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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: advice on relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting and more. Please

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Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

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Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. It's just that simple. We could be

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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

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Speaker 1: going to read that one right here, right now today.

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Speaker 1: All right, buco up, hold on tight, We got it

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Speaker 1: for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you enough

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Speaker 1: you subject he wants to tell my fiance about us.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a problem that I hope

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Speaker 1: you can help me sort out because I'm really confused.

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Speaker 1: I've had a fiance for eight years. She and I

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Speaker 1: have been together since college, and we always plan to

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Speaker 1: get married, but we can't commit to setting a wedding

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Speaker 1: date or planning the wedding. We have been living like

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Speaker 1: a married couple for years. In December of last year,

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Speaker 1: someone at my job got my attention, and I have

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Speaker 1: a couple of issues with it. First off, I'm not

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Speaker 1: went to lunch together one day and we talked about

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Speaker 1: how much we have in common. He has a longtime girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: so this was all new to him too. We hung

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Speaker 1: out together for about a month, and after that I

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Speaker 1: noticed that he was getting clingy and jealous of my fiancee.

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Speaker 1: I told him that I was only trying to get

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Speaker 1: to men. I'm glad nothing. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I

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Speaker 1: I'm glad nothing happened between us, so I could break

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Speaker 1: it off with him with a clean conscience. When I

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Speaker 1: told him there would be no more dates, he did

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Speaker 1: not take it well. He told me that he had

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Speaker 1: contemplating leaving his girlfriend for me, so of course he's

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Speaker 1: mad at me for leading him on. Ever, once told

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Speaker 1: He wants to tell my fiance about the time he

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Speaker 1: spent with me, but that's nothing but a couple of

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Speaker 1: lunches here and there and us meeting up to shop together.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing to tell, but it's still stressing me out.

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Speaker 1: I can't face either one of them because I never

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Speaker 1: wanted to hurt anyone. Should I tell my fiance that

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Speaker 1: this guy came on to me, or should I be

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Speaker 1: honest that it was a mutual friendship? Okay, you say, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. You say in this letter that you're confused,

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Speaker 1: and hang on, Steve, and I have to say, I

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Speaker 1: have to say to you, mister letter writer, that so

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Speaker 1: am I I'm very confused. Are you saying that you're

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Speaker 1: be doing all of this if you weren't attracted to men?

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Speaker 1: And you say he caught your attention at the job.

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Speaker 1: I think you you know, you're what's called by curious

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Speaker 1: if nothing else, because what would happen when someone else

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Speaker 1: catches your eye? You know, you said nothing happened, You're glad,

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Speaker 1: you have a cure, conscience and all of that, you know,

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Speaker 1: but what if someone else catches your eye and you

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Speaker 1: decide to go ahead and cheat on your fiance? You

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Speaker 1: say you're not a cheater, but you know you this

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Speaker 1: is confusing. This situation was very close with you and

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Speaker 1: this guy. But what about next time? Not to mention

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Speaker 1: the threat of exposing you to your girlfriend. You know

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Speaker 1: he said he could do that. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: a real messy situation here. My advice to you is

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Speaker 1: that you're thinking about it. I think that she deserves

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Speaker 1: to know. She is your fiance of eight years. You

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Speaker 1: guys have been together since college, and you live with her.

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Speaker 1: You live with this woman when I mean, whenever you

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Speaker 1: do decide to set a date for this wedding or

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Speaker 1: I think honesty here is the best policy. If you

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Speaker 1: he wants to tell my fiance about us. Well, let

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Speaker 1: me just say this right off the dribble. The only

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Speaker 1: causing you, Pardner this all this. You're doing what you're

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Speaker 1: whole mess. Dear Stephen Sully, don't don't don't ask me.

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Speaker 1: See I'm telling you right now, I don't know none

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Speaker 1: man that don't know nothing about all of this. I

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Speaker 1: just know what I know, and that's how I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: answer the letter. So forgive me if I say anything

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Speaker 1: might be politically incorrect. I ain't trying to be funking,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna tell the truth in this letter.

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Speaker 1: Help me sort this out. I'm really confused, damn right.

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Speaker 1: I've had a fiance for eight years. She and I

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Speaker 1: have been together since college, and we always planned to

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Speaker 1: date or planning the wedding. You know why, because you

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Speaker 1: ain't committed to who you are yet. That's why you

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Speaker 1: can't get settled on a date or no damn wedding.

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Speaker 1: We've been living like a married couple for years. In

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Speaker 1: December last year, someone at my job caught my attention.

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Speaker 1: The hell you mean? Caught your attention? Do? What do

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Speaker 1: that mean? Dog? Just as a man? If somebody at

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Speaker 1: my job catch my attention, I already know what that is.

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Speaker 1: So what the hell you mean? Somebody at my job

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Speaker 1: caught my attention? And I have a couple of issues

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Speaker 1: with it? For what? First off, I'm not a cheatah,

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Speaker 1: And then there's the issue with the person being a

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Speaker 1: all this is stuff that you're doing. Dan's ain't issues

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Speaker 1: your as sister issues. Yeah yeah, and you can't do

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Speaker 1: this to your fiance. You can't. Come on, just give

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Speaker 1: me rested it. We'll have part two of Steve's response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, subject

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Speaker 1: he wants to tell my fiance about us. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject he wants

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Speaker 1: to tell my fiance about us once again. And the

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Speaker 1: only reason he want to tell the fiance something is

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Speaker 1: because you gave him something to tell or of course

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Speaker 1: we didn't know a diverse that it's a he. But

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Speaker 1: here we go, though, And then he opened the letters

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Speaker 1: with I'm really confused. That's an understatement. I've had a

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Speaker 1: in the wedding. You know why, dog, because you can't

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Speaker 1: when you gonna be whoever it is you are. We've

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Speaker 1: been living together like a married couple for years now.

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Speaker 1: In December, somebody at his job called his attention, and

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Speaker 1: I have a couple of issues with it. First of all,

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Speaker 1: And then there's an issue with the person being a

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Speaker 1: male way my holda partner. Didn't you just say somebody

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Speaker 1: at job caught your attention? Surely didn't he say that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He absolutely said that. Okay, So how that's an issue? See,

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Speaker 1: you created the issue. The dude at the job caught

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Speaker 1: your attention. He ain't got no issue. This your issue, Pardner,

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Speaker 1: And the only reason I'm saying this issue is because

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Speaker 1: that when he and I went to lunch together. Now

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Speaker 1: and head talking to him, dude like sixteen years old.

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Speaker 1: I ain't never went to lunch. We're no dude talk

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Speaker 1: about all we got income? Where to god, I ain't

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Speaker 1: we never said, see what are you all up in here?

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Speaker 1: To what's my favorite drink? And all this? Here hold on, doctor,

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Speaker 1: And then we talked about how much in common. Now

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Speaker 1: so this was all new to him too. Because you

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Speaker 1: this was all new to him too. Somebody lying, somebody

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Speaker 1: lying in this letter. Two dudes sitting around talking about

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Speaker 1: how much they got in't come in common with each other.

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Speaker 1: Both of them got girlfriends, and this new to both

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Speaker 1: of y'all. Partner miss me with this hill, This ain't

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Speaker 1: no first time partner cat your attention, caught your attention, Dog,

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Speaker 1: This ain't the first time a man caught your attention.

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Speaker 1: If you like man, this ain't the first time he

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Speaker 1: eight years. Light to men to caught your attention, You

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Speaker 1: lying dog. He got a long time girlfriend, so this

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Speaker 1: was new to him too. We hung it, higo. We

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Speaker 1: just telling you, just six three year old dude talking

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Speaker 1: what the hell you mean you're getting cleaning with me? Cleaning?

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Speaker 1: Where you're going? Where are we going? With? What is

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Speaker 1: your fiance, say, dog, just my girl. But y'all both

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Speaker 1: know what's happening. I told him that I was only

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Speaker 1: on the job. That's you already attracted. You didn't go

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Speaker 1: You attracted to men. Dog. I'm glad nothing happened between

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Speaker 1: us so I could break it off with him with

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Speaker 1: no more dates, he didn't take it. Well, what are

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Speaker 1: off dates. Y'all did something. Why are you trying to

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Speaker 1: had contemplated leaving his girlfriend from me. You are man,

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Speaker 1: and you dating to do with a girlfriend, and you

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Speaker 1: got a girlfriend, and he tell you he was thinking

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Speaker 1: about leaving Huff and you for what? Y'all just talking

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Speaker 1: seeing if y'all got anything in common? Partner, Man, you

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Speaker 1: me for leading him on. Wait a minute, leading him on,

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Speaker 1: y'all was just talking. Remember, y'all was just having stuff

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Speaker 1: break off my engagement for him, dog, just cause y'all

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Speaker 1: did something. He wants to tell my fiance about the

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Speaker 1: time he spent with me. Okay, if y'all was just talking,

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Speaker 1: what's it to tell? But that time he spent with you,

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Speaker 1: y'all did something, Dog, But that's nothing but a couple

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Speaker 1: of lunches here and there, and that's meeting up to

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Speaker 1: shop together, partner, Where have I ever met up with

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Speaker 1: one of my homies to shop together? Boy? Come on,

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Speaker 1: tell me, yes, sir, you want to meet up and

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Speaker 1: go shopping? He no, you want to come shopping with

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Speaker 1: us for what? All right, Steve? Thank you. Post your

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Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM on

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Speaker 1: the Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: podcast on demand coming up at forty six after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Guess what Steve just told me? He has a part

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Speaker 1: three to Today's Strawberry Letter. He's not done. He is

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Speaker 1: not done. Yeah, your homeboydn't got him my nerves? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right. The subject is he wanted to tell my

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Speaker 1: fiance about us. He wants to tell my fiance about us.

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Speaker 1: Steve has part three coming up right after this. You're listening,

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve? What you got? Let me say this

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Speaker 1: about this letter. This dude just had this curiosity with

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Speaker 1: this other guy at the job to find out if

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Speaker 1: he had an attraction for me. And when you just

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Speaker 1: clearly said somebody caught your eye at the job, so

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Speaker 1: it's obvious you have attraction for me. Okay, bro, that's

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Speaker 1: your life. Go do it now, you'd have told him

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Speaker 1: y'all breaking it off, But now you saying he mad

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Speaker 1: because y'all spend some time together and he was thinking

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Speaker 1: about leaving his girlfriend for you, but you never told

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Speaker 1: him you leave your fiance for him, And now he

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Speaker 1: wants to go tell your fiance about the time y'all

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Speaker 1: spend together. Well, if y'all was just having lunch and shopping,

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Speaker 1: he can go tell that. But see brou something else

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Speaker 1: happening because you said in the letter. What really threw

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Speaker 1: me off was when you said in the letter, there's

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Speaker 1: nothing to tell, but it's stressing me out. I can't

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Speaker 1: face either one of them because I never want it

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Speaker 1: to hurt anyone. Should I tell my fiance that this

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Speaker 1: guy came onto me? Or should I be honest that

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Speaker 1: it was a mutual friendship? Hold up, partner, you finling,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and tell your fiance that a guy came

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Speaker 1: on to you, or should you tell her that it

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Speaker 1: was a mutual friendship. Either way, you gonna have to

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Speaker 1: tell her the damn truth. Yeah, don't you mess this

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Speaker 1: girl's life up, leading her down this garden path that

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Speaker 1: she got something that she don't really have. You like

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Speaker 1: me and doc, go only get you a man. Don't

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Speaker 1: play this girl out. No more so talking about should

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Speaker 1: I tell him that he came on to me? Or

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Speaker 1: it was a mutual friendship? No, no, no, dog somebody

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Speaker 1: job caught your attention. See, don't lie on the dude,

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Speaker 1: because when you lie on him, he gonna tell the

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Speaker 1: truth on her. It was a mutual friendship. It was

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Speaker 1: just two dudes having lunch together and shot and shopping.

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Speaker 1: That's what that was supposed to be. Y'all was just shopping,

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Speaker 1: But y'all wasn't just shopping. Y'all was trying to see

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Speaker 1: if you had an attraction to men and you do. No,

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Speaker 1: that's your life. Just go do you, But don't drag

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Speaker 1: this girl down this dog pathway because you're wrong for that.

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Speaker 1: You like me and go get me, and don't you

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Speaker 1: do You don't, junior, You ain't never cut my attention

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Speaker 1: down here at the job. All the times you can

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Speaker 1: call my team, I can't even see you, But all

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Speaker 1: the times you can call my attention is because I

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Speaker 1: realized just how IGNI your ass was ignis has caught

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Speaker 1: my attention. Ain't not not him. You had on a

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Speaker 1: pair of shoes one time I like but you don't

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Speaker 1: like him anything. But I couldn't imagine what they would

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Speaker 1: look like in the thirteen, so I just said that

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Speaker 1: middle side six, I ain't, I ain't coming up. At

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, a man leaves a job

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Speaker 1: interview after he's been kept waiting for thirty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: The Internet applauded him. We'll talk about that right after this.

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