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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what we're doing it anyway, it's Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey and we've got a brand new episode for

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Speaker 1: you on your Second Date podcast. Thanks so much for

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Speaker 1: being here. And before we get to it, let's do comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Debo seventy seven said, I've purposely been slacking on listening,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, you're one of those that loves

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Speaker 1: our back to back classics on Saturday. Yeah you are,

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Speaker 1: Debo for sure. Alright, let's get to just your one

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 3: When was the last time someone in this room picked

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Speaker 1: I say, yeah, my junior year maybe.

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Speaker 3: Then you obviously remember the entire novel is basically following

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you did. But probably half of our listeners

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Speaker 3: And I only bring it up because our listener, Sheena,

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this guy was going full in.

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Speaker 4: He was going full gats beyond.

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Speaker 1: What's his name, by the way, his name is Matt

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Speaker 2: I'm bumble, okay, and I have to be honest. I

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Speaker 2: I just characteristically wrote to him and I said, well,

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Speaker 1: You just said the word well, You're just like, uh, hello,

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Speaker 4: Brooke, She said, well, oh, probably, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That means I wanted him to say something for him.

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Speaker 1: He got what he wanted?

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Speaker 2: He was just chasing to.

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Speaker 3: Are you actually wanting us to call him now and

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Speaker 1: Because we can't ask him why he's not calling you back.

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Speaker 2: I would really like you to call him and tell

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Speaker 1: Is there any cell that we could have of why

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Speaker 4: What does he have to look forward to?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well it doesn't get any easier than that. What

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Speaker 2: I like all the time the phone was that she

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry that you're going through this right now.

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Speaker 4: Must be very tough on you.

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Speaker 4: Well, we understand. That's why we're going to come back.

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Speaker 3: We're going to call this quitter of a man and

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Speaker 4: You like I knew I loved you.

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Speaker 2: Guys, Do you understand we do.

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Speaker 1: She does show affection.

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Speaker 2: On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date update.

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Speaker 4: What happened to men? I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, one day you're telling them, no, don't show

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Speaker 3: Talk about being clear and respecting boundaries.

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Speaker 4: Am I right, Sena, Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to.

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Speaker 3: No, he's he's given up. Matt asked her out multiple times.

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Speaker 3: Sheena has reluctantly been forced to turn him down over

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Speaker 4: I like your energy, Sina.

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Speaker 3: Don't lose your spark because good Yeah, you deserve all

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: It's probably going to be a very surprising call to true.

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Speaker 3: I think she'd meant a very exciting call for you.

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Speaker 1: Why the date hasn't happened materialized.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I know where you guys are going

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Speaker 1: Would be shocking to me if you knew what we

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Speaker 4: About Leski have a hint.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's pretty good because we're talking about a

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Speaker 4: You named Shehena right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, he did not expect Shina.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well we've heard that there's been developments in this relationship.

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Speaker 3: We're trying to figure out where your head's at.

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Speaker 6: I tried to hang out with that girl for almost

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Speaker 5: That I will never get back.

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Speaker 1: Can I just ask, after she first said no to

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Speaker 5: Well, guys need to pursue more like you hear it

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Speaker 5: Be said, I'm not an EMU, he's not in the sand.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was like EMO all.

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Speaker 6: Right, but she's pretty and like, you gotta give it

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Speaker 5: There, because it's desert.

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Speaker 1: So it's you know, rough, em in desert is the

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Speaker 3: Beautiful course, So we heard you two met on bumble.

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Speaker 3: You chatted for a long time, you said, a whole month.

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Speaker 1: It was mostly one sided. It you sending her messages

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Speaker 3: In different ways because it doesn't fit her schedule. And

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Speaker 3: then you suggested visiting her at work because she was

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Speaker 5: I mean I really tried with her. I even sent

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Speaker 5: her flower you did.

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Speaker 3: Wait, she shouldn't say that she gave you her address.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean I had to send them to her

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Speaker 1: How do you know her sister?

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Speaker 4: Your sister's address?

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Speaker 6: She said, just to be safe, so I did, and

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Speaker 6: you know I still got like heard nothing back.

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Speaker 1: Wait, just to be safe. I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: find me. But if you buy my sister, that's fine.

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Speaker 4: She was like a sacrificial laud She's got a machete

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I mean I just that's to a casual

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Speaker 5: and she couldn't make any of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that doesn't mean I want you to stop pursuing me.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Man, So that's Sina who has been waiting quietly on

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Speaker 3: the other line until she wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I mean it makes sense. You'd never heard her voice before.

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Speaker 1: This is what she sounds like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's been waiting to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't believe you right now?

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Speaker 1: What you're mad?

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Speaker 5: What do you want from me?

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Speaker 2: Shouldn't all be honest with my looks? I'm Matt with

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Speaker 2: a lot of idiots on dating site. I believe a

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Speaker 4: People hold on letter Cook, and you're the first.

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Speaker 2: One in a while who's been able to keep up

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Speaker 2: and to stay with me like you were fighting to

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Speaker 2: see me for I don't know, like an entire month,

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Speaker 2: and I really appreciated that. It meant a lot to me.

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Speaker 3: Those first nice things she said, I think like a

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Speaker 5: Never never do it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and you know a lot. If you really like me,

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Speaker 2: you don't quit. You asked me out eight more times,

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: You sound like a woman who's got a great career.

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Speaker 1: You've got a lot of things going for you. Why

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Speaker 1: wouldn't you take control and just say, oh, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: work for me? How about Wednesday at five or whatever

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Speaker 2: Yes, excuse me, I am not the man here. That

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Speaker 2: is the man's responsibility, YEA, to.

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Speaker 1: Know your schedule. I have to find a date that works.

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Speaker 3: Why are you telling women to do everything and men

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Speaker 1: Sounds like an incredible dependent woman who's got her stuff together.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand, not enough apportably. Now she needs to

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Speaker 3: be scheduling all the dates for the man.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: I'm really busy and I want to fit him into

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Speaker 2: the time is right and I can find space, and

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Speaker 2: then when I do, Matt is the guy that I

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Speaker 2: want to go out with.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's the first time Matt's probably heard that

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Speaker 1: he's wanted, which is I assume nice feeling.

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Speaker 5: No, Matt, I'm mind blown, and you want me to

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Speaker 5: ask you out eight more times?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it doesn't matter, there's no number on it. I

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Speaker 2: just want you to pursue me so I know you're serious.

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Speaker 4: It's like a baseball player, Matt.

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Speaker 3: You've swung at eight pitches, you've striked on all eight,

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Speaker 3: but that doesn't mean you don't go back to the

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Speaker 4: Coach isn't going to pull you from the game.

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Speaker 1: Actually usually means you get sent down to a lower team.

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Speaker 3: She's not ready to send them down. She wants you

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Speaker 3: to strike out more.

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Speaker 2: It's not I don't know. I'm going to say.

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Speaker 4: No, that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: Are you free on Friday?

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Speaker 2: No, I have like a work thing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how about Saturday?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Actually the Friday I have to go away for

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Speaker 1: Don't choose weekends. Yeah, is that it, Matt? You don't

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Speaker 1: want to try another day? We don't want to go

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Speaker 1: through all seven days of the week. Monday could be

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Speaker 5: Future months, mondays.

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Speaker 4: I feel like the first that would know would be you, Shina.

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Speaker 2: I know, but my schedule just changes so rapidly and

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Speaker 2: there's so much on darn. But don't give up, Matt,

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Speaker 2: don't give up. I want to keep asking.

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Speaker 4: You know what.

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Speaker 3: I think maybe I'll just take it from here. So

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Speaker 3: we would love to have you guys go out on

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Speaker 3: a date. I don't know how to do that, but

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Speaker 3: maybe we can agree to send you on a date

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Speaker 3: at a future time to be determined, and when that

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Speaker 3: time is determined, we would pay for it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're talking to the most important woman in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounderstand me. I love you guys, you get me.

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Speaker 4: We do. The question is, is Matt up for it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, Matt, that was the response.

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Speaker 4: But I like, we gotta yes, what was okay?

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to get an update in two years

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Speaker 1: if it's happened yet.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know what happened just now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Matt, you're in love. Just send more flowers to

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Speaker 3: her sister. You're gonna love it. Brooking Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 3: morning for me and I know this is probably unpopular opinion,

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Speaker 3: But did it seem like maybe she was being a

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Speaker 1: Oh weird, Josh? Did you come to that conclusion all

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go too crazy with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, alexis what's your take on if a woman wants

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Speaker 4: Obviously that's not you. But how do you feel about

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Speaker 1: Um, well, you can be honest. Yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: she's crazy?

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Speaker 4: Okay, there it is, all right?

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Speaker 3: Maybe in this case she was a little bit on

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Speaker 3: he said yeah, He said yeah.

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Speaker 4: And that was all we needed it. That's right. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I'm marking it up as a victory for us

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Speaker 3: and everyone involved. And you can be victorious too in

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Speaker 3: your dating life. Just the able the show. We'll call

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