1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: New Harry Styles music. It's American Girls. The Fred Show 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: is on? Jason, do you want the honors? Can I really? 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: Do you want the honors? The last keyword? Keyword number 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: ten of ten? What is it, Jason Tellum? Is a play? Play? 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: Play yeah, play? That's the last show. That's it there, 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: It is all right, So marinate on that for a second, 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: make sure you have them all, collect your thoughts, write 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: them all down and scramble and in about ten minutes, 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: I'm and a half. You call me calling number twenty 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: five to win the trip to Sydney to see Harry 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:37,319 Speaker 1: Styles on the Fred Show. Ever been left waiting by 12 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: the phone? It's the Fred Show. Hey Teddy, good morning, 13 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: welcome to the program. How are you. 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 2: I'm doing all right? 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: How are you doing doing? Okay? Man? What's going on 16 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,319 Speaker 1: with this woman? Lisa? It's waiting by the phone. We're 17 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you've been ghosted. It sounds 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: like maybe you have, but we need the backstory. How 19 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: did you meet Lisa? Tell us about any dates you've 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: been on and then where things are now? 21 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: So we met on Hinge and I asked her out 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: to dinner and we went out. She was even hotter, 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 2: funnier hit in person than she was when we were texting. 24 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 2: We had a great time, I thought, and we were 25 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 2: planning date number two, but then she just sort of disappeared. 26 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:16,559 Speaker 2: Oh I don't know why. 27 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: Okay, And you look back on this date. I ask everybody, 28 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: but you look back on this date and everything went well. 29 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you left the date feeling pretty good about 30 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: where things stood. Hey, I'm we're going to go out again. 31 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 1: Like I'm going to reach out and she's going to 32 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 1: be interested. The chemistry was there, the conversation was there, 33 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: and everything. 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I said, she was funny. I 35 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 2: was actually really laughing a lot, and I was having 36 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: a great time and she seemed like she. 37 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: Was too, okay because the mood's light, you know. So 38 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: then what could possibly have gone wrong? I've said that 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: many times too, and then and then I find out. 40 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: But okay, well, Teddy, let's play a song. We'll come 41 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: back and we'll call Liza. You'll be on the phone. 42 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: We'll ask these questions on your behalf, and you know, 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: the hope is that we can figure out what's going on. 44 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: It's possible that she has something on her end and 45 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: we can straighten things out and set you guys up 46 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: on another day that we pay for. Sound good, Yeah, 47 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: sound good? All right? So the final word was play 48 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: play or no you do what you do about That 49 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: was a really good execution of the key within James. 50 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: All right, So collect all the words, get them all together, 51 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: and in a couple of minutes, I'll have you be 52 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: calling over twenty five Harry Styles, Sydney, Australia, Part two 53 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: of Waiting Metaphone after Justin Bieber Fretz Show. Hey, Teddy, Yeah, 54 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: all right, let's call Lisa. You guys met, you went 55 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: on a date. You thought the date went great, tales 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: so oldest time, but you have not heard from Lisa 57 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: since the date and you're puzzled. You're disappointed. You want 58 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: to know why. 59 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. I mean I've reached out to her, but 60 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: she hasn't responded. 61 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call Lisa and see if we can 62 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: get her on the phone and figured this out. Good luck, Teddy. Hi, 63 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: this is Lisa. Yeah, Lisa, Hi, good morning. It's Fred. 64 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: My name is Fred on from the Fred Show at 65 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that 66 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would 67 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can reach 68 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: out for just a second. Okay, all right, well thank you? 69 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: That's that was Yes, I like it. We're calling on 70 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Teddy, and he reached out 71 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: to us, said that I guess you guys matched on 72 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: an app or something and and recently went on a 73 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: date that he felt went really well. But he says 74 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: he's reached out to you since the date and you 75 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: haven't responded. He's puzzled. Why is why are you not 76 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: responding to uh to Teddy? 77 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: Oh? 78 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, this is awkward. I mean, Teddy is okay. 79 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: I'm I'm just not I'm just not interested. All right, 80 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: I'm just ah. 81 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: But there's more to this story, though, there's more to 82 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: this story. Well, why are you not interested? Like, here's 83 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: the thing. Maybe I don't know if you've ever been ghosted, 84 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: maybe you never been ghosted before. But he feels like 85 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,839 Speaker 1: he's being ghosted. It's bugging him. He kind of wants 86 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: to closure if you're not going to go out with 87 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: him again, So can you tell us what happened or 88 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: why why you've changed your mind about him? Okay? 89 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 3: So Teddy basically asks his mom for permission to do 90 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 3: absolutely everything. 91 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: Okay, well what does that mean? Like give me an example? Okay? 92 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 2: All right. 93 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 3: So when we first matched, he he and I started talking. 94 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 3: It felt cool, and then I remember right when we 95 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 3: started talking, he was just like, oh, I don't know 96 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 3: what I want to eat. And he'd like, you know what, 97 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 3: I need to call my mom and ask her. 98 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: I need to call on that no, And I. 99 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: Was just I was like, all right, in trusting, but okay, 100 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 3: kind of cute, like he. 101 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: Wants to call his mom. 102 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. 103 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 3: I just was like all right. Then when we were 104 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: trying to figure out when and where to meet for 105 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 3: the date, he made another comment and he was like, oh, 106 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: I wanted I want to check. I want to check 107 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 3: to see if my mom, you know, if we're committing 108 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 3: before we're committing to anything. And I'm like, okay, I mean, 109 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 3: I'll just give you the benefit of the doubt. You know, 110 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 3: maybe you had plans, like maybe he just kind of 111 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 3: had plans with his mom or something, and you know, 112 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 3: that was that. So I didn't really see anything. And 113 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: then my final straw was when we were on the date, 114 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: and towards the end of the date, I was like, 115 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: we're like finishing up dinner, and I was like, hey, 116 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 3: actually I have an extra ticket to this concert the 117 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: following week, and I don't know if you wanted to 118 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: come with me. And he's like, oh, yeah, sounds fun. 119 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: You know what, I just need to run. 120 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: By my mom really first. So this dude, he actually 121 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: it was a good date, Like you you were going 122 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: to overlook that and go out with him again. So 123 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: he didn't actually fumble necessarily. But it turns out that 124 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: the dude can't even like put his pants on without 125 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: asking his mom if that's okay, which is very unattractive. 126 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: I mean, it's one thing to have a great relationship 127 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: with your mom. I think that's usually a good sign. 128 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: But I also, you know, I don't need to ask 129 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: my mom like where to take you on a date 130 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: and if I can go to a concert next week. 131 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a broadcast. 132 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: Man, exactly. 133 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: I was. I was like, this is you know. 134 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 3: What now, Dude like, absolutely, if you need to go 135 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 3: to the bathroom to check with your mom, Like no, no, 136 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: this is a lot, this. 137 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: Is a lot. I forgot to mention Lisa that Teddy 138 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: is here, and Teddy's been very quiet throughout this, Teddy, 139 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: what's the why do we Why are we asking mom, 140 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: you know, for permission to go out? Like we're grown ups. 141 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: We don't have to do that anymore. 142 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 2: Okay, So just to be clear, I don't need my 143 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 2: mom's permission, Like I'm not asking for her permission. I 144 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: just I like to get her opinion. What do you talk? 145 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 3: You ask her for anything, all her opinions before you 146 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 3: do anything? 147 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: Do you not? 148 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 2: So what that's not weird? 149 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? No, it is weird. It is weird, like at 150 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: some point you have to make decisions for yourself because 151 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 1: you were a grown up. I mean I don't I 152 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: can't remember the last time I called mom to ask her, 153 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: you know, if I can go to a concert next week. 154 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 2: So you don't consult your mom on anything. 155 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: I'm not on No, not as it pertains to you know, 156 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: life issues and decisions that I need to for myself. No, 157 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: Like my schedule is my schedule. You know what I 158 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: do with my daisy my call, right, it's you know 159 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: you don't at your mound with the calendar invite. Well, 160 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: I mean yes, but that doesn't mean that doesn't mean 161 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: if she gets a vote, I mean she has a 162 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: right to know where I am at all times. But 163 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: other than that, you know, a couple facetimes throughout the date. 164 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: But other than that, No, that's crazy, Teddy man, you're 165 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: grown up. 166 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, she I checked in with her before 167 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: I even did this. She thought it was a good 168 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: idea to find. 169 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,679 Speaker 1: Out your mom told you to come on the radio. 170 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, in that case, you know, Mama's always around. 171 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: We love Mama, get out of here on radio. I mean, 172 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: there is a difference between having a close relationship and 173 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: being a full on mama's boy. And I think this 174 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: might be beyond that, This might be another level above 175 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: and beyond just mama's boy. I mean, because this is like, 176 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: this is like you need permission, This is like she 177 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: still runs your life. 178 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: And I think, yeah, again, I don't I'm not asking 179 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: for permission. And sometimes she says that something's a good idea, 180 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I don't know. I just like to 181 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: get her in. 182 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: But why can't on her own anything like it's that's 183 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: not an attractive quality? And why are you telling Maybe 184 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: this is something you do in you know, in your 185 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: private life, but I don't know that I would tell 186 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: everybody that because again, I think women want a confident, 187 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: decisive guy who has a good relationship with family, but 188 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: doesn't need to ask for permission to do basic things. 189 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I'm realizing that now. I mean again, 190 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 2: I'm not asking for permission. It's just an opinion. You're 191 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: you're asking all the time. This is weird checking in, 192 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 2: it's just checking in. 193 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 1: It. It's a lot of whatever. 194 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 3: It is. Yeah, all right, Well, next time you're going 195 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: to ask if we should have sex? 196 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: Is that? Like? What would mom say about that? Do 197 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: you think you think mom would be in favor? 198 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: I mean my mom, she's very encouraging of using protection. 199 00:08:54,920 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: So uh, I'm glad that mom says it's okay with protection. 200 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: Very strange. All right, look, Lisa, I'll ask the question. 201 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: I know the answer. It's rhetorical. Would you like to 202 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:12,959 Speaker 1: go out with Teddy again? And we'll pay for it. 203 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: We'll ask mom first and clear it all with her. 204 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: This is way too excessive for me. 205 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 2: Absolutely not weird. 206 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, not going to work out. Hey, Teddy, Look again, 207 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you have a good relationship with your mom. 208 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: That's a nice thing. I might not tell everybody that 209 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: I have to ask for her permission to use the bathroom, 210 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 1: and and that I run every decision by her. I 211 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: might not share that I might maybe consider not doing that. 212 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 2: I mean, I hear you. I think I'm just gonna 213 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 2: not I'll just say I need to think. 214 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: About it, right, and then do it anyway, Okay, all right, well, 215 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 1: hey whatever, float your boat. I guess Teddy, right right, 216 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: right right, we've really we've really gotten nowhere here with Lisa. 217 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for your time, Teddy. Good luck to you as well. 218 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.