagram Like I will
Speaker 1: never say never again right to not gonna end up
Speaker 1: with a guy with the only things and the kidenus.
Speaker 1: What if he's like y'all see I've seen some guy
Speaker 1: doing that jumping broke with boxers on like his dick
Speaker 1: was jumping. Yeah, a was a lot for me, Like
Speaker 1: it's like a seal the thing to me that would
Speaker 1: probably not I wouldn't. That would weird me out about
Speaker 1: it more than anything else. It's like I already think
Speaker 1: guys who take hell of pictures of themselves are kind
Speaker 1: of weird. Like I don't know what that I don't
Speaker 1: know what that is. I don't know why I feel
Speaker 1: that way. I don't like it when I think about
Speaker 1: the like when I think about a guy that just
Speaker 1: like it's always like posing and like taking pictures. I
Speaker 1: don't know that. Yeah, I don't like it. I don't
Speaker 1: like it when I have about guy. The guys who
Speaker 1: have only fans are like taking them. I feel like
Speaker 1: they have so many like male subscribers, like gay male subscribers. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that wouldn't necessarily bother me as much as just like,
Speaker 1: why why are you so obsessed with yourself? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: feel like yourself obs the word if your guy you
Speaker 1: do that, But that's just me say. I saw you
Speaker 1: saying that you think that we should get rid of
Speaker 1: genres when it comes to music, right, and so how
Speaker 1: do you classify yourself like or do you just not?
Speaker 1: You just do what you will. That's the thing. It's
Speaker 1: like it's really hard for me to classify and put
Speaker 1: myself into a genre. I think like the root of
Speaker 1: it is in on some like R and D pop,
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of where I see myself as an
Speaker 1: arm by pop artist somewhere in between. Um, but I've
Speaker 1: always seen myself as not like living in like an
Speaker 1: R and BY bubble, and I kind of got always
Speaker 1: really weirded out by like imagining myself like that as
Speaker 1: as well as a pop completely pop bubble too. So
Speaker 1: I like to experiment with dance, I like to experiment
Speaker 1: with hip hop. I like to experiment with lots of
Speaker 1: different genres. Store I personally really don't like I kind
Speaker 1: of get like anti put me in a box. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like on your last project, you was even
Speaker 1: down there wrapping so to even say and it sounded good,
Speaker 1: like no cap it sounds real good. So I don't
Speaker 1: even think I get why you would say something like that.
Speaker 1: What about I know you've been doing a lot of activism,
Speaker 1: um and you've been out there in these streets, you know, protesting,
Speaker 1: So what if you got with a guy or what
Speaker 1: if you were with a guy you all were together
Speaker 1: and he pretty much just didn't understand where you were
Speaker 1: coming from. Say he was like, you know I've seen
Speaker 1: had a yeah, yeah, all lives matter kind of guy.
Speaker 1: But you love, say feel from you know, how would
Speaker 1: you break up with him over that und hard past?
Speaker 1: It's been I had to honestly, like really really really
Speaker 1: consider losing wrong standing friendships over this kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: So it's been hard because yeah, I mean, if you
Speaker 1: can't get with at least black lives matter, Like we
Speaker 1: don't agree on a lot of things. Yeah, originally from
Speaker 1: Kentucky anyway, and like, uh, we know some things is
Speaker 1: going down and Louis Bell, that's been kind of crazy. Baby.
Speaker 1: Yeah that that that that hit you, is that like
Speaker 1: part of the reason where it hit your heart? I
Speaker 1: mean I think just the entire situation just being a
Speaker 1: black woman and hits your heart so much, like it
Speaker 1: it feels so so personal, and I think I mean
Speaker 1: I only spent a few months in Kentucky, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't like grow up grow up there. Um, but it's
Speaker 1: it's it's just what's going on there. The fact that
Speaker 1: they're just ignoring everything that's happening. The fact that there
Speaker 1: hasn't been any justice for her is insanely unsettling for
Speaker 1: US black women to see how this has been handled,
Speaker 1: especially even compared to some of the other situations that
Speaker 1: have happened in this whole movement. It's it's so, yeah,
Speaker 1: did you have you did you receive any pushback from
Speaker 1: your team at all about how vocal and outspoken you've been,
Speaker 1: because you're one of the artists that have really been
Speaker 1: speaking out in saying how you feel unfeel. Luckily, No,
Speaker 1: I've been really blessed because I think, especially since I'm
Speaker 1: an independent artist, I felt so free that I just
Speaker 1: haven't felt any type of fear and saying what I
Speaker 1: think or like expressing, um my political views. My management
Speaker 1: is rock Nation now and they are what Yeah, and
Speaker 1: they're just they're really supportive of all of the you know,
Speaker 1: social justice stuff that we do. So they've been great.
Speaker 1: I haven't got any pushback from anyone on my team.
Speaker 1: Have you been doing any painting? But as we see
Speaker 1: the painting behind you, yeah, So how's how's that been
Speaker 1: going for you? During quarantine and taking Are you gonna
Speaker 1: sell some of these paintings I gave a couple of
Speaker 1: people away or I've sold them, I guess for charity,
Speaker 1: for to provide meals for people with COVID. Uh. It's
Speaker 1: been such a difficult time, so just trying to get
Speaker 1: back the way I can't. But I haven't ever really
Speaker 1: like sold sold my paintings. I've only done it for charity.
Speaker 1: But I just have I paint for fun. I just
Speaker 1: like to make stuff, you know. I like to make videos.
Speaker 1: I like to make songs like some art. I like
Speaker 1: to write. Sometimes I'm like, next time, I'm gonna read it.
Speaker 1: Who could have read a screen pray? Yeah? Like right now?
Speaker 1: What my d m? Yeah ry dry really I'm yeah
Speaker 1: right because she was not interested in any of the
Speaker 1: ones that she's been seen. Why I that's why. Because
Speaker 1: they got kids, and they got credit logos, they had
Speaker 1: too much Gucci in the picture. Let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: doing a lot of women hit you up, trying to
Speaker 1: hiller at you too. You know what I'm gonna be.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it hone it like you don't look,
Speaker 1: not really send us your pathway. I'll check them for you,
Speaker 1: and like I don't really look, but yeah, they I
Speaker 1: mean now that like if we're being honest. A lot
Speaker 1: of people hear yet, but you don't want them to
Speaker 1: know you're ignoring their rights, Like I don't even read them.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. I don't really check
Speaker 1: my mine and then be like, but you know they
Speaker 1: have a check. You might be like, this could be business, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you can usually already tell like the first three words, right,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying to you. Not to open it
Speaker 1: so they don't know you saw it. That's why that's
Speaker 1: why Instagram is clutch, because they got that like what
Speaker 1: is it called? You know, they got like top d
Speaker 1: ms or something put all of like the verified ones
Speaker 1: that could be business. And I'm like, do you want
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship right now? Like are you
Speaker 1: like interested in that? I think that's like a double
Speaker 1: edged sword, right because part of me is like, of course,
Speaker 1: why not? Love is great? But then I am also
Speaker 1: like the type of person who really kind of goes
Speaker 1: all out for love, like I don't. I can't really
Speaker 1: half at it. So when I'm like focused, and my
Speaker 1: business too, So when I'm focused on like work or
Speaker 1: like a project, like I'm focused on a project, when
Speaker 1: I'm focused on a relationship. Like I'm focused on a relationship.
Speaker 1: It's sorry for me to find like that kind of
Speaker 1: good balance. So in with that in consideration, I don't
Speaker 1: really be like searching for relationships or looking for relationships
Speaker 1: because to me, it's like this is gonna sunk my
Speaker 1: money up and I ain't got time for this. What
Speaker 1: about you? Like just fun and like three sums and
Speaker 1: all that, just with random people, Like say you're with
Speaker 1: a guy and he's like, let's bring a girl. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think that would be a very special situation, like
Speaker 1: you'd have to have like a bond with that person.
Speaker 1: But I'm not just like out here, just like like
Speaker 1: I said earlier, like I'm just not thinking about it
Speaker 1: like that my priority. It's not like that fun for me.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be on tour. I wish I was on tour.
Speaker 1: You ever, mean, let me ask you. This guy's always
Speaker 1: like MESSI groupies on tour. Have you ever met some
Speaker 1: groupies and like a groupie and then like he's cute,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a girl? Okay, did it work out for
Speaker 1: a little while? Uh? What do you like? Oh? I
Speaker 1: never worked here a working where it worked for that
Speaker 1: situation that ever talked to her, what kind of girls
Speaker 1: would you even go for? Because I was watching that
Speaker 1: series twenties. I don't know if you watch it, but
Speaker 1: it's Uhlina Wagehall. It's now on Stars, I guess the
Speaker 1: unedited version, but it's really good. And in there, um,
Speaker 1: the girl is lesbian and a girl hit on her
Speaker 1: and she was like, you're not my type. So if
Speaker 1: they're like the girls that you go for, are they
Speaker 1: more like girlly? Are they more masculine? Like what would
Speaker 1: be your it's interesting, Um the ones that I, uh,
Speaker 1: there's I can't say, I can't like, I can't know
Speaker 1: she's a type of men, but not when it comes
Speaker 1: to it. But now if women honestly, yeah, truly, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's interesting to know. Yeah, I mean I've dated, um,
Speaker 1: a more masculine girl, but I've never did like a
Speaker 1: super mass killing girl, and I'm not never did like
Speaker 1: super fun and girl either. So you seem very take
Speaker 1: charge though, Yeah to me too, she does. She definitely
Speaker 1: knows in relationships with people who can like play on
Speaker 1: both sides, like I want to chake charge definitely sometimes
Speaker 1: and I want to fall back sometimes because you gotta
Speaker 1: do so much work all the time. Have you ever
Speaker 1: pecked a guy? Yeah, in the words, you're about to
Speaker 1: take a guy with kids of four twenty credits, so
Speaker 1: it looks like this. I feel like during quarantine a
Speaker 1: lot of people get lonely and then they fall back.
Speaker 1: So do have any of your axes reached out to
Speaker 1: you during quarantine trying to crawl back or like get
Speaker 1: that old thing back? I mean yeah, but like that's
Speaker 1: how logistically speaking implausible dead dead effect though, you know,
Speaker 1: right at the Rascal single out, So tell us what's
Speaker 1: happening in the future, Like, what's going on? What's the album?
Speaker 1: Are you doing more quarantine videos? Oh? I mean, I've
Speaker 1: always got more stuff off my sleeve. I'm always working
Speaker 1: on new things, but new music. I'm really just, like
Speaker 1: I said, been focused on being in the studio and
Speaker 1: I got one in my house, so I'm recording all
Speaker 1: the time. I want to put out a new project
Speaker 1: as a key um just to kind of keep songs
Speaker 1: for you energy flowing. And I don't know, well, we'll
Speaker 1: see how long this quarantine lasts, because I'd like to
Speaker 1: do you know, so much stuff. It kind of just
Speaker 1: depends on what we're like legally, Well, thank you for
Speaker 1: being all this time, for having me. Yeah, we really
Speaker 1: put your cherry day. I feel good about we're sending
Speaker 1: you home in the uber looks okay, uber looks Lessie.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys, Thank you, Bye Thanky