Speaker 1: Hey, we got a lot of new listeners finding us again.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. It's Brocket Jeffrey. This is the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update podcast. And just so you know the
Speaker 1: show was still going there is. There is a lot
Speaker 1: of people that are listening to episodes from fifteen years ago.
Speaker 2: You guys are stuck in twenty thirteen, and I hope
Speaker 2: one day this finds you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's funny because some people are like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: love the show and binge to everything all day for years.
Speaker 5: And some people just found us something. Yeah, sounds a
Speaker 5: little different.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, there's a lot of like, hey, can you guys
Speaker 2: keep doing Second Date updates and like we're here.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So so thank you for finding us and thank
Speaker 1: you for being in the present day. We do have
Speaker 1: a brand new episode today. It's an update update. So
Speaker 1: remember we're going to play the original where the couple
Speaker 1: was on with us, and then in part three skip dunes.
Speaker 1: In part three we get them back on the phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and see what has happened since. So before we get there,
Speaker 1: what do you got for comments, Alexis Yeah.
Speaker 2: Noel Lopez said, do they read these comments on YouTube?
Speaker 2: I've been wanting to comment and I don't know if
Speaker 2: they'll see it. Yeah, so yes, we're check Brooke and I.
Speaker 2: We're looking at all the comments literally everywhere, dude, and
Speaker 2: the ones from fifteen years ago.
Speaker 1: We see you, We see you so thank you so much.
Speaker 1: We know it takes time and energy out of your
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Speaker 1: so we truly appreciate it. We got your brand new
Speaker 1: episode starting right now.
Speaker 6: Sometimes in the dating world and just in life, you'll
Speaker 6: get asked strange, out of left field questions, and before
Speaker 6: you crinkle your nose and jump to conclusions, it's important
Speaker 6: to consider not just what they're asking, but why are
Speaker 6: they asking it, what's their motivation. Like in today's call,
Speaker 6: one of our listeners asked his data question that might
Speaker 6: be considered rude and insensitive until you learn why he's asking,
Speaker 6: and suddenly it's kind of sweet.
Speaker 4: Kind of whatever he says, kind of almost you're going
Speaker 4: to hear the show talking question and why it was
Speaker 4: totally not inappropriate and creepy for him to ask you.
Speaker 5: Because we've got a special Second Date Update update coming
Speaker 5: up right after this.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 6: We have a textboard at seven, eight, five nine two
Speaker 6: where listeners can send texts into our show, and unfortunately
Speaker 6: sometimes we do have to block people if they cross
Speaker 6: the line with us.
Speaker 1: It's been so long since I've blocked anyone, though, like
Speaker 1: I feel like years.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 6: Anytime you come out the girls or you're like brook's
Speaker 6: a B word, you're blocked.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, only I can.
Speaker 1: Say that's happening because we're blocking.
Speaker 5: If you're rude to any of us.
Speaker 6: Blocked, if you criticize our hero of the week because
Speaker 6: you didn't like my choice, block, if you compliment me
Speaker 6: and tell me that I'm cute and fancy, very blocked.
Speaker 5: I'm a shy boy. I don't like compliments that come staring.
Speaker 1: Listeners are so nice? Were not blocking people?
Speaker 5: Too nice? If you asked me blocked.
Speaker 6: That's why one of our listeners, Aaron, reached out to
Speaker 6: us because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody
Speaker 6: and he has no idea.
Speaker 5: Why fight the urge to compliment Jeff or you will
Speaker 5: be blocked right now.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, was it, Jose, Yeah.
Speaker 5: I'll block you right away, Aaron, what's up man? Welcome
Speaker 5: to the show.
Speaker 7: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 5: Don't you talk bad about the girls. I'm sorry she
Speaker 5: called you guys.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't care. What is happening, Aaron?
Speaker 1: How are you doing?
Speaker 7: Oh? I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as the
Speaker 7: why I got blocked, but I was sold. Maybe you
Speaker 7: guys can help me out with that, hopefully.
Speaker 5: Did you say anything mean against people blocked here?
Speaker 1: I was thinking unsolicited pictures or what? I'm curious are
Speaker 1: you blocked? Are you talking about text? Social media?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 1: What are you blocked on?
Speaker 5: Good question?
Speaker 7: She blocked my number?
Speaker 1: Oh really? Person?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so tell us about this woman who blocked you.
Speaker 6: What's her name?
Speaker 7: Okay? So her name is Jenna. Okay. We matched on
Speaker 7: Hinge and we went on one kind of date.
Speaker 1: What do you mean kind of date? Was it like
Speaker 1: one of those pre dates where you just meet for
Speaker 1: coffee for twenty minutes to see if a real date's
Speaker 1: worth it.
Speaker 7: So as soon as we matched, we started talking and
Speaker 7: then we were hanging out like an hour later.
Speaker 1: What oh, yeah, turn on the same day that you matched?
Speaker 7: Yeah? How well? So she told me that she was
Speaker 7: taking her dog out for a walk, So I said, hey,
Speaker 7: I haven't got my cardio and yet today, Why don't
Speaker 7: I come with you and we can just talk.
Speaker 5: Oh oh, you invited yourself to her dog walk?
Speaker 6: Okay, you random alexis your dog walker with This'll be
Speaker 6: a good date if.
Speaker 1: A guy was dogs with guys all the time.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's a good dad idea. You walk the guys
Speaker 5: too little lesha on them and I.
Speaker 8: Can't Oh no, but I do make them clean up.
Speaker 5: The dog poop.
Speaker 1: You don't want to do that for Why did jes
Speaker 1: make so hopeful when he asked that.
Speaker 6: I didn't know that that was a service. If it's
Speaker 6: offered out there, I got to look it up. But
Speaker 6: how did the dog walk go with Jenna?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 7: It was mostly small talk. It was kind of more
Speaker 7: like a pre date than anything where we were looking
Speaker 7: to know each other.
Speaker 1: And that's okay, I mean that's to be expected. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what was the like chemistry or attraction level?
Speaker 7: I thought I was picking something up?
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, she didn't seem like she cut it off?
Speaker 7: Like how did it end?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 7: Yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are you
Speaker 7: doing on Hinge? And I ended up making a joke
Speaker 7: where like, uh, yeah, I ended up having to delete
Speaker 7: Hinge because I just I had a full in box
Speaker 7: and people kept trying to talk to me and get
Speaker 7: with me. And it ended not long after that.
Speaker 1: That was that was supposed to be a joke.
Speaker 7: Yeah, see, I maybe I messed up and she just
Speaker 7: thinks I'm full of myself when I was just trying
Speaker 7: to be funny.
Speaker 6: Sure, but that doesn't seem like enough to want to
Speaker 6: block your number from every wanting to contact you.
Speaker 1: Did things change after that moment?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 3: Not real?
Speaker 7: It ended not long after that, so I don't know.
Speaker 7: Maybe she wanted to cut it short.
Speaker 6: Is it possible that you're just a really slow walker
Speaker 6: and it pissed her off? Or yeah, you got to
Speaker 6: match your stride for stride?
Speaker 1: Just one of those guys who walks in front of
Speaker 1: a woman the whole time like a step and a half.
Speaker 1: It drives me nuts.
Speaker 5: How's you're walking?
Speaker 7: I felt like I matched her stride for stride, but
Speaker 7: I wasn't really focused on that.
Speaker 5: Okay, let's say you got to pass on the walking.
Speaker 5: What else could it have been, Brooke?
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked, did
Speaker 1: you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you?
Speaker 1: Or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand.
Speaker 7: Question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later and
Speaker 7: it was didn't go through. So it seems like she
Speaker 7: blocked me almost immediately.
Speaker 1: You tell me you were blocked. It never it just
Speaker 1: never says delivered.
Speaker 9: It's never.
Speaker 5: Later, still got delivered.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I through my text.
Speaker 6: We're all experts on different areas of dating in here,
Speaker 6: So okay, how long has it been since you got blocked?
Speaker 7: Been about a week at this point, You guys.
Speaker 1: What if it's just an accident. What if she just
Speaker 1: got like you don't have two left thumbs and she has.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I actually hit buttons in my
Speaker 1: back pocket or something, and like.
Speaker 7: Her pockets.
Speaker 1: You never know what the right butt sheet can do.
Speaker 5: Walk have a dexterous cheek back there.
Speaker 7: But I mean, yeah, hopefully that's did. But I had
Speaker 7: a good time with her. I'd like to see if
Speaker 7: there was something more there.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, she should definitely give you another.
Speaker 6: Chance, or at least an explanation for why you've been blocked.
Speaker 6: We're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked
Speaker 6: us already. But answer, I'm sure a lot of people have,
Speaker 6: but if she picks up, we'll ask her all the
Speaker 6: important questions and try and get you your second date
Speaker 6: update right after this.
Speaker 7: Thank good?
Speaker 5: All right, man, hold on.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. We're in the middle of a second
Speaker 1: date update update, and we're gonna find out how the
Speaker 1: couple is doing right after you here Part two.
Speaker 6: Just to recap real quick if you miss part one,
Speaker 6: one of our listeners air and hung out with a
Speaker 6: lady and that happened within an hour of matching.
Speaker 5: They were on a dog walk together.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 6: The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour.
Speaker 6: An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean this
Speaker 6: girl works fast. Yeah, and we're trying to help Aaron
Speaker 6: get some answers about what he did wrong or maybe
Speaker 6: it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked.
Speaker 6: We don't really know.
Speaker 5: At least we can pinpoint like an hour and a
Speaker 5: half timeframe.
Speaker 1: We asked all about whether she liked him and what
Speaker 1: it was like with him. We never asked did the
Speaker 1: dog like you?
Speaker 5: Oh, did the dogs like he? Shother?
Speaker 7: Did one bite the other?
Speaker 1: I don't think he had a dog. I don't think
Speaker 1: she was just joining him on apologies out.
Speaker 6: He had a dog too, Aaron, could you get a
Speaker 6: read on Jenna's dog's feelings towards you.
Speaker 7: I think he was kind of focused on the walk.
Speaker 7: He gave me a sniff, he sussed me out, but
Speaker 7: he wasn't super that's not good.
Speaker 1: I say. I think that's okay as long as there's
Speaker 1: no growlly like nipping.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates.
Speaker 5: That's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Right from the beginning.
Speaker 5: I'm dying to get nipped.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I don't know any last words erin before
Speaker 6: we dial the number.
Speaker 7: At the very least, I hope she answers, and I
Speaker 7: hope she telled me what I did wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good attitude going in to learn something.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 5: Let's set that bar super super low.
Speaker 7: So here we go.
Speaker 5: I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she
Speaker 5: picks up.
Speaker 8: Hello.
Speaker 5: Hey is this Jenna.
Speaker 6: This is this is an actually radio show called Brook
Speaker 6: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, who.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of us in here.
Speaker 6: We're a radio show and we do this segment that
Speaker 6: you're on right now. Called a second date update, and
Speaker 6: one of our listeners reached out about you, named Aaron.
Speaker 9: Okay response, We figured you might not have the best
Speaker 9: reaction because we heard that after the date you blocked
Speaker 9: him and he just doesn't know why or if that
Speaker 9: was on purpose.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, no, I definitely blocked him on purpose.
Speaker 6: Okay, So what we know is that you guys went
Speaker 6: on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last
Speaker 6: very long. So maybe you could tell us your version
Speaker 6: of the hangout and that would help us understand a
Speaker 6: little more clearly.
Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd
Speaker 8: show up with his dog too.
Speaker 5: I assumed he had a dog already. The girls had
Speaker 5: to correct me.
Speaker 1: Why would you assume that?
Speaker 8: Well, because we met up to walk our dogs, so
Speaker 8: I thought. But we met up to walk my dog.
Speaker 8: He literally just wanted to walk with me while I
Speaker 8: walked my dog.
Speaker 1: That just sounds like a miscommunication. Did me say you
Speaker 1: need to get his cardio in for the days?
Speaker 5: I would have blocked him for that too.
Speaker 8: That's not why I blocked him.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, So are you saying you're disappointed that
Speaker 1: he didn't have a dog.
Speaker 8: I was surprised, but I got over it quick. It
Speaker 8: wasn't that big of a deal. We were getting to
Speaker 8: know each other.
Speaker 5: So where did the date shift for you in your mind?
Speaker 8: Well? Then he asks me, so what's your credit score?
Speaker 8: Should I be worried?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Well, no, he sounds like he's trying to be funny.
Speaker 6: He told us that there was a few jokes that
Speaker 6: he tried to make and they didn't quite land.
Speaker 8: It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted
Speaker 8: to know.
Speaker 1: Did you tell wait, did you tell him?
Speaker 8: No? I didn't tell him. I thought it was so
Speaker 8: out of line.
Speaker 5: I feel like that's less like intense than it used to.
Speaker 1: Be people in a thirty minute conversation.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it was really quick. I mean, I don't even
Speaker 8: know that we should be talking about that on a
Speaker 8: fifth or a sixth date.
Speaker 1: I am sure he wasn't joking, though, Like when you
Speaker 1: didn't tell him, what kind of response did he give you?
Speaker 8: We both just kind of laughed it off, but he
Speaker 8: definitely still seemed like he seriously wanted to know.
Speaker 6: Okay, it's possible that it was a joke and it
Speaker 6: just didn't come across the right way, and the best
Speaker 6: way to find out is to have you.
Speaker 5: Well, at least have you talked to.
Speaker 6: Him about it, because you might not know this, Jenna.
Speaker 6: But Aaron's on the other line right now, listening to
Speaker 6: this conversation.
Speaker 8: The guy I blocked is on the phone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, him yet, But when.
Speaker 1: You say it that way, it doesn't feel as fun. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yes, hopefully he has an explanation though, Aaron, are you there?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, jokester, Hey, you.
Speaker 1: Want to know our social Security number? Next date?
Speaker 5: Or at least say something to Jenna.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in
Speaker 7: today's dating culture. I'm trying to find a long term
Speaker 7: partner and I'm right and not waste time.
Speaker 8: See, I knew you were joking. I knew you actually
Speaker 8: wanted to know my.
Speaker 6: Credit or that's a lot, but he wanted to know
Speaker 6: it for honorable reasons.
Speaker 1: Because he wants to be with you for a Unless
Speaker 1: you have a score of under seven fifty.
Speaker 5: Yes, loans, his love is not real.
Speaker 6: That's gott to change how you feel about it a
Speaker 6: little bit, right, Jenna?
Speaker 8: No, not at all?
Speaker 6: Oh man, man, Aaron, Aaron, you see how that's kind
Speaker 6: of weird.
Speaker 5: What if she's the love of your life and she
Speaker 5: has a bad credit score.
Speaker 1: I mean it's not very romantic.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well honest, I was kind of asking to see
Speaker 7: if you'd be interested in like a no string attached
Speaker 7: financial compensation thing.
Speaker 1: What m hmmm, like a sugar dad exclation. Do you
Speaker 1: know what he's talking about?
Speaker 8: I mean it sounds like he's looking to be my
Speaker 8: sugar daddy.
Speaker 5: That's how it sounds to us.
Speaker 1: I think I heard it as he wants you to
Speaker 1: be the sugar mom. That's why he's asking your score.
Speaker 7: Can you clarify Aaron closer to what she said? I
Speaker 7: don't like that term. I don't see it like that.
Speaker 7: I would just see paying for companionship if.
Speaker 1: She's the one getting paid. Why is her credit score matter?
Speaker 7: Well, I need to know if it's something she's interested in.
Speaker 7: If her credit score is low enough, then you.
Speaker 1: Can build I see you were looking for a low
Speaker 1: credit score this whole time. I was thinking of a bigote.
Speaker 5: You want to help her life and like financially, I.
Speaker 1: Feel like there's a different app you should go on.
Speaker 6: The hints I can recommend four of them, But Jenna,
Speaker 6: are you are you hearing this?
Speaker 8: Yeah? I'm hearing it.
Speaker 5: Pretty shock sounding.
Speaker 1: Are you interested in something like that?
Speaker 8: I mean, this is definitely not the way that I
Speaker 8: expected this to go. I mean I was with you, guys.
Speaker 8: I thought that he was making sure I had a
Speaker 8: flawless credit score here. I mean realistically, I think depending
Speaker 8: on the amount of money, anybody could be interested.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wait, Wait a second, Wait, we have to reach.
Speaker 5: What does this mean?
Speaker 1: This is a totally different type of relationship.
Speaker 7: Certainly is. But JN think you are interested?
Speaker 8: I don't know. I am open to thinking about it.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking
Speaker 6: Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and
Speaker 6: we would pay for it.
Speaker 7: We don't even need to go out. I can send
Speaker 7: you a couple of texts we can see if you're
Speaker 7: into it. Okay, at little negotiation starter.
Speaker 5: Wait, well, that saves us money and I love that.
Speaker 6: So that's up to you, Jenna, Will you or will
Speaker 6: you not unblock Aaron?
Speaker 1: That could be a fun new segment.
Speaker 9: Thing.
Speaker 8: I think I'll unblock him.
Speaker 1: Whoa romance is dead?
Speaker 8: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Last time we spoke to Jenna, she was considering the
Speaker 6: option of being a potential sugar baby to erin. So
Speaker 6: let's just get to the obvious question, because she's on
Speaker 6: the phone right now, Jenna, did that end up happening?
Speaker 8: So we did. I'm not meeting up after we talked
Speaker 8: to you.
Speaker 1: Guys got on block. I bet you had so many
Speaker 1: thoughts going through your head before that meet up.
Speaker 8: I did, but I decided to give it a shot.
Speaker 1: So wait, so you what was the exchange here?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought it was just her.
Speaker 3: I was helping her pay for a rent, that was
Speaker 3: helping her pay off her car. It was nice for
Speaker 3: a few months.
Speaker 5: For a few months. Was a few months?
Speaker 7: What do you mean? Well, so I ended up getting
Speaker 7: laid off because I was made read London's by.
Speaker 1: Aih sugar Daddy's.
Speaker 7: You couldn't afford to do the sugar daddy thing anymore?
Speaker 6: Oh no, So then, now what happened? You're in a
Speaker 6: normal relationship.
Speaker 8: Now, Well, we had actually we had gotten to a
Speaker 8: point where our original arrangement was working pretty well. I
Speaker 8: never thought I was that girl, but it really worked,
Speaker 8: and so we had actually been talking about me quitting
Speaker 8: my job.
Speaker 1: Please tell me you didn't do that before he got
Speaker 1: laid out.
Speaker 8: Fortunately, no. But once Saren did get leto, I ended
Speaker 8: up really pulling some extra weight at my job and
Speaker 8: you know, picking up all the extra hours and stuff
Speaker 8: like that, and roles kind of reversed and I kind
Speaker 8: of became a sugar mama.
Speaker 1: I know, the iron How is it being in the
Speaker 1: power position?
Speaker 8: I kind of like being the sugar mama better.
Speaker 5: Wow, that's nice.
Speaker 6: Well, it's I'm glad to hear you too, are It
Speaker 6: sounds like happy And it's not the relationship you started with.
Speaker 5: Maybe it's better.
Speaker 8: It's not what we originally talked about. I mean, he
Speaker 8: ended up moving in with me and it's working great.
Speaker 1: It's funny because if you take the titles out, you're
Speaker 1: just in a normal relationship.
Speaker 6: It's really strange, but I like it all right.
Speaker 5: You will keep us updated. You two, thanks for emailing
Speaker 5: the show. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.