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Speaker 1: Hi, Hello, Welcome to the Unofficial Expert Podcast.

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Speaker 2: With Sydney and.

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Speaker 1: Her male friend Marie. Yes, I don't know why you pause,

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Speaker 1: like you don't know what your name is, quiet Storm.

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Speaker 1: Your voice is very like it's a it's a wbls.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is very wbls quiet Storm on the line.

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Speaker 2: Right now. We got ron Eisley. Yes, that's you, Marie.

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Speaker 1: It's so deep, but you know whatever, this is the

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Speaker 1: time of year where I sound like.

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Speaker 2: I get so deep in. I don't think it's deep in.

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Speaker 2: You're gross.

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Speaker 1: That's just a different song. E, You're nasty.

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Speaker 2: Listen. SID paid that phone bill, Okay, I gotta do

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Speaker 2: it please. Oh no, I just paid it just in

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Speaker 2: case you under them. So what's going on?

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Speaker 1: We are living our best lives? Not really, it's been

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Speaker 1: a rough November was rough. What Oh my god? I

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Speaker 1: made like no money and spend.

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Speaker 2: All my money. No, that's not true. That's a fact.

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Speaker 1: I was looking through my uh my little planner for

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Speaker 1: the year and like I didn't even have any Like

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Speaker 1: I didn't write anything in November because I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, since you got two gigs, you got two gigs.

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Speaker 2: I hit somebody else up.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yo, do you need more people for

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Speaker 1: holiday parties? Because me and Marie are available. We're working

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Speaker 1: a holiday party this week. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just some more I work in

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Speaker 2: a holiday party. I mean we gonna strip.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just came to dance for Junior's party.

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to dance. That's it. Real players club.

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Speaker 1: Mistletoe on my belly button. Just you gotta kiss below

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Speaker 1: the missiles out my snapchat out and everything. I'm like, ah,

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited. I am, I really am. That's it. Sis.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? How are you doing? What were

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Speaker 1: you an expert in this week? I'm a I'm an

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Speaker 1: expert in seeing people that listen to the podcast and

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Speaker 1: then then recapping the podcast in front of my girl.

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Speaker 2: That's what happened. So I was. I went to New Jersey. Uh,

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Speaker 2: there was a dinner. My girlfriend's friend had a dinner

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Speaker 2: for her son, his son. There's a lot of characters

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Speaker 2: in this. It's a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, son's one of the There was somebody there who's

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Speaker 1: a fan of the podcast and was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you and Marie are so freaking funny. Who y'all be

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Speaker 1: There was an episode you was getting on Adrian. I

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Speaker 1: was like, wait what wow? In front of Adrian, I

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Speaker 1: was like, wait, what are you talking? When she got

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Speaker 1: lay sick?

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Speaker 2: Well she woh sick.

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Speaker 1: He went up to her and was like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: just got laysick and she was like, yeah, how'd you know?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I heard it on the podcast. I was like,

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Speaker 2: wait what man? It was a man, a messy man.

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Speaker 1: It was a man that was saying all this shout

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Speaker 1: out to Zi with your big ass mouth.

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Speaker 2: Hey zi Za. I was like, I listen to it.

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Speaker 1: I listened to Blocas at work and I can't I

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Speaker 1: can't stop laughing.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny messy which is on the podcast. It

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Speaker 2: was good. It was good. So now Adrian was like,

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Speaker 2: should I listen to the podcast?

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Speaker 1: I can't believe she stopped listening to the podcast. I

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Speaker 1: told her to time, and I can't believe.

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Speaker 2: She listened to you.

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Speaker 1: She should listen to me. It's for her own good.

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Speaker 1: I don't need her coming back and be like so

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Speaker 1: wait an episode four at UH at twenty three minutes,

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Speaker 1: you was talking about how you're not really happy.

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Speaker 2: Oh sis, and you just recaptain right, now on this episode.

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Speaker 1: On the holiday episode, says, Ho, Ho, Well, you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna get no gifts this year?

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Speaker 2: Exactly? Well, I'm not anyway the way I've been acting,

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Speaker 2: are y'all exchanging gifts?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Oh, Sins.

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Speaker 1: I meant to say this to you. I can't afford

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Speaker 1: to get you a gift this year, so please don't

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Speaker 1: give me a prison what you already bought me a gift,

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Speaker 1: in which case I will scrape some coins? Were doing,

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Speaker 1: Secret Santa?

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Speaker 2: What are you talking? I don't even know who I have?

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Speaker 2: Do we know? I know who I have? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Shoot, all right, we I'm gonna check the email because

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Speaker 1: you need to check right now since let me check it.

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Speaker 1: You know, the WiFi is slow here, so and I

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Speaker 1: don't want.

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Speaker 2: To be weird, but yeah, bitch, I got you for

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Speaker 2: Secrets Hannah. Wow, the secret is out, so no run me,

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Speaker 2: run me. Well wait, did you really get me for

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Speaker 2: Secret Sannah? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Well then that means okay, Well, let me just make

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Speaker 1: sure I got you sound to buy you two gifts.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: It's like if you had bought me a gift and

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Speaker 1: I got somebody else for Secret Sanna. I wasn't gonna

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Speaker 1: also get you a gift. I feel like our friendship

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Speaker 1: is separate from the group, right, but that that's two gifts.

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Speaker 2: So are you gonna throw me.

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Speaker 1: In a pile of white women? Yes, I'm throwing you exactly.

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Speaker 2: Listen. I'm I don't even know how to check the

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Speaker 2: secrets and file.

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Speaker 1: Okay, after the fixed Jesus and figured out, do take

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Speaker 1: the wheel and take my gift because I want this

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Speaker 1: be a gift card.

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Speaker 2: Because what the hell were you an expert.

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Speaker 1: In besides scary little boys with my voice? I was

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Speaker 1: an expert at fraud this week. Get into it. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna just get into it allegedly. I'm gonna say allegedly

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Speaker 1: because then you can't prove that I actually did it.

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Speaker 1: So Sidney and I were traveling to Philadelphia. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: uh huh, and I bought a bus ticket for the

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Speaker 1: wrong day.

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Speaker 2: Since you really go and put this on the pod?

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Speaker 1: Sure, sure, sure, I mean they know that we're poor,

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Speaker 1: The know we take the bus. They watching their instant stories.

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Speaker 1: We are quite so we we I got the ticket

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Speaker 1: for the wrong day, called the bus company and I

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Speaker 1: was like, hey, can we change the dates? And they

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Speaker 1: were like no, they're none refundable, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I need my I need my money back, and they're like,

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna get it back. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: let me jump on Chase online real quick, found the

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Speaker 1: number to Chase, call them and was like, my card

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Speaker 1: was compromised. Chase was like, so what is this last transaction?

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Speaker 1: I was like, nope, send me my money back and

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Speaker 1: Chase was like, okay, uh, We're gonna have to cancel

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Speaker 1: your card and send you a new one. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, wait, no, I still need to be able

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Speaker 1: to swipe for things, you.

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Speaker 2: Know how, don't carry get the whole thing down.

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Speaker 1: And then there's a meme of somebody like sleeping in

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Speaker 1: the bed, like real comfortably, and I was like, that's

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Speaker 1: when read no one can.

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Speaker 2: Her card has been declined. So they told me it

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Speaker 2: was gonna take first.

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Speaker 1: They told me ten days and I was like ten days,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be twenty eighteen, and they're like five to

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Speaker 1: seven days, and I was like, can I just go

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Speaker 1: to the bank and they're like no, but they don't

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Speaker 1: print them no more because you know, they got to

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Speaker 1: chip in them now.

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Speaker 2: So I've been without card for I've been in a

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Speaker 2: fraud situation as well, you commit a fraud or somebody

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Speaker 2: stole your identity, so well, not fraud.

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Speaker 1: But like I was, I was at a place, a

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Speaker 1: well known place, and I was switching tags and I

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Speaker 1: got caught.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: True A bonus episode conversation you gotta give. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you want to hear this story about me almost getting

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Speaker 1: caught and thrown in jail, you gotta go to the

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Speaker 1: Patreon for bonus episodes, look.

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Speaker 2: For the unofficial expert. Let's get into this guest string

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Speaker 2: get into.

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Speaker 1: It because I'm not even looking on this side because

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Speaker 1: you really it's too much melaniny in the room going

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Speaker 1: on like amazing. Hold on, let us introduce you. Then

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Speaker 1: we're gonna give you full body camp. Okay, she is,

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Speaker 1: she's a writer, she's a comedian. She is our stalking expert.

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Speaker 1: But then also, I feel like a bunch of other

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Speaker 1: things slash slash, slashed up slash, lots of things city.

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Speaker 1: What slash would you throw in there?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say doing the most slash doing the most.

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Speaker 1: That U.

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Speaker 2: She's our I'm super excited to have you here. It's

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Speaker 2: Rashida Crockett. Yes, Rashid, Rashida how you doing, queen.

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Speaker 3: I feel really good and I'm always happy to see

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Speaker 3: you too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I haven't seen you since we did awkward sex

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Speaker 1: in the City together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it hasn't.

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Speaker 3: The last time we've worked other was awkward text in

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Speaker 3: the city. That was, And you told a messy story there, girl.

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Speaker 3: I was still in a no, I was fresh out

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Speaker 3: of my relationship then. But my ex showed up. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there was a guy there with you and heckled the

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Speaker 3: life out of me. That was my ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: So you had you had your old pies come through

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Speaker 1: the heck wi you bitch. Someone had to record the set.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you had him as a camera man. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you are so rude. She is the lude expert. Also,

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Speaker 1: you were slash route. Well, let's talk about what she

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Speaker 1: got on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she came in. She threw a lapearla parla.

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Speaker 1: She threw a lapearla uh Asian privoctor. Here's the thing, y'all.

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Speaker 1: See the way Marie and Sydney be in the street.

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Speaker 1: I look like dust regular, yes, and I have turtlenecks on.

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Speaker 1: I have a total neck on right now. Sis, you

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Speaker 1: got your whole chest nipple out.

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Speaker 3: Sidney, My whole Neriola, And I'm gonna tell you this

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Speaker 3: right now, because I didn't want to be up in

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Speaker 3: here looking raggedy.

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Speaker 1: On the the and here I am looking like a

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Speaker 1: dust bunny. Chance, I'm in here sucking it up. I'm

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Speaker 1: somebody's auntie grandmother on top of layers of dust as well.

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Speaker 2: The stopish her best like that is a good wig.

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Speaker 2: I have a hat on top of it because you

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Speaker 2: can't see the part so beautiful all you lie? Rashida

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Speaker 2: No on a skinny jean. She got on like a

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Speaker 2: why are you even throwing the belt? We don't even

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Speaker 2: need the belt because I don't I don't want my

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Speaker 2: pants to fall.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well hold on, hold on, but she has like

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Speaker 1: she's giving us Jennifer Lopez Versagi dress neckline.

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Speaker 2: So then goes down to the bed.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna tall you, sis, because I don't

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Speaker 1: even look at you like that. So I'm not family

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Speaker 1: no more. N Your skin looks great, Rashida. Can you

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Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about you, like what you're doing?

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Speaker 2: After this is? Who are you? Where you come from?

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Speaker 1: I'm from New York, I mean Brooklyn originally Long Island,

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Speaker 1: grew up there, started doing comedy after years of disappointing

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Speaker 1: my parents in other ways.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean just like I could tell by your hairdline, like

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Speaker 1: you graduated school. You graduated like high school and college,

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Speaker 1: my edges, I graduated. Her hair was giving us Janelle money.

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Speaker 2: Yes it is, but my body is given like step

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, Nathan sona did you say so, Nathan?

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Speaker 3: And she's gorgeous. No, you're not buleg that's you. I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So you are a stalking expert.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like power plants and smoke, and that's what

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, so you couldn't meet at Pittsburgh Steel because.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I in full circle, we talked about

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Speaker 2: Damn, it's different. Differ you in a different league, it's different.

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Speaker 2: It was a Lifetime movie called Seasons of Love. Seasons

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Speaker 3: But okay, so I go, I should not be plugging

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Speaker 1: So did you is Bob the first person that you met?

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Speaker 2: Well, what were your Yeah? Did you I do a

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 2: Because they are not the ones you talk to. Friend.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was just gonna say, let me let me

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Speaker 2: Like just speaking. They boys don't have cousin. Daddy didn't

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Speaker 3: Well, here's here's what probably pushed me to the God.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling all my business.

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Speaker 3: So I had a girlfriend who was married to her

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Speaker 3: So you were just in a bad situation and I

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Speaker 2: You wasn't set up to win.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't set up to win. He was a sweet,

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Speaker 3: end of the pub. I want to see what she looks.

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Speaker 3: I want to see the white wife. Yeah, which is

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't even matter though it doesn't even Cicheskay,

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Speaker 3: So a couple of dudes had hit me up, but

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to answer those kinds of questions.

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Speaker 3: But if a dude stepped me and he was just like, hey,

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Speaker 2: But if they're like because my girlfriend was just.

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Speaker 3: So my girlfriend was like everything to the max, like

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Speaker 2: Just what's the max amount of money? Millions? Ten grand

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Speaker 1: We've been here all this time in grand We've been

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Speaker 1: first for three years. When have you listen? Do we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's sign me up after? Okay, you to listen

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Speaker 2: this to this through? Well, what was your profile picture?

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Speaker 2: What photos? Did you have? A low key I think

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Speaker 3: I think I googled pretty brown skinned girls and whatever

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Speaker 2: I think I use those Ah, that's what I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: and I don't think people like what if my dad

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Speaker 1: Your dad, what's his name?

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Speaker 1: You don't know what Arthur doing on the side.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just didn't want people to see my

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Speaker 1: At this point. This is all alleged. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 3: So Bob hits me up and he's like hey, and

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Speaker 3: Bob is a black man, rober Bob is a black man,

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Speaker 3: and he's a smitch older than me. Saw Smitch his

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Speaker 3: sixteen years about sixteen years. But you said, Smitch, Smitch,

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Speaker 1: Who would play Bob in a movie? Shit and Bob's Life?

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Speaker 2: From the neck down.

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Speaker 3: He had a good body, but the face going down,

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Speaker 2: A he was decent. The face was Uncle Bill's struggle.

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Speaker 2: find a mugshot.

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Speaker 1: But if you just want to into our phone right

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Speaker 1: into the yeah, no, no, no, we won't. Don't use I

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Speaker 3: So he and I are just conversing, and thank you

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Speaker 1: And he was like, I want you to come to

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Speaker 2: So he.

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Speaker 1: Oh, since he looks like Mouse from Jamie Fox, both

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Speaker 2: Since he's giving me he's not badly.

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Speaker 1: He just looks like he hits people and he does,

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Speaker 3: wasn't on the website. I mean, Lindsay Lohan has several

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00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 3: cute mug shots. Yeah, Rihanna has a mud shot and

441
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,679
Speaker 3: her ship was flowed. Rihanna's you know about the one

442
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 3: where she got beat. She didn't get the rest of

443
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 3: this also wasn't a good photo. Yeah, she's also I

444
00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 3: was like, damn, she got the Kylie lift kidd, that

445
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 3: ain't right. Go ahead, Yeah, So he starts sending me

446
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 3: gifts to kind of like oil me up of gifts

447
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 3: out to l A.

448
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:38,479
Speaker 2: So first of all, I was calling it.

449
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 3: I was calling a gift given Tuesday, which is basically

450
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,360
Speaker 3: just the time from when he got paid on Friday,

451
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 3: when he would the ship, when it would get to

452
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 3: my office on Tuesday.

453
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 2: Gift giving Tuesday. Every Tuesday, it would be a nice

454
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 2: new gift.

455
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,959
Speaker 3: Sometimes it would just be like a box with like

456
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,679
Speaker 3: something small in it in a car and just like

457
00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,680
Speaker 3: literal cash, like he would be sending cash through once

458
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 3: throughout three hundred dollars because I did not know that

459
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 3: he put three hundred dollars in the box.

460
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: I tell you and Nola Darling just giving the money

461
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 2: back I had. I was digging through.

462
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 3: He bought me an iMac, a computer, a desktop, an

463
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 3: iMac and.

464
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 1: Wait, a whole desktops. It's not even a laptop.

465
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 3: Well, he bought me the he bought me the desktop,

466
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 3: and he threw three hundred dollars in the box. But

467
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 3: I was just expecting the desktop. So I take this,

468
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 3: I take the computer out, throw the box out.

469
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm speechless. And he was like.

470
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 3: And I was like, can you send me? And I

471
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 3: asked them for money for a thing, and he was like,

472
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 3: I just sent you three hundred dollars and I was like, no,

473
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 3: you didn't.

474
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: You're a liar. And he was like, Rashida, I just

475
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 2: threw three hundred dollars in the box. I'm like, why

476
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 2: wouldn't you put it in an oh? Blow? But I

477
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 2: have to go. That's rude. That's that's drug money.

478
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 1: Drugs throw things loose like that, just just loosely loose money.

479
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 1: So after a couple of gifts, God, I'm trying to

480
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 1: think of what he got me that got me out

481
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Speaker 1: to l A.

482
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Speaker 2: It was a pair wi I sell shoes for La

483
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: for your whole life.

484
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 3: She's share parawil wireless shoes. It was an iPhone and.

485
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:10,439
Speaker 2: It was a computer.

486
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 3: Okay, so the computer was like you heard that listeners,

487
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 3: a desktop, not a laptop. And it was a computer

488
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: and two thousand dollars l three thousand dollars computer. And

489
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 3: it was like, you know, you come to LA, we'll

490
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 3: go to the Beverly Shutter, we'll go shopping, we'll have

491
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 3: a good time. So we get I get out to LA.

492
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 3: The moment I get off the plane, he comes and

493
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 3: he picks me up. I immediately take a picture of his plate,

494
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 3: his licenses. Absolutely, send it to my mom and my friend.

495
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 1: I was gonna let you know that I've had friends

496
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: that do that. You what you say is, hey, my

497
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: best friend has to come to that's.

498
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 2: What you do. You gotta rush you to sell a life.

499
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: So I know, but just in case you do it again,

500
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: Sydney and Marie are available.

501
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 2: We are very available to you.

502
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: For those high wear A signe seven and a half.

503
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 1: I think that's thirty seven European size.

504
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 3: Not gonna ride me and my girlfriends. Kind of fucked

505
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 3: that money up a little bit. But there's more this morning.

506
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 3: So we get to La We get to the hotel

507
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 3: and I was like, I want a separate room from you,

508
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 3: and he was like, Mashida, I don't want to give

509
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 3: you another room, like I don't, I don't.

510
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 2: He basically he was just like, well we need to

511
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 2: be together. We don't.

512
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 3: I don't want us to be apart. And I was like, okay,

513
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 3: fuck you, I'm paying for this other room.

514
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 2: So you get out there, get your own. How much

515
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: is room? The rooms? Like three hundred? The box.

516
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: He just gave me money, she used, that is my money.

517
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: Now it's not his money gets my hand. That's in

518
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 1: my account.

519
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 3: But here's the real real I'm going to get. I

520
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 3: was I had to get more, so I get my

521
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 3: I get the room, gaggy the jagge. I'm just gonna

522
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 3: get more. I sleep in my room and now I'm

523
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 3: sleeping comfortably. We go out we get breakfast. The next morning,

524
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 3: he takes me shopping. We went to the Beverly Center.

525
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 1: We went, I don't know, brought me some shoes, some jewelry,

526
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: a nice watch, watch, and then he takes.

527
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 2: Me how much money did he spend that day?

528
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: A couple of thou a couple of thousand. But here's

529
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: also the thing, it's your baby hairs. Honestly, he would

530
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 1: drive around with like wads and wads of money in

531
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: his glove compartment.

532
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 2: And any moment did you think I might get shot? Yeah?

533
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 2: Or killed, not just shot, but killed drive by situation.

534
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: Maybe No, No, not for a moment than I think that. No,

535
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: not one second. Wow, Well what kind of car was it?

536
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 2: He's driving BMW and so that's not the kind of car.

537
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 2: I want to die. And I want to be in

538
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 2: a Maserati when I die. I want you want to

539
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 2: be in a Lambo.

540
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: I mean, the last time that Rihanna was in a

541
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: car with suicide doors.

542
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: It was almost a homicide exactly. So wait, crazy.

543
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 3: So he takes me, he's like, we're driving around and

544
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 3: he takes me to the Audi dealership and he was like,

545
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 3: I want you to test drive these cars because I

546
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 3: was living in Pittsburgh. I wasn't happy. He was telling

547
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 3: me you could move to LA and live with like

548
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 3: and live out here with me.

549
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 2: Can you drive?

550
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 1: Yes, I can drive like from New York, but yes

551
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: I can try. Oh yeah, but you have like a

552
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: New York driver's license.

553
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: What does that mean, bitch? Yes, I new parallel park.

554
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: No I tried. I mean.

555
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: I was also just annoyed because while you're sitting here

556
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 3: wasting time taking me to drive these cars, you can

557
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 3: actually be spending money on me doing real things because

558
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: you're not going to buy this car for me right now,

559
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 3: just go shopping again because they pay for a spot. Yeah, now,

560
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 3: you're just wasting my time to give me some new toes.

561
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 3: Brought me some new toes. He takes me to meet

562
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 3: his parents.

563
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 2: What wait on the first trip.

564
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, he takes me to meet that's a red flash.

565
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: I have to show you these pictures. They wanted to

566
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: take picture.

567
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 2: How did he introduce you? He said, this is my girlfriend, Rashida. Wow,

568
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 2: and Rashida, you said, okay, pleasure to meet you.

569
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: If you said pleasure to meet I was like, she's hired.

570
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: She's definitely, she's a pleasure to meet.

571
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: To meet hired, and.

572
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 3: I mean it was actually really nice to like see

573
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 3: where his parents live and like see what kind you

574
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: know at the time where they lived in like in

575
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: the suburbs of LA They had.

576
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: A really beautiful home, very nice. They had an addict and whatnot. Yeah,

577
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: basement money, ye lived pull the sack.

578
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 3: Even though like his parents were older, like his mom

579
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 3: still like rocked. Well, stepmom still like rocks her Louis

580
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 3: bags like she was real.

581
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 2: Well that's the step mom. She's a new mom. Of course,

582
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: I think you still.

583
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 3: Think his mom and dad were ever married. Well, I

584
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 3: mean had he had a list serve of issues. So

585
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: we get back home, but like we get back to

586
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 3: the hotel. Next morning, he's dropping me off at the

587
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,199
Speaker 3: airport and wait, how long were you there for?

588
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: Just the weekend? One weekend? One weekend?

589
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so you did all the damage and then you

590
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 1: had to check a bag.

591
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I mean we were leaving and I was

592
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 3: just like, can I have some money? You give you.

593
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: Dollars Weekend's what happened.

594
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 3: He asked me how much I wanted And here's if

595
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 3: you're gonna do this, lady like.

596
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: Me speak to the listeners, speak here. If you're gonna

597
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: do this, don't be like me, beater than me.

598
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 3: You can't be shy and timid about taking money somebody's money,

599
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 3: because that's what you're there to do. I was very

600
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 3: shy and timid about it. I would be like, baby,

601
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 3: can I have some money? And he would be like,

602
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: how much can I'd be like, I don't know. A

603
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 3: couple of hundred. He's like, what's a couple of hundred.

604
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know. Like had I asked for

605
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 3: seven hundred or seven or seventeen hundred, it would have

606
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 3: been the same thing. So just be like all of it,

607
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 3: like out of Good Fellas that that when she did

608
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: the stack thing with her fingers that much?

609
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: Just stop asking for don't be nippling down how much money?

610
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: Is this much? That much? About one of two inches

611
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 2: between your fingers? Dude, what are we doing? We're doing

612
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: it wrong, said, what are we fucking No, guys, you're

613
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 2: doing the right thing, trust me. So I'm looking at

614
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 2: you with my eyes open and I'd be like, no,

615
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 2: we're not. We're sitting You're doing it wrong. I know

616
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: I'm doing it wrong. I'm fully wrong, all the way wrong.

617
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: Sucking all my teeth, okay, sucking my poor picking my

618
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: dusty toes.

619
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: Hey.

620
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 3: So wait, So I go back to Pittsburgh a couple

621
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 3: of weeks later, gift giving tuesdays of the thing, and

622
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 3: one night, middle of the night, he calls me and

623
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 3: he's like, I gotta like, I gotta go. I'm moving

624
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 3: to Atlanta. And I was like, like right now, he

625
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 3: was like yeah. So he got into a huge altercation

626
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 3: with a gentleman in his work. Now it's important for

627
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 3: me to say he has his money. He has this

628
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 3: money because his father owns a shipping company, like a

629
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 3: transporting company, and he works for his father's transporporting company.

630
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: When you say transporting company, it sounds like he's transporting drugs.

631
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. He sounds like a mule.

632
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what they do. He

633
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: manages mules.

634
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know anything about.

635
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: Mule Depot, mule marked, yeah, mules r us.

636
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 2: I know nothing about us. Okay.

637
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 3: And he got into an argument with one of his coworkers,

638
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 3: which was one of his father's employees, and I guess

639
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: it got like physical and he was like, first of all.

640
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: Your fist fighting at work is come on, man, a

641
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: little crush, a little crayh. So I was like, and

642
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: also a.

643
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 3: Little cray So you're just gonna pick up your life

644
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 3: and move from LA to Atlanta and the drop of

645
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 3: a dime's people do.

646
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: But he just packed up his car and left. It

647
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: wasn't like he hired movers or anything.

648
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: And he was on the run. That's what it felt

649
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: like to me. And he was like no.

650
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 3: He just started like going crazy, like no, I have

651
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 3: to be free for me and I have to be

652
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 3: free from my son. And I was like, wait, what

653
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 3: are you He has a son who lived in Saint Louis,

654
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 3: and he never really saw his son. He didn't have

655
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 3: a great relationship with his ex wife, and he would

656
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 3: also talk to me about his ex girlfriend, who was

657
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 3: a dancer up in Vegas, who he didn't have a

658
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 3: good relationship with, like they had a really terrible breakup.

659
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 3: And I knew it was about money. So I was like,

660
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 3: there were a number of red flags, but that was

661
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 3: like the biggest red.

662
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: Flag for me. Yeah, I mean red flags. You can

663
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: ignore them for a couple hundred dollars a week. You

664
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: can ignore new sunglasses.

665
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 1: I've ignored red flags, just.

666
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 3: To blind me from the light of the flags. All right,

667
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 3: I've ignored red flags, which is fucked up. When I

668
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: was a kid. I'm grown now and smarter, hopefully wiser.

669
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: So they say, now he moves to Atlanta, and he's like, well,

670
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 3: now you're gonna I want you to move with me

671
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 3: to Atlanta. So he flies me down to Atlanta. I

672
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 3: don't like, I don't get a separate hotel room this time,

673
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 3: but we do get separate beds.

674
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: It was too it was too full beds.

675
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: It was two full beds. I asked him to get

676
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: too full beds, so he went and sleep with me.

677
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 3: So I think it's very important to know that I

678
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 3: never slept with this man. I never slept with this

679
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 3: man once. So we were together for four months and

680
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 3: I never slept with them. But it was a bit

681
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 3: of a part time job because we had this long

682
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 3: distance relationship and every day I had to like check

683
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 3: in with him and email him and just like stroke

684
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: his big stupid ego. And in return, he would call

685
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 3: up nord Strums while I was there and just give

686
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 3: him give them the credit card.

687
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 2: Does a great job. It's a great job.

688
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: I feel the same way okay, but my problem is

689
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: with situations like this, why do women buy things?

690
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 2: Just give me the money? So I have the money

691
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: in my account, Sidney, what would you be doing with

692
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: the money?

693
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: Said, because I feel like a friend of ours, I'm

694
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: not gonna say no names. You used to make a

695
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: lot of money at their job and doesn't have any

696
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: of that money left. Well, here's the thing, people, I

697
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: was also doing drugs and alcohol on a regular basis,

698
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: so I had a friend. I didn't even say by myself.

699
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: They know you have no friends, Marie. They know you're

700
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: talking about spot up.

701
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 3: But I'll say this, sometimes when a guy is spending

702
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: money on you, you have to let them spend the

703
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: money on you the way they feel comfortable spending it.

704
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: And that's just.

705
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 3: The real Like updated guys, and they don't want to

706
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 3: just put money in your hand. They want to take

707
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 3: you out to night's dinners. They will help you set

708
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 3: up at LLC, but they wouldn't just give you the

709
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 3: money to see But like there's some guys who are

710
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 3: just like that. You have to just let these men

711
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 3: spend the money.

712
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: Pay for a dot com for me, I mean, we

713
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: buy me some stock. We've done that a bigcoin. Give

714
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: me a big coin.

715
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 2: In this big buy me a big cooin.

716
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 3: So Atlanta happens, and Atlanta was actually a really good time.

717
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: We went shopping again by did you give it up?

718
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: Never fucked him? Never never fucked him.

719
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: Let me tell you you never touched it.

720
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: I've seen his dick.

721
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 3: It just didn't get anywhere near my person in a

722
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 3: way like I've seen and touched his dick.

723
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 2: He touched it. The gag is it? I would tell you,

724
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: I did you sit on his face? What you did?

725
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: She not you.

726
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: She just wanted the truth because we would be like, no,

727
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: I didn't do nothing. I'd be like, when you say nothing,

728
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: you mean something.

729
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: Do you mean you didn't do anything?

730
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 3: I said, I didn't have sex with him. Let me

731
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 3: tell you what I did do, which was kind of

732
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: fucked up. I'm in this relationship quote unquote for four

733
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 3: months and we weren't having any sex.

734
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,959
Speaker 1: So there was this other guy who I was like,

735
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: I have a friend that's doing that right now. Yeah,

736
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: but there's another guy in Atlanta that she went to

737
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: go see. There was a guy in Atlanta that I

738
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: went to go and see. And I want to say

739
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: I ain't ship because with the same money. I hope

740
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: he isn't listening to this because he would kill me.

741
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 2: He's all listening. They don't you don't have iTunes.

742
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 3: Like I would use them that he would give me

743
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 3: to fly the guy up from Atlanta to Pittsburgh to

744
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 3: like me.

745
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 2: A ticket to Atlanta's not that she's sounds expensive. It's fine.

746
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 2: This kind of sounds like one of my stories.

747
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: Wait, so it gets I got everything that I deserved

748
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: after this.

749
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 3: Well, so then what happened? So I start to feel

750
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 3: really badly about this.

751
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 2: You are a victim.

752
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: Do not blame yourself this this is not your fault.

753
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: Rashida, What were you wearing? What you did you have

754
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 2: this on? Because if you did, I'm like, yeah, what

755
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 2: he did it?

756
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 3: And I mean I was like talking shit one night,

757
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 3: kind of just like flirting with Bob and I was

758
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 3: like you should come up to Pittsburgh and he was

759
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 3: like okay and just got his car and drove up

760
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 3: from Atlanta to Pittsburgh.

761
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 2: Why And I was like.

762
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 3: Wait no, Like so on the drive up, I'm like, wait,

763
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: you you're really coming and he's like yeah.

764
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 2: I'm like where are you going to stay?

765
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 3: You can't stay in my apartment and he was like

766
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 3: why and I was like, well, you don't pay bills here,

767
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 3: so you can't stay here, Like how would you like

768
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 3: exit perfectly executed?

769
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: But you know that would make me drive even faster.

770
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: I'm not paying no fucking bills.

771
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: It's what you think. I'm into you money for money

772
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: for the bills.

773
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 3: Well, his thing was this because we did have a

774
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 3: conversation about just like an allowance, and he didn't want

775
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 3: to do that. He wanted to spend money on me.

776
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 3: How much was your rent at the time living in Pittsburgh.

777
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 3: My rent was six hundred and fifty dollars.

778
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: I was I'm getting the ticket one way to Pittsford

779
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 2: right now, and can do I don't know if they

780
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: have Wi Fi there?

781
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 3: Six fifty dollars, hugest apartment with like French doors.

782
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 2: Fire. It was really beautiful. I love War Street. It

783
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: was so beautiful.

784
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 3: But like we had a I didn't tell him that

785
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 3: my rent, my rent was that little. I lied and

786
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 3: told him my rent was more, of course, probably like

787
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 3: twelve hundred or sixteen. And we talked about like me

788
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: quitting my job because I was really unhappy, and he

789
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 3: knew I wanted to be an actress, and him just

790
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 3: like giving me allowance. But we were trying to set

791
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 3: another for everyone.

792
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: So that was last in future invest.

793
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 3: In trying to leverage. Well, you don't pay bills here,

794
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 3: so you can't stay here. I was such a brag.

795
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,439
Speaker 3: I was also in my early twenties just being an ass.

796
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 2: I love it. I love everything that you say. Yeah,

797
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 2: it really made me happy. All right. So the gag

798
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: is now I'm saying that.

799
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: Now.

800
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,720
Speaker 3: The gag is, so he comes and gets a hotel

801
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 3: and the hotel is walking distance from my apartment, and

802
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, he knows where I lived and I never

803
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 3: gave him my address.

804
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: But he was sending you stuff.

805
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 3: He was sending it to my job. I worked forty

806
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 3: five minutes outside of where I am. You're telling me

807
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 3: you you never dropped a pin on the fun You're.

808
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 4: Telling me this was eight years ago. You were telling

809
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 4: me that you sent he was sending a desktop to

810
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 4: your job. He sent the desktop to my job, and what.

811
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 2: Did your co work? Oh?

812
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: Okay, Rashida, No, no, no, the coworkers were like, oh,

813
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: we're all getting new lafternoon.

814
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 3: The only person I never wanted to give him my address,

815
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: but the only person who really knew was the person

816
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 3: who handled the mail. And the person who handled the

817
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 3: mail was just like the homie. So she was all

818
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 3: and on gift given Tuesday. She would be like, oh,

819
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: she was like, you got some Tuesday, You got some

820
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 3: given Tuesday.

821
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: If I was I'm like, well, if you want this

822
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: between me and you, I think I need to give.

823
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would be like, yo, she's not getting this gift. Yeah,

824
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: ain't right.

825
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: I mean I was communicating with him every day. He

826
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 3: was sending me tracking numbers. I was gonna get it.

827
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 3: But so he found your address and he got I

828
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 3: didn't even know this hotel existed.

829
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 2: That's how I know. It was a motel. It was

830
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: a it was a nice hotel, but like it was

831
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,760
Speaker 2: a seven. It was an Airbnb.

832
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 3: It was like one of those hotels that only had

833
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,439
Speaker 3: like three or four rooms in it, like a house

834
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 3: that had been converted into it.

835
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: A little Victorian had been converted, little porch. Yes, it

836
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: was a hostile.

837
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: In a hospital.

838
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't coming to stay with me, so he

839
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 3: was going to have to figure it out. But it

840
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 3: was at that point I was like, oh, ship, he

841
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: knows where I live. He has like he just knows things.

842
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 3: So he bought me a Louis bag when he came up,

843
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 3: and I was didn't wait wait, so you saw him

844
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 3: he brought you a Louis bag, or he brought a

845
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 3: Louis back to where you live. He brought a Louis

846
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 3: back up with him from Atlanta as it for.

847
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: Some little a little Lennox small purchase. Yeah, but I did.

848
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 3: I wasn't one hundred percent in love with the Louis bag,

849
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 3: And I told him, is it the one that had

850
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 3: the cherries on it? No, it was just like a

851
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: never fool but the small one. Yeah, it would like

852
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 3: stab me in the shoulder, it was. I didn't love it.

853
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: So you don't have a Louis Radars spent Harby wrong?

854
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I care with you over are like, no, No,

855
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: that's because I was a fucking bread.

856
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 3: There would have been. There were times like when you

857
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 3: sent me to y I saw pumps. I was like,

858
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 3: they're just not doing anything for me. Did you send

859
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: a gift for seat? Like because I didn't like his taste.

860
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: I would strangle you such a bread, I would kill you.

861
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: You hear what you said?

862
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 3: I didn't like his tea, that ship. He liked that

863
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 3: I was just a bratty, fucking princess. So the more

864
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 3: he would be like.

865
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 2: That's what you did until he had that upper cut

866
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: on you, honey.

867
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 1: Today, Wait, I just I want to hear about when

868
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: it turns okay.

869
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 3: So this after the New York excuse me, after the

870
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 3: Pittsburgh trip, I was like, Okay, I don't treat him well.

871
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 2: I need to break this off. So I started feeling

872
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: really really wit. You said you don't treat him well,

873
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm so I was awful to him. Did

874
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 2: you not hear all this? You're like, I can't do

875
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 2: this anymore because it's not you. It's me. Literally, it's me.

876
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 3: And like we had a couple of conversations about how

877
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 3: I just wasn't happy, and I felt like like.

878
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 2: Since this is why we can't have nice things.

879
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 3: So and then the gifts were like slowly starting to

880
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 3: roll back, I think because it had been four months

881
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 3: and I hadn't fucked him.

882
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: The gifts weren't coming every Tuesday like they used to.

883
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 2: It was like every other Tuesday or yeah, liked.

884
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: It would just be like come back down to Atlanta

885
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 3: and I'll take you shopping, but I don't want to

886
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 3: send you this gift. Like I would send him links

887
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 3: to shit and he'll be like, just come down here

888
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 3: and I'll take you shopping.

889
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 2: You're sending him here if he was sending him your

890
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 2: Amazon witch list.

891
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 3: So oh, he was getting a Nieman Marcus Wishless on

892
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: a regular on the regular because we didn't have a

893
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 3: names of Pittsburgh. And he would be like, just come

894
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 3: down to Atlanta and I'll take you shop. And I'm like, well,

895
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 3: I don't want to leave and I got stuff to

896
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 3: do up here, and he's like, no, you don't just come.

897
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 3: So I just felt like really forced to, Like he

898
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 3: really wanted to fuck me, and I didn't want to

899
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 3: fuck him, and I started feeling bad.

900
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 1: So now I don't know your lineup of dudes you've

901
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: had sex with, but could you.

902
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 2: You couldn't have give him a little something? I probably should.

903
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 2: You could have.

904
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: He would have asked so much like this is what

905
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: I'm this is what I have a problem with. We

906
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: would be like, I'm not gonna have sex for money,

907
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: but I'm like, you used to sleep with somebody who

908
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: slept on the floor like they didn't even have a

909
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: bed like you slept with people for no money.

910
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 2: For no money and they had no bed, he had

911
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 2: no bed.

912
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: No, you got right down there, I love. But my

913
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 1: question for you is you said that you've sat on

914
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: his face. After that happens, how do you then go

915
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,879
Speaker 1: back to your your full bed across the room and

916
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 1: we leave.

917
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 2: The same bed that night and he just cud on me.

918
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: But look, you never had a situation like that, And

919
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: I just rolled over. You can you can, you can

920
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: eat me out, But that's it. You never had a

921
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 1: situation like that, not with somebody that I definitely didn't

922
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 1: want to bang in a hotel where we spent the night.

923
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: It's it's like wham bam, sit on the chair, leave

924
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: right she stayed the night.

925
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 3: Well, we had a different kind we had a different arrangement, Marie.

926
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: When how was I gonna go?

927
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's why I'm asking you.

928
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: You crazy, because I'd be afraid that I would wake

929
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: up dead, Like every gonna lie.

930
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 3: I was a little every so often I would be

931
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 3: like a little afraid.

932
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: Did you sleep with one eye open? Like you didn't sleep?

933
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: I would just stay Did you bring a silk scarf

934
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: or no? Did you wrap your hair. Yeah, great, I.

935
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 3: Wrapped my hair and I did sleep with one. I

936
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 3: would just be afraid that he gonna take it. That's

937
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 3: it exactly.

938
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: Just wake up, like I gotta just wake up and

939
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: here be like, well we could do just the easy

940
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: way way.

941
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

942
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 3: You know what I never I was young. I never

943
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 3: thought I'd never considered that. Who is your friends considered that?

944
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 3: I mean my sirlfriends was telling me girl just I

945
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 3: was like, well, we don't have any chemistry.

946
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: She was like, if you don't get some fucking liquid chemistry, anxious,

947
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: some liqui chemistry.

948
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, it's never gonna happen. So

949
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.

950
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to sound like we're forcy you Like, no,

951
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: you guys kind of are I feel really bullied right

952
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 1: now to have had sex with me eight years ago?

953
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm surprised. Listen.

954
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: I applaud you for getting all these things and then

955
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: four months of.

956
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 3: No, no, d It's interesting, how good, dude? How like

957
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 3: whoa men behave when you ain't sucking them? That's crazy

958
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 3: because you know everything the news right now is shout

959
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: out to Matt Lower.

960
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: They tend to act Mario. Mary said I'm gonna take

961
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: shout out to Bill Cosby said, I'm gonna take it.

962
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So well, so I'm not have a text message

963
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 3: and I'm like, listen, this isn't working out. I'm not happy,

964
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,479
Speaker 3: You're not happy. I'm not good to you. I really

965
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: think that you should just move on. Blah blah blah.

966
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 3: And initially he was like, okay, cool, you know, if

967
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 3: you need anything, let me know. I wish you a

968
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 3: lifetime of happiness. And I was that's a red a

969
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 3: lifetime of happiness. I mean, your lifetime about to be

970
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 3: cut short.

971
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: Lifetime, so girl.

972
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 3: Then maybe maybe two minutes later he sends me a

973
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: text message or like, he calls me and he was like,

974
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 3: I just want us to check in and make sure

975
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 3: this is what you want to do.

976
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: Are you sure this is what you want to do?

977
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: He and loading that gun. He's like, city, are you

978
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: loading a musket right now?

979
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: I am? I am. You know it's not funny because

980
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 2: this is my life. I know almost.

981
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 3: So I was like, yes, I'm sure this is what

982
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: I want to do. So then he goes nuts that.

983
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 3: I go to bed that night, I wake up the

984
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 3: next morning, nineteen, this phone calls twelve voice messages. He's

985
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 3: talking crazy you do you have any boxes? Do you

986
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,240
Speaker 3: have any bags? You need to send me back my things.

987
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 2: So now he.

988
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: Wants on the things. These are my things, these are

989
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: and that's what I said. I was like, Bob, I've

990
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: sold them already.

991
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: I was like, Bobe, seriously your things. Are you going

992
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 3: to walk around in a pair of lubatons and we

993
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 3: bag and Michelle You're like, yeah, it's so bitch work.

994
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 3: But you you and I both know this is work.

995
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 3: This isn't for you. And he was like, Rashida, I'm

996
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 3: not gonna drop it. You need to send me back

997
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 3: these things. So it turned into Initially I was like, no,

998
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 3: fuck that, he's just bluffing. So the next day he

999
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: calls me. Oh, he sends me a text message and

1000
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 3: he said who is blah blah blah and blah blah

1001
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 3: blah was my father's name. He went and found my

1002
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 3: father on line, found my father's phone number, called my

1003
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 3: dad in the morning and basically said, I was my

1004
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: name is Bob. I was in a relationship with your daughter, Rashida.

1005
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 3: I bought her a bunch of gifts because I thought

1006
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: I was gonna marry her. She broke up with me,

1007
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 3: and now she needs to send me these gifts back

1008
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 3: before we have a problem.

1009
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: What did what did Archa? Your dad?

1010
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 3: Arthur called me, and Arthur was like, Rashida, who's this

1011
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 3: guy Bob crying on my shoulders talking about he was

1012
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 3: gonna marry he was you need.

1013
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: To send h.

1014
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 3: And yeah, and so I just my dad didn't know

1015
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 3: the whole tea like my dad didn't know him much

1016
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 3: older than me. My dad didn't know we met on

1017
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 3: sugar daddy dot com. Like he told your dad that too.

1018
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: He did not. Well, that was nice of Bob not

1019
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 2: to really well.

1020
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 3: I think it would have made my father because it

1021
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 3: just made me sound like a gold digger and not

1022
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 3: like a gold digger with a man who was looking

1023
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 3: for some young pussy. Like we were both wrong.

1024
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, let's let's recreate the phone call.

1025
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: But like with my dad, Sydney ahead and you can

1026
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 1: be h Bob and I'm gonna be my dad.

1027
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 2: Go ahead. Can we not do that? Is this a

1028
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 2: samuell fulstine? What is this? Sam Yell?

1029
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: I just get let off. I'm not doing it anything

1030
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: that's so stupid.

1031
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 2: My dad, my dad's picking up? Did hang it up?

1032
00:44:53,960 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: I mean this went on, y'all are asshole? Sorry?

1033
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 3: Wait this this went on for weeks, Like he kept

1034
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: calling my dad. He kept calling, just being crazy and calling.

1035
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 2: Would have around with me. I'm like, I ain't got

1036
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: no dad, so we go call. He was harassing my family.

1037
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 2: The next thing I know, who are you gonna call?

1038
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to call Marie like you laugh? Wait wait,

1039
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 2: wait you laugh. He was calling my friends and just

1040
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 2: cussing them out. He was he was cussing them out,

1041
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 2: nigger bitch, you water bitch.

1042
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 3: Because he bought me an iPhone, so I had a

1043
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 3: phone that I had he and then I had the iPad.

1044
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 3: So all three of my of my devices have now

1045
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 3: been hacked and are being used by him. On my

1046
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 3: personal cell phone, but all of like all of my emails,

1047
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 3: my social media accounts, he logged and said anything. He

1048
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 3: never had the passwords, but he reset all of the passwords.

1049
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 3: I guess you can like say that you forgot your

1050
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 3: password and then just like.

1051
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: Research trying to put it in and then if you

1052
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: put it in, you get locked out.

1053
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: He locked all my LinkedIn girl, how do you lock?

1054
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 2: How you? He was playing with the LinkedIn. It took

1055
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 2: me a year and a half to time with the

1056
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 2: LinkedIn too, because I did not nobody time.

1057
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,919
Speaker 3: Bitch wait called nor Stroms up, the same norse Stroms

1058
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 3: that he would be calling up to like give them

1059
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 3: his credit card to say that I to like pay

1060
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 3: for things for me. Reported the cards stolen. He was

1061
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 3: paying for personal training classes for me. Called up the

1062
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 3: boxing gym, reported.

1063
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: You played a lot of Okay, so okay. So he's

1064
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: a fan of the fraud.

1065
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 3: Also committed every calling everything fraud. And I was like, okay,

1066
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send him back some stuff because this demon

1067
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,919
Speaker 3: is really like you called mucking with my.

1068
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 2: With my pure life.

1069
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what things did you? Did you just throw

1070
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: a bunch of things in a box or did you.

1071
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 3: Like there were two shipments. I sent back the iPad,

1072
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 3: I sent back the iPhone. I sent back the Louis bag.

1073
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 3: I sat back, like one of those really expected it

1074
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 3: was like a four hundred dollars fucking flat iron he

1075
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 3: bought me. I sent back the watch. I sent back

1076
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 3: some jewelry. God, he gave me blueprints for a house

1077
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 3: that he wanted to build me. I stuffed the box.

1078
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 3: He sent you a little she by Chara. He sent

1079
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 3: me a shot Chara blueprint.

1080
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: Bet yo, I watch out, guy, watch out.

1081
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 2: I was dying man.

1082
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: That house was banging, bitch, yeah, but like the driveway

1083
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: was never completed, so.

1084
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys watch real house. Just Google.

1085
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 3: She sent back like ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,

1086
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 3: and the only thing I didn't send back was the

1087
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 3: computer because I was like, if I sent back the

1088
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 3: computer as it is now, he'll have access to too

1089
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 3: much of like my information.

1090
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: Did you really send that shit? I would up to.

1091
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: I was like, this ship is burnt. I burned everything

1092
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: it is. I want an Angela Bassett that ship, and

1093
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: then like it's gone, I sent back ash. I'll send

1094
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: them ash like.

1095
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: And ship. That's it.

1096
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: Well, here's the okie doke. So soon because then he

1097
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 3: can't do nothing.

1098
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 2: What are he gonna do?

1099
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 3: Is he's been doing no Sidney, he was crazy because

1100
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 3: here's what happened.

1101
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: I you too.

1102
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 3: I searched him on Yahoo before we started dating, and

1103
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 3: I didn't find anything.

1104
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 2: Grew out and it was different Google.

1105
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: I googled him after y'all got me streaming in these

1106
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: people's ears.

1107
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Let's I'm sorry.

1108
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 3: So I googled him after he started acting crazy and

1109
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 3: found like court dockets.

1110
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: He's done this before, so he said, have you yahooed him?

1111
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? I didn't know nobody of everything you said. You

1112
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: said Yahoo. I was like, nobody says, nobody says, nobody

1113
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: says I can't.

1114
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 2: I do not follow.

1115
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: No one says years ago, you still got a Google hat.

1116
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 2: We weren't googling like you were. Be embarrassed to say

1117
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 2: that you googled a person back then. Deanna Taylor had

1118
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 2: a song Google Me Baby, you was in Google thousand

1119
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: years ago.

1120
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 3: You're right, that's when the song was probably on the

1121
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 3: radio while you were yahoo him and I, yeah, he

1122
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 3: searched him and nothing came up. And then when I

1123
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 3: Google searched him, a bitch found court dockets from Texas,

1124
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 3: and I was like, ooh, he's not to be fucked with.

1125
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 3: So I was genuinely afraid. So what did you vandalized?

1126
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 3: My father's car got vandalized. He was not fucking around.

1127
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 3: He would have killed me. He like, I had to

1128
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 3: go back to Atlanta for my girlfriends. Can we take

1129
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 3: one step back.

1130
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got time.

1131
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 3: So my girlfriend was getting married in Atlanta, but she

1132
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 3: was having her bachelorette in Miami for a weekend.

1133
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: I was like, I.

1134
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: Need three thousand dollars so I can host my girlfriend's bachelorette.

1135
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 2: I'm bob when we were on good term, that's cur.

1136
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: So I can host my girlfriends, so I can host Marie.

1137
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 2: You wouldn't dare since.

1138
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: I get I get that thousand dollars and be like,

1139
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: since I can't come to your blot.

1140
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 3: We fucked that money up. Now we can't read up

1141
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 3: private chef bitch. Oh we was fucking that money up

1142
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 3: so much. Three thousand just three thousand, Well, I mean

1143
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 3: everybody kind of brought. I wouldn't have been able to

1144
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 3: do what they did had I not taken his money.

1145
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 2: It's the point, like, we just fucked them. So they

1146
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 2: all needed to get it power to get you out

1147
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 2: of this situation. You like, remember that turned in Miami?

1148
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 2: That yeah, absolutely that was him.

1149
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: So since it's time to put your brains together so

1150
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: we can get out of this match.

1151
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: So we can't get out.

1152
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend was fine because that was the one she

1153
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: was getting married to. The dude who played for the Browns.

1154
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: So she was. She was so she didn't even need

1155
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 2: the three thousand dollars.

1156
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, they was getting money, but like I needed it

1157
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 3: because I wasn't getting it and I was only getting

1158
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 3: it from him. But I know at one point in

1159
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 3: our relationship he was I was like, you know.

1160
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 2: What, you were really gonna call it when you're teen?

1161
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 2: Our team.

1162
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, you're not sending me gifts

1163
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 3: as much anymore, and he was like, well, whatever I

1164
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 3: buy you, you should be able to get for yourself.

1165
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, what the fuck I need

1166
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: you for? What the fuck do I need?

1167
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 2: If? What the fuck do I need you? Fool anything?

1168
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: You getting PDST she can do all things through crisis

1169
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: strengthens her wallet.

1170
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 3: Bitch, I don't if I can buy this on my own,

1171
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 3: what the fuck do I need?

1172
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 2: I'm clearly not in it for the good D That's true.

1173
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 1: Well, also, Rachida, this is what I want to say. Yeah, Also,

1174
00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: if I had the money to buy this stuff, I

1175
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't buy this stuff with my own money.

1176
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 2: I'm using somebody else's money. The things, I mean, these

1177
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 2: are things.

1178
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 1: Why would you spend twelve hundred dollars on shoes.

1179
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 2: That's dumb. You use somebody else's money, get those shoes.

1180
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:13,919
Speaker 1: If I'm wearing them, you wear the new A real

1181
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: baller okay boom. Also, then only wear those shoes like

1182
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: three or four times because they're not going to people.

1183
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 2: And people are gonna hate us after this.

1184
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: Nah, they're gonna love us because they're like we're giving

1185
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: them so like they know so much, they know this

1186
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: is guys.

1187
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 3: I am not like this anymore. Rashida raggedy expt raggedy.

1188
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 3: This was so ragged.

1189
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: No, but girl, this is what happened. This happens to people,

1190
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,240
Speaker 1: whether you whether they say it or not. This happens

1191
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: on a regular basis not happen. It's not us, girl,

1192
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: because we don't do we pay for our own things

1193
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: and our own ubers because we're because we're idiots.

1194
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I pay for my own things now, and

1195
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 3: I take pride and paying for my own shit now.

1196
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you have to go through a whole ordeal.

1197
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 2: I've learned a lot.

1198
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 1: So he broke into your car in Pittsburgh and your

1199
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: dad's car in New York.

1200
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 2: He was hiring people to crazy to our thing because

1201
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 2: he has the money. Oh can I tell you this story.

1202
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 3: So when I googled him and recently just to make

1203
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 3: sure he's like so often. I google him just to

1204
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 3: make sure, and I found that he appealed a court

1205
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 3: case with his ex girlfriend. So apparently the assault charge

1206
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 3: that he had that I found initially was he was

1207
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 3: arguing with his ex girlfriend. They were both drunk. They

1208
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 3: were arguing in a parking lot at a grocery store.

1209
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 3: She turns to walk away. She gets hit in the

1210
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 3: back of the head with the stick, falls to the ground,

1211
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 3: is being beaten with a stick, rolls over to defend

1212
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 3: herself and starts getting punched in her face. A passerby

1213
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 3: sees this bob runs off. The cops come to his house.

1214
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 3: They see blood on his hands, his knuckles are cut up,

1215
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 3: blood on his shirt, blood on his shoes.

1216
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 2: This bitch did glove.

1217
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 3: Bitch, this bitch nigga appeals the case and his defense

1218
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: was on the assault charge. Well, if her back was turned,

1219
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 3: how did she know I hit her? You arrogant son of.

1220
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 2: A bitch, Nidney.

1221
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 3: If we are beefing, even if we're beefing and we're

1222
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 3: arguing in a parking lot and I turned to walk away,

1223
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 3: and someone else I was running up to beat me

1224
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 3: upside the head with the fuck we still got from?

1225
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 2: Where come from? So wait, when he appealed, did he win?

1226
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. I didn't. I don't. They

1227
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 2: hadn't made a decision at the They had a thing

1228
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 2: about it though, They were like, how did she know? Damn?

1229
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 2: But which somebody else could have done it? You standing

1230
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 2: right there?

1231
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: No, No, I just felt I read that and I

1232
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 3: was like, oh no, he's for real crazy. First, so

1233
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 3: he beat up a chick, you know, in broad daylight

1234
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 3: in a parking lot, in a parking lot, parking lot,

1235
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 3: pisson what kind of.

1236
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 2: Parking line was?

1237
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: It was like a grocery store, stopping shop, trader Joe's.

1238
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,320
Speaker 2: I saw it. So it was like there were people

1239
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 2: enough people they.

1240
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: Had to be whole foods because those people cared, they care.

1241
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 2: I saw it, Yeah, because like I.

1242
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: Came in here to pay three dollars for one tomato,

1243
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: and I saw the whole thing.

1244
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, so let me tell you. And I ended

1245
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 3: up moving out of Pitts, moving out of Pittsburgh's.

1246
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 2: Clearly, Yeah, I moved, trying to get your ass out, Yes, move,

1247
00:53:58,360 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 2: I moved to New York to be some comedy.

1248
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: Make my parents proud, take my titties and go because

1249
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: I took my titties and I dipped.

1250
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 3: Cant Hurricane Sandy is now happening, so well, yeah, I

1251
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 3: was here for that too. It was it was bad.

1252
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 3: We had no lights. People literally had fish in their basement.

1253
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 2: The running into your home.

1254
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: So I was dating somebody at the time who lived

1255
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: in the financial district, and it was a mess.

1256
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 3: Yes, it was. It's messy. So I fell asleep because

1257
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 3: there was nothing to do. I roll over that one

1258
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 3: or two percent battery left because I can't charge my phone.

1259
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 3: And every so often, after I found out about the violence,

1260
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 3: after I googled him, I stopped responding.

1261
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 2: And about two.

1262
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 3: Years had passed, and every so often he would just

1263
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 3: reach out, reach out, apologize and be like, send me

1264
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 3: an email. You know, I was in the women's shoes

1265
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 3: section in Neiman Marcus and I thought of you. As

1266
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 3: crazy as it sounds, I miss sending you gifts. It's

1267
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 3: a shame the way things ended.

1268
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: Like he would just constantly like send me emails and

1269
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 1: text messages.

1270
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 2: It's a trap, and I would respond because now I

1271
00:54:58,480 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 2: know he's violent. But he didn't know that.

1272
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,439
Speaker 3: I knew that, and I rolled over and I looked

1273
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 3: at my phone and it was a text from him,

1274
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 3: and it was like, wasshita, how are you and your

1275
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 3: family holding up in the storm. But he had no

1276
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 3: business knowing that I was in New York because I

1277
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 3: hadn't talked to him two years.

1278
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 2: So I was dragging device on your car. Oh my god,

1279
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: now I'm scared. I lost it. It's time I lost it. Yeah,

1280
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 2: you're putting our lives on the line.

1281
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: They need the people need the unofficial expert. So you're

1282
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: sucking up our business. Zah in Jersey sentiment, Oh, Adrian.

1283
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 5: Adrian, Adrian, if you're listening, Oh my god, she is

1284
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 5: s O S s O S no.

1285
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 3: But let me tell you because I wasn't responding for

1286
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 3: two years because I.

1287
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,720
Speaker 2: Was afraid two years since you didn't change your phone number.

1288
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 2: I changed my phone number. Bitch, she got the new number. Bitch.

1289
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 2: Did you not hear me?

1290
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he can find out where my dad

1291
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 1: lives and dad's name.

1292
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,240
Speaker 2: Did your dad give him the new number?

1293
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 1: No, my father's unequivocally you're not. Your dad was like, well,

1294
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: you need to stop calling me. A six, Sam, you

1295
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: just text.

1296
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: Keep it to you. My father wouldn't not. But I

1297
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 2: fucked us.

1298
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 3: But I hadn't been saying anything because I was so

1299
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,359
Speaker 3: afraid of him. And then when I read that text

1300
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 3: message and it was just clear that he was never

1301
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 3: gonna stop talking me. I wrote him back and I

1302
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 3: was like, you know what I sent you back everything.

1303
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: You're fucking insane. I never want to talk to you again.

1304
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 3: I think you're sick. I think you're mentally ill. I

1305
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 3: don't want to hear from you. My family doesn't want

1306
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 3: to hear from you. Stop reaching out to us. Said

1307
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 3: this at one percent. I said it was the last

1308
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 3: that I had and it was worth it. And he

1309
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: wrote me back like a crazy psycho bob like he is,

1310
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 3: and he was like, I think you don't know who

1311
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 3: this is. This is a white boy from Syracuse. But

1312
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 3: it's okay. You won't ever hear from me again. But

1313
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 3: he had said that before, he said, this is a

1314
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 3: white boy from Sarah Girl. I don't even know what

1315
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 3: that fucking means, but he said that, and he he's

1316
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 3: told me before that he would never I would never

1317
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: hear from him again. And of course I've heard from him,

1318
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 3: So I was like sitting on ready like all right,

1319
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 3: fuck it, like I'm gonna I got to do. But

1320
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 3: then I never heard from him again to date. That

1321
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 3: was Hurricane Sandy, So what was that twenty twelve? I

1322
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 3: hadn't get to hear from him again, and I was

1323
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 3: talking to my girlfriend recently, the same one who I

1324
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 3: got the advice from initially, and I was like, I'm

1325
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 3: having a different issue with a different guy, not a stalker.

1326
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 3: When I need to stop. He needs to stop texting me,

1327
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 3: stop calling me. I don't want to be with you.

1328
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 3: That was mean and uncalled for ya.

1329
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 2: What was a new phone?

1330
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: Because you can't be telling somebody to stop calling you

1331
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: from the phone they about you.

1332
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 2: That's just the fact that is. That's what it is.

1333
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 2: This new gentleman did not buy me a phone. But yeah,

1334
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 2: you didn't.

1335
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: You didn't get him to get you a new phone.

1336
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: Well no, no, you're foolish. I'm disappointed in you.

1337
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 3: But with that being said, he needed to stop calling me,

1338
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 3: and I was like, but remember one when I stood

1339
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 3: up to Psycho Bob and I told him to stop

1340
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 3: calling me. He stopped calling me, and my girlfriend was like, girl,

1341
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 3: here in jail, he and jail, and he lost his possessions. Bitch,

1342
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 3: that's why he ain't calling you. You ain't scared nobody.

1343
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 3: She's probably right, but either way, I ain't heard from

1344
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 3: him and it's been about five years, so I'm grateful.

1345
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 2: So wait, he's also going knock on wood. So he's

1346
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 2: in jail.

1347
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 3: I hope not because of you, though, No, no, I

1348
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 3: mean I went to the cops. They said that he

1349
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 3: had to actually hit me, and because it was in

1350
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 3: order to get a restraining.

1351
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 4: Order, and because it because it was since you should

1352
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 4: have pushed yourself in the shape should girl got you

1353
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 4: a little white battle Laura, a little sharpen bottle and dude,

1354
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 4: what what she did in the movie and been like, no.

1355
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't do that.

1356
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 3: I did a little blood, I had lawyer sentences and

1357
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 3: the sistercries, it wouldn't stop it.

1358
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 2: Well, none of that matters.

1359
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: You don't you not watch the movie show, You don't

1360
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 1: watch Lifetime suits, You don't you didn't watch enough.

1361
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 2: I saw that movie.

1362
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: I said, Wow, this white woman, I mean, this Spanish

1363
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: woman who thinks she's white in this movie.

1364
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 2: You know Jennifer Lopez Italian? Oh yeah, I was Italians.

1365
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 2: Is that's what we're doing? Is was Italy? Okay, I

1366
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 2: see it.

1367
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was my getting. I haven't been stopped

1368
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 3: in that way since exact way. Well, we have a

1369
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 3: couple of minutes left. Wow, else have you been stalked?

1370
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: No, I haven't really been stocked since the way you

1371
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: are over here, and I might be just don't stop.

1372
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: I see the way you are over here, and I

1373
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 1: might be texting you later here.

1374
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 2: You know what I can't get you know why? Yourself?

1375
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: But Adri get you some I'll get you some rainbow.

1376
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: I get you some Steve Madding. I get you some

1377
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: tin spots. Yea yea strawberry be shipped ship strawberry.

1378
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 2: Get you some Chica. Get you some bolts. Get you

1379
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 2: some Burmington Cold Factory. Get you some Target. Get some

1380
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 2: wet seal. Get you some So what did you learn

1381
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 2: from this?

1382
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: If anybody's listening to this, who is currently being stalked

1383
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 1: or in the process of getting ready to stalk somebody,

1384
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: or in the process of sugar daddy, what's what tips?

1385
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: Just give us like a couple like real quick.

1386
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 2: Honestly, happiness is priceless. That's not delete. I need money.

1387
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 2: You've been black, y'all. Don't do it, seriously, don't do it.

1388
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 2: I would. I don't even online date now because of that.

1389
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: I went to therapy.

1390
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: I was.

1391
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 2: My insurance. I just want to know. This is a

1392
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 2: victim here, your victim. What did you what did what

1393
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:18,919
Speaker 2: did you have on a therapy? What did you wear?

1394
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 2: Did you wear this lingering? You know what? Guys, girl,

1395
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 2: you already looked down and check.

1396
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: You were yelling, and I was like, okay, keep yelling,

1397
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: keep you there's they're sitting good, great, thank you, thank you.

1398
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm overwhelmed. I've worked hard to look the way I fantastic,

1399
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 2: which is why you have stalkers looking good?

1400
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 1: You have you had, I said.

1401
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 3: My homegirl, the one who the whole girl who gives

1402
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 3: me my good advice. She told me, now you are

1403
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 3: officially a bad bitch, because every bad bitch has had

1404
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 3: a stalker.

1405
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 2: And it kind of worry. What kind of bitches are we?

1406
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 1: Just we're loud. Didn't want to stop him. They always

1407
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 1: talking to damn much. The two muppets from that Buppets.

1408
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 3: Oive he truly, happiness is priceless. I work a job

1409
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 3: now that I love. I have a career that I love.

1410
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 3: I do what I enjoy and I make good money.

1411
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 2: You do. You are right, I should have and buy

1412
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 2: me a bag. Yeah, you don't bringing us to no breakfast.

1413
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 1: You've got these jobs and ship a real petty. So

1414
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: I just for Christmas, I just want one tooth. Can

1415
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: you just hit me up with just a one veneer?

1416
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: I'll just take one. You're so stupid.

1417
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 2: Did you keep anything besides the computer? The computer? The pants? Pants?

1418
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 2: I'm assuming he brought you some like lingerie to get

1419
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 2: that lingerie. So you're saying the thing you got on

1420
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 2: right now, you bought that.

1421
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 3: I purchased that purchase. I didn't give him back any

1422
01:01:58,520 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 3: of the money that he gave us.

1423
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 2: More n it would have been all sprint.

1424
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: Okay, say that money was in Miami. That money is

1425
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:07,439
Speaker 1: in strippers bank account right now.

1426
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that money was spent in the computer because it

1427
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 3: wasn't really about the money.

1428
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:11,919
Speaker 2: Girl.

1429
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 3: I sent him back over ten thousand dollars worth of stuff,

1430
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 3: but he wouldn't leave me alone.

1431
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 2: I can't believe you sent it. I would have blocked

1432
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 2: and punched myself in the face, Like.

1433
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 3: When someone treats you that badly, you kind of just

1434
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 3: don't want to even look at the ship.

1435
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 2: You said when he treats you that you were doing

1436
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 2: a lot of bad. I wouldn't know. I was aw

1437
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 2: This is I was awful that I wanted to break up.

1438
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 2: It wasn't really a relations it was a great job.

1439
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: You should have given him two weeks notice and then

1440
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: you should have been like, in two weeks, I'm not

1441
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: gonna be here no more. It was that's it. That's

1442
01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: what you hit him with the text. You hit him

1443
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: with the Burger Sex and the city. I can't do

1444
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: this no more post posted text and then that's why

1445
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: he called.

1446
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 2: You iPhone Apple.

1447
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: They got like a little posted thing too that you

1448
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: could like electronic post it to him.

1449
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 2: With that shut up.

1450
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 3: Another reason why I gave him back some of the

1451
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 3: stuff because I didn't know this, but he was stealing

1452
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 3: money from his father's company.

1453
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 2: And sis, and I didn't want to get involved in that. Oh,

1454
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:12,920
Speaker 2: now you care about the day. You're not here for the.

1455
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: You're like it's father's days. Well, I'm not here for

1456
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm here for some money laundering.

1457
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 2: Ya.

1458
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: I've been doing I've been doing that all my life.

1459
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 2: Where can people listening catch you Oh my god, but

1460
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 2: do you really want to give out your information. I

1461
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 2: feel like this is not for you time. I feel

1462
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 2: like we should just put another picture up.

1463
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 3: Well, you guys have sad my whole name, so we

1464
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 3: didn't want to find especially it's like, oh, Bob listened

1465
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 3: to podcasts in jail now.

1466
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: Only the minimum money to listen to. Yeah, it's not

1467
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: gonna be this one.

1468
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 3: They want to look at stuff so they have things

1469
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:53,439
Speaker 3: to jerk off too. They don't want to listen.

1470
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't have anything posted for them off to.

1471
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 2: Yeah a nice picture.

1472
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 3: They watching basketball, wives and love and hip hop so

1473
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 3: they could jerk off.

1474
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 2: She bushed your ray and stuff.

1475
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 1: Well, Rushi does thank you so much for being This

1476
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: has been a great episode, Siddy, did you learn anything.

1477
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, i'mita.

1478
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:14,439
Speaker 1: I just needed to be your friend at the time,

1479
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: because I would It would have played out totally different, totally.

1480
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: I'd have been like, well, give by my number exactly,

1481
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: and then I would have had him for four months.

1482
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 2: Then Sidney would have him perfour months and that's it.

1483
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm telling you, I had sex, would have due

1484
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: who had homeless hair, so like homeless hair, homeless heirless

1485
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 1: hair lice. What that means is it's just like real madic. Yeah,

1486
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: he thought he was doing the weekend thing, but before the.

1487
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 3: Weekend with the weekend, was it bob Bob had homeless hair.

1488
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 3: It was like salt pepper, but he had homeless he no, no, no, no, it.

1489
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 2: Wasn't that this guy was in a band. You're trying

1490
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 2: to lock.

1491
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: You kept be going great and trying to last forty something.

1492
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: Get some dreadlocks. Oh hell, that was too old. That's

1493
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 1: rick Flex's he was crazy. What I would have did,

1494
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: I would have hit him with the I would have

1495
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 1: had sex with him, but the sex would have been

1496
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: so bad that he'd be like, you know what, Actually,

1497
01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm almost sad. Considered not brushing my teeth for like

1498
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: five days. Bro's that means I'm not doing gens. But also, Sydney,

1499
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: my box is too good for it to be bad.

1500
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: So even if I'm laying there, he'd have been liked

1501
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, Sidney, the box is white

1502
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 1: and ripe.

1503
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 2: The boxes top shelf.

1504
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten a desktop where your desktop at shot?

1505
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: I got I got rent paid for a year since

1506
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: shouts how good.

1507
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:29,959
Speaker 2: The boxes shut both of us. Well, I'm not gonna

1508
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 2: talk about message.

1509
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: We well okay, all right, Well this is where we're

1510
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: gonna leave you guys today, join us for all the

1511
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 1: mess that you missed today on Heron. Yeah, we're gonna

1512
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna have to do a whole another episode we

1513
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: do uh, we do uh an hour of honesty hour Yeah,

1514
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 1: which we don't lie about anything, and it's we say

1515
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: all the things that we wanted to say because we

1516
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 1: couldn't get a word in with you, Rashidah.

1517
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 2: So sorry, you had a lot to say. Booth, it

1518
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 2: was your time. Thanks for having me. Thank you so

1519
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 2: much for doing it. Yeah, sign up pat On.

1520
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:02,800
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