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Speaker 1: You know what's worse than the dating apps themselves, dudes

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Speaker 1: who are on the dating apps. No offense to all

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Speaker 1: the guys out there, but let's just be honest. Most

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Speaker 1: of the time, it's guys trying to impress women with

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Speaker 1: things that only other guys would be impressed with, like

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Speaker 1: how much you can bench press. For the most part,

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Speaker 1: women don't care that much about how much weight you

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Speaker 1: can push unless it's being able to carry their emotional.

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Speaker 2: Baggage with care. Oh that's so true.

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Speaker 1: I remember lift with your back, And I know that

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Speaker 1: dudes on dating apps missed the mark most of the time.

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Speaker 1: Because there's a new study going viral about the biggest

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Speaker 1: dating turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps.

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Speaker 1: Text in yours and will tell you what the number

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Speaker 1: one dating app turnoff for women is. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: I'm matched with this guy on Tinder and his first

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Speaker 1: voice note that he sent me with just him chewing

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Speaker 1: chips in no hello, just crunching in my ear like

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Speaker 1: we were in a Pringles commercial. Why then he sent

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Speaker 1: me a second message that said, I thought this would

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Speaker 1: be cute, you know, so you can hear what it's

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Speaker 1: like to have snacks together. Our ASMR future love story.

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Speaker 1: I called it blocked. I would not block them because

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Speaker 1: of that. That is creativity point. A text message we

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Speaker 1: just got in at four one oh six one because

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Speaker 1: there's a suddy gooing viral about the biggest dating turnoffs

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Speaker 1: for women when it comes to the dating apps. Text

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Speaker 1: in yours four one o six one, and we'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what the number one dating app turnoff for women

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Speaker 1: is in just a second. Let's go over some of

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Speaker 1: the top turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps,

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Speaker 1: over messaging or getting too clingy.

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Speaker 2: It's sae, yeah, this.

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Speaker 1: Healthy relationships need breathing room, coming on too strong before

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Speaker 1: that suggests the lack of boundaries and can feel like

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Speaker 1: love bombing, which often leads to burnout and controlling behavior.

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Speaker 3: Well, especially when there's isn't it like the blue text rule,

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Speaker 3: like you shouldn't have too many blue blocks or green

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Speaker 3: blocks depending on whatever type of Yeah, too many blocks

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Speaker 3: that are on your own, Like you shouldn't go more

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Speaker 3: than like two without somebody responding at that point then,

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Speaker 3: and I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like on the dating apps, it's just guys going

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Speaker 1: over and over and over again, hey hi hey hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: hey hey hey, with no response until you get the

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Speaker 1: long paragraph where they yell seriously. Going over the top

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Speaker 1: dating turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps,

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Speaker 1: when it comes to guys, Guys using poor grammar and

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Speaker 1: spelling is also in the top. Yeah, it says it's

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Speaker 1: not about being an English major. It's about effort. A

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Speaker 1: dating profile is your highlight reel, and if you can't

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Speaker 1: take the time to write clearly, it signals you may

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Speaker 1: not put effort into other parts of your relationship either. Plus, Brad,

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Speaker 1: grammar can make you sound less intelligent than you are,

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Speaker 1: which is not the vibe you probably want. And this

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Speaker 1: is the most logical explanation for all of it. I mean, yes,

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Speaker 1: that feels like common sense to me. The fact that

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Speaker 1: we need to explain why it's important to have proper

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Speaker 1: grammar is beyond me.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it does really corrects me. But why

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Speaker 2: you okay with him not being like.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 4: But it's just so funny, like if someone spells it

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Speaker 4: like text me and be like you're beautiful, but like

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Speaker 4: y oh you are and like forgets the.

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Speaker 1: Like oh okay, yeah, you're not getting a response. We're

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Speaker 1: going over the top dating turn offs for women when

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Speaker 1: it comes to guys on the dating apps only posting

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Speaker 1: group photos in your profile, says every picture is a

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Speaker 1: group shot. It's either because he's hiding behind his friends,

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Speaker 1: he's insecure about standing alone, or he's trying to level

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Speaker 1: up his own attractiveness through comparison, and it creates confusion

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Speaker 1: and nobody wants to fall for the hot best friend

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Speaker 1: by mistake.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, I hate this.

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Speaker 3: They get themselves into trouble though, because now you're presenting

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Speaker 3: other options to us, and every time you post a picture,

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Speaker 3: so like, why would we want you if you are

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Speaker 3: like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: It's like a game, ending up being like a game

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Speaker 4: of like where's Waldo and having to do like.

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Speaker 1: Detective skills, which one argue, yea, do you think it is?

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Speaker 1: You hope it's the one, But then you ask me

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Speaker 1: find out that that is their friend, You're like, dang it,

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Speaker 1: well is his name? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Friend single.

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Speaker 1: Here's another one of the top turn offs for women

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Speaker 1: when it comes to men on the dating apps flaunting

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Speaker 1: his wealth. It says, well, ambition can be attractive. Making

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Speaker 1: money your personality signals shallow priorities, and it implies that

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Speaker 1: status is more important than substance, and it risks attracting

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Speaker 1: people who care about what you own rather than who

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Speaker 1: you are, and that's a shaky foundation for any relationship preach.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, but the thing is if a guy posts

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Speaker 4: a picture like flying a plane, that in a way

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Speaker 4: could be flaunting your wealth. But if you have like

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Speaker 4: a license to fly the plane to back up, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, it's kind of hot like that. Well yeah,

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Speaker 4: because then you can go fly around like where you

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Speaker 4: gonna take me? Man?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what if it's a dude that's posting a

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Speaker 3: picture with like his Gucci slides and then he's got

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Speaker 3: his Gucci belt and then he's got the wallet on

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Speaker 3: the top, and then behind him is his Like what's

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Speaker 3: what are those trucks called again? The Tesla ones, the

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Speaker 3: Tesla truck, cyber truck with the cyberstruck behind that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I'm saying, Like, does that? Do

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Speaker 2: you like that? The cyber truck alone is going to

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Speaker 2: turn me off? Like home? Yeah, see how many of

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Speaker 2: those blown up?

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to get into one of those cars.

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Speaker 1: I bet there are a lot of cyber trucks on

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Speaker 1: the dating apps. It wouldn't surprise me and ye, why there,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not on them.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Victoria, we were out a winery and this one

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Speaker 3: dude pulled up in the cyber truck and I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, quick, we got to see what this

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Speaker 3: person looks like. Yeah, we go up to him. It's

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Speaker 3: like this older dude, kind of super tight jeans and

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Speaker 3: this really young beautiful woman like with him. And it

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Speaker 3: was like, could it be more of a stereotype and say, like,

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Speaker 3: nailed it.

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Speaker 1: Here's another one of the top turn offs for women

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Speaker 1: when it comes to the dating apps. Vulgar pickup lines.

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Speaker 1: So guys using something explicit immediately frames that the interaction

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Speaker 1: is purely physical and not charming.

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Speaker 2: You need to know your audience.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like you would like these, but that

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Speaker 5: is a major turnoff.

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Speaker 2: And I had a guy the other day. But it's

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Speaker 2: got to be funny though, Okay, what did you say?

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Speaker 5: He yeah, see if I was a light switch and

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Speaker 5: I was like, what, he goes, because you're turning me on.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, one, you're turning me off.

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Speaker 5: That's not that's weird.

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but that was in it. That that

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Speaker 2: ended it. I was like you're turning me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I am a light switch and you just turned

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Speaker 1: off the lights for good. So I'm out.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna regret that.

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Speaker 1: No, And the number one her biggest turnoff for women

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Speaker 1: when it comes to the dating apps is men not

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Speaker 1: having photos of themselves on their profile.

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Speaker 2: Bro, what do you want to buy the FBI? Why

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Speaker 2: can I see your face?

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Speaker 1: It says from a trust and safety perspective, it's a

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Speaker 1: red flag because online dating is already a high risk

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Speaker 1: from misinterpretation, and profiles without solo shots make women wonder

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Speaker 1: if he's hiding his appearance, if he's in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: or if he's even real.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, good point.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, because if I can't see what you look like, like,

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Speaker 4: what's the what else are you posting?

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Speaker 2: If you don't post sun yourself stub?

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Speaker 1: Is it sunset?

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Speaker 2: Your fancy car? These are all things I've seen.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to date your sunset photo, Nina.

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Speaker 1: I want to date you, just I don't have any

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Speaker 1: pictures of myself, just the beautiful sunsets that I see,

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Speaker 1: and your smile reminds me of that beautiful sunset.

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Speaker 2: Dang, what you know?

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Speaker 1: I kind of like, so I want to do it

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Speaker 1: with you, Okay, I just want to figure out what

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Speaker 1: would happen on the dating app