Speaker 1: Hi, Hello, Welcome to the Unofficial Expert Podcast.
Speaker 2: With Sydney and.
Speaker 1: Her male friend Marie. Yes, I don't know why you pause,
Speaker 1: like you don't know what your name is, quiet Storm.
Speaker 1: Your voice is very like it's a it's a wbls.
Speaker 2: Yes, it is very wbls quiet Storm on the line.
Speaker 2: Right now. We got ron Eisley. Yes, that's you, Marie.
Speaker 1: It's so deep, but you know whatever, this is the
Speaker 1: time of year where I sound like.
Speaker 2: I get so deep in. I don't think it's deep in.
Speaker 2: You're gross.
Speaker 1: That's just a different song. E, You're nasty.
Speaker 2: Listen. SID paid that phone bill, Okay, I gotta do
Speaker 2: it please. Oh no, I just paid it just in
Speaker 2: case you under them. So what's going on?
Speaker 1: We are living our best lives? Not really, it's been
Speaker 1: a rough November was rough. What Oh my god? I
Speaker 1: made like no money and spend.
Speaker 2: All my money. No, that's not true. That's a fact.
Speaker 1: I was looking through my uh my little planner for
Speaker 1: the year and like I didn't even have any Like
Speaker 1: I didn't write anything in November because I was.
Speaker 2: Like, since you got two gigs, you got two gigs.
Speaker 2: I hit somebody else up.
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, do you need more people for
Speaker 1: holiday parties? Because me and Marie are available. We're working
Speaker 1: a holiday party this week. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just some more I work in
Speaker 2: a holiday party. I mean we gonna strip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just came to dance for Junior's party.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to dance. That's it. Real players club.
Speaker 1: Mistletoe on my belly button. Just you gotta kiss below
Speaker 1: the missiles out my snapchat out and everything. I'm like, ah,
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: I'm excited. I am, I really am. That's it. Sis.
Speaker 1: What are you doing? How are you doing? What were
Speaker 1: you an expert in this week? I'm a I'm an
Speaker 1: expert in seeing people that listen to the podcast and
Speaker 1: then then recapping the podcast in front of my girl.
Speaker 2: That's what happened. So I was. I went to New Jersey. Uh,
Speaker 2: there was a dinner. My girlfriend's friend had a dinner
Speaker 2: for her son, his son. There's a lot of characters
Speaker 2: in this. It's a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Okay, son's one of the There was somebody there who's
Speaker 1: a fan of the podcast and was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you and Marie are so freaking funny. Who y'all be
Speaker 1: There was an episode you was getting on Adrian. I
Speaker 1: was like, wait what wow? In front of Adrian, I
Speaker 1: was like, wait, what are you talking? When she got
Speaker 1: lay sick?
Speaker 2: Well she woh sick.
Speaker 1: He went up to her and was like, oh, you
Speaker 1: just got laysick and she was like, yeah, how'd you know?
Speaker 2: Oh? I heard it on the podcast. I was like,
Speaker 2: wait what man? It was a man, a messy man.
Speaker 1: It was a man that was saying all this shout
Speaker 1: out to Zi with your big ass mouth.
Speaker 2: Hey zi Za. I was like, I listen to it.
Speaker 1: I listened to Blocas at work and I can't I
Speaker 1: can't stop laughing.
Speaker 2: It's so funny messy which is on the podcast. It
Speaker 2: was good. It was good. So now Adrian was like,
Speaker 2: should I listen to the podcast?
Speaker 1: I can't believe she stopped listening to the podcast. I
Speaker 1: told her to time, and I can't believe.
Speaker 2: She listened to you.
Speaker 1: She should listen to me. It's for her own good.
Speaker 1: I don't need her coming back and be like so
Speaker 1: wait an episode four at UH at twenty three minutes,
Speaker 1: you was talking about how you're not really happy.
Speaker 2: Oh sis, and you just recaptain right, now on this episode.
Speaker 1: On the holiday episode, says, Ho, Ho, Well, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna get no gifts this year?
Speaker 2: Exactly? Well, I'm not anyway the way I've been acting,
Speaker 2: are y'all exchanging gifts?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Oh, Sins.
Speaker 1: I meant to say this to you. I can't afford
Speaker 1: to get you a gift this year, so please don't
Speaker 1: give me a prison what you already bought me a gift,
Speaker 1: in which case I will scrape some coins? Were doing,
Speaker 1: Secret Santa?
Speaker 2: What are you talking? I don't even know who I have?
Speaker 2: Do we know? I know who I have? Oh?
Speaker 1: Shoot, all right, we I'm gonna check the email because
Speaker 1: you need to check right now since let me check it.
Speaker 1: You know, the WiFi is slow here, so and I
Speaker 1: don't want.
Speaker 2: To be weird, but yeah, bitch, I got you for
Speaker 2: Secrets Hannah. Wow, the secret is out, so no run me,
Speaker 2: run me. Well wait, did you really get me for
Speaker 2: Secret Sannah? Yes?
Speaker 1: Well then that means okay, Well, let me just make
Speaker 1: sure I got you sound to buy you two gifts.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: It's like if you had bought me a gift and
Speaker 1: I got somebody else for Secret Sanna. I wasn't gonna
Speaker 1: also get you a gift. I feel like our friendship
Speaker 1: is separate from the group, right, but that that's two gifts.
Speaker 2: So are you gonna throw me.
Speaker 1: In a pile of white women? Yes, I'm throwing you exactly.
Speaker 2: Listen. I'm I don't even know how to check the
Speaker 2: secrets and file.
Speaker 1: Okay, after the fixed Jesus and figured out, do take
Speaker 1: the wheel and take my gift because I want this
Speaker 1: be a gift card.
Speaker 2: Because what the hell were you an expert.
Speaker 1: In besides scary little boys with my voice? I was
Speaker 1: an expert at fraud this week. Get into it. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just get into it allegedly. I'm gonna say allegedly
Speaker 1: because then you can't prove that I actually did it.
Speaker 1: So Sidney and I were traveling to Philadelphia. Oh yes,
Speaker 1: uh huh, and I bought a bus ticket for the
Speaker 1: wrong day.
Speaker 2: Since you really go and put this on the pod?
Speaker 1: Sure, sure, sure, I mean they know that we're poor,
Speaker 1: The know we take the bus. They watching their instant stories.
Speaker 1: We are quite so we we I got the ticket
Speaker 1: for the wrong day, called the bus company and I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, can we change the dates? And they
Speaker 1: were like no, they're none refundable, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I need my I need my money back, and they're like,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get it back. And I was like,
Speaker 1: let me jump on Chase online real quick, found the
Speaker 1: number to Chase, call them and was like, my card
Speaker 1: was compromised. Chase was like, so what is this last transaction?
Speaker 1: I was like, nope, send me my money back and
Speaker 1: Chase was like, okay, uh, We're gonna have to cancel
Speaker 1: your card and send you a new one. And I
Speaker 1: was like, wait, no, I still need to be able
Speaker 1: to swipe for things, you.
Speaker 2: Know how, don't carry get the whole thing down.
Speaker 1: And then there's a meme of somebody like sleeping in
Speaker 1: the bed, like real comfortably, and I was like, that's
Speaker 1: when read no one can.
Speaker 2: Her card has been declined. So they told me it
Speaker 2: was gonna take first.
Speaker 1: They told me ten days and I was like ten days,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be twenty eighteen, and they're like five to
Speaker 1: seven days, and I was like, can I just go
Speaker 1: to the bank and they're like no, but they don't
Speaker 1: print them no more because you know, they got to
Speaker 1: chip in them now.
Speaker 2: So I've been without card for I've been in a
Speaker 2: fraud situation as well, you commit a fraud or somebody
Speaker 2: stole your identity, so well, not fraud.
Speaker 1: But like I was, I was at a place, a
Speaker 1: well known place, and I was switching tags and I
Speaker 1: got caught.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: True A bonus episode conversation you gotta give. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you want to hear this story about me almost getting
Speaker 1: caught and thrown in jail, you gotta go to the
Speaker 1: Patreon for bonus episodes, look.
Speaker 2: For the unofficial expert. Let's get into this guest string
Speaker 2: get into.
Speaker 1: It because I'm not even looking on this side because
Speaker 1: you really it's too much melaniny in the room going
Speaker 1: on like amazing. Hold on, let us introduce you. Then
Speaker 1: we're gonna give you full body camp. Okay, she is,
Speaker 1: she's a writer, she's a comedian. She is our stalking expert.
Speaker 1: But then also, I feel like a bunch of other
Speaker 1: things slash slash, slashed up slash, lots of things city.
Speaker 1: What slash would you throw in there?
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say doing the most slash doing the most.
Speaker 1: That U.
Speaker 2: She's our I'm super excited to have you here. It's
Speaker 2: Rashida Crockett. Yes, Rashid, Rashida how you doing, queen.
Speaker 3: I feel really good and I'm always happy to see
Speaker 3: you too.
Speaker 1: Yes, I haven't seen you since we did awkward sex
Speaker 1: in the City together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it hasn't.
Speaker 3: The last time we've worked other was awkward text in
Speaker 3: the city. That was, And you told a messy story there, girl.
Speaker 3: I was still in a no, I was fresh out
Speaker 3: of my relationship then. But my ex showed up. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there was a guy there with you and heckled the
Speaker 3: life out of me. That was my ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1: So you had you had your old pies come through
Speaker 1: the heck wi you bitch. Someone had to record the set.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you had him as a camera man. Oh,
Speaker 1: you are so rude. She is the lude expert. Also,
Speaker 1: you were slash route. Well, let's talk about what she
Speaker 1: got on.
Speaker 2: Okay, she came in. She threw a lapearla parla.
Speaker 1: She threw a lapearla uh Asian privoctor. Here's the thing, y'all.
Speaker 1: See the way Marie and Sydney be in the street.
Speaker 1: I look like dust regular, yes, and I have turtlenecks on.
Speaker 1: I have a total neck on right now. Sis, you
Speaker 1: got your whole chest nipple out.
Speaker 3: Sidney, My whole Neriola, And I'm gonna tell you this
Speaker 3: right now, because I didn't want to be up in
Speaker 3: here looking raggedy.
Speaker 1: On the the and here I am looking like a
Speaker 1: dust bunny. Chance, I'm in here sucking it up. I'm
Speaker 1: somebody's auntie grandmother on top of layers of dust as well.
Speaker 2: The stopish her best like that is a good wig.
Speaker 2: I have a hat on top of it because you
Speaker 2: can't see the part so beautiful all you lie? Rashida
Speaker 2: No on a skinny jean. She got on like a
Speaker 2: why are you even throwing the belt? We don't even
Speaker 2: need the belt because I don't I don't want my
Speaker 2: pants to fall.
Speaker 1: Okay, well hold on, hold on, but she has like
Speaker 1: she's giving us Jennifer Lopez Versagi dress neckline.
Speaker 2: So then goes down to the bed.
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna tall you, sis, because I don't
Speaker 1: even look at you like that. So I'm not family
Speaker 1: no more. N Your skin looks great, Rashida. Can you
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about you, like what you're doing?
Speaker 2: After this is? Who are you? Where you come from?
Speaker 1: I'm from New York, I mean Brooklyn originally Long Island,
Speaker 1: grew up there, started doing comedy after years of disappointing
Speaker 1: my parents in other ways.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I.
Speaker 1: Mean just like I could tell by your hairdline, like
Speaker 1: you graduated school. You graduated like high school and college,
Speaker 1: my edges, I graduated. Her hair was giving us Janelle money.
Speaker 2: Yes it is, but my body is given like step
Speaker 2: child card.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, Nathan sona did you say so, Nathan?
Speaker 2: She you did? Because whatever? Okay, that must be another son.
Speaker 3: And she's gorgeous. No, you're not buleg that's you. I'm
Speaker 3: telling you, Nathan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So you are a stalking expert.
Speaker 2: Can you take us through the story?
Speaker 1: Hold on, wait, I just want people to know that
Speaker 1: the way you look, you should not be stalking.
Speaker 2: Nobody people should be stalking.
Speaker 1: That's not that, But that's not what it's about, Sydney.
Speaker 1: If you listen, you would get the story. Sis, she
Speaker 1: was stalked. I was stalked and not and when I
Speaker 1: stay stalked. I don't mean oh girl, he was driving
Speaker 1: past my block unannounced. He needs to stop playing, you know,
Speaker 1: he better not be doing that shit. No, I mean
Speaker 1: like lawyers, judges, cops ceased and to sist.
Speaker 3: Decrees decrease decrees. Do we have to pull out some tissue? No,
Speaker 3: I think he's in jail now, So we did.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, yes it was forty eight. Here you go, honey.
Speaker 3: It was a really stressful time in my life.
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this.
Speaker 1: At the time, I was living in Pittsburgh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the place.
Speaker 3: It sounds like power plants and smoke, and that's what
Speaker 3: it was giving. And when you are a young black
Speaker 3: woman just trying to be popping and find love, it's
Speaker 3: very challenging in a city like Pittsburgh.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, what kind of dudes were
Speaker 1: in Pittsburgh. It was like, I feel like coal miners
Speaker 1: or something.
Speaker 3: I mean, it was a lot of engineers, a lot
Speaker 3: of Pittsburgh Steelers.
Speaker 2: And a lot of nothing.
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like they were like I feel that
Speaker 1: we wear a lot of like fleas jackets to dinner dates, vest.
Speaker 2: Too, like bubble vests. Yeah, best coats, you know.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there was a there was a fair amount
Speaker 3: of that, but like bubble vests with like long John's
Speaker 3: and then like tattoos on their face and neck. What
Speaker 3: it's we's khalifa think whiz, Yes, that's what Whiz looks
Speaker 3: like a crackhead lesbian.
Speaker 2: Yes he does.
Speaker 1: And you know what, on behalf of all the lesbians,
Speaker 1: including myself, that was rude.
Speaker 2: We don't look like that.
Speaker 1: Did you hear what I said? And your crackhead lesbian chill?
Speaker 1: Cis I need to do close your mouth and open
Speaker 1: your ears. I honestly I don't even want him to
Speaker 1: be associated with lesbian. So you've never met a hideous lesbian?
Speaker 1: Never in your life have you met a lesbian that
Speaker 1: you were like, uh, sir a. People are going to
Speaker 1: be in interventions right now because of that common all
Speaker 1: the shade off thrown Beyonce and no one said anything
Speaker 1: to me yet.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, so you couldn't meet at Pittsburgh Steel because.
Speaker 3: They're all dating white women. So I tried my tell
Speaker 3: it and I don't be afraid. My truth is my truth.
Speaker 3: So I go online and I'm thinking, okay, this is
Speaker 3: where I'm going to find love. So I go on
Speaker 3: on this really reputable website called sugar daddy dot com.
Speaker 1: And that's why I in full circle, we talked about
Speaker 1: sugar daddy dot com like many episodes ago, and our
Speaker 1: sugar Daddy expert she's still using it, she's still using it,
Speaker 1: if not any longer because of this particular instance, maybe
Speaker 1: I need to have a conversation with her because I
Speaker 1: was hustling back. But just listen to her episode. It
Speaker 1: was messy, but like there were facts there. But also,
Speaker 1: y'all don't look the same, so.
Speaker 2: Damn, it's different. Differ you in a different league, it's different.
Speaker 2: You are the Beyonce to her, No, you don't even
Speaker 2: do it. LaToya love it? Who does? Got married?
Speaker 1: She looks amazing, she looks great. But I'm still saying, like,
Speaker 1: don nobody really know I.
Speaker 2: Did a movie with LaToya. I love LaToya very much.
Speaker 2: To get shout out to them credits girl the resume.
Speaker 2: It was a Lifetime movie called Seasons of Love. Seasons
Speaker 2: of Love. Yeah it was beautiful.
Speaker 3: But okay, so I go, I should not be plugging
Speaker 3: these projects while I'm saying telling it's messy.
Speaker 2: As you're telling the truth. Though.
Speaker 3: So I get on this website and I meet a
Speaker 3: gentleman let's call him Bob.
Speaker 1: So did you is Bob the first person that you met?
Speaker 1: Or did you meet anybody else on this website?
Speaker 3: I mean a couple of people like hit me up
Speaker 3: and It's really weird because it's like you have to
Speaker 3: post pictures and you have to tell people about yourself,
Speaker 3: and you're on the sugar Daddy website and they're expecting
Speaker 3: you to say what your terms are?
Speaker 2: Well, what were your Yeah? Did you I do a
Speaker 2: little contract?
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: Very afraid.
Speaker 3: So I'm having conversations with my girlfriends and I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: what do you do? You have their offering like like
Speaker 3: a what do you call those like ranges of money
Speaker 3: that you would want? Okay, wait wait wait have your
Speaker 3: fulle stipend? Okay, yes, but wait have your friends?
Speaker 1: Are your friends on the website or you're just asking
Speaker 1: regular regular chicks that go to work from nine to five.
Speaker 2: Because they are not the ones you talk to. Friend.
Speaker 3: Yes, I was just gonna say, let me let me
Speaker 3: be a thousand percent. I have no regular degular friends.
Speaker 3: All my friends are bad bitches, but they are on
Speaker 3: sugar daddy dot com. They don't need to be. They
Speaker 3: are in sugar Daddy dot life.
Speaker 2: Like just speaking. They boys don't have cousin. Daddy didn't
Speaker 2: have like a son for you.
Speaker 3: Well, here's here's what probably pushed me to the God.
Speaker 2: I'm telling all my business.
Speaker 1: We did.
Speaker 2: The edge on this John.
Speaker 3: So I had a girlfriend who was married to her
Speaker 3: husband played for the Browns, and that's Cleveland, which was
Speaker 3: the closest thing to Pittsburgh that I could find more
Speaker 3: black people. And she had introduced me to one of
Speaker 3: her husband's teammates. He ended up with a white girl,
Speaker 3: and I was like, okay, fuck this. Like he and
Speaker 3: I didn't work out. He ended up How long did
Speaker 3: you guys hang out for date? Several months, but he
Speaker 3: was still very much suck on his ex girlfriend. Oh yes,
Speaker 3: So you were just in a bad situation and I
Speaker 3: wasn't meeting anybody.
Speaker 2: You wasn't set up to win.
Speaker 3: I wasn't set up to win. He was a sweet,
Speaker 3: sweet I mean sure, still is a sweet, sweet guy. Okay, well,
Speaker 3: off off the record, give us his name at the
Speaker 3: end of the pub. I want to see what she looks.
Speaker 3: I want to see the white wife. Yeah, which is
Speaker 3: not the white ex girlfriend that he was stuck on.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't even matter though it doesn't even Cicheskay,
Speaker 1: go ahead.
Speaker 3: So a couple of dudes had hit me up, but
Speaker 3: I didn't really know what I was doing. So I
Speaker 3: was like, you know, when they would talk to me
Speaker 3: if they weren't normal, if they were just on some
Speaker 3: stuff like why are you on the website or like
Speaker 3: what are you looking for?
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to answer those kinds of questions.
Speaker 2: You need a consultant. I needed a consultant.
Speaker 3: But if a dude stepped me and he was just like, hey,
Speaker 3: you're beautiful, I know how to respond to that.
Speaker 2: But if they're like because my girlfriend was just.
Speaker 1: That's a cat call right then, but it's tight foklyn, Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you for your written cat call.
Speaker 2: Y e R.
Speaker 3: So my girlfriend was like everything to the max, like
Speaker 3: say you want the maximount of and he don't be
Speaker 3: on their nickel and diamonds.
Speaker 2: Just what's the max amount of money? Millions? Ten grand
Speaker 2: a month? Like allowance? Murray, murray, murray.
Speaker 1: We've been here all this time in grand We've been
Speaker 1: first for three years. When have you listen? Do we
Speaker 1: sign up after?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's sign me up after? Okay, you to listen
Speaker 2: this to this through? Well, what was your profile picture?
Speaker 2: What photos? Did you have? A low key I think
Speaker 2: I catfish.
Speaker 3: I think I googled pretty brown skinned girls and whatever
Speaker 3: popped up that looked like it could have been me.
Speaker 2: I think I use those Ah, that's what I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do too, since because you know I'm in these streets. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and I don't think people like what if my dad
Speaker 2: or my dad wouldn't be spending money on a bitch?
Speaker 1: Your dad, what's his name?
Speaker 2: Arthur?
Speaker 1: You don't know what Arthur doing on the side.
Speaker 3: I mean, I just didn't want people to see my
Speaker 3: face on the website. Okay, that makes talking about it
Speaker 3: on a podcast, so I guess it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: At this point. This is all alleged. Yeah, this is
Speaker 1: this is a legend.
Speaker 3: So Bob hits me up and he's like hey, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, he lives in LA I'm living in Pittsburgh.
Speaker 2: Just like is Bob black or white?
Speaker 3: Bob is a black man, rober Bob is a black man,
Speaker 3: and he's a smitch older than me. Saw Smitch his
Speaker 3: sixteen years about sixteen years. But you said, Smitch, Smitch,
Speaker 3: you got a lot of nerve. Let's let's give him.
Speaker 1: Who would play Bob in a movie? Shit and Bob's Life?
Speaker 1: Who played by Samuel L.
Speaker 2: Jackson? No, he was he had a better body than Samuel.
Speaker 1: Denzel Washington Deniel doesn't have a good body, says he's
Speaker 1: in training today.
Speaker 2: From the neck down.
Speaker 3: He had a good body, but the face going down,
Speaker 3: he had.
Speaker 2: A he was decent. The face was Uncle Bill's struggle.
Speaker 2: Struggle was the face Eddie Winslow? What was the face
Speaker 2: giving us? We'll google him after this. Okay, I can
Speaker 2: find a mugshot.
Speaker 1: But if you just want to into our phone right
Speaker 1: into the yeah, no, no, no, we won't. Don't use I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, Sidney can't really read that. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: so keep going.
Speaker 3: So he and I are just conversing, and thank you
Speaker 3: for not saying conversation because that's not a word. And
Speaker 3: we're conversing and you know, we're kind of like developing
Speaker 3: a friendship.
Speaker 1: And he was like, I want you to come to
Speaker 1: LA and visit me. You know, how how many conversations,
Speaker 1: how deep? How many how many days or congos?
Speaker 2: I passed?
Speaker 1: This is after like a week did he say he
Speaker 1: was gonna pay for the plane ticket. He knew he
Speaker 1: didn't need to say that, and that was unequivocal.
Speaker 2: So he.
Speaker 3: Goes and offers me a plane ticket and I was like, well,
Speaker 3: I don't want to go without I don't want to go.
Speaker 1: Oh, since he looks like Mouse from Jamie Fox, both
Speaker 1: of you right now, pause, pause the podcast, and you
Speaker 1: look up to Jimmy Fox Show and the character.
Speaker 2: Since he's giving me he's not badly.
Speaker 1: He just looks like he hits people and he does,
Speaker 1: and he's a violent person.
Speaker 2: He looks violent. He looks like he needed you know what.
Speaker 3: You're also looking at a mug shot. His mug shot
Speaker 3: wasn't on the website. I mean, Lindsay Lohan has several
Speaker 3: cute mug shots. Yeah, Rihanna has a mud shot and
Speaker 3: her ship was flowed. Rihanna's you know about the one
Speaker 3: where she got beat. She didn't get the rest of
Speaker 3: this also wasn't a good photo. Yeah, she's also I
Speaker 3: was like, damn, she got the Kylie lift kidd, that
Speaker 3: ain't right. Go ahead, Yeah, So he starts sending me
Speaker 3: gifts to kind of like oil me up of gifts
Speaker 3: out to l A.
Speaker 2: So first of all, I was calling it.
Speaker 3: I was calling a gift given Tuesday, which is basically
Speaker 3: just the time from when he got paid on Friday,
Speaker 3: when he would the ship, when it would get to
Speaker 3: my office on Tuesday.
Speaker 2: Gift giving Tuesday. Every Tuesday, it would be a nice
Speaker 2: new gift.
Speaker 3: Sometimes it would just be like a box with like
Speaker 3: something small in it in a car and just like
Speaker 3: literal cash, like he would be sending cash through once
Speaker 3: throughout three hundred dollars because I did not know that
Speaker 3: he put three hundred dollars in the box.
Speaker 2: I tell you and Nola Darling just giving the money
Speaker 2: back I had. I was digging through.
Speaker 3: He bought me an iMac, a computer, a desktop, an
Speaker 3: iMac and.
Speaker 1: Wait, a whole desktops. It's not even a laptop.
Speaker 3: Well, he bought me the he bought me the desktop,
Speaker 3: and he threw three hundred dollars in the box. But
Speaker 3: I was just expecting the desktop. So I take this,
Speaker 3: I take the computer out, throw the box out.
Speaker 2: I'm speechless. And he was like.
Speaker 3: And I was like, can you send me? And I
Speaker 3: asked them for money for a thing, and he was like,
Speaker 3: I just sent you three hundred dollars and I was like, no,
Speaker 3: you didn't.
Speaker 2: You're a liar. And he was like, Rashida, I just
Speaker 2: threw three hundred dollars in the box. I'm like, why
Speaker 2: wouldn't you put it in an oh? Blow? But I
Speaker 2: have to go. That's rude. That's that's drug money.
Speaker 1: Drugs throw things loose like that, just just loosely loose money.
Speaker 1: So after a couple of gifts, God, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think of what he got me that got me out
Speaker 1: to l A.
Speaker 2: It was a pair wi I sell shoes for La
Speaker 2: for your whole life.
Speaker 3: She's share parawil wireless shoes. It was an iPhone and.
Speaker 2: It was a computer.
Speaker 3: Okay, so the computer was like you heard that listeners,
Speaker 3: a desktop, not a laptop. And it was a computer
Speaker 3: and two thousand dollars l three thousand dollars computer. And
Speaker 3: it was like, you know, you come to LA, we'll
Speaker 3: go to the Beverly Shutter, we'll go shopping, we'll have
Speaker 3: a good time. So we get I get out to LA.
Speaker 3: The moment I get off the plane, he comes and
Speaker 3: he picks me up. I immediately take a picture of his plate,
Speaker 3: his licenses. Absolutely, send it to my mom and my friend.
Speaker 1: I was gonna let you know that I've had friends
Speaker 1: that do that. You what you say is, hey, my
Speaker 1: best friend has to come to that's.
Speaker 2: What you do. You gotta rush you to sell a life.
Speaker 1: So I know, but just in case you do it again,
Speaker 1: Sydney and Marie are available.
Speaker 2: We are very available to you.
Speaker 1: For those high wear A signe seven and a half.
Speaker 1: I think that's thirty seven European size.
Speaker 3: Not gonna ride me and my girlfriends. Kind of fucked
Speaker 3: that money up a little bit. But there's more this morning.
Speaker 3: So we get to La We get to the hotel
Speaker 3: and I was like, I want a separate room from you,
Speaker 3: and he was like, Mashida, I don't want to give
Speaker 3: you another room, like I don't, I don't.
Speaker 2: He basically he was just like, well we need to
Speaker 2: be together. We don't.
Speaker 3: I don't want us to be apart. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: fuck you, I'm paying for this other room.
Speaker 2: So you get out there, get your own. How much
Speaker 2: is room? The rooms? Like three hundred? The box.
Speaker 1: He just gave me money, she used, that is my money.
Speaker 1: Now it's not his money gets my hand. That's in
Speaker 1: my account.
Speaker 3: But here's the real real I'm going to get. I
Speaker 3: was I had to get more, so I get my
Speaker 3: I get the room, gaggy the jagge. I'm just gonna
Speaker 3: get more. I sleep in my room and now I'm
Speaker 3: sleeping comfortably. We go out we get breakfast. The next morning,
Speaker 3: he takes me shopping. We went to the Beverly Center.
Speaker 1: We went, I don't know, brought me some shoes, some jewelry,
Speaker 1: a nice watch, watch, and then he takes.
Speaker 2: Me how much money did he spend that day?
Speaker 1: A couple of thou a couple of thousand. But here's
Speaker 1: also the thing, it's your baby hairs. Honestly, he would
Speaker 1: drive around with like wads and wads of money in
Speaker 1: his glove compartment.
Speaker 2: And any moment did you think I might get shot? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Or killed, not just shot, but killed drive by situation.
Speaker 2: Maybe No, No, not for a moment than I think that. No,
Speaker 2: not one second. Wow, Well what kind of car was it?
Speaker 2: He's driving BMW and so that's not the kind of car.
Speaker 2: I want to die. And I want to be in
Speaker 2: a Maserati when I die. I want you want to
Speaker 2: be in a Lambo.
Speaker 1: I mean, the last time that Rihanna was in a
Speaker 1: car with suicide doors.
Speaker 2: It was almost a homicide exactly. So wait, crazy.
Speaker 3: So he takes me, he's like, we're driving around and
Speaker 3: he takes me to the Audi dealership and he was like,
Speaker 3: I want you to test drive these cars because I
Speaker 3: was living in Pittsburgh. I wasn't happy. He was telling
Speaker 3: me you could move to LA and live with like
Speaker 3: and live out here with me.
Speaker 2: Can you drive?
Speaker 1: Yes, I can drive like from New York, but yes
Speaker 1: I can try. Oh yeah, but you have like a
Speaker 1: New York driver's license.
Speaker 2: What does that mean, bitch? Yes, I new parallel park.
Speaker 2: No I tried. I mean.
Speaker 3: I was also just annoyed because while you're sitting here
Speaker 3: wasting time taking me to drive these cars, you can
Speaker 3: actually be spending money on me doing real things because
Speaker 3: you're not going to buy this car for me right now,
Speaker 3: just go shopping again because they pay for a spot. Yeah, now,
Speaker 3: you're just wasting my time to give me some new toes.
Speaker 3: Brought me some new toes. He takes me to meet
Speaker 3: his parents.
Speaker 2: What wait on the first trip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he takes me to meet that's a red flash.
Speaker 1: I have to show you these pictures. They wanted to
Speaker 1: take picture.
Speaker 2: How did he introduce you? He said, this is my girlfriend, Rashida. Wow,
Speaker 2: and Rashida, you said, okay, pleasure to meet you.
Speaker 1: If you said pleasure to meet I was like, she's hired.
Speaker 1: She's definitely, she's a pleasure to meet.
Speaker 2: To meet hired, and.
Speaker 3: I mean it was actually really nice to like see
Speaker 3: where his parents live and like see what kind you
Speaker 3: know at the time where they lived in like in
Speaker 3: the suburbs of LA They had.
Speaker 2: A really beautiful home, very nice. They had an addict and whatnot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: basement money, ye lived pull the sack.
Speaker 3: Even though like his parents were older, like his mom
Speaker 3: still like rocked. Well, stepmom still like rocks her Louis
Speaker 3: bags like she was real.
Speaker 2: Well that's the step mom. She's a new mom. Of course,
Speaker 2: I think you still.
Speaker 3: Think his mom and dad were ever married. Well, I
Speaker 3: mean had he had a list serve of issues. So
Speaker 3: we get back home, but like we get back to
Speaker 3: the hotel. Next morning, he's dropping me off at the
Speaker 3: airport and wait, how long were you there for?
Speaker 2: Just the weekend? One weekend? One weekend?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you did all the damage and then you
Speaker 1: had to check a bag.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I mean we were leaving and I was
Speaker 3: just like, can I have some money? You give you.
Speaker 2: Dollars Weekend's what happened.
Speaker 3: He asked me how much I wanted And here's if
Speaker 3: you're gonna do this, lady like.
Speaker 2: Me speak to the listeners, speak here. If you're gonna
Speaker 2: do this, don't be like me, beater than me.
Speaker 3: You can't be shy and timid about taking money somebody's money,
Speaker 3: because that's what you're there to do. I was very
Speaker 3: shy and timid about it. I would be like, baby,
Speaker 3: can I have some money? And he would be like,
Speaker 3: how much can I'd be like, I don't know. A
Speaker 3: couple of hundred. He's like, what's a couple of hundred.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know. Like had I asked for
Speaker 3: seven hundred or seven or seventeen hundred, it would have
Speaker 3: been the same thing. So just be like all of it,
Speaker 3: like out of Good Fellas that that when she did
Speaker 3: the stack thing with her fingers that much?
Speaker 2: Just stop asking for don't be nippling down how much money?
Speaker 2: Is this much? That much? About one of two inches
Speaker 2: between your fingers? Dude, what are we doing? We're doing
Speaker 2: it wrong, said, what are we fucking No, guys, you're
Speaker 2: doing the right thing, trust me. So I'm looking at
Speaker 2: you with my eyes open and I'd be like, no,
Speaker 2: we're not. We're sitting You're doing it wrong. I know
Speaker 2: I'm doing it wrong. I'm fully wrong, all the way wrong.
Speaker 1: Sucking all my teeth, okay, sucking my poor picking my
Speaker 1: dusty toes.
Speaker 2: Hey.
Speaker 3: So wait, So I go back to Pittsburgh a couple
Speaker 3: of weeks later, gift giving tuesdays of the thing, and
Speaker 3: one night, middle of the night, he calls me and
Speaker 3: he's like, I gotta like, I gotta go. I'm moving
Speaker 3: to Atlanta. And I was like, like right now, he
Speaker 3: was like yeah. So he got into a huge altercation
Speaker 3: with a gentleman in his work. Now it's important for
Speaker 3: me to say he has his money. He has this
Speaker 3: money because his father owns a shipping company, like a
Speaker 3: transporting company, and he works for his father's transporporting company.
Speaker 1: When you say transporting company, it sounds like he's transporting drugs.
Speaker 2: I don't know. He sounds like a mule.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what they do. He
Speaker 1: manages mules.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know anything about.
Speaker 1: Mule Depot, mule marked, yeah, mules r us.
Speaker 2: I know nothing about us. Okay.
Speaker 3: And he got into an argument with one of his coworkers,
Speaker 3: which was one of his father's employees, and I guess
Speaker 3: it got like physical and he was like, first of all.
Speaker 1: Your fist fighting at work is come on, man, a
Speaker 1: little crush, a little crayh. So I was like, and
Speaker 1: also a.
Speaker 3: Little cray So you're just gonna pick up your life
Speaker 3: and move from LA to Atlanta and the drop of
Speaker 3: a dime's people do.
Speaker 1: But he just packed up his car and left. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like he hired movers or anything.
Speaker 2: And he was on the run. That's what it felt
Speaker 2: like to me. And he was like no.
Speaker 3: He just started like going crazy, like no, I have
Speaker 3: to be free for me and I have to be
Speaker 3: free from my son. And I was like, wait, what
Speaker 3: are you He has a son who lived in Saint Louis,
Speaker 3: and he never really saw his son. He didn't have
Speaker 3: a great relationship with his ex wife, and he would
Speaker 3: also talk to me about his ex girlfriend, who was
Speaker 3: a dancer up in Vegas, who he didn't have a
Speaker 3: good relationship with, like they had a really terrible breakup.
Speaker 3: And I knew it was about money. So I was like,
Speaker 3: there were a number of red flags, but that was
Speaker 3: like the biggest red.
Speaker 2: Flag for me. Yeah, I mean red flags. You can
Speaker 2: ignore them for a couple hundred dollars a week. You
Speaker 2: can ignore new sunglasses.
Speaker 1: I've ignored red flags, just.
Speaker 3: To blind me from the light of the flags. All right,
Speaker 3: I've ignored red flags, which is fucked up. When I
Speaker 3: was a kid. I'm grown now and smarter, hopefully wiser.
Speaker 3: So they say, now he moves to Atlanta, and he's like, well,
Speaker 3: now you're gonna I want you to move with me
Speaker 3: to Atlanta. So he flies me down to Atlanta. I
Speaker 3: don't like, I don't get a separate hotel room this time,
Speaker 3: but we do get separate beds.
Speaker 2: It was too it was too full beds.
Speaker 3: It was two full beds. I asked him to get
Speaker 3: too full beds, so he went and sleep with me.
Speaker 3: So I think it's very important to know that I
Speaker 3: never slept with this man. I never slept with this
Speaker 3: man once. So we were together for four months and
Speaker 3: I never slept with them. But it was a bit
Speaker 3: of a part time job because we had this long
Speaker 3: distance relationship and every day I had to like check
Speaker 3: in with him and email him and just like stroke
Speaker 3: his big stupid ego. And in return, he would call
Speaker 3: up nord Strums while I was there and just give
Speaker 3: him give them the credit card.
Speaker 2: Does a great job. It's a great job.
Speaker 1: I feel the same way okay, but my problem is
Speaker 1: with situations like this, why do women buy things?
Speaker 2: Just give me the money? So I have the money
Speaker 2: in my account, Sidney, what would you be doing with
Speaker 2: the money?
Speaker 1: Said, because I feel like a friend of ours, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say no names. You used to make a
Speaker 1: lot of money at their job and doesn't have any
Speaker 1: of that money left. Well, here's the thing, people, I
Speaker 1: was also doing drugs and alcohol on a regular basis,
Speaker 1: so I had a friend. I didn't even say by myself.
Speaker 1: They know you have no friends, Marie. They know you're
Speaker 1: talking about spot up.
Speaker 3: But I'll say this, sometimes when a guy is spending
Speaker 3: money on you, you have to let them spend the
Speaker 3: money on you the way they feel comfortable spending it.
Speaker 2: And that's just.
Speaker 3: The real Like updated guys, and they don't want to
Speaker 3: just put money in your hand. They want to take
Speaker 3: you out to night's dinners. They will help you set
Speaker 3: up at LLC, but they wouldn't just give you the
Speaker 3: money to see But like there's some guys who are
Speaker 3: just like that. You have to just let these men
Speaker 3: spend the money.
Speaker 1: Pay for a dot com for me, I mean, we
Speaker 1: buy me some stock. We've done that a bigcoin. Give
Speaker 1: me a big coin.
Speaker 2: In this big buy me a big cooin.
Speaker 3: So Atlanta happens, and Atlanta was actually a really good time.
Speaker 3: We went shopping again by did you give it up?
Speaker 2: Never fucked him? Never never fucked him.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you you never touched it.
Speaker 2: I've seen his dick.
Speaker 3: It just didn't get anywhere near my person in a
Speaker 3: way like I've seen and touched his dick.
Speaker 2: He touched it. The gag is it? I would tell you,
Speaker 2: I did you sit on his face? What you did?
Speaker 2: She not you.
Speaker 1: She just wanted the truth because we would be like, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't do nothing. I'd be like, when you say nothing,
Speaker 1: you mean something.
Speaker 2: Do you mean you didn't do anything?
Speaker 3: I said, I didn't have sex with him. Let me
Speaker 3: tell you what I did do, which was kind of
Speaker 3: fucked up. I'm in this relationship quote unquote for four
Speaker 3: months and we weren't having any sex.
Speaker 1: So there was this other guy who I was like,
Speaker 1: I have a friend that's doing that right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but there's another guy in Atlanta that she went to
Speaker 1: go see. There was a guy in Atlanta that I
Speaker 1: went to go and see. And I want to say
Speaker 1: I ain't ship because with the same money. I hope
Speaker 1: he isn't listening to this because he would kill me.
Speaker 2: He's all listening. They don't you don't have iTunes.
Speaker 3: Like I would use them that he would give me
Speaker 3: to fly the guy up from Atlanta to Pittsburgh to
Speaker 3: like me.
Speaker 2: A ticket to Atlanta's not that she's sounds expensive. It's fine.
Speaker 2: This kind of sounds like one of my stories.
Speaker 1: Wait, so it gets I got everything that I deserved
Speaker 1: after this.
Speaker 3: Well, so then what happened? So I start to feel
Speaker 3: really badly about this.
Speaker 2: You are a victim.
Speaker 1: Do not blame yourself this this is not your fault.
Speaker 2: Rashida, What were you wearing? What you did you have
Speaker 2: this on? Because if you did, I'm like, yeah, what
Speaker 2: he did it?
Speaker 3: And I mean I was like talking shit one night,
Speaker 3: kind of just like flirting with Bob and I was
Speaker 3: like you should come up to Pittsburgh and he was
Speaker 3: like okay and just got his car and drove up
Speaker 3: from Atlanta to Pittsburgh.
Speaker 2: Why And I was like.
Speaker 3: Wait no, Like so on the drive up, I'm like, wait,
Speaker 3: you you're really coming and he's like yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm like where are you going to stay?
Speaker 3: You can't stay in my apartment and he was like
Speaker 3: why and I was like, well, you don't pay bills here,
Speaker 3: so you can't stay here, Like how would you like
Speaker 3: exit perfectly executed?
Speaker 1: But you know that would make me drive even faster.
Speaker 1: I'm not paying no fucking bills.
Speaker 2: It's what you think. I'm into you money for money
Speaker 2: for the bills.
Speaker 3: Well, his thing was this because we did have a
Speaker 3: conversation about just like an allowance, and he didn't want
Speaker 3: to do that. He wanted to spend money on me.
Speaker 3: How much was your rent at the time living in Pittsburgh.
Speaker 3: My rent was six hundred and fifty dollars.
Speaker 2: I was I'm getting the ticket one way to Pittsford
Speaker 2: right now, and can do I don't know if they
Speaker 2: have Wi Fi there?
Speaker 3: Six fifty dollars, hugest apartment with like French doors.
Speaker 2: Fire. It was really beautiful. I love War Street. It
Speaker 2: was so beautiful.
Speaker 3: But like we had a I didn't tell him that
Speaker 3: my rent, my rent was that little. I lied and
Speaker 3: told him my rent was more, of course, probably like
Speaker 3: twelve hundred or sixteen. And we talked about like me
Speaker 3: quitting my job because I was really unhappy, and he
Speaker 3: knew I wanted to be an actress, and him just
Speaker 3: like giving me allowance. But we were trying to set
Speaker 3: another for everyone.
Speaker 2: So that was last in future invest.
Speaker 3: In trying to leverage. Well, you don't pay bills here,
Speaker 3: so you can't stay here. I was such a brag.
Speaker 3: I was also in my early twenties just being an ass.
Speaker 2: I love it. I love everything that you say. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it really made me happy. All right. So the gag
Speaker 2: is now I'm saying that.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: The gag is, so he comes and gets a hotel
Speaker 3: and the hotel is walking distance from my apartment, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, he knows where I lived and I never
Speaker 3: gave him my address.
Speaker 2: But he was sending you stuff.
Speaker 3: He was sending it to my job. I worked forty
Speaker 3: five minutes outside of where I am. You're telling me
Speaker 3: you you never dropped a pin on the fun You're.
Speaker 4: Telling me this was eight years ago. You were telling
Speaker 4: me that you sent he was sending a desktop to
Speaker 4: your job. He sent the desktop to my job, and what.
Speaker 2: Did your co work? Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, Rashida, No, no, no, the coworkers were like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're all getting new lafternoon.
Speaker 3: The only person I never wanted to give him my address,
Speaker 3: but the only person who really knew was the person
Speaker 3: who handled the mail. And the person who handled the
Speaker 3: mail was just like the homie. So she was all
Speaker 3: and on gift given Tuesday. She would be like, oh,
Speaker 3: she was like, you got some Tuesday, You got some
Speaker 3: given Tuesday.
Speaker 1: If I was I'm like, well, if you want this
Speaker 1: between me and you, I think I need to give.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would be like, yo, she's not getting this gift. Yeah,
Speaker 2: ain't right.
Speaker 3: I mean I was communicating with him every day. He
Speaker 3: was sending me tracking numbers. I was gonna get it.
Speaker 3: But so he found your address and he got I
Speaker 3: didn't even know this hotel existed.
Speaker 2: That's how I know. It was a motel. It was
Speaker 2: a it was a nice hotel, but like it was
Speaker 2: a seven. It was an Airbnb.
Speaker 3: It was like one of those hotels that only had
Speaker 3: like three or four rooms in it, like a house
Speaker 3: that had been converted into it.
Speaker 1: A little Victorian had been converted, little porch. Yes, it
Speaker 1: was a hostile.
Speaker 2: In a hospital.
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't coming to stay with me, so he
Speaker 3: was going to have to figure it out. But it
Speaker 3: was at that point I was like, oh, ship, he
Speaker 3: knows where I live. He has like he just knows things.
Speaker 3: So he bought me a Louis bag when he came up,
Speaker 3: and I was didn't wait wait, so you saw him
Speaker 3: he brought you a Louis bag, or he brought a
Speaker 3: Louis back to where you live. He brought a Louis
Speaker 3: back up with him from Atlanta as it for.
Speaker 2: Some little a little Lennox small purchase. Yeah, but I did.
Speaker 3: I wasn't one hundred percent in love with the Louis bag,
Speaker 3: And I told him, is it the one that had
Speaker 3: the cherries on it? No, it was just like a
Speaker 3: never fool but the small one. Yeah, it would like
Speaker 3: stab me in the shoulder, it was. I didn't love it.
Speaker 1: So you don't have a Louis Radars spent Harby wrong?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I care with you over are like, no, No,
Speaker 2: that's because I was a fucking bread.
Speaker 3: There would have been. There were times like when you
Speaker 3: sent me to y I saw pumps. I was like,
Speaker 3: they're just not doing anything for me. Did you send
Speaker 3: a gift for seat? Like because I didn't like his taste.
Speaker 1: I would strangle you such a bread, I would kill you.
Speaker 2: You hear what you said?
Speaker 3: I didn't like his tea, that ship. He liked that
Speaker 3: I was just a bratty, fucking princess. So the more
Speaker 3: he would be like.
Speaker 2: That's what you did until he had that upper cut
Speaker 2: on you, honey.
Speaker 1: Today, Wait, I just I want to hear about when
Speaker 1: it turns okay.
Speaker 3: So this after the New York excuse me, after the
Speaker 3: Pittsburgh trip, I was like, Okay, I don't treat him well.
Speaker 2: I need to break this off. So I started feeling
Speaker 2: really really wit. You said you don't treat him well,
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm so I was awful to him. Did
Speaker 2: you not hear all this? You're like, I can't do
Speaker 2: this anymore because it's not you. It's me. Literally, it's me.
Speaker 3: And like we had a couple of conversations about how
Speaker 3: I just wasn't happy, and I felt like like.
Speaker 2: Since this is why we can't have nice things.
Speaker 3: So and then the gifts were like slowly starting to
Speaker 3: roll back, I think because it had been four months
Speaker 3: and I hadn't fucked him.
Speaker 2: The gifts weren't coming every Tuesday like they used to.
Speaker 2: It was like every other Tuesday or yeah, liked.
Speaker 3: It would just be like come back down to Atlanta
Speaker 3: and I'll take you shopping, but I don't want to
Speaker 3: send you this gift. Like I would send him links
Speaker 3: to shit and he'll be like, just come down here
Speaker 3: and I'll take you shopping.
Speaker 2: You're sending him here if he was sending him your
Speaker 2: Amazon witch list.
Speaker 3: So oh, he was getting a Nieman Marcus Wishless on
Speaker 3: a regular on the regular because we didn't have a
Speaker 3: names of Pittsburgh. And he would be like, just come
Speaker 3: down to Atlanta and I'll take you shop. And I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I don't want to leave and I got stuff to
Speaker 3: do up here, and he's like, no, you don't just come.
Speaker 3: So I just felt like really forced to, Like he
Speaker 3: really wanted to fuck me, and I didn't want to
Speaker 3: fuck him, and I started feeling bad.
Speaker 1: So now I don't know your lineup of dudes you've
Speaker 1: had sex with, but could you.
Speaker 2: You couldn't have give him a little something? I probably should.
Speaker 2: You could have.
Speaker 1: He would have asked so much like this is what
Speaker 1: I'm this is what I have a problem with. We
Speaker 1: would be like, I'm not gonna have sex for money,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, you used to sleep with somebody who
Speaker 1: slept on the floor like they didn't even have a
Speaker 1: bed like you slept with people for no money.
Speaker 2: For no money and they had no bed, he had
Speaker 2: no bed.
Speaker 1: No, you got right down there, I love. But my
Speaker 1: question for you is you said that you've sat on
Speaker 1: his face. After that happens, how do you then go
Speaker 1: back to your your full bed across the room and
Speaker 1: we leave.
Speaker 2: The same bed that night and he just cud on me.
Speaker 1: But look, you never had a situation like that, And
Speaker 1: I just rolled over. You can you can, you can
Speaker 1: eat me out, But that's it. You never had a
Speaker 1: situation like that, not with somebody that I definitely didn't
Speaker 1: want to bang in a hotel where we spent the night.
Speaker 1: It's it's like wham bam, sit on the chair, leave
Speaker 1: right she stayed the night.
Speaker 3: Well, we had a different kind we had a different arrangement, Marie.
Speaker 3: When how was I gonna go?
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's why I'm asking you.
Speaker 1: You crazy, because I'd be afraid that I would wake
Speaker 1: up dead, Like every gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I was a little every so often I would be
Speaker 3: like a little afraid.
Speaker 1: Did you sleep with one eye open? Like you didn't sleep?
Speaker 1: I would just stay Did you bring a silk scarf
Speaker 1: or no? Did you wrap your hair. Yeah, great, I.
Speaker 3: Wrapped my hair and I did sleep with one. I
Speaker 3: would just be afraid that he gonna take it. That's
Speaker 3: it exactly.
Speaker 1: Just wake up, like I gotta just wake up and
Speaker 1: here be like, well we could do just the easy
Speaker 1: way way.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: You know what I never I was young. I never
Speaker 3: thought I'd never considered that. Who is your friends considered that?
Speaker 3: I mean my sirlfriends was telling me girl just I
Speaker 3: was like, well, we don't have any chemistry.
Speaker 1: She was like, if you don't get some fucking liquid chemistry, anxious,
Speaker 1: some liqui chemistry.
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, it's never gonna happen. So
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to sound like we're forcy you Like, no,
Speaker 1: you guys kind of are I feel really bullied right
Speaker 1: now to have had sex with me eight years ago?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm surprised. Listen.
Speaker 1: I applaud you for getting all these things and then
Speaker 1: four months of.
Speaker 3: No, no, d It's interesting, how good, dude? How like
Speaker 3: whoa men behave when you ain't sucking them? That's crazy
Speaker 3: because you know everything the news right now is shout
Speaker 3: out to Matt Lower.
Speaker 1: They tend to act Mario. Mary said I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: shout out to Bill Cosby said, I'm gonna take it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So well, so I'm not have a text message
Speaker 3: and I'm like, listen, this isn't working out. I'm not happy,
Speaker 3: You're not happy. I'm not good to you. I really
Speaker 3: think that you should just move on. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: And initially he was like, okay, cool, you know, if
Speaker 3: you need anything, let me know. I wish you a
Speaker 3: lifetime of happiness. And I was that's a red a
Speaker 3: lifetime of happiness. I mean, your lifetime about to be
Speaker 3: cut short.
Speaker 2: Lifetime, so girl.
Speaker 3: Then maybe maybe two minutes later he sends me a
Speaker 3: text message or like, he calls me and he was like,
Speaker 3: I just want us to check in and make sure
Speaker 3: this is what you want to do.
Speaker 2: Are you sure this is what you want to do?
Speaker 1: He and loading that gun. He's like, city, are you
Speaker 1: loading a musket right now?
Speaker 2: I am? I am. You know it's not funny because
Speaker 2: this is my life. I know almost.
Speaker 3: So I was like, yes, I'm sure this is what
Speaker 3: I want to do. So then he goes nuts that.
Speaker 3: I go to bed that night, I wake up the
Speaker 3: next morning, nineteen, this phone calls twelve voice messages. He's
Speaker 3: talking crazy you do you have any boxes? Do you
Speaker 3: have any bags? You need to send me back my things.
Speaker 2: So now he.
Speaker 1: Wants on the things. These are my things, these are
Speaker 1: and that's what I said. I was like, Bob, I've
Speaker 1: sold them already.
Speaker 3: I was like, Bobe, seriously your things. Are you going
Speaker 3: to walk around in a pair of lubatons and we
Speaker 3: bag and Michelle You're like, yeah, it's so bitch work.
Speaker 3: But you you and I both know this is work.
Speaker 3: This isn't for you. And he was like, Rashida, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna drop it. You need to send me back
Speaker 3: these things. So it turned into Initially I was like, no,
Speaker 3: fuck that, he's just bluffing. So the next day he
Speaker 3: calls me. Oh, he sends me a text message and
Speaker 3: he said who is blah blah blah and blah blah
Speaker 3: blah was my father's name. He went and found my
Speaker 3: father on line, found my father's phone number, called my
Speaker 3: dad in the morning and basically said, I was my
Speaker 3: name is Bob. I was in a relationship with your daughter, Rashida.
Speaker 3: I bought her a bunch of gifts because I thought
Speaker 3: I was gonna marry her. She broke up with me,
Speaker 3: and now she needs to send me these gifts back
Speaker 3: before we have a problem.
Speaker 2: What did what did Archa? Your dad?
Speaker 3: Arthur called me, and Arthur was like, Rashida, who's this
Speaker 3: guy Bob crying on my shoulders talking about he was
Speaker 3: gonna marry he was you need.
Speaker 2: To send h.
Speaker 3: And yeah, and so I just my dad didn't know
Speaker 3: the whole tea like my dad didn't know him much
Speaker 3: older than me. My dad didn't know we met on
Speaker 3: sugar daddy dot com. Like he told your dad that too.
Speaker 2: He did not. Well, that was nice of Bob not
Speaker 2: to really well.
Speaker 3: I think it would have made my father because it
Speaker 3: just made me sound like a gold digger and not
Speaker 3: like a gold digger with a man who was looking
Speaker 3: for some young pussy. Like we were both wrong.
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, let's let's recreate the phone call.
Speaker 1: But like with my dad, Sydney ahead and you can
Speaker 1: be h Bob and I'm gonna be my dad.
Speaker 2: Go ahead. Can we not do that? Is this a
Speaker 2: samuell fulstine? What is this? Sam Yell?
Speaker 1: I just get let off. I'm not doing it anything
Speaker 1: that's so stupid.
Speaker 2: My dad, my dad's picking up? Did hang it up?
Speaker 2: I mean this went on, y'all are asshole? Sorry?
Speaker 3: Wait this this went on for weeks, Like he kept
Speaker 3: calling my dad. He kept calling, just being crazy and calling.
Speaker 2: Would have around with me. I'm like, I ain't got
Speaker 2: no dad, so we go call. He was harassing my family.
Speaker 2: The next thing I know, who are you gonna call?
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to call Marie like you laugh? Wait wait,
Speaker 2: wait you laugh. He was calling my friends and just
Speaker 2: cussing them out. He was he was cussing them out,
Speaker 2: nigger bitch, you water bitch.
Speaker 3: Because he bought me an iPhone, so I had a
Speaker 3: phone that I had he and then I had the iPad.
Speaker 3: So all three of my of my devices have now
Speaker 3: been hacked and are being used by him. On my
Speaker 3: personal cell phone, but all of like all of my emails,
Speaker 3: my social media accounts, he logged and said anything. He
Speaker 3: never had the passwords, but he reset all of the passwords.
Speaker 3: I guess you can like say that you forgot your
Speaker 3: password and then just like.
Speaker 1: Research trying to put it in and then if you
Speaker 1: put it in, you get locked out.
Speaker 2: He locked all my LinkedIn girl, how do you lock?
Speaker 2: How you? He was playing with the LinkedIn. It took
Speaker 2: me a year and a half to time with the
Speaker 2: LinkedIn too, because I did not nobody time.
Speaker 3: Bitch wait called nor Stroms up, the same norse Stroms
Speaker 3: that he would be calling up to like give them
Speaker 3: his credit card to say that I to like pay
Speaker 3: for things for me. Reported the cards stolen. He was
Speaker 3: paying for personal training classes for me. Called up the
Speaker 3: boxing gym, reported.
Speaker 2: You played a lot of Okay, so okay. So he's
Speaker 2: a fan of the fraud.
Speaker 3: Also committed every calling everything fraud. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send him back some stuff because this demon
Speaker 3: is really like you called mucking with my.
Speaker 2: With my pure life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what things did you? Did you just throw
Speaker 1: a bunch of things in a box or did you.
Speaker 3: Like there were two shipments. I sent back the iPad,
Speaker 3: I sent back the iPhone. I sent back the Louis bag.
Speaker 3: I sat back, like one of those really expected it
Speaker 3: was like a four hundred dollars fucking flat iron he
Speaker 3: bought me. I sent back the watch. I sent back
Speaker 3: some jewelry. God, he gave me blueprints for a house
Speaker 3: that he wanted to build me. I stuffed the box.
Speaker 3: He sent you a little she by Chara. He sent
Speaker 3: me a shot Chara blueprint.
Speaker 1: Bet yo, I watch out, guy, watch out.
Speaker 2: I was dying man.
Speaker 1: That house was banging, bitch, yeah, but like the driveway
Speaker 1: was never completed, so.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys watch real house. Just Google.
Speaker 3: She sent back like ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,
Speaker 3: and the only thing I didn't send back was the
Speaker 3: computer because I was like, if I sent back the
Speaker 3: computer as it is now, he'll have access to too
Speaker 3: much of like my information.
Speaker 2: Did you really send that shit? I would up to.
Speaker 1: I was like, this ship is burnt. I burned everything
Speaker 1: it is. I want an Angela Bassett that ship, and
Speaker 1: then like it's gone, I sent back ash. I'll send
Speaker 1: them ash like.
Speaker 2: And ship. That's it.
Speaker 3: Well, here's the okie doke. So soon because then he
Speaker 3: can't do nothing.
Speaker 2: What are he gonna do?
Speaker 3: Is he's been doing no Sidney, he was crazy because
Speaker 3: here's what happened.
Speaker 2: I you too.
Speaker 3: I searched him on Yahoo before we started dating, and
Speaker 3: I didn't find anything.
Speaker 2: Grew out and it was different Google.
Speaker 1: I googled him after y'all got me streaming in these
Speaker 1: people's ears.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Let's I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: So I googled him after he started acting crazy and
Speaker 3: found like court dockets.
Speaker 2: He's done this before, so he said, have you yahooed him?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I didn't know nobody of everything you said. You
Speaker 1: said Yahoo. I was like, nobody says, nobody says, nobody
Speaker 1: says I can't.
Speaker 2: I do not follow.
Speaker 1: No one says years ago, you still got a Google hat.
Speaker 2: We weren't googling like you were. Be embarrassed to say
Speaker 2: that you googled a person back then. Deanna Taylor had
Speaker 2: a song Google Me Baby, you was in Google thousand
Speaker 2: years ago.
Speaker 3: You're right, that's when the song was probably on the
Speaker 3: radio while you were yahoo him and I, yeah, he
Speaker 3: searched him and nothing came up. And then when I
Speaker 3: Google searched him, a bitch found court dockets from Texas,
Speaker 3: and I was like, ooh, he's not to be fucked with.
Speaker 3: So I was genuinely afraid. So what did you vandalized?
Speaker 3: My father's car got vandalized. He was not fucking around.
Speaker 3: He would have killed me. He like, I had to
Speaker 3: go back to Atlanta for my girlfriends. Can we take
Speaker 3: one step back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got time.
Speaker 3: So my girlfriend was getting married in Atlanta, but she
Speaker 3: was having her bachelorette in Miami for a weekend.
Speaker 2: I was like, I.
Speaker 1: Need three thousand dollars so I can host my girlfriend's bachelorette.
Speaker 2: I'm bob when we were on good term, that's cur.
Speaker 1: So I can host my girlfriends, so I can host Marie.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't dare since.
Speaker 1: I get I get that thousand dollars and be like,
Speaker 1: since I can't come to your blot.
Speaker 3: We fucked that money up. Now we can't read up
Speaker 3: private chef bitch. Oh we was fucking that money up
Speaker 3: so much. Three thousand just three thousand, Well, I mean
Speaker 3: everybody kind of brought. I wouldn't have been able to
Speaker 3: do what they did had I not taken his money.
Speaker 2: It's the point, like, we just fucked them. So they
Speaker 2: all needed to get it power to get you out
Speaker 2: of this situation. You like, remember that turned in Miami?
Speaker 2: That yeah, absolutely that was him.
Speaker 1: So since it's time to put your brains together so
Speaker 1: we can get out of this match.
Speaker 2: So we can't get out.
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend was fine because that was the one she
Speaker 1: was getting married to. The dude who played for the Browns.
Speaker 2: So she was. She was so she didn't even need
Speaker 2: the three thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they was getting money, but like I needed it
Speaker 3: because I wasn't getting it and I was only getting
Speaker 3: it from him. But I know at one point in
Speaker 3: our relationship he was I was like, you know.
Speaker 2: What, you were really gonna call it when you're teen?
Speaker 2: Our team.
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, you're not sending me gifts
Speaker 3: as much anymore, and he was like, well, whatever I
Speaker 3: buy you, you should be able to get for yourself.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, what the fuck I need
Speaker 1: you for? What the fuck do I need?
Speaker 2: If? What the fuck do I need you? Fool anything?
Speaker 1: You getting PDST she can do all things through crisis
Speaker 1: strengthens her wallet.
Speaker 3: Bitch, I don't if I can buy this on my own,
Speaker 3: what the fuck do I need?
Speaker 2: I'm clearly not in it for the good D That's true.
Speaker 1: Well, also, Rachida, this is what I want to say. Yeah, Also,
Speaker 1: if I had the money to buy this stuff, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't buy this stuff with my own money.
Speaker 2: I'm using somebody else's money. The things, I mean, these
Speaker 2: are things.
Speaker 1: Why would you spend twelve hundred dollars on shoes.
Speaker 2: That's dumb. You use somebody else's money, get those shoes.
Speaker 1: If I'm wearing them, you wear the new A real
Speaker 1: baller okay boom. Also, then only wear those shoes like
Speaker 1: three or four times because they're not going to people.
Speaker 2: And people are gonna hate us after this.
Speaker 1: Nah, they're gonna love us because they're like we're giving
Speaker 1: them so like they know so much, they know this
Speaker 1: is guys.
Speaker 3: I am not like this anymore. Rashida raggedy expt raggedy.
Speaker 3: This was so ragged.
Speaker 1: No, but girl, this is what happened. This happens to people,
Speaker 1: whether you whether they say it or not. This happens
Speaker 1: on a regular basis not happen. It's not us, girl,
Speaker 1: because we don't do we pay for our own things
Speaker 1: and our own ubers because we're because we're idiots.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I pay for my own things now, and
Speaker 3: I take pride and paying for my own shit now.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you have to go through a whole ordeal.
Speaker 2: I've learned a lot.
Speaker 1: So he broke into your car in Pittsburgh and your
Speaker 1: dad's car in New York.
Speaker 2: He was hiring people to crazy to our thing because
Speaker 2: he has the money. Oh can I tell you this story.
Speaker 3: So when I googled him and recently just to make
Speaker 3: sure he's like so often. I google him just to
Speaker 3: make sure, and I found that he appealed a court
Speaker 3: case with his ex girlfriend. So apparently the assault charge
Speaker 3: that he had that I found initially was he was
Speaker 3: arguing with his ex girlfriend. They were both drunk. They
Speaker 3: were arguing in a parking lot at a grocery store.
Speaker 3: She turns to walk away. She gets hit in the
Speaker 3: back of the head with the stick, falls to the ground,
Speaker 3: is being beaten with a stick, rolls over to defend
Speaker 3: herself and starts getting punched in her face. A passerby
Speaker 3: sees this bob runs off. The cops come to his house.
Speaker 3: They see blood on his hands, his knuckles are cut up,
Speaker 3: blood on his shirt, blood on his shoes.
Speaker 2: This bitch did glove.
Speaker 3: Bitch, this bitch nigga appeals the case and his defense
Speaker 3: was on the assault charge. Well, if her back was turned,
Speaker 3: how did she know I hit her? You arrogant son of.
Speaker 2: A bitch, Nidney.
Speaker 3: If we are beefing, even if we're beefing and we're
Speaker 3: arguing in a parking lot and I turned to walk away,
Speaker 3: and someone else I was running up to beat me
Speaker 3: upside the head with the fuck we still got from?
Speaker 2: Where come from? So wait, when he appealed, did he win?
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. I didn't. I don't. They
Speaker 2: hadn't made a decision at the They had a thing
Speaker 2: about it though, They were like, how did she know? Damn?
Speaker 2: But which somebody else could have done it? You standing
Speaker 2: right there?
Speaker 3: No, No, I just felt I read that and I
Speaker 3: was like, oh no, he's for real crazy. First, so
Speaker 3: he beat up a chick, you know, in broad daylight
Speaker 3: in a parking lot, in a parking lot, parking lot,
Speaker 3: pisson what kind of.
Speaker 2: Parking line was?
Speaker 1: It was like a grocery store, stopping shop, trader Joe's.
Speaker 2: I saw it. So it was like there were people
Speaker 2: enough people they.
Speaker 1: Had to be whole foods because those people cared, they care.
Speaker 2: I saw it, Yeah, because like I.
Speaker 1: Came in here to pay three dollars for one tomato,
Speaker 1: and I saw the whole thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, so let me tell you. And I ended
Speaker 3: up moving out of Pitts, moving out of Pittsburgh's.
Speaker 2: Clearly, Yeah, I moved, trying to get your ass out, Yes, move,
Speaker 2: I moved to New York to be some comedy.
Speaker 1: Make my parents proud, take my titties and go because
Speaker 1: I took my titties and I dipped.
Speaker 3: Cant Hurricane Sandy is now happening, so well, yeah, I
Speaker 3: was here for that too. It was it was bad.
Speaker 3: We had no lights. People literally had fish in their basement.
Speaker 2: The running into your home.
Speaker 1: So I was dating somebody at the time who lived
Speaker 1: in the financial district, and it was a mess.
Speaker 3: Yes, it was. It's messy. So I fell asleep because
Speaker 3: there was nothing to do. I roll over that one
Speaker 3: or two percent battery left because I can't charge my phone.
Speaker 3: And every so often, after I found out about the violence,
Speaker 3: after I googled him, I stopped responding.
Speaker 2: And about two.
Speaker 3: Years had passed, and every so often he would just
Speaker 3: reach out, reach out, apologize and be like, send me
Speaker 3: an email. You know, I was in the women's shoes
Speaker 3: section in Neiman Marcus and I thought of you. As
Speaker 3: crazy as it sounds, I miss sending you gifts. It's
Speaker 3: a shame the way things ended.
Speaker 1: Like he would just constantly like send me emails and
Speaker 1: text messages.
Speaker 2: It's a trap, and I would respond because now I
Speaker 2: know he's violent. But he didn't know that.
Speaker 3: I knew that, and I rolled over and I looked
Speaker 3: at my phone and it was a text from him,
Speaker 3: and it was like, wasshita, how are you and your
Speaker 3: family holding up in the storm. But he had no
Speaker 3: business knowing that I was in New York because I
Speaker 3: hadn't talked to him two years.
Speaker 2: So I was dragging device on your car. Oh my god,
Speaker 2: now I'm scared. I lost it. It's time I lost it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you're putting our lives on the line.
Speaker 1: They need the people need the unofficial expert. So you're
Speaker 1: sucking up our business. Zah in Jersey sentiment, Oh, Adrian.
Speaker 5: Adrian, Adrian, if you're listening, Oh my god, she is
Speaker 5: s O S s O S no.
Speaker 3: But let me tell you because I wasn't responding for
Speaker 3: two years because I.
Speaker 2: Was afraid two years since you didn't change your phone number.
Speaker 2: I changed my phone number. Bitch, she got the new number. Bitch.
Speaker 2: Did you not hear me?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he can find out where my dad
Speaker 1: lives and dad's name.
Speaker 2: Did your dad give him the new number?
Speaker 1: No, my father's unequivocally you're not. Your dad was like, well,
Speaker 1: you need to stop calling me. A six, Sam, you
Speaker 1: just text.
Speaker 2: Keep it to you. My father wouldn't not. But I
Speaker 2: fucked us.
Speaker 3: But I hadn't been saying anything because I was so
Speaker 3: afraid of him. And then when I read that text
Speaker 3: message and it was just clear that he was never
Speaker 3: gonna stop talking me. I wrote him back and I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what I sent you back everything.
Speaker 3: You're fucking insane. I never want to talk to you again.
Speaker 3: I think you're sick. I think you're mentally ill. I
Speaker 3: don't want to hear from you. My family doesn't want
Speaker 3: to hear from you. Stop reaching out to us. Said
Speaker 3: this at one percent. I said it was the last
Speaker 3: that I had and it was worth it. And he
Speaker 3: wrote me back like a crazy psycho bob like he is,
Speaker 3: and he was like, I think you don't know who
Speaker 3: this is. This is a white boy from Syracuse. But
Speaker 3: it's okay. You won't ever hear from me again. But
Speaker 3: he had said that before, he said, this is a
Speaker 3: white boy from Sarah Girl. I don't even know what
Speaker 3: that fucking means, but he said that, and he he's
Speaker 3: told me before that he would never I would never
Speaker 3: hear from him again. And of course I've heard from him,
Speaker 3: So I was like sitting on ready like all right,
Speaker 3: fuck it, like I'm gonna I got to do. But
Speaker 3: then I never heard from him again to date. That
Speaker 3: was Hurricane Sandy, So what was that twenty twelve? I
Speaker 3: hadn't get to hear from him again, and I was
Speaker 3: talking to my girlfriend recently, the same one who I
Speaker 3: got the advice from initially, and I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: having a different issue with a different guy, not a stalker.
Speaker 3: When I need to stop. He needs to stop texting me,
Speaker 3: stop calling me. I don't want to be with you.
Speaker 3: That was mean and uncalled for ya.
Speaker 2: What was a new phone?
Speaker 1: Because you can't be telling somebody to stop calling you
Speaker 1: from the phone they about you.
Speaker 2: That's just the fact that is. That's what it is.
Speaker 2: This new gentleman did not buy me a phone. But yeah,
Speaker 2: you didn't.
Speaker 1: You didn't get him to get you a new phone.
Speaker 1: Well no, no, you're foolish. I'm disappointed in you.
Speaker 3: But with that being said, he needed to stop calling me,
Speaker 3: and I was like, but remember one when I stood
Speaker 3: up to Psycho Bob and I told him to stop
Speaker 3: calling me. He stopped calling me, and my girlfriend was like, girl,
Speaker 3: here in jail, he and jail, and he lost his possessions. Bitch,
Speaker 3: that's why he ain't calling you. You ain't scared nobody.
Speaker 3: She's probably right, but either way, I ain't heard from
Speaker 3: him and it's been about five years, so I'm grateful.
Speaker 2: So wait, he's also going knock on wood. So he's
Speaker 2: in jail.
Speaker 3: I hope not because of you, though, No, no, I
Speaker 3: mean I went to the cops. They said that he
Speaker 3: had to actually hit me, and because it was in
Speaker 3: order to get a restraining.
Speaker 4: Order, and because it because it was since you should
Speaker 4: have pushed yourself in the shape should girl got you
Speaker 4: a little white battle Laura, a little sharpen bottle and dude,
Speaker 4: what what she did in the movie and been like, no.
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't do that.
Speaker 3: I did a little blood, I had lawyer sentences and
Speaker 3: the sistercries, it wouldn't stop it.
Speaker 2: Well, none of that matters.
Speaker 1: You don't you not watch the movie show, You don't
Speaker 1: watch Lifetime suits, You don't you didn't watch enough.
Speaker 2: I saw that movie.
Speaker 1: I said, Wow, this white woman, I mean, this Spanish
Speaker 1: woman who thinks she's white in this movie.
Speaker 2: You know Jennifer Lopez Italian? Oh yeah, I was Italians.
Speaker 2: Is that's what we're doing? Is was Italy? Okay, I
Speaker 2: see it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was my getting. I haven't been stopped
Speaker 3: in that way since exact way. Well, we have a
Speaker 3: couple of minutes left. Wow, else have you been stalked?
Speaker 1: No, I haven't really been stocked since the way you
Speaker 1: are over here, and I might be just don't stop.
Speaker 1: I see the way you are over here, and I
Speaker 1: might be texting you later here.
Speaker 2: You know what I can't get you know why? Yourself?
Speaker 1: But Adri get you some I'll get you some rainbow.
Speaker 1: I get you some Steve Madding. I get you some
Speaker 1: tin spots. Yea yea strawberry be shipped ship strawberry.
Speaker 2: Get you some Chica. Get you some bolts. Get you
Speaker 2: some Burmington Cold Factory. Get you some Target. Get some
Speaker 2: wet seal. Get you some So what did you learn
Speaker 2: from this?
Speaker 1: If anybody's listening to this, who is currently being stalked
Speaker 1: or in the process of getting ready to stalk somebody,
Speaker 1: or in the process of sugar daddy, what's what tips?
Speaker 1: Just give us like a couple like real quick.
Speaker 2: Honestly, happiness is priceless. That's not delete. I need money.
Speaker 2: You've been black, y'all. Don't do it, seriously, don't do it.
Speaker 2: I would. I don't even online date now because of that.
Speaker 2: I went to therapy.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: My insurance. I just want to know. This is a
Speaker 2: victim here, your victim. What did you what did what
Speaker 2: did you have on a therapy? What did you wear?
Speaker 2: Did you wear this lingering? You know what? Guys, girl,
Speaker 2: you already looked down and check.
Speaker 1: You were yelling, and I was like, okay, keep yelling,
Speaker 1: keep you there's they're sitting good, great, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2: I'm overwhelmed. I've worked hard to look the way I fantastic,
Speaker 2: which is why you have stalkers looking good?
Speaker 1: You have you had, I said.
Speaker 3: My homegirl, the one who the whole girl who gives
Speaker 3: me my good advice. She told me, now you are
Speaker 3: officially a bad bitch, because every bad bitch has had
Speaker 3: a stalker.
Speaker 2: And it kind of worry. What kind of bitches are we?
Speaker 1: Just we're loud. Didn't want to stop him. They always
Speaker 1: talking to damn much. The two muppets from that Buppets.
Speaker 3: Oive he truly, happiness is priceless. I work a job
Speaker 3: now that I love. I have a career that I love.
Speaker 3: I do what I enjoy and I make good money.
Speaker 2: You do. You are right, I should have and buy
Speaker 2: me a bag. Yeah, you don't bringing us to no breakfast.
Speaker 1: You've got these jobs and ship a real petty. So
Speaker 1: I just for Christmas, I just want one tooth. Can
Speaker 1: you just hit me up with just a one veneer?
Speaker 1: I'll just take one. You're so stupid.
Speaker 2: Did you keep anything besides the computer? The computer? The pants? Pants?
Speaker 2: I'm assuming he brought you some like lingerie to get
Speaker 2: that lingerie. So you're saying the thing you got on
Speaker 2: right now, you bought that.
Speaker 3: I purchased that purchase. I didn't give him back any
Speaker 3: of the money that he gave us.
Speaker 2: More n it would have been all sprint.
Speaker 1: Okay, say that money was in Miami. That money is
Speaker 1: in strippers bank account right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that money was spent in the computer because it
Speaker 3: wasn't really about the money.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 3: I sent him back over ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,
Speaker 3: but he wouldn't leave me alone.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you sent it. I would have blocked
Speaker 2: and punched myself in the face, Like.
Speaker 3: When someone treats you that badly, you kind of just
Speaker 3: don't want to even look at the ship.
Speaker 2: You said when he treats you that you were doing
Speaker 2: a lot of bad. I wouldn't know. I was aw
Speaker 2: This is I was awful that I wanted to break up.
Speaker 2: It wasn't really a relations it was a great job.
Speaker 1: You should have given him two weeks notice and then
Speaker 1: you should have been like, in two weeks, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be here no more. It was that's it. That's
Speaker 1: what you hit him with the text. You hit him
Speaker 1: with the Burger Sex and the city. I can't do
Speaker 1: this no more post posted text and then that's why
Speaker 1: he called.
Speaker 2: You iPhone Apple.
Speaker 1: They got like a little posted thing too that you
Speaker 1: could like electronic post it to him.
Speaker 2: With that shut up.
Speaker 3: Another reason why I gave him back some of the
Speaker 3: stuff because I didn't know this, but he was stealing
Speaker 3: money from his father's company.
Speaker 2: And sis, and I didn't want to get involved in that. Oh,
Speaker 2: now you care about the day. You're not here for the.
Speaker 1: You're like it's father's days. Well, I'm not here for
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm here for some money laundering.
Speaker 2: Ya.
Speaker 1: I've been doing I've been doing that all my life.
Speaker 2: Where can people listening catch you Oh my god, but
Speaker 2: do you really want to give out your information. I
Speaker 2: feel like this is not for you time. I feel
Speaker 2: like we should just put another picture up.
Speaker 3: Well, you guys have sad my whole name, so we
Speaker 3: didn't want to find especially it's like, oh, Bob listened
Speaker 3: to podcasts in jail now.
Speaker 1: Only the minimum money to listen to. Yeah, it's not
Speaker 1: gonna be this one.
Speaker 3: They want to look at stuff so they have things
Speaker 3: to jerk off too. They don't want to listen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't have anything posted for them off to.
Speaker 2: Yeah a nice picture.
Speaker 3: They watching basketball, wives and love and hip hop so
Speaker 3: they could jerk off.
Speaker 2: She bushed your ray and stuff.
Speaker 1: Well, Rushi does thank you so much for being This
Speaker 1: has been a great episode, Siddy, did you learn anything.
Speaker 2: I'm like, i'mita.
Speaker 1: I just needed to be your friend at the time,
Speaker 1: because I would It would have played out totally different, totally.
Speaker 1: I'd have been like, well, give by my number exactly,
Speaker 1: and then I would have had him for four months.
Speaker 2: Then Sidney would have him perfour months and that's it.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm telling you, I had sex, would have due
Speaker 1: who had homeless hair, so like homeless hair, homeless heirless
Speaker 1: hair lice. What that means is it's just like real madic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he thought he was doing the weekend thing, but before the.
Speaker 3: Weekend with the weekend, was it bob Bob had homeless hair.
Speaker 3: It was like salt pepper, but he had homeless he no, no, no, no, it.
Speaker 2: Wasn't that this guy was in a band. You're trying
Speaker 2: to lock.
Speaker 1: You kept be going great and trying to last forty something.
Speaker 1: Get some dreadlocks. Oh hell, that was too old. That's
Speaker 1: rick Flex's he was crazy. What I would have did,
Speaker 1: I would have hit him with the I would have
Speaker 1: had sex with him, but the sex would have been
Speaker 1: so bad that he'd be like, you know what, Actually,
Speaker 1: I'm almost sad. Considered not brushing my teeth for like
Speaker 1: five days. Bro's that means I'm not doing gens. But also, Sydney,
Speaker 1: my box is too good for it to be bad.
Speaker 1: So even if I'm laying there, he'd have been liked
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, Sidney, the box is white
Speaker 1: and ripe.
Speaker 2: The boxes top shelf.
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten a desktop where your desktop at shot?
Speaker 1: I got I got rent paid for a year since
Speaker 1: shouts how good.
Speaker 2: The boxes shut both of us. Well, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: talk about message.
Speaker 1: We well okay, all right, Well this is where we're
Speaker 1: gonna leave you guys today, join us for all the
Speaker 1: mess that you missed today on Heron. Yeah, we're gonna
Speaker 1: we're gonna have to do a whole another episode we
Speaker 1: do uh, we do uh an hour of honesty hour Yeah,
Speaker 1: which we don't lie about anything, and it's we say
Speaker 1: all the things that we wanted to say because we
Speaker 1: couldn't get a word in with you, Rashidah.
Speaker 2: So sorry, you had a lot to say. Booth, it
Speaker 2: was your time. Thanks for having me. Thank you so
Speaker 2: much for doing it. Yeah, sign up pat On.
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