1 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: What's up you guys. Welcome to the Velvis Podcast. I 2 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: am here with my buddy Christi Cavalary. I have to 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: tell you this. Okay, your last name, do you know 4 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: it called you Cavalari? I think I didn't know that, 5 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: and then I saw so many years. Thank God for 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: Very helps me. I've had so many people say that, 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: that's so the finally people will get my name right. Yeah. 8 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: I feel like I've known you for seven eight years 9 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: and I'm just learning how to pronounce your Well. I 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: don't even correct people anymore because I'm so used to 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: people saying Cavalari, like since I was seventeen, and then 12 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: each came out, so then I'm just like, whatever, there's 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: no point because so many people will pronounce it that way, 14 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna let them happy. Yeah, well now 15 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: we all know Very Cavalari. No, um, okay, I'm so 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: happy you're here. So I went on my Instagram and 17 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: I asked people what they wanted to know, and I 18 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: literally got so many questions, and I was like, how 19 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: many podcasts are we gonna do? I love that? Yeah, 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: you so much? Going on? So you have a New 21 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: York Times bestseller, You have a cookbook that's also a 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: New York bestseller on Common James, which is now Jewelry, 23 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: Home Goods, Your wife, yes, your mom yes, and now 24 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 1: Very Cavalry. I know that's exciting. It's been a little crazy, 25 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but between filming Very Cavalary and 26 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: my cookbook coming out at the same time and opening 27 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: a store here in Nashville, it was a lot at once. 28 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,559 Speaker 1: But now you know, we're done filming, the show, stores open. 29 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: It's something right, and I'm not on a book tour, 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: so things right now are actually really great. I'm just 31 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 1: focusing on Uncommon James. The business side of things. Yeah, 32 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,919 Speaker 1: it's actually perfect. How often are you actually in the store, 33 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: so because we have the store and then there's the 34 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: office component behind and so I'm there a couple of 35 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: days a week. Um, it just kind of depends on 36 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: what's going on. But we're hiring a lot more people, 37 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: so I've been there to kind of just like oversee 38 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: everything and help train a little bit. So um, there, 39 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: you know, I'm there a decent amount. So if you're 40 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: interested in working for Uncommon James, I can't hear any works, okay, 41 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: um okay, So to start with the questions. I did 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: get so many questions about how we met, Yeah, which 43 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: is always funny. People are like, how do you guys 44 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: know each other? It is kind of random. Yeah, because 45 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: you didn't live here when we met. You were in 46 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: l A. And we met. No, I was in Chicago, 47 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: you were Jay and I were living in Chicago. Wait, no, 48 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: I was in l A. God, you're right right. So 49 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: my one of my ex boyfriends played football was Jay 50 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: and Vanderbilt And so did you Ben j had you 51 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: all just started dating? So so Jay and I know. 52 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: So what happened is, um, Jay and I met August. 53 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: I don't even know why I remember that. Oh, I 54 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: guess because it was the football season. Um, and then 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: we were together. We got engaged after eight months, and 56 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: then we broke up A couple of months later. I 57 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,119 Speaker 1: broke up with him, and then I went to Green 58 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: I broke up with I broke up with him, and 59 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: I just I went to Greece. I did Dancing with 60 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: the Stars. Yeah, and then um, he came out for 61 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: the third episode of Dancing with the Stars and that's 62 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: when I got the boot. Wow a lot. Well, you 63 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: want to know something funny, but they that week we're like, hey, 64 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: you know, would you consider talking about your break up 65 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: with JA and how emotional it's been and all this stuff. 66 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, I'm not going to talk 67 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: about that. And then I got to do with dancing 68 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: right well, it's like pulling on heartstrings and I said no, 69 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: and then I got kicked off that week. What Yeah, wow, 70 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: that's not crazy, I know, so fine whatever, not mad 71 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: at all, not a bit or at all. Chas Bono 72 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: beating me. It's fun Chas Bono. Wow, it was so sweet, 73 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: by the way. But anyways, so what up? Um? So 74 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: then I went to Chicago and we were basically just 75 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: together all the time. Came to Nashville, yes, um, for Halloween. 76 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: I guess that was from what I remember. He was 77 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: trying to convince you to move to Nashville at that point, yes, 78 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: or like eventually maybe once football was done or in 79 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: the off season. So once he was done with football, Um, 80 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: our plan was to live in Nashville full time. That 81 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: was always our plan. And so at the time, like 82 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: right as we had gotten back together, so when we 83 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: broke up, the actually bought our house that we're still 84 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: in in Nashville. And because he was really, really trying 85 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: to do everything to get me back. So we bought 86 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: the house and I was like, what the hell did 87 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: you do? But came to Nashville. I mean I loved Nashville, 88 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: and so we got back together and um and yeah, 89 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: we had our house in Nashville. So then we ended 90 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: up spending more time here. But when we met, it 91 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: was Halloween weekend yea, and we all went out, we 92 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: went to dinner, and then I felt like it was 93 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: like an instant up comming it totally was. We had 94 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: so much fun that night and so fun and we 95 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: were like fast friends. It was like we had in 96 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: each other for years. I just remember, like because we 97 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: went to dinner and then we went out and everything, 98 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: and I had my shoes off at the end of 99 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: the night. You know, that's a good nuy you wake 100 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: up with blackfeet. Yeah, we had fun. Oh my gosh. Okay, 101 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: what would you say, like between l A Chicago Nashville, 102 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: what's the main thing you love about Nashville or with 103 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: the big difference? Um, Nashville has a very l A 104 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: feel actually, so there's that cool factor because of the 105 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: country music scene, you know. Um, and now Nashville has 106 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: a ton of really cool, healthy spots. Like what I 107 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: love so much about l A is the weather, but 108 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: also like all the little juice bars and coffee shops. 109 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: Everywhere you go you can get amazing healthy food, so 110 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: that more and more of those places are starting to 111 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: pop up here, which is great. Um, But Nashville, it's 112 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: just you have the best of both worlds. It's a 113 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: you know, you have everything that a big city offers, 114 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,799 Speaker 1: but it feels like a really small town. It's beautiful, 115 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: the food is amazing. It's just a really great place 116 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 1: to raise our family. When you guys just bought a 117 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: new house to right, it's like you're kind of going 118 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: to live on a farm. Yes, chickens goats, chickens goats. 119 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: Um my mom is trying to convince me to get 120 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: a mini horse. Oh those are so so cute, pump um, 121 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: they are cute. I mean, we'll see we have eight 122 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: or ten chickens right now, so we'll actually let's talk 123 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: about that. Because when I went to before you got here, 124 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 1: I like googled you just because I like to see 125 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: I like to see what's going on. The first thing 126 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: that popped up was it said, um, you were being 127 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: accused of animal cruelty from it from that I was dying. Okay, 128 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: so tell this my mom. Okay, So my mom called 129 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: me and she's like, Christens, like Chicago is having the 130 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: time with I posted a picture holding one of my chickens. Yeah, 131 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: and I said pet today, dinner tomorrow, just kidding kind of. 132 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it was a joke. It isn't I mean, 133 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: but hey and right, yeah, so in a few years, 134 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: you know, we may kill it and eat it. I mean, 135 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but that's a very humane way to do it. 136 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: How it was raised. You know, it wasn't pumped full 137 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: of antiotics. Yes, and we take very good care of 138 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: our chickens, very loved. So honestly, I that's like one 139 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: of those things where I knew that was going to 140 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: piss off the vegans and I just didn't care. I 141 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: came at I just don't care because I eat meat. 142 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop eating meat, and I you know, 143 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: we take really good care of our chickens, and that's 144 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: the life cycle. It is what it is. And so 145 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: literally it was the first article and like this is 146 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: what people are saying about her. Of all the other 147 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: things you have going on, let's talk about your animal abuse, 148 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,679 Speaker 1: animal abuse. So is that kind of how you feel 149 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: with negative presses you just can't care anymore? Yeah, you 150 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: have to. I mean there are certain things, certain things 151 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: will get to me a little bit more than others. 152 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: That's one thing that's so ridiculous that I have to 153 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: just laugh it off. Um. I stopped reading my comments 154 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: on Instagram, and honestly, yes, that has given me much 155 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: more peace. I'm living a much happier life. And it 156 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: wasn't even like people were saying really mean things. It 157 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: was just when people think that they know what they're 158 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: talking about and they actually have no idea, that just 159 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: drives me crazy. Yeah, I just want to be like, 160 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: you have no idea what you're talking about. I don't 161 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: think i'd be able to control myself. I would want 162 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: to correct everyone. It's hard, like go after them. Yes, 163 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: it's really hard. So just for my own sanity, I 164 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: stopped reading my comments and it's been very beneficial for me. 165 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: The other thing with that is like, if you go 166 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: off on one negative comment, you're kind of disregarding all 167 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: the positive stuff that's happening and all the other people 168 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: who are saying nice stuff so well. And also a 169 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: couple of years ago, we went on vacation and I 170 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: posted a picture of my boys and Jay and people 171 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: were saying how skinny they were, and I wrote back 172 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: to someone and because I wrote back, that then became 173 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: a story and it turned into something bigger, and so 174 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: I was like, this is stupid, Like me fueling the 175 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: fire makes it, you know, just makes it bigger. It 176 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: makes it something where like if someone just writes something 177 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 1: mean US Weekly or whoever, can't write an article about that, 178 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: like no, right, But if I respond and make it 179 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: an men? Yeah, So with all of like the social 180 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 1: media and all these comments like what would make you 181 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 1: want to go back to reality TV your life again? Right? Question? 182 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: So honestly, I mean, just to be completely transparent, I'm 183 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: doing the show because it's a good business decision for me, 184 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: it's good for uncommon James, And you know, I just 185 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: feel like so much time has passed between the Hills 186 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: and Very Cavaliery that I'm older, I'm wiser. I have 187 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: an executive producer credit this time. So I have this 188 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: guy for that epy. A few times I've been there. 189 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: I've kind a few things out, sorry guy, but I 190 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: just have this security blanket and so and I just 191 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: going into it. I know that I can say no 192 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: to things, and I know like you know, And my 193 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: biggest concern going into it was, you know, it was 194 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 1: different doing like gonna Beach in the Hills when it 195 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: was just me and now I have three little kids 196 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: and I have a husband who my actions could affect. 197 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: So that was my biggest concern. But Jay and I 198 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,719 Speaker 1: because Jay is on it a little bit, well I 199 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: guess he's on it more character Jay is coming and 200 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: he is he really, So we just talked about what 201 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: we were willing to put out there, and obviously we 202 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: kept a lot private. I mean, you just have to 203 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: have those discussions. And you know, we put parameters on 204 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: where we could and couldn't film within the house. And 205 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: just like the kids aren't on it, they're not on it. 206 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: They would be around and they would watch the monitors, 207 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: but they won't be on it because we just want 208 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: to keep them kids. So tell us what is the 209 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: show actually about? So the show is really about my 210 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: life in Nashville and opening up my store. It's you know, 211 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 1: I have all my employees on it, so it's it's 212 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: it's every area of my life. So it's me as 213 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: a friend, which is where you come in. Um, it's 214 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 1: me as a wife and then me as a businesswoman. 215 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: So it's every area of my life. When the trailer 216 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: came out, and I'll tell you how many messages I got. 217 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: Are we finally going to know about your dating life? 218 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: Because you you say to me in the trailer, if 219 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: it's he is the one, you can't have sex with them? 220 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: And then I say, what if he's not the one? Right? 221 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: You never talk about your dating I never talked about it, 222 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: and I'm single and I'm not dating. But yeah, I 223 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: don't really put it out there, but well I guess, 224 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: well it's out there now, and it's a good story. 225 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: It's a good one. It is definitely interesting. I mean 226 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: it's really been an out there yeah, but it is. 227 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: So it's fun for us because I think you and 228 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: I have this relationship. We're always us laugh. Yeah, it's 229 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 1: so it's fun to bring that in and then you're 230 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: shown in this business world. It's a business. This is 231 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: a business. I say this is a business. I think 232 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: a thousand times on every episode. I think we should 233 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: start a drinking every time Kristen says I'm running a business. 234 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: This is a business. This is just throw out of 235 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: their guys. This is the business. Yes, company business, take 236 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: a shot, everybody, You're gonna be wasted. A lot of 237 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: people wanted to know how because you openly talk about 238 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: how The Hills was fake. Yes, so a lot of 239 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: people wanted to know more about that, like was gonna 240 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: be each fake kind of or what do you mean fake? 241 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: Like were they literally feeding you lines? So um, every 242 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: reality show that I've done, so Very Cavalry is my 243 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: third reality star. Truly, there's elements of truth to all 244 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: of them, and then there are some manufactured things, some 245 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: way more than others. I have to say. I mean, 246 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: I think Very Cavalry was pretty real. I mean everything 247 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: was based on real stuff. With every show, no matter what, 248 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: you have to go and do. It's called pickup scenes, 249 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: and those are scenes where when they're playing the episodes 250 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: together they realized they need something because it's it doesn't 251 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: transition well or whatever, so you have to go and 252 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: fill in some gaps. So in that sense, okay, yeah, 253 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: you're pretending like it's a couple of months ago, but 254 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: it's based on real stuff. All of our storylines were real, 255 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: All of them were really, so very Cavalry is the 256 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: first show that I can get behind and say this 257 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: is a hunter percent me. I can really yeah, I 258 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 1: can just really get behind it. Where Um Laguna Beach 259 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: was more you know, producers coming into our world and 260 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: putting us in situations we normally wouldn't have been in, 261 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: which is what like throwing you guys like yes, parties, 262 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: hanging out with people that I normally never in a 263 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: million years would have hung out a really yeah, forcing 264 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: my boyfriend the time, who is your boyfriend, Steve even 265 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: to go hang out with Lauren, which he wouldn't have done, 266 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: Like he wouldn't have just gone off to her house, 267 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: and like, hang, you and Lauren, we're not friends, we 268 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: were never friends. Never Like what happened, and they put 269 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: you guys in this scenario, it's just escalated it. And 270 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 1: when they obviously had my boyfriend going and hanging out 271 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: with Lauren, I'm seventeen. I'd get upset about that now, 272 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: But like at seventeen, all I knew how to do 273 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: was put up a wall and get angry. I didn't 274 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: know how to be like, hey, Stephen, can we talked 275 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: about this really down? And yeah, like I just became 276 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: a bitch. The bitch is bad. Whitch is bad, so 277 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: that was more and because we didn't know at the time, 278 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: you know they're gonna be She was one of the 279 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: first reality shows, so I didn't know what I was filming. 280 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what I was going to turn into 281 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: or what it was, so it was all very new 282 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: for me and again put me in uncomfortable situations. And 283 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: then the Hills, I knew exactly who they wanted me 284 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: to be, right, so I said, listen, I'm game, Let's 285 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: do this. You signed up to go in and kind 286 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: of crossing trouble and I had a lot of fun 287 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: with it because I had my show life and then 288 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: I had a completely separate life outside of filming that 289 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: seems more like active than so. For example, there was 290 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: one time Brody was on it and he was dating Jade, 291 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: and on the show, we made it seem like they 292 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: broke up and like Brodie and I were dating, and 293 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: then Jade and I to each other at the club 294 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: and got in a fight. All of that was fake. 295 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: Brodie and Jane were together the entire time I ever 296 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: dated Brodie on The Hills. In real life, it did 297 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: Brodie when I was eighteen, but I did not date 298 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: him for real on the Hills. He literally had a girl. 299 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: That's the first time I knew that story. Yeah, so 300 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: all that stuff of fake heard it her first. People 301 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: go your podcast only three? Wait, do you still talk 302 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: to any of them? I don't, you said he talked 303 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: to Brodie like not that long ago, right. We tried 304 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 1: to get Brodie to do the very Cavalry we got 305 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: next season. Brodie, Yeah, he's he'll do it. He was 306 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: totally down. We wanted to get into film when I 307 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: was in l A and he was out of town 308 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: the entire time. So you guys watch it. We'll get 309 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: a season two and Brodie will be on it. Stephen, 310 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: I got an email from Stupid last night. Let's say 311 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: read it to us. So, okay, it's actually it's me 312 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: and a bunch of people. It's he's wanting us to 313 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: help promote something that he's doing. Told Stephen clar Oh 314 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: my god. And so yeah, so I talked to them. 315 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: I talked to Audrina. I talked to Heidi all the time. Yeah, Stephanie, 316 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: I have kept in touch with I haven't talked to 317 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: her in a minute, but we definitely keep in touched 318 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: and both alex Is from Going to Beach who were 319 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: both about to have another baby. So do I look 320 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: like Alex? Because somebody told me that we've posted pictures 321 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: before and they thought I was Alex? Really? Hold on 322 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: up right now? Are we just brunette and that's the same. Well, 323 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: she's way lighter though, hair Her hair is way lighter. 324 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, I guess I could see it 325 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: a little bit, but I think it was when we 326 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: posted that New Year's Eve post, people kept tagging me 327 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: and being like, is this Alex? Really? Like who is 328 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: that Alex? Alex? I don't. I didn't know that she 329 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: posted a picture today. Hold on, I'm gonna find it. 330 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: But that's funny. I wouldn't say so, but I guess 331 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: I could see it a little bit. Do you still 332 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: talk to Elsie? I've never talked to Lauren like we 333 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: just here's Alex. I've never Lauren and I were never friends, 334 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: So that's Alex. Okay, we look nothing? No, no, um no, 335 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: I mean again, if I saw Lauren, I would give 336 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: her a hug. We'd say, yeah, you're not enemies, No, 337 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: of course not, but no, I mean her and I 338 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: never talked So I love when people are like, do 339 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: you talk to Lauren? It's like no, but I never did. 340 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: So if that's not where I could keep going now, yeah, yeah, 341 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: I feel like you kind of like after The Hills, 342 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: Lauren like hit hard with her brand, and you kind 343 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: of took some time off after The Hills because I 344 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: met Ja. So I met Jay a month after we 345 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 1: wrapped The Hills, okay, and I was so sick of 346 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 1: l A. I was so sick of the lifestyle and 347 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: I was in love and I just wanted to do nothing. 348 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 1: I was because at the time, I was like, I'm 349 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: just gonna move to Chicago, and who gives a ship 350 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: about my career? Yeah, I was just like I'll get 351 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: married or whatever. And then um, I had a shoe line, 352 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: which sort of like kept me in it a little bit. 353 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, I just end, you know. And then I 354 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: had a lot of babies go to that. So when 355 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: I was filming The Hills, I got a phone call 356 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 1: from my publicist and he said, Jay Carlor wants to 357 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 1: fly to Chicago and take you on a date. And 358 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: I was like, who the hell is Jake Color? Do 359 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: you know the story? Don't you know? I think so 360 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 1: because I've actually heard Jay's version of the story and 361 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: it's a little different. You guys tell different versions of 362 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 1: this story where here, So so I anyways, I googled 363 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: him and I was like, whatever, No, I don't want 364 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: a boyfriend, especially that's in Chicago. So a year past, 365 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,719 Speaker 1: I completely forgot about it because I don't know who 366 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 1: he was, so it didn't register with me. And I 367 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 1: was visiting my mom in Chicago, going to a Bears 368 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: game and with my cousin, and my mom brought it 369 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: up and she's like, you know, do take color ask 370 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: you out. My cousin was like, you're such an idiot. 371 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: Jay's the man. You have to go out with him. 372 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: So I got his family passes to meet him after 373 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: the game because I was going to make my cousin's 374 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: life and like I would never talk to him again. 375 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,719 Speaker 1: And he walked in and he was way cuter in person. 376 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: He was really sweet, and he drove us to a 377 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 1: car and then we hung out two nights later, and 378 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,959 Speaker 1: then the next morning he was like, you promised you'd 379 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: come back next weekend. I was like, all right. So 380 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: when Jay tells the story, he leaves out the first 381 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: part about him emailing your publicist because he says that 382 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: you guys met and yeah, no, I mean that I 383 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: wasn't out of thin air, although he says that a 384 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: teammates It was a teammates publicist that reached out to 385 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 1: my publicist. So but like obviously he was talking about 386 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: me at some point. It wasn't like just a random yeah, 387 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: let's just email for some calilarious policies and happened. And 388 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: then I had other people I had, like Ken Baker 389 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: who worked for Yeah, yeah, he worked for US Weekly 390 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: at the time. Like I remember he emailed me and 391 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: was like, hey, J Cutler wants to take you out. 392 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, what the funk is with this 393 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 1: J Cutler? He was not hard, but I don't think 394 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: it was. I don't think it was like him pushing 395 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 1: people just like mentioned it. Maybe yes, And then everyone 396 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I can you know make it happen? 397 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Well how many years later? Five years? 398 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: So five years of marriage on tomorrow? Yeah, tomorrow's our 399 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: five year anniversary. But we've been together for almost eight 400 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: dang eight years later. Yeah that's seven year itch watching. 401 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: I'm honestly joking. Watch very Okay, let's talk about fashion 402 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,959 Speaker 1: because fashion is obviously a huge part of your life. 403 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: You do that E pre show. Yeah, yeah, you have 404 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: your own fashion line? Yeah? Is that fashion? And it's 405 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 1: a fashion it's a business a shot? Is that? I mean, 406 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: did you ever think that that's where your life would 407 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 1: take you? Did you always want to do that? You know? 408 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: It's interesting because I always just really wanted a shoe line. 409 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: Like shoes for me, we're the biggest thing. And so 410 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: I remember when I was eighteen, so after Luna Beach, 411 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,959 Speaker 1: I had this shoe inspiration binder. I still have it actually. 412 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: Then I started working with Chinese Laundry. It's been amost 413 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,880 Speaker 1: six years, um, and that was really fun for me, 414 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 1: you know, and it's I've loved having my shoe line. Um, 415 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: but I'm working with a well established company. And while 416 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 1: I have final say, I almost kind of don't because 417 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm fighting with a team of people over they're on 418 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: what I can I can't do? So do they use 419 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: your name for that? But you're a part of that 420 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: whole problem. I'm a part of the whole process. So 421 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: I send them my inspiration ideas what I want to do, 422 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: and then from there they kind of like mock things up, 423 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: send them back to me, I tweak them, we get samples, um, 424 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: you know, but I run into situations where like I 425 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: don't see samples with enough time where I can go 426 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: and really change things how I wanted, which drives me 427 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: nuts because there are things I want to would want 428 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: to change. But guys, So I decided to launch my 429 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 1: own company, UM Jewelry Uncommon James, and just because I 430 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: feel like accessories can really make or break your outfit 431 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: and I just love accessories. So I launched my own 432 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: company just over a year ago, and it's been the 433 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: best decision I've ever made. It has been incredibly challenging, 434 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: but so rewarding and just so much fun. Because I 435 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 1: have known answer to but myself. I have complete creative freedom. 436 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: It's the first time my entire life I've had that, 437 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: and it's it's just been it's been amazing. How did 438 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: you A lot of people ask like where do you 439 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: get your inspiration from? And like, what I love about 440 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 1: Uncommon James is you have all these like at least 441 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: simple pieces that you can kind of stack together, you 442 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: can wear with multiple pieces, you can wear with anything. 443 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: How did you land on kind of where you wanted 444 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: the branch. Well, that's that was the whole point. I 445 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: just wanted an effortless collection. I wanted it to be 446 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: easy because the modern woman doesn't have fifteen minutes to 447 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 1: try on different necklaces every day and this and that. 448 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: It's like, we need stuff quick, we need to just 449 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,959 Speaker 1: throw stuff on. We need it to take us from 450 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: day to night and just be easy. So I wanted 451 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: I wanted a whole lot of the whole line that 452 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 1: you can mix and match with what you already have 453 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: within each collection, and that you don't have to think about. 454 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: You can literally just throw it on. Throw on one piece, 455 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 1: around five pieces, it's gonna work. Yeah. So what's the 456 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: process though, with the design for this, because instead of 457 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 1: having this team of people that creates this is that 458 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: you're kind of it's just me. Yeah, like you told 459 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: me about waking up in the middle of the night, 460 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: I remember this time I got those. I want you 461 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: to see them brought. Literally, I will wake up and 462 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, funk, I have to write this down otherwise 463 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to forget or draw it out or whatever. 464 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: But so it's just me. I deal directly with my manufacturer. 465 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: So when I get samples made, I'll do too. I'll 466 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: do a couple of things. I'll either draw it out, 467 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:07,679 Speaker 1: and I'm not good at drawing, so I have to 468 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: do every little measurement. Um Or, I will take a 469 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: photo of another piece of jewelry and mark on it 470 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 1: and decide what I want to change, like where you 471 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: want to change it, okay, like what I want to do, 472 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: um or, you know, and then like with color, like 473 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: whatever it is. I'm pulling inspiration from fashion magazines, from Pinterest, 474 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: from Instagram stuff that I see. So I'm constantly pulling 475 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: stuff together, and my process is getting like fourty or 476 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 1: fifty samples made at one time, and then from they're 477 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: kind of putting a collection together based on trends or 478 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 1: just like what works or what I like at the moment. Too. 479 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: I'm not sitting here like, okay, well I'm doing this 480 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: circle necklace and then I have to do a circle 481 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: ring and a circle like I actually don't care about 482 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 1: an entire collection being cohesive in that sense, just because 483 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: I feel like everything is so simple and dainty that 484 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: no matter if it's a triangle or a circle or 485 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 1: whatever the hell it is, it's going to work together, 486 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: right you, So you said, you pull from like Pinterest, 487 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: who are your are fashion icons? Are like people that 488 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: you look up to as far as fashion goes. Kit 489 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: Moss will always her street style is just so good. 490 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: M Sanna Miller, she's so fu Yeah, I can swear 491 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 1: on this right, yeah, as much as you like times 492 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: already And I'm just now, what if it charged me 493 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: broke by the end of this moving money on our podcast? 494 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: Please you know me figure, I don't even know what 495 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: I was saying. Oh, Sanna Miller, I love her. I 496 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 1: love actually her red carpet style. And then Rosie Huntington's Yeah, 497 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 1: I just like she's just so beautiful and her style 498 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: so so you look at these people kind of see 499 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: what they're doing a lot of times I have gotten 500 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: inspiration for jewelry from some of these women. Yeah, um, 501 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: if you had this was a question. One of the 502 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 1: followers asked, what are some staples that you think every 503 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: woman should have in their closets? God, Um, a great 504 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 1: leather jacket that will have go out of style. You 505 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: will always wear that obviously good compared of jeans, but 506 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 1: you probably want something more interesting. Um shit, okay, Um, 507 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm so basic. I really like for me like T 508 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: shirts and you know that kind of stuff. I don't 509 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: think you should really splurge on. I think you should 510 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: put your money on jackets and and you know, like 511 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: a great blazer. I have this white blazer that I love. 512 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: That's something too, you can um. I think like a 513 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: good black jumper that could take you from day to night. 514 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: Good idea, Yeah, that will never go out of style. 515 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 1: You need a great black heel, of course, a great booty. 516 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 1: You need your go to necklace, Like I love what's 517 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 1: your go to necklace? So I have on right now. 518 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: It's called ready to Mingle. It's just this simple, super 519 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 1: dainty gold choker and you can wear it with everything. 520 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: I worked to the water park this morning with my kids. 521 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll wear it to dinner, Like you can 522 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: dress this thing up or down. I literally wear it 523 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: every day too. It's the best leaven on all the time. 524 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: Like I went to each left and on. I looked 525 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 1: so key with my bathing suit. But then when I'm 526 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: wearing my vintage tea, is there anything like that? It 527 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 1: was with her everything Because it's so simple to That's 528 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 1: what we're saying about all your stuff, So ready to mingle, 529 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: Ready to mingle just and it just got just got 530 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: back into god y'all. Um. Okay, so a lot of 531 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: questions about your beauty routine. Okay, you do have to 532 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: have a bit on my forehead right now. But honestly, 533 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: the first time drying up. You guys, I'll never see 534 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 1: you with this. What happened, I don't know. I don't 535 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: I tell you what happened. Actually it's tell us. I 536 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: finally caved and got LaMere, the fucking moisturizer, and that 537 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: is way too thick for myself. It made me break out. 538 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 1: And these are one of our other really good friends 539 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: warned me, but I went through with it anyways. But 540 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: I do use I don't know you have a now 541 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: I have a bit in the middle of my forehead, 542 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: but but I do use the I cream and I 543 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:04,199 Speaker 1: like the I cream. It's oh my good. So so 544 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: I think how mad I am after what I can't 545 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 1: even use that little even bottle and wants to come 546 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: in and buy us and it's open after your great 547 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: advertisement that it gave you, I'm not thinking that's going 548 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: to go okay. So other than that, though, don't you 549 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: feel or I wonder this because you do eat a 550 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 1: really clean diet. Do you think that affects your skin 551 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 1: a lot? I think it does. I drink a ton 552 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: of water. I always have my hydro flask with me um, 553 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,919 Speaker 1: which I do need to tell people what that is 554 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: because I don't think, Yeah, this thing, this this little thing, 555 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 1: this monster. Where's my phone? With my sit and everything? 556 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: That's so mean. It's makeup on you guys will have 557 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: to just imagine in your head acture me with no 558 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: makeup and a sit in the middle of my forehead 559 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: holding a water white hydroflast water bottle. This thing is 560 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: everywhere with me. It really is. You've I've seen you 561 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: with it, You travel with it, you don't travel with 562 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 1: any I guess I should. But they did say to 563 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: me filming very cavalry, like put the hydroflask down because 564 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: it's an every scene. It's so great about this water bottle. 565 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: Really nothing, I mean, it could be any talk about 566 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: I wish, I wish and I happened for having in 567 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: every scene. I'm very cavalry. I better get sponsored. No, 568 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I just it's just white. It's just simple. 569 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: It's stainless steel. You know, it's um, which is better 570 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 1: than drinking out of plastic and I simple my smart 571 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 1: water that's for the environment to call some animals over here, 572 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm going to just do one time. 573 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: I just moved to natural deodoran it's a lot. Like 574 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, you want to change my life, 575 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: but I can't do everything at wance. I feel you. 576 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,479 Speaker 1: But anyways, so yes, I do think diet helps a lot. 577 00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna tell you guys straight up. I 578 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: am as natural as it comes, you know, except where 579 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: I use a low dose of retina and it changed 580 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: my skin. Yeah. Um, yeah, I would love to sit 581 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: here and say I don't use any chemicals on my face, 582 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: but yeah, we're a little low dose of retina fucking 583 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: game changer because I used to always have sits, always 584 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: really always had sits. And my problem with retney is 585 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: it jazz me out so much. Let's say you can 586 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 1: build up, though, and you're supposed to when you start, 587 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 1: you're supposed to like two times a week or something, 588 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: and then like slowly work up. It takes, but it's 589 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: not for everybody. Yeah, I get like my tea zone 590 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 1: gets really oily, so right, good for me, And then 591 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: peptide gel really good vitamin C serum. Um. What else 592 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 1: do I do? I told you my LaMere I cream. 593 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: You give facials a lot. So so my girl Carrie 594 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: Hayes is in Nashville. I've been going to her for years, 595 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 1: but I used to only see her once or twice 596 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: a year, And then when we moved here a year ago, 597 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: full time, I was going like every six weeks. I 598 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: just put the breaks on a little bit because I honestly, 599 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: facials are one thing. I'm like, do you really need 600 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: them that often? I don't think you do. So I'm 601 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,239 Speaker 1: gonna start going probably like every three months, just to 602 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: clean out your poor that kind of stuff. Um. And 603 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 1: then what else I do? Like I have the I 604 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: think it's Clarence like all of their purifying mask that 605 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 1: I do. There's one called Circuit spelled with an S, 606 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: which is a hydrating one for the winter, which is 607 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: really great. And I actually when I first moved to Chicago, 608 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: I went and got a facial. I don't get a 609 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: lot of facials, but it sounds like I do. And 610 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 1: she told makes us breaking out of the time. She said, 611 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 1: if your skins dehydrated, you'll break out. She's like some 612 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 1: people like associate just dry skin with no breakouts. But 613 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: so she gave me this interest, this mask, and it's 614 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 1: it's like kind of cooling. It feels like a mental 615 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: on your face, which is really nice. I always assume 616 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: that if my skin is oily is, then I'm going 617 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: to break out, not necessarily learned something new. There you go, 618 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: and you don't do botox or fillers. No, I haven't 619 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: done anything. That's crazy because you're on camera all the time. Yeah. Well, 620 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: and now when I see pictures, I'm like, can like 621 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: I'm getting older. I don't care. I'm I mean, I'm 622 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: thirty one. But I told you should get some botox. 623 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: You literally told me I should go to Kelly. My 624 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: good friend told me I needed you to my difference. 625 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: You asked me. You were like, do you think I 626 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: need both? And smells like you could get a little 627 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: in your ohead. People are so. I also love botox, 628 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: like it was a game changer for me. I have 629 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: five years on you, though older than you. So when 630 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: I got it, I was feeling just like, I look 631 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: so tired all the time. I just wanted to look 632 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: like myself, Like I don't want to look different, but 633 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 1: right now and you. Some people look to botox out, 634 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: like when you you don't look at someone and you're like, oh, 635 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: they ad percent are getting ship in their face, right, 636 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: because they probably are, But right I don't want to 637 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: look like I get it. I just want to look natural. 638 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: I get the smallest dose I can. Yeah, your face moves, 639 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: so you've got that going for that. That's good. And 640 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, it's one of those things where it's like, 641 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 1: who knows, in five years or whatever, if I'll get it. 642 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: I would love to sit here and say that, and 643 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: I kind of do feel like I never will, but 644 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: you know, you'll have to see. I'm into like all 645 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: of the like electrocurrent machines that you can like hook 646 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: up to your face like ZIP has one, you know, 647 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: and it's it's it's working out your facial muscles, which 648 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: to me makes a lot of sense. It's the face 649 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: is a muscle, So you want to get it. You 650 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: get it working out? What does that look like? What 651 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 1: do you do? It's like this little white thing and 652 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: you just like move it along your face. Oh, I 653 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: have this thing called name face. I wonder if it's 654 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 1: like it's really similar for me. I love that and 655 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: I actually could see a difference like when I was 656 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: using it consistently. But it's like such a you have 657 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: to do it though, you have to do it every 658 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: day and it takes and then this sounds stupid, but 659 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: it probably takes two minutes. But which like if you're 660 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: traveling or any of that stuff, it's such a pain 661 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: in the app. Such a pain in the app. I 662 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: know things we do. I have, like the STEM, like 663 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: the red College and boosting light. Yeah, when I got it, 664 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: I used that motherfucker every day and I haven't touched 665 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: it in probably eight months because you were out. But 666 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: when you use it, it definitely work. I think it does. 667 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 1: She's um, okay, So with all of the stuff you 668 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: have going on, is this something I pretty much ask 669 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 1: everyone because I feel like I'm pulling in ten million 670 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 1: different directions right now and I suck at balance. So like, 671 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 1: talk me through. Is there anything that you've learned along 672 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like you've been able to manage multiple 673 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: things for a really long period of time. What are 674 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 1: some tips for that or what have you learned? Well, 675 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: I mean it changes all the time. Balance, I think 676 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: for each person changes all the time. But you just 677 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,239 Speaker 1: have to figure out what's important to you. Like, so 678 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 1: for me, you know, I every morning I'm with my 679 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: kids and I have a nanny Monday through Friday from 680 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: nine to five, and so I look at those hours 681 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: of like that's when I'm gonna work out. That's what 682 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my work done, going to the office, 683 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: do whatever I need to do. And so the mornings 684 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: before Kaylin my nanny comes, I'm with my kids. I'm 685 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: making them breakfast, We're hanging out. And then every day 686 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: at five o'clock, my phone is down, I'm with my kids. 687 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: We eat dinner together. Every night is a family and 688 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: then I try really hard not to look at emails 689 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: or do anything until my kids are in bed at 690 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: like some fifteen seven thirty um. And so you know, 691 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 1: I just know that for me right now. And then 692 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 1: every weekend I'm just with my kids too. I we're 693 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 1: gonna say, you're really good about that, Like you don't 694 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 1: work on the week I don't. I don't. And with 695 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: the show with very Calilary, I said, I'm not filming 696 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: against and we don't have any help with our kids 697 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: on the weekends. That's really our time to be with 698 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 1: our kids. And like we go to the farmer's market 699 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: and we go to breakfast and like we just that's 700 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 1: our time. And so I have found that that's really 701 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: good balance for me between family and work that that 702 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: we've talked about this. The thing that's lacking for me 703 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 1: is girlfriend time. We have dinner on the books. But 704 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: like that's the one area of my life that I 705 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: could probably improve on. Um and it just kind of 706 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: is what it is. I don't probably have enough fun, 707 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 1: I mean, but just for where I'm at right now. 708 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 1: And one the thing too, is like once you have kids, 709 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 1: like you know, waking up at six thirty every morning, 710 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 1: that rolls around really quickly. When you're at dinner and 711 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 1: you're having a couple of drinks, it's like, yeah, man, 712 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: I gotta get home and go to bed because I 713 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,280 Speaker 1: start anxiety about waking up with my kids. So totally, 714 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: I think between work and having kids, that's just killed 715 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 1: my fun because you know, you have to get up 716 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: in function the next day, like and you have to 717 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: go on your eg game, especially with three kids. Like 718 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: you said, you do have help. Some people ask that, 719 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: but you're still very hands on on. I am witnessed it, 720 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 1: Yeah I am. And that's the thing is, even if 721 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm at home and I have a you know, my nanny, 722 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 1: my kids just want to be with me, and so, like, 723 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 1: I have an office at home, but if I'm in there, 724 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: I probably have sailors sitting in my lap and doing 725 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: stuff or Jackson's or whatever it is. You know, my 726 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: kids want to be with me, and so, um, it's 727 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: easier for me to get work done when I go 728 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 1: into the office. Yeah, but yeah, it just is what 729 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: it is. I think balance is It's hard. It's really hard. 730 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: How do you jay find time? Do you just don't know? 731 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: The last man on the Total Yorkie for the bottom 732 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: for no, But we're trying to make an effort to 733 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 1: go to dinner just the two of us more and 734 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 1: you know, at night, after the kids are in bed, 735 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 1: we've been watching Narpos. Actually, oh my god, we just 736 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: got back from some room and they read did one 737 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: of Pablo Escobar's houses into this hotel? And it was insane. 738 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 1: It was so cool. So you hadn't watched the show 739 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 1: before that, so we watched like two episodes and we 740 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: gave up on it. Are you super in? I'm so 741 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: it's so good. It just totally sparked interest. Yeah, so yes, 742 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: we have two more episodes of that. So like that's 743 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,959 Speaker 1: what we'll do, is we'll watch a show together, yeah, 744 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: or just even being in bed, just talking about like 745 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: what's going on. But um no, like tomorrow's our five 746 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 1: year anniversary because it's the c m A Awards. We 747 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: can't find a babysitter somewhere, like, but it's fine. We're 748 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 1: gonna go to a concert in a couple of weeks 749 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: and we'll celebrate and yeah, so how do you keep 750 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 1: the sparkle lad after some years? I know it's really hard. 751 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 1: Um well, we've always had in our favor that we 752 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: both traveled. I mean I still travel too, so we 753 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: I just think that that really helps being able, you know, 754 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: actually go to l a Sunday to Wednesday, and so 755 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,439 Speaker 1: that in itself just helps being able to be away 756 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,360 Speaker 1: for a few days and miss him and miss the 757 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: family too, and miss like a little unit. You know, 758 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: that's true. You're not together all the times. It's really 759 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,280 Speaker 1: value it. Yeah, exactly, So I think that that although 760 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: he's home now all day every day, so you get 761 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: a job. Yeah, football has died and he's around, but 762 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: he's been We just bought at a new house that 763 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,880 Speaker 1: we're remodeling, so he's been he's the property manager on 764 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: that as they calls himself on his own overseeing on 765 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 1: his own house. But it's it's keeping him busy, so 766 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: hey or whatever. I'm sure if J had an Instagram 767 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 1: keeps him busy posing for Ack. So Kristen started a instagram. 768 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 1: Jay is like very antisocial media, So Kristin recently started 769 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 1: one called if J had an Instagram, which is so funny. 770 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: She documents in his natural habitat, I have a good 771 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,239 Speaker 1: gem that I took this morning. Yeah, that was gonna 772 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: be good. You guys should follow up for real. It's 773 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,879 Speaker 1: really funny. It's funny. It's me running it. He I mean, 774 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,920 Speaker 1: once in a blue moon he'll send me some content. 775 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: You know, he's way more into it than he like, 776 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: he totally is and like he loves it secret. If 777 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 1: I have something, he'll be like, let me see it. 778 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 1: But does he help you with captions? If I can't 779 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 1: come up with something, he will help me with the caption. 780 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: He actually are one of our German shepherds ran away, 781 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. A week or two ago he was like, 782 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 1: can you get me on my Instagram? And then he 783 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: actually made a post about faint and then I deleted it. 784 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: When we found out the only post that has been deleted, 785 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's like, can you get me on? 786 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 1: He doesn't even like where do I get me? Oh 787 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: my god, it's pretty fun. I mean, if nothing else, like, 788 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 1: I know that you and I are laughing about it. 789 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 1: I know, it's like so much. It brings me so 790 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: much joy every time. I of course, yeah, if he 791 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,280 Speaker 1: when he passes me, it's really gonna piss me off. Well, yeah, 792 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 1: I get it. Yeah, I'm still leading. I'm still you're 793 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 1: doing thank you, thank you. Um well, everyone can watch 794 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: the interaction with Jay Very Cavaliery. It comes out July eight, 795 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: ten nine Central. Wow, we have a professional here. I'm 796 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 1: also going to be on it talking about my love life. 797 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: Christin gives me a lot of advice. Can you do 798 00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 1: another podcast after episode four? We're going to need to 799 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 1: do a recap after episode I'm gonna tell you, guys, 800 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: some ship. There's so much it's so it's gonna be 801 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: so interesting what they edit out or like, what makes 802 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 1: it so. I've seen the first four and it is 803 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 1: it's really interesting to see what makes it or like 804 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,879 Speaker 1: filming something and then because obviously the shows an hour, 805 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 1: but you could say a scene that we filmed for 806 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: forty five minutes, let's say it gets edited down to 807 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: a minute and a half or two minutes, and it's like, 808 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 1: oh on, this is what made it right? Like maybe 809 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: this all this stuff or like, I don't know. I'm 810 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: just so curious what people's reaction is going to be. 811 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 1: I know, just because if you're in it, how do 812 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 1: you look at it objectively? You can't. It's really hard. 813 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,879 Speaker 1: I think. I think the people are going to like it. 814 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,439 Speaker 1: I hope so well. It doesn't matter because they're gonna 815 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,719 Speaker 1: be so wasted because you say business, So many people 816 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: think that they love it because they're gonna be so drunk. Yeah, 817 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 1: because you're running a business. I'm running. Don't forget Casey. 818 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here. You guys. As always, 819 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,319 Speaker 1: I'll do a blog on velvita dot com. Um, I'm 820 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,759 Speaker 1: gonna link to her water bottle that she's drinking out 821 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: of and let me get paid first, though okay, maybe 822 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: I won't. Then we'll worry. I'll swipe of swipe up 823 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: on her own, and then we'll put all the beauty projects, 824 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: products she mentioned in fashion brands and all that kind 825 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: of stuff. Don't forget to shop on uncommon James. What 826 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 1: is it uncommon James dot com? Sure is, what's the 827 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: one we love? Ready to mingle read It's seriously my favorite. 828 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 1: Yeah it was everyone you like, but I love that 829 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 1: one so much. Um okay, well, thank you, I love you, 830 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: thank you. Okay bye,