1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: All right, this is a great place to do this, Steve. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Before today's letter, the Strawberry Letter, I thought I was 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,319 Speaker 1: dating him, not his mama. We're going to get to that. 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: We need to encourage our listeners are Steve Harvey Nation, 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: especially our Tennessee voters, to get to the polls to day. Okay. 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: If you are not registered, or if you have any 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: questions about the November third election, go to when We 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: All Vote dot org. We have now eighty nine days. 9 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: Eighty nine days left until November third. Is going fast, 10 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: isn't it? All right? 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Subject, 20 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: I thought I was dating him, not his mama. Dear 21 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine year old woman and 22 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with a thirty one year 23 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: old man. We both have degrees and promising careers. He 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: came from a solid middle class family and I was 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: raised by a single mother with very humble beginnings. We 26 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: have been dating for two years, and my boyfriend's mother 27 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: does not like me. He told his mom he always 28 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: tried to hook him up. He told me that his 29 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: mom had always tried to hook him up with successful 30 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: women in town, but he was never interested. I tried 31 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: to overlook her, and I was pleasant whenever I was 32 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: around her. I can tell when she's saying nasty things 33 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: about me on the phone because my boyfriend has a 34 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: nervous laugh, and then he would rush her off the phone. 35 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: He recently moved back home with his parents to save 36 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: money to buy a house, so I have to visit 37 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: him there. He has asked me to make myself comfortable 38 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: when i'm there, but it's hard. His mom has said 39 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: to me, it's not your fault. You were not exposed 40 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: to certain things growing up, and she has called me 41 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: ghetto a few times and tried to laugh it off. 42 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: But the most hurtful thing was a text exchange my 43 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: boyfriend had with his mom. She texted him that he 44 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: could do better and be with a classy woman. He 45 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: responded to her and said that she didn't need to 46 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: worry because I'd only be around for a season, not 47 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: a lifetime. I told him I checked his messages and 48 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: I broke up with him. He said he didn't mean it, 49 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: He only said that to end the conversation with his mom. 50 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: He made his mom called me to apologize, and I 51 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: ended up basically cursing her out. My boyfriend said there's 52 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: no way we could ever be together since I did that. 53 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: I don't see anything wrong with standing up for myself. 54 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: After all the stuff his mama has done to me, 55 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: has she won in the end? Well, Sis, I cannot 56 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: go with you on this one because you did say 57 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: you cursed his mom out right. Well, you can't do that. 58 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: I know she's disrespectful, I know all of that. The 59 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: fact that you didn't see anything wrong with it is 60 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: really a problem, and he's not going to forgive you 61 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: for that. And I'm all for you standing up for yourself, 62 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, but I just think you went 63 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: too far with the cursing out of the mom. I know, 64 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: I know, like I said, she's disrespectful to you. She's 65 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: completely out of line, calling you names, ghetto and all 66 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. But that is his mom. He's 67 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: supposed to check her when it comes to you. You 68 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: should direct your anger to him, not her. But then again, 69 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: he's obviously a mama's boy, right and he's not gonna 70 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: do it. That's why you need to leave him just 71 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: right where he is. A two years, haven't you had 72 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: enough of her and him? After two years, he doesn't 73 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: defend you, and when you do stand up for yourself, 74 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: then you know he can't see a future for you. Guys. 75 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: And let me tell you this, I think you have 76 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: been standing up for yourself quite well. You've been doing 77 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: it forever. So what, he was raised in a nice 78 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: middle class family. That's great, you know, lucky him. But 79 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: I say to you, take your eyes off them and 80 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: just look at your accomplishments for a second. You said 81 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: that you came from humble beginnings and a single mom, 82 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: and look at what you've accomplished. You finished college, you 83 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: have a promising career, you said. I say again, you've 84 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: done quite well for yourself. They should be congratulating you. 85 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: She should be welcoming you to the family, happy that 86 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: you're dating her son. They shouldn't be hating on you. 87 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: They definitely have this situation twisted, and you know you 88 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: may as well know it now. You see it, don't you. 89 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: Mama's Boy is not going to be able to get 90 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: past you cussing out his mom. So, I mean, I 91 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: don't see a future here because he's not gonna stand 92 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: up to his mom. And that's what you're gonna have 93 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: to need if you want to go any further in 94 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: this relationship with Mama's Boy. Doesn't look like it's going 95 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: to happen. Steve, good riddens. That's what you should be 96 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: saying to yourself right now. You found out just in 97 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: the nick of time what you were dealing with. Both 98 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: of you all got degrees, promising careers. He came from 99 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: solid middle ground. You had humble beginnings. We've been dating 100 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: two years. Your boyfriend mother don't like you. She's always 101 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: tried to hook him up with successful women, but he 102 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 1: was not interested. You always tried to overlook at you 103 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: with pleasant whenever you around him, she talked nasty about you. 104 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: He recently hit a part right here. This was a 105 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: letter turns for me. He recently moved back home with 106 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: his parents to save money to buy a house. That 107 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 1: rarely happens, because he moved back home yourself at thirty one. Okay, 108 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: to save money to buy a house. People buy a 109 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: house without moving back home all the time. So I 110 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 1: don't get this part. Man, That part right there sounds 111 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: real shaky to me. And when we come back, I'm 112 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: gonna agree with Shirley. A mama's boy, just a mama's boy. Man, 113 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: run now, girl, because this is he not fitting to 114 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: stop being no mama. He did already moved back home 115 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: at thirty one. How much more of a boy can 116 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: you be? All right, Steve, hang on right there. We'll 117 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up to today's 118 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at twenty three minutes after the hour of 119 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: the title. I thought I was dating him, not his mama. 120 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 121 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: to show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 122 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Uh subject, I thought I was dating him, 123 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: not his mama. Well you thought wrong. You're dating his mama. 124 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: He's a mama's boy. Both of y'all got degrees. He 125 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: middle class, You grew up humble. Here. The whole problem is, 126 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: Mama don't like you. Thank you. She thinks he could 127 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: have did better. She don't thank you it you've tried 128 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: to be nice to him. You overlook all the stuff 129 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: she talked to you, real nasty. Now, your boyfriend recently 130 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: moved back home with his parents to save money to 131 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: buy a house. Now, look, people move back home to 132 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: save money. I got that, not thirty one year old men. 133 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: Thirty one year old men don't go back home. I 134 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: just don't, man, unless you just out on luck. Now 135 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: he going back to save money. This is a mama's boy, man. 136 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know. And then he asked you to 137 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: make yourself comfortable when you're over there years somebody else's house. 138 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: But it's hard. His mom said to you, it's not 139 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: your fault. You would not expose to certain things up. 140 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: She didn't called you get her a few times, tried 141 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: to laugh at home. But the hurtful thing for you 142 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: was a text exchange you saw between him and his mama. 143 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: She texts him that he could do better and be 144 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: with a classy woman. He responded to her and said 145 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: that she didn't need to worry because you'd only be 146 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: around for a season, not a lifetime. Then you told 147 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: the dude you checked his message, and I broke up 148 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: with him. He said he didn't mean it, He only 149 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: said that at the end of the conversation with his mom. Women, 150 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: hold up, Wow, if you want to end the conversation 151 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: with your mom, you hang on the phone. Just hang 152 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: down like mama, Mama, I got to go now. You 153 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: ain't got to text that back. He texts that because 154 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: he meant it. Now, did he have his mama call 155 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: you to apologize? Yeah, but you knew it was a 156 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: weak apology, so you cussed out. Now. I agree with Shirley, 157 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: that's the mistake you made. See see, you gotta stay 158 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: on the high side. But this was a great learning 159 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: experience because this traumatic moment exposed a couple of flaws 160 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: in the relationship. Because after you cuss his mama out, 161 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: but he wants you to forgive him for saying she 162 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: only for a season, she ain't gonna be with me 163 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: for a lifetime. He wants you to forgive that, But 164 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: he ain't gonna forgive you cussing his mama. Right, My 165 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: boyfriend said there was no way we could ever be 166 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: together since I did that. I don't see anything wrong 167 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: with standing up for myself. That's to get away. You 168 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: better believe that girl, that's to get away. Hold on 169 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: to that because that's gonna come in hand a few 170 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: more times in your life. Stand up for yourself. But 171 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: there's other ways of standing up for yourself. She's an 172 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: old bit of chick. Just let her ride it out, 173 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: you twenty nine? Fine, Now he ain't got you no more, 174 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: But he didn't. Just took his mama's side. There's no 175 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: way we could be together after this. I say, good riddence. 176 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: You discovered these and mama's But what you want to do? 177 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: You gotta go over to even date him? Now? Now, 178 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 1: how does this work? Now? How do you go back 179 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: over that with him? He's still at his mama's damn house. 180 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: You didn't cussed her out? How comfortable you fitn't get 181 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: over that now? Right? You couldn't get comfortable at first? 182 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: Now you didn't cuss her ass out and she said 183 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: she didn't feel bad. Now, this relationship is all birth, 184 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: it done, But it was over with before you cussed out. 185 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: It was over with when he said, you only gonna 186 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: be around for a season, not a lifetime. It was over. 187 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: Then after two years, he said that you didn't even 188 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: have to cuss his mama out. You should have cussed 189 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: him out, yea, and went on about your business. But 190 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: this is good riddence. This can never work. His mother 191 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: will always bring it up. She'll forever be nasty. He's 192 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: gonna be forever be a mama's boy, and he gonna 193 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: be in that house for a long time because I 194 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: don't know how long it takes savor for a house 195 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: at thirty one, but it take a while. Yeah, it 196 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: take a while. So he gonna be at the house. 197 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: And you're dating the dude the thirty one to live 198 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: with his mom and daddy. What girl, You could do 199 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: way better than that by yourself. Yeah. And they're putting 200 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: her down and making her feel badly because of the 201 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: way she was brought up and all of that. That's 202 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: not cool. Hey, I was brought up poor, Yeah, all 203 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: of us single mom. I have a single mom raised me. 204 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: Come on, you've done quite well for yourself, quite well. 205 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: You should have just cussed him out exactly. That's where 206 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: you're anger. But I guess you know you said Mama 207 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: might as will get something too with this fake ass apology. Well, 208 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: I didn't really mean it like that. I was saying, 209 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: you get oh, just because you live over there Alma 210 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: and Luther King. That's the only reason I said that. 211 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: And you know, you know the fact that you tries 212 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: to come over and sometimes and you don't know things. 213 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: We was gonna work with you. We was gonna try 214 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 1: to put you in and you know, cultivate you, comfort 215 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: you know you just you know, you was just so 216 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 1: far deep in the hood. It almost wasn't no saving you. 217 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: But I'm sorry, I see it. You was ghetto. But 218 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: did I lie? Yeah, that's a weak apologize. She lit 219 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: her drawns on fire and win it that old hag. Now, 220 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: I say, good ridding system. Congratulations. You know, move on, 221 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: But you can't. You'll never be able to make this 222 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: relationship work because you see him. You gotta go over there. Yeah, 223 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: any of the Mama's are you just comes to out? 224 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: Well here, come to castle? Well look who are here? Yes, 225 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: miss Ghetto. I guess you told me she'll never live 226 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: it down. No, all right, listen. If you have come 227 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter, please post them okay on 228 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 1: Instagram or Facebook at Steve Harvey FM, and then check 229 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up 230 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: in about ten minutes. 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