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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. The email for today's second

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Speaker 1: date update said, help, I went out on the most

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Speaker 1: romantic date of my life and now he isn't calling

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Speaker 1: me back. So I'm assuming if it's the most romantic

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Speaker 1: date of your entire life, ski ball must have been involved,

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Speaker 1: and probably a quarter pounder. I would maybe finish up

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Speaker 1: the evening with a dipped soft serve cone. That is

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Speaker 1: that is romantic? Good. We'll have to ask Heather and

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Speaker 1: find out if that's what happened, though, Heather, how are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you guys doing good? So you

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Speaker 1: went out on the most romantic date of your life

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Speaker 1: and now the dude isn't getting back to you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did it involve any of those things? Did you guys

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Speaker 1: play skiball? No? No, yeah, you said romantic, so I

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Speaker 1: assume skiball do. Where do you meet the guy that

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Speaker 1: you went on the most romantic date ever with? Well,

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Speaker 1: he actually does business with my dad, and you know,

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Speaker 1: my dad is the type of guy who's always like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you should be my daughter. Yeah, and I'm

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Speaker 1: usually pretty resistant, but he kept talking about this guy

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Speaker 1: and just said he was really really great and he

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Speaker 1: kind of convinced me, so I gave in. I guess

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Speaker 1: you actually agreed to go on a date with somebody

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Speaker 1: that your dad recommended. I know it sounds crazy, but

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Speaker 1: he sounded like a great guy, and then I met

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Speaker 1: him and he is. That's the craziest part. You actually

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Speaker 1: had to own up to your father that he was right.

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Speaker 1: That was the worst part. What's his name, by the way,

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Speaker 1: the guy that you went out with, Trevor? Trevor? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what was so special about him? First of all, he's

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Speaker 1: like super good looking, funny, smart, intelligent. You know, I

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Speaker 1: was skeptical, but he was everything my dad said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: really sounds like your dad had a crush on him.

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Speaker 1: So what happened when you meet Trevor? Where'd you guys go?

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Speaker 1: He took me to the rooftop of a building and

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Speaker 1: there was this amazing dinner laid out with like flowers

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Speaker 1: and wine. I mean he had to spent a lot

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Speaker 1: of money set that up. Okay, wait, hold on, though

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Speaker 1: I would almost be freaked out on a first date

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Speaker 1: walking into that. That is a lot of pressure. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it was a little weird at first, but

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Speaker 1: I go on so many dates where it's just like Hey,

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Speaker 1: let's go to the bar and get drunk. You know.

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Speaker 1: So when this happened, I was like not gonna say no,

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Speaker 1: or a rooftop Was it a rooftop deck at a restaurant?

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Speaker 1: Because the way you said it sounds like it was

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Speaker 1: just a private thing. Yeah, it was just a private thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you hadn't hung out with this guy at all,

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Speaker 1: Like did you know anything really about him yet besides

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Speaker 1: what your dad told you. We like talked a little

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Speaker 1: bit leaning up to it, and he just asked me

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Speaker 1: what my favorite food were, and then when we got there,

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Speaker 1: he had had chefs make my favorite foos. Wow, it's

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Speaker 1: too much. You're doing too much there in my opinion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you follow that up with a second date. My god,

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Speaker 1: that's why he's not calling you back. He's like, well,

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Speaker 1: I did the best I could and now it's over.

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Speaker 1: We peaked already. Maybe, Well we had such a great

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Speaker 1: time and he said that he couldn't wait to see

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Speaker 1: me again. Yeah, how did you guys end everything? Helicopter ride?

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Speaker 1: So I just on the way back to our cards,

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Speaker 1: he like stopped me and he said he really wants

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Speaker 1: to kiss me. But then he's like, I'm a gentleman,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I want to treat you with respect,

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Speaker 1: so I want to wait a couple more dates to

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Speaker 1: kiss you. Oh my god, I'm playing it so good. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean, but oh my gosh, I'm bush. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: best date of my life. Yeah, I mean, it almost

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Speaker 1: feel unreal, the whole thing, like it was all just

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Speaker 1: a dream. It kind of did feel like that. And

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Speaker 1: then after the date, we were texting for a couple

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Speaker 1: of days and he was being really sweet and just

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Speaker 1: telling me how much he wanted to see me again. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, you just stopped texting

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Speaker 1: me and I haven't heard from him. Have you had

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Speaker 1: your dad check up on him? Well? No, I did

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Speaker 1: And you know, they don't work directly together, they just

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Speaker 1: Trevor in a while and hadn't heard from him, and

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Speaker 1: Heather here. What's going on, Bud? Why A you're not

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Speaker 1: calling my daughter back? That would be awkward? Yeah, exactly?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything that you could think of why he

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Speaker 1: we had a great date. I don't think so. He

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Speaker 1: he was scared. And the follow up emails about how

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Speaker 1: we can't wait to see you, like why would you

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Speaker 1: even go there? Ye, the whole thing just confuses me.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea why he would just completely drop

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Speaker 1: out of my life like that. Well, we'll try to

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Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Will play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. Okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: They say that romance is dead, but that's not true.

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Speaker 1: Romance isn't dead. It just doesn't want to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened for today's second date update. If you're

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Speaker 1: went out on the most romantic date she's ever been

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Speaker 1: on with a guy named Trevor, and now Trevor isn't

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Speaker 1: calling her back. They actually met through her father, who

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Speaker 1: does business with Trevor. I guess her dad's one of

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Speaker 1: those guys that always recommends that people should date his daughter.

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Speaker 1: You know how, that goes, and she's usually skeptical, but

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Speaker 1: she actually went out with this dude and it ended

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Speaker 1: up being the best date she's ever been on. I'd say, so,

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Speaker 1: now we need to call him and figure out why

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Speaker 1: he's not getting back to her. Heather, here we go,

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Speaker 1: ready to call him. Yep, I'm ready. I just really

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Speaker 1: want to know what's happening. I'm the best date of

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Speaker 1: my life. I'm really hoping for a reasonable explanation. But

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Speaker 1: if I was gonna play bad cop, do you think

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Speaker 1: a super player and like you know, the private chef's,

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Speaker 1: but those types of guys, you know, they just want

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Speaker 1: to hook up with you and leave, And that never

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Speaker 1: even happened. Unplus, he spent a couple of days chexting

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Speaker 1: He actually said, I want to kiss you so bad

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Speaker 1: right now, but I'm a gentleman and I can't even

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Speaker 1: When you say that, it makes my heart melt and

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Speaker 1: you're not even Oh my god, I feel to say, wait,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even you all right? Well, let's call this

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Speaker 1: dude and find out why he's not getting back to you. Hello, all,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Trevor. This is Trevor. What you

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Speaker 1: got Trevor? How are you? Man? This is Jewil from

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. What is that? That

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Speaker 1: is a radio show? Jew Bil is your name? Yes

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Speaker 1: it is? How are you? I'm great? Good morning? What

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Speaker 1: can I do for the morning? Well? I actually have

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Speaker 1: a question about a date that you went on. One

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Speaker 1: of our listeners emailed us about you, and I'll just

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Speaker 1: get to brass tacks. I can tell you're a business

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Speaker 1: kind of guy. Yeah, straight to the point here. Okay,

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Speaker 1: whatever would you need to do? All right? So here's

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Speaker 1: the deal. You recently went out with a girl named Heather.

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Speaker 1: You remember going out with Heather? I do remember going

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Speaker 1: out with Heather? Yes? Why are you asking me about

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Speaker 1: it now? Well, because Heather emailed us saying that after

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Speaker 1: your date, which was the most romantic date she's ever

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Speaker 1: been on, by the way, after your date, you stop

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Speaker 1: texting her and she's wondering why. Wow, that is at

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Speaker 1: the real grown up move there, Heather? What wait? I

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Speaker 1: don't get it, Like, are you upset by that? Or

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Speaker 1: you mean sarcastic, or that she emailed the radio station

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Speaker 1: to complain about why I'm not calling her after our date,

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Speaker 1: not to complain about it. She's just like in the dark.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know why you stopped talking to her. M Well,

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Speaker 1: all I can say is I'm good there. You're good there. Wait,

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Speaker 1: you're you're telling me that you're good there. And you

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Speaker 1: put that much effort into a first date. We talked

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Speaker 1: to Heather and she told us about the date you

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Speaker 1: took her on the private meal on a rooftop with

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Speaker 1: all of her favorite foods made by private chefs. That's

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Speaker 1: a lot to do for a lady. That's kind of

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Speaker 1: just what I do. That's what you do on all

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Speaker 1: your first dates. No, it's just kind of what I

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Speaker 1: do in life. It's little details are important and if

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Speaker 1: you can ace the details, and you're gonna as the test. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so this so this wasn't even that crazy of a

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Speaker 1: you were charming you were romantic, and right now you're

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Speaker 1: coming off as kind of a smug a hole. Well,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind just telling us why you're not wanting

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Speaker 1: get what you wanted out of it, But yeah, you

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Speaker 1: did it for a business deal. What you did it

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Speaker 1: for a business deal? Going out with her? I don't

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Speaker 1: get it. Yeah, I sometimes do business with her father.

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Speaker 1: the numbers can all line up and it all look great,

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Speaker 1: But it's truly the personal touch the closes. And this

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Speaker 1: as a stepping stone in your little effing career. I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying that, no, but I will tell you that

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Speaker 1: two days later I closed the deal. You are so

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Speaker 1: you took her out just to close the deal with

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Speaker 1: her father, not just to close the deal. We had

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Speaker 1: a nice time, she had a nice time. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a wasted night in her life. Yes, why

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Speaker 1: see her again. You played with her emotions. You totally

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Speaker 1: led her on. You're a total bar Look, you can

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Speaker 1: call me names all you want, but I'm just being

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Speaker 1: one closing multi million dollar deals on a regular basis. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't have to, Like I mean, couldn't you

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Speaker 1: just go, yeah, sure, I'll got with your daughter and

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Speaker 1: on the day. Hey, I don't know. Maybe you just

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