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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bell and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub a dub.

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Speaker 4: A dub a dub dub dumb.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that was effortless.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, with Tan, I do I put a bronzer on

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Speaker 4: in the car in the parking.

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Speaker 5: Garage, not a lot of lights.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, my life is very glamorous, so I don't

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Speaker 4: maybe I put too much on.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't really, So you're giving like fresh from vacation, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: with the blonde, fresh blonde in the leather jacket.

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Speaker 5: Say it again, the fresh from the island. Yeah, island girly.

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Speaker 2: How are we doing today?

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Speaker 5: We're doing good. How are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm great? And I know people are wanting an update

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Speaker 2: about something that we had scheduled for a lot. Are

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Speaker 2: you talking about are you talking about it? An update

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Speaker 2: about our drinks with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah j L.

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Speaker 4: We like to call her dale h.

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Speaker 6: And how did it go? Do you guys have a

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Speaker 6: good time?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: We didn't go. Okay, it did not, in fact make

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Speaker 4: it out of the group chat. It is still in

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Speaker 4: the group chat and in the works for twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 6: So wait what happened? Because she even said something about

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Speaker 6: like has she heard something you said on the radio,

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Speaker 6: and she said, all we have to talk about that

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Speaker 6: will get Yes, yes.

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Speaker 4: It was a last minute, but 'tis the season and

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Speaker 4: she was not feeling well.

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Speaker 6: A lot going around, I know.

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Speaker 2: So, I mean it was like two hours before it

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Speaker 2: was like yeah. She was like, I hope you haven't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, close. It was close, Haley.

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Speaker 2: Guys, I knew she was going to cancel.

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Speaker 4: This was canceled not feeling well.

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Speaker 5: Right, you think she canceled? You just didn't want to go.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she Here's the thing. I don't think

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Speaker 4: But I sent the morning was it the morning or

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Speaker 4: the day before something like something? She heard that I

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Speaker 4: was on a cleanse on the air, and she's like,

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Speaker 4: you can't be on a cleanse for our drinks date.

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Speaker 5: So she was like ready to go.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, But you know, how the day comes.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone else releases in this room.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes the day comes and I think J. L. H

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Speaker 2: is kind of like see her being a becka when

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Speaker 2: it comes to like social outings, like being very selective,

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Speaker 2: and maybe the day comes and what day comes and

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Speaker 2: you're just like, man, it's been a really busy holiday season.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot going on. Do I want to get

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Speaker 2: out into the world this eve and go like get

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Speaker 4: If that were the case, I think she'd say, hey,

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Speaker 4: I have a lot going on.

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Speaker 2: You're right, you probably would.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's not gonna make up.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm projected.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever done that? Have you ever faked being

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Speaker 4: sick to get out of something?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, that's what karma? Why though.

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Speaker 4: Being sick?

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like it was a dirt. It's a

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 4: I sent her the text that she sent me, and

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Speaker 4: she was relieved. Honestly, I was like, oh finished.

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Speaker 6: Why.

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Speaker 4: I was relieved because it was Haley's last night before

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Speaker 6: I was happy to spend Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't relieved, just like, oh, thank god it off

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Speaker 2: to do that. I was just like, first of all,

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Speaker 5: To get to at like peak traffic hours traffic.

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Speaker 2: So I was gonna leave like an hour and a

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Speaker 4: So I had like already gotten ready. So I had

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Speaker 4: hair appointment that was already scheduled before I drink. So

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Speaker 4: I like got dressed, got my cute off it on.

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Speaker 4: I was wearing a freaking body suit thong bodysuit, so

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Speaker 4: I have like a thong up my whole hair.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I don't even know what that means. It hurts,

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Speaker 6: it hurts, It sounds awful.

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Speaker 7: Sounds bad.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I have snaps too, yep, right in the badge.

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Speaker 2: Okay, someone needs to figure this out, because there's some

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Speaker 2: really cute bodysuit options.

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Speaker 4: However, Skims does do not quote me on that because

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Speaker 4: I don't know for sure spoiler alert, but I feel

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Speaker 4: like Skims has uh cap what do you call snapless

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Speaker 4: cross snapless crotches, magnets.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just fabric, which is way more pleasing for

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Speaker 2: the body. Yeah, not this hat between having a seamed

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Speaker 5: So I had a three hour hair appointment.

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Speaker 2: So your girl was like, you should have like unsnapped

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Speaker 4: You know, hindsight.

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Speaker 5: I am sorry that hindsight.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing when I do that, if I cancel

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Speaker 2: and like fake sick, I do it like in the morning,

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Speaker 4: So okay, it doesn't make it.

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Speaker 2: But I was saying, like, I feel bad that you

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Speaker 2: It's like sad cute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was ready, Like I really, I was like.

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Speaker 5: Really snaps. So then I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 5: I have like four hours back in my day.

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Speaker 4: What should I do now. I was gonna like come

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm going home.

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Speaker 5: Mom's going home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was gonna ask if you did a date

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Speaker 4: No, we had something to get done that night. I

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Speaker 6: So the streak is intact, the streak of not getting

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Speaker 6: together with guests who invite you guys to get together

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Speaker 6: still been broken. That's not been broken.

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Speaker 2: Great, and it's kind of like, what a beautiful way

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Speaker 5: I'm done with that. Yeah, so the new year, I'm

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Speaker 4: In the new year, I'm breathing new life into this

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Speaker 4: and we are asking every guest, with everyone, every single guest,

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Speaker 4: to get drinks with us, right, and we'll see who's

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Speaker 4: the first to follow through and not just to make

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Speaker 4: the plans, to actually do the plans. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 5: No, but she might be the first.

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Speaker 4: In twenty five Sho might hit us up and say.

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Speaker 2: Hey, girls, have a new year's schedule. Yeah, I'm feeling better.

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Speaker 2: You got your marriage license.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm feeling a little queasy right now.

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Speaker 6: I'm not going I know marriage lescense will do that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, no, no, have you.

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Speaker 5: You know everybody's getting sick right now.

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Speaker 6: I know if one celebrity who got sick but yes,

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Speaker 4: Yes, you don't feel like people in your world are

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Speaker 6: Like are getting sick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's like that time of

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're supposed to do that to in

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Speaker 4: It was a while ago. Yeah, eight am, it's nude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you work out?

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Speaker 2: So you haven't had anything to do. You had breakfast

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Speaker 2: can't imagine you're feeling great. Do y'all have? Is there?

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Speaker 5: Just sign?

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Speaker 2: So you went and got your marriage license?

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Speaker 4: I went go are Yeah, how did it feel? I

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Speaker 4: And I was like, I don't know why I'm so

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Speaker 2: It's probably because of the decor in the Beverly Hills

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know they make you raise your right hand.

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Speaker 4: They like make you raise your right hand and say

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Speaker 4: like is everything on these papers? Whatever? Whatever? And I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, girl, you're locking it in. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 4: It is very exciting. Well, but the courthouses are full,

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Speaker 4: not till like next year, and she was like few, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She was like everyone's trying to get in and I

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Speaker 4: was like that's so weird, Like what a random time

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Speaker 4: of year to like get.

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Speaker 7: Your before the end of the year. You're trying to

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Speaker 4: She said, tax breaks and then people are scared that

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Speaker 4: their marriage rights are going to get taken away next Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I was like, dang, well, you don't hear people say

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Speaker 6: an actual few few.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think she said fewew whew.

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Speaker 2: You don't get that reaction often these days.

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Speaker 4: Uh so, yeah, one step closer. We're in the We're

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Speaker 4: in the We're in the window because you get it

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Speaker 4: and then you have to get married within ninety days.

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Speaker 7: It's so good. I love Sonic. Yeah, it was unreal.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they're getting these giant rings.

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Speaker 7: It was just a ring, just a ring.

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Speaker 10: They're just there were people had them. I don't know

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Speaker 2: They were hard to get. People are like searching everywhere else.

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Speaker 4: You know what those do?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 7: They create portals.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, as one knows from the Sonic franchise.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly. But we're seeing it tonight, so no spoilers.

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Speaker 2: My friend Avanti, who works at Paramount, sent it to

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Speaker 6: That's a long time from now, twenty twenty seven.

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Speaker 6: Yeah that I feel I don't think you should be discouraged.

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Speaker 6: Right, bringing a new Sonic Hedgehog and there you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe pitch maybe like a graphic designer to

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, and then get your voice audition ready. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah the a clip, no problem, air check, I got you.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: It was really fun. It was cool to I felt.

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Speaker 10: It was so yeah, it was just I can't stop

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Speaker 5: I sent Savvy the video of you with trying to.

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Speaker 2: Show them the TikTok.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, that's so cool.

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Speaker 2: So Sonic four though, yes, which one which will be

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Speaker 5: You don't take babies to the movies though, No, but you.

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Speaker 4: When do you start taking kids to movies?

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Speaker 5: Old, though not babies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that's a good age. We'll cross

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Speaker 6: you all for sharing your stories and for all the

452
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Speaker 6: laugh out loud moments and wishing you all happy holidays.

453
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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying. This was so long ago for me, like

455
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:58,640
Speaker 2: navigating when I first started dating Haley, and like coming

456
00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 2: out to my friends, like having those conversations feel so foreign,

457
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 2: but I just remember, I'm all being positive, so I

458
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,120
Speaker 2: don't have I also.

459
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,240
Speaker 4: Feel like you didn't like call up any long distance

460
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,639
Speaker 4: friends and said like, hey, by the way, I'm dating

461
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,480
Speaker 4: a girl, Like I don't know if that's totally necessary.

462
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Speaker 2: Well, I think if it's someone that she's in like,

463
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Speaker 2: if it's a friend that she's talking to all the time,

464
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 2: you know, like if it's.

465
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Speaker 5: What what does one consider a long distance friend?

466
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Speaker 2: Like JoJo's a long distance friend, ah okay, a friend

467
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Speaker 2: who lives a long distances In my mind, I'm thinking

468
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 2: like old friends from high school that live in your hometown.

469
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Speaker 5: And then now you've moved away, blah blah blah.

470
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Speaker 2: It sounds like these are still people in her life,

471
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 2: they're just not part of her everyday life. So they

472
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:43,880
Speaker 2: want to know, like that she's spending time with a woman,

473
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 2: got it. I think you just text them and be like,

474
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Speaker 2: I'm dating someone new and if they ask questions and

475
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,120
Speaker 2: then you just are like, well she is, she's blah

476
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 2: blah blah. The thing is, because you're feeling insecure and

477
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 2: nervous about it, it's gonna come across. Everything is about

478
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 2: how you deliver information, right, So, like, if you're feeling

479
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 2: really excited about this person and you say it with

480
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 2: enthusiasm and you're not really focusing on the fact about

481
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 2: her gender, and you're more just like, she's amazing. This

482
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 2: is how we met. I think your friends are going

483
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 2: to be more receptive and see that you're happy and

484
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Speaker 2: confident in it, and I think that's going to make

485
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Speaker 2: them respond in a way that makes you feel seen

486
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Speaker 2: and encouraged by them. Yeah.

487
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Speaker 4: I think we put so much pressure on ourselves and

488
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Speaker 4: I can't speak to the specific conversation of like coming

489
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Speaker 4: out to friends. But I feel like a lot of

490
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 4: people have insecurities when they're dating, and like, let's say,

491
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Speaker 4: you know, some people that have kids feel insecure about

492
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Speaker 4: the fact that they have kids when they're dating. And

493
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Speaker 4: it's all about how you say it, you know, like

494
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Speaker 4: if you say I have kids, that's like a negative connotation.

495
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Speaker 4: But if you're like, oh, my gosh, you have the

496
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Speaker 4: cutest little dimples. My son has dimples like that, you know,

497
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Speaker 4: like you're telling them without making it like a thing.

498
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Speaker 4: So I feel like taking that approach of just like

499
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Speaker 4: I think some times we bog ourselves down with having

500
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Speaker 4: to have like the perfect words, the perfect time, and

501
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Speaker 4: the perfect thing to say and have it be this

502
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 4: whole thing when in reality, like you're dating someone and

503
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Speaker 4: you're happy, Yeah, that's really all it is.

504
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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was thinking though, aside you not even having

505
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Speaker 2: kid like more so from the perspective of you dating

506
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 2: someone with kids, it's kind of that same thing of

507
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Speaker 2: like if you were like, eh, he has kids, but

508
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 2: instead you're like, oh, yeah, have my fiance or his

509
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 2: son or you know, my step kids. There's a lot

510
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Speaker 2: of excitement and confidence when you talk about it, so

511
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: it never I don't think ever felt like a thing

512
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 2: because it was something about it his life that you

513
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 2: were excited about. Right, So I think that is the

514
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 2: advice that I'd give, And I'm proud of you for

515
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 2: not pushing your true self and feelings to the side anymore,

516
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 2: because we do only have one life to live, and

517
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Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's so important to you know,

518
00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 2: live your truth and also the people that that are

519
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 2: going to be in your life are going to respond

520
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 2: in a way where they're excited for you and see

521
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Speaker 2: you know your happiness.

522
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Speaker 6: Agreed to Tiny's point, though, I do think there is

523
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Speaker 6: something to live in your life and people can figure

524
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Speaker 6: it out on their own. Isn't there something to just

525
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 6: kind of just live your life?

526
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Speaker 2: If I was like, oh my gosh, somewhere else get

527
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 2: like people that I haven't talked to in forever, but

528
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:27,719
Speaker 2: like if like uh Tanya ali Jojo, like those are

529
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Speaker 2: all people that I was like excited to, like those

530
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Speaker 2: are people that are very much a part of my life.

531
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Speaker 2: So it was like I can't not like I can't

532
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Speaker 2: just expect them to figure it out. And then they

533
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 2: were like, wait, you're hanging out with a girl. Why

534
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 2: why didn't you tell us? You know, I think there's

535
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Speaker 2: something about being confident enough and happy enough to be

536
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 2: excited to share that information with people that you love

537
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Speaker 2: and that love you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I also just I kind of agree with Mark.

539
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Speaker 5: It's like, live your life.

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Speaker 2: You mean to tell me? If I was just living

541
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Speaker 2: my life and hanging out with Haley privately and didn't

542
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Speaker 2: tell you that, I would just be like figured it.

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Speaker 4: Out, figuring it out for yourself, and you were like

544
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 4: unsure and like scared or whatever. Like I wouldn't be

545
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 4: offended if it took you longer than it took you

546
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Speaker 4: to tell me.

547
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Speaker 6: But also, you guys are besties. She's talking about.

548
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Speaker 4: Long distance friends. It doesn't even say besties. It says

549
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Speaker 4: long distance.

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Speaker 6: Friends already came out to family and friends. I feel

551
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Speaker 6: like this is a.

552
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Speaker 4: This is like you feeling the need to like call like.

553
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Speaker 7: That's pure buffering face the doctor.

554
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Speaker 4: That you worked for in San Diego to be like

555
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Speaker 4: what I'm dating Haley Kyoko.

556
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Speaker 2: Now this feels different than that. We don't know. All

557
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Speaker 2: I'm saying is if this is, if this is someone

558
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: like Jojo in your life, that I think it's worth

559
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Speaker 2: it to pick up the phone and have the conversation.

560
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 2: Is someone like that used to San Diego. You don't

561
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Speaker 2: owe anyone anything if you're not ready correct.

562
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Speaker 6: I hope it is Jojo all right? Uh, I know

563
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Speaker 6: the akings are all in, so I don't need to

564
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 6: say that anymore. My boyfriend I just broke up, but

565
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 6: we still have so much love for each other. He

566
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 6: said he needed to grow an areas because he wasn't

567
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Speaker 6: the man he knew I deserved. He also said he

568
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 6: wasn't happy with himself and with his life and with

569
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Speaker 6: his work. It's really hard because there's still so much

570
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 6: love there. But I do believe he stopped pursuing me

571
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 6: a year ago. During the relationship. I feel like I

572
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Speaker 6: lost some of my feminine energy. And I'm curious what

573
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Speaker 6: Tanya did in her time post breakup from Robbie to

574
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 6: gain back her confidence, her feminine injury energy and work

575
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Speaker 6: on herself. Love you guys, the trigger.

576
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 4: Event, the trigger event. I worked out a lot. I

577
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 4: like channeled my energy into running and I would run

578
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Speaker 4: like nine miles.

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Speaker 2: You were crazy runner.

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Speaker 4: Then it was the only time that I could just

581
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Speaker 4: like not think about anything.

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Speaker 6: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: I know that sounds so cringe, like even like even

584
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 4: saying it. It's like just you in the in the road,

585
00:25:54,280 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 4: in the random just people walking around the neighborhood exactly.

586
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 4: So I found a lot of like peace in that. Also,

587
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 4: your feminine energy, like when you're in your ovulatory phase

588
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 4: masturbating is like amazing.

589
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Speaker 5: Are you allowed to say that?

590
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 4: On here?

591
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Speaker 6: Sure have fun?

592
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 5: Okay?

593
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Speaker 4: That I feel like makes you feel I don't know,

594
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 4: like you. It feels you feel glowy. Is that what

595
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 4: you're asking she's asking about feminine energy? Yeah, it makes

596
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 4: me glowy and like I can do it. I can

597
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 4: do this for myself. I don't need anybody else. I

598
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 4: got me myself and I So that would be my advice.

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Speaker 2: I also feel like even just getting yourself up and

600
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Speaker 2: ready to go places, because you probably don't feel like

601
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 2: going and doing anything but getting dinner with a friend

602
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: and like really dressing up and making yourself feel your best.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I don't think like I was going on

604
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Speaker 5: a first date any outing.

605
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Speaker 2: Ye I had Yes, even if she stayed home. Yes,

606
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Speaker 2: she was dressed for her first date.

607
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Speaker 4: I was dressed for first date. Taking pics, yeah, posting

608
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Speaker 4: them up.

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00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say do things that make you like

610
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 2: before you lost that, like what did you do that

611
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 2: where you felt confident in yourself? Like what were you

612
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: doing where you felt your best version, whether it was

613
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: like going on walks whatever it looked like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I also like did a lot of It's

615
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 4: probably not the best way to handle things, like in hindsight,

616
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: but I would just like load up my schedule. I

617
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 4: would just like do all the things that I wanted.

618
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 4: I would organize my like Monica Geller closet, I would

619
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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, like gives give away like

620
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 4: stuff that I wasn't wearing to the shelter, all that

621
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Speaker 4: kind of stuff that like you put on the back burner,

622
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Speaker 4: and then you feel so good, you feel like accomplished.

623
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 4: And that also gives you back like a lot of

624
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 4: confidence because you're like, yeah, like I can freaking do

625
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 4: anything anything anything.

626
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: Good luck. Though I'm also glad that he acknowledged that

627
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 2: he wasn't able to be the person that would be

628
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 2: a good I get it.

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Speaker 11: It feels like a cop out, Like every guy feels

630
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 11: like that's fine rather him ended then stay in a

631
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Speaker 11: relationship where he's not giving where he she feels like

632
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 11: he stopped pursuing her a year ago, so I'm like, she,

633
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 11: it sounds like maybe she wouldn't have ended it.

634
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Speaker 2: So I feel glad that he was, like, I'm doing

635
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 2: it for you, for us, because now she can tap it.

636
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Speaker 4: It's like nobody's ever where they want to be when

637
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 4: they're at that, you know what I mean? Like, I

638
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 4: feel like, in correct me if I'm wrong. I feel

639
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 4: like a lot of men when they're ready to propose,

640
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 4: feel like they want to be wanted to be further along.

641
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Speaker 6: That was a major part of my my proposal speech

642
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 6: was how we are not where we want to be

643
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 6: in life at this point, but I don't care.

644
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 5: Right, A lot of people feel that way. It's kind

645
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 5: of like they just warn each other's people.

646
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 2: But she he may have been feeling that was like,

647
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: I'm not able to be the person you want, but

648
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 2: it'll probably be able to be that person for someone else.

649
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 2: But I'm saying he did her favor because she's about

650
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: to tap into her best self and meet her Robbie.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

652
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Speaker 6: So in summary, exercise, organization, and lots of quality time

653
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Speaker 6: with yourself.

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Speaker 3: Correct?

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Speaker 5: Should I say it like that quality time not the

656
00:28:58,960 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 5: actual word?

657
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 7: I could say you want to say you can say

658
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 7: the word, you just can't do it.

659
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Speaker 6: That's the beauty of Kanya. No filter.

660
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 5: No, I'm saying filter in podcast world? Are we allowed

661
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 5: to say that? On the Share.

662
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Speaker 6: The Rules podcasts?

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Speaker 3: Whew?

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Speaker 6: I'm jumping ahead one just so you're following along. Hi, Beca,

665
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Speaker 6: Mark Easton and Tanya Oh. I got second billing on

666
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Speaker 6: that one. That is rare.

667
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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 6: First off, I want to say how much I love

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Speaker 6: and appreciate all of you your podcast. It's been a

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Speaker 6: constant source of comfort and joy for me over the

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Speaker 6: past seven years, helping me through some of the hardest

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Speaker 6: times in my life. When I was first coming out

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Speaker 6: to my parents, I posted in the scrubbing and Facebook

674
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Speaker 6: groups sharing that I was about to do it. In

675
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 6: an hour, I was flooded with supportive comments, including one

676
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Speaker 6: from Becca. My parents still haven't come around, and I'm

677
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 6: not sure they ever will, but I screenshoted those comments

678
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 6: and revisit them often on tough days. They remind me

679
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 6: I'm not alone, and I'm so grateful for that. After

680
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 6: recent events, my girlfriend and I have decided to lope

681
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 6: so we can legally marry while it's still possible. We

682
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 6: are in Texas. We still plan to go through our

683
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 6: originally planned proposals next year and have a bigger wedding

684
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 6: down the road. How I want to make this elopement

685
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 6: feel special for my girlfriend, even though it's not how

686
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 6: we envisioned our timeline, and we'll be keeping it a

687
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 6: secret for most of the people we know. For now,

688
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 6: to celebrate, we're having dinner with our closest friends who've

689
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,479
Speaker 6: always supported us. But I'd love your advice. How can

690
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 6: I make this elopement feel meaningful and magical for my

691
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 6: partner even in the midst of these stressful and uncertain times.

692
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 6: We've been together five years. Our journey feels so similar

693
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 6: to Becca's and Haley's. We've always looked up to you too,

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Speaker 6: and would truly appreciate any advice for making this moment

695
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 6: as special as it deserves to be. Thank you so

696
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 6: much for everything you do. Love you, guys, and happy holidays.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I just feel so proud for you

699
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: because it is so hard to navigate unsupportive family and

700
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: friends like I. There were I think a lot of people,

701
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 2: because I didn't talk about my relationship for so long,

702
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: think that it was all just like perfect and there

703
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: was no hiccups and everyone just showered us and support

704
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: and love. But that wasn't really the case, and there

705
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: there's been a lot of progress since then, but it

706
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 2: was definitely not perfect, and like in those four years

707
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 2: of keeping our relationship private, there was a lot of

708
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: like heartache and therapy. But so first of all, I'm

709
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 2: very proud of you for, you know, for getting through that,

710
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 2: because it's really really hard, and I am so sorry

711
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: that you're having to think about I'm so sorry that

712
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 2: you're having to rush something that's so personal and exciting

713
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: because of the fear and what could happen in our

714
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 2: country and in you know, different states. Sorry, I just

715
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 2: I haven't talked about this, and this is like the

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Speaker 2: reality for people.

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Speaker 8: It's like they might not be able to you know,

718
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Speaker 8: love who they love or commit And I think it's

719
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Speaker 8: like such a reality because in reality, Haley and I

720
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 8: don't have anything to worry about in California, Like we're

721
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Speaker 8: in a state where like that's probably gonna be safe

722
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Speaker 8: for the most part.

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Speaker 3: But there's people like this who are having to rush.

724
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Speaker 3: You know, you're getting to have your dream wedding and

725
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 3: not have to think about that at all, and not

726
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 3: everyone's gonna have that luxury in some places, and it's

727
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 3: so meaningful and special, and I hate that you're even

728
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: having to think about that. So I would say, you know,

729
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 3: think about the people that you want to be there,

730
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Speaker 3: because that is the truest celebration you want to when

731
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 3: you want it to feel full of love and people

732
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: who surround you with love and make it feel light and.

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Speaker 2: Magical, just sucks. Sorry. I don't want to make this

734
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Speaker 2: like sad thing because I'm also happy for them that

735
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Speaker 2: they're getting married. I think it's just like you know,

736
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: you hear these stories and they're just like sad personal

737
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: But anyways, I think you have like beautiful flowers or

738
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Speaker 2: find things that she loves, like I know Haley loves

739
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: nature and art and color and so I would you know,

740
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: and she loves good food, like that's one of her

741
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: like passions is food. So making sure that all of

742
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: your favorite people and your favorite things are there, and

743
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: just making sure that that day feels only full of

744
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 2: love and excitement and not daunted by the reality of

745
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: you know, the outside of it.

746
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Speaker 6: Idea throwing it out there and if this is crazy,

747
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 6: you can tell me. But it seems like one thing

748
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 6: that always makes a moment magical is live music. Could

749
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 6: you have a guitar player they're playing her favorite song?

750
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

751
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 6: I feel that would be cool.

752
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 4: I feel like you get to do I think like

753
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 4: when you do and it might be different in Texas,

754
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 4: but I feel like you have that fifteen minute window

755
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 4: to do whatever you want. So like, maybe you do

756
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 4: make it up and do it as big as you

757
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 4: possibly can and write your vows and document it and

758
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 4: have somebody live perform her favorite song and have somebody

759
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 4: I don't really know how it works with the efficient,

760
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 4: but somebody meaningful in your life there to do it,

761
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: and like, do it up as much as you can,

762
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 4: and don't make it like an elopement that's just an elopement.

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Speaker 2: Make it make it matter, yeah, make it feel like

764
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: yours and like what you know, it's almost like what

765
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: you would do without the circumstance, but on a smaller scale,

766
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: and just you know, make sure that it makes sure

767
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 2: it's special for you too. I love the idea of

768
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 2: having someone playing music and having like a few of

769
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 2: your favorite songs played so y'all can dance and or like.

770
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 4: This might be crazy, but if you could take some

771
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 4: of like the letters that she's written you and make

772
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 4: like some sort of a handkerchief out of it, or

773
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 4: like like I don't know, like, yeah, I'm thinking on

774
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 4: the spot here, but like take maybe some letters or

775
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 4: maybe xerox them, not like the actual letters, and make

776
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 4: like some sort of bouquet out of them, you know

777
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: what I mean, like oregonmy flowers, like letters that she's

778
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 4: written you, or like post its or whatever, like something

779
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 4: meaningful like that could be really sweet too.

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00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think it's gonna beautiful. And I think

781
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: that having the people who love you and support you

782
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 2: being there is what's gonna make it so special. So

783
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you. Sorry for that breakdown, but.

784
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 4: We love you, and yeah, we love We're so happy

785
00:35:59,760 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 4: for you.

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Speaker 6: Let's break Yeah, we have a couple of fun ones

787
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 6: coming up that aren't so having an advicey and there

788
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 6: are more just kind of fun comments, so we'll come

789
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 6: back with that.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 1: I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are you

792
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Speaker 1: a Charlotte? In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever

793
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Speaker 1: changed when I took on the role of Charlotte York

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Speaker 1: on a new HBO show called Sex and the City

795
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Speaker 1: as we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships

796
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Speaker 1: in New York City. The show helped push once unacceptable

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Speaker 1: conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative

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Speaker 1: around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them

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Speaker 1: as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships.

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Speaker 1: Now I want to connect with you and share untoldies

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Speaker 1: and all the behind the scenes together with special guests.

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Speaker 1: What will begin with Sex and the City will evolve

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Speaker 1: into talks about themes.

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Speaker 4: That are still so relevant today.

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Speaker 1: Are You a Charlotte is a much more than just

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Speaker 1: rewatching our beloved show. It brings the past and the

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Speaker 1: present together as we talk with heart, humor, and of.

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Speaker 4: Course some optimism.

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Speaker 1: Listen to Are You a Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app,

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Speaker 2: All right, we're back. This is just like the most

812
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 2: shocking title I've ever seen for an email, So let's

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Speaker 2: get right into it.

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Speaker 6: Rude the headline is which our producer Sam adds to these.

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Speaker 6: Tanya's opening line worked for me Hi Becka, Tanya Mark,

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Speaker 6: and Easton O G Scrubber here. I've listened since the beginning,

817
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 6: and one of the reasons why I love the podcast

818
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 6: so much was because I too was an early thirties

819
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 6: girly trying to find her forever guy. I found comfort

820
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 6: and laughter in Becca and Tanya's dating stories, as I

821
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 6: knew all too well what they were experiencing. Tanya and

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00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 6: I even had a similar experience in twenty nineteen. We

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00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 6: were both hosting guys we had been dating through FaceTime Doctor,

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00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 6: screen Time Wolf in our cities and meeting for the

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00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 6: first time. I even talked to Ryan on the Morning

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Speaker 6: Show about it. In my late thirties, I struggled with

827
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 6: the possibility that might just be God's plan for me

828
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 6: not to be married or have a family, And after

829
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 6: every cry wondering why something didn't work out, I'd always say,

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Speaker 6: God doesn't take away gold to give you silver, or

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Speaker 6: man's rejection is God's protection. Thank you, Tanya. Fast forward

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Speaker 6: to twenty twenty two, I felt it in my heart

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00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 6: to download the apps again. I meshed with a cute

834
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,959
Speaker 6: guy my age that I'd never seen on there before

835
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 6: and sent him a message. It was Tanya's go to

836
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 6: message from Harriot Days. I said Happy Tuesday. Thankfully, he

837
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 6: thought it was cute and responded. We hit it off

838
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 6: and met for dinner a few weeks later. Two months

839
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 6: after that midweek greeting, he asked me to be as girlfriend,

840
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 6: and two years later to the date, he asked me

841
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 6: to be his wife. Thanks to the whole team for

842
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 6: being a constant joy in my life of the encouragement

843
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 6: and positivity you bring through this podcast, including the reassurance

844
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 6: I got from you all and Scrubbers that there are

845
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 6: good guys out there. I love you all.

846
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 5: Let this be a lesson to everybody out there.

847
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: One man's trash is another man's treasury.

848
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 4: Exactly, and honestly, if that doesn't work, the happy whatever

849
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 4: date it is, which is clearly a shoot three pointer

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Speaker 4: flam dunk. Yes, I also suggest the are you friends

851
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Speaker 4: with Robert Graham?

852
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 6: Line?

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00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 4: Oh, that's a good one, because that really works. That's

854
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 4: more of an in real life, in person one. So

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00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 4: this is good for the dating apps Happy Tuesday, But

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00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 4: that are you friends with Robert Graham is a big perfect.

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Speaker 2: Should it be not Robert Graham, but like another person

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Speaker 2: that they actually know, so then there's some connection there.

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00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 4: Sure, Roberts She's saying like, like, use somebody that's actually

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Speaker 4: in your life, like, oh, are you friends with Like

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Speaker 4: let's say her friend. Her friend is like.

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Speaker 6: Bob, Bob Brewer, Bob Brewer, Oh yeah.

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00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 4: You know, are you friends with Bob Brewer?

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Speaker 5: I like Robert Graham.

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Speaker 4: Because it feels so generic, I know, but we know

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Speaker 4: Robert Graham.

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Speaker 2: So there's something to lead back to, all right.

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Speaker 5: And then they would ask me questions and what does

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Speaker 5: he do?

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00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 4: Where does he live? And I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah,

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00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 4: to do right right right? Yeah, yeah, then you go

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00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 4: deeper into the lies. So maybe that's a good suggestion.

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Speaker 4: I think it's great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, congratulations Emily, We're very pard for listening, and yeah,

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00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 6: great news. Lauren found a godwink in an old podcast. Hi, Becka, Tanya,

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00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 6: Mark and Easton. I'm listening back to Scrubbing In from

877
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Speaker 6: the beginning. That's quite a binge and came across the

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00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 6: biggest godwink of all for Tanya. You met Mark l.

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00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 6: Wahlberg and Hawaiian twenty nineteen. He talked to Tiny about

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Speaker 6: adapting the I quit mentality, quitting looking and searching for

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Speaker 6: your person, letting him come to you and happen the

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00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 6: way it should. Instead, the next day she met Doctor

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Speaker 6: screen Time that I want to the window. Tanya says

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00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,479
Speaker 6: she ran into Mark on the street when Doctor screen

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00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 6: Time came to town, and she took it as a

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Speaker 6: godwink that she should still be quitting and should quit

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Speaker 6: Doctor screen Time. A few months later, he came back

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Speaker 6: in the podcast Putting All Your Eggs in One Basket

889
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Speaker 6: October fourteenth, twenty nineteen.

890
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

891
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 6: Tanya updates him, says he didn't listen. Says she didn't

892
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 6: listen to the I Quit advice and they laugh about

893
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 6: him seeing her with Doctor screen Time. He then goes

894
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 6: on to say he was just like Tanya, searching for

895
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 6: his person, wondering when she was going to come into

896
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 6: his life. He then said the moment he quit, he.

897
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 7: Met his wife, Robbie.

898
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 6: Mark Wahlberg's wife is named Robbie, which when I read this,

899
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 6: I went and did the research, and it's true.

900
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 2: We were obsessed with her. Remember awesome.

901
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 4: Mark Wahlberg has been this weird pinnacle in my life,

902
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 4: like himself, so weird to say out loud, but like

903
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 4: that really was like a turning point.

904
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 5: What he said to me in Hawaii, and then I did.

905
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 4: I remember I met Doctor screen time the day after,

906
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 4: and then I ran into Mark Wahlberg with this man,

907
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 4: what are the odds?

908
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: But then there was sing Your Butterfly right before.

909
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 6: Robbie she mentioned him as well. Tinya met Robbie right

910
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 6: after this. Strangely, Mark Wahlberg and Tiny seemed like kindred spirits.

911
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 6: And it's the biggest godwink of all that she got

912
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 6: her very own Robbie right after this, and she quit

913
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 6: Senior Butterfly and adopted the mentality in her own way.

914
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 6: I thought I was so cute. I knew Tiny would

915
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 6: appreciate the connection.

916
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 5: So crazy, How did I never connect those dots?

917
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 4: I remember I saw her getting her nails done on Ventura,

918
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 4: like not recently, but in that like Parah, She's so cute.

919
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 4: How did you never think about that?

920
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, because we were like obsessed with obsessed.

921
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 4: With them, even her and their daughter, Robbie Morgan.

922
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 6: Wow, the wife of Mark L. Wahlberg, legendary game show

923
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 6: and reality show.

924
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 5: Wow, Lauren, thank you for that.

925
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: That is so fun. Wow.

926
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 4: October fourteen, twenty nineteen.

927
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 6: What a time, What a time? Over five years ago?

928
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I met Robbie November, first of where we met, Yeah,

929
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 4: twenty nineteen. Wow, that's crazy. Two weeks after this.

930
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of the timeline because oh, September.

931
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 4: Was send You're a butterfly. Yes, yeah, the butterfly was

932
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 4: before doctor screen time.

933
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: Doctor screen time came after. Yes. Oh okay, all right,

934
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,919
Speaker 2: I need to go back into our chats and see

935
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 2: what we back in the day. Good times. Wow.

936
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 10: When she spells it robb I yeah, also a weird

937
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 10: way of spelling it, just like yours.

938
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, everybody thinks his name is.

939
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 6: Roby non traditional.

940
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, love it.

941
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: Well. That is the end of a dear bonia of

942
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 2: the last dear bonia of twenty.

943
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I don't want it to be the last.

944
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 6: Well, before you know it, you'll be doing the first

945
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 6: one of twenty twenty five and with your first sculpt.

946
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 2: Class sculpt and scrubbing in that's actually cute. Yeah. Right

947
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 2: at the new year, when you start your once a

948
00:43:58,320 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 2: day movement activity, it's right.

949
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 11: My community accountability activity.

950
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:05,959
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, yeah, yaa.

951
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 2: All right, We love y'all so much, love you, happy holidays,

952
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 2: all the things, and we'll see you well we have

953
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 2: a few episodes.

954
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 4: Yeah whatever.

955
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 6: Expect to hear from us on Christmas, oh.

956
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and expect to hear from us on New

957
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 2: Year's Eve or a day before the thirtieth.

958
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, So the twenty fifth and the thirtieth are coming.

959
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 4: Well, that is just New Year's evadjason, Yes it is.

960
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 2: We're not gone. We're just we're always around. Correct. If

961
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 2: you need to hear from us, there's an episode. Yeah,

962
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 2: there's a whole catalog of seven years. Yep, sometimes two

963
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 2: a days.

964
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Speaker 5: I mean, I might go back and.

965
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 4: Listen to October fourteenth of twenty nineteenth.

966
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 2: I know it would be fun to listen to this,

967
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: some of those old ones. All right, we love y'all

968
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 2: so much, love you, love you bye.