1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Hey, we got a lot of new listeners finding us again. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. It's Brocket Jeffrey. This is the 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Second Date Update podcast. And just so you know the 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: show was still going there is. There is a lot 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: of people that are listening to episodes from fifteen years ago. 6 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 2: You guys are stuck in twenty thirteen, and I hope 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 2: one day this finds you. 8 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 3: Yeah. 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 4: It's funny because some people are like, oh my god, 10 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 4: love the show and binge to everything all day for years. 11 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 5: And some people just found us something. Yeah, sounds a 12 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 5: little different. 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 14 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: No, there's a lot of like, hey, can you guys 15 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 2: keep doing Second Date updates and like we're here. 16 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. So so thank you for finding us and thank 17 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: you for being in the present day. We do have 18 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: a brand new episode today. It's an update update. So 19 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 1: remember we're going to play the original where the couple 20 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: was on with us, and then in part three skip dunes. 21 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: In part three we get them back on the phone. Yeah, 22 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: and see what has happened since. So before we get there, 23 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: what do you got for comments, Alexis Yeah. 24 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: Noel Lopez said, do they read these comments on YouTube? 25 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: I've been wanting to comment and I don't know if 26 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: they'll see it. Yeah, so yes, we're check Brooke and I. 27 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: We're looking at all the comments literally everywhere, dude, and 28 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: the ones from fifteen years ago. 29 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: We see you, We see you so thank you so much. 30 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: We know it takes time and energy out of your 31 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: day comment and even just find the show and listen, 32 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: so we truly appreciate it. We got your brand new 33 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: episode starting right now. 34 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 6: Sometimes in the dating world and just in life, you'll 35 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 6: get asked strange, out of left field questions, and before 36 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 6: you crinkle your nose and jump to conclusions, it's important 37 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 6: to consider not just what they're asking, but why are 38 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 6: they asking it, what's their motivation. Like in today's call, 39 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 6: one of our listeners asked his data question that might 40 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 6: be considered rude and insensitive until you learn why he's asking, 41 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 6: and suddenly it's kind of sweet. 42 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 4: Kind of whatever he says, kind of almost you're going 43 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 4: to hear the show talking question and why it was 44 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 4: totally not inappropriate and creepy for him to ask you. 45 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 5: Because we've got a special Second Date Update update coming 46 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 5: up right after this. 47 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 48 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 6: We have a textboard at seven, eight, five nine two 49 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 6: where listeners can send texts into our show, and unfortunately 50 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 6: sometimes we do have to block people if they cross 51 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 6: the line with us. 52 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: It's been so long since I've blocked anyone, though, like 53 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: I feel like years. 54 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 5: Oh. 55 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 6: Anytime you come out the girls or you're like brook's 56 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 6: a B word, you're blocked. 57 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, only I can. 58 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: Say that's happening because we're blocking. 59 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 5: If you're rude to any of us. 60 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 6: Blocked, if you criticize our hero of the week because 61 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 6: you didn't like my choice, block, if you compliment me 62 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 6: and tell me that I'm cute and fancy, very blocked. 63 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 5: I'm a shy boy. I don't like compliments that come staring. 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: Listeners are so nice? Were not blocking people? 65 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 5: Too nice? If you asked me blocked. 66 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 6: That's why one of our listeners, Aaron, reached out to 67 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 6: us because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody 68 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 6: and he has no idea. 69 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,839 Speaker 5: Why fight the urge to compliment Jeff or you will 70 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 5: be blocked right now. 71 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, was it, Jose, Yeah. 72 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 5: I'll block you right away, Aaron, what's up man? Welcome 73 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 5: to the show. 74 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 7: Hey guys, thanks for having me. 75 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 5: Don't you talk bad about the girls. I'm sorry she 76 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 5: called you guys. 77 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't care. What is happening, Aaron? 78 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: How are you doing? 79 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 7: Oh? I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as the 80 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 7: why I got blocked, but I was sold. Maybe you 81 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 7: guys can help me out with that, hopefully. 82 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 5: Did you say anything mean against people blocked here? 83 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: I was thinking unsolicited pictures or what? I'm curious are 84 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: you blocked? Are you talking about text? Social media? 85 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 7: Like? 86 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: What are you blocked on? 87 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 5: Good question? 88 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 7: She blocked my number? 89 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: Oh really? Person? 90 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, so tell us about this woman who blocked you. 91 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 6: What's her name? 92 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 7: Okay? So her name is Jenna. Okay. We matched on 93 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 7: Hinge and we went on one kind of date. 94 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: What do you mean kind of date? Was it like 95 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: one of those pre dates where you just meet for 96 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: coffee for twenty minutes to see if a real date's 97 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: worth it. 98 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 7: So as soon as we matched, we started talking and 99 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 7: then we were hanging out like an hour later. 100 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 1: What oh, yeah, turn on the same day that you matched? 101 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 7: Yeah? How well? So she told me that she was 102 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 7: taking her dog out for a walk, So I said, hey, 103 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 7: I haven't got my cardio and yet today, Why don't 104 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 7: I come with you and we can just talk. 105 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 5: Oh oh, you invited yourself to her dog walk? 106 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 6: Okay, you random alexis your dog walker with This'll be 107 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 6: a good date if. 108 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: A guy was dogs with guys all the time. 109 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 5: Yes, it's a good dad idea. You walk the guys 110 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 5: too little lesha on them and I. 111 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 8: Can't Oh no, but I do make them clean up. 112 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 5: The dog poop. 113 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 1: You don't want to do that for Why did jes 114 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: make so hopeful when he asked that. 115 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 6: I didn't know that that was a service. If it's 116 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 6: offered out there, I got to look it up. But 117 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 6: how did the dog walk go with Jenna? 118 00:04:59,440 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 9: Uh? 119 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 7: It was mostly small talk. It was kind of more 120 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 7: like a pre date than anything where we were looking 121 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 7: to know each other. 122 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: And that's okay, I mean that's to be expected. Yeah, 123 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: what was the like chemistry or attraction level? 124 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 7: I thought I was picking something up? 125 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, she didn't seem like she cut it off? 126 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 7: Like how did it end? 127 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 3: So? 128 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 7: Yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are you 129 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 7: doing on Hinge? And I ended up making a joke 130 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 7: where like, uh, yeah, I ended up having to delete 131 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 7: Hinge because I just I had a full in box 132 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 7: and people kept trying to talk to me and get 133 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 7: with me. And it ended not long after that. 134 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: That was that was supposed to be a joke. 135 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, see, I maybe I messed up and she just 136 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 7: thinks I'm full of myself when I was just trying 137 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 7: to be funny. 138 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 6: Sure, but that doesn't seem like enough to want to 139 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 6: block your number from every wanting to contact you. 140 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: Did things change after that moment? 141 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 7: Uh? 142 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: Not real? 143 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 7: It ended not long after that, so I don't know. 144 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 7: Maybe she wanted to cut it short. 145 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 6: Is it possible that you're just a really slow walker 146 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 6: and it pissed her off? Or yeah, you got to 147 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 6: match your stride for stride? 148 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: Just one of those guys who walks in front of 149 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: a woman the whole time like a step and a half. 150 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: It drives me nuts. 151 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 5: How's you're walking? 152 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 7: I felt like I matched her stride for stride, but 153 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 7: I wasn't really focused on that. 154 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 5: Okay, let's say you got to pass on the walking. 155 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 5: What else could it have been, Brooke? 156 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked, did 157 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you? 158 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: Or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand. 159 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 7: Question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later and 160 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 7: it was didn't go through. So it seems like she 161 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 7: blocked me almost immediately. 162 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: You tell me you were blocked. It never it just 163 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: never says delivered. 164 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 9: It's never. 165 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 5: Later, still got delivered. 166 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I through my text. 167 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 6: We're all experts on different areas of dating in here, 168 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 6: So okay, how long has it been since you got blocked? 169 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 7: Been about a week at this point, You guys. 170 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: What if it's just an accident. What if she just 171 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: got like you don't have two left thumbs and she has. 172 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I actually hit buttons in my 173 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: back pocket or something, and like. 174 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 7: Her pockets. 175 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: You never know what the right butt sheet can do. 176 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 5: Walk have a dexterous cheek back there. 177 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 7: But I mean, yeah, hopefully that's did. But I had 178 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 7: a good time with her. I'd like to see if 179 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 7: there was something more there. 180 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, she should definitely give you another. 181 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 6: Chance, or at least an explanation for why you've been blocked. 182 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 6: We're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked 183 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 6: us already. But answer, I'm sure a lot of people have, 184 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 6: but if she picks up, we'll ask her all the 185 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 6: important questions and try and get you your second date 186 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 6: update right after this. 187 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 7: Thank good? 188 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 5: All right, man, hold on. 189 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 190 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: Second Date Update. We're in the middle of a second 191 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: date update update, and we're gonna find out how the 192 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: couple is doing right after you here Part two. 193 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 6: Just to recap real quick if you miss part one, 194 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 6: one of our listeners air and hung out with a 195 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 6: lady and that happened within an hour of matching. 196 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 5: They were on a dog walk together. 197 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 8: Yeah. 198 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 6: The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour. 199 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 6: An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean this 200 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 6: girl works fast. Yeah, and we're trying to help Aaron 201 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 6: get some answers about what he did wrong or maybe 202 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 6: it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked. 203 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 6: We don't really know. 204 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 5: At least we can pinpoint like an hour and a 205 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 5: half timeframe. 206 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: We asked all about whether she liked him and what 207 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: it was like with him. We never asked did the 208 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: dog like you? 209 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 5: Oh, did the dogs like he? Shother? 210 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 7: Did one bite the other? 211 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: I don't think he had a dog. I don't think 212 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: she was just joining him on apologies out. 213 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 6: He had a dog too, Aaron, could you get a 214 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 6: read on Jenna's dog's feelings towards you. 215 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 7: I think he was kind of focused on the walk. 216 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 7: He gave me a sniff, he sussed me out, but 217 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 7: he wasn't super that's not good. 218 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: I say. I think that's okay as long as there's 219 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 1: no growlly like nipping. 220 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates. 221 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 5: That's a good thing. 222 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: Right from the beginning. 223 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 5: I'm dying to get nipped. 224 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I don't know any last words erin before 225 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 6: we dial the number. 226 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 7: At the very least, I hope she answers, and I 227 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 7: hope she telled me what I did wrong. 228 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good attitude going in to learn something. 229 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: I like that. 230 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 5: Let's set that bar super super low. 231 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 7: So here we go. 232 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 5: I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she 233 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 5: picks up. 234 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 8: Hello. 235 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 5: Hey is this Jenna. 236 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 6: This is this is an actually radio show called Brook 237 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 6: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 238 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show. 239 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 8: I'm sorry, who. 240 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of us in here. 241 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 6: We're a radio show and we do this segment that 242 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 6: you're on right now. Called a second date update, and 243 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 6: one of our listeners reached out about you, named Aaron. 244 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 9: Okay response, We figured you might not have the best 245 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 9: reaction because we heard that after the date you blocked 246 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 9: him and he just doesn't know why or if that 247 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 9: was on purpose. 248 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, no, I definitely blocked him on purpose. 249 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 6: Okay, So what we know is that you guys went 250 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 6: on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last 251 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 6: very long. So maybe you could tell us your version 252 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 6: of the hangout and that would help us understand a 253 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 6: little more clearly. 254 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd 255 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 8: show up with his dog too. 256 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 5: I assumed he had a dog already. The girls had 257 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 5: to correct me. 258 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: Why would you assume that? 259 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 8: Well, because we met up to walk our dogs, so 260 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 8: I thought. But we met up to walk my dog. 261 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 8: He literally just wanted to walk with me while I 262 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 8: walked my dog. 263 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: That just sounds like a miscommunication. Did me say you 264 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: need to get his cardio in for the days? 265 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 5: I would have blocked him for that too. 266 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 8: That's not why I blocked him. 267 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, So are you saying you're disappointed that 268 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: he didn't have a dog. 269 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 8: I was surprised, but I got over it quick. It 270 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 8: wasn't that big of a deal. We were getting to 271 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 8: know each other. 272 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 5: So where did the date shift for you in your mind? 273 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 8: Well? Then he asks me, so what's your credit score? 274 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 8: Should I be worried? 275 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 3: Oh? 276 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 1: Well, no, he sounds like he's trying to be funny. 277 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 6: He told us that there was a few jokes that 278 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 6: he tried to make and they didn't quite land. 279 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 8: It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted 280 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 8: to know. 281 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,359 Speaker 1: Did you tell wait, did you tell him? 282 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 8: No? I didn't tell him. I thought it was so 283 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 8: out of line. 284 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 5: I feel like that's less like intense than it used to. 285 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: Be people in a thirty minute conversation. 286 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, it was really quick. I mean, I don't even 287 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 8: know that we should be talking about that on a 288 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 8: fifth or a sixth date. 289 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: I am sure he wasn't joking, though, Like when you 290 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: didn't tell him, what kind of response did he give you? 291 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 8: We both just kind of laughed it off, but he 292 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 8: definitely still seemed like he seriously wanted to know. 293 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 6: Okay, it's possible that it was a joke and it 294 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 6: just didn't come across the right way, and the best 295 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 6: way to find out is to have you. 296 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 5: Well, at least have you talked to. 297 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 6: Him about it, because you might not know this, Jenna. 298 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 6: But Aaron's on the other line right now, listening to 299 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 6: this conversation. 300 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 8: The guy I blocked is on the phone. 301 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, him yet, But when. 302 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: You say it that way, it doesn't feel as fun. Yeah. 303 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 6: Yes, hopefully he has an explanation though, Aaron, are you there? 304 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 3: Hey? 305 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, jokester, Hey, you. 306 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: Want to know our social Security number? Next date? 307 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 5: Or at least say something to Jenna. 308 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 7: I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in 309 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 7: today's dating culture. I'm trying to find a long term 310 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 7: partner and I'm right and not waste time. 311 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 8: See, I knew you were joking. I knew you actually 312 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 8: wanted to know my. 313 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 6: Credit or that's a lot, but he wanted to know 314 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,479 Speaker 6: it for honorable reasons. 315 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: Because he wants to be with you for a Unless 316 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: you have a score of under seven fifty. 317 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 5: Yes, loans, his love is not real. 318 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 6: That's gott to change how you feel about it a 319 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 6: little bit, right, Jenna? 320 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 8: No, not at all? 321 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 6: Oh man, man, Aaron, Aaron, you see how that's kind 322 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 6: of weird. 323 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 5: What if she's the love of your life and she 324 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 5: has a bad credit score. 325 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's not very romantic. 326 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, well honest, I was kind of asking to see 327 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 7: if you'd be interested in like a no string attached 328 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 7: financial compensation thing. 329 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: What m hmmm, like a sugar dad exclation. Do you 330 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: know what he's talking about? 331 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 8: I mean it sounds like he's looking to be my 332 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 8: sugar daddy. 333 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 5: That's how it sounds to us. 334 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: I think I heard it as he wants you to 335 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: be the sugar mom. That's why he's asking your score. 336 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 7: Can you clarify Aaron closer to what she said? I 337 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 7: don't like that term. I don't see it like that. 338 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 7: I would just see paying for companionship if. 339 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: She's the one getting paid. Why is her credit score matter? 340 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 7: Well, I need to know if it's something she's interested in. 341 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 7: If her credit score is low enough, then you. 342 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: Can build I see you were looking for a low 343 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: credit score this whole time. I was thinking of a bigote. 344 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 5: You want to help her life and like financially, I. 345 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: Feel like there's a different app you should go on. 346 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 6: The hints I can recommend four of them, But Jenna, 347 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 6: are you are you hearing this? 348 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 8: Yeah? I'm hearing it. 349 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 5: Pretty shock sounding. 350 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: Are you interested in something like that? 351 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 8: I mean, this is definitely not the way that I 352 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 8: expected this to go. I mean I was with you, guys. 353 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 8: I thought that he was making sure I had a 354 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 8: flawless credit score here. I mean realistically, I think depending 355 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 8: on the amount of money, anybody could be interested. 356 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wait, Wait a second, Wait, we have to reach. 357 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 5: What does this mean? 358 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: This is a totally different type of relationship. 359 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 7: Certainly is. But JN think you are interested? 360 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 8: I don't know. I am open to thinking about it. 361 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking 362 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 6: Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and 363 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 6: we would pay for it. 364 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 7: We don't even need to go out. I can send 365 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 7: you a couple of texts we can see if you're 366 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 7: into it. Okay, at little negotiation starter. 367 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 5: Wait, well, that saves us money and I love that. 368 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 6: So that's up to you, Jenna, Will you or will 369 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 6: you not unblock Aaron? 370 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: That could be a fun new segment. 371 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 9: Thing. 372 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 8: I think I'll unblock him. 373 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: Whoa romance is dead? 374 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 8: Jeffrey in the morning. 375 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 6: Last time we spoke to Jenna, she was considering the 376 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 6: option of being a potential sugar baby to erin. So 377 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 6: let's just get to the obvious question, because she's on 378 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 6: the phone right now, Jenna, did that end up happening? 379 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 8: So we did. I'm not meeting up after we talked 380 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 8: to you. 381 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: Guys got on block. I bet you had so many 382 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: thoughts going through your head before that meet up. 383 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 8: I did, but I decided to give it a shot. 384 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: So wait, so you what was the exchange here? 385 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought it was just her. 386 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 3: I was helping her pay for a rent, that was 387 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 3: helping her pay off her car. It was nice for 388 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 3: a few months. 389 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 5: For a few months. Was a few months? 390 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 7: What do you mean? Well, so I ended up getting 391 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 7: laid off because I was made read London's by. 392 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: Aih sugar Daddy's. 393 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 7: You couldn't afford to do the sugar daddy thing anymore? 394 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 6: Oh no, So then, now what happened? You're in a 395 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 6: normal relationship. 396 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 8: Now, Well, we had actually we had gotten to a 397 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,719 Speaker 8: point where our original arrangement was working pretty well. I 398 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,959 Speaker 8: never thought I was that girl, but it really worked, 399 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 8: and so we had actually been talking about me quitting 400 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 8: my job. 401 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: Please tell me you didn't do that before he got 402 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 1: laid out. 403 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 8: Fortunately, no. But once Saren did get leto, I ended 404 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,199 Speaker 8: up really pulling some extra weight at my job and 405 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 8: you know, picking up all the extra hours and stuff 406 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 8: like that, and roles kind of reversed and I kind 407 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 8: of became a sugar mama. 408 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: I know, the iron How is it being in the 409 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: power position? 410 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 8: I kind of like being the sugar mama better. 411 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 5: Wow, that's nice. 412 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 6: Well, it's I'm glad to hear you too, are It 413 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 6: sounds like happy And it's not the relationship you started with. 414 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 5: Maybe it's better. 415 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 8: It's not what we originally talked about. I mean, he 416 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 8: ended up moving in with me and it's working great. 417 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: It's funny because if you take the titles out, you're 418 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: just in a normal relationship. 419 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 6: It's really strange, but I like it all right. 420 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 5: You will keep us updated. You two, thanks for emailing 421 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 5: the show. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.