WEBVTT - EP 343: Dommes, Subs & Skat Play (Ft. Steph Domme) 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.800 Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision? 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:13.560 What's the chacolate? Okay, don't tell nobody this DC and d. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:16.240 M V area, which y'all might be our favorite place 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:17.480 to perform. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:20.119 One of them, y'all, I'm not gonna I love it, 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.520 and y'all we are coming back to you and the 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:27.720 biggest venue of the tour. That's right, we are doing 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:31.720 the Warner Theater November the ninth in d C. 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.280 We want to see the couple, Yes, we want to 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:35.360 see the lady keep going. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:36.479 We want to the fellas. 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:41.200 Yeah, and the day then yep, everything everybody ever won. Okay, 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.040 so make sure you head on over to hour hive 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:46.640 dot com select DC again. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:50.199 That's November ninth at the Warner Theater Friday night. Okay, 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:52.760 so we're gonna be talking the fuck up. We're gonna 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.200 be litt as ship. I might do a little U 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:55.920 stream moment. 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:58.320 Who knows. So that's my favorite thing to do. I 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:00.840 don't even know what that is. U Street is. That's 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:03.600 where she had a U stream moment. I was like, now, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:04.120 what is it? 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:08.400 Anyways, go to horror Hive dot com and please get 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:14.320 your tickets now. Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Horriblair. 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:18.160 This is Yones. That sounds cute, right. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.679 I'm your girl, Mandy b the celibate one, the non 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:25.160 ho aka formerly known as Peg the Stallion. 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:30.920 She's also a liar. Wow, Wow, it's called you ain't 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:32.840 got a to not be white, Bibbs. 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:36.320 Actually nothing is white over here, okay except actually someone 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:40.280 on the floor, but we'll get to that point. Weezy 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.360 go ahead, and oh look, I said, Weezy, introduce yourself. 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:48.120 Sorry, this is Wheezy. You said, what good? This is Weezy. 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:52.200 Cheetah emo ho cheetah ho ho ho, the biggest ho 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.240 every hoe you could motherfucking think of. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:59.640 Okay, right here next to me, horrific you. And we 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:03.280 are joined by one and a half. Could you count 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:06.840 the guests? If the guests, we don't. We don't count him. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:08.919 We don't count him. I know that's right, y'all. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.880 We are joined today by step Dom, who is a 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:17.360 dominatrix here in New York and fine as hell. So 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.600 if y'all are not watching on the YouTube, you might 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.120 want to go on over for this one because she 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:23.359 brought an accessory with her. 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:27.480 Yes, and you came you came real ready, mind you. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:29.280 When I invited step On, she was like, do you 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:31.120 want me to bring up Okay, you call him a 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:31.880 sub or a slave. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.880 He's a so it doesn't really matter. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.799 But sometimes I feel like the word slave on these 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.040 platforms be getting flagged, like if you get too crazy 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:40.320 with it. 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:44.800 So I usually would be like my sub, but in person, 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:46.080 I'm like, good. 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:53.079 I do like slave when I'm really wanting to feel empowered, yeah, 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.840 because something about it feels a little more dirty, Like 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.880 I feel like, because we can have submissive habits, maybe 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:02.320 it's too do soli or sometimes like slave to me 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:06.799 is like granted when I'm thinking that, I'm thinking you're 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.000 doing like really everything discerted me. Sometimes when I say sub, 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:11.880 I feel like there's like, okay, maybe you just do 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:12.240 a few. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.400 Yeah, But you have those like you have like slaves 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.760 that they're like they'll do whatever, and then you have 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.280 subs that of course they have their limits like anybody. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:23.960 Else, so they still even even the slaves. Sometimes what's 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:25.359 your subs name? Slaves love? 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:31.520 This is Phoenix, Phoenix, Phoenix. How do you meet Phoenix? 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:36.880 I met him online like majority of myselves. Yeah, we're 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:39.200 on so we're online, is it? I mean? 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:43.040 And we've talked about various apps here. When when you 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.600 go online, are you seeking someone to date or are 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:49.560 you specifically seeking someone to just be submissive to your 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:50.480 sexual needs. 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:56.240 I personally like meeting like guys in person, but when 0:03:56.240 --> 0:04:00.560 it comes to like my work life wherever, wherever I'm at, 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.560 I'll just be like, I'm a dumb and then they 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:05.640 just like, well, this is this is how I eat, 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.040 this is how I feed my family. 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:10.920 So it's no longer a secret. My dad doesn't know, but. 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:15.880 Everywhere my cowork is gonna be like, ain't that you 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:16.960 a little sweet one? 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:19.400 Everyone knows though, so it's no secret. 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:20.599 For a long time, I was saying I was a 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:23.520 bartender okay, which that work okay, But then my mom 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:25.080 was like, you're making a little too much money to 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:25.560 be a bar No. 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:27.120 You kind of look like, well, like you know when 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.200 you see a really hot bartender and you're like, okay, 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:32.160 if she's not working in the day, you're so. 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:33.840 My mom was like, what are you doing? And then 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:35.039 I was like, well, if I tell my mom she 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:36.600 supports me, then fuck it. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.640 Like listen, if you get one and a half parents 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.400 in on what you are. Like a few of my 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.040 gay friends are like, you know, my mom's cool, my 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.839 dad's not. Like it's happen half right. 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:49.200 So after that, I was like, it's on the open, 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:53.000 and so I created a business oiute of it, and 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:55.160 so everyone knows what I do. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:55.800 Do you love me? 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:59.920 And I brought you guys stickers, Oh thank you? Which 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:03.920 my q that has like oh wow, my website. 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:06.400 Me step with a QR code. You mean sticking this 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:09.040 around the city room. Yeah, wait, get the fuck out 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:09.280 of here. 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.880 So everywhere I go, like when I travel, this is 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.599 dumbing the business way. 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:16.520 Okay, she has a sticker with a QR code, so 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.480 you just be sticking this in like bathroom stalls. 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:20.240 Yeah. 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.160 I went to Wall Street and I put it like 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:23.800 I was at like the Starbucks and Wall Street and 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:25.279 like outside of it, I put it and then I 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.640 got like so many subscriptions on my only fans are 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:28.880 my loy fans and like. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:33.320 Up, well do you see this ship. It's a fucking 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.839 genius bro, Like I'm not tim in the cage. I 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:41.719 just I don't want to say m damn. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:45.880 This is hot Okay, yeah wow A few things, boy, 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:49.599 do we think like sometimes that sex work is this 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:54.320 last resort and while we are just mean society, this 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:55.159 ain't last resort. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.000 No, this is intentional, this is bitch. I done this. 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:01.479 So do you get okay? Well, I want to direct 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:02.919 my questions. You di direct the phoenix? 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.960 Does phoenix ever get jealous of your other subs? 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:09.599 If he does, then I don't know about it because 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:15.520 then like you know your place, so get out of place. Ah, 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:18.080 he is my favorite service sub. 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:21.760 Oh so he does things that I need. What are 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.839 the other subs that you have? Like, have service sub? 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:26.480 What are the other categories of subs? 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:30.320 Then there's subs that's like they just send me money, 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:35.400 just like just living life wrong y'all? Oh stop, what 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:39.159 don't you have those types of stuffs that have good content, 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:41.039 subs who allow me to do like whatever I want 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:42.479 to do to them to just get. 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:45.960 Fans for my lowly fans. 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:49.720 What kind of things would someone have to agree to? Well, 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.040 I do a lot of crazy shit. What's the craziest 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:54.680 This is horrible decisions, girl. 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:57.320 So of course I'll do all the basics would be 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.279 like paggy and humiliation Spain. 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.080 I love that that is a basic. 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:07.919 Humiliation as life work y'all that's regular like, but I 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:08.600 feel you though it is. 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:09.720 Yeah, And then. 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.360 The ship that really sells is the things that like 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:17.680 people are not gonna talk about or shit, right, So 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.440 I like shit on a lot of stuffs. And if 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.680 I can record that this is a good like one 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:22.840 hundred and fifty dollars a video. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:27.200 You we are four minutes in no Icebreaker. When you're 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:31.080 doing a shit video, do you actually have to prep? 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:34.320 I know we're gonna like, No, I totally prep, like 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:37.840 doing what Mexican food. No, I prep like, so if 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.080 I know I'm gonna have a shitting it's called scatting, 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:41.000 by the way, just. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:44.880 In case, just like tomato to scat what. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:47.760 So anytime I have a scouting session, I just like 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.320 you gotta know, I gotta know at least twelve hours 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.680 in advance, because I don't do the cheating like the 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:53.240 laxative n So twelve. 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.840 Hours in advance. Now you're about to become a scientist. 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:58.920 How do you know it's gonna be the consistency of 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:01.040 the ship you needed to It's the same. 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.000 It's just I've been doing you do so long. It's 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:05.080 the same exact It's. 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.760 Blueberries and a green juice and. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:11.600 Awakate with chips, Like that's this agocatos avocado avocado. Yeah, 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.720 that's just gonna like, girl, that's avocado. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:16.880 She ain't say no other language. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.400 Wait, so blueberries avocado and what looks she about to 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.080 do scatch session? No, butch, I'm about to fucking get skinny? 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:25.600 What is it? Or green or and green juice? 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:28.000 Usually like the night before, I do it in the 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.800 morning between ten and twelve, like ten am and twelve o'clock, 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:32.440 Like that's the best time for me to do it. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:36.640 So I'll eat a bowl of blueberries, I'll eat agata 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.280 at night and then that's it and drink my water. 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:40.960 I'll go to sleep and then in the morning I 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.480 gotta go. So I usually take a shower, put on 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:45.520 my clothes, get in a cap, and I'm at the Dungeon. 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.720 New York and my water. 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:50.760 But okay, wait, so how what does the consistency of 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:52.560 the ship have to be like for it to be 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:53.800 like really exciting. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.760 It's like really come it's just like easy come out, 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.120 Like I'm not sitting there like pushing another disgusting, but 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:00.000 I'm not pushing. 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.199 People want like a mess? Do they want like diarrhea. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.280 That's the thing they don't want. They don't want die. 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:06.760 So that's why I don't do that. I don't cheat 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.760 with the laxative and the col I don't do any 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:09.280 tricks like I. 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.120 Just when you said I don't cheat, I don't cheat 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.200 and know that you find it honorable to ship the. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:16.120 Right wing on cue right. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.680 Oh my god, Well we're gonna get more into step 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:26.480 step doms, dominate tricks, and dominating lifestyle. But here we go, Okay, 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.120 why not I decided to do a BDSM. Have you 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.880 ever or would you rather with you? Okay, just to 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:33.440 kind of open it up, but at this point you 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:38.280 just said pegging was lightweight, so we'll see. So have 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.520 you or would you ever devote an entire day to 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:46.319 sex and sexual activity with no breaks, like a whole 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.760 day twenty four hours? 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:50.000 You want a person? Or have you ever done that before? 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.120 I feel like I've done that when I was younger, 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:57.960 a lot younger. Okay, would I do that like today? 0:09:58.800 --> 0:09:59.760 I don't have shit to do. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:03.959 I know that's right, but a grown adon'tance. I have responsibility. 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.280 I I to do that one day, like in a 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:10.600 cabin or something like cabin buys he's just like cabin. 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.640 I've actually always wanted to fuck in the woods because 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:15.200 I watched a lot of get porn and they. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:18.000 Be fucking in the woods. So I want to like 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:18.840 bend an. 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:24.200 Back, like I don't know, I want to get back mountain, 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:25.120 broke back mountain. 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:29.679 Sorry, yeah, I said bear back, same thing they had 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:31.240 bear back there, all right. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:35.160 Second one, have you ever brought your partner to orgasm 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:38.400 using only your hands? And if so, I would love 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:41.800 to know the technique using just my hands, just your 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:42.679 hands and the mouth. 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:45.480 Never I've made a guy come just by making out. 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:48.520 I think he was just like super whoa he really? Yeah, 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.439 that's just I think. So I was just making ours 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:53.240 on top of him. I was just like and then 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:54.480 all of a sudden he came and I was like, 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:58.080 oh shit, this is what's going I came back, he 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.400 got back up. We never had sex though, he just 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.440 he just I don't know, actually. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:04.480 Didn't make someone come from a hand job. 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.280 And I think I was doing ship that was like 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:10.840 we all know this like double weaving thing. I took 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:14.040 my hand on the top and so he felt fingers 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:17.400 like this on the shine. Yeah, And I think that 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:18.880 was what got him there, but I was just like 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:21.760 really mixing it up. But also I can't remember why 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.760 I didn't suck his dick. Yeah, I like hand jobs 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:29.520 you do, Mandy doesn't want to put a fucking suck dick. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:32.320 That's why what you mean where you were like I 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.960 I'm done. Yeah, I mean no. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:37.120 If you're really really sexy and I really really want you, 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:41.280 I'm gawking all but you don't really like I enjoy 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:42.840 sucking dick when I like you. 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:46.400 But like so like. 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.480 Oh, when I used to have like the Ugly Sugar Daddies, 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:51.559 girl would tell him niggas ain't suck dick. 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.280 I was lying, like, motherfucker, go be the real nigga. 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:58.800 I like it, suck his dick like he got no money, 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:00.559 got some Chinese food and gator ring. 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:02.840 Wait wait wait, I did have a question. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.959 Okay, when we going back to sub service sub what 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:08.080 kind of things does Phoenix service. 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:13.280 Whatever I need? So, like what if I need laundry, 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.040 if I you my laundry done, if I need. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:16.400 You to run like anything I need to do it, 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.240 I don't want to walk out go to my leave 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:18.680 my house. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.080 Then that's what you're here for. So I'll just like, hey, 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:22.640 I need this done, and then he'll do it, and 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:24.000 he'll leave his house and do whatever. 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.440 He'll leave his house, which he lives in Brooklyn, so 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.120 he'll come all the way to Harlem and then just 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.320 and for. 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.920 Those of you who do not live in New York, 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:33.839 that is about a one hour commute on the train 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.880 or a solid forty five minutes and a goddamn uber. 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:41.640 So he just does whatever I need. So I think. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.960 That like the very like vanilla version of the version 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:48.319 of this is somebody that is into giving acts of service, right, Yeah, 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:52.560 And those are love languages when it comes to Dom's 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:54.880 and sub Can you maybe explain a little bit of 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:58.200 how each person gets off from it, because somebody's gonna 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.600 listen to this and be like, how's the sexual All 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:01.360 he did is get your law. 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:04.760 Well, I think a lot of it is like the connection. 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:09.200 They just like to be around you, to know you're black. 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:13.200 I'm around you, I feel you're a goddess. I like, 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.240 it's just a mind. It's like a mind fucking sore. 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:16.720 All white. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:22.080 Ninety nine percent of them are whites, and they just 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:26.360 enjoy the fact that, like they're just around me, you saying. 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:29.640 That they enjoy your blackness, though, does it become that's 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.840 that's like such a thing and you're okay with that? Yeah, 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:34.760 because I do feel like a goddess i am black. 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.520 But it's also like the opposite, right, So, like I 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:39.360 think when it gets racy. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.080 But we were talking about this one, so I was like, 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.120 Manby was talking about race play and we were like debating, 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:47.000 and I was like, I don't think there's a race play. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.240 If one is, if blackness is in the higher light. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.600 That's how I say it. That's exactly how I say. 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:55.760 Okay, I know a lot of dams don't do race play, right, 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:57.200 I usually don't say nothing because I do. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:00.959 Now for your types of well, yeah, you know, I 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:04.959 mean it's weird we talk about the it wouldn't be 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:05.720 a whole hierarchy. 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.520 But even in sex work, there's sex workers that shame 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:10.199 other sex workers for the things they do. 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.079 It's all you know, Yeah, but what is the race 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.240 play that you do? What is that I do race play? 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.120 So like with I was arguing with you, I'll talk 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:24.800 about ancestors, I'll talk about our history, I'll talk about genetics, 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:31.680 just like anything that we're superior at, like work. Yeah, 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.840 and so they love it. But when you said they'd 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:36.600 love to be around me, maybe it's just very queen 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:39.480 like energy. I feel like hundreds of years ago, like 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:42.560 when we think about servicing someone like we look at 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:44.440 them like that, like I want to give everything to 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.440 someone that is that powerful. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.080 What do you get from it? 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:52.479 What do you get off besides money or service needs made, demandsment? 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:57.560 I feel empowered, I feel I just feel good. I 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.280 feel blessed to be honest girl, you are I just 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:01.240 have a blessing. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:03.400 I do want to ask you a question because you said, 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:05.360 this is how you make your money, this is how 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.400 you pay your bills and support your family. 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.880 Is he paying to be here with you right now? Yes? 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:16.640 Yes, But sometimes he's such a good service ub Sometimes no, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.000 I'm not like sometimes he just if I need something, 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:21.680 just do it, like you don't got to pay me. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:23.760 And then other times I need you to pay this 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:24.920 for this, like I don't want to come out of 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:28.400 pocket for a fifty dollar UVA like you know or whatever. 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:30.040 And when. 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.880 I was gonna say how long what's your longest relationship 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:37.119 you've had with a sub And have you ever crossed 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:38.320 a boundary where it No? 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:42.160 I never crossed the boundary. It's two different lifestyles. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.840 It's like the type of men I like are like manly, black, 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:48.880 dominant type of men cross the. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.480 Boundary, like maybe got too close even just friend. No, 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:51.880 I had. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:55.080 My longest relationship with a sub was almost two years. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:56.960 And then he started to fall in love with me. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.720 And then I was like, this is getting ridiculous. And 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.360 then and he started to fall in love with me, 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:04.760 so he felt like I do all this for you, 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:06.800 like you should be with me. And then I was like, 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.760 I'm not gonna be with you. And then he was 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:11.640 like straight up, he was like, funny enough, we had 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.920 a joint account, so we had an account together. 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:18.640 He'll put money in, yeah, and then he was. 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:20.320 Like I do this, this, this, this is By the 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.280 time he was like trying to break up with me, 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:25.720 we had like ten racks in the account with like 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.760 and then he was like, if you're not going to 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.480 be with me, then I'm gonna have to shut this 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.960 account down and I'm gonna have to go buy my way. 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:38.080 And so I was reside now. Relationship wise, then you 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.120 said you date black men. Have you been in a 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:44.960 relationship since this has become your full time job. Now, Okay, 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:47.040 Now I want. 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:50.840 To know when you write a man that was, now, well, 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.200 what would the dynamic for a perfect world be like 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:53.520 for you? 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:53.720 Then? 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:55.960 Relationship wise? Yeah? 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:59.680 Wait, just someone who like understands and supports me, because 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.360 don't they be semi involved like hella. 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:04.280 No, But. 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:08.639 I feel like dominate chicks is very taboo, so like 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:11.320 nobody knows what we really do. They automatically thinks we're 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:14.200 having sex with clients, right, and which is fine. I'm 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:17.480 not judging anybody who does have sex with their clients, 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.000 but I don't. I don't even get naked. I'm like 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:24.320 super like, I just very professional most of the time. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:28.800 I don't know if people think dombs fuck clients. They 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.240 do on Twitter, there's like a thin line of like 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.560 so many doms that have the dominame on them and 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:36.119 they're fucking well. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:37.200 And that's what I said. 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:40.560 I wanted to bring that exact point up because literally 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:43.199 when you came in and I was like, oh, like, 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:47.080 I'm dominant, But I've never attached the domb title to 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:51.160 myself because technically I feel like I'm dominating a man 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:54.720 when I peg them. That is penetration. That's very other 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:57.960 times where I lead, I direct. I feel like I'm 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:01.159 a dominant. I've probably misused calling myself a dom so 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:03.720 many times. Yeah, because it's how I am in the 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:06.280 bedroom where I'm not as the missive. Yeah, I switch 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:09.720 a lot, but anytime i've met true doms, i'd be like, bitch, 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:11.760 I don't even know if I could do it. But 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.800 also what I found interesting when we were taking our picture, 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:17.800 Weezy was like, now look mean, and you're like, I'm 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.280 a sweet dom, so can you express too, like how 0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:27.040 you instill the dominatrix feel by power while also being sweet. 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:30.240 I'm just authentically myself. So I'm just a sweet, good 0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:33.879 person regardless. And so when clients come to me, it's 0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:35.720 obviously they want me to fulfill something. 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:37.680 So that's just my job. 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:40.280 I'm not here, I'm not Yeah, I'm not here to 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:43.000 be a bitch unless you're paying me to humiliate you 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:46.440 or you know what I mean. Like and to get 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.560