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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for kicking out my dad

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Speaker 1: and his wife out of their house for wanting to

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Speaker 1: name their unborn twins after my dead siblings?

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Speaker 2: Okop, this is Okayop.

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Speaker 1: I'm Samuel Daughner and I'm John Fry and we read

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Speaker 1: the funniest stories on the Internet. And John, I have

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Speaker 1: another family story with unborn and deceased twins.

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Speaker 3: Oh give it to me.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for kicking out my dad

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Speaker 1: and his wife out of their house for wanting to

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Speaker 1: name their unborn twins after my dead siblings.

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Speaker 3: Now that is a whole scenario right there.

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Speaker 2: That's a mouthful a whole.

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Speaker 3: That's a whole situation. No, No, Jim tannor laundry.

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Speaker 2: No, No. Some background.

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Speaker 1: My younger brother, sister and mom passed away in an

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Speaker 1: accident eight years ago.

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Speaker 2: Awful.

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Speaker 1: My father and I used to be very close before this,

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Speaker 1: but we've drifted apart since then.

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Speaker 2: This is this is sad.

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Speaker 1: I think some of it has to do with the

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Speaker 1: fact that I look a lot like my younger sister.

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Speaker 1: She was always close to my dad and we would

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Speaker 1: often joke she would take care of him when he

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Speaker 1: got older.

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Speaker 2: That's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my father also isn't really a believer in therapy

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Speaker 1: and refuses to go.

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Speaker 2: When I started going.

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Speaker 1: To therapy a few months after the accident, he said

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Speaker 1: that I should be stronger and quote stop giving people

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Speaker 1: the satisfaction of seeing you week, the satisfaction.

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Speaker 2: What is this guy? What this guy's like some military general.

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Speaker 3: He's got he's got more going on beneath the surface than.

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Speaker 1: He's his own hood looked in though before he can go,

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Speaker 1: saying whose hood should be worked on?

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Speaker 2: What working on makes two week? There you go.

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Speaker 1: He remarried two years ago. His new wife and I

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Speaker 1: don't get along. Some things she's done include telling my

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Speaker 1: father not to invite me to his wedding, telling him

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Speaker 1: I was bullying her children because I refuse to let

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Speaker 1: them have an unsupervised party at my beach house. And

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Speaker 1: I also told them the GDFO if they continued to

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Speaker 1: treat the staff disrespectfully.

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Speaker 2: This ma I got staff at his beach house. Hey, wow,

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Speaker 2: dang oh, he is a nail.

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Speaker 1: Her kids were eighteen female in seventeen male at the

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Speaker 1: time when she married my dad. She was also under

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Speaker 1: the impression that the money he spent on her in

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Speaker 1: the house he lived in was his. He never said

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Speaker 1: it was. She just assumed, you know what, assuming shadowing baby.

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Speaker 1: My mom left a nice amount of money in her

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Speaker 1: will and I used it to invest and also work

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Speaker 1: in the tech field, so I'm well off. However, considering

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Speaker 1: my age, I don't think she was expecting this, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think she was very pleased either.

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Speaker 2: On to the issue.

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Speaker 1: At the gender reveal party, they are expecting a boy

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Speaker 1: and a girl. My dad announced that they will be

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Speaker 1: naming the kids after my dead siblings. I'm shocked, and

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Speaker 1: I interrupt to tell him that naming the twins after

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Speaker 1: my siblings is weird. His wife tells me to stop

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Speaker 1: being jealous. At this point, I'm pissed. I ignore her

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Speaker 1: and tell him my dad that he would always stick

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Speaker 1: up for me in the past, yet he lets his

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Speaker 1: wife belittle me now, oh whoa? And also how I

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Speaker 1: was hurt he didn't invite me to his wedding, how

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Speaker 1: he never once said that he was proud of me

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Speaker 1: or even a thank you or I love you after

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Speaker 1: I bought this house for him wow, and basically said

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Speaker 1: that if my siblings were here, they'd be disappointed in

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Speaker 1: him and ashamed to call him a dad, since he's

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Speaker 1: been a pretty crappy one so far.

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Speaker 3: Wow, dude, op just unloaded Rick.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot, is oh?

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Speaker 3: And like those things? Yeah? That Wow?

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Speaker 2: Shit, that's a lot man.

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Speaker 1: My father told me to get out of his house,

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Speaker 1: and as I was about to leave, his wife comes

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Speaker 1: to me and I kid you not, says, don't let

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Speaker 1: the door hit.

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Speaker 2: Your butt on the way out.

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Speaker 3: It's just corny.

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Speaker 1: Why it's so corny, it's just stupid.

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Speaker 3: At least make it a zinger, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: if you're going to say something.

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Speaker 2: So I walk back in. Opie's not having any event what.

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Speaker 1: So I walk back in and tell my dad that

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Speaker 1: he and his wife had a month to leave my house,

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Speaker 1: laying down.

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Speaker 3: The law seriously. Well, the wife starts crying.

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Speaker 1: Dad said I was pathetic, and her family has been

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Speaker 1: messaging me telling me to apologize. But my friends and

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Speaker 1: family on both my mom and dad's side agree with me.

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Speaker 1: Although they think I should let my dad stay and

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Speaker 1: kick the wife out. However, I want them both out.

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Speaker 1: I get that I acted a bit emotion and I'm

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Speaker 1: starting to feel bad for stressing a pregnant woman.

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Speaker 3: So am I the a whole interesting situation. Interesting situation.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think the one fault on Opie's part

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Speaker 3: is unloading all of those things at once in that setting. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You like, when you're unloading something from an emotional place,

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Speaker 1: it's usually not a good move.

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Speaker 2: Because you're acting out of anger, not out of kindness.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so i'd say generally, always try to act out

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Speaker 1: of kindness, and if you're acting out of anger, you're

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Speaker 1: probably doing something wrong.

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Speaker 3: That is a great point. The only thing I would

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Speaker 3: say is like, I don't, I don't. Uh, I don't

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Speaker 3: give it a pass. But I mean, op just listed

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Speaker 3: all of these things that have just like bothered her

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Speaker 3: over the years, and it seems like she's had no

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Speaker 3: reconciliation with her father over these issues because he doesn't

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Speaker 3: engage in that kind of communication.

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Speaker 2: It needed to come up, But this is probably not

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Speaker 2: the wrong place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that suys a good point. You needed to come up,

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Speaker 3: but this was not location. At the location, Dad's wife

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Speaker 3: was having twins, right, Yeah, the dad's why Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: which is pretty old to have twins. But Dad's still

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Speaker 3: shooting bullets.

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Speaker 2: You you know what.

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Speaker 3: I mew that not joke.

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Speaker 1: I love how that's the censored way of saying it.

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Speaker 3: Like guys, it's it's better if we do the other way.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, we'll play ball. Tiktoka play ball,