WEBVTT - What’s Coming this Year? 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:08.800 Happy New Year. Hi, so full disclosure. We were just 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:10.520 recording this. I said Happy New Year, and then it 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:13.000 like froze. It didn't want to let me finish saying 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:14.760 what I was saying, because done is that I had 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:17.240 too much energy, too much for me. Let me tell you. 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:21.760 It is Monday, January sixth. Oh, January sixth, four year 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:25.439 university of that shit? Five years? Five years, No, it 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:26.040 was four years. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:27.320 I didn't even think about that. 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:29.960 Four years ago on this day, some shit went down 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:31.080 that will forever. 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:32.120 Blow my mind. 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:33.120 Mind too. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:34.479 But apparently we don't talk about that. 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:38.800 Why because the people who did it don't look like us. 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:44.479 Okay, well, well, well and there you go. So I 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.479 can't say happy January six even though I bet a 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:48.320 lot of people do say Happy January sixth. 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:49.760 Oh they're getting out. 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:53.280 Oh my god, it's about to be crazy. 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:56.440 Tell them to come to New York and storm the 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.120 Governor's mansion or something. 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:58.880 For congestion pricing. 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:02.080 Yep. People are pissed off. So we're starting a new year. 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.399 It is Monday. Diamond is looking for a tissue. I 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:05.119 have some, you want one? 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:06.520 No? Did you see that? 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:10.039 No, it's like something or something went landed right there, 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.360 and I think, I hope it came out without me 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:14.920 digging in there, but I hope we have. 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:16.679 To get up in there and get it. New year, 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:21.080 new nose. It can be exciting. So this morning, everybody, 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:22.720 here's a stupid If you have the same boogers from 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.080 last year, I'm very concerned about what's happening in your nose. 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:28.080 Why what do you mean it's been six days? Do 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:29.839 you should have different boogers? 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:30.959 Do you dig up your nose? 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:32.319 I don't dig up my nose. 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:34.520 No, but since I have a nose ring, I'm in 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:36.759 my nose more often than not because I don't want 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:38.560 build up on there. And let me tell you, when 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:40.600 you have a nose ring, anybody who has one will relate. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.800 It can block your breathing if you get boogers on there. 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:45.920 So I'm whipping my nose. There are not six day 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:47.000 old boggers. I promise you that. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:48.520 Sorry, you just really. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:54.520 Keep going disgusting. Gotta keep the passageways clean. My god, 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:57.680 I'm just telling you. Gotta breathe. I gotta breathe. Oh god. 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:00.880 But this morning everyone and the studio. 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.840 Was like, oh, I'm so tired. I'm dragging and I 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.600 was like, I feel great. Oh great, I really do. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:07.480 I feel really good. I feel like the sleep that 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:10.760 I got over the break was nice. I'm excited for 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.919 a new year, new possibilities, new options, and things going 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:16.520 on with the podcast. Like, why wouldn't I feel good? 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:17.359 What's wrong with you? 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:19.679 I couldn't fall asleep last night. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:21.720 I guess were you so excited to see me? 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:25.160 No? Damn it? I mean I was, yeah, great, I'm 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.680 happy to see you guys. But like I got in 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:31.720 my bed at around six and I could not fall asleep. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.440 Well maybe because it's still daylight when you got into 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:35.600 your bed. Go to bed later. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:38.080 Well that didn't work either. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:40.079 What do you mean I think? 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:41.720 Because I mean I was still in my bed at 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:45.000 one o'clock that's later, and nothing happened. I think my 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:47.160 body is still on West Coast time. 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:51.080 Let's talk about your West Coast experience and adventure divin. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:52.240 What did you do over the break? 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:56.280 I went to California. I thought that I was going 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:58.320 skiing and Big Bear, which is insane. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:02:59.080 Have you ever skied? 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:07.520 No? Okay, right, you're an adventure Okay, guess And but 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:09.760 we got there and there was no snow. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:13.919 Yeah, Like nothing global warming, I mean climate change, whatever 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:16.959 we're gonna call it. Whatever. Did you check before you went? 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.280 Was there supposed to be snow? 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:18.720 Well? 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:22.160 My cousin's checked, because you know who checks that. I'm 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:22.880 not good with the word. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.840 It's not going to a place where it is dependent 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.320 that snow be on the ground. I'm gonna check for 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:28.359 the snow well. 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.120 I brought two coats, I brought a lot of warm things, 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:33.480 and I didn't even need a jacket. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.120 So what do you guys do? Instead of ski? Got drunk? 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:38.840 Okay, yeah, that seems like a good experience. 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:43.880 And then I got altitude sickness, which my cousin's that's 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:47.400 very deadly, very bad hangover. They're like, diamond, you're hungover, 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:50.280 that's not altitude sickness. But this is my story and 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:50.920 I'm sticking with it. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.600 Yes, altitude sickness can kill you. Like it is really bad. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.360 I actually an intern of mine died from altitude sickness. 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:58.800 I don't mean to she no, no, no, I'm just 0:03:58.800 --> 0:03:59.960 telling you it's it is pretty serio. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:00.600 Yes, when that kind of. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.360 Stuff happens, well, I thought I was gonna die. So 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.960 you've had a hangover. I've been around you hungover before 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.040 bad Yeah, you don't have good hangovers? 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:10.000 No, no, and it lingers for days. 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:13.960 I'm sorry to hear that I don't get hungover. Well, 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:18.520 good for you. It's so annoying to people. I love 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.000 it so much. I'm sure there's something wildly wrong with me. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.080 But for the time being, I don't drink that often. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:29.120 My sister believes I haven't fractured my liver yet. That once, 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:32.239 you oversaturate yourself with alcohol, and a lot of people 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:33.760 have done that by the time they are twenty one 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:35.479 or twenty two because you've been drinking all the time. 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:37.279 But I didn't really do that, and I still don't 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:40.680 really drink all that much. I prefer other things. I'm 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:44.000 a smoker and a shrimmer. No could but she could 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:44.400 be wrong. 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.239 Okay, we have some things to talk about. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:48.440 Go on, did you shroom? 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:52.720 No, it came up. No, but the shrooming came up. 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:58.400 But somebody I know almost ruined our New Year's Eve 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:04.960 because they took something. And let's just say that the 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.040 person can stand up. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.080 Okay, you're on a podcast. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:09.440 What is this. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.200 Let's just say people took something. 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:11.839 Get to it. 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:12.640 What did someone take? 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.320 Okay, my cousin's friend took ketamine. 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:20.000 Oh shit, got stuck in a hole. And also in 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:22.839 your whole family. No okay, well well. 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.520 My cousins, my other cousins were there, but like the 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:28.640 cousins are adults. No no, oh god, okay, good, but yeah, 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:32.200 we're hanging out, turning up, getting ready to go out 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.760 for New Year's that's not a turn up thing exactly. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.320 We were drunk and we don't know when this happened, 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:43.440 but we got into the car and when we got out, 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:47.080 the girl couldn't move and we were like, the fuck, get. 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:47.800 The fuck out of the car. 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.360 The man is like he has to leave, and she's like, uh, 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.200 like what the fuck is going on? I don't even 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:55.960 know how it came out that she did that, but 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.680 how long did this last? We had to go back home. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:04.600 We couldn't do anything. She was deep in that whole babes. 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:08.080 And also, I mean, like, listen, guys, just don't do 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:10.640 things like that. But also, if you're gonna do it, 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.160 then let the people around you know that you're doing 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:14.280 these things. 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:16.880 One hundred percent. Let people know that you're doing these things, 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.280 one so that they can plan their evening. But two, 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:21.080 if something happens to you and you have to go 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.040 to the hospital. People need to know what's in your system. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.479 It's important that you tell people that's our PSA for today. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.479 Yes, yes, and just don't do it. 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:31.880 Don't do what you don't need, like stop it weed? 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:32.760 Why not? 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:33.520 Sure? 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:36.359 Some people do a little boger sugar? Is that what 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:40.400 it's called suar coke? You're talking about cocaine? Yes, I 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:48.159 should do it, but some people do recreationally. That's their business. 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:49.839 I think you should stop there. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.280 I don't really think you should. Like that is the max. 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:52.599 You know. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.840 There's a lot of new information out though it's actually 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:58.719 not that new about alcohol, saying how absolutely terrible alcohol 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.520 is for you when it comes to dementia and Alzheimer's. 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:05.320 Think cancer, your liver, your kidneys. You're basically poisoning yourself 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.640 over and over and over. So it's kind of just amounted, 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:09.440 what do you feel like doing, Whatever it is that 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.360 you feel like doing, just tell your friends so that 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:13.920 they know be safe. 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:15.920 Man, Oh my god. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:17.680 I'm sorry you're New Year's you've got ruined. 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.840 Well mine didn't like you know, I mean you already drunk. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:24.760 I was fucked up, okay, and it was amazing. And 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:28.040 then I got to watch videos of Vibes Cartel in Jamaica, 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.200 and so that was great because I wasn't in a 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:32.440 bar with screaming people while I was watching it. 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:33.280 It's pretty you. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.000 Know, you know, what are you gonna do? 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:36.240 Do you have any resolutions? 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:38.920 No? 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:41.600 None, I'll probably I kind of. 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:44.559 Want to be meaner to people this year, not like mean, 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.920 but like more stern, set harder boundaries, And I mean 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:50.160 that's really hard for me because the boundaries are pretty set. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:51.680 Well, yeah, I was gonna say, I think you're pretty 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.360 good with your boundaries. What boundaries do you think need 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:55.960 to be enforced a little bit more? 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:58.720 I think I need to just start saying no to 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:02.680 people sometimes. I just it's like I'll find ways to 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.160 say yes, but in a diamond way. I think I 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:07.160 need to be a little bit more short with people, 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:10.120 Like if I don't want to do something, no, I'm 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:12.080 not doing it, and I really don't need to give 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:15.200 you an explanation or like do you like this, and 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:19.000 instead of like saying yeah, maybe no, just say no 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.440 I don't like it. Yeah I don't like it, So 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.120 I'm gonna try. But then I also feel bad because 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:25.160 I don't want to be an asshole. 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:29.080 So, I mean, there's such a huge gray space between 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:31.880 yes and being an asshole. It doesn't have to be 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.240 one or the other. You can be firm and you 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.080 can be kind, and both of those things can exist 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:38.280 at the same time. And you can take care of yourself, 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:42.280 take care of your mental health and your time. Time. Man, 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.080 that's the one that I'm trying to do better about 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:46.400 this here. I'm not gonna waste my time. Oh I'm 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:50.240 not gonna let other people waste my time. Oh yeah, okay. 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:51.800 So it's the one thing we never get back. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:55.120 If I come to you and I say, well, do 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:56.560 you like Andrew. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:58.520 That is a waste of time, because you know the 0:08:58.559 --> 0:08:59.079 answer is no. 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:02.000 I knew it was going to be something like that. 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:09.000 You know this, That fucking Andrew man, just kidding. 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:09.640 I love Andrew. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:11.880 No, I don't mind. I mean, I don't look at 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.920 things as a waste of time if they were enjoyable 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.599 to me. So if I want to talk like ke 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:19.520 key with you, whatever, fine. When there are people coming 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.000 in to waste my time about things that should have 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:23.960 been done in a certain way and why they didn't 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.120 get it done in that way and how they can't 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:27.719 get it done because someone else didn't get it done, 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:29.520 and there's just a lot of blaming instead of doing. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.840 That's where I'm gonna say, fo, just get it done. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:36.200 Wow. Yes, I'm gonna there's a lot of. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:36.800 That around here. 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.280 Yes, there's a lot of that. I don't like it, 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:41.080 because you know me, I will just say fuck it, 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.440 I will do it myself. Please move out of my way. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.480 The last thing I want to hear is twenty minutes 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.199 of you telling me why it couldn't get done when 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.960 it absolutely could get done because I gotta done it myself. Ye, 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.240 trash ass shit around here. I'm telling you, I can't 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:53.840 wait for this year. 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.120 People. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.600 What do you mean Gonna already loves you? 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.040 Oh yeah, okay. 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:02.600 Do you want to talk about the texter that pissed 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:03.400 you off today? And why? 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:05.960 Oh you a little eight four or five I think 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:08.880 that was the area code pissed me off or eight 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:12.240 oh three something like that. What a loser. I can't 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:16.400 just say that, Like, if you're calling into the show 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:20.960 to play a game, you don't get to like boss 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:22.640 me into putting you on the air. Now. 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:23.640 I may certainly do not. 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:25.920 First of all, there are a lot of people who 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.880 call in at that specific time. You're not the only person. Now, 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:30.960 if you called fifteen minutes before, I mean you couldn't 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:33.400 unless you were psychic, right, But like if you called 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:37.520 fifteen minutes before, there's probably no one calling, right. But 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.600 you call in when everyone else is calling, and then 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:43.680 you get upset that I don't give to your call, 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.200 and then you text in trying to get me in 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:47.679 trouble or something like that. Am I gonna get a 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:51.040 spanking for not answering your call from whom I don't know? 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:54.560 Diamond never answers the phone. Well, maybe you should try 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:57.040 doing Diamond's job for a second. 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:58.680 She always answers the phone. 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:01.760 Actually, there are a lot of times where you might 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.160 be hearing the phone ringing. She might not be seeing 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.319 the phone ringing there. And sometimes you're gonna get a 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:09.200 Disney signal. Sometimes you're gonna get something that sounds like 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:10.960 somebody picked up and it hung up. We have no 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.000 idea what goes on with these phone lines. But what 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.760 I do see you doing in there all morning is 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:19.120 answering the gap damn phone. And somebody ticked her off 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:21.200 today because they made it seem as though she was 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.440 targeting them to not let them play the game, and 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.240 she wasn't having it. She almost called them back and 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.079 had them play the game. And I said, what, what, 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.800 Why are we rewarding bad behavior? Why are you gonna 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:33.800 reward someone that just cursed you out on text because 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.040 you think you're teaching them a lesson. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:38.719 Well, my thing is they probably would suck at the 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:42.160 game anyway, So come on and embarrass yourself in front 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:46.000 of however, many people are listening, you know, because you 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:47.920 think you're gonna bully me. Now I'm gonna bully you. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.920 Bring back bullying in twenty twenty five, that. 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:51.760 Too, I told you I've been a fan of that forever. 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:55.400 Yeap. Just I believe in a bully back. I'm never 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.920 gonna start it. I'm not gonna go just be mean 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:01.960 to somebody. However, if you poke me, I believe in 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:05.079 a poke back. Oh maybe a slap, maybe a punch, 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.280 maybe a trip down the stairs. I don't know, But 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.360 if you start it, you can't be mad that. I 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:12.600 then responded to it, which also happens often. People will 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.240 say some shit to us. For the most part, I'll 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.200 let it go. Every now and then, I will clap 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:18.080 back and say something, and then they call me a bully. 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:23.000 It's insanity. Oh yeah, do you know how bullying works? Yeah, Monica, 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.480 your cousin, she talked about that. Who was on Love 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:25.960 Is Blind? 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:28.559 Yes, and someone I think DMed her and then tried 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:30.600 to say it was a minor and they had to 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.640 get legal involved and stuff like that. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.440 That's what I'm talking about. Bring back adults bullying kids. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.880 That's what I want to see. Oh my gosh, can 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.160 I tell you a story? Well, kids get passes for 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:42.960 way too much. I just want to be like, really, 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.320 you really want to step into this arena. I'm the 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:47.079 same size as you. People aren't even gonna flinch. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.440 It's God. Do you remember when people used to just 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:51.400 grab kids by the collar of their shirt and just 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:52.319 shake them. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:53.160 Like their own kids? 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:53.760 Yeah? 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:54.240 Other people? 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.439 Sure, you know my dad used to do. I don't remember. 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.800 My dad used to shake little kids up on the 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:03.760 playground and shit, to grab them by the collar and 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:04.520 ring it. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:06.480 Are you listening? 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:10.120 You know? Henry Cooper was a terror to kids. 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.040 It takes a village, it really does. I don't understand, 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:17.360 Like I have so many friends who have just had babies. 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.680 They have little kids right two years old, three years old, 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.880 and some who have older kids, and the amount of 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.480 stress that all of them are under and that they 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.920 feel to show up at every event, to show up 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:31.400 at the PTA meetings, at every meeting for your kid 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.880 at every like all the time, and be a really 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:36.560 good parent and never yell at your child, and gentle 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:39.840 parent whatever that is. No, it's crazy how much stress 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.400 they feel. And I just look at it all the time, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.160 and my mom called it out. She said, yeah, because 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.920 people are just raising kids now with either themselves or 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:48.840 themselves in a spouse, and that's not how it's supposed 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:49.000 to be. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:53.520 We are a communal people. It takes so much. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.040 More than just a mom and a dad to actually 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:58.440 raise your kids. Your neighbors, your grandparents, your aunts, your uncles, 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:00.960 and everybody is so spread out all over the place 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.240 that the onus falls on one or two people to 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:07.440 do all of this and still function and work and 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.640 be happy. I don't know how people with kids do it. 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:11.760 That is one of the many reasons I don't want 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:22.320 any I don't know. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.440 It scares me. I was talking to some of my 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:29.200 cousins about it this well last week, and one just 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:32.680 declared not having kids, and I was. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.840 Like, okay, there's a lot of that going around. She's like, 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:37.360 doesn't it. 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:41.080 Just sound like life is like so much better without them? 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:44.400 And it was very weird because some mother family members 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:45.840 were talking about the fact that they can't. 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:48.040 Wait to have kids, and I was like, bad timing. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:52.000 But you know what, like, why is that bad timing? 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:55.280 Your family members who want to have kids should absolutely 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.280 have kids, and that's great. I'm sure that your cousin 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.240 who said she doesn't want to have kids is not offended, 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.480 but the fact that they want to have kids. People 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.200 get offended when you say you don't want to have kids. 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.440 Well, I think the thing that a lot of people 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.160 don't talk about now is that I know a lot 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.680 of people who are struggling to sure, so in the 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:13.160 middle of conversations like that where people are being vulnerable 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.360 and she's like not doing it, it's like fucking lunatic. 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.480 I do understand that, and I know that there are 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:21.760 some sensitivities, but there is definitely a double standard. Oh yeah, 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:24.080 where people look at you saying I don't want to 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:25.800 have kids as an attack on their life. And the 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:27.480 thing is I wasn't thinking about your life at all. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.000 I was talking about life. I just think about what 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.720 I want to do with my time and my body 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:35.600 and my money and my mental health. Like, that's what 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:38.520 I was thinking about. You want to have kids, do it. 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.640 I will clap for you. I will applaud for you. 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:43.880 People just get very angry at women who say they 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:44.720 don't want to do it. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:47.480 It's crazy. People do get equally angry at men like that. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.640 No, you're right. One thing that people don't talk about 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:54.320 enough when it comes to not wanting kids is the 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:59.520 money aspect. Can you imagine cooking dinner for six people? 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:02.840 Do you know how much money that costs? Like grocery shop 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.520 and we were talking about that too. You gotta spend 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:08.480 at least two thousand dollars a month probably if you 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.000 have a family like that. Yeah, and that's not included that, 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:12.360 that's only groceries. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:14.360 And that's as long as they don't have friends come over, 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:15.920 hell and eat all your shit. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.480 Locking that shit down. Nobody could come over if they do, 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:21.600 tell their parents to pack them a lunchable. It's not happening. 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:22.760 Are you insane? 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:26.680 Know how parents could allow their friends' kids to come 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:29.600 over and like raid the refrigerator like kids used to 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.840 on TV, and shit are you because they're kids, they're growing. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.440 They gotta eat. No ringing you by the next cuss. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.560 That's one of the things I will say this, living 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:41.840 by myself all my groceries, I can just get a 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:43.560 tiny amount of groceries and I'm good with it and 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:45.680 it's not a problem. Well, these little kids come over 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:48.200 there eating all my snacks. I said, what, Oh my god, 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.040 I had to do double groceries. Id' even think about that? 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:52.320 This is insane. But yeah, eat the food, man, eat 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:52.680 the food. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:53.120 Wow. 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:56.560 You never know, it's just twenty twenty five is going 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:57.920 to be a different year. I feel it. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.800 There's something in the air. I think I like it. 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:03.800 You would think I wouldn't like it based on how 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:07.160