WEBVTT - Episode 28 Ft Alia Janine 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:11.360 Lift Service. What's up is lip Service? I'm Angela, Ye, 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:14.520 I'm Stephanie Santiago and I'm G G McGuire And we 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:18.440 have a special guest with s Ms Eliah Jeanine. Hey girl. 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:22.200 Now Eliah is a retired porn star and now you 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:26.880 do stand up comedy. That is very funny, because I 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:28.600 think sex is funny all the time. But we're gonna 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.200 get into it in a minute. First we're gonna do 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.479 our tips. It is thanks This is our special Thanksgiving 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.680 edition of lip Service, because of course what goes best 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:41.919 with the holidays sex, yeah, and the non holidays and 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:45.800 the weekdays and the weekends. But so our question today 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:47.919 and these are your just the tip. You gotta give 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:50.600 your tip? What do you contribute for the holidays? If 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:57.000 you don't know how to cook? Oh, dessert, contribute bring 0:00:57.040 --> 0:01:02.240 a cake or a pie, booze al, that's good, liquor. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:07.440 I cook. I don't know. I contribute. I cooked. But 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:09.680 if I had a friend that I invited over and 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.480 they felt as though that they weren't, you know, couldn't 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.720 make a sufficient meal, and they asked me, well what 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:17.039 can I bring, I would say bring dessert? Yeah, no, 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.360 I agree with can't have enough cakes and pass for 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:22.399 the holidays. Yeah, and when I wasn't a person who cooked, 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.399 that's what I would bring, like the pumpkin pot and 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:29.120 some men is a cheap one because station the station 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:34.280 exactly like, here's some cookies, you cook, what do you bring? 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:38.200 I do? Um? I can cook um anything that they 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:40.720 pretty much bought me to. My mom was um. She 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.399 was a really good baker. Um. She actually got a 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:48.080 scholarship from Betty Crocker. She wanted she want like some contest. 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:51.040 So like I learned how to cook from her basically, 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:55.680 and like I have to follow instructions. That's amazing. But yeah, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:58.080 I could listen. My family is all coming up with 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:01.200 my house and I'm getting everything catered. You're not gonna cook. 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:04.760 I'm not gonna cook. Only because it's thirty people getting 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:10.119 cater girl for forty people. Last year, I could we're 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.120 both of our families all came over to the house. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:16.720 And this was her first Thanksgiving. Last year, we're both 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:19.640 of their families meeting. We kind of gotta do it, 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.360 and I have to cook, and I put my foot 0:02:21.360 --> 0:02:24.520 in at meal, thank you very much. It's just like 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:29.160 the same members of the family, and yeah, right, it's 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.720 like my regular family. Let me tell you. I will, however, 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.000 because the way that it is, like when I get 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.120 it catered, I still have to put stuff in the 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:38.760 oven for a certain amount of time, so I will 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:47.840 take a picture for Instagram. It's just finness. I did 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:52.520 that last year. But yeah, it's a big deal around 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.320 the holidays. Now. We always talk about this because this 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.839 is like make a break time for some people. Now. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:59.840 I have a friend who was with her man fit 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:03.400 three years and she never met his family. So they 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:06.000 broke up and she was like, I can't take it anymore. 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.640 Every holiday he would go see his family and not 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:15.400 bring her, but he knew her family. It feels like, yeah, yeah, 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.360 he's bringing the white It was his family like really 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:23.520 crazy or something. I don't know. I don't think so. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.000 But even if your family is crazy, like we all 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:30.359 have embarrassing family members, Yeah, no, I think that he like, 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.359 like you said, Earle, I think he's probably married. Probably married. 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:37.720 I said the same thing. And three years three years 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.320 a long time, like first year, okay, I get it, 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.080 but second and third year, No, you're hiding something. They 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:46.880 weren't living together, No, they were with it they were 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.720 together like three or four times a week. Oh, but 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:52.840 like she would be in his house, he would be 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:56.040 at her house. So I was like, I don't understand. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.720 I don't understand either, But when do you bring somebody 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:05.240 to me? Your family never so people get pregnant quick. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.560 But I'm saying, like it's the holidays. Now. I learned 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.880 this because I had an ex boyfriend, hey me to 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.200 meet his whole family on Thanksgiving. His mom was mad 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:18.719 because it was her first time meeting me, and she 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.800 felt like she should have met me. Yeah, like you 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.680 go to a dinner? Yeah, because what um with one 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.600 of my exes. Um? He took me to one of 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:31.480 his cousin's engagement parties and he was Hispanic, so literally 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:33.640 his whole family was there. And I'm just like this 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:38.680 little white girl like Laura Espaniel. But I know all 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:44.400 you fuckers are talking about awkward. It was fine for 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:48.040 like the first two years was great, alright, but so 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:51.480 you you think like the first I mean Stephanie was 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:55.080 going on to for me, I don't know, um, when 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.640 I mean in my service relationships like hidden like my 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:00.600 son's father and his mother, I'm his mother. Like the 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.880 second day I met him. His mother was always like 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:07.440 behind him, so right and then, um, my last relationship. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:10.159 I knew his parents since we were kids. So what 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:14.440 about now now? If I mean right now, I'm I'm 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:17.680 you know, I'm single, and I've been entertaining myself and 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.480 the guy that um that I've been talking to, you know, 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.320 entertaining myself with. He asked me to come over to 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:28.880 his family's things. Oh yeah, already yeah, and I kind of, 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:31.120 you know, I said, I have something else to do. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.039 Why don't you want to? God that you like him? 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.600 I do like him a lot. I like him a lot, 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:39.520 but but you know, I just came out of a relationship. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:42.640 I don't want to be in a relation and the 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.479 family and that's kind of it's not even it's not 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:47.240 even nothing against him, and I don't want to be 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.320 serious with him or anything. I just you know, I 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:52.359 have a child to have other family that if he 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:54.600 offended that he invited you and you're not gonna come. Know, 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.000 He's just like, um, you could like you we both 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:00.200 live in the same place. He's like, you could, um, 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.240 you know, after you see your family, So I don't know, 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.200 we'll see you. We'll play by you like that. Would 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.800 be crazy. Maybe go after the dinner when everyone's like 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:12.040 relaxed or right, can you get you drunk? Like that's 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:15.000 the thing. I know on things giving, I'm gonna be drunk. 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.279 I know I'm gonna be drunk, the last thing you 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:18.800 want to do when you meet you, and I'm gonna 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.440 be like, hey, I'm stay like the greatest thing ever, 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.360 I'm drunk. I think it's probably kind of funny. It's 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:28.440 if they have a good, fun family. Yeah, everybody, like 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.920 you're everyone's drunk and in my family, so it would 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:32.880 be weird for you not to be. And most people 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:36.320 are fun where they're drunk. So there you have it. 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:40.520 Anybody ever had a bad holiday? Oh my god? Everyone 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:45.080 sing one time at home with my best eating noodles, 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:47.719 eating noodles and noodles, noodles. Well, at least you guys 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:51.919 had each other. Don't be on green. Yeah, but a 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:56.640 little face. My friend day is giving. I'm single. I 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.440 spent it alone with my best friend at the time, 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:01.520 a girl that I was hanging out with, and we 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:05.600 felt like or friends. But it wasn't bad because you know, 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:08.000 like we were making the best of it. I don't 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:11.280 take a holidays that seriously because of that reason, because 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.680 everyone's like, oh, you're alone on this day. I'm like, 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:20.040 it's a Thursday, Turkey, what time? I want? Whatever the want? 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:28.040 All right? Now? How about this? Christmas is also coming up, Hanukkah, Kwanza, everything, whatever, 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:31.360 and people celebrate. If somebody gives you a really nice present, 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.520 but you were planning to break up with them, can 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.000 you still break up with them? What's the protocol here? 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.559 Are you supposed to give the gift back? No? No, 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:43.520 it's a gift. It's it's a gift that they gave 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.560 you and not your fault that you were going to 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:48.200 break up with them when they gave you the gift. 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.200 Like that just happened. So you keep the gift and 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.160 then you wait like two or three days and there. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:57.240 Or if it's a car, oh no, you totally keep that. 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.360 If he's dumb enough to buy you a car, oh no, 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:04.640 you totally. Yeah, But do you wait a little while. 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.520 If someone give you something really nice to you, don't 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:09.880 you feel guilty unless at least another month or two, 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.560 Unless they're buying it for you to try to keep you, 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:15.600 then you definitely keep the present and definitely dumb. It 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:17.480 depends because a lot of times if someone's buying you 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:21.360 a car either a like they're completely oblivious to the 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:23.840 relationship what's going on. Because normally when someone wants to 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.920 break up with someone, you feel it. Otherwise you're not 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:28.560 in it. Although I don't know if guys are as 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.760 tuned in. I don't think that you should plan to 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.480 work up. I don't think you plan to work up 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:36.160 with somebody. I think you just break up. Sometimes it 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:39.160 is across. Sometimes it is like I'm gonna have to 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.560 break up with them, Okay, Like if you're breaking up 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:43.240 with somebody for a long time and it took me 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.520 a long time to actually do it, but I did it. Yeah, 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:50.079 it's hard to try to kill me. Oh yeah, he 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:51.520 tried to kill me when I broke up with me. 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:53.640 Kill me. You'll know, like a hotel, you'll know the 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:55.160 backs there wa in the whole town. Hun they're made 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.520 out of like concrete. And yeah, so he throwed me 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:59.760 down those steps. Let's see, that's what happened with my 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.000 he did. He tried to throw me down. He threw 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:06.200 me down the back stairway by the airport. No, I 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:08.120 was a little bang them bruise. But this is around 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.480 the time when we had the Razor phones and I 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.160 was on the phone at the time trying to call 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:13.840 my friends so she can come pick me up. And 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:15.680 I tumbled down the steps. And I think the fact 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.079 that I held the phone to my face trying to 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.360 talk to her is with like, help my head, because 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:21.199 my order, my head and all of this was all 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:25.000 bruised up. But good thing you about him? Go right, like, 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:30.520 Ani was the same guy I killed. This is her? 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:36.840 Back it up there. He threw you down the stairs. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.439 This was and after that you still had sex. No, no, no, no, 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:42.240 no no no. The heart attack came before I tried 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.559 to break up with him. Okay, so we had a 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.200 heart attack. I thought he no, she died. I didn't 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:52.239 kill I remember the story. You know he had heart problems. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.439 You know what I mean. He wants how the heart attack. 0:09:55.960 --> 0:10:02.160 He eventually died of a heart You killed I know, 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:03.880 I know, I know that's why you always did it. 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:05.960 But I really didn't kill him. I don't know. I 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:08.280 just started it. You start. Yeah, she started the path. 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.120 He rest in peace. But yeah, he tried to kill 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:16.440 me first. What did you press charges? No? I left. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:21.839 That's what made me move to Atlanta. Yeah, so he 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.439 didn't go to jail for throwing you. I didn't. Oh 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.920 you're I just picked up on my shi and left. 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.480 What would you have done? Oh, the same thing because 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:32.080 my boyfriend I was living with him though he um 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:38.160 found my sex list from high school. Oh sex list? Yeah, well, 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.320 I mean it was from high school. Many people were 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.800 on it, oh at that time, only like fifty okay 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:46.160 from high school only well, I mean at the time 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.280 I was up to like I was twenty two, so 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.400 it was all the way up to twenty two. Mostly 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:51.920 all of them were in my twenties. So you can 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:55.480 settle that. But no, no, um, he found that and 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.640 he got drunk and he actually had cheated on me. 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.360 So it was that whole like projection things. We like 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:02.000 hit me and try to throw me down a flight 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.040 of stairs. But I like I was going to school 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.080 to be a cop at the time. Um, but crazy. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.160 But he's a really big guy. He was like six 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:11.600 one six two three hundred pounds. But like I turned 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:13.439 around and like I popped him like two three times 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.640 and I ran down the stairs. And then about a 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.520 month and a half later, like I moved out, I 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.080 took him. I made him, give me like ten fifteen grand, 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.120 like furnished a whole another apartment, buy me a car, 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.920 and then I left it. Wow. So yeah, you don't 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.559 hit me, Yeah, you don't hit me. Yeah, you passed 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:29.840 him three times. Yeah, I gave him like a little shot. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:33.360 I mean because I don't know from like cop training. Yeah. Yeah, 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.040 well it's more like a palm and then a punch 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.200 and that was like that huge and then yeah and 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.400 I was drunk to this was Yeah, it was a 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:43.120 gnarly me. That is crazy. Has anybody ever tried to 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:46.679 kill you, Stephanie? I mean yeah, but not like that, 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:48.920 not throwing me down the stairs or anything like that. 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:52.240 But you know, I've been woken up to like being 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:57.920 choked to die. Yeah, like fucking bitch, bitch that you're 0:11:57.960 --> 0:11:59.760 not you've never been in love. If your man hasn't 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:03.080 tried to kill you as someone, I don't, I don't 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.720 need love. Yeah, I don't believe that. It's been like 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:07.800 choked out a couple of times, Like I mean I 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:09.800 kind of like that in bed, so that me too, 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:13.000 But it's not the violent choking, Like the violent means 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:18.720 you were sleep. Yeah, there's there's like specific kinds of choking, 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:20.400 Like you could cut off the air, but the main 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.760 part is cutting off blood circulation. That's what we'll knock 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:25.640 somebody out when he cut off air, that will kill him. 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:27.439 So it really depends on how you choke with somebody. 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:31.760 I don't out, but I'm a little air. I don't 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:38.880 want to die either, auto affixiation not like that. All 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.160 right now, aaliah U. You were saying to me earlier 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:42.840 before we said this show that you're in an open 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.400 relationship and this is what works for you. So you 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:48.120 can fuck who you want to fuck, and you're dude 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.440 can funk who he wants to suck. Also, do you 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.360 have to approve it? Like you have to tell him like, hey, 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.200 I'm at this guy. Absolutely, you don't tell him after 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:58.800 you just do it. No, Yeah, that'd be weird. That'd 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:00.880 be like throwing his face, like, hey, look at all 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:03.400 these cocks. I was. I was in a relationship before 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:05.400 and he used to ask me questions in details, like 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:08.960 you want to know every single guy? Yeah, some guys 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:11.240 like that's a coup cald. Some guys really like get 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.080 off on that and like that would be like I've 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.480 had relationships like that, But that's a little bit too much, 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:18.920 just be like, Okay, no, I this is you, Like 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.640 we shared this. It was really weird, but I just 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.520 kept up with it because I got to kick out 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:27.480 of it because he would really like it. You know 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.520 what I think? Did he ask that? Like? What kind 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:32.000 of questions did he ask? How was it? How big? 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:34.640 Was it? Was it better me? Would you do to him? 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:38.480 How like everything? How did it happened? Did you initiate 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:41.520 the sex? If it was better? You would be like, yes, 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:46.679 it was better. No, yes, we didn't believe you then 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:49.560 because he was somebody's better, but he really good sex, 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:52.360 and then nobody is better than you, daddy, No, it 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.520 was he had really good No, he was good in bed. 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.680 Did you ever want to watch? No, but he wanted 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.720 to listen one time. That's weird. Yeah, some guys really 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:06.720 really get off on that, like immensely, like it's crazy, 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.839 and some girls like, yeah it was older. Yeah, it's 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.360 great for a certain relationship, especially like it's a sex 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:16.440 worker that's sucking perfect. So what are the rules for 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.040 the open relationship? Are there any rules? Like, Okay, here's 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.040 the rules. You can't be with this person more than 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:26.600 three times or no, there's I think, what about like protection, Well, yeah, 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:31.000 protection is definitely um a thing. Yeah, like we use 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:34.720 protection and stuff like that. But um no, there's like 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:38.280 don't ask, don't tell kind of thing, like a whole 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:42.960 other relationship. Um yeah, to a certain extent, we've talked 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.000 about that. That was like if we're going to be 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.000 with somebody else then yeah, but no, no, Yeah, this 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:52.040 is more just like sexual urges to be like, oh, 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:54.200 I'm really sexually attracted this person because you know, I 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.080 travel a lot and stuff, and so they'll be like, oh, 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.080 I'm going to bring this person and probably never see 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:00.760 him again kind of deals. It's not like we get 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.800 to sleep with like random people every day. It's just 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:06.040 like if something happens and that happens. That's like what 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.280 Monique was saying. She says, she goes on the road 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:11.800 and sometimes you get a little urge to do it, 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.880 and she does sometimes I want to suck somebody else, 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:18.160 and sometimes I just do it. And she said that 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:21.560 monogamy or whatever, adultery shouldn't be the basis of breaking up. 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:24.800 You shouldn't break up over infidelity. Well, how does a 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:29.280 natural thing? Monogamy is unnatural in the general, Like if 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.600 you get down to the scientific concept of it monogamy. 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:36.040 That's why faithful, because it's in their DNA. They can 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:40.080 because it's um. It's a challenge for them though. It 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:48.800 really is a challenge. Gets a challenge. Okay, it's very 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:55.240 natural for him that you guys lived together. No, no, no, 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.000 it will be together. It will be um four years 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:02.680 December of tea Dad, y'all got together right before Christmas. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:07.720 You got a gas the first year. Uh yeah, yeah, 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:12.880 I got im after eight days. Right, it was like 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:15.040 it was just it was like a Mark Jacob's dress. 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:19.640 That's nice. That's nice. Yeah, that's a very personal gift too. 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:23.160 Oh he's phenomenal. Like he's very it's like good at all. 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.520 That like a lot of my really nice expensive dresses, 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:28.680 Like he picks them all. Likes what he do. Oh, 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:35.000 he owns stuff, lots and lots of stuff. I don't 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.360 really talk about, like who he is. Does he go 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.920 and buy himself or does he have someone pick it? Oh? No, 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:42.520 he goes and buys it out. Like for my birthday, 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:48.240 I got um, Stephanie. That is amazing. It's hard to 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.440 find a guy that's good, that's good at Yeah, and 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:55.560 like he knows my shoes, eyes and stuff like, yeah, dope, beautiful. 0:16:56.600 --> 0:17:01.760 Not theseus right here? These are my picking. This is 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:05.520 my style. He dresses me up. Now, So what would 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:08.119 you guys do now, gig if a guy got you 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:10.199 a nice present but you were planning to break up, 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.000 do you keep the present or do you give it back? 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.800 Y'all know, I'm keeping every thing. I ain't give big ship. 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:18.920 It's mine. You bought it, it's mine, I'm keeping it. 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:20.560 What if you buy him something and he breaks up 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:24.840 it too, keep it? He gets to keep it? Yeah, 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:26.600 I mean I'm not gonna I'm not. I'm not going 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:31.199 to do the double can keep it? Just be mad though. Well, 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:33.280 if a guy gets just sat here all the time, 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:35.360 all those seconds trying to think of who actually broke 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:38.240 up with me? Nobody ever broke up with me? I 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:42.879 do the breaking up breaking up around here? Well, I mean, 0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:44.359 if a guy bought me a gift and I was 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:47.280 planning on breaking off with him, it will probably get him, 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:53.159 buy him a couple more weeks for sure. Okay, you're 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:54.840 still going to keep the gift because that's what I'm 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.680 gonna keep. That text your friends and you'd be like 0:17:56.920 --> 0:18:01.840 all right, I can't break up with this zude days girl. 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:07.920 Yeah right, yeah, exactly. You just bort yourself a month 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:12.600 over for you. I used to sate this guy that 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:15.240 used to buy me presents all the time, and I 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:16.600 was like, okay, I don't even want to be with 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:18.600 him anymore, but he's always I had to tell him. 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.879 I was like, please do me a favorite and stop 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.240 buying a meythings. I would. Yeah, that makes me feel guilty. 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:26.320 It made me feel bad. It's okay if I really 0:18:26.440 --> 0:18:28.000 like you and I want to be with you, cool, 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:29.560 But if I don't want to be with you when 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:31.679 you keep on buying meself, I feel bad, especially if 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:33.680 I like you as a person. It seems like they're 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:37.000 almost trying to like you know, you don't feel bad 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:43.160 what you don't feel by me? Everything I could care less. 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:46.640 You wasn't ex for it, right, he was thinking upon himself. Yeah, 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:48.119 but I think that he thought we were going to 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:51.080 end up together one day with all of this stuff 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.359 that he probably I love you, and I know you 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:55.240 only lead people on in the wrong way. You you 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:58.600 kind of like play it cool, So he should have 0:18:58.640 --> 0:19:01.000 saw the signs that she wasn't, you know, and that's 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:02.639 up to him that he wanted to keep unning. And 0:19:02.800 --> 0:19:04.600 I felt bad because you know, sometimes you dad somebody 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.439 and you feel bad because they're so nice and they 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:08.120 do great stuff for you, and you're like, why can't 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:10.320 I like him? Yeah? Like why am I not? In 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:14.480 just like your eyebrows? It's something, and then it's something 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:16.920 as minute as that. It could be like I don't 0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:19.120 like the way he burps, or something like there's something 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:23.360 I feel like I can't mannerisms will kill a guy. 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:25.280 I don't. I don't like I don't like the way 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:28.560 he drives. I don't like like him. When you like 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:31.640 a guy, you like like everything he does. Yeah, damn. 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:33.800 I love the way his hands look on us. Yeah, 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.560 every little thing. But it's my down. But when you 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:39.040 stop because the same things that you love about a guy, 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:43.239 I love when he snores. It's so cute. As soon 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:47.320 as you break up like that, I gotta get up. 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:52.280 He found a couch. Let me suffocate him some up here. 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:57.320 That's snoring every night, jees jes. Thinking about people, you know, 0:19:57.440 --> 0:19:58.719 when I'm I know when I'm starting and say, hey, 0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:00.800 a guy when I don't like the way he smells anymore? Oh, 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:03.320 my god, that's a big thing. Smell. I love him, 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:05.720 he smells so good. But when I hate him, it's 0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:09.440 like that's, um, that's that's your hormones basically telling you 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:13.000 that that dude's done. Yeah, that's your body whatever. Yeah, listen, 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:15.680 when you love a guy, if his his dank ass 0:20:15.720 --> 0:20:18.280 breath in the morning, you'll be like, I love it, 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.280 breathe only it doesn't bother you and be like I'll 0:20:21.320 --> 0:20:24.639 make out with you. Right Yeah, Like that's like that. 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:28.920 But when you don't love him anymore, he don't why 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:33.040 I'm talking to me. You ain't even brush your But yeah, 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:34.960 they say that if you love the way a guy 0:20:35.040 --> 0:20:37.400 smells and you love him, like scent is super important. 0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:42.040 Yeah for women. Yeah, he has this cologna. I like that. 0:20:42.080 --> 0:20:45.480 He was all the time and um like he you know, 0:20:45.600 --> 0:20:47.320 he has a couple of different things that he goes through. 0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:49.760 But I always noticed that when we when we like beefing, 0:20:50.000 --> 0:20:53.520 who were the cologna? I like to be smart, I 0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:55.800 called him in one time to like, really gonna wear 0:20:55.840 --> 0:20:59.920 that COLOGNEA like you. It's it's like a man's from 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:02.399 It's like if if I like the way that you 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:04.800