WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Pre-Blocked 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.280 Hey, we got a lot of new listeners finding us again. 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:05.440 Thank you so much. It's Brocket Jeffrey. This is the 0:00:05.440 --> 0:00:09.560 Second Date Update podcast. And just so you know the 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.920 show was still going there is. There is a lot 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:16.120 of people that are listening to episodes from fifteen years ago. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.640 You guys are stuck in twenty thirteen, and I hope 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:19.840 one day this finds you. 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:20.279 Yeah. 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:22.360 It's funny because some people are like, oh my god, 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.760 love the show and binge to everything all day for years. 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:27.240 And some people just found us something. Yeah, sounds a 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:27.920 little different. 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:28.240 Yeah. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.360 No, there's a lot of like, hey, can you guys 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:32.640 keep doing Second Date updates and like we're here. 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:35.960 Yeah. So so thank you for finding us and thank 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:37.680 you for being in the present day. We do have 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.600 a brand new episode today. It's an update update. So 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.160 remember we're going to play the original where the couple 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:46.680 was on with us, and then in part three skip dunes. 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:49.560 In part three we get them back on the phone. Yeah, 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:52.440 and see what has happened since. So before we get there, 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.240 what do you got for comments, Alexis Yeah. 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.160 Noel Lopez said, do they read these comments on YouTube? 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:58.920 I've been wanting to comment and I don't know if 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:02.200 they'll see it. Yeah, so yes, we're check Brooke and I. 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:05.520 We're looking at all the comments literally everywhere, dude, and 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:06.600 the ones from fifteen years ago. 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:09.800 We see you, We see you so thank you so much. 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:11.480 We know it takes time and energy out of your 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.520 day comment and even just find the show and listen, 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:16.840 so we truly appreciate it. We got your brand new 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.040 episode starting right now. 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:23.240 Sometimes in the dating world and just in life, you'll 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:27.839 get asked strange, out of left field questions, and before 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:31.440 you crinkle your nose and jump to conclusions, it's important 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:35.840 to consider not just what they're asking, but why are 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:40.640 they asking it, what's their motivation. Like in today's call, 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:43.360 one of our listeners asked his data question that might 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:49.880 be considered rude and insensitive until you learn why he's asking, 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.440 and suddenly it's kind of sweet. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:59.200 Kind of whatever he says, kind of almost you're going 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.720 to hear the show talking question and why it was 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:05.080 totally not inappropriate and creepy for him to ask you. 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.600 Because we've got a special Second Date Update update coming 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:10.160 up right after this. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.640 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:16.200 We have a textboard at seven, eight, five nine two 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:20.160 where listeners can send texts into our show, and unfortunately 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:23.200 sometimes we do have to block people if they cross 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:24.000 the line with us. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:27.280 It's been so long since I've blocked anyone, though, like 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:28.400 I feel like years. 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:29.000 Oh. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:31.280 Anytime you come out the girls or you're like brook's 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:32.720 a B word, you're blocked. 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.200 Yeah, okay, only I can. 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:40.519 Say that's happening because we're blocking. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.000 If you're rude to any of us. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.200 Blocked, if you criticize our hero of the week because 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:50.960 you didn't like my choice, block, if you compliment me 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.760 and tell me that I'm cute and fancy, very blocked. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.000 I'm a shy boy. I don't like compliments that come staring. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:01.440 Listeners are so nice? Were not blocking people? 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.079 Too nice? If you asked me blocked. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.080 That's why one of our listeners, Aaron, reached out to 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:11.000 us because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:12.640 and he has no idea. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:15.839 Why fight the urge to compliment Jeff or you will 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:16.560 be blocked right now. 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:19.560 I'm gonna say, was it, Jose, Yeah. 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:21.080 I'll block you right away, Aaron, what's up man? Welcome 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:21.520 to the show. 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:23.280 Hey guys, thanks for having me. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:26.519 Don't you talk bad about the girls. I'm sorry she 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:27.280 called you guys. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:30.720 Oh my god, I didn't care. What is happening, Aaron? 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:31.919 How are you doing? 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.960 Oh? I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as the 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.080 why I got blocked, but I was sold. Maybe you 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.200 guys can help me out with that, hopefully. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:41.800 Did you say anything mean against people blocked here? 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:45.520 I was thinking unsolicited pictures or what? I'm curious are 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:47.240 you blocked? Are you talking about text? Social media? 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:47.400 Like? 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:48.240 What are you blocked on? 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:49.000 Good question? 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:50.280 She blocked my number? 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.840 Oh really? Person? 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.160 Yeah, so tell us about this woman who blocked you. 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:57.000 What's her name? 0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:59.960 Okay? So her name is Jenna. Okay. We matched on 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:04.280 Hinge and we went on one kind of date. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.400 What do you mean kind of date? Was it like 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.080 one of those pre dates where you just meet for 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:10.240 coffee for twenty minutes to see if a real date's 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:10.640 worth it. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.880 So as soon as we matched, we started talking and 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.480 then we were hanging out like an hour later. 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:21.799 What oh, yeah, turn on the same day that you matched? 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:25.919 Yeah? How well? So she told me that she was 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:28.240 taking her dog out for a walk, So I said, hey, 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.360 I haven't got my cardio and yet today, Why don't 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.320 I come with you and we can just talk. 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.520 Oh oh, you invited yourself to her dog walk? 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.479 Okay, you random alexis your dog walker with This'll be 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:39.280 a good date if. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.120 A guy was dogs with guys all the time. 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.920 Yes, it's a good dad idea. You walk the guys 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:47.680 too little lesha on them and I. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.240 Can't Oh no, but I do make them clean up. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:50.600 The dog poop. 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:51.840 You don't want to do that for Why did jes 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:53.240 make so hopeful when he asked that. 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:54.920 I didn't know that that was a service. If it's 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:56.440 offered out there, I got to look it up. But 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.160 how did the dog walk go with Jenna? 0:04:59.440 --> 0:04:59.560 Uh? 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.200 It was mostly small talk. It was kind of more 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.279 like a pre date than anything where we were looking 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:05.040 to know each other. 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.120 And that's okay, I mean that's to be expected. Yeah, 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.400 what was the like chemistry or attraction level? 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:12.960 I thought I was picking something up? 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:16.560 Okay, Okay, she didn't seem like she cut it off? 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:17.760 Like how did it end? 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:18.560 So? 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:20.919 Yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are you 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.520 doing on Hinge? And I ended up making a joke 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.440 where like, uh, yeah, I ended up having to delete 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:27.520 Hinge because I just I had a full in box 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:30.520 and people kept trying to talk to me and get 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:33.360 with me. And it ended not long after that. 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.919 That was that was supposed to be a joke. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:39.680 Yeah, see, I maybe I messed up and she just 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.560 thinks I'm full of myself when I was just trying 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:42.080 to be funny. 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.680 Sure, but that doesn't seem like enough to want to 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:48.039 block your number from every wanting to contact you. 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.040 Did things change after that moment? 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:51.360 Uh? 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:52.120 Not real? 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.159 It ended not long after that, so I don't know. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:55.599 Maybe she wanted to cut it short. 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:58.320 Is it possible that you're just a really slow walker 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:03.479 and it pissed her off? Or yeah, you got to 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:04.880 match your stride for stride? 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:06.880 Just one of those guys who walks in front of 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:09.039 a woman the whole time like a step and a half. 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:10.080 It drives me nuts. 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:10.880 How's you're walking? 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:14.920 I felt like I matched her stride for stride, but 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:16.520 I wasn't really focused on that. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.160 Okay, let's say you got to pass on the walking. 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:20.600 What else could it have been, Brooke? 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:23.240 I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked, did 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.640 you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you? 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:28.440 Or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand. 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:31.960 Question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later and 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.440 it was didn't go through. So it seems like she 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.680 blocked me almost immediately. 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:39.680 You tell me you were blocked. It never it just 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:40.520 never says delivered. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:40.920 It's never. 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:45.400 Later, still got delivered. 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:47.839 Yeah, I through my text. 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:51.760 We're all experts on different areas of dating in here, 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.479 So okay, how long has it been since you got blocked? 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:57.520 Been about a week at this point, You guys. 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:59.400 What if it's just an accident. What if she just 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:02.520 got like you don't have two left thumbs and she has. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.279 I don't know. Sometimes I actually hit buttons in my 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:07.200 back pocket or something, and like. 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:09.440 Her pockets. 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:15.400 You never know what the right butt sheet can do. 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.680 Walk have a dexterous cheek back there. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.680 But I mean, yeah, hopefully that's did. But I had 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.040 a good time with her. I'd like to see if 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:26.040 there was something more there. 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:29.440 Okay, Yeah, she should definitely give you another. 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:32.520 Chance, or at least an explanation for why you've been blocked. 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.640 We're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:38.640 us already. But answer, I'm sure a lot of people have, 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:41.080 but if she picks up, we'll ask her all the 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:43.400 important questions and try and get you your second date 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:44.600 update right after this. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:45.480 Thank good? 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:46.560 All right, man, hold on. 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:47.960 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:50.440 Second Date Update. We're in the middle of a second 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.440 date update update, and we're gonna find out how the 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.280 couple is doing right after you here Part two. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.480 Just to recap real quick if you miss part one, 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:00.960 one of our listeners air and hung out with a 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.120 lady and that happened within an hour of matching. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:05.800 They were on a dog walk together. 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:06.400 Yeah. 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:09.720 The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour. 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:13.840 An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean this 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.960 girl works fast. Yeah, and we're trying to help Aaron 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.280 get some answers about what he did wrong or maybe 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:23.360 it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked. 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:24.160 We don't really know. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.560 At least we can pinpoint like an hour and a 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:27.360 half timeframe. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.040 We asked all about whether she liked him and what 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.120 it was like with him. We never asked did the 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:33.000 dog like you? 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:35.640 Oh, did the dogs like he? Shother? 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:36.719 Did one bite the other? 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.480 I don't think he had a dog. I don't think 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.240 she was just joining him on apologies out. 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:42.640 He had a dog too, Aaron, could you get a 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:45.240 read on Jenna's dog's feelings towards you. 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:47.840 I think he was kind of focused on the walk. 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.200 He gave me a sniff, he sussed me out, but 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.679 he wasn't super that's not good. 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.080 I say. I think that's okay as long as there's 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:56.439 no growlly like nipping. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:59.720 Yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:00.600 That's a good thing. 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:03.160 Right from the beginning. 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:04.680 I'm dying to get nipped. 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:10.480 Yeah, so I don't know any last words erin before 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:11.319 we dial the number. 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:15.320 At the very least, I hope she answers, and I 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:16.959 hope she telled me what I did wrong. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.480 Yeah, that's a good attitude going in to learn something. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:20.960 I like that. 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.000 Let's set that bar super super low. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:23.680 So here we go. 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:25.719 I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:26.200 picks up. 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:34.439 Hello. 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:35.920 Hey is this Jenna. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:41.120 This is this is an actually radio show called Brook 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:42.000 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:43.800 Hey, welcome to the show. 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.439 I'm sorry, who. 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:49.240 Yeah, there's a lot of us in here. 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:52.560 We're a radio show and we do this segment that 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.040 you're on right now. Called a second date update, and 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.640 one of our listeners reached out about you, named Aaron. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:05.720 Okay response, We figured you might not have the best 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.560 reaction because we heard that after the date you blocked 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:13.240 him and he just doesn't know why or if that 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:14.040 was on purpose. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:17.199 Oh yeah, no, I definitely blocked him on purpose. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:20.559 Okay, So what we know is that you guys went 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.280 on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.560 very long. So maybe you could tell us your version 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.079 of the hangout and that would help us understand a 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.800 little more clearly. 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.840 Okay, Well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.040 show up with his dog too. 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:37.560 I assumed he had a dog already. The girls had 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:38.160 to correct me. 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:39.800 Why would you assume that? 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:44.760 Well, because we met up to walk our dogs, so 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:47.360 I thought. But we met up to walk my dog. 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:50.360 He literally just wanted to walk with me while I 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:51.120 walked my dog. 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:54.280 That just sounds like a miscommunication. Did me say you 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:55.600 need to get his cardio in for the days? 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:59.160 I would have blocked him for that too. 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:00.839 That's not why I blocked him. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:04.200 Oh okay, okay, So are you saying you're disappointed that 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:05.000 he didn't have a dog. 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.160 I was surprised, but I got over it quick. It 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.320 wasn't that big of a deal. We were getting to 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:10.880 know each other. 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.680 So where did the date shift for you in your mind? 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:18.680 Well? Then he asks me, so what's your credit score? 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:19.840 Should I be worried? 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:21.320 Oh? 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.520 Well, no, he sounds like he's trying to be funny. 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.120 He told us that there was a few jokes that 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:29.080 he tried to make and they didn't quite land. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.960 It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:33.240 to know. 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:36.359 Did you tell wait, did you tell him? 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:38.960 No? I didn't tell him. I thought it was so 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:40.040 out of line. 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.600 I feel like that's less like intense than it used to. 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.720 Be people in a thirty minute conversation. 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.240 Yeah, it was really quick. I mean, I don't even 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:50.960 know that we should be talking about that on a 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:52.120 fifth or a sixth date. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:55.400 I am sure he wasn't joking, though, Like when you 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:58.600 didn't tell him, what kind of response did he give you? 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.560 We both just kind of laughed it off, but he 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:04.400 definitely still seemed like he seriously wanted to know. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.920 Okay, it's possible that it was a joke and it 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:10.000 just didn't come across the right way, and the best 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:11.520 way to find out is to have you. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.160 Well, at least have you talked to. 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.640 Him about it, because you might not know this, Jenna. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.720 But Aaron's on the other line right now, listening to 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:20.439 this conversation. 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:23.840 The guy I blocked is on the phone. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:27.120 Yeah, him yet, But when. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.600 You say it that way, it doesn't feel as fun. Yeah. 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:34.120 Yes, hopefully he has an explanation though, Aaron, are you there? 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:35.440 Hey? 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.720 Yeah, hey, jokester, Hey, you. 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:43.280 Want to know our social Security number? Next date? 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.560 Or at least say something to Jenna. 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:50.400 I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.520 today's dating culture. I'm trying to find a long term 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:56.920 partner and I'm right and not waste time. 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:01.680 See, I knew you were joking. I knew you actually 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:02.600 wanted to know my. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:06.520 Credit or that's a lot, but he wanted to know 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:08.479 it for honorable reasons. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:10.240 Because he wants to be with you for a Unless 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:11.920 you have a score of under seven fifty. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:15.040 Yes, loans, his love is not real. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:16.920 That's gott to change how you feel about it a 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:18.360 little bit, right, Jenna? 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:20.320 No, not at all? 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:25.240 Oh man, man, Aaron, Aaron, you see how that's kind 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:25.520 of weird. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.200 What if she's the love of your life and she 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:28.080 has a bad credit score. 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:29.640 I mean it's not very romantic. 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:33.120 Yeah, well honest, I was kind of asking to see 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:36.640 if you'd be interested in like a no string attached 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:38.600 financial compensation thing. 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:43.520 What m hmmm, like a sugar dad exclation. Do you 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:44.480 know what he's talking about? 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.440 I mean it sounds like he's looking to be my 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:48.200 sugar daddy. 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:49.640 That's how it sounds to us. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.120 I think I heard it as he wants you to 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.920 be the sugar mom. That's why he's asking your score. 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:57.960 Can you clarify Aaron closer to what she said? I 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.400 don't like that term. I don't see it like that. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:04.040 I would just see paying for companionship if. 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.200 She's the one getting paid. Why is her credit score matter? 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:10.360 Well, I need to know if it's something she's interested in. 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:12.800 If her credit score is low enough, then you. 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.880 Can build I see you were looking for a low 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:20.720 credit score this whole time. I was thinking of a bigote. 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.240 You want to help her life and like financially, I. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:25.760 Feel like there's a different app you should go on. 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:32.680 The hints I can recommend four of them, But Jenna, 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:34.120 are you are you hearing this? 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:37.440 Yeah? I'm hearing it. 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:41.520 Pretty shock sounding. 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:43.640 Are you interested in something like that? 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:49.720 I mean, this is definitely not the way that I 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:53.880 expected this to go. I mean I was with you, guys. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:56.000 I thought that he was making sure I had a 0:14:56.520 --> 0:15:00.840 flawless credit score here. I mean realistically, I think depending 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:04.080 on the amount of money, anybody could be interested. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:10.920 Yeah, I wait, Wait a second, Wait, we have to reach. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.360 What does this mean? 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.080 This is a totally different type of relationship. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:17.720 Certainly is. But JN think you are interested? 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:22.000 I don't know. I am open to thinking about it. 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:27.040 Okay, Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.600 Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:30.680 we would pay for it. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.080 We don't even need to go out. I can send 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.040 you a couple of texts we can see if you're 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:38.440 into it. Okay, at little negotiation starter. 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:40.440 Wait, well, that saves us money and I love that. 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:43.520 So that's up to you, Jenna, Will you or will 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.120 you not unblock Aaron? 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:47.240 That could be a fun new segment. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:49.200 Thing. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:51.480 I think I'll unblock him. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:55.680 Whoa romance is dead? 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:59.400 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:03.120 Last time we spoke to Jenna, she was considering the 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:07.400 option of being a potential sugar baby to erin. So 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:09.920 let's just get to the obvious question, because she's on 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:12.920 the phone right now, Jenna, did that end up happening? 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:19.120 So we did. I'm not meeting up after we talked 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:19.480 to you. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:24.040 Guys got on block. I bet you had so many 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.200 thoughts going through your head before that meet up. 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:32.880 I did, but I decided to give it a shot. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.480 So wait, so you what was the exchange here? 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:43.240 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought it was just her. 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:46.960 I was helping her pay for a rent, that was 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:50.600 helping her pay off her car. It was nice for 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:51.320 a few months. 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.000 For a few months. Was a few months? 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:57.160 What do you mean? Well, so I ended up getting 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:01.680 laid off because I was made read London's by. 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:07.399 Aih sugar Daddy's. 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:10.520 You couldn't afford to do the sugar daddy thing anymore? 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:13.639 Oh no, So then, now what happened? You're in a 0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:15.359 normal relationship. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:18.600 Now, Well, we had actually we had gotten to a 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:22.719 point where our original arrangement was working pretty well. I 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:25.959 never thought I was that girl, but it really worked, 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.159 and so we had actually been talking about me quitting 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:28.840 my job. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:31.840