WEBVTT - Dear Banya: Big Bold Bright

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in with Bell and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 3>Scrub a dub.

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<v Speaker 4>A dub a dub dub dumb.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that was effortless.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, with Tan, I do I put a bronzer on

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<v Speaker 4>in the car in the parking.

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<v Speaker 5>Garage, not a lot of lights.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, my life is very glamorous, so I don't

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<v Speaker 4>maybe I put too much on.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't really, So you're giving like fresh from vacation, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>with the blonde, fresh blonde in the leather jacket.

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<v Speaker 5>Say it again, the fresh from the island. Yeah, island girly.

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<v Speaker 2>How are we doing today?

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<v Speaker 5>We're doing good. How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm great? And I know people are wanting an update

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<v Speaker 2>about something that we had scheduled for a lot. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you talking about are you talking about it? An update

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<v Speaker 2>about our drinks with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah j L.

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<v Speaker 4>We like to call her dale h.

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<v Speaker 6>And how did it go? Do you guys have a

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<v Speaker 6>good time?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't go. Okay, it did not, in fact make

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<v Speaker 4>it out of the group chat. It is still in

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<v Speaker 4>the group chat and in the works for twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 6>So wait what happened? Because she even said something about

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<v Speaker 6>like has she heard something you said on the radio,

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<v Speaker 6>and she said, all we have to talk about that

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<v Speaker 6>will get Yes, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a last minute, but 'tis the season and

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<v Speaker 4>she was not feeling well.

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<v Speaker 6>A lot going around, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>So, I mean it was like two hours before it

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<v Speaker 2>was like yeah. She was like, I hope you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>left yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, close. It was close, Haley.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, I knew she was going to cancel.

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<v Speaker 4>This was canceled not feeling well.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, you think she canceled? You just didn't want to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she Here's the thing. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't want to go get drinks with us.

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<v Speaker 4>But I sent the morning was it the morning or

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<v Speaker 4>the day before something like something? She heard that I

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<v Speaker 4>was on a cleanse on the air, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you can't be on a cleanse for our drinks date.

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<v Speaker 5>So she was like ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, But you know, how the day comes.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if anyone else releases in this room.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes the day comes and I think J. L. H

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of like see her being a becka when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to like social outings, like being very selective,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe the day comes and what day comes and

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<v Speaker 2>you're just like, man, it's been a really busy holiday season.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot going on. Do I want to get

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<v Speaker 2>out into the world this eve and go like get

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<v Speaker 2>drinks and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>If that were the case, I think she'd say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I have a lot going on.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right, you probably would.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she's not gonna make up.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm projected.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever done that? Have you ever faked being

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<v Speaker 4>sick to get out of something?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, that's what karma? Why though.

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<v Speaker 4>Being sick?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like it was a dirt. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>gift when people do it to me. Fortunately, I surround

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<v Speaker 2>myself with very like excited people who never cancel on me,

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<v Speaker 2>never get me the out.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually really appreciated j L h hitting or stup

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I sent her the text that she sent me, and

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<v Speaker 4>she was relieved. Honestly, I was like, oh finished.

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<v Speaker 6>Why.

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<v Speaker 4>I was relieved because it was Haley's last night before

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<v Speaker 4>she went to New York.

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<v Speaker 6>I was happy to spend Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't relieved, just like, oh, thank god it off

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<v Speaker 2>to do that. I was just like, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>the choice was in Santa Monica, which is a hell

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 5>To get to at like peak traffic hours traffic.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was gonna leave like an hour and a

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<v Speaker 2>half before.

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<v Speaker 4>So I had like already gotten ready. So I had

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<v Speaker 4>hair appointment that was already scheduled before I drink. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, Okay, I can make this work. I'll

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<v Speaker 4>finish my hair appointment around the time that I would

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<v Speaker 4>have to like leave to get to Santa Monica. So

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<v Speaker 4>I like got dressed, got my cute off it on.

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<v Speaker 4>I was wearing a freaking body suit thong bodysuit, so

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<v Speaker 4>I have like a thong up my whole hair.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I don't even know what that means. It hurts,

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<v Speaker 6>it hurts, It sounds awful.

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<v Speaker 7>Sounds bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I have snaps too, yep, right in the badge.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, someone needs to figure this out, because there's some

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<v Speaker 2>really cute bodysuit options.

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<v Speaker 4>However, Skims does do not quote me on that because

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know for sure spoiler alert, but I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like Skims has uh cap what do you call snapless

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<v Speaker 4>cross snapless crotches, magnets.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just fabric, which is way more pleasing for

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<v Speaker 2>the body. Yeah, not this hat between having a seamed

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<v Speaker 2>thong like with seams and then snaps right in the

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<v Speaker 2>center of your vagina. It's it's quite a commitment.

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<v Speaker 5>So I had a three hour hair appointment.

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<v Speaker 2>So your girl was like, you should have like unsnapped

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<v Speaker 2>him and just had him tugged for the appointment.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, hindsight.

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<v Speaker 5>I am sorry that hindsight.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing when I do that, if I cancel

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<v Speaker 2>and like fake sick, I do it like in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's like a nighttime thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, it doesn't make it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was saying, like, I feel bad that you

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<v Speaker 2>are already ready, Like that kind of makes you feel sad.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like sad cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was ready, Like I really, I was like.

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<v Speaker 5>Really snaps. So then I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 5>I have like four hours back in my day.

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<v Speaker 4>What should I do now. I was gonna like come

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<v Speaker 4>to your house, and then I looked at traffic and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I'm going home.

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<v Speaker 5>Mom's going home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I was gonna ask if you did a date

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<v Speaker 2>night or something.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we had something to get done that night. I

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<v Speaker 4>can't remember exactly what it was, but we had something

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<v Speaker 4>to do. So I was like, I'll just get a jumpstart.

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<v Speaker 6>So the streak is intact, the streak of not getting

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<v Speaker 6>together with guests who invite you guys to get together

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<v Speaker 6>still been broken. That's not been broken.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, and it's kind of like, what a beautiful way

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<v Speaker 2>to end twenty twenty four as opposed to breaking it

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<v Speaker 2>right before the new year.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm done with that. Yeah, so the new year, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>done with it.

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<v Speaker 4>In the new year, I'm breathing new life into this

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<v Speaker 4>and we are asking every guest, with everyone, every single guest,

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<v Speaker 4>to get drinks with us, right, and we'll see who's

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<v Speaker 4>the first to follow through and not just to make

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<v Speaker 4>the plans, to actually do the plans. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>j Yeah, jail h got to she got to M

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<v Speaker 4>in alphabet, but she did not get to Z.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but she might be the first.

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<v Speaker 4>In twenty five Sho might hit us up and say.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, girls, have a new year's schedule. Yeah, I'm feeling better.

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<v Speaker 2>You got your marriage license.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm feeling a little queasy right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going I know marriage lescense will do that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, no, no, have you.

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<v Speaker 5>You know everybody's getting sick right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I know if one celebrity who got sick but yes,

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<v Speaker 6>there's a lot going around.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you don't feel like people in your world are

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<v Speaker 4>all like dropping.

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<v Speaker 6>Like are getting sick.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's like that time of

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<v Speaker 4>year anyways. So I'm like loading up on all the

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<v Speaker 4>vitamins and I just took too, like like the liquid

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<v Speaker 4>liquid ones, like slurped them down in a row, And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling a little like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you're supposed to do that to in

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<v Speaker 2>a row. I just don't think you're supposed to do

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<v Speaker 2>it on like an empty stomach.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a while ago. Yeah, eight am, it's nude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did you work out?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So you haven't had anything to do. You had breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>and you just took a load of vitamins. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't imagine you're feeling great. Do y'all have? Is there?

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<v Speaker 5>Just sign?

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<v Speaker 4>Can just give me a minute to this down? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>We canno.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not just a sip of water.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So you went and got your marriage license?

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<v Speaker 4>I went go are Yeah, how did it feel? I

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<v Speaker 4>got really emotional about it. Every little thing we do

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<v Speaker 4>like makes me want to cry. It's like so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>What does Robbie do?

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<v Speaker 5>He doesn't cry? No, he gets excited, but he doesn't cry.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but like when you start crying, is he just

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<v Speaker 2>like oh cry, like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Got teary eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I don't know why I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>emotional like that we just got this, and he's like

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<v Speaker 4>cause it's really exciting and like you're an emotional person

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<v Speaker 4>and like you know you're not going to cry, So

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I won't cry either.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably because of the decor in the Beverly Hills

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<v Speaker 2>court House.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but you know they make you raise your right hand.

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<v Speaker 4>They like make you raise your right hand and say

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<v Speaker 4>like is everything on these papers? Whatever? Whatever? And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh, this feels like so official.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like yeah, girl, you're locking it in. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 2>both locking it in. Yeah, exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>It is very exciting. Well, but the courthouses are full,

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<v Speaker 4>let me tell you. The woman at the front was

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<v Speaker 4>like asking us if we were going to do a

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<v Speaker 4>ceremony at the courthouse and we were like probably, but

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<v Speaker 4>not till like next year, and she was like few, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like everyone's trying to get in and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like that's so weird, Like what a random time

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<v Speaker 4>of year to like get.

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<v Speaker 7>Your before the end of the year. You're trying to

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<v Speaker 7>lock something down, so.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, tax breaks and then people are scared that

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<v Speaker 4>their marriage rights are going to get taken away next Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>trying to get it in very Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, dang, well, you don't hear people say

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<v Speaker 6>few very often, you know, but that's the extra phone one,

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<v Speaker 6>an actual few few.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think she said fewew whew.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't get that reaction often these days.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh so, yeah, one step closer. We're in the We're

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<v Speaker 4>in the We're in the window because you get it

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<v Speaker 4>and then you have to get married within ninety days.

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<v Speaker 9>Wow, clock is tickn that's before March, right before after

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know, March twenty or yeah, yeah, okay, ninety days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sure. I'm sure she's done this.

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<v Speaker 6>Man, March eighteenth, ninety days from now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Correct, But you're gonna get the wedding right yeah, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, we're gonna lock it in

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<v Speaker 4>before yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's yore.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I just want to get as much

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<v Speaker 4>done before the new year than I possibly can. So

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<v Speaker 4>that was one more check off the off the lit.

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<v Speaker 2>My Cammeridge charged and ready to photograph the event, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>I went into the courthouse and it's like bright yellow

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<v Speaker 4>walls that says like love is love and.

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<v Speaker 5>They're bright yellow. But I went into like inspect it.

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<v Speaker 4>There's like a little corner that's like white and it

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<v Speaker 4>has like a very avant guard kind of photo. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe we can do it in that corner.

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<v Speaker 2>All took all her photos outside when it was they're beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>Shouldn't do any in the room in the chapel.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think they. I mean maybe I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>see those. She didn't post those. The room is really heinous.

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<v Speaker 2>And she sent me a picture and it was like

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<v Speaker 2>love is Love and I was like, but I do

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate the ally ship.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yes, big bold bright riders.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well it's exciting, very exciting. How was the Sonic premiere?

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<v Speaker 2>To talk about that one?

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<v Speaker 7>That was the coolest thing I have ever gotten to

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<v Speaker 7>do in my life.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 10>Becca Beca's like come with me as the Sonic premiere

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<v Speaker 10>and because like you can go watch the movie. And

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<v Speaker 10>I thought it was gonna be like Alison and I

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<v Speaker 10>like jogging place to the side of well, Becca does

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<v Speaker 10>her like famous person thing and then like we go

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<v Speaker 10>inside to watch the movie, but we got to walk

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<v Speaker 10>the blue carpet. We got to getty image out of it.

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<v Speaker 10>They held up a whiteboard of my name and they

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<v Speaker 10>took pictures of us. The two photographers took pity and

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<v Speaker 10>took pictures of us. We got to like have Sonic

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<v Speaker 10>chili dogs. We got to do the whole I got

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<v Speaker 10>to meet Sonic in the theater, just outside of the

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<v Speaker 10>Chinese theater. That was the coolest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 10>We had so much fun and the movie is amazing.

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<v Speaker 7>It's so good. I love Sonic. Yeah, it was unreal.

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<v Speaker 2>It was I truly had no idea how huge of

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<v Speaker 2>a premiere. It was like it was like Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 5>Chinese theater is like legit.

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<v Speaker 2>They always do the big ones, but it was it

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<v Speaker 2>was like one of the bigger premieres. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone to and like Jim Carrey there, I'm sorry, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>That franchise is like massive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean yeah, it was huge, and they put

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<v Speaker 2>us in like the there was like a space where

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<v Speaker 2>like a bunch of the like influencers and content creators went.

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<v Speaker 2>So they were had like the Alison got one of

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<v Speaker 2>the ring.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, they're getting these giant rings.

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<v Speaker 2>What did they do?

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<v Speaker 7>It was just a ring, just a ring.

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<v Speaker 10>They're just there were people had them. I don't know

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<v Speaker 10>where they got them. And then Allison was like, to

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<v Speaker 10>get that ring, and then I gave her a ring.

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<v Speaker 10>It was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>They were hard to get. People are like searching everywhere else.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, how did you get that?

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<v Speaker 2>Else?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what those do?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 7>They create portals.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, as one knows from the Sonic franchise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly. But we're seeing it tonight, so no spoilers.

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<v Speaker 2>They did announce so that Sonic four is in the works.

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<v Speaker 5>They did so.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend Avanti, who works at Paramount, sent it to

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<v Speaker 2>me and Tanya and was like, Tanya, here's your chance

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<v Speaker 2>to shine, your time to shine.

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<v Speaker 5>I said, put me in coach.

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<v Speaker 4>But I feel like if they already have a date

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<v Speaker 4>for it twenty twenty seven, I feel as though they've

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<v Speaker 4>probably already cast the crew.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a long time from now, twenty twenty seven.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, but knowing like like just Sophia's movie, what

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<v Speaker 4>takes a long time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know animation, but I feel like she makes

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<v Speaker 4>movies so far ahead.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah that I feel I don't think you should be discouraged.

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<v Speaker 6>You you have that state, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like that that we're not going in with

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<v Speaker 2>that attitude. But also it's like they probably are like,

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<v Speaker 2>this franchise is huge, so let's continue it. And they

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<v Speaker 2>already know they're gonna have a Sonic for but maybe

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<v Speaker 2>they haven't even written the scripture.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, bringing a new Sonic Hedgehog and there you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, maybe pitch maybe like a graphic designer to

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<v Speaker 2>draw up a little character, color her outfit and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh, and then get your voice audition ready. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we can just send them.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah the a clip, no problem, air check, I got you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really fun. It was cool to I felt.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, I feel so cool that I

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<v Speaker 2>got to bring them to something like that. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was gonna be more like a screening that type.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, well, this is so epic.

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<v Speaker 1>It was.

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<v Speaker 10>It was so yeah, it was just I can't stop

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<v Speaker 10>thinking about it. It was like so fun and again,

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<v Speaker 10>the movie's so good. There's a Beach Boys song in

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<v Speaker 10>the movie. I stood up and cheered. Seeing a movie

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<v Speaker 10>with like all the there's a bunch of Sonic fans

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<v Speaker 10>in there too. It was so fun because like anytime

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<v Speaker 10>some Sonic thing happened, everyone included like lost their minds.

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<v Speaker 5>I sent Savvy the video of you with trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Show them the TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he was like, that's so cool.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>It was kind of one of those where they would have.

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<v Speaker 5>Really thrived, I know, but he had to play that night.

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<v Speaker 2>So Sonic four though, yes, which one which will be

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<v Speaker 2>featuring you? It'll be even more special. Could have a

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<v Speaker 2>new baby in the picture too, Oh my god, like

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<v Speaker 2>a one year older.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't take babies to the movies though, No, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Could take them to like the event of it, and

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<v Speaker 2>then Robbie could take the kids, you know, the older kids.

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<v Speaker 4>When do you start taking kids to movies?

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<v Speaker 2>There were kids there. There was a lot of kids

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<v Speaker 2>like how.

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<v Speaker 5>Old, though not babies.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 6>We took Alie to Her first movie was she was

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<v Speaker 6>three three, I feel like, but it was like a

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<v Speaker 6>nature documentary. It was nothing too well louder. It was

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<v Speaker 6>Earth Disney's Earth.

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<v Speaker 7>I was two and my first movie was Young Guns

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<v Speaker 7>sorry Philip.

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<v Speaker 6>Guns movie.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was thinking four.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like that's a good age. We'll cross

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<v Speaker 2>that bridge once we arrive. Yes, but we do have

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<v Speaker 2>a Dear Bonnie episode today, so we are going to

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<v Speaker 2>get back. There's some there's some hard hitting emails and

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<v Speaker 2>problems that they need us to solve, you guys, So

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<v Speaker 2>lock in and we'll be back. All right. We are

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<v Speaker 2>back and with our final deer Bonia of the year.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, I'm getting like really sad. Like everybody's like, I

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<v Speaker 4>went to my last sculpt class of the year that

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<v Speaker 4>down for the year. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like, this is the LAS class. Make it a

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<v Speaker 5>good one.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what, Oh, I'm happy to hear that

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<v Speaker 2>they're taking time off for themselves though.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah the last one listen.

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<v Speaker 5>So sculpted out for there.

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<v Speaker 6>By the way, I don't want to have a goal

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<v Speaker 6>for twenty twenty five. I don't want to write a

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<v Speaker 6>need checks. That's what I've decided. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 6>write a single check in twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, checks twenty four in the check.

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<v Speaker 6>So what do you do when you get a bill

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<v Speaker 6>from the dentist office. I got a bill from the

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<v Speaker 6>dentist office two days ago. I'm like, well, crap, that's

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<v Speaker 6>the place to put or I call them and I

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<v Speaker 6>get credit.

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<v Speaker 2>Cards, upgrade your dent to get your dentists.

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't write checks anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that that dentist needs it.

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<v Speaker 2>That feels like a very doable I hope it.

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<v Speaker 6>But doctor's offices need to get with it.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't written a check for a doctor's office in How.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you paying your doctor's bills?

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<v Speaker 5>I really call them and I give them my bill,

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<v Speaker 5>my bill.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sitting on hold either. Have to figure something.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe two minutes of.

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<v Speaker 6>Hold, I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I never call a single person. I never write a

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<v Speaker 2>single check. It's all online.

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<v Speaker 5>Everything feels advanced.

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<v Speaker 6>I need to go to your doctors.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>F'm anonymous obsessed with the podcast Your Dynamic, and that

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<v Speaker 6>you released two episodes a week. I'm a news scrubber

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<v Speaker 6>from September of twenty four, while that's just a few

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<v Speaker 6>months ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Welcome.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm currently alternating between the newly released episodes and the

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<v Speaker 6>catalog of episodes past. I'm in my mid thirties and

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<v Speaker 6>I realized I had a strong connection with women. When

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<v Speaker 6>I was twenty nine. I met someone with whom I

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<v Speaker 6>had an undeniable connection, and initially things went well, but

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<v Speaker 6>I struggled with internalized homophobia, which conflicted with my beliefs

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<v Speaker 6>about being true to yourself and loving freely. I came

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<v Speaker 6>out to my family and some friends, and though it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't terrible, it was uncomfortable. I eventually retreated from the relationship,

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<v Speaker 6>partly blaming my partner for the pressure to come out

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<v Speaker 6>and push that part of myself aside, finding it easier

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<v Speaker 6>to date men, but I felt guilty, angry, and disconnected

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<v Speaker 6>from who I was. Listening to this podcast, recommended by

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<v Speaker 6>a friend, helped me reflect on my fears and inspired

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<v Speaker 6>me to embrace who I am. Hearing stories, particularly Becka's

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<v Speaker 6>journey to openly and proudly loving, made me realize how

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<v Speaker 6>much I was missing by hiding a vital part of myself.

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<v Speaker 6>I have since recome out with greater confidence and gotten

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<v Speaker 6>overwhelmingly positive responses, started exploring a new relationship with a woman,

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<v Speaker 6>and I feel happier and more at peace than I

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<v Speaker 6>have in years. Now, I'm at a crossroads. I haven't

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<v Speaker 6>come out to some long distance friends, not because I

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<v Speaker 6>don't trust them, but because of my own fears and insecurities.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure how to broach the subject without making

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<v Speaker 6>them feel like I didn't trust them or value our friendship.

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<v Speaker 6>I've had chances to share this part of myself, but

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<v Speaker 6>I've avoided it out of fear, often making excuses about

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<v Speaker 6>being busy or mentioning days with men to avoid the topic.

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<v Speaker 6>I'd appreciate advice on how to start this conversation in

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<v Speaker 6>a way that honors our friendship and builds understanding. Thank

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<v Speaker 6>you all for sharing your stories and for all the

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<v Speaker 6>laugh out loud moments and wishing you all happy holidays.

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<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying. This was so long ago for me, like

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<v Speaker 2>navigating when I first started dating Haley, and like coming

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<v Speaker 2>out to my friends, like having those conversations feel so foreign,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just remember, I'm all being positive, so I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have I also.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel like you didn't like call up any long distance

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<v Speaker 4>friends and said like, hey, by the way, I'm dating

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<v Speaker 4>a girl, Like I don't know if that's totally necessary.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think if it's someone that she's in like,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's a friend that she's talking to all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like if it's.

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<v Speaker 5>What what does one consider a long distance friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Like JoJo's a long distance friend, ah okay, a friend

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<v Speaker 2>who lives a long distances In my mind, I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 2>like old friends from high school that live in your hometown.

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<v Speaker 5>And then now you've moved away, blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like these are still people in her life,

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<v Speaker 2>they're just not part of her everyday life. So they

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<v Speaker 2>want to know, like that she's spending time with a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>got it. I think you just text them and be like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dating someone new and if they ask questions and

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<v Speaker 2>then you just are like, well she is, she's blah

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah. The thing is, because you're feeling insecure and

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<v Speaker 2>nervous about it, it's gonna come across. Everything is about

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<v Speaker 2>how you deliver information, right, So, like, if you're feeling

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<v Speaker 2>really excited about this person and you say it with

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<v Speaker 2>enthusiasm and you're not really focusing on the fact about

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<v Speaker 2>her gender, and you're more just like, she's amazing. This

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<v Speaker 2>is how we met. I think your friends are going

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<v Speaker 2>to be more receptive and see that you're happy and

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<v Speaker 2>confident in it, and I think that's going to make

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<v Speaker 2>them respond in a way that makes you feel seen

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<v Speaker 2>and encouraged by them. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we put so much pressure on ourselves and

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<v Speaker 4>I can't speak to the specific conversation of like coming

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<v Speaker 4>out to friends. But I feel like a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people have insecurities when they're dating, and like, let's say,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, some people that have kids feel insecure about

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<v Speaker 4>the fact that they have kids when they're dating. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's all about how you say it, you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>if you say I have kids, that's like a negative connotation.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you're like, oh, my gosh, you have the

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<v Speaker 4>cutest little dimples. My son has dimples like that, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like you're telling them without making it like a thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like taking that approach of just like

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<v Speaker 4>I think some times we bog ourselves down with having

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<v Speaker 4>to have like the perfect words, the perfect time, and

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<v Speaker 4>the perfect thing to say and have it be this

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<v Speaker 4>whole thing when in reality, like you're dating someone and

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<v Speaker 4>you're happy, Yeah, that's really all it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I was thinking though, aside you not even having

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<v Speaker 2>kid like more so from the perspective of you dating

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<v Speaker 2>someone with kids, it's kind of that same thing of

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<v Speaker 2>like if you were like, eh, he has kids, but

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<v Speaker 2>instead you're like, oh, yeah, have my fiance or his

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<v Speaker 2>son or you know, my step kids. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of excitement and confidence when you talk about it, so

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<v Speaker 2>it never I don't think ever felt like a thing

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<v Speaker 2>because it was something about it his life that you

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<v Speaker 2>were excited about. Right, So I think that is the

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<v Speaker 2>advice that I'd give, And I'm proud of you for

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<v Speaker 2>not pushing your true self and feelings to the side anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>because we do only have one life to live, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's I think it's so important to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>live your truth and also the people that that are

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<v Speaker 2>going to be in your life are going to respond

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<v Speaker 2>in a way where they're excited for you and see

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<v Speaker 2>you know your happiness.

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<v Speaker 6>Agreed to Tiny's point, though, I do think there is

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<v Speaker 6>something to live in your life and people can figure

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<v Speaker 6>it out on their own. Isn't there something to just

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<v Speaker 6>kind of just live your life?

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<v Speaker 2>If I was like, oh my gosh, somewhere else get

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<v Speaker 2>like people that I haven't talked to in forever, but

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<v Speaker 2>like if like uh Tanya ali Jojo, like those are

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<v Speaker 2>all people that I was like excited to, like those

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<v Speaker 2>are people that are very much a part of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was like I can't not like I can't

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<v Speaker 2>just expect them to figure it out. And then they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, wait, you're hanging out with a girl. Why

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't you tell us? You know, I think there's

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<v Speaker 2>something about being confident enough and happy enough to be

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<v Speaker 2>excited to share that information with people that you love

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<v Speaker 2>and that love you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I also just I kind of agree with Mark.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, live your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You mean to tell me? If I was just living

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<v Speaker 2>my life and hanging out with Haley privately and didn't

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<v Speaker 2>tell you that, I would just be like figured it.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, figuring it out for yourself, and you were like

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<v Speaker 4>unsure and like scared or whatever. Like I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 4>offended if it took you longer than it took you

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<v Speaker 4>to tell me.

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<v Speaker 6>But also, you guys are besties. She's talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>Long distance friends. It doesn't even say besties. It says

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<v Speaker 4>long distance.

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<v Speaker 6>Friends already came out to family and friends. I feel

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<v Speaker 6>like this is a.

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<v Speaker 4>This is like you feeling the need to like call like.

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<v Speaker 7>That's pure buffering face the doctor.

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<v Speaker 4>That you worked for in San Diego to be like

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm dating Haley Kyoko.

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<v Speaker 2>Now this feels different than that. We don't know. All

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying is if this is, if this is someone

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<v Speaker 2>like Jojo in your life, that I think it's worth

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<v Speaker 2>it to pick up the phone and have the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Is someone like that used to San Diego. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>owe anyone anything if you're not ready correct.

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<v Speaker 6>I hope it is Jojo all right? Uh, I know

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<v Speaker 6>the akings are all in, so I don't need to

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 6>say that anymore. My boyfriend I just broke up, but

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<v Speaker 6>we still have so much love for each other. He

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<v Speaker 6>said he needed to grow an areas because he wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>the man he knew I deserved. He also said he

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't happy with himself and with his life and with

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<v Speaker 6>his work. It's really hard because there's still so much

0:25:14.880 --> 0:25:16.720
<v Speaker 6>love there. But I do believe he stopped pursuing me

0:25:16.920 --> 0:25:19.080
<v Speaker 6>a year ago. During the relationship. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 6>lost some of my feminine energy. And I'm curious what

0:25:21.400 --> 0:25:24.080
<v Speaker 6>Tanya did in her time post breakup from Robbie to

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<v Speaker 6>gain back her confidence, her feminine injury energy and work

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<v Speaker 6>on herself. Love you guys, the trigger.

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<v Speaker 4>Event, the trigger event. I worked out a lot. I

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<v Speaker 4>like channeled my energy into running and I would run

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<v Speaker 4>like nine miles.

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<v Speaker 2>You were crazy runner.

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<v Speaker 4>Then it was the only time that I could just

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<v Speaker 4>like not think about anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that sounds so cringe, like even like even

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<v Speaker 4>saying it. It's like just you in the in the road,

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<v Speaker 4>in the random just people walking around the neighborhood exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So I found a lot of like peace in that. Also,

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<v Speaker 4>your feminine energy, like when you're in your ovulatory phase

0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:14.200
<v Speaker 4>masturbating is like amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you allowed to say that?

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<v Speaker 4>On here?

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<v Speaker 6>Sure have fun?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>That I feel like makes you feel I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>like you. It feels you feel glowy. Is that what

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 4>you're asking she's asking about feminine energy? Yeah, it makes

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.679
<v Speaker 4>me glowy and like I can do it. I can

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<v Speaker 4>do this for myself. I don't need anybody else. I

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<v Speaker 4>got me myself and I So that would be my advice.

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<v Speaker 2>I also feel like even just getting yourself up and

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<v Speaker 2>ready to go places, because you probably don't feel like

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<v Speaker 2>going and doing anything but getting dinner with a friend

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<v Speaker 2>and like really dressing up and making yourself feel your best.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I don't think like I was going on

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<v Speaker 5>a first date any outing.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye I had Yes, even if she stayed home. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>she was dressed for her first date.

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<v Speaker 4>I was dressed for first date. Taking pics, yeah, posting

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<v Speaker 4>them up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would say do things that make you like

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 2>before you lost that, like what did you do that

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<v Speaker 2>where you felt confident in yourself? Like what were you

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<v Speaker 2>doing where you felt your best version, whether it was

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.280
<v Speaker 2>like going on walks whatever it looked like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I also like did a lot of It's

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:18.360
<v Speaker 4>probably not the best way to handle things, like in hindsight,

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:21.040
<v Speaker 4>but I would just like load up my schedule. I

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 4>would just like do all the things that I wanted.

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.160
<v Speaker 4>I would organize my like Monica Geller closet, I would

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:27.159
<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean, like gives give away like

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.840
<v Speaker 4>stuff that I wasn't wearing to the shelter, all that

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 4>kind of stuff that like you put on the back burner,

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:33.960
<v Speaker 4>and then you feel so good, you feel like accomplished.

0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 4>And that also gives you back like a lot of

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 4>confidence because you're like, yeah, like I can freaking do

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<v Speaker 4>anything anything anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck. Though I'm also glad that he acknowledged that

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 2>he wasn't able to be the person that would be

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:48.320
<v Speaker 2>a good I get it.

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<v Speaker 11>It feels like a cop out, Like every guy feels

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 11>like that's fine rather him ended then stay in a

0:27:55.680 --> 0:27:58.440
<v Speaker 11>relationship where he's not giving where he she feels like

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 11>he stopped pursuing her a year ago, so I'm like, she,

0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:03.480
<v Speaker 11>it sounds like maybe she wouldn't have ended it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel glad that he was, like, I'm doing

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<v Speaker 2>it for you, for us, because now she can tap it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like nobody's ever where they want to be when

0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:13.720
<v Speaker 4>they're at that, you know what I mean? Like, I

0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:15.600
<v Speaker 4>feel like, in correct me if I'm wrong. I feel

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:17.920
<v Speaker 4>like a lot of men when they're ready to propose,

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.439
<v Speaker 4>feel like they want to be wanted to be further along.

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<v Speaker 6>That was a major part of my my proposal speech

0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:26.200
<v Speaker 6>was how we are not where we want to be

0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 6>in life at this point, but I don't care.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, A lot of people feel that way. It's kind

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.240
<v Speaker 5>of like they just warn each other's people.

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:36.879
<v Speaker 2>But she he may have been feeling that was like,

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm not able to be the person you want, but

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 2>it'll probably be able to be that person for someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying he did her favor because she's about

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<v Speaker 2>to tap into her best self and meet her Robbie.

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<v Speaker 5>That's right.

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<v Speaker 6>So in summary, exercise, organization, and lots of quality time

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<v Speaker 6>with yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct?

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<v Speaker 5>Should I say it like that quality time not the

0:28:58.960 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 5>actual word?

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<v Speaker 7>I could say you want to say you can say

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:01.960
<v Speaker 7>the word, you just can't do it.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the beauty of Kanya. No filter.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm saying filter in podcast world? Are we allowed

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<v Speaker 5>to say that? On the Share.

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<v Speaker 6>The Rules podcasts?

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<v Speaker 3>Whew?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm jumping ahead one just so you're following along. Hi, Beca,

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<v Speaker 6>Mark Easton and Tanya Oh. I got second billing on

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<v Speaker 6>that one. That is rare.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 6>First off, I want to say how much I love

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 6>and appreciate all of you your podcast. It's been a

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 6>constant source of comfort and joy for me over the

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 6>past seven years, helping me through some of the hardest

0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:30.560
<v Speaker 6>times in my life. When I was first coming out

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:32.720
<v Speaker 6>to my parents, I posted in the scrubbing and Facebook

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 6>groups sharing that I was about to do it. In

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 6>an hour, I was flooded with supportive comments, including one

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 6>from Becca. My parents still haven't come around, and I'm

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 6>not sure they ever will, but I screenshoted those comments

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 6>and revisit them often on tough days. They remind me

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 6>I'm not alone, and I'm so grateful for that. After

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.160
<v Speaker 6>recent events, my girlfriend and I have decided to lope

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 6>so we can legally marry while it's still possible. We

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 6>are in Texas. We still plan to go through our

0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 6>originally planned proposals next year and have a bigger wedding

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 6>down the road. How I want to make this elopement

0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 6>feel special for my girlfriend, even though it's not how

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 6>we envisioned our timeline, and we'll be keeping it a

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.440
<v Speaker 6>secret for most of the people we know. For now,

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 6>to celebrate, we're having dinner with our closest friends who've

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.479
<v Speaker 6>always supported us. But I'd love your advice. How can

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:15.160
<v Speaker 6>I make this elopement feel meaningful and magical for my

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 6>partner even in the midst of these stressful and uncertain times.

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:21.479
<v Speaker 6>We've been together five years. Our journey feels so similar

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 6>to Becca's and Haley's. We've always looked up to you too,

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:26.920
<v Speaker 6>and would truly appreciate any advice for making this moment

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<v Speaker 6>as special as it deserves to be. Thank you so

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:32.000
<v Speaker 6>much for everything you do. Love you, guys, and happy holidays.

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I just feel so proud for you

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 2>because it is so hard to navigate unsupportive family and

0:30:43.800 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 2>friends like I. There were I think a lot of people,

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 2>because I didn't talk about my relationship for so long,

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:52.400
<v Speaker 2>think that it was all just like perfect and there

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 2>was no hiccups and everyone just showered us and support

0:30:56.760 --> 0:30:59.960
<v Speaker 2>and love. But that wasn't really the case, and there

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:02.040
<v Speaker 2>there's been a lot of progress since then, but it

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 2>was definitely not perfect, and like in those four years

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<v Speaker 2>of keeping our relationship private, there was a lot of

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 2>like heartache and therapy. But so first of all, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very proud of you for, you know, for getting through that,

0:31:17.640 --> 0:31:21.560
<v Speaker 2>because it's really really hard, and I am so sorry

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 2>that you're having to think about I'm so sorry that

0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 2>you're having to rush something that's so personal and exciting

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 2>because of the fear and what could happen in our

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:43.960
<v Speaker 2>country and in you know, different states. Sorry, I just

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 2>I haven't talked about this, and this is like the

0:31:49.040 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 2>reality for people.

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:56.320
<v Speaker 8>It's like they might not be able to you know,

0:31:56.560 --> 0:32:00.920
<v Speaker 8>love who they love or commit And I think it's

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<v Speaker 8>like such a reality because in reality, Haley and I

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 8>don't have anything to worry about in California, Like we're

0:32:07.440 --> 0:32:10.880
<v Speaker 8>in a state where like that's probably gonna be safe

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<v Speaker 8>for the most part.

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<v Speaker 3>But there's people like this who are having to rush.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you're getting to have your dream wedding and

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 3>not have to think about that at all, and not

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 3>everyone's gonna have that luxury in some places, and it's

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:30.440
<v Speaker 3>so meaningful and special, and I hate that you're even

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:38.800
<v Speaker 3>having to think about that. So I would say, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>think about the people that you want to be there,

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<v Speaker 3>because that is the truest celebration you want to when

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<v Speaker 3>you want it to feel full of love and people

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 3>who surround you with love and make it feel light and.

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<v Speaker 2>Magical, just sucks. Sorry. I don't want to make this

0:33:07.480 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 2>like sad thing because I'm also happy for them that

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:15.120
<v Speaker 2>they're getting married. I think it's just like you know,

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 2>you hear these stories and they're just like sad personal

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 2>But anyways, I think you have like beautiful flowers or

0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 2>find things that she loves, like I know Haley loves

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:35.480
<v Speaker 2>nature and art and color and so I would you know,

0:33:35.560 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 2>and she loves good food, like that's one of her

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 2>like passions is food. So making sure that all of

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 2>your favorite people and your favorite things are there, and

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 2>just making sure that that day feels only full of

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 2>love and excitement and not daunted by the reality of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the outside of it.

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<v Speaker 6>Idea throwing it out there and if this is crazy,

0:34:01.080 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 6>you can tell me. But it seems like one thing

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 6>that always makes a moment magical is live music. Could

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 6>you have a guitar player they're playing her favorite song?

0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 6>I feel that would be cool.

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:12.560
<v Speaker 4>I feel like you get to do I think like

0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:15.360
<v Speaker 4>when you do and it might be different in Texas,

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:17.720
<v Speaker 4>but I feel like you have that fifteen minute window

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:19.719
<v Speaker 4>to do whatever you want. So like, maybe you do

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.759
<v Speaker 4>make it up and do it as big as you

0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 4>possibly can and write your vows and document it and

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 4>have somebody live perform her favorite song and have somebody

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really know how it works with the efficient,

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 4>but somebody meaningful in your life there to do it,

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:43.359
<v Speaker 4>and like, do it up as much as you can,

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:45.760
<v Speaker 4>and don't make it like an elopement that's just an elopement.

0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Make it make it matter, yeah, make it feel like

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 2>yours and like what you know, it's almost like what

0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 2>you would do without the circumstance, but on a smaller scale,

0:34:57.719 --> 0:35:00.879
<v Speaker 2>and just you know, make sure that it makes sure

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 2>it's special for you too. I love the idea of

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:06.320
<v Speaker 2>having someone playing music and having like a few of

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:10.719
<v Speaker 2>your favorite songs played so y'all can dance and or like.

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 4>This might be crazy, but if you could take some

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:17.040
<v Speaker 4>of like the letters that she's written you and make

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 4>like some sort of a handkerchief out of it, or

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 4>like like I don't know, like, yeah, I'm thinking on

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 4>the spot here, but like take maybe some letters or

0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 4>maybe xerox them, not like the actual letters, and make

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:34.759
<v Speaker 4>like some sort of bouquet out of them, you know

0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 4>what I mean, like oregonmy flowers, like letters that she's

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 4>written you, or like post its or whatever, like something

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:42.440
<v Speaker 4>meaningful like that could be really sweet too.

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I think it's gonna beautiful. And I think

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:49.400
<v Speaker 2>that having the people who love you and support you

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:52.400
<v Speaker 2>being there is what's gonna make it so special. So

0:35:52.680 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy for you. Sorry for that breakdown, but.

0:35:56.880 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 4>We love you, and yeah, we love We're so happy

0:35:59.760 --> 0:35:59.920
<v Speaker 4>for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Let's break Yeah, we have a couple of fun ones

0:36:04.760 --> 0:36:08.160
<v Speaker 6>coming up that aren't so having an advicey and there

0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 6>are more just kind of fun comments, so we'll come

0:36:11.080 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 6>back with that.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are you

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<v Speaker 1>a Charlotte? In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever

0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:34.759
<v Speaker 1>changed when I took on the role of Charlotte York

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<v Speaker 1>on a new HBO show called Sex and the City

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:42.839
<v Speaker 1>as we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:46.279
<v Speaker 1>in New York City. The show helped push once unacceptable

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 1>conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:53.319
<v Speaker 1>around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them

0:36:53.440 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 1>as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I want to connect with you and share untoldies

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<v Speaker 1>and all the behind the scenes together with special guests.

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<v Speaker 1>What will begin with Sex and the City will evolve

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0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:10.280
<v Speaker 4>That are still so relevant today.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're back. This is just like the most

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:42.560
<v Speaker 2>shocking title I've ever seen for an email, So let's

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:43.360
<v Speaker 2>get right into it.

0:37:43.760 --> 0:37:48.799
<v Speaker 6>Rude the headline is which our producer Sam adds to these.

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<v Speaker 6>Tanya's opening line worked for me Hi Becka, Tanya Mark,

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:56.480
<v Speaker 6>and Easton O G Scrubber here. I've listened since the beginning,

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.320
<v Speaker 6>and one of the reasons why I love the podcast

0:37:58.400 --> 0:38:01.280
<v Speaker 6>so much was because I too was an early thirties

0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:04.360
<v Speaker 6>girly trying to find her forever guy. I found comfort

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:06.600
<v Speaker 6>and laughter in Becca and Tanya's dating stories, as I

0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:09.640
<v Speaker 6>knew all too well what they were experiencing. Tanya and

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:11.960
<v Speaker 6>I even had a similar experience in twenty nineteen. We

0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:15.160
<v Speaker 6>were both hosting guys we had been dating through FaceTime Doctor,

0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:19.320
<v Speaker 6>screen Time Wolf in our cities and meeting for the

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:21.440
<v Speaker 6>first time. I even talked to Ryan on the Morning

0:38:21.480 --> 0:38:24.160
<v Speaker 6>Show about it. In my late thirties, I struggled with

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 6>the possibility that might just be God's plan for me

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 6>not to be married or have a family, And after

0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:31.560
<v Speaker 6>every cry wondering why something didn't work out, I'd always say,

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:35.040
<v Speaker 6>God doesn't take away gold to give you silver, or

0:38:35.200 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 6>man's rejection is God's protection. Thank you, Tanya. Fast forward

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.200
<v Speaker 6>to twenty twenty two, I felt it in my heart

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 6>to download the apps again. I meshed with a cute

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:44.959
<v Speaker 6>guy my age that I'd never seen on there before

0:38:45.000 --> 0:38:47.360
<v Speaker 6>and sent him a message. It was Tanya's go to

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:53.200
<v Speaker 6>message from Harriot Days. I said Happy Tuesday. Thankfully, he

0:38:53.280 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 6>thought it was cute and responded. We hit it off

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:57.840
<v Speaker 6>and met for dinner a few weeks later. Two months

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 6>after that midweek greeting, he asked me to be as girlfriend,

0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:02.440
<v Speaker 6>and two years later to the date, he asked me

0:39:02.560 --> 0:39:04.800
<v Speaker 6>to be his wife. Thanks to the whole team for

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:07.160
<v Speaker 6>being a constant joy in my life of the encouragement

0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:10.719
<v Speaker 6>and positivity you bring through this podcast, including the reassurance

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:12.480
<v Speaker 6>I got from you all and Scrubbers that there are

0:39:12.600 --> 0:39:14.359
<v Speaker 6>good guys out there. I love you all.

0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:18.920
<v Speaker 5>Let this be a lesson to everybody out there.

0:39:19.080 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 2>One man's trash is another man's treasury.

0:39:21.280 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 4>Exactly, and honestly, if that doesn't work, the happy whatever

0:39:24.840 --> 0:39:29.800
<v Speaker 4>date it is, which is clearly a shoot three pointer

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:36.000
<v Speaker 4>flam dunk. Yes, I also suggest the are you friends

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:36.719
<v Speaker 4>with Robert Graham?

0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 6>Line?

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:42.080
<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's a good one, because that really works. That's

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:44.719
<v Speaker 4>more of an in real life, in person one. So

0:39:44.840 --> 0:39:47.000
<v Speaker 4>this is good for the dating apps Happy Tuesday, But

0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:50.160
<v Speaker 4>that are you friends with Robert Graham is a big perfect.

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 2>Should it be not Robert Graham, but like another person

0:39:53.120 --> 0:39:55.759
<v Speaker 2>that they actually know, so then there's some connection there.

0:39:56.320 --> 0:40:02.560
<v Speaker 4>Sure, Roberts She's saying like, like, use somebody that's actually

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:03.759
<v Speaker 4>in your life, like, oh, are you friends with Like

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:05.239
<v Speaker 4>let's say her friend. Her friend is like.

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 6>Bob, Bob Brewer, Bob Brewer, Oh yeah.

0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:11.840
<v Speaker 4>You know, are you friends with Bob Brewer?

0:40:13.080 --> 0:40:14.280
<v Speaker 5>I like Robert Graham.

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:16.000
<v Speaker 4>Because it feels so generic, I know, but we know

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 4>Robert Graham.

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:19.279
<v Speaker 2>So there's something to lead back to, all right.

0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:21.440
<v Speaker 5>And then they would ask me questions and what does

0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 5>he do?

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 4>Where does he live? And I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah,

0:40:23.600 --> 0:40:25.480
<v Speaker 4>to do right right right? Yeah, yeah, then you go

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:27.640
<v Speaker 4>deeper into the lies. So maybe that's a good suggestion.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's great.

0:40:29.920 --> 0:40:33.879
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, congratulations Emily, We're very pard for listening, and yeah,

0:40:34.160 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 6>great news. Lauren found a godwink in an old podcast. Hi, Becka, Tanya,

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.120
<v Speaker 6>Mark and Easton. I'm listening back to Scrubbing In from

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:45.080
<v Speaker 6>the beginning. That's quite a binge and came across the

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 6>biggest godwink of all for Tanya. You met Mark l.

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 6>Wahlberg and Hawaiian twenty nineteen. He talked to Tiny about

0:40:51.680 --> 0:40:54.480
<v Speaker 6>adapting the I quit mentality, quitting looking and searching for

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 6>your person, letting him come to you and happen the

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:58.799
<v Speaker 6>way it should. Instead, the next day she met Doctor

0:40:58.800 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 6>screen Time that I want to the window. Tanya says

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:03.479
<v Speaker 6>she ran into Mark on the street when Doctor screen

0:41:03.520 --> 0:41:05.080
<v Speaker 6>Time came to town, and she took it as a

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 6>godwink that she should still be quitting and should quit

0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 6>Doctor screen Time. A few months later, he came back

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:13.200
<v Speaker 6>in the podcast Putting All Your Eggs in One Basket

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:14.880
<v Speaker 6>October fourteenth, twenty nineteen.

0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh.

0:41:16.120 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 6>Tanya updates him, says he didn't listen. Says she didn't

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:20.359
<v Speaker 6>listen to the I Quit advice and they laugh about

0:41:20.400 --> 0:41:22.480
<v Speaker 6>him seeing her with Doctor screen Time. He then goes

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:24.800
<v Speaker 6>on to say he was just like Tanya, searching for

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:26.960
<v Speaker 6>his person, wondering when she was going to come into

0:41:27.000 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 6>his life. He then said the moment he quit, he.

0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:31.080
<v Speaker 7>Met his wife, Robbie.

0:41:33.239 --> 0:41:36.320
<v Speaker 6>Mark Wahlberg's wife is named Robbie, which when I read this,

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:38.239
<v Speaker 6>I went and did the research, and it's true.

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:41.520
<v Speaker 2>We were obsessed with her. Remember awesome.

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:45.279
<v Speaker 4>Mark Wahlberg has been this weird pinnacle in my life,

0:41:45.520 --> 0:41:48.440
<v Speaker 4>like himself, so weird to say out loud, but like

0:41:48.960 --> 0:41:50.520
<v Speaker 4>that really was like a turning point.

0:41:50.600 --> 0:41:53.719
<v Speaker 5>What he said to me in Hawaii, and then I did.

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 4>I remember I met Doctor screen time the day after,

0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:59.200
<v Speaker 4>and then I ran into Mark Wahlberg with this man,

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:01.160
<v Speaker 4>what are the odds?

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:05.600
<v Speaker 2>But then there was sing Your Butterfly right before.

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:08.000
<v Speaker 6>Robbie she mentioned him as well. Tinya met Robbie right

0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 6>after this. Strangely, Mark Wahlberg and Tiny seemed like kindred spirits.

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:12.840
<v Speaker 6>And it's the biggest godwink of all that she got

0:42:12.880 --> 0:42:15.719
<v Speaker 6>her very own Robbie right after this, and she quit

0:42:15.800 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 6>Senior Butterfly and adopted the mentality in her own way.

0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:20.879
<v Speaker 6>I thought I was so cute. I knew Tiny would

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 6>appreciate the connection.

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:25.200
<v Speaker 5>So crazy, How did I never connect those dots?

0:42:25.239 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 4>I remember I saw her getting her nails done on Ventura,

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:32.759
<v Speaker 4>like not recently, but in that like Parah, She's so cute.

0:42:32.800 --> 0:42:34.080
<v Speaker 4>How did you never think about that?

0:42:34.320 --> 0:42:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because we were like obsessed with obsessed.

0:42:36.680 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 4>With them, even her and their daughter, Robbie Morgan.

0:42:40.320 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 6>Wow, the wife of Mark L. Wahlberg, legendary game show

0:42:44.200 --> 0:42:44.879
<v Speaker 6>and reality show.

0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:46.880
<v Speaker 5>Wow, Lauren, thank you for that.

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 2>That is so fun. Wow.

0:42:50.200 --> 0:42:52.000
<v Speaker 4>October fourteen, twenty nineteen.

0:42:52.160 --> 0:42:55.040
<v Speaker 6>What a time, What a time? Over five years ago?

0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:59.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I met Robbie November, first of where we met, Yeah,

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:04.759
<v Speaker 4>twenty nineteen. Wow, that's crazy. Two weeks after this.

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think of the timeline because oh, September.

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 4>Was send You're a butterfly. Yes, yeah, the butterfly was

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:15.200
<v Speaker 4>before doctor screen time.

0:43:16.880 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 2>Doctor screen time came after. Yes. Oh okay, all right,

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:23.919
<v Speaker 2>I need to go back into our chats and see

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:27.399
<v Speaker 2>what we back in the day. Good times. Wow.

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<v Speaker 10>When she spells it robb I yeah, also a weird

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<v Speaker 10>way of spelling it, just like yours.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, everybody thinks his name is.

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<v Speaker 6>Roby non traditional.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. That is the end of a dear bonia of

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<v Speaker 2>the last dear bonia of twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, I don't want it to be the last.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, before you know it, you'll be doing the first

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<v Speaker 6>one of twenty twenty five and with your first sculpt.

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<v Speaker 2>Class sculpt and scrubbing in that's actually cute. Yeah. Right

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<v Speaker 2>at the new year, when you start your once a

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<v Speaker 2>day movement activity, it's right.

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<v Speaker 11>My community accountability activity.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, yeah, yaa.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We love y'all so much, love you, happy holidays,

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<v Speaker 2>all the things, and we'll see you well we have

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<v Speaker 2>a few episodes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>Expect to hear from us on Christmas, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and expect to hear from us on New

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<v Speaker 2>Year's Eve or a day before the thirtieth.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Yeah, So the twenty fifth and the thirtieth are coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that is just New Year's evadjason, Yes it is.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not gone. We're just we're always around. Correct. If

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<v Speaker 2>you need to hear from us, there's an episode. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a whole catalog of seven years. Yep, sometimes two

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<v Speaker 2>a days.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I might go back and.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen to October fourteenth of twenty nineteenth.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it would be fun to listen to this,

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<v Speaker 2>some of those old ones. All right, we love y'all

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<v Speaker 2>so much, love you, love you bye.