WEBVTT - "The Stalking Expert" with Rasheda

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hello, Welcome to the Unofficial Expert Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>With Sydney and.

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<v Speaker 1>Her male friend Marie. Yes, I don't know why you pause,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't know what your name is, quiet Storm.

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<v Speaker 1>Your voice is very like it's a it's a wbls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it is very wbls quiet Storm on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now. We got ron Eisley. Yes, that's you, Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so deep, but you know whatever, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>time of year where I sound like.

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<v Speaker 2>I get so deep in. I don't think it's deep in.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gross.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just a different song. E, You're nasty.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. SID paid that phone bill, Okay, I gotta do

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<v Speaker 2>it please. Oh no, I just paid it just in

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<v Speaker 2>case you under them. So what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>We are living our best lives? Not really, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a rough November was rough. What Oh my god? I

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<v Speaker 1>made like no money and spend.

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<v Speaker 2>All my money. No, that's not true. That's a fact.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking through my uh my little planner for

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<v Speaker 1>the year and like I didn't even have any Like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't write anything in November because I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, since you got two gigs, you got two gigs.

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<v Speaker 2>I hit somebody else up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, do you need more people for

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<v Speaker 1>holiday parties? Because me and Marie are available. We're working

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<v Speaker 1>a holiday party this week. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm just some more I work in

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<v Speaker 2>a holiday party. I mean we gonna strip.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just came to dance for Junior's party.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to dance. That's it. Real players club.

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<v Speaker 1>Mistletoe on my belly button. Just you gotta kiss below

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<v Speaker 1>the missiles out my snapchat out and everything. I'm like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited. I am, I really am. That's it. Sis.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? How are you doing? What were

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<v Speaker 1>you an expert in this week? I'm a I'm an

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<v Speaker 1>expert in seeing people that listen to the podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>then then recapping the podcast in front of my girl.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what happened. So I was. I went to New Jersey. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>there was a dinner. My girlfriend's friend had a dinner

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<v Speaker 2>for her son, his son. There's a lot of characters

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<v Speaker 2>in this. It's a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, son's one of the There was somebody there who's

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<v Speaker 1>a fan of the podcast and was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you and Marie are so freaking funny. Who y'all be

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<v Speaker 1>There was an episode you was getting on Adrian. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait what wow? In front of Adrian, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, what are you talking? When she got

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<v Speaker 1>lay sick?

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<v Speaker 2>Well she woh sick.

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<v Speaker 1>He went up to her and was like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 1>just got laysick and she was like, yeah, how'd you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? I heard it on the podcast. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>wait what man? It was a man, a messy man.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a man that was saying all this shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to Zi with your big ass mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey zi Za. I was like, I listen to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to Blocas at work and I can't I

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<v Speaker 1>can't stop laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny messy which is on the podcast. It

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<v Speaker 2>was good. It was good. So now Adrian was like,

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<v Speaker 2>should I listen to the podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe she stopped listening to the podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>told her to time, and I can't believe.

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<v Speaker 2>She listened to you.

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<v Speaker 1>She should listen to me. It's for her own good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need her coming back and be like so

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<v Speaker 1>wait an episode four at UH at twenty three minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>you was talking about how you're not really happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sis, and you just recaptain right, now on this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>On the holiday episode, says, Ho, Ho, Well, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get no gifts this year?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly? Well, I'm not anyway the way I've been acting,

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<v Speaker 2>are y'all exchanging gifts?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Sins.

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<v Speaker 1>I meant to say this to you. I can't afford

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<v Speaker 1>to get you a gift this year, so please don't

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<v Speaker 1>give me a prison what you already bought me a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>in which case I will scrape some coins? Were doing,

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<v Speaker 1>Secret Santa?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you talking? I don't even know who I have?

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<v Speaker 2>Do we know? I know who I have? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Shoot, all right, we I'm gonna check the email because

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<v Speaker 1>you need to check right now since let me check it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the WiFi is slow here, so and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To be weird, but yeah, bitch, I got you for

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<v Speaker 2>Secrets Hannah. Wow, the secret is out, so no run me,

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<v Speaker 2>run me. Well wait, did you really get me for

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<v Speaker 2>Secret Sannah? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Well then that means okay, Well, let me just make

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<v Speaker 1>sure I got you sound to buy you two gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like if you had bought me a gift and

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<v Speaker 1>I got somebody else for Secret Sanna. I wasn't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>also get you a gift. I feel like our friendship

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<v Speaker 1>is separate from the group, right, but that that's two gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you gonna throw me.

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<v Speaker 1>In a pile of white women? Yes, I'm throwing you exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. I'm I don't even know how to check the

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<v Speaker 2>secrets and file.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, after the fixed Jesus and figured out, do take

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<v Speaker 1>the wheel and take my gift because I want this

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<v Speaker 1>be a gift card.

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<v Speaker 2>Because what the hell were you an expert.

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<v Speaker 1>In besides scary little boys with my voice? I was

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<v Speaker 1>an expert at fraud this week. Get into it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna just get into it allegedly. I'm gonna say allegedly

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<v Speaker 1>because then you can't prove that I actually did it.

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<v Speaker 1>So Sidney and I were traveling to Philadelphia. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>uh huh, and I bought a bus ticket for the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong day.

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<v Speaker 2>Since you really go and put this on the pod?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, sure, sure, I mean they know that we're poor,

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<v Speaker 1>The know we take the bus. They watching their instant stories.

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<v Speaker 1>We are quite so we we I got the ticket

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<v Speaker 1>for the wrong day, called the bus company and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, can we change the dates? And they

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<v Speaker 1>were like no, they're none refundable, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need my I need my money back, and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna get it back. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>let me jump on Chase online real quick, found the

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<v Speaker 1>number to Chase, call them and was like, my card

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<v Speaker 1>was compromised. Chase was like, so what is this last transaction?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, nope, send me my money back and

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<v Speaker 1>Chase was like, okay, uh, We're gonna have to cancel

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<v Speaker 1>your card and send you a new one. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, no, I still need to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to swipe for things, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know how, don't carry get the whole thing down.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's a meme of somebody like sleeping in

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<v Speaker 1>the bed, like real comfortably, and I was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when read no one can.

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<v Speaker 2>Her card has been declined. So they told me it

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna take first.

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<v Speaker 1>They told me ten days and I was like ten days,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be twenty eighteen, and they're like five to

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<v Speaker 1>seven days, and I was like, can I just go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bank and they're like no, but they don't

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<v Speaker 1>print them no more because you know, they got to

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<v Speaker 1>chip in them now.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've been without card for I've been in a

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<v Speaker 2>fraud situation as well, you commit a fraud or somebody

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<v Speaker 2>stole your identity, so well, not fraud.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I was, I was at a place, a

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<v Speaker 1>well known place, and I was switching tags and I

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<v Speaker 1>got caught.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>True A bonus episode conversation you gotta give. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hear this story about me almost getting

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<v Speaker 1>caught and thrown in jail, you gotta go to the

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<v Speaker 1>Patreon for bonus episodes, look.

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<v Speaker 2>For the unofficial expert. Let's get into this guest string

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<v Speaker 2>get into.

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<v Speaker 1>It because I'm not even looking on this side because

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<v Speaker 1>you really it's too much melaniny in the room going

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<v Speaker 1>on like amazing. Hold on, let us introduce you. Then

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna give you full body camp. Okay, she is,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a writer, she's a comedian. She is our stalking expert.

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<v Speaker 1>But then also, I feel like a bunch of other

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<v Speaker 1>things slash slash, slashed up slash, lots of things city.

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<v Speaker 1>What slash would you throw in there?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say doing the most slash doing the most.

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<v Speaker 1>That U.

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<v Speaker 2>She's our I'm super excited to have you here. It's

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<v Speaker 2>Rashida Crockett. Yes, Rashid, Rashida how you doing, queen.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel really good and I'm always happy to see

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<v Speaker 3>you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I haven't seen you since we did awkward sex

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<v Speaker 1>in the City together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it hasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>The last time we've worked other was awkward text in

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<v Speaker 3>the city. That was, And you told a messy story there, girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I was still in a no, I was fresh out

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<v Speaker 3>of my relationship then. But my ex showed up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a guy there with you and heckled the

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<v Speaker 3>life out of me. That was my ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had you had your old pies come through

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<v Speaker 1>the heck wi you bitch. Someone had to record the set.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you had him as a camera man. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you are so rude. She is the lude expert. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>you were slash route. Well, let's talk about what she

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<v Speaker 1>got on.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she came in. She threw a lapearla parla.

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<v Speaker 1>She threw a lapearla uh Asian privoctor. Here's the thing, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>See the way Marie and Sydney be in the street.

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<v Speaker 1>I look like dust regular, yes, and I have turtlenecks on.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a total neck on right now. Sis, you

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<v Speaker 1>got your whole chest nipple out.

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<v Speaker 3>Sidney, My whole Neriola, And I'm gonna tell you this

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<v Speaker 3>right now, because I didn't want to be up in

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<v Speaker 3>here looking raggedy.

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<v Speaker 1>On the the and here I am looking like a

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<v Speaker 1>dust bunny. Chance, I'm in here sucking it up. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's auntie grandmother on top of layers of dust as well.

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<v Speaker 2>The stopish her best like that is a good wig.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a hat on top of it because you

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<v Speaker 2>can't see the part so beautiful all you lie? Rashida

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<v Speaker 2>No on a skinny jean. She got on like a

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<v Speaker 2>why are you even throwing the belt? We don't even

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<v Speaker 2>need the belt because I don't I don't want my

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<v Speaker 2>pants to fall.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well hold on, hold on, but she has like

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<v Speaker 1>she's giving us Jennifer Lopez Versagi dress neckline.

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<v Speaker 2>So then goes down to the bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even gonna tall you, sis, because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even look at you like that. So I'm not family

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<v Speaker 1>no more. N Your skin looks great, Rashida. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about you, like what you're doing?

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<v Speaker 2>After this is? Who are you? Where you come from?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from New York, I mean Brooklyn originally Long Island,

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<v Speaker 1>grew up there, started doing comedy after years of disappointing

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<v Speaker 1>my parents in other ways.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean just like I could tell by your hairdline, like

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<v Speaker 1>you graduated school. You graduated like high school and college,

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<v Speaker 1>my edges, I graduated. Her hair was giving us Janelle money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes it is, but my body is given like step

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<v Speaker 2>child card.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, Nathan sona did you say so, Nathan?

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<v Speaker 2>She you did? Because whatever? Okay, that must be another son.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's gorgeous. No, you're not buleg that's you. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>telling you, Nathan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So you are a stalking expert.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you take us through the story?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, wait, I just want people to know that

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<v Speaker 1>the way you look, you should not be stalking.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody people should be stalking.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not that, But that's not what it's about, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>If you listen, you would get the story. Sis, she

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<v Speaker 1>was stalked. I was stalked and not and when I

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<v Speaker 1>stay stalked. I don't mean oh girl, he was driving

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<v Speaker 1>past my block unannounced. He needs to stop playing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he better not be doing that shit. No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>like lawyers, judges, cops ceased and to sist.

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<v Speaker 3>Decrees decrease decrees. Do we have to pull out some tissue? No,

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<v Speaker 3>I think he's in jail now, So we did.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, yes it was forty eight. Here you go, honey.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a really stressful time in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'll say this.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time, I was living in Pittsburgh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the place.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like power plants and smoke, and that's what

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<v Speaker 3>it was giving. And when you are a young black

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<v Speaker 3>woman just trying to be popping and find love, it's

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<v Speaker 3>very challenging in a city like Pittsburgh.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, all right, what kind of dudes were

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<v Speaker 1>in Pittsburgh. It was like, I feel like coal miners

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<v Speaker 1>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was a lot of engineers, a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of Pittsburgh Steelers.

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I feel like they were like I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>we wear a lot of like fleas jackets to dinner dates, vest.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, like bubble vests. Yeah, best coats, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, there was a there was a fair amount

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<v Speaker 3>of that, but like bubble vests with like long John's

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<v Speaker 3>and then like tattoos on their face and neck. What

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<v Speaker 3>it's we's khalifa think whiz, Yes, that's what Whiz looks

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<v Speaker 3>like a crackhead lesbian.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes he does.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, on behalf of all the lesbians,

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<v Speaker 1>including myself, that was rude.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't look like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear what I said? And your crackhead lesbian chill?

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<v Speaker 1>Cis I need to do close your mouth and open

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<v Speaker 1>your ears. I honestly I don't even want him to

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<v Speaker 1>be associated with lesbian. So you've never met a hideous lesbian?

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<v Speaker 1>Never in your life have you met a lesbian that

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, uh, sir a. People are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be in interventions right now because of that common all

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<v Speaker 1>the shade off thrown Beyonce and no one said anything

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<v Speaker 1>to me yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, so you couldn't meet at Pittsburgh Steel because.

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<v Speaker 3>They're all dating white women. So I tried my tell

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<v Speaker 3>it and I don't be afraid. My truth is my truth.

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<v Speaker 3>So I go online and I'm thinking, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 3>where I'm going to find love. So I go on

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<v Speaker 3>on this really reputable website called sugar daddy dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I in full circle, we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>sugar daddy dot com like many episodes ago, and our

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<v Speaker 1>sugar Daddy expert she's still using it, she's still using it,

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<v Speaker 1>if not any longer because of this particular instance, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I need to have a conversation with her because I

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<v Speaker 1>was hustling back. But just listen to her episode. It

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<v Speaker 1>was messy, but like there were facts there. But also,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all don't look the same, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, it's different. Differ you in a different league, it's different.

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<v Speaker 2>You are the Beyonce to her, No, you don't even

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<v Speaker 2>do it. LaToya love it? Who does? Got married?

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<v Speaker 1>She looks amazing, she looks great. But I'm still saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>don nobody really know I.

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<v Speaker 2>Did a movie with LaToya. I love LaToya very much.

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<v Speaker 2>To get shout out to them credits girl the resume.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a Lifetime movie called Seasons of Love. Seasons

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<v Speaker 2>of Love. Yeah it was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>But okay, so I go, I should not be plugging

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<v Speaker 3>these projects while I'm saying telling it's messy.

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<v Speaker 2>As you're telling the truth. Though.

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<v Speaker 3>So I get on this website and I meet a

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<v Speaker 3>gentleman let's call him Bob.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you is Bob the first person that you met?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you meet anybody else on this website?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean a couple of people like hit me up

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<v Speaker 3>and It's really weird because it's like you have to

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<v Speaker 3>post pictures and you have to tell people about yourself,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're on the sugar Daddy website and they're expecting

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<v Speaker 3>you to say what your terms are?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what were your Yeah? Did you I do a

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<v Speaker 2>little contract?

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Very afraid.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm having conversations with my girlfriends and I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you do? You have their offering like like

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<v Speaker 3>a what do you call those like ranges of money

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<v Speaker 3>that you would want? Okay, wait wait wait have your

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<v Speaker 3>fulle stipend? Okay, yes, but wait have your friends?

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<v Speaker 1>Are your friends on the website or you're just asking

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<v Speaker 1>regular regular chicks that go to work from nine to five.

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<v Speaker 2>Because they are not the ones you talk to. Friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was just gonna say, let me let me

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<v Speaker 3>be a thousand percent. I have no regular degular friends.

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<v Speaker 3>All my friends are bad bitches, but they are on

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<v Speaker 3>sugar daddy dot com. They don't need to be. They

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<v Speaker 3>are in sugar Daddy dot life.

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<v Speaker 2>Like just speaking. They boys don't have cousin. Daddy didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have like a son for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, here's here's what probably pushed me to the God.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling all my business.

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<v Speaker 1>We did.

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<v Speaker 2>The edge on this John.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had a girlfriend who was married to her

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<v Speaker 3>husband played for the Browns, and that's Cleveland, which was

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<v Speaker 3>the closest thing to Pittsburgh that I could find more

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<v Speaker 3>black people. And she had introduced me to one of

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<v Speaker 3>her husband's teammates. He ended up with a white girl,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, okay, fuck this. Like he and

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't work out. He ended up How long did

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<v Speaker 3>you guys hang out for date? Several months, but he

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<v Speaker 3>was still very much suck on his ex girlfriend. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 3>So you were just in a bad situation and I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't meeting anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>You wasn't set up to win.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't set up to win. He was a sweet,

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<v Speaker 3>sweet I mean sure, still is a sweet, sweet guy. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 3>off off the record, give us his name at the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the pub. I want to see what she looks.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to see the white wife. Yeah, which is

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<v Speaker 3>not the white ex girlfriend that he was stuck on.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't even matter though it doesn't even Cicheskay,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>So a couple of dudes had hit me up, but

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't really know what I was doing. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you know, when they would talk to me

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<v Speaker 3>if they weren't normal, if they were just on some

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<v Speaker 3>stuff like why are you on the website or like

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<v Speaker 3>what are you looking for?

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be able to answer those kinds of questions.

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<v Speaker 2>You need a consultant. I needed a consultant.

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<v Speaker 3>But if a dude stepped me and he was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>you're beautiful, I know how to respond to that.

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<v Speaker 2>But if they're like because my girlfriend was just.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a cat call right then, but it's tight foklyn, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for your written cat call.

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<v Speaker 2>Y e R.

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<v Speaker 3>So my girlfriend was like everything to the max, like

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<v Speaker 3>say you want the maximount of and he don't be

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<v Speaker 3>on their nickel and diamonds.

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<v Speaker 2>Just what's the max amount of money? Millions? Ten grand

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<v Speaker 2>a month? Like allowance? Murray, murray, murray.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been here all this time in grand We've been

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<v Speaker 1>first for three years. When have you listen? Do we

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<v Speaker 1>sign up after?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's sign me up after? Okay, you to listen

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<v Speaker 2>this to this through? Well, what was your profile picture?

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<v Speaker 2>What photos? Did you have? A low key I think

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<v Speaker 2>I catfish.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I googled pretty brown skinned girls and whatever

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<v Speaker 3>popped up that looked like it could have been me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I use those Ah, that's what I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do too, since because you know I'm in these streets. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't think people like what if my dad

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<v Speaker 2>or my dad wouldn't be spending money on a bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>Your dad, what's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>Arthur?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know what Arthur doing on the side.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I just didn't want people to see my

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<v Speaker 3>face on the website. Okay, that makes talking about it

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<v Speaker 3>on a podcast, so I guess it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point. This is all alleged. Yeah, this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is a legend.

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<v Speaker 3>So Bob hits me up and he's like hey, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, hey, he lives in LA I'm living in Pittsburgh.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like is Bob black or white?

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<v Speaker 3>Bob is a black man, rober Bob is a black man,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's a smitch older than me. Saw Smitch his

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen years about sixteen years. But you said, Smitch, Smitch,

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<v Speaker 3>you got a lot of nerve. Let's let's give him.

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<v Speaker 1>Who would play Bob in a movie? Shit and Bob's Life?

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<v Speaker 1>Who played by Samuel L.

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<v Speaker 2>Jackson? No, he was he had a better body than Samuel.

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<v Speaker 1>Denzel Washington Deniel doesn't have a good body, says he's

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<v Speaker 1>in training today.

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<v Speaker 2>From the neck down.

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<v Speaker 3>He had a good body, but the face going down,

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<v Speaker 3>he had.

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<v Speaker 2>A he was decent. The face was Uncle Bill's struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>Struggle was the face Eddie Winslow? What was the face

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<v Speaker 2>giving us? We'll google him after this. Okay, I can

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<v Speaker 2>find a mugshot.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you just want to into our phone right

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<v Speaker 1>into the yeah, no, no, no, we won't. Don't use I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, Sidney can't really read that. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>So he and I are just conversing, and thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for not saying conversation because that's not a word. And

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<v Speaker 3>we're conversing and you know, we're kind of like developing

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<v Speaker 3>a friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, I want you to come to

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<v Speaker 1>LA and visit me. You know, how how many conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>how deep? How many how many days or congos?

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<v Speaker 2>I passed?

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<v Speaker 1>This is after like a week did he say he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna pay for the plane ticket. He knew he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't need to say that, and that was unequivocal.

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<v Speaker 2>So he.

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<v Speaker 3>Goes and offers me a plane ticket and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to go without I don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, since he looks like Mouse from Jamie Fox, both

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<v Speaker 1>of you right now, pause, pause the podcast, and you

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<v Speaker 1>look up to Jimmy Fox Show and the character.

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<v Speaker 2>Since he's giving me he's not badly.

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<v Speaker 1>He just looks like he hits people and he does,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's a violent person.

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<v Speaker 2>He looks violent. He looks like he needed you know what.

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<v Speaker 3>You're also looking at a mug shot. His mug shot

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't on the website. I mean, Lindsay Lohan has several

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<v Speaker 3>cute mug shots. Yeah, Rihanna has a mud shot and

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<v Speaker 3>her ship was flowed. Rihanna's you know about the one

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<v Speaker 3>where she got beat. She didn't get the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>this also wasn't a good photo. Yeah, she's also I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, damn, she got the Kylie lift kidd, that

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<v Speaker 3>ain't right. Go ahead, Yeah, So he starts sending me

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<v Speaker 3>gifts to kind of like oil me up of gifts

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<v Speaker 3>out to l A.

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<v Speaker 2>So first of all, I was calling it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was calling a gift given Tuesday, which is basically

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<v Speaker 3>just the time from when he got paid on Friday,

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<v Speaker 3>when he would the ship, when it would get to

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<v Speaker 3>my office on Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Gift giving Tuesday. Every Tuesday, it would be a nice

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<v Speaker 2>new gift.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes it would just be like a box with like

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<v Speaker 3>something small in it in a car and just like

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<v Speaker 3>literal cash, like he would be sending cash through once

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<v Speaker 3>throughout three hundred dollars because I did not know that

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<v Speaker 3>he put three hundred dollars in the box.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell you and Nola Darling just giving the money

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<v Speaker 2>back I had. I was digging through.

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<v Speaker 3>He bought me an iMac, a computer, a desktop, an

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<v Speaker 3>iMac and.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, a whole desktops. It's not even a laptop.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he bought me the he bought me the desktop,

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<v Speaker 3>and he threw three hundred dollars in the box. But

0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:27.320
<v Speaker 3>I was just expecting the desktop. So I take this,

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<v Speaker 3>I take the computer out, throw the box out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm speechless. And he was like.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, can you send me? And I

0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:36.760
<v Speaker 3>asked them for money for a thing, and he was like,

0:21:37.440 --> 0:21:39.240
<v Speaker 3>I just sent you three hundred dollars and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a liar. And he was like, Rashida, I just

0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:43.399
<v Speaker 2>threw three hundred dollars in the box. I'm like, why

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't you put it in an oh? Blow? But I

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<v Speaker 2>have to go. That's rude. That's that's drug money.

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<v Speaker 1>Drugs throw things loose like that, just just loosely loose money.

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<v Speaker 1>So after a couple of gifts, God, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>think of what he got me that got me out

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<v Speaker 1>to l A.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a pair wi I sell shoes for La

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<v Speaker 2>for your whole life.

0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:08.359
<v Speaker 3>She's share parawil wireless shoes. It was an iPhone and.

0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:10.439
<v Speaker 2>It was a computer.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so the computer was like you heard that listeners,

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<v Speaker 3>a desktop, not a laptop. And it was a computer

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<v Speaker 3>and two thousand dollars l three thousand dollars computer. And

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<v Speaker 3>it was like, you know, you come to LA, we'll

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<v Speaker 3>go to the Beverly Shutter, we'll go shopping, we'll have

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<v Speaker 3>a good time. So we get I get out to LA.

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<v Speaker 3>The moment I get off the plane, he comes and

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<v Speaker 3>he picks me up. I immediately take a picture of his plate,

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<v Speaker 3>his licenses. Absolutely, send it to my mom and my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna let you know that I've had friends

0:22:36.840 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 1>that do that. You what you say is, hey, my

0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:41.520
<v Speaker 1>best friend has to come to that's.

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<v Speaker 2>What you do. You gotta rush you to sell a life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know, but just in case you do it again,

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney and Marie are available.

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<v Speaker 2>We are very available to you.

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<v Speaker 1>For those high wear A signe seven and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's thirty seven European size.

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<v Speaker 3>Not gonna ride me and my girlfriends. Kind of fucked

0:22:57.960 --> 0:23:00.520
<v Speaker 3>that money up a little bit. But there's more this morning.

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<v Speaker 3>So we get to La We get to the hotel

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I want a separate room from you,

0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:08.399
<v Speaker 3>and he was like, Mashida, I don't want to give

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:10.360
<v Speaker 3>you another room, like I don't, I don't.

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:13.480
<v Speaker 2>He basically he was just like, well we need to

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<v Speaker 2>be together. We don't.

0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:15.879
<v Speaker 3>I don't want us to be apart. And I was like, okay,

0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:17.560
<v Speaker 3>fuck you, I'm paying for this other room.

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<v Speaker 2>So you get out there, get your own. How much

0:23:19.480 --> 0:23:23.080
<v Speaker 2>is room? The rooms? Like three hundred? The box.

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<v Speaker 1>He just gave me money, she used, that is my money.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's not his money gets my hand. That's in

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<v Speaker 1>my account.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's the real real I'm going to get. I

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 3>was I had to get more, so I get my

0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:42.359
<v Speaker 3>I get the room, gaggy the jagge. I'm just gonna

0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:45.919
<v Speaker 3>get more. I sleep in my room and now I'm

0:23:45.920 --> 0:23:48.720
<v Speaker 3>sleeping comfortably. We go out we get breakfast. The next morning,

0:23:48.760 --> 0:23:51.840
<v Speaker 3>he takes me shopping. We went to the Beverly Center.

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<v Speaker 1>We went, I don't know, brought me some shoes, some jewelry,

0:23:55.240 --> 0:23:59.720
<v Speaker 1>a nice watch, watch, and then he takes.

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<v Speaker 2>Me how much money did he spend that day?

0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:05.520
<v Speaker 1>A couple of thou a couple of thousand. But here's

0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 1>also the thing, it's your baby hairs. Honestly, he would

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:11.879
<v Speaker 1>drive around with like wads and wads of money in

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:12.840
<v Speaker 1>his glove compartment.

0:24:13.840 --> 0:24:16.359
<v Speaker 2>And any moment did you think I might get shot? Yeah?

0:24:16.560 --> 0:24:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Or killed, not just shot, but killed drive by situation.

0:24:20.560 --> 0:24:22.840
<v Speaker 2>Maybe No, No, not for a moment than I think that. No,

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<v Speaker 2>not one second. Wow, Well what kind of car was it?

0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:27.960
<v Speaker 2>He's driving BMW and so that's not the kind of car.

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 2>I want to die. And I want to be in

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 2>a Maserati when I die. I want you want to

0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:34.200
<v Speaker 2>be in a Lambo.

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:37.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the last time that Rihanna was in a

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.720
<v Speaker 1>car with suicide doors.

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 2>It was almost a homicide exactly. So wait, crazy.

0:24:42.640 --> 0:24:45.879
<v Speaker 3>So he takes me, he's like, we're driving around and

0:24:45.920 --> 0:24:47.760
<v Speaker 3>he takes me to the Audi dealership and he was like,

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:50.480
<v Speaker 3>I want you to test drive these cars because I

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.440
<v Speaker 3>was living in Pittsburgh. I wasn't happy. He was telling

0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 3>me you could move to LA and live with like

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:55.119
<v Speaker 3>and live out here with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you drive?

0:24:57.320 --> 0:25:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I can drive like from New York, but yes

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I can try. Oh yeah, but you have like a

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:03.280
<v Speaker 1>New York driver's license.

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:07.720
<v Speaker 2>What does that mean, bitch? Yes, I new parallel park.

0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:10.760
<v Speaker 2>No I tried. I mean.

0:25:10.800 --> 0:25:13.080
<v Speaker 3>I was also just annoyed because while you're sitting here

0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:15.600
<v Speaker 3>wasting time taking me to drive these cars, you can

0:25:15.640 --> 0:25:17.920
<v Speaker 3>actually be spending money on me doing real things because

0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:19.360
<v Speaker 3>you're not going to buy this car for me right now,

0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:23.439
<v Speaker 3>just go shopping again because they pay for a spot. Yeah, now,

0:25:23.440 --> 0:25:26.720
<v Speaker 3>you're just wasting my time to give me some new toes.

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:29.400
<v Speaker 3>Brought me some new toes. He takes me to meet

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<v Speaker 3>his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>What wait on the first trip.

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:35.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he takes me to meet that's a red flash.

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:39.159
<v Speaker 1>I have to show you these pictures. They wanted to

0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 1>take picture.

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<v Speaker 2>How did he introduce you? He said, this is my girlfriend, Rashida. Wow,

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:47.760
<v Speaker 2>and Rashida, you said, okay, pleasure to meet you.

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:50.320
<v Speaker 1>If you said pleasure to meet I was like, she's hired.

0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:51.800
<v Speaker 1>She's definitely, she's a pleasure to meet.

0:25:52.119 --> 0:25:53.840
<v Speaker 2>To meet hired, and.

0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:56.680
<v Speaker 3>I mean it was actually really nice to like see

0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:59.399
<v Speaker 3>where his parents live and like see what kind you

0:25:59.440 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 3>know at the time where they lived in like in

0:26:02.880 --> 0:26:04.040
<v Speaker 3>the suburbs of LA They had.

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:06.760
<v Speaker 2>A really beautiful home, very nice. They had an addict and whatnot. Yeah,

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:11.600
<v Speaker 2>basement money, ye lived pull the sack.

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:14.880
<v Speaker 3>Even though like his parents were older, like his mom

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:17.320
<v Speaker 3>still like rocked. Well, stepmom still like rocks her Louis

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 3>bags like she was real.

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:20.680
<v Speaker 2>Well that's the step mom. She's a new mom. Of course,

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:21.720
<v Speaker 2>I think you still.

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 3>Think his mom and dad were ever married. Well, I

0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:28.640
<v Speaker 3>mean had he had a list serve of issues. So

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 3>we get back home, but like we get back to

0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 3>the hotel. Next morning, he's dropping me off at the

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:36.199
<v Speaker 3>airport and wait, how long were you there for?

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Just the weekend? One weekend? One weekend?

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you did all the damage and then you

0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 1>had to check a bag.

0:26:42.480 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I mean we were leaving and I was

0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 3>just like, can I have some money? You give you.

0:26:49.640 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 2>Dollars Weekend's what happened.

0:26:51.600 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 3>He asked me how much I wanted And here's if

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna do this, lady like.

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Me speak to the listeners, speak here. If you're gonna

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 2>do this, don't be like me, beater than me.

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:04.800
<v Speaker 3>You can't be shy and timid about taking money somebody's money,

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.680
<v Speaker 3>because that's what you're there to do. I was very

0:27:07.720 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 3>shy and timid about it. I would be like, baby,

0:27:10.320 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 3>can I have some money? And he would be like,

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:12.720
<v Speaker 3>how much can I'd be like, I don't know. A

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 3>couple of hundred. He's like, what's a couple of hundred.

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I don't know. Like had I asked for

0:27:16.480 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 3>seven hundred or seven or seventeen hundred, it would have

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 3>been the same thing. So just be like all of it,

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:28.320
<v Speaker 3>like out of Good Fellas that that when she did

0:27:28.359 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 3>the stack thing with her fingers that much?

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Just stop asking for don't be nippling down how much money?

0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 2>Is this much? That much? About one of two inches

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.120
<v Speaker 2>between your fingers? Dude, what are we doing? We're doing

0:27:38.200 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 2>it wrong, said, what are we fucking No, guys, you're

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.439
<v Speaker 2>doing the right thing, trust me. So I'm looking at

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:44.920
<v Speaker 2>you with my eyes open and I'd be like, no,

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 2>we're not. We're sitting You're doing it wrong. I know

0:27:47.160 --> 0:27:50.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing it wrong. I'm fully wrong, all the way wrong.

0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Sucking all my teeth, okay, sucking my poor picking my

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 1>dusty toes.

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 2>Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>So wait, So I go back to Pittsburgh a couple

0:27:58.560 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 3>of weeks later, gift giving tuesdays of the thing, and

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 3>one night, middle of the night, he calls me and

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 3>he's like, I gotta like, I gotta go. I'm moving

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 3>to Atlanta. And I was like, like right now, he

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 3>was like yeah. So he got into a huge altercation

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:14.440
<v Speaker 3>with a gentleman in his work. Now it's important for

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:15.879
<v Speaker 3>me to say he has his money. He has this

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:18.159
<v Speaker 3>money because his father owns a shipping company, like a

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:22.879
<v Speaker 3>transporting company, and he works for his father's transporporting company.

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 1>When you say transporting company, it sounds like he's transporting drugs.

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. He sounds like a mule.

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know what they do. He

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>manages mules.

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:32.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know anything about.

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Mule Depot, mule marked, yeah, mules r us.

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:39.959
<v Speaker 2>I know nothing about us. Okay.

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 3>And he got into an argument with one of his coworkers,

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 3>which was one of his father's employees, and I guess

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 3>it got like physical and he was like, first of all.

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Your fist fighting at work is come on, man, a

0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>little crush, a little crayh. So I was like, and

0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 1>also a.

0:28:56.280 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 3>Little cray So you're just gonna pick up your life

0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 3>and move from LA to Atlanta and the drop of

0:29:01.440 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 3>a dime's people do.

0:29:03.200 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 1>But he just packed up his car and left. It

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like he hired movers or anything.

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 2>And he was on the run. That's what it felt

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 2>like to me. And he was like no.

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 3>He just started like going crazy, like no, I have

0:29:14.640 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 3>to be free for me and I have to be

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 3>free from my son. And I was like, wait, what

0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:21.600
<v Speaker 3>are you He has a son who lived in Saint Louis,

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:24.400
<v Speaker 3>and he never really saw his son. He didn't have

0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 3>a great relationship with his ex wife, and he would

0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 3>also talk to me about his ex girlfriend, who was

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 3>a dancer up in Vegas, who he didn't have a

0:29:32.400 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 3>good relationship with, like they had a really terrible breakup.

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:38.560
<v Speaker 3>And I knew it was about money. So I was like,

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:41.640
<v Speaker 3>there were a number of red flags, but that was

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 3>like the biggest red.

0:29:42.760 --> 0:29:45.280
<v Speaker 2>Flag for me. Yeah, I mean red flags. You can

0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 2>ignore them for a couple hundred dollars a week. You

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>can ignore new sunglasses.

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>I've ignored red flags, just.

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 3>To blind me from the light of the flags. All right,

0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:58.160
<v Speaker 3>I've ignored red flags, which is fucked up. When I

0:29:58.200 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 3>was a kid. I'm grown now and smarter, hopefully wiser.

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 3>So they say, now he moves to Atlanta, and he's like, well,

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:06.720
<v Speaker 3>now you're gonna I want you to move with me

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 3>to Atlanta. So he flies me down to Atlanta. I

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 3>don't like, I don't get a separate hotel room this time,

0:30:15.440 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 3>but we do get separate beds.

0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 2>It was too it was too full beds.

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:20.840
<v Speaker 3>It was two full beds. I asked him to get

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 3>too full beds, so he went and sleep with me.

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:24.520
<v Speaker 3>So I think it's very important to know that I

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 3>never slept with this man. I never slept with this

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 3>man once. So we were together for four months and

0:30:27.600 --> 0:30:29.560
<v Speaker 3>I never slept with them. But it was a bit

0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 3>of a part time job because we had this long

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 3>distance relationship and every day I had to like check

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 3>in with him and email him and just like stroke

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:39.720
<v Speaker 3>his big stupid ego. And in return, he would call

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 3>up nord Strums while I was there and just give

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 3>him give them the credit card.

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Does a great job. It's a great job.

0:30:45.200 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel the same way okay, but my problem is

0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 1>with situations like this, why do women buy things?

0:30:52.320 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 2>Just give me the money? So I have the money

0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:56.080
<v Speaker 2>in my account, Sidney, what would you be doing with

0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 2>the money?

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Said, because I feel like a friend of ours, I'm

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 1>not gonna say no names. You used to make a

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:03.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of money at their job and doesn't have any

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 1>of that money left. Well, here's the thing, people, I

0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>was also doing drugs and alcohol on a regular basis,

0:31:08.960 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 1>so I had a friend. I didn't even say by myself.

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:15.400
<v Speaker 1>They know you have no friends, Marie. They know you're

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:17.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about spot up.

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 3>But I'll say this, sometimes when a guy is spending

0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:21.440
<v Speaker 3>money on you, you have to let them spend the

0:31:21.480 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 3>money on you the way they feel comfortable spending it.

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:25.240
<v Speaker 2>And that's just.

0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:27.720
<v Speaker 3>The real Like updated guys, and they don't want to

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 3>just put money in your hand. They want to take

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 3>you out to night's dinners. They will help you set

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 3>up at LLC, but they wouldn't just give you the

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 3>money to see But like there's some guys who are

0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 3>just like that. You have to just let these men

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 3>spend the money.

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Pay for a dot com for me, I mean, we

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:47.640
<v Speaker 1>buy me some stock. We've done that a bigcoin. Give

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 1>me a big coin.

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 2>In this big buy me a big cooin.

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 3>So Atlanta happens, and Atlanta was actually a really good time.

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 3>We went shopping again by did you give it up?

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.200
<v Speaker 2>Never fucked him? Never never fucked him.

0:32:02.280 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you you never touched it.

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 2>I've seen his dick.

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 3>It just didn't get anywhere near my person in a

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:14.360
<v Speaker 3>way like I've seen and touched his dick.

0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 2>He touched it. The gag is it? I would tell you,

0:32:20.640 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I did you sit on his face? What you did?

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:25.640
<v Speaker 2>She not you.

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.600
<v Speaker 1>She just wanted the truth because we would be like, no,

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I didn't do nothing. I'd be like, when you say nothing,

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you mean something.

0:32:32.120 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you mean you didn't do anything?

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 3>I said, I didn't have sex with him. Let me

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 3>tell you what I did do, which was kind of

0:32:37.200 --> 0:32:40.200
<v Speaker 3>fucked up. I'm in this relationship quote unquote for four

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:41.720
<v Speaker 3>months and we weren't having any sex.

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:43.959
<v Speaker 1>So there was this other guy who I was like,

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I have a friend that's doing that right now. Yeah,

0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:48.280
<v Speaker 1>but there's another guy in Atlanta that she went to

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>go see. There was a guy in Atlanta that I

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>went to go and see. And I want to say

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:53.720
<v Speaker 1>I ain't ship because with the same money. I hope

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 1>he isn't listening to this because he would kill me.

0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:57.680
<v Speaker 2>He's all listening. They don't you don't have iTunes.

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 3>Like I would use them that he would give me

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 3>to fly the guy up from Atlanta to Pittsburgh to

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:04.680
<v Speaker 3>like me.

0:33:04.680 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 2>A ticket to Atlanta's not that she's sounds expensive. It's fine.

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:09.480
<v Speaker 2>This kind of sounds like one of my stories.

0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Wait, so it gets I got everything that I deserved

0:33:12.920 --> 0:33:13.840
<v Speaker 1>after this.

0:33:13.880 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, so then what happened? So I start to feel

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:17.960
<v Speaker 3>really badly about this.

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:19.320
<v Speaker 2>You are a victim.

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Do not blame yourself this this is not your fault.

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 2>Rashida, What were you wearing? What you did you have

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 2>this on? Because if you did, I'm like, yeah, what

0:33:29.960 --> 0:33:30.240
<v Speaker 2>he did it?

0:33:32.080 --> 0:33:35.200
<v Speaker 3>And I mean I was like talking shit one night,

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 3>kind of just like flirting with Bob and I was

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:40.720
<v Speaker 3>like you should come up to Pittsburgh and he was

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:42.600
<v Speaker 3>like okay and just got his car and drove up

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:43.520
<v Speaker 3>from Atlanta to Pittsburgh.

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Why And I was like.

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:47.600
<v Speaker 3>Wait no, Like so on the drive up, I'm like, wait,

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 3>you you're really coming and he's like yeah.

0:33:49.880 --> 0:33:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm like where are you going to stay?

0:33:50.920 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 3>You can't stay in my apartment and he was like

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 3>why and I was like, well, you don't pay bills here,

0:33:54.760 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 3>so you can't stay here, Like how would you like

0:33:56.960 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 3>exit perfectly executed?

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>But you know that would make me drive even faster.

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying no fucking bills.

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 2>It's what you think. I'm into you money for money

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:08.279
<v Speaker 2>for the bills.

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:10.920
<v Speaker 3>Well, his thing was this because we did have a

0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:14.359
<v Speaker 3>conversation about just like an allowance, and he didn't want

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 3>to do that. He wanted to spend money on me.

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 3>How much was your rent at the time living in Pittsburgh.

0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 3>My rent was six hundred and fifty dollars.

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I was I'm getting the ticket one way to Pittsford

0:34:24.640 --> 0:34:27.840
<v Speaker 2>right now, and can do I don't know if they

0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:28.480
<v Speaker 2>have Wi Fi there?

0:34:28.640 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Six fifty dollars, hugest apartment with like French doors.

0:34:33.960 --> 0:34:37.239
<v Speaker 2>Fire. It was really beautiful. I love War Street. It

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>was so beautiful.

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 3>But like we had a I didn't tell him that

0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:42.360
<v Speaker 3>my rent, my rent was that little. I lied and

0:34:42.360 --> 0:34:45.719
<v Speaker 3>told him my rent was more, of course, probably like

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:52.640
<v Speaker 3>twelve hundred or sixteen. And we talked about like me

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:55.040
<v Speaker 3>quitting my job because I was really unhappy, and he

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 3>knew I wanted to be an actress, and him just

0:34:57.440 --> 0:34:59.759
<v Speaker 3>like giving me allowance. But we were trying to set

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:00.680
<v Speaker 3>another for everyone.

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 2>So that was last in future invest.

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:06.799
<v Speaker 3>In trying to leverage. Well, you don't pay bills here,

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 3>so you can't stay here. I was such a brag.

0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:11.439
<v Speaker 3>I was also in my early twenties just being an ass.

0:35:11.560 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 2>I love it. I love everything that you say. Yeah,

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:16.240
<v Speaker 2>it really made me happy. All right. So the gag

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 2>is now I'm saying that.

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:17.359
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:19.720
<v Speaker 3>The gag is, so he comes and gets a hotel

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:22.560
<v Speaker 3>and the hotel is walking distance from my apartment, and

0:35:22.600 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, he knows where I lived and I never

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:26.600
<v Speaker 3>gave him my address.

0:35:27.040 --> 0:35:28.360
<v Speaker 2>But he was sending you stuff.

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 3>He was sending it to my job. I worked forty

0:35:30.960 --> 0:35:32.840
<v Speaker 3>five minutes outside of where I am. You're telling me

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:36.320
<v Speaker 3>you you never dropped a pin on the fun You're.

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 4>Telling me this was eight years ago. You were telling

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 4>me that you sent he was sending a desktop to

0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:43.520
<v Speaker 4>your job. He sent the desktop to my job, and what.

0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:44.720
<v Speaker 2>Did your co work? Oh?

0:35:44.760 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Rashida, No, no, no, the coworkers were like, oh,

0:35:47.080 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 1>we're all getting new lafternoon.

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:51.840
<v Speaker 3>The only person I never wanted to give him my address,

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 3>but the only person who really knew was the person

0:35:54.080 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 3>who handled the mail. And the person who handled the

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:58.360
<v Speaker 3>mail was just like the homie. So she was all

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:01.000
<v Speaker 3>and on gift given Tuesday. She would be like, oh,

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 3>she was like, you got some Tuesday, You got some

0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 3>given Tuesday.

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 1>If I was I'm like, well, if you want this

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:08.480
<v Speaker 1>between me and you, I think I need to give.

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I would be like, yo, she's not getting this gift. Yeah,

0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 2>ain't right.

0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 3>I mean I was communicating with him every day. He

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 3>was sending me tracking numbers. I was gonna get it.

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:23.200
<v Speaker 3>But so he found your address and he got I

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 3>didn't even know this hotel existed.

0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:27.319
<v Speaker 2>That's how I know. It was a motel. It was

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 2>a it was a nice hotel, but like it was

0:36:29.040 --> 0:36:31.760
<v Speaker 2>a seven. It was an Airbnb.

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:33.640
<v Speaker 3>It was like one of those hotels that only had

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:35.439
<v Speaker 3>like three or four rooms in it, like a house

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 3>that had been converted into it.

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 1>A little Victorian had been converted, little porch. Yes, it

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:41.360
<v Speaker 1>was a hostile.

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:44.200
<v Speaker 2>In a hospital.

0:36:44.239 --> 0:36:46.759
<v Speaker 3>Well, he wasn't coming to stay with me, so he

0:36:46.840 --> 0:36:48.040
<v Speaker 3>was going to have to figure it out. But it

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 3>was at that point I was like, oh, ship, he

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:52.440
<v Speaker 3>knows where I live. He has like he just knows things.

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:56.200
<v Speaker 3>So he bought me a Louis bag when he came up,

0:36:56.920 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 3>and I was didn't wait wait, so you saw him

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 3>he brought you a Louis bag, or he brought a

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:05.040
<v Speaker 3>Louis back to where you live. He brought a Louis

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:07.799
<v Speaker 3>back up with him from Atlanta as it for.

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Some little a little Lennox small purchase. Yeah, but I did.

0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't one hundred percent in love with the Louis bag,

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:13.719
<v Speaker 3>And I told him, is it the one that had

0:37:13.760 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 3>the cherries on it? No, it was just like a

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:19.279
<v Speaker 3>never fool but the small one. Yeah, it would like

0:37:19.320 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 3>stab me in the shoulder, it was. I didn't love it.

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>So you don't have a Louis Radars spent Harby wrong?

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:31.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I care with you over are like, no, No,

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 2>that's because I was a fucking bread.

0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:36.800
<v Speaker 3>There would have been. There were times like when you

0:37:36.840 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 3>sent me to y I saw pumps. I was like,

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:40.200
<v Speaker 3>they're just not doing anything for me. Did you send

0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 3>a gift for seat? Like because I didn't like his taste.

0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I would strangle you such a bread, I would kill you.

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 2>You hear what you said?

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 3>I didn't like his tea, that ship. He liked that

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:54.160
<v Speaker 3>I was just a bratty, fucking princess. So the more

0:37:54.280 --> 0:37:54.879
<v Speaker 3>he would be like.

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:56.879
<v Speaker 2>That's what you did until he had that upper cut

0:37:56.920 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 2>on you, honey.

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.359
<v Speaker 1>Today, Wait, I just I want to hear about when

0:38:04.400 --> 0:38:05.360
<v Speaker 1>it turns okay.

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 3>So this after the New York excuse me, after the

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:11.120
<v Speaker 3>Pittsburgh trip, I was like, Okay, I don't treat him well.

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:13.439
<v Speaker 2>I need to break this off. So I started feeling

0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:16.120
<v Speaker 2>really really wit. You said you don't treat him well,

0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:18.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I'm so I was awful to him. Did

0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:19.759
<v Speaker 2>you not hear all this? You're like, I can't do

0:38:19.800 --> 0:38:22.880
<v Speaker 2>this anymore because it's not you. It's me. Literally, it's me.

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 3>And like we had a couple of conversations about how

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:28.000
<v Speaker 3>I just wasn't happy, and I felt like like.

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 2>Since this is why we can't have nice things.

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 3>So and then the gifts were like slowly starting to

0:38:32.560 --> 0:38:34.680
<v Speaker 3>roll back, I think because it had been four months

0:38:34.680 --> 0:38:35.560
<v Speaker 3>and I hadn't fucked him.

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 2>The gifts weren't coming every Tuesday like they used to.

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 2>It was like every other Tuesday or yeah, liked.

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:44.600
<v Speaker 3>It would just be like come back down to Atlanta

0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:46.799
<v Speaker 3>and I'll take you shopping, but I don't want to

0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:48.520
<v Speaker 3>send you this gift. Like I would send him links

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:49.799
<v Speaker 3>to shit and he'll be like, just come down here

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 3>and I'll take you shopping.

0:38:50.960 --> 0:38:52.640
<v Speaker 2>You're sending him here if he was sending him your

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:53.800
<v Speaker 2>Amazon witch list.

0:38:54.000 --> 0:38:57.120
<v Speaker 3>So oh, he was getting a Nieman Marcus Wishless on

0:38:57.280 --> 0:39:00.960
<v Speaker 3>a regular on the regular because we didn't have a

0:39:01.040 --> 0:39:03.879
<v Speaker 3>names of Pittsburgh. And he would be like, just come

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:05.920
<v Speaker 3>down to Atlanta and I'll take you shop. And I'm like, well,

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:07.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to leave and I got stuff to

0:39:07.440 --> 0:39:09.240
<v Speaker 3>do up here, and he's like, no, you don't just come.

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 3>So I just felt like really forced to, Like he

0:39:12.680 --> 0:39:13.880
<v Speaker 3>really wanted to fuck me, and I didn't want to

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:15.439
<v Speaker 3>fuck him, and I started feeling bad.

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:19.319
<v Speaker 1>So now I don't know your lineup of dudes you've

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 1>had sex with, but could you.

0:39:20.800 --> 0:39:23.320
<v Speaker 2>You couldn't have give him a little something? I probably should.

0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 2>You could have.

0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 1>He would have asked so much like this is what

0:39:27.000 --> 0:39:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm this is what I have a problem with. We

0:39:28.880 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>would be like, I'm not gonna have sex for money,

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.719
<v Speaker 1>but I'm like, you used to sleep with somebody who

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 1>slept on the floor like they didn't even have a

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:38.360
<v Speaker 1>bed like you slept with people for no money.

0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:40.759
<v Speaker 2>For no money and they had no bed, he had

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 2>no bed.

0:39:41.120 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 1>No, you got right down there, I love. But my

0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:47.759
<v Speaker 1>question for you is you said that you've sat on

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>his face. After that happens, how do you then go

0:39:50.800 --> 0:39:53.879
<v Speaker 1>back to your your full bed across the room and

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:54.760
<v Speaker 1>we leave.

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:56.400
<v Speaker 2>The same bed that night and he just cud on me.

0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:59.120
<v Speaker 1>But look, you never had a situation like that, And

0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I just rolled over. You can you can, you can

0:40:01.480 --> 0:40:03.319
<v Speaker 1>eat me out, But that's it. You never had a

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:05.879
<v Speaker 1>situation like that, not with somebody that I definitely didn't

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:07.799
<v Speaker 1>want to bang in a hotel where we spent the night.

0:40:08.160 --> 0:40:10.680
<v Speaker 1>It's it's like wham bam, sit on the chair, leave

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 1>right she stayed the night.

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:16.720
<v Speaker 3>Well, we had a different kind we had a different arrangement, Marie.

0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:18.040
<v Speaker 3>When how was I gonna go?

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. That's why I'm asking you.

0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:22.279
<v Speaker 1>You crazy, because I'd be afraid that I would wake

0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 1>up dead, Like every gonna lie.

0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:26.319
<v Speaker 3>I was a little every so often I would be

0:40:26.360 --> 0:40:27.240
<v Speaker 3>like a little afraid.

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 1>Did you sleep with one eye open? Like you didn't sleep?

0:40:29.719 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I would just stay Did you bring a silk scarf

0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>or no? Did you wrap your hair. Yeah, great, I.

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 3>Wrapped my hair and I did sleep with one. I

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 3>would just be afraid that he gonna take it. That's

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:40.320
<v Speaker 3>it exactly.

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Just wake up, like I gotta just wake up and

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:44.960
<v Speaker 1>here be like, well we could do just the easy

0:40:44.960 --> 0:40:46.279
<v Speaker 1>way way.

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

0:40:47.719 --> 0:40:49.440
<v Speaker 3>You know what I never I was young. I never

0:40:49.520 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 3>thought I'd never considered that. Who is your friends considered that?

0:40:54.480 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean my sirlfriends was telling me girl just I

0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 3>was like, well, we don't have any chemistry.

0:40:57.719 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>She was like, if you don't get some fucking liquid chemistry, anxious,

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 1>some liqui chemistry.

0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, no, it's never gonna happen. So

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:06.120
<v Speaker 2>I get it. I get it.

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:08.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't want to sound like we're forcy you Like, no,

0:41:08.440 --> 0:41:10.319
<v Speaker 1>you guys kind of are I feel really bullied right

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:12.319
<v Speaker 1>now to have had sex with me eight years ago?

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:14.880
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I'm surprised. Listen.

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I applaud you for getting all these things and then

0:41:18.000 --> 0:41:18.920
<v Speaker 1>four months of.

0:41:18.920 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 3>No, no, d It's interesting, how good, dude? How like

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 3>whoa men behave when you ain't sucking them? That's crazy

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:30.200
<v Speaker 3>because you know everything the news right now is shout

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 3>out to Matt Lower.

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>They tend to act Mario. Mary said I'm gonna take

0:41:39.600 --> 0:41:41.759
<v Speaker 1>shout out to Bill Cosby said, I'm gonna take it.

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:45.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So well, so I'm not have a text message

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:47.800
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, listen, this isn't working out. I'm not happy,

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:50.479
<v Speaker 3>You're not happy. I'm not good to you. I really

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:52.960
<v Speaker 3>think that you should just move on. Blah blah blah.

0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:55.880
<v Speaker 3>And initially he was like, okay, cool, you know, if

0:41:55.920 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 3>you need anything, let me know. I wish you a

0:41:57.480 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 3>lifetime of happiness. And I was that's a red a

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 3>lifetime of happiness. I mean, your lifetime about to be

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 3>cut short.

0:42:05.280 --> 0:42:08.080
<v Speaker 2>Lifetime, so girl.

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:11.759
<v Speaker 3>Then maybe maybe two minutes later he sends me a

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:13.920
<v Speaker 3>text message or like, he calls me and he was like,

0:42:14.160 --> 0:42:15.440
<v Speaker 3>I just want us to check in and make sure

0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:16.279
<v Speaker 3>this is what you want to do.

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Are you sure this is what you want to do?

0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:22.880
<v Speaker 1>He and loading that gun. He's like, city, are you

0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 1>loading a musket right now?

0:42:25.840 --> 0:42:29.839
<v Speaker 2>I am? I am. You know it's not funny because

0:42:29.880 --> 0:42:32.800
<v Speaker 2>this is my life. I know almost.

0:42:33.840 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 3>So I was like, yes, I'm sure this is what

0:42:35.640 --> 0:42:37.600
<v Speaker 3>I want to do. So then he goes nuts that.

0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:39.000
<v Speaker 3>I go to bed that night, I wake up the

0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 3>next morning, nineteen, this phone calls twelve voice messages. He's

0:42:41.880 --> 0:42:45.319
<v Speaker 3>talking crazy you do you have any boxes? Do you

0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.240
<v Speaker 3>have any bags? You need to send me back my things.

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:47.840
<v Speaker 2>So now he.

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Wants on the things. These are my things, these are

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.759
<v Speaker 1>and that's what I said. I was like, Bob, I've

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:54.680
<v Speaker 1>sold them already.

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 3>I was like, Bobe, seriously your things. Are you going

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:00.160
<v Speaker 3>to walk around in a pair of lubatons and we

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 3>bag and Michelle You're like, yeah, it's so bitch work.

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:06.040
<v Speaker 3>But you you and I both know this is work.

0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:08.839
<v Speaker 3>This isn't for you. And he was like, Rashida, I'm

0:43:08.880 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 3>not gonna drop it. You need to send me back

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 3>these things. So it turned into Initially I was like, no,

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.920
<v Speaker 3>fuck that, he's just bluffing. So the next day he

0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 3>calls me. Oh, he sends me a text message and

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:21.279
<v Speaker 3>he said who is blah blah blah and blah blah

0:43:21.320 --> 0:43:24.279
<v Speaker 3>blah was my father's name. He went and found my

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 3>father on line, found my father's phone number, called my

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 3>dad in the morning and basically said, I was my

0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:37.040
<v Speaker 3>name is Bob. I was in a relationship with your daughter, Rashida.

0:43:37.680 --> 0:43:39.120
<v Speaker 3>I bought her a bunch of gifts because I thought

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna marry her. She broke up with me,

0:43:40.600 --> 0:43:42.480
<v Speaker 3>and now she needs to send me these gifts back

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:43.480
<v Speaker 3>before we have a problem.

0:43:43.600 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 2>What did what did Archa? Your dad?

0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:50.239
<v Speaker 3>Arthur called me, and Arthur was like, Rashida, who's this

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:52.400
<v Speaker 3>guy Bob crying on my shoulders talking about he was

0:43:52.400 --> 0:43:53.399
<v Speaker 3>gonna marry he was you need.

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:53.680
<v Speaker 2>To send h.

0:43:56.760 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, and so I just my dad didn't know

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:02.799
<v Speaker 3>the whole tea like my dad didn't know him much

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:04.480
<v Speaker 3>older than me. My dad didn't know we met on

0:44:04.520 --> 0:44:07.279
<v Speaker 3>sugar daddy dot com. Like he told your dad that too.

0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:09.200
<v Speaker 2>He did not. Well, that was nice of Bob not

0:44:09.239 --> 0:44:10.840
<v Speaker 2>to really well.

0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:12.920
<v Speaker 3>I think it would have made my father because it

0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:15.480
<v Speaker 3>just made me sound like a gold digger and not

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:17.839
<v Speaker 3>like a gold digger with a man who was looking

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:19.359
<v Speaker 3>for some young pussy. Like we were both wrong.

0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, hold on, let's let's recreate the phone call.

0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:22.920
<v Speaker 1>But like with my dad, Sydney ahead and you can

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:24.879
<v Speaker 1>be h Bob and I'm gonna be my dad.

0:44:24.880 --> 0:44:29.879
<v Speaker 2>Go ahead. Can we not do that? Is this a

0:44:29.960 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 2>samuell fulstine? What is this? Sam Yell?

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I just get let off. I'm not doing it anything

0:44:47.600 --> 0:44:48.719
<v Speaker 1>that's so stupid.

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:52.799
<v Speaker 2>My dad, my dad's picking up? Did hang it up?

0:44:53.960 --> 0:45:03.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean this went on, y'all are asshole? Sorry?

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:06.319
<v Speaker 3>Wait this this went on for weeks, Like he kept

0:45:06.320 --> 0:45:09.480
<v Speaker 3>calling my dad. He kept calling, just being crazy and calling.

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:11.879
<v Speaker 2>Would have around with me. I'm like, I ain't got

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:16.040
<v Speaker 2>no dad, so we go call. He was harassing my family.

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:18.480
<v Speaker 2>The next thing I know, who are you gonna call?

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:23.279
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have to call Marie like you laugh? Wait wait,

0:45:23.280 --> 0:45:25.400
<v Speaker 2>wait you laugh. He was calling my friends and just

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 2>cussing them out. He was he was cussing them out,

0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:31.839
<v Speaker 2>nigger bitch, you water bitch.

0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Because he bought me an iPhone, so I had a

0:45:35.160 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 3>phone that I had he and then I had the iPad.

0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:42.960
<v Speaker 3>So all three of my of my devices have now

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:46.279
<v Speaker 3>been hacked and are being used by him. On my

0:45:46.320 --> 0:45:49.040
<v Speaker 3>personal cell phone, but all of like all of my emails,

0:45:49.080 --> 0:45:52.279
<v Speaker 3>my social media accounts, he logged and said anything. He

0:45:52.360 --> 0:45:54.840
<v Speaker 3>never had the passwords, but he reset all of the passwords.

0:45:55.160 --> 0:45:57.560
<v Speaker 3>I guess you can like say that you forgot your

0:45:57.600 --> 0:45:59.080
<v Speaker 3>password and then just like.

0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Research trying to put it in and then if you

0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 1>put it in, you get locked out.

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 2>He locked all my LinkedIn girl, how do you lock?

0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:09.279
<v Speaker 2>How you? He was playing with the LinkedIn. It took

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.239
<v Speaker 2>me a year and a half to time with the

0:46:11.239 --> 0:46:14.839
<v Speaker 2>LinkedIn too, because I did not nobody time.

0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:17.919
<v Speaker 3>Bitch wait called nor Stroms up, the same norse Stroms

0:46:17.960 --> 0:46:19.440
<v Speaker 3>that he would be calling up to like give them

0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:22.399
<v Speaker 3>his credit card to say that I to like pay

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:25.200
<v Speaker 3>for things for me. Reported the cards stolen. He was

0:46:25.239 --> 0:46:27.239
<v Speaker 3>paying for personal training classes for me. Called up the

0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:28.400
<v Speaker 3>boxing gym, reported.

0:46:28.520 --> 0:46:32.160
<v Speaker 2>You played a lot of Okay, so okay. So he's

0:46:32.200 --> 0:46:33.000
<v Speaker 2>a fan of the fraud.

0:46:33.840 --> 0:46:36.800
<v Speaker 3>Also committed every calling everything fraud. And I was like, okay,

0:46:37.160 --> 0:46:39.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna send him back some stuff because this demon

0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:41.919
<v Speaker 3>is really like you called mucking with my.

0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:43.319
<v Speaker 2>With my pure life.

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so what things did you? Did you just throw

0:46:45.320 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of things in a box or did you.

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:50.040
<v Speaker 3>Like there were two shipments. I sent back the iPad,

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:52.600
<v Speaker 3>I sent back the iPhone. I sent back the Louis bag.

0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:55.520
<v Speaker 3>I sat back, like one of those really expected it

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:57.279
<v Speaker 3>was like a four hundred dollars fucking flat iron he

0:46:57.320 --> 0:46:59.279
<v Speaker 3>bought me. I sent back the watch. I sent back

0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:03.359
<v Speaker 3>some jewelry. God, he gave me blueprints for a house

0:47:03.360 --> 0:47:05.160
<v Speaker 3>that he wanted to build me. I stuffed the box.

0:47:05.239 --> 0:47:08.439
<v Speaker 3>He sent you a little she by Chara. He sent

0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:10.160
<v Speaker 3>me a shot Chara blueprint.

0:47:10.239 --> 0:47:14.719
<v Speaker 1>Bet yo, I watch out, guy, watch out.

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:16.680
<v Speaker 2>I was dying man.

0:47:16.760 --> 0:47:20.640
<v Speaker 1>That house was banging, bitch, yeah, but like the driveway

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:22.040
<v Speaker 1>was never completed, so.

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you guys watch real house. Just Google.

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:30.360
<v Speaker 3>She sent back like ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,

0:47:30.520 --> 0:47:32.160
<v Speaker 3>and the only thing I didn't send back was the

0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:33.840
<v Speaker 3>computer because I was like, if I sent back the

0:47:33.880 --> 0:47:35.759
<v Speaker 3>computer as it is now, he'll have access to too

0:47:35.840 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 3>much of like my information.

0:47:37.280 --> 0:47:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Did you really send that shit? I would up to.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this ship is burnt. I burned everything

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:45.920
<v Speaker 1>it is. I want an Angela Bassett that ship, and

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:48.600
<v Speaker 1>then like it's gone, I sent back ash. I'll send

0:47:48.640 --> 0:47:49.600
<v Speaker 1>them ash like.

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:52.040
<v Speaker 2>And ship. That's it.

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:54.560
<v Speaker 3>Well, here's the okie doke. So soon because then he

0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 3>can't do nothing.

0:47:55.200 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 2>What are he gonna do?

0:47:55.960 --> 0:47:59.680
<v Speaker 3>Is he's been doing no Sidney, he was crazy because

0:47:59.719 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 3>here's what happened.

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I you too.

0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:03.360
<v Speaker 3>I searched him on Yahoo before we started dating, and

0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:06.640
<v Speaker 3>I didn't find anything.

0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Grew out and it was different Google.

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:12.719
<v Speaker 1>I googled him after y'all got me streaming in these

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:13.239
<v Speaker 1>people's ears.

0:48:13.239 --> 0:48:15.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Let's I'm sorry.

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:17.840
<v Speaker 3>So I googled him after he started acting crazy and

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:18.960
<v Speaker 3>found like court dockets.

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:23.120
<v Speaker 2>He's done this before, so he said, have you yahooed him?

0:48:23.239 --> 0:48:26.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I didn't know nobody of everything you said. You

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:30.080
<v Speaker 1>said Yahoo. I was like, nobody says, nobody says, nobody

0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 1>says I can't.

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I do not follow.

0:48:31.840 --> 0:48:36.600
<v Speaker 1>No one says years ago, you still got a Google hat.

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:39.399
<v Speaker 2>We weren't googling like you were. Be embarrassed to say

0:48:39.400 --> 0:48:41.520
<v Speaker 2>that you googled a person back then. Deanna Taylor had

0:48:41.560 --> 0:48:44.280
<v Speaker 2>a song Google Me Baby, you was in Google thousand

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 2>years ago.

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:46.320
<v Speaker 3>You're right, that's when the song was probably on the

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:48.640
<v Speaker 3>radio while you were yahoo him and I, yeah, he

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 3>searched him and nothing came up. And then when I

0:48:51.680 --> 0:48:54.080
<v Speaker 3>Google searched him, a bitch found court dockets from Texas,

0:48:54.080 --> 0:48:56.360
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, ooh, he's not to be fucked with.

0:48:56.440 --> 0:48:59.600
<v Speaker 3>So I was genuinely afraid. So what did you vandalized?

0:48:59.600 --> 0:49:01.839
<v Speaker 3>My father's car got vandalized. He was not fucking around.

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:04.080
<v Speaker 3>He would have killed me. He like, I had to

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:06.440
<v Speaker 3>go back to Atlanta for my girlfriends. Can we take

0:49:06.440 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 3>one step back.

0:49:07.120 --> 0:49:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got time.

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:12.080
<v Speaker 3>So my girlfriend was getting married in Atlanta, but she

0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:14.400
<v Speaker 3>was having her bachelorette in Miami for a weekend.

0:49:14.719 --> 0:49:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I.

0:49:15.400 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Need three thousand dollars so I can host my girlfriend's bachelorette.

0:49:18.520 --> 0:49:22.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm bob when we were on good term, that's cur.

0:49:24.680 --> 0:49:28.560
<v Speaker 1>So I can host my girlfriends, so I can host Marie.

0:49:28.560 --> 0:49:29.800
<v Speaker 2>You wouldn't dare since.

0:49:29.600 --> 0:49:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I get I get that thousand dollars and be like,

0:49:32.640 --> 0:49:33.840
<v Speaker 1>since I can't come to your blot.

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:38.120
<v Speaker 3>We fucked that money up. Now we can't read up

0:49:38.440 --> 0:49:41.759
<v Speaker 3>private chef bitch. Oh we was fucking that money up

0:49:42.040 --> 0:49:44.520
<v Speaker 3>so much. Three thousand just three thousand, Well, I mean

0:49:44.560 --> 0:49:46.719
<v Speaker 3>everybody kind of brought. I wouldn't have been able to

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 3>do what they did had I not taken his money.

0:49:49.160 --> 0:49:51.040
<v Speaker 2>It's the point, like, we just fucked them. So they

0:49:51.080 --> 0:49:53.239
<v Speaker 2>all needed to get it power to get you out

0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:55.280
<v Speaker 2>of this situation. You like, remember that turned in Miami?

0:49:55.360 --> 0:49:56.879
<v Speaker 2>That yeah, absolutely that was him.

0:49:56.920 --> 0:49:59.279
<v Speaker 1>So since it's time to put your brains together so

0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 1>we can get out of this match.

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:01.680
<v Speaker 2>So we can't get out.

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Your girlfriend was fine because that was the one she

0:50:04.280 --> 0:50:06.000
<v Speaker 1>was getting married to. The dude who played for the Browns.

0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:08.719
<v Speaker 2>So she was. She was so she didn't even need

0:50:08.760 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 2>the three thousand dollars.

0:50:09.680 --> 0:50:12.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they was getting money, but like I needed it

0:50:12.080 --> 0:50:14.960
<v Speaker 3>because I wasn't getting it and I was only getting

0:50:14.960 --> 0:50:16.319
<v Speaker 3>it from him. But I know at one point in

0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:18.840
<v Speaker 3>our relationship he was I was like, you know.

0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:22.399
<v Speaker 2>What, you were really gonna call it when you're teen?

0:50:22.520 --> 0:50:22.879
<v Speaker 2>Our team.

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:25.760
<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know, you're not sending me gifts

0:50:25.760 --> 0:50:27.480
<v Speaker 3>as much anymore, and he was like, well, whatever I

0:50:27.600 --> 0:50:29.240
<v Speaker 3>buy you, you should be able to get for yourself.

0:50:29.239 --> 0:50:31.239
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, what, what the fuck I need

0:50:31.280 --> 0:50:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you for? What the fuck do I need?

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:40.200
<v Speaker 2>If? What the fuck do I need you? Fool anything?

0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:43.600
<v Speaker 1>You getting PDST she can do all things through crisis

0:50:43.640 --> 0:50:44.920
<v Speaker 1>strengthens her wallet.

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:48.160
<v Speaker 3>Bitch, I don't if I can buy this on my own,

0:50:48.200 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 3>what the fuck do I need?

0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:53.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm clearly not in it for the good D That's true.

0:50:53.920 --> 0:50:57.800
<v Speaker 1>Well, also, Rachida, this is what I want to say. Yeah, Also,

0:50:57.880 --> 0:50:59.279
<v Speaker 1>if I had the money to buy this stuff, I

0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:01.320
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't buy this stuff with my own money.

0:51:01.400 --> 0:51:04.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm using somebody else's money. The things, I mean, these

0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:05.240
<v Speaker 2>are things.

0:51:05.320 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Why would you spend twelve hundred dollars on shoes.

0:51:08.000 --> 0:51:11.160
<v Speaker 2>That's dumb. You use somebody else's money, get those shoes.

0:51:11.560 --> 0:51:13.919
<v Speaker 1>If I'm wearing them, you wear the new A real

0:51:13.960 --> 0:51:16.680
<v Speaker 1>baller okay boom. Also, then only wear those shoes like

0:51:16.680 --> 0:51:18.799
<v Speaker 1>three or four times because they're not going to people.

0:51:19.760 --> 0:51:21.520
<v Speaker 2>And people are gonna hate us after this.

0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Nah, they're gonna love us because they're like we're giving

0:51:24.360 --> 0:51:27.040
<v Speaker 1>them so like they know so much, they know this

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:27.520
<v Speaker 1>is guys.

0:51:27.560 --> 0:51:32.520
<v Speaker 3>I am not like this anymore. Rashida raggedy expt raggedy.

0:51:32.640 --> 0:51:33.480
<v Speaker 3>This was so ragged.

0:51:33.640 --> 0:51:35.960
<v Speaker 1>No, but girl, this is what happened. This happens to people,

0:51:36.200 --> 0:51:38.240
<v Speaker 1>whether you whether they say it or not. This happens

0:51:38.239 --> 0:51:42.600
<v Speaker 1>on a regular basis not happen. It's not us, girl,

0:51:42.640 --> 0:51:44.799
<v Speaker 1>because we don't do we pay for our own things

0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:46.680
<v Speaker 1>and our own ubers because we're because we're idiots.

0:51:46.719 --> 0:51:48.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well I pay for my own things now, and

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:50.640
<v Speaker 3>I take pride and paying for my own shit now.

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:52.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, you have to go through a whole ordeal.

0:51:52.680 --> 0:51:53.839
<v Speaker 2>I've learned a lot.

0:51:54.000 --> 0:51:55.880
<v Speaker 1>So he broke into your car in Pittsburgh and your

0:51:55.960 --> 0:51:56.799
<v Speaker 1>dad's car in New York.

0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.239
<v Speaker 2>He was hiring people to crazy to our thing because

0:51:59.280 --> 0:52:02.160
<v Speaker 2>he has the money. Oh can I tell you this story.

0:52:02.360 --> 0:52:05.960
<v Speaker 3>So when I googled him and recently just to make

0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:08.480
<v Speaker 3>sure he's like so often. I google him just to

0:52:08.520 --> 0:52:12.319
<v Speaker 3>make sure, and I found that he appealed a court

0:52:12.400 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 3>case with his ex girlfriend. So apparently the assault charge

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:18.279
<v Speaker 3>that he had that I found initially was he was

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:20.120
<v Speaker 3>arguing with his ex girlfriend. They were both drunk. They

0:52:20.120 --> 0:52:22.080
<v Speaker 3>were arguing in a parking lot at a grocery store.

0:52:22.280 --> 0:52:24.880
<v Speaker 3>She turns to walk away. She gets hit in the

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:27.600
<v Speaker 3>back of the head with the stick, falls to the ground,

0:52:27.680 --> 0:52:30.080
<v Speaker 3>is being beaten with a stick, rolls over to defend

0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:33.359
<v Speaker 3>herself and starts getting punched in her face. A passerby

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.719
<v Speaker 3>sees this bob runs off. The cops come to his house.

0:52:37.760 --> 0:52:39.839
<v Speaker 3>They see blood on his hands, his knuckles are cut up,

0:52:40.040 --> 0:52:41.399
<v Speaker 3>blood on his shirt, blood on his shoes.

0:52:41.440 --> 0:52:42.640
<v Speaker 2>This bitch did glove.

0:52:42.840 --> 0:52:45.800
<v Speaker 3>Bitch, this bitch nigga appeals the case and his defense

0:52:46.080 --> 0:52:48.759
<v Speaker 3>was on the assault charge. Well, if her back was turned,

0:52:48.800 --> 0:52:52.359
<v Speaker 3>how did she know I hit her? You arrogant son of.

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:53.600
<v Speaker 2>A bitch, Nidney.

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:56.319
<v Speaker 3>If we are beefing, even if we're beefing and we're

0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 3>arguing in a parking lot and I turned to walk away,

0:52:58.680 --> 0:53:01.480
<v Speaker 3>and someone else I was running up to beat me

0:53:01.560 --> 0:53:03.680
<v Speaker 3>upside the head with the fuck we still got from?

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:06.640
<v Speaker 2>Where come from? So wait, when he appealed, did he win?

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:09.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't know. I didn't. I don't. They

0:53:09.360 --> 0:53:11.960
<v Speaker 2>hadn't made a decision at the They had a thing

0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:14.600
<v Speaker 2>about it though, They were like, how did she know? Damn?

0:53:14.800 --> 0:53:18.200
<v Speaker 2>But which somebody else could have done it? You standing

0:53:18.320 --> 0:53:18.680
<v Speaker 2>right there?

0:53:18.840 --> 0:53:20.880
<v Speaker 3>No, No, I just felt I read that and I

0:53:20.920 --> 0:53:22.799
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh no, he's for real crazy. First, so

0:53:22.920 --> 0:53:25.640
<v Speaker 3>he beat up a chick, you know, in broad daylight

0:53:25.680 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 3>in a parking lot, in a parking lot, parking lot,

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:28.960
<v Speaker 3>pisson what kind of.

0:53:28.920 --> 0:53:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Parking line was?

0:53:29.440 --> 0:53:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It was like a grocery store, stopping shop, trader Joe's.

0:53:36.960 --> 0:53:40.320
<v Speaker 2>I saw it. So it was like there were people

0:53:40.480 --> 0:53:41.399
<v Speaker 2>enough people they.

0:53:41.320 --> 0:53:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Had to be whole foods because those people cared, they care.

0:53:45.360 --> 0:53:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I saw it, Yeah, because like I.

0:53:46.440 --> 0:53:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Came in here to pay three dollars for one tomato,

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and I saw the whole thing.

0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:53.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, so let me tell you. And I ended

0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:56.080
<v Speaker 3>up moving out of Pitts, moving out of Pittsburgh's.

0:53:55.560 --> 0:53:58.279
<v Speaker 2>Clearly, Yeah, I moved, trying to get your ass out, Yes, move,

0:53:58.360 --> 0:53:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I moved to New York to be some comedy.

0:53:59.800 --> 0:54:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Make my parents proud, take my titties and go because

0:54:02.040 --> 0:54:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I took my titties and I dipped.

0:54:03.800 --> 0:54:10.400
<v Speaker 3>Cant Hurricane Sandy is now happening, so well, yeah, I

0:54:10.440 --> 0:54:12.200
<v Speaker 3>was here for that too. It was it was bad.

0:54:12.239 --> 0:54:14.920
<v Speaker 3>We had no lights. People literally had fish in their basement.

0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:17.640
<v Speaker 2>The running into your home.

0:54:17.719 --> 0:54:19.840
<v Speaker 1>So I was dating somebody at the time who lived

0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:21.840
<v Speaker 1>in the financial district, and it was a mess.

0:54:21.960 --> 0:54:25.399
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it was. It's messy. So I fell asleep because

0:54:25.400 --> 0:54:27.200
<v Speaker 3>there was nothing to do. I roll over that one

0:54:27.280 --> 0:54:29.640
<v Speaker 3>or two percent battery left because I can't charge my phone.

0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 3>And every so often, after I found out about the violence,

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:35.239
<v Speaker 3>after I googled him, I stopped responding.

0:54:35.719 --> 0:54:37.360
<v Speaker 2>And about two.

0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Years had passed, and every so often he would just

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:42.120
<v Speaker 3>reach out, reach out, apologize and be like, send me

0:54:42.160 --> 0:54:45.279
<v Speaker 3>an email. You know, I was in the women's shoes

0:54:45.320 --> 0:54:48.239
<v Speaker 3>section in Neiman Marcus and I thought of you. As

0:54:48.280 --> 0:54:50.480
<v Speaker 3>crazy as it sounds, I miss sending you gifts. It's

0:54:50.520 --> 0:54:51.840
<v Speaker 3>a shame the way things ended.

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Like he would just constantly like send me emails and

0:54:55.040 --> 0:54:55.760
<v Speaker 1>text messages.

0:54:55.840 --> 0:54:58.440
<v Speaker 2>It's a trap, and I would respond because now I

0:54:58.480 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 2>know he's violent. But he didn't know that.

0:54:59.719 --> 0:55:02.439
<v Speaker 3>I knew that, and I rolled over and I looked

0:55:02.440 --> 0:55:04.319
<v Speaker 3>at my phone and it was a text from him,

0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:05.560
<v Speaker 3>and it was like, wasshita, how are you and your

0:55:05.560 --> 0:55:07.440
<v Speaker 3>family holding up in the storm. But he had no

0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:09.680
<v Speaker 3>business knowing that I was in New York because I

0:55:09.719 --> 0:55:11.200
<v Speaker 3>hadn't talked to him two years.

0:55:11.560 --> 0:55:15.240
<v Speaker 2>So I was dragging device on your car. Oh my god,

0:55:15.840 --> 0:55:22.560
<v Speaker 2>now I'm scared. I lost it. It's time I lost it. Yeah,

0:55:22.600 --> 0:55:24.000
<v Speaker 2>you're putting our lives on the line.

0:55:24.120 --> 0:55:27.960
<v Speaker 1>They need the people need the unofficial expert. So you're

0:55:28.000 --> 0:55:36.560
<v Speaker 1>sucking up our business. Zah in Jersey sentiment, Oh, Adrian.

0:55:36.880 --> 0:55:44.440
<v Speaker 5>Adrian, Adrian, if you're listening, Oh my god, she is

0:55:45.280 --> 0:55:46.759
<v Speaker 5>s O S s O S no.

0:55:46.880 --> 0:55:48.600
<v Speaker 3>But let me tell you because I wasn't responding for

0:55:48.600 --> 0:55:49.319
<v Speaker 3>two years because I.

0:55:49.280 --> 0:55:51.720
<v Speaker 2>Was afraid two years since you didn't change your phone number.

0:55:51.800 --> 0:55:54.239
<v Speaker 2>I changed my phone number. Bitch, she got the new number. Bitch.

0:55:54.280 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 2>Did you not hear me?

0:55:56.440 --> 0:55:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, he can find out where my dad

0:55:59.280 --> 0:56:00.719
<v Speaker 1>lives and dad's name.

0:56:00.880 --> 0:56:02.240
<v Speaker 2>Did your dad give him the new number?

0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:04.920
<v Speaker 1>No, my father's unequivocally you're not. Your dad was like, well,

0:56:04.960 --> 0:56:06.480
<v Speaker 1>you need to stop calling me. A six, Sam, you

0:56:06.680 --> 0:56:07.440
<v Speaker 1>just text.

0:56:07.440 --> 0:56:10.920
<v Speaker 2>Keep it to you. My father wouldn't not. But I

0:56:11.040 --> 0:56:11.480
<v Speaker 2>fucked us.

0:56:12.040 --> 0:56:13.759
<v Speaker 3>But I hadn't been saying anything because I was so

0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:15.359
<v Speaker 3>afraid of him. And then when I read that text

0:56:15.400 --> 0:56:17.480
<v Speaker 3>message and it was just clear that he was never

0:56:17.480 --> 0:56:19.960
<v Speaker 3>gonna stop talking me. I wrote him back and I

0:56:20.000 --> 0:56:21.880
<v Speaker 3>was like, you know what I sent you back everything.

0:56:22.080 --> 0:56:24.200
<v Speaker 3>You're fucking insane. I never want to talk to you again.

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:26.040
<v Speaker 3>I think you're sick. I think you're mentally ill. I

0:56:26.080 --> 0:56:27.799
<v Speaker 3>don't want to hear from you. My family doesn't want

0:56:27.800 --> 0:56:30.719
<v Speaker 3>to hear from you. Stop reaching out to us. Said

0:56:30.719 --> 0:56:32.840
<v Speaker 3>this at one percent. I said it was the last

0:56:32.880 --> 0:56:35.319
<v Speaker 3>that I had and it was worth it. And he

0:56:35.400 --> 0:56:37.920
<v Speaker 3>wrote me back like a crazy psycho bob like he is,

0:56:38.280 --> 0:56:40.040
<v Speaker 3>and he was like, I think you don't know who

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:42.799
<v Speaker 3>this is. This is a white boy from Syracuse. But

0:56:42.880 --> 0:56:45.279
<v Speaker 3>it's okay. You won't ever hear from me again. But

0:56:45.360 --> 0:56:47.120
<v Speaker 3>he had said that before, he said, this is a

0:56:47.120 --> 0:56:48.680
<v Speaker 3>white boy from Sarah Girl. I don't even know what

0:56:48.719 --> 0:56:53.239
<v Speaker 3>that fucking means, but he said that, and he he's

0:56:53.320 --> 0:56:54.920
<v Speaker 3>told me before that he would never I would never

0:56:54.960 --> 0:56:56.600
<v Speaker 3>hear from him again. And of course I've heard from him,

0:56:56.640 --> 0:56:58.719
<v Speaker 3>So I was like sitting on ready like all right,

0:56:58.719 --> 0:57:00.520
<v Speaker 3>fuck it, like I'm gonna I got to do. But

0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:02.799
<v Speaker 3>then I never heard from him again to date. That

0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:05.120
<v Speaker 3>was Hurricane Sandy, So what was that twenty twelve? I

0:57:05.160 --> 0:57:07.040
<v Speaker 3>hadn't get to hear from him again, and I was

0:57:07.080 --> 0:57:10.120
<v Speaker 3>talking to my girlfriend recently, the same one who I

0:57:10.120 --> 0:57:13.799
<v Speaker 3>got the advice from initially, and I was like, I'm

0:57:13.800 --> 0:57:16.120
<v Speaker 3>having a different issue with a different guy, not a stalker.

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:18.560
<v Speaker 3>When I need to stop. He needs to stop texting me,

0:57:19.080 --> 0:57:21.720
<v Speaker 3>stop calling me. I don't want to be with you.

0:57:22.680 --> 0:57:23.960
<v Speaker 3>That was mean and uncalled for ya.

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:25.280
<v Speaker 2>What was a new phone?

0:57:25.320 --> 0:57:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you can't be telling somebody to stop calling you

0:57:27.240 --> 0:57:28.200
<v Speaker 1>from the phone they about you.

0:57:28.960 --> 0:57:31.280
<v Speaker 2>That's just the fact that is. That's what it is.

0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:36.240
<v Speaker 2>This new gentleman did not buy me a phone. But yeah,

0:57:37.680 --> 0:57:38.040
<v Speaker 2>you didn't.

0:57:38.160 --> 0:57:39.800
<v Speaker 1>You didn't get him to get you a new phone.

0:57:39.840 --> 0:57:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Well no, no, you're foolish. I'm disappointed in you.

0:57:43.640 --> 0:57:46.000
<v Speaker 3>But with that being said, he needed to stop calling me,

0:57:46.000 --> 0:57:47.640
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, but remember one when I stood

0:57:47.680 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 3>up to Psycho Bob and I told him to stop

0:57:49.160 --> 0:57:51.120
<v Speaker 3>calling me. He stopped calling me, and my girlfriend was like, girl,

0:57:51.120 --> 0:57:53.520
<v Speaker 3>here in jail, he and jail, and he lost his possessions. Bitch,

0:57:53.520 --> 0:57:56.120
<v Speaker 3>that's why he ain't calling you. You ain't scared nobody.

0:57:57.400 --> 0:57:59.760
<v Speaker 3>She's probably right, but either way, I ain't heard from

0:57:59.840 --> 0:58:02.440
<v Speaker 3>him and it's been about five years, so I'm grateful.

0:58:02.640 --> 0:58:05.520
<v Speaker 2>So wait, he's also going knock on wood. So he's

0:58:05.560 --> 0:58:06.040
<v Speaker 2>in jail.

0:58:06.120 --> 0:58:09.600
<v Speaker 3>I hope not because of you, though, No, no, I

0:58:09.600 --> 0:58:11.560
<v Speaker 3>mean I went to the cops. They said that he

0:58:11.640 --> 0:58:13.880
<v Speaker 3>had to actually hit me, and because it was in

0:58:13.960 --> 0:58:15.360
<v Speaker 3>order to get a restraining.

0:58:15.000 --> 0:58:17.720
<v Speaker 4>Order, and because it because it was since you should

0:58:17.760 --> 0:58:23.320
<v Speaker 4>have pushed yourself in the shape should girl got you

0:58:23.360 --> 0:58:27.200
<v Speaker 4>a little white battle Laura, a little sharpen bottle and dude,

0:58:27.200 --> 0:58:29.320
<v Speaker 4>what what she did in the movie and been like, no.

0:58:29.480 --> 0:58:31.320
<v Speaker 2>I can't, I can't do that.

0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:34.080
<v Speaker 3>I did a little blood, I had lawyer sentences and

0:58:34.120 --> 0:58:35.440
<v Speaker 3>the sistercries, it wouldn't stop it.

0:58:35.520 --> 0:58:36.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, none of that matters.

0:58:36.560 --> 0:58:38.840
<v Speaker 1>You don't you not watch the movie show, You don't

0:58:38.840 --> 0:58:41.320
<v Speaker 1>watch Lifetime suits, You don't you didn't watch enough.

0:58:41.800 --> 0:58:42.520
<v Speaker 2>I saw that movie.

0:58:42.520 --> 0:58:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I said, Wow, this white woman, I mean, this Spanish

0:58:44.920 --> 0:58:46.720
<v Speaker 1>woman who thinks she's white in this movie.

0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:50.040
<v Speaker 2>You know Jennifer Lopez Italian? Oh yeah, I was Italians.

0:58:50.080 --> 0:58:53.640
<v Speaker 2>Is that's what we're doing? Is was Italy? Okay, I

0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:54.000
<v Speaker 2>see it.

0:58:54.800 --> 0:58:58.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so that was my getting. I haven't been stopped

0:58:58.200 --> 0:59:00.480
<v Speaker 3>in that way since exact way. Well, we have a

0:59:00.520 --> 0:59:02.800
<v Speaker 3>couple of minutes left. Wow, else have you been stalked?

0:59:03.600 --> 0:59:06.440
<v Speaker 1>No, I haven't really been stocked since the way you

0:59:06.480 --> 0:59:08.560
<v Speaker 1>are over here, and I might be just don't stop.

0:59:09.080 --> 0:59:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I see the way you are over here, and I

0:59:10.480 --> 0:59:11.960
<v Speaker 1>might be texting you later here.

0:59:13.760 --> 0:59:15.800
<v Speaker 2>You know what I can't get you know why? Yourself?

0:59:15.840 --> 0:59:21.680
<v Speaker 1>But Adri get you some I'll get you some rainbow.

0:59:21.720 --> 0:59:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I get you some Steve Madding. I get you some

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:30.120
<v Speaker 1>tin spots. Yea yea strawberry be shipped ship strawberry.

0:59:30.480 --> 0:59:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Get you some Chica. Get you some bolts. Get you

0:59:33.840 --> 0:59:37.520
<v Speaker 2>some Burmington Cold Factory. Get you some Target. Get some

0:59:37.560 --> 0:59:42.880
<v Speaker 2>wet seal. Get you some So what did you learn

0:59:43.000 --> 0:59:43.560
<v Speaker 2>from this?

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:46.880
<v Speaker 1>If anybody's listening to this, who is currently being stalked

0:59:46.960 --> 0:59:48.800
<v Speaker 1>or in the process of getting ready to stalk somebody,

0:59:48.880 --> 0:59:51.720
<v Speaker 1>or in the process of sugar daddy, what's what tips?

0:59:51.760 --> 0:59:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Just give us like a couple like real quick.

0:59:53.440 --> 0:59:58.360
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, happiness is priceless. That's not delete. I need money.

0:59:58.360 --> 1:00:02.560
<v Speaker 2>You've been black, y'all. Don't do it, seriously, don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I would. I don't even online date now because of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>My insurance. I just want to know. This is a

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<v Speaker 2>victim here, your victim. What did you what did what

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<v Speaker 2>did you have on a therapy? What did you wear?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you wear this lingering? You know what? Guys, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>you already looked down and check.

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<v Speaker 1>You were yelling, and I was like, okay, keep yelling,

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<v Speaker 1>keep you there's they're sitting good, great, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm overwhelmed. I've worked hard to look the way I fantastic,

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<v Speaker 2>which is why you have stalkers looking good?

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<v Speaker 1>You have you had, I said.

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<v Speaker 3>My homegirl, the one who the whole girl who gives

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<v Speaker 3>me my good advice. She told me, now you are

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<v Speaker 3>officially a bad bitch, because every bad bitch has had

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<v Speaker 3>a stalker.

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<v Speaker 2>And it kind of worry. What kind of bitches are we?

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<v Speaker 1>Just we're loud. Didn't want to stop him. They always

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<v Speaker 1>talking to damn much. The two muppets from that Buppets.

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<v Speaker 3>Oive he truly, happiness is priceless. I work a job

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<v Speaker 3>now that I love. I have a career that I love.

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<v Speaker 3>I do what I enjoy and I make good money.

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<v Speaker 2>You do. You are right, I should have and buy

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<v Speaker 2>me a bag. Yeah, you don't bringing us to no breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got these jobs and ship a real petty. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just for Christmas, I just want one tooth. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you just hit me up with just a one veneer?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just take one. You're so stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you keep anything besides the computer? The computer? The pants? Pants?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming he brought you some like lingerie to get

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<v Speaker 2>that lingerie. So you're saying the thing you got on

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<v Speaker 2>right now, you bought that.

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<v Speaker 3>I purchased that purchase. I didn't give him back any

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<v Speaker 3>of the money that he gave us.

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<v Speaker 2>More n it would have been all sprint.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, say that money was in Miami. That money is

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<v Speaker 1>in strippers bank account right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that money was spent in the computer because it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't really about the money.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I sent him back over ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>but he wouldn't leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe you sent it. I would have blocked

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<v Speaker 2>and punched myself in the face, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>When someone treats you that badly, you kind of just

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to even look at the ship.

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<v Speaker 2>You said when he treats you that you were doing

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of bad. I wouldn't know. I was aw

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<v Speaker 2>This is I was awful that I wanted to break up.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't really a relations it was a great job.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have given him two weeks notice and then

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<v Speaker 1>you should have been like, in two weeks, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be here no more. It was that's it. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what you hit him with the text. You hit him

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<v Speaker 1>with the Burger Sex and the city. I can't do

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<v Speaker 1>this no more post posted text and then that's why

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<v Speaker 1>he called.

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<v Speaker 2>You iPhone Apple.

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<v Speaker 1>They got like a little posted thing too that you

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<v Speaker 1>could like electronic post it to him.

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<v Speaker 2>With that shut up.

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<v Speaker 3>Another reason why I gave him back some of the

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<v Speaker 3>stuff because I didn't know this, but he was stealing

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<v Speaker 3>money from his father's company.

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<v Speaker 2>And sis, and I didn't want to get involved in that. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>now you care about the day. You're not here for the.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like it's father's days. Well, I'm not here for

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm here for some money laundering.

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<v Speaker 2>Ya.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing I've been doing that all my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Where can people listening catch you Oh my god, but

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<v Speaker 2>do you really want to give out your information. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like this is not for you time. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like we should just put another picture up.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you guys have sad my whole name, so we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want to find especially it's like, oh, Bob listened

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<v Speaker 3>to podcasts in jail now.

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<v Speaker 1>Only the minimum money to listen to. Yeah, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be this one.

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<v Speaker 3>They want to look at stuff so they have things

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<v Speaker 3>to jerk off too. They don't want to listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we don't have anything posted for them off to.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah a nice picture.

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<v Speaker 3>They watching basketball, wives and love and hip hop so

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<v Speaker 3>they could jerk off.

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<v Speaker 2>She bushed your ray and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Rushi does thank you so much for being This

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<v Speaker 1>has been a great episode, Siddy, did you learn anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, i'mita.

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<v Speaker 1>I just needed to be your friend at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would It would have played out totally different, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd have been like, well, give by my number exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would have had him for four months.

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<v Speaker 2>Then Sidney would have him perfour months and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I'm telling you, I had sex, would have due

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<v Speaker 1>who had homeless hair, so like homeless hair, homeless heirless

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<v Speaker 1>hair lice. What that means is it's just like real madic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he thought he was doing the weekend thing, but before the.

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<v Speaker 3>Weekend with the weekend, was it bob Bob had homeless hair.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like salt pepper, but he had homeless he no, no, no, no, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't that this guy was in a band. You're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to lock.

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<v Speaker 1>You kept be going great and trying to last forty something.

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<v Speaker 1>Get some dreadlocks. Oh hell, that was too old. That's

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<v Speaker 1>rick Flex's he was crazy. What I would have did,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have hit him with the I would have

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<v Speaker 1>had sex with him, but the sex would have been

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<v Speaker 1>so bad that he'd be like, you know what, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm almost sad. Considered not brushing my teeth for like

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<v Speaker 1>five days. Bro's that means I'm not doing gens. But also, Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>my box is too good for it to be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So even if I'm laying there, he'd have been liked

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<v Speaker 1>be like, you know what, Sidney, the box is white

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<v Speaker 1>and ripe.

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<v Speaker 2>The boxes top shelf.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever gotten a desktop where your desktop at shot?

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<v Speaker 1>I got I got rent paid for a year since

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<v Speaker 1>shouts how good.

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<v Speaker 2>The boxes shut both of us. Well, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>talk about message.

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<v Speaker 1>We well okay, all right, Well this is where we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna leave you guys today, join us for all the

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<v Speaker 1>mess that you missed today on Heron. Yeah, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have to do a whole another episode we

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<v Speaker 1>do uh, we do uh an hour of honesty hour Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which we don't lie about anything, and it's we say

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<v Speaker 1>all the things that we wanted to say because we

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get a word in with you, Rashidah.

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<v Speaker 2>So sorry, you had a lot to say. Booth, it

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<v Speaker 2>was your time. Thanks for having me. Thank you so

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