1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. He's here physically but 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: not mentally. Stephen Shirley, my husband and I were legally 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 1: separated for about five months. Things were bad between us 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 1: last year and he decided it was best to move 14 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: out for a while. I agreed with him, and he 15 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: went to stay with his dad. Our son is seventeen 16 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: and he's been living with my husband's dad for his 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 1: senior year to be closer to school and to drive 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: its granddad's old Camaro to school. It was an ideal 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: situation for the three of them. I thought for sure 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: my husband was going to serve me with the orse papers. Instead, 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: he called me after Christmas and asked if i'd go 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: to counseling with him. I agreed and we went to 23 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: see a therapist for two months. He got frustrated and 24 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: said the male therapist was taking my side, so we 25 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: stopped going. During therapy, I found out that my husband 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: cheated on me, and it was because he wasn't attracted 27 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: to me anymore. I was unfazed by it all. I 28 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: just wanted to get a divorce and get it over 29 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: with quickly. Then he hit me with a double whammy 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: and said he was ready to come home. I couldn't 31 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: say no because it's his house too, So he has 32 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: been back since the first of May. His body is here, 33 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: but not his mind. When I talked to him, and 34 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: he smiles and nods his head. When I talked to him, 35 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: he smiles and nods his head. I know he's not 36 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: paying attention to me. I had decided that if he 37 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: ever came back home, I was going to give him 38 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: a night he wouldn't forget. But he hasn't touched me 39 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: since he got home Saturday night. I tried to shower 40 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: with him, but he locked the bathroom door. 41 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 3: Why would he. 42 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: Come back home without changing his behavior? I cannot live 43 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: like this. Should I be the one that calls it 44 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: quits this time. Please help, please help. This is really terrible, 45 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: and clearly he's not ready. I mean, listen, smiling and 46 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: nodding his head when you're talking to him. That's not communication, 47 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: that's not intimacy. It's hard to tell where his head is, 48 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: but you do see his actions, and they are very clear. 49 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: He's showing you how he feels. He got frustrated, you said, 50 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: when and stop going to therapy to the male therapist. 51 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: That's where he confessed to cheating on you. He said 52 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: he no longer found you attractive, and he locked the 53 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: bathroom door on you, on you. What other conclusion are 54 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,399 Speaker 1: you supposed to draw from all of this but that 55 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: he is over it and not into you anymore, or 56 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: he's not into the marriage anymore. Same thing right there. 57 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: He can't come back home and not talk to you 58 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: or not be affectionate all that. I think he just 59 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 1: maybe wanted to get back in the house and see 60 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: if you changed, and he's not necessarily into the marriage. 61 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: He wanted to get back in the house, but not 62 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: the marriage. 63 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 4: Steve, Yeah, this is an easy letter for me. Let's 64 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 4: just go on and get to this. This over's just 65 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 4: this over. Let's say't nothing. You went the therapy, you 66 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 4: the moved out, you to move back in. We han't 67 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 4: done it all. We've separated, we've gotten back together and 68 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 4: went to therapy. He's moved away and he's moved back in. 69 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: And none of them situations was good. Now y'all been 70 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 4: legally separated for five months. Things were bad between us 71 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 4: and y'all all. Both of y'all decided it was best. 72 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 4: So he went to live with his daddy. Y'all son, 73 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 4: who was a senior in high school, also went to 74 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 4: live with him because it gets him close to the school. 75 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: It was ideal for the three of them, so you 76 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 2: think you. 77 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: And he got to drive his granddaddy's old Camaro to school. 78 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: So the boy got a call. The only one got 79 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: a good out. This deal with the boy. 80 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 4: Granddaddy did good because he got him some company. And 81 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 4: your husband thought it was gonna be good because he 82 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 4: got away from you, and you thought it was good 83 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 4: because you wanted them to get away from you too, 84 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: and you thought for sure he served you with divorce papers. Instead, 85 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 4: he called you after Christmas and asked you to go 86 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 4: to counsel, where you went to counselor. How that work out? 87 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 4: When you go to counseling and counseling don't work. What 88 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:44,119 Speaker 4: do you want be his? What the counselor tell y'all, 89 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 4: your husband said he didn't like the mail counselor because 90 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 4: he was signing with you. 91 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 2: Well, the husband was saying some. 92 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 4: Crazy stuff in this session because in this session. 93 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 2: You found out he cheated on you. 94 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 4: In this session, you found out he was no longer 95 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 4: attracted to you. 96 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: You, and then when he came home he locking doors. 97 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 4: Now, let me defend him, Hill, I got to lock 98 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 4: that bathrooom, dough What. 99 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 2: I locked bathroom doors at my house when I. 100 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 4: Go in them today I locked the door because my 101 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 4: wife would just start talking. 102 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: And I don't want to talk when him in him. 103 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 4: I got telephone, got games on it, got a TV 104 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 4: in now, got everything. 105 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: I ain't coming here talking. So I must defend him 106 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 2: on the not talking in the bathroom. 107 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 4: But the rest of his letter is it's just nothing's working. 108 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 4: The separation didn't work, the therapy didn't work, and the 109 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 4: coming back home didn't work. What we're talking about. So 110 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 4: what I think the best way for me to do 111 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 4: is I'm gonna have the ladies. We're gonna do a 112 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 4: slight me inacting. Now here's let me get to this 113 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 4: park room back home and since may his body is 114 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 4: here but not his mind. This is what I want 115 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 4: you all to focus on. His body's here, but not 116 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 4: his mind. When I talk to him, he smiles and 117 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 4: nods his head. I know he ain't paying attention to me, 118 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 4: and I decided when he came back home, I was 119 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 4: gonna give me a knight for him to remember, but 120 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 4: he ain't touched me. Since he's back home and his behavior. 121 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 4: I cannot live like this. Should I be the one 122 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 4: that calls it quits this time? Please help when we 123 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 4: come back, Shirley and Carl him Junior. Anybody can ask 124 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 4: me the question as the lady, and I will show 125 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: you the response of a non concerned husk. 126 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 3: Thank you, Steve. 127 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have part two of your response subject 128 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: he's here physically but not mentally. We'll get back into 129 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show 130 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: cast is sponsored by PayPal. 131 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 5: I want to take a second to talk to you 132 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 5: about something I think it's pretty cool. 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And then 140 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 5: you said you wanted to reenactment. 141 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: This subject of the Strawberry letter today is he's here physically, 142 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: but not mentally exactly. 143 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,239 Speaker 2: This is what this letters hold all about. 144 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 4: The lady nailed this letter perfectly and has given us 145 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 4: enough facts for us to come to a conclusion. 146 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 2: They've been legally separated for five months. Facts. 147 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 4: Okay, ladies, Just what I'm gonna do when I say 148 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 4: something that's true, y'all say thanks. My husband and I 149 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 4: have been legally separated for about five months. Things was 150 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 4: bad between us last year and he decided it was 151 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 4: best to move out for a while. 152 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 2: I agreed with him, so he went to stay with 153 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 2: his dad. 154 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: Facts. 155 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 4: His son, our sons, seventeen, been living with my husband's 156 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 4: dad for his senior year to be close to the 157 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 4: school and to drive his granddaddy's old Camaro. 158 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: It was an ideal situation for the three of them. 159 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: Fac. 160 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 4: I thought, my husband gonna serve you with divorce papers 161 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 4: then on Christmas, but did he? After Christmas? He asked 162 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 4: if we could go counseling together with him. I agreed. 163 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: They went to see a therapist for two months. 164 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 4: He got mad at the therapist because the male therapist 165 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 4: was taking his side, so they stopped going to a 166 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 4: therapy fast. 167 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: Well. 168 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 4: Then they found out while they was in therapy that 169 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 4: he cheated on the woman, and then he told her 170 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 4: it was because I'm not attracted to you. 171 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 3: Ooh, facts, So what. 172 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 2: Are we talking about now? 173 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 4: You know? Then he hit you with a double woman 174 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 4: told you he wanted to move back home, and I 175 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,599 Speaker 4: couldn't say no because it's his house too. So he 176 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 4: been back since. Mate, his body's here. 177 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 3: But not his mind back facts. 178 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 4: All right, now that's over with. So now, ladies, listen 179 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 4: to this. When I talked to him, he smiles and nods. 180 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 4: I know he's not paying attention to me, and I 181 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 4: thought that when he came back home, I gave a 182 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 4: knight to remember, but he ain't touched me since. And 183 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 4: so now I tried to shower with him, he locked 184 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 4: the bathroom door. Why would he come back home without 185 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 4: changing his behavior? I cannot live like this? Should I 186 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 4: be the one that calls it quits this time? 187 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 2: Help? 188 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 3: Please? 189 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 4: I think you should call it quits because I see 190 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 4: nothing in here that no redeeming qualities in here. Y'all 191 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 4: separated because he was going bad. All of y'all agreed. 192 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: He went over that. Now why did he come back? 193 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: It's what you don't know. 194 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 4: Because see, your son got somebody of it because he 195 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 4: driving the carter. Still, yeah, your daddy, his daddy got 196 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 4: somebody because he finally has some company. But it ain't 197 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 4: good when all when three men live in the house, 198 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 4: an old man, ranged man, and a young boy, ain't 199 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 4: nothing clean in that house. Your husband got out of 200 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 4: there because at least he can come back home. And 201 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 4: he came home for convenience, not for you. 202 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 2: Now, that's all it was. So. 203 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 4: Now, ladies, ask me anything you are or creator sener, 204 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 4: and I will tell you how an unconcerned her husband 205 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 4: reacts because she said, his body's here, but not his mind. 206 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: When I talked to him, he nods and smiles, But 207 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 2: I know he ain't this. I ain't going ahead. 208 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 3: Go ahead, Carling asked, goohead. 209 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 5: Babe, Baby, you're gonna season the ribs and the wings 210 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 5: for this weekend. 211 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 2: For Memorial Day for the barbecue everybody. 212 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 213 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, cause you know what? Yeah, I guess I love good. 214 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: You want some salt and pep on that? 215 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 5: Yeah? You do your thing, baby, rub do it. 216 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: There's there's some people, there's some people coming over the weekend. 217 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 5: Yes, are you with me? 218 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 2: Do you want to see what I'm saying? 219 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 5: Get to meet ready barbecue Mary eight? 220 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: Just a little early for fourth of July. 221 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 5: It's Memorial Day, babe, listening three day weekends. If I 222 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 5: can count on you for that? 223 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, I can't say it. No real days, baby. 224 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 3: I bought this outfit. 225 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go try it on, and I want you 226 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: to let me know how it looks something, because I 227 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: was thinking about wearing this to the cookout. 228 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 4: You like it? 229 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: I look at it? 230 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: Just you like its just some shorts in a little top, 231 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: or I can put the sun dress on? 232 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 3: Which one you like the best? 233 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 2: You're gonna wear a dress? 234 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 5: Hello? 235 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? Are you attention? You like the sun dress on me? 236 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 2: If? 237 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 4: Well, where's you're going Sunday to the. 238 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 3: Cookout, to the cookout. 239 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 4: The cookout ain't until Labor Day. Hey, baby, stay right there. 240 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 4: I gotta I gotta go to the store. I gotta 241 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 4: go get some salt polka. I got seasoned to. 242 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 3: These shorts. So how does it make my butt look? 243 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 3: These shorts look? That's cute. 244 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: Not what I do. 245 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 4: Need some most shouts. Hellol's got elastic. Elastic popped in 246 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 4: the last pair of shouts I had. 247 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: Have you seen them? 248 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 3: Are you listening to me at all? Are you listening 249 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: to me at all? Nothing? 250 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 4: My mind is here with you, but my mind is 251 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 4: on the side of time. 252 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: All right. 253 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 3: You see how I was going? Yeah, this marriage? 254 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: All right? 255 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: Leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on the Instagram 256 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 1: and Facebook at Steve Harvey FM and check us out 257 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: in the call. 258 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 4: Tell him to pick me up in that Camaro because 259 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 4: I got to get out to the stove for Closed. 260 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: Friday podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. 261 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 3: Coming up next to is Junior and Sports Talk. 262 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.