Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. The email for today's second
Speaker 1: date update said, help, I went out on the most
Speaker 1: romantic date of my life and now he isn't calling
Speaker 1: me back. So I'm assuming if it's the most romantic
Speaker 1: date of your entire life, ski ball must have been involved,
Speaker 1: and probably a quarter pounder. I would maybe finish up
Speaker 1: the evening with a dipped soft serve cone. That is
Speaker 1: that is romantic? Good. We'll have to ask Heather and
Speaker 1: find out if that's what happened, though, Heather, how are you? Hey?
Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you guys doing good? So you
Speaker 1: went out on the most romantic date of your life
Speaker 1: and now the dude isn't getting back to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did it involve any of those things? Did you guys
Speaker 1: play skiball? No? No, yeah, you said romantic, so I
Speaker 1: assume skiball do. Where do you meet the guy that
Speaker 1: you went on the most romantic date ever with? Well,
Speaker 1: he actually does business with my dad, and you know,
Speaker 1: my dad is the type of guy who's always like,
Speaker 1: you know, you should be my daughter. Yeah, and I'm
Speaker 1: usually pretty resistant, but he kept talking about this guy
Speaker 1: and just said he was really really great and he
Speaker 1: kind of convinced me, so I gave in. I guess
Speaker 1: you actually agreed to go on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: that your dad recommended. I know it sounds crazy, but
Speaker 1: he sounded like a great guy, and then I met
Speaker 1: him and he is. That's the craziest part. You actually
Speaker 1: had to own up to your father that he was right.
Speaker 1: That was the worst part. What's his name, by the way,
Speaker 1: the guy that you went out with, Trevor? Trevor? Okay,
Speaker 1: what was so special about him? First of all, he's
Speaker 1: like super good looking, funny, smart, intelligent. You know, I
Speaker 1: was skeptical, but he was everything my dad said. Yeah,
Speaker 1: really sounds like your dad had a crush on him.
Speaker 1: So what happened when you meet Trevor? Where'd you guys go?
Speaker 1: He took me to the rooftop of a building and
Speaker 1: there was this amazing dinner laid out with like flowers
Speaker 1: and wine. I mean he had to spent a lot
Speaker 1: of money set that up. Okay, wait, hold on, though
Speaker 1: I would almost be freaked out on a first date
Speaker 1: walking into that. That is a lot of pressure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was a little weird at first, but
Speaker 1: I go on so many dates where it's just like Hey,
Speaker 1: let's go to the bar and get drunk. You know.
Speaker 1: So when this happened, I was like not gonna say no,
Speaker 1: or a rooftop Was it a rooftop deck at a restaurant?
Speaker 1: Because the way you said it sounds like it was
Speaker 1: just a private thing. Yeah, it was just a private thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you hadn't hung out with this guy at all,
Speaker 1: Like did you know anything really about him yet besides
Speaker 1: what your dad told you. We like talked a little
Speaker 1: bit leaning up to it, and he just asked me
Speaker 1: what my favorite food were, and then when we got there,
Speaker 1: he had had chefs make my favorite foos. Wow, it's
Speaker 1: too much. You're doing too much there in my opinion. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you follow that up with a second date. My god,
Speaker 1: that's why he's not calling you back. He's like, well,
Speaker 1: I did the best I could and now it's over.
Speaker 1: We peaked already. Maybe, Well we had such a great
Speaker 1: time and he said that he couldn't wait to see
Speaker 1: me again. Yeah, how did you guys end everything? Helicopter ride?
Speaker 1: So I just on the way back to our cards,
Speaker 1: he like stopped me and he said he really wants
Speaker 1: to kiss me. But then he's like, I'm a gentleman,
Speaker 1: and you know, I want to treat you with respect,
Speaker 1: so I want to wait a couple more dates to
Speaker 1: kiss you. Oh my god, I'm playing it so good. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, but oh my gosh, I'm bush. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: best date of my life. Yeah, I mean, it almost
Speaker 1: feel unreal, the whole thing, like it was all just
Speaker 1: a dream. It kind of did feel like that. And
Speaker 1: then after the date, we were texting for a couple
Speaker 1: of days and he was being really sweet and just
Speaker 1: telling me how much he wanted to see me again. Okay,
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, you just stopped texting
Speaker 1: me and I haven't heard from him. Have you had
Speaker 1: your dad check up on him? Well? No, I did
Speaker 1: ask my dad though if he talked to him recently.
Speaker 1: And you know, they don't work directly together, they just
Speaker 1: do business together. So he said he hadn't talked to
Speaker 1: Trevor in a while and hadn't heard from him, and
Speaker 1: he said he would call. But I just thought that
Speaker 1: was too weird. Yeah, yeah, Trevor, Yeah, this is mister
Speaker 1: Heather here. What's going on, Bud? Why A you're not
Speaker 1: calling my daughter back? That would be awkward? Yeah, exactly?
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you could think of why he
Speaker 1: would just stop talking to you. Um No, I mean
Speaker 1: we had a great date. I don't think so. He
Speaker 1: was the one being ultra romantic, so I can't imagine
Speaker 1: he was scared. And the follow up emails about how
Speaker 1: we can't wait to see you, like why would you
Speaker 1: even go there? Ye, the whole thing just confuses me.
Speaker 1: I have no idea why he would just completely drop
Speaker 1: out of my life like that. Well, we'll try to
Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Will play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. Okay, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: They say that romance is dead, but that's not true.
Speaker 1: Romance isn't dead. It just doesn't want to talk to you.
Speaker 1: That's what happened for today's second date update. If you're
Speaker 1: just joining us, Heather is on the phone. She actually
Speaker 1: went out on the most romantic date she's ever been
Speaker 1: on with a guy named Trevor, and now Trevor isn't
Speaker 1: calling her back. They actually met through her father, who
Speaker 1: does business with Trevor. I guess her dad's one of
Speaker 1: those guys that always recommends that people should date his daughter.
Speaker 1: You know how, that goes, and she's usually skeptical, but
Speaker 1: she actually went out with this dude and it ended
Speaker 1: up being the best date she's ever been on. I'd say, so,
Speaker 1: now we need to call him and figure out why
Speaker 1: he's not getting back to her. Heather, here we go,
Speaker 1: ready to call him. Yep, I'm ready. I just really
Speaker 1: want to know what's happening. I'm the best date of
Speaker 1: my life. I'm really hoping for a reasonable explanation. But
Speaker 1: if I was gonna play bad cop, do you think
Speaker 1: that there's any way that this guy may be like
Speaker 1: a super player and like you know, the private chef's,
Speaker 1: the rooftop dinner, the line at the end with the kiss. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but those types of guys, you know, they just want
Speaker 1: to hook up with you and leave, And that never
Speaker 1: even happened. Unplus, he spent a couple of days chexting
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, he didn't even He didn't even kiss you.
Speaker 1: He actually said, I want to kiss you so bad
Speaker 1: right now, but I'm a gentleman and I can't even
Speaker 1: When you say that, it makes my heart melt and
Speaker 1: you're not even Oh my god, I feel to say, wait,
Speaker 1: I'm not even you all right? Well, let's call this
Speaker 1: dude and find out why he's not getting back to you. Hello, all,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Trevor. This is Trevor. What you
Speaker 1: got Trevor? How are you? Man? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. What is that? That
Speaker 1: is a radio show? Jew Bil is your name? Yes
Speaker 1: it is? How are you? I'm great? Good morning? What
Speaker 1: can I do for the morning? Well? I actually have
Speaker 1: a question about a date that you went on. One
Speaker 1: of our listeners emailed us about you, and I'll just
Speaker 1: get to brass tacks. I can tell you're a business
Speaker 1: kind of guy. Yeah, straight to the point here. Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever would you need to do? All right? So here's
Speaker 1: the deal. You recently went out with a girl named Heather.
Speaker 1: You remember going out with Heather? I do remember going
Speaker 1: out with Heather? Yes? Why are you asking me about
Speaker 1: it now? Well, because Heather emailed us saying that after
Speaker 1: your date, which was the most romantic date she's ever
Speaker 1: been on, by the way, after your date, you stop
Speaker 1: texting her and she's wondering why. Wow, that is at
Speaker 1: the real grown up move there, Heather? What wait? I
Speaker 1: don't get it, Like, are you upset by that? Or
Speaker 1: you mean sarcastic, or that she emailed the radio station
Speaker 1: to complain about why I'm not calling her after our date,
Speaker 1: not to complain about it. She's just like in the dark.
Speaker 1: She doesn't know why you stopped talking to her. M Well,
Speaker 1: all I can say is I'm good there. You're good there. Wait,
Speaker 1: you're you're telling me that you're good there. And you
Speaker 1: put that much effort into a first date. We talked
Speaker 1: to Heather and she told us about the date you
Speaker 1: took her on the private meal on a rooftop with
Speaker 1: all of her favorite foods made by private chefs. That's
Speaker 1: a lot to do for a lady. That's kind of
Speaker 1: just what I do. That's what you do on all
Speaker 1: your first dates. No, it's just kind of what I
Speaker 1: do in life. It's little details are important and if
Speaker 1: you can ace the details, and you're gonna as the test. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so this so this wasn't even that crazy of a
Speaker 1: first date for you for me, No, for her, it
Speaker 1: was for her. Yeah, Okay, I knew. I knew it
Speaker 1: would be that way. And that's I mean it with
Speaker 1: all by design way I've confused. The way she described you,
Speaker 1: you were charming you were romantic, and right now you're
Speaker 1: coming off as kind of a smug a hole. Well,
Speaker 1: you called me in the middle of my business a
Speaker 1: day in the situation like this, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: be particularly happy about it, all right, So we can
Speaker 1: get you on the phone as quick as possible, if
Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind just telling us why you're not wanting
Speaker 1: to talk to her. Look, we had a lovely time
Speaker 1: and I got what I wanted out of the digg
Speaker 1: get what you wanted out of it, But yeah, you
Speaker 1: didn't even kiss her at the end. What did you
Speaker 1: want out of it? Dinner? If you must know, I
Speaker 1: did it for a business deal. What you did it
Speaker 1: for a business deal? Going out with her? I don't
Speaker 1: get it. Yeah, I sometimes do business with her father.
Speaker 1: Yeah she told us that. And sometimes in a deal
Speaker 1: the numbers can all line up and it all look great,
Speaker 1: But it's truly the personal touch the closes. And this
Speaker 1: guy clearly had a fastbot for his daughter. She was
Speaker 1: a good looking gal. He mentioned that it might be
Speaker 1: a good idea that I date her, So I called
Speaker 1: her up and I took her on the best state
Speaker 1: of her life. You're telling me that you used her
Speaker 1: as a stepping stone in your little effing career. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that, no, but I will tell you that
Speaker 1: two days later I closed the deal. You are so
Speaker 1: you took her out just to close the deal with
Speaker 1: her father, not just to close the deal. We had
Speaker 1: a nice time, she had a nice time. I'm sure
Speaker 1: it wasn't a wasted night in her life. Yes, why
Speaker 1: you have texted her afterwards and you couldn't wait to
Speaker 1: see her again. You played with her emotions. You totally
Speaker 1: led her on. You're a total bar Look, you can
Speaker 1: call me names all you want, but I'm just being
Speaker 1: honest with you. Guys. You called me and I'm the
Speaker 1: one closing multi million dollar deals on a regular basis. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you didn't have to, Like I mean, couldn't you
Speaker 1: just go, yeah, sure, I'll got with your daughter and
Speaker 1: take her on a regular day and not try to
Speaker 1: be super romantic about it, so I should take her
Speaker 1: on the day. Hey, I don't know. Maybe you just
Speaker 1: don't use his daughter at all, and you're actually a
Speaker 1: good businessman and you make a deal without having to
Speaker 1: use somebody's daughter in the process of it. Listen, sweetheart,
Speaker 1: in business, you do whatever you need to do the deal. Okay,
Speaker 1: I closed the deal the day that you're doing things
Speaker 1: like that. You can come talk to me. But o
Speaker 1: and by the way, her dad offered her up. She
Speaker 1: wanted to take advantage of that structure. Yet you are
Speaker 1: and told he didn't offer me up. Oh my god, boy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, what what's going on here, Trevor. That's Heather.
Speaker 1: She's actually on the other line listening and wanted to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh that's hilarious, dude, is you can
Speaker 1: use me? You took me on this romantic dinner. You
Speaker 1: told me all these things, all these things that you
Speaker 1: loved about me, and how you wanted to see me again. Like,
Speaker 1: what the hell was that that was? And you had
Speaker 1: a great time, right, Yeah, I had a great time
Speaker 1: because I believe you really liked me. I do like you, Heather.
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean I'm going to marry you. That
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that we're obligated to have anything beyond that night.
Speaker 1: You are the biggest I have ever met in my
Speaker 1: entire life. I've never met the one as awful as
Speaker 1: you ever. I don't really have much a response to that.
Speaker 1: All I can say is that at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, ask yourself this question. Were you going home
Speaker 1: with me? If I asked you no, that's all the
Speaker 1: look in your eye at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: If I wanted to take you home with me one
Speaker 1: percent half and I didn't. I didn't even kiss you.
Speaker 1: I respectfully ended the night with you. So when it
Speaker 1: comes down to it, I was a true gentleman, no
Speaker 1: matter what you might think about. Really, really, you were
Speaker 1: a gentleman by wasting my time just to get a
Speaker 1: business deal with my father. At what point did I
Speaker 1: sign a contract with you that gave me any obligation
Speaker 1: with you whatsoever. You have an obligation just to be
Speaker 1: a good human being, Like life is not business. You
Speaker 1: don't do this to people. I never once treated you
Speaker 1: unkindly or disrespectfully until you called the radio station trying
Speaker 1: to call me out. He's right, He's not right. He
Speaker 1: didn't treat her badly when they went out. He treated
Speaker 1: her like an object. Okay, whether he said it to
Speaker 1: her face or not, that is totally that's as disrespectful
Speaker 1: as you freaking get about. I'd like to go out
Speaker 1: on a nice day. He stopped texting me completely, So, UM,
Speaker 1: I don't really think that that's treating me. Well, do
Speaker 1: you just leaving somebody hanging like that after taking them
Speaker 1: out on the mill date? You couldn't even just be
Speaker 1: honest and be like, actually went out with you to
Speaker 1: close the deal, like I have you even respected that
Speaker 1: a little more? But I had to call a radio
Speaker 1: station and get them to talk. It'll give me a freak.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell my dad to pull the deal with you, Like, Well,
Speaker 1: it's a little late to pull the deal. Deals closed,
Speaker 1: so it's not gonna happen. D Trevor, how do you
Speaker 1: have like zero remorse whatsoever? You know, I might feel
Speaker 1: a little bad about it, but when my bank account,
Speaker 1: I feel pretty good about how my business has gone.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you nurse. I feel sorry for you
Speaker 1: because you may say you have a bunch of money
Speaker 1: and you love your business, but you have no heart
Speaker 1: and no soul, and I kitty you, you're going to
Speaker 1: end up alone. Look, you never would have known about
Speaker 1: any of this if you hadn't done this whole thing
Speaker 1: that you're doing right now. I would have fantasy for
Speaker 1: the rest of your wife of the guy that you
Speaker 1: could have had. And oh, whatever happened to him, Well,
Speaker 1: we should have a nice time that night. Why not
Speaker 1: try to have another nice time? Trevor, would you like
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with Heather? I
Speaker 1: know you have money, but we'll pay for it. Please
Speaker 1: don't even offer that. I don't want to go for sure.
Speaker 1: You know what, Heather. I think there's another deal that
Speaker 1: might be good for your dad in a couple of months,
Speaker 1: So maybe we just wait until then. Oh, Trevor, I
Speaker 1: can guarantee you my dad will not be doing any
Speaker 1: more deals with you. Trevor. Thank you for being brutally
Speaker 1: honest with us. Yeah, anytime, Heather. I'm sorry you had
Speaker 1: to find out that you were just a pawn in
Speaker 1: his game of trying to get some business done with
Speaker 1: your dad. Yeah. I guess it goes to show you
Speaker 1: don't listen to your dad anymore. The text message in
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two says, I honestly like
Speaker 1: this guy's style. I'm a businessman and I would do
Speaker 1: the same thing to get my sale. He has money
Speaker 1: driven and she was leverage and he used it for
Speaker 1: an jewel in the morning. Talking about the second day
Speaker 1: at update, if you missed it, this girl Heather wanted
Speaker 1: to call a dude named Trevor. Trevor took her out
Speaker 1: on the most amazing date she's ever been on. She
Speaker 1: went out with Trevor because her dad was like, Hey,
Speaker 1: I know this guy. I do business with him. He's
Speaker 1: really great. You should go out with him. Her dad
Speaker 1: does that all the time. I guess she usually says no,
Speaker 1: but she said yes this time and had a wonderful date.
Speaker 1: We got Trevor on the phone to find out why
Speaker 1: he wasn't calling back, and it turns out he just
Speaker 1: went out with her so he could close a deal
Speaker 1: with her dad. He said he wanted to show her
Speaker 1: the best time of her life, and he did so
Speaker 1: that she would go back to her dad and like,
Speaker 1: rave about it and you could get the deal done.
Speaker 1: This worked, Rose. I mean, I don't know how people
Speaker 1: are supporting him. He's using like another human being as
Speaker 1: a pawn in a business deal that has nothing to do.
Speaker 1: Like maybe if she was involved in the business or something,
Speaker 1: I would maybe understand it a little bit more. I
Speaker 1: actually thought this guy's gonna ripped more than he is. Well, there,
Speaker 1: it's pretty split. There's a lot of people are like
Speaker 1: he's kind of a douchebag, but there are a lot
Speaker 1: of people texting and like, man, you gotta do what
Speaker 1: you gotta do to get a sale done. Yeah he didn't.
Speaker 1: He didn't kiss her, didn't do anything like that. He
Speaker 1: just took her out on a great date, showed her
Speaker 1: a great time, and got the business done. And I guess,
Speaker 1: according to our text message boarding, our listeners, that's what
Speaker 1: life is all about. Yeah, you ever messed up, We
Speaker 1: need to talk priorities. If you okay, I want to
Speaker 1: do a second date, update, if to do his email
Speaker 1: the show, and we will call the person who didn't
Speaker 1: call you back