WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Go on Dates and Close Deals

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. The email for today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update said, help, I went out on the most

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<v Speaker 1>romantic date of my life and now he isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>me back. So I'm assuming if it's the most romantic

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<v Speaker 1>date of your entire life, ski ball must have been involved,

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<v Speaker 1>and probably a quarter pounder. I would maybe finish up

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<v Speaker 1>the evening with a dipped soft serve cone. That is

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<v Speaker 1>that is romantic? Good. We'll have to ask Heather and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if that's what happened, though, Heather, how are you? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you guys doing good? So you

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<v Speaker 1>went out on the most romantic date of your life

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<v Speaker 1>and now the dude isn't getting back to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did it involve any of those things? Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>play skiball? No? No, yeah, you said romantic, so I

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<v Speaker 1>assume skiball do. Where do you meet the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you went on the most romantic date ever with? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually does business with my dad, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad is the type of guy who's always like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you should be my daughter. Yeah, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>usually pretty resistant, but he kept talking about this guy

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<v Speaker 1>and just said he was really really great and he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of convinced me, so I gave in. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you actually agreed to go on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that your dad recommended. I know it sounds crazy, but

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<v Speaker 1>he sounded like a great guy, and then I met

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<v Speaker 1>him and he is. That's the craziest part. You actually

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<v Speaker 1>had to own up to your father that he was right.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the worst part. What's his name, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that you went out with, Trevor? Trevor? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was so special about him? First of all, he's

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<v Speaker 1>like super good looking, funny, smart, intelligent. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was skeptical, but he was everything my dad said. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really sounds like your dad had a crush on him.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened when you meet Trevor? Where'd you guys go?

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<v Speaker 1>He took me to the rooftop of a building and

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<v Speaker 1>there was this amazing dinner laid out with like flowers

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<v Speaker 1>and wine. I mean he had to spent a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money set that up. Okay, wait, hold on, though

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<v Speaker 1>I would almost be freaked out on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>walking into that. That is a lot of pressure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was a little weird at first, but

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<v Speaker 1>I go on so many dates where it's just like Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to the bar and get drunk. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So when this happened, I was like not gonna say no,

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<v Speaker 1>or a rooftop Was it a rooftop deck at a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>Because the way you said it sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a private thing. Yeah, it was just a private thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you hadn't hung out with this guy at all,

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<v Speaker 1>Like did you know anything really about him yet besides

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<v Speaker 1>what your dad told you. We like talked a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit leaning up to it, and he just asked me

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<v Speaker 1>what my favorite food were, and then when we got there,

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<v Speaker 1>he had had chefs make my favorite foos. Wow, it's

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<v Speaker 1>too much. You're doing too much there in my opinion. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you follow that up with a second date. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he's not calling you back. He's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I did the best I could and now it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>We peaked already. Maybe, Well we had such a great

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<v Speaker 1>time and he said that he couldn't wait to see

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<v Speaker 1>me again. Yeah, how did you guys end everything? Helicopter ride?

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<v Speaker 1>So I just on the way back to our cards,

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<v Speaker 1>he like stopped me and he said he really wants

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss me. But then he's like, I'm a gentleman,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I want to treat you with respect,

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<v Speaker 1>so I want to wait a couple more dates to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss you. Oh my god, I'm playing it so good. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but oh my gosh, I'm bush. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>best date of my life. Yeah, I mean, it almost

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<v Speaker 1>feel unreal, the whole thing, like it was all just

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<v Speaker 1>a dream. It kind of did feel like that. And

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<v Speaker 1>then after the date, we were texting for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days and he was being really sweet and just

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<v Speaker 1>telling me how much he wanted to see me again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden, you just stopped texting

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<v Speaker 1>me and I haven't heard from him. Have you had

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<v Speaker 1>your dad check up on him? Well? No, I did

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<v Speaker 1>ask my dad though if he talked to him recently.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, they don't work directly together, they just

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<v Speaker 1>do business together. So he said he hadn't talked to

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<v Speaker 1>Trevor in a while and hadn't heard from him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said he would call. But I just thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was too weird. Yeah, yeah, Trevor, Yeah, this is mister

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<v Speaker 1>Heather here. What's going on, Bud? Why A you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling my daughter back? That would be awkward? Yeah, exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you could think of why he

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<v Speaker 1>would just stop talking to you. Um No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great date. I don't think so. He

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<v Speaker 1>was the one being ultra romantic, so I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>he was scared. And the follow up emails about how

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<v Speaker 1>we can't wait to see you, like why would you

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<v Speaker 1>even go there? Ye, the whole thing just confuses me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea why he would just completely drop

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<v Speaker 1>out of my life like that. Well, we'll try to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out for you. Will play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second date update. Okay, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>They say that romance is dead, but that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>Romance isn't dead. It just doesn't want to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happened for today's second date update. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us, Heather is on the phone. She actually

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<v Speaker 1>went out on the most romantic date she's ever been

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<v Speaker 1>on with a guy named Trevor, and now Trevor isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. They actually met through her father, who

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<v Speaker 1>does business with Trevor. I guess her dad's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those guys that always recommends that people should date his daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how, that goes, and she's usually skeptical, but

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<v Speaker 1>she actually went out with this dude and it ended

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<v Speaker 1>up being the best date she's ever been on. I'd say, so,

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<v Speaker 1>now we need to call him and figure out why

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<v Speaker 1>he's not getting back to her. Heather, here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>ready to call him. Yep, I'm ready. I just really

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what's happening. I'm the best date of

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I'm really hoping for a reasonable explanation. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I was gonna play bad cop, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that there's any way that this guy may be like

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<v Speaker 1>a super player and like you know, the private chef's,

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<v Speaker 1>the rooftop dinner, the line at the end with the kiss. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but those types of guys, you know, they just want

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up with you and leave, And that never

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<v Speaker 1>even happened. Unplus, he spent a couple of days chexting

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Yeah, he didn't even He didn't even kiss you.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually said, I want to kiss you so bad

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<v Speaker 1>right now, but I'm a gentleman and I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>When you say that, it makes my heart melt and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not even Oh my god, I feel to say, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even you all right? Well, let's call this

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<v Speaker 1>dude and find out why he's not getting back to you. Hello, all,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Trevor. This is Trevor. What you

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<v Speaker 1>got Trevor? How are you? Man? This is Jewil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. What is that? That

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<v Speaker 1>is a radio show? Jew Bil is your name? Yes

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<v Speaker 1>it is? How are you? I'm great? Good morning? What

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<v Speaker 1>can I do for the morning? Well? I actually have

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<v Speaker 1>a question about a date that you went on. One

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners emailed us about you, and I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>get to brass tacks. I can tell you're a business

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<v Speaker 1>kind of guy. Yeah, straight to the point here. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever would you need to do? All right? So here's

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<v Speaker 1>the deal. You recently went out with a girl named Heather.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember going out with Heather? I do remember going

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<v Speaker 1>out with Heather? Yes? Why are you asking me about

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<v Speaker 1>it now? Well, because Heather emailed us saying that after

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<v Speaker 1>your date, which was the most romantic date she's ever

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<v Speaker 1>been on, by the way, after your date, you stop

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<v Speaker 1>texting her and she's wondering why. Wow, that is at

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<v Speaker 1>the real grown up move there, Heather? What wait? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it, Like, are you upset by that? Or

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<v Speaker 1>you mean sarcastic, or that she emailed the radio station

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<v Speaker 1>to complain about why I'm not calling her after our date,

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<v Speaker 1>not to complain about it. She's just like in the dark.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know why you stopped talking to her. M Well,

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<v Speaker 1>all I can say is I'm good there. You're good there. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're telling me that you're good there. And you

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<v Speaker 1>put that much effort into a first date. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Heather and she told us about the date you

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<v Speaker 1>took her on the private meal on a rooftop with

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<v Speaker 1>all of her favorite foods made by private chefs. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to do for a lady. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just what I do. That's what you do on all

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<v Speaker 1>your first dates. No, it's just kind of what I

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<v Speaker 1>do in life. It's little details are important and if

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<v Speaker 1>you can ace the details, and you're gonna as the test. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so this so this wasn't even that crazy of a

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<v Speaker 1>first date for you for me, No, for her, it

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<v Speaker 1>was for her. Yeah, Okay, I knew. I knew it

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<v Speaker 1>would be that way. And that's I mean it with

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<v Speaker 1>all by design way I've confused. The way she described you,

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<v Speaker 1>you were charming you were romantic, and right now you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming off as kind of a smug a hole. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you called me in the middle of my business a

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<v Speaker 1>day in the situation like this, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be particularly happy about it, all right, So we can

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone as quick as possible, if

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't mind just telling us why you're not wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her. Look, we had a lovely time

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<v Speaker 1>and I got what I wanted out of the digg

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<v Speaker 1>get what you wanted out of it, But yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even kiss her at the end. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>want out of it? Dinner? If you must know, I

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<v Speaker 1>did it for a business deal. What you did it

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<v Speaker 1>for a business deal? Going out with her? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Yeah, I sometimes do business with her father.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah she told us that. And sometimes in a deal

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<v Speaker 1>the numbers can all line up and it all look great,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's truly the personal touch the closes. And this

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<v Speaker 1>guy clearly had a fastbot for his daughter. She was

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<v Speaker 1>a good looking gal. He mentioned that it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea that I date her, So I called

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<v Speaker 1>her up and I took her on the best state

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<v Speaker 1>of her life. You're telling me that you used her

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<v Speaker 1>as a stepping stone in your little effing career. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying that, no, but I will tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>two days later I closed the deal. You are so

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<v Speaker 1>you took her out just to close the deal with

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<v Speaker 1>her father, not just to close the deal. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time, she had a nice time. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a wasted night in her life. Yes, why

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<v Speaker 1>you have texted her afterwards and you couldn't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>see her again. You played with her emotions. You totally

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<v Speaker 1>led her on. You're a total bar Look, you can

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<v Speaker 1>call me names all you want, but I'm just being

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. Guys. You called me and I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>one closing multi million dollar deals on a regular basis. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't have to, Like I mean, couldn't you

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<v Speaker 1>just go, yeah, sure, I'll got with your daughter and

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<v Speaker 1>take her on a regular day and not try to

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<v Speaker 1>be super romantic about it, so I should take her

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<v Speaker 1>on the day. Hey, I don't know. Maybe you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't use his daughter at all, and you're actually a

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<v Speaker 1>good businessman and you make a deal without having to

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<v Speaker 1>use somebody's daughter in the process of it. Listen, sweetheart,

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<v Speaker 1>in business, you do whatever you need to do the deal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I closed the deal the day that you're doing things

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You can come talk to me. But o

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<v Speaker 1>and by the way, her dad offered her up. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to take advantage of that structure. Yet you are

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<v Speaker 1>and told he didn't offer me up. Oh my god, boy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, what what's going on here, Trevor. That's Heather.

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<v Speaker 1>She's actually on the other line listening and wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Oh that's hilarious, dude, is you can

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<v Speaker 1>use me? You took me on this romantic dinner. You

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<v Speaker 1>told me all these things, all these things that you

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<v Speaker 1>loved about me, and how you wanted to see me again. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell was that that was? And you had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, right, Yeah, I had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>because I believe you really liked me. I do like you, Heather.

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<v Speaker 1>But that doesn't mean I'm going to marry you. That

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that we're obligated to have anything beyond that night.

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<v Speaker 1>You are the biggest I have ever met in my

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<v Speaker 1>entire life. I've never met the one as awful as

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<v Speaker 1>you ever. I don't really have much a response to that.

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<v Speaker 1>All I can say is that at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, ask yourself this question. Were you going home

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<v Speaker 1>with me? If I asked you no, that's all the

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<v Speaker 1>look in your eye at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>If I wanted to take you home with me one

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<v Speaker 1>percent half and I didn't. I didn't even kiss you.

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<v Speaker 1>I respectfully ended the night with you. So when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes down to it, I was a true gentleman, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what you might think about. Really, really, you were

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman by wasting my time just to get a

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<v Speaker 1>business deal with my father. At what point did I

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<v Speaker 1>sign a contract with you that gave me any obligation

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<v Speaker 1>with you whatsoever. You have an obligation just to be

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<v Speaker 1>a good human being, Like life is not business. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't do this to people. I never once treated you

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<v Speaker 1>unkindly or disrespectfully until you called the radio station trying

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<v Speaker 1>to call me out. He's right, He's not right. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't treat her badly when they went out. He treated

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<v Speaker 1>her like an object. Okay, whether he said it to

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<v Speaker 1>her face or not, that is totally that's as disrespectful

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<v Speaker 1>as you freaking get about. I'd like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a nice day. He stopped texting me completely, So, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really think that that's treating me. Well, do

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<v Speaker 1>you just leaving somebody hanging like that after taking them

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<v Speaker 1>out on the mill date? You couldn't even just be

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<v Speaker 1>honest and be like, actually went out with you to

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<v Speaker 1>close the deal, like I have you even respected that

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<v Speaker 1>a little more? But I had to call a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station and get them to talk. It'll give me a freak.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell my dad to pull the deal with you, Like, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little late to pull the deal. Deals closed,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not gonna happen. D Trevor, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>have like zero remorse whatsoever? You know, I might feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little bad about it, but when my bank account,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel pretty good about how my business has gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you nurse. I feel sorry for you

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<v Speaker 1>because you may say you have a bunch of money

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<v Speaker 1>and you love your business, but you have no heart

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<v Speaker 1>and no soul, and I kitty you, you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>end up alone. Look, you never would have known about

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<v Speaker 1>any of this if you hadn't done this whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing right now. I would have fantasy for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your wife of the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>could have had. And oh, whatever happened to him, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we should have a nice time that night. Why not

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<v Speaker 1>try to have another nice time? Trevor, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date with Heather? I

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<v Speaker 1>know you have money, but we'll pay for it. Please

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<v Speaker 1>don't even offer that. I don't want to go for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, Heather. I think there's another deal that

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<v Speaker 1>might be good for your dad in a couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe we just wait until then. Oh, Trevor, I

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<v Speaker 1>can guarantee you my dad will not be doing any

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<v Speaker 1>more deals with you. Trevor. Thank you for being brutally

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<v Speaker 1>honest with us. Yeah, anytime, Heather. I'm sorry you had

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<v Speaker 1>to find out that you were just a pawn in

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<v Speaker 1>his game of trying to get some business done with

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<v Speaker 1>your dad. Yeah. I guess it goes to show you

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen to your dad anymore. The text message in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two says, I honestly like

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's style. I'm a businessman and I would do

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing to get my sale. He has money

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<v Speaker 1>driven and she was leverage and he used it for

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<v Speaker 1>an jewel in the morning. Talking about the second day

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<v Speaker 1>at update, if you missed it, this girl Heather wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a dude named Trevor. Trevor took her out

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<v Speaker 1>on the most amazing date she's ever been on. She

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<v Speaker 1>went out with Trevor because her dad was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this guy. I do business with him. He's

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<v Speaker 1>really great. You should go out with him. Her dad

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<v Speaker 1>does that all the time. I guess she usually says no,

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<v Speaker 1>but she said yes this time and had a wonderful date.

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<v Speaker 1>We got Trevor on the phone to find out why

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't calling back, and it turns out he just

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<v Speaker 1>went out with her so he could close a deal

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<v Speaker 1>with her dad. He said he wanted to show her

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<v Speaker 1>the best time of her life, and he did so

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<v Speaker 1>that she would go back to her dad and like,

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<v Speaker 1>rave about it and you could get the deal done.

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<v Speaker 1>This worked, Rose. I mean, I don't know how people

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<v Speaker 1>are supporting him. He's using like another human being as

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<v Speaker 1>a pawn in a business deal that has nothing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe if she was involved in the business or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I would maybe understand it a little bit more. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually thought this guy's gonna ripped more than he is. Well, there,

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty split. There's a lot of people are like

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of a douchebag, but there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people texting and like, man, you gotta do what

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do to get a sale done. Yeah he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't kiss her, didn't do anything like that. He

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<v Speaker 1>just took her out on a great date, showed her

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, and got the business done. And I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>according to our text message boarding, our listeners, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>life is all about. Yeah, you ever messed up, We

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk priorities. If you okay, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date, update, if to do his email

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back