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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my husband to

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Speaker 2: So what do you think about like parents supporting?

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Speaker 1: I don't think you have to stop supporting, but there's

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Speaker 1: probably like a like a line.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Chad, let me know where the line is. What

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Speaker 2: do you guys think the line is?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I forty seven female, am very frustrated about this

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Speaker 1: if my feelings are valid. My husband fifty four male

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Speaker 1: keeps supporting his daughter twenty seven female, who's a single mom. Currently,

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Speaker 1: the daughter lives with her mom and is asking for

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Speaker 1: him to help non stop. Might it be simple or not?

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Speaker 1: I stopped working for a while due to a very

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Speaker 1: bad accident and am living off pension. My husband earns

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Speaker 1: enough to support us, but not to the extreme where

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Speaker 1: he'll have too much disposable income. Just six months ago,

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Speaker 1: the daughter asked for money to d for dental implants.

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Speaker 1: What I feel like that's I feel like there are

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Speaker 1: certain things that you can't just ask for money for.

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Speaker 2: Can't ask for dental implants.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's like a I mean, I guess

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Speaker 2: I mean I stopped going to the dentist whenever my

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Speaker 1: You should go back to the dentists.

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Speaker 2: If my mom pays for it, I'll go.

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Speaker 1: You can get on like you can get on healthcare

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Speaker 1: for that really? Yeah, like Medicare.

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Speaker 2: Oh I should Yeah, I should probably look into that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, I don't know, ask Sam he's on

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Speaker 2: Oh No, I just feel safer going to the to

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Speaker 2: the people my mom took me to.

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Speaker 1: I'll take you to my dentists anyway.

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Speaker 2: Sorry side sidetrack.

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Speaker 1: I happily told my husband to be as generous as

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Speaker 1: time it was daycare bills than phone bills. Just a

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Speaker 1: week ago, she asked him to base some of her

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Speaker 1: To be asking for that much help, especially if she

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Speaker 1: If I'm am I thinking of medicaid, I might have

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Speaker 1: been I might have meant to medicaid.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, John's on that medicaid medicare. M kidding.

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Speaker 1: I always mix them up like a stalagtites and stillagpites.

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Speaker 1: I told my husband how frustrated I am, and he

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Speaker 1: He said, Now, uh, he's giving her seven hundred dollars weekly.

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Speaker 1: And I just found out yesterday, oh that we are

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Speaker 1: on rent, you're giving too much money, Like you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: And then I told him how I see him as

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Speaker 1: especially when we can barely pay housing. And he just

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Speaker 1: What am I the able?

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Speaker 1: Three days? You stopped talking to your wife for three days? No? No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: That's yeah. No, you can't. You can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I'm be doing that. That's not okay. You need you

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Speaker 1: need to communicate with your partner. Oh quite frankly, you

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Speaker 1: especially if it's financial stuff. Yeah yeah, but let's get

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Speaker 1: into these relevant comments. Actually there's an edit. I still

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Speaker 1: pay half of our bills as of today. I lost

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, that's is this kid like not working?

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Speaker 1: They said she's not working, and they also said daycare,

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Speaker 2: Because if you spoil your kids like this, what's gonna

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Speaker 1: I would want the best for my child, plain and simple.

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Speaker 1: If that lean means living with me past eighteen years,

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Speaker 1: No, I do think. I don't think that you should

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Speaker 1: I don't think that should be at the detriment of

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Speaker 2: whenever you guys moved out of your house or like

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Speaker 2: whenever you moved out from your parents.

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Speaker 1: I technically moved out right away. Really yeah, right after college?

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Speaker 1: She's old enough to figure herself out. I understand helping

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Speaker 1: Then my husband asked, would be okay if we continue

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Speaker 2: This is too much. I like that. She said she

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Speaker 2: a husband communication. What's up with people not communicating? Communication?

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Speaker 2: All of your problems would go away if you did

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Speaker 1: No, she literally said, She's like, I'm okay with you

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Speaker 2: Hot take. I would sit the daughter down and like

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Speaker 1: She's not really afforded that. Another commenter says, does he

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Speaker 2: What, that's good that the you're behind on rent? That's good.

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Speaker 2: So this is like, oh that you find out, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Commoner says, how can you be okay with this?

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Speaker 1: Opie says, I love her and her kid. We would

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Speaker 1: occasionally fly them out every time. I treat her as

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Speaker 1: we can't fit the bill anymore. But my husband thinks

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Speaker 2: Oh and they're not close either.

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Speaker 1: Man. No, If if it's an issue of like you

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Speaker 1: don't even know if you're going to be able to

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Speaker 1: Op says, then yeah, you got to be like, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: we can't afford to pay give you money.

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Speaker 2: You got that account of conversation.

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Speaker 1: It's not a long term salute. Another commoner says, this

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Speaker 1: is none of my business, but is there a chance

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Speaker 1: If so, maybe you could position it as him needing

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Speaker 1: to worry about your finances now, oh, your own finances now,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure, i I Alana said, I thank you

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Speaker 1: didn't know that she wasn't paying for rent is yeah.

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Speaker 1: Concerning Opie says, we actually didn't feel the need to

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Speaker 1: consult my husband's ex wife about my stepdaughter's situation since

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Speaker 1: she's an adult who we thought was in dire need

440
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Speaker 1: of support. We believe this was something she really needed

441
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Speaker 1: to be able to grow, but we were wrong. We

442
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Speaker 1: even paid for her college for two years. That's why

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Speaker 1: when it lasted this long and she's still jobless, it

444
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Speaker 1: really made me frustrated. I'm just glad my husband sees

445
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Speaker 1: it through my eyes now. It took me a while

446
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 1: to understand what's happening, and if not for you guys

447
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Speaker 1: who helped me, he would have never seen it either. Yeah.

448
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Speaker 2: I think crazy.

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Speaker 1: I think Opie was saying that they paid for two

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Speaker 1: extra years of college because she said, like, oh, I'm

451
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Speaker 1: not sure if that's right, but she said, oh, it

452
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Speaker 1: took so long as she still doesn't have a job,

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Speaker 1: So I think she was implying that she paid for

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Speaker 1: two extra years ooh, which is yeah concerning, not that

455
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,959
Speaker 1: she had to stay for two years, but that like

456
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: she's not using to get a job and still yeah,

457
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: and still relying on their money. Partying doesn't usually cost

458
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Speaker 1: that much a month. Some commoner says, I just talked

459
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Speaker 1: to the ex and she's quite shocked as well. She

460
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Speaker 1: said she takes care of her grandchild full time. Wait,

461
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Speaker 1: where's the daycare of money going?

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Speaker 2: She ain't using it. She's not using she's using it.

463
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Speaker 1: And our stepdaughter kept on purchasing expensive stuff, and she

464
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Speaker 1: was wondering where the money was coming from. And she

465
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: kept saying those were gifts. She didn't even know we

466
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Speaker 1: were supporting her. Oh my god, this girl's lying to everyone.

467
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: She never tried getting a job, and it's partly my

468
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Speaker 1: husband's fault since he was providing her for her, but

469
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Speaker 1: not anymore. In six months, she only tried once and

470
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Speaker 1: only for a week. My husband was frustrated because he

471
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Speaker 1: said she never even asked him once how he's doing.

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Speaker 1: But every time she calls, it's all about wiring money,

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Speaker 1: and she gets irritated if it's a day late. These

474
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Speaker 1: are some This is some info my husband would never

475
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Speaker 1: tell me before. But I can tell he's over the

476
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: situation now and is unloading his mental baggage. Wow or

477
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: emotional baggage. Yeah. Yeah, something's going wrong with this girl.

478
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Speaker 1: She needs to I don't I feel like she's not

479
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Speaker 1: paying for the daycare. Demonica Christie says the daycare is

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00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: a lie as well. Why is it getting worse? Yeah,

481
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 1: it seems like she's lying about everything, and she's you know,

482
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Speaker 1: tricking her both sets of parents so that they pay

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Speaker 1: for her and support her lifestyle. This is very suspicious

484
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: also TLDR for anyone who's getting confused. Opie's husband was

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Speaker 1: paying for her stepdaughter and giving her about twenty five

486
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Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month, and Opie said, we cannot support

487
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Speaker 1: this lifestyle anymore. We are behind on rent, and so

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Speaker 1: they cut the daughter off and then found out that

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Speaker 1: Opie's husband's ex wife was still supporting her. And they

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Speaker 1: don't don't really know where this money that they were

491
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Speaker 1: giving her go is going to.

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Speaker 2: I bet the kid was getting taken care of by

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Speaker 2: the ex wife. That's what.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it said the thing it said the ex

495
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Speaker 1: wife was taking care of her full time. So that's

496
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Speaker 1: why I'm like, where where was this money going to drugs? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Susan Martin, thank you for the one eighty five buck tip.

498
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Speaker 1: Please like the stream like it. We're not at eight

499
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Speaker 1: hundred likes yet. We could do another Jeopardy yet.

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Speaker 2: I love doing Jeopardy eight one hundred and fifty people

501
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Speaker 2: here on YouTube and fifty people I don't know how

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Speaker 2: much on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, we have relatively we have somewhere over

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Speaker 1: eight hundred and fifty people. Alana, thank you for the

505
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Speaker 1: two buck tip. Oh I said that one uh Christie

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Speaker 1: says was college to wish and allied to I. Unless

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Speaker 1: they were paying her directly, I would hope not, because

508
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Speaker 1: usually you.

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Speaker 2: Have to Like I could. I could see that though.

510
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Speaker 1: Yeah, if they were paying her directly and she was like,

511
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Speaker 1: I'll pay for it too, maybe she just wasn't going to.

512
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Speaker 2: College because in a way, the like her dad, Opie's

513
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 2: husband has not been around her and like it's far

514
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 2: away so she could do whatever she wants.

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00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well that she's been getting away with it because

516
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: the parents haven't been communicating with each other, so she's

517
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 1: just like, haha, figure it out.

518
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm very curious to see how long this has been

519
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: going on for Valley.

520
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: Lily says, Oh, she feels something sorry for herself because

521
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: now she's not getting any money anymore. She did nothing

522
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: wrong and they're letting her down. Oh is that what

523
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: she's is that? From her perspective, Christine christin Elle says,

524
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: this feels like the lead up to one of those

525
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: true crime crate cases where the kid pretends to go

526
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: to college and when the years of lies are discovered,

527
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: they murder the parents. Oh my god, I hope that

528
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: does not happen. This is not a true crime podcast.

529
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Speaker 2: Guys, this is it. We couldn't take it serious.

530
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Speaker 1: Take it seriously.

531
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Speaker 2: This isn't a true I think you could maybe do it.

532
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: I bet I could do it.

533
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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like, okay, hot take on the true

534
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: crime stuff. She's just like like, it's like real, Like

535
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: the one we read it was like two like little

536
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: girls that got murdered by a murderer, and it's like,

537
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: this is real. They even had pictures of the little

538
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 2: girls and it was like whoa it hit And like

539
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: my response to that is like to laugh it off,

540
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 2: and you can't.

541
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Speaker 1: You can't laugh that off when you're doing it in

542
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Speaker 1: front of people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why we buried that. It was like, yeah,

544
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: we buried that. We can't. We sworen not to talk about.

545
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: It, never going to see the light of day.

546
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Speaker 2: Cannot see.

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00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: No. I wasn't even in that one, which is probably

548
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: why it got so crazy.

549
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: Dude, you would have yelled at us, stope.

550
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: I would have been like, stopped laughing.

551
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: She just got murdered. Stop laughing all giants milk back

552
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: at it again.

553
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Speaker 1: It again, giants Milk. Gifted memberships. Ooh, we're made in

554
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: Naoki says do weird history. That would be fun, like

555
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: drunk history, but we don't drink.

556
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: We just acted out.

557
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: Jac Thank you for the celebrating your two months of membership.

558
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Speaker 1: As someone who has a close family member that struggles

559
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: with addition addition, they really they find moth really hard addiction.

560
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, daughter is very much reminding me of her.

561
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: When can you still down no on the donations? Thank

562
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: you when we wouldn't give her money. Yeah, I think

563
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: that it's a little bit concerning that she is so

564
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: like reacting so I don't know, crazily or reacting so

565
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: intensely to not getting money when it's not like she's

566
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Speaker 1: gonna be put out in the street. She still has

567
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: her mother supporting her and giving her letting her live

568
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: for free without rents. Yeah, oh, I think there's something

569
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: else going on, perhaps, definitely perhaps, but yeah, there is

570
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: something else going on in this next story. Okay, we

571
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Speaker 1: have to wait one second. La la la, la, la

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Speaker 1: la la.

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Speaker 2: I'm a mom.

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00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: Christie says, make instead of drink history, do baked history

575
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: or okay, story time? Hello, well dam would love that. Yes,

576
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: Reda is gonna get more icebacks. Kara Sosa says, y'all

577
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: should do. Let's not meet? What is that on Reddit?

578
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: Who are we not meeting? Uh? Miranda lisays I'm at

579
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: work watching this live. Does the daughter take care of

580
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Speaker 1: her child? It seems that her mom takes care of

581
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: the child's full time, so it doesn't like I'm I'm

582
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: not sure she's like partying, that's what they said. I

583
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: don't know. Sam Hyatt says, drunk lat love bubbles. Drunk

584
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Speaker 1: History is a great concept, but that awful show is

585
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: very light, lazy, whitewashed and gets a lot of their

586
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: info wrong. Damn, I have to really, I've only seen

587
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: a couple episodes, but I did like them. I'll rewatch

588
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: with a new mind. Drunk history. Yeah a word madely

589
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: Aoki says, like, Hey, guy who stared at me too

590
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: long and make it extra creepy, let's not meet. Okay,

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00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: that's what that is. Got you demonic. Kirsty says, I

592
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: have an addiction. I love buying your arm. There's a bee,

593
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: it's gone. Uh. Ri Soma says, let's not. I can't

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00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: see that now. Uh little duck a Rue says at Rocky,

595
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: he's got his priority screwed up and me and others?

596
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: Oh is this for another person? Jutter shutter to thank

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Speaker 1: you for the forward buck tip. Wife wit Nars and

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Speaker 1: I are watching the Live tonight. Love the outdoor vibe,

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Speaker 1: love you wit.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so cute.

601
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Speaker 1: Are you ready Riley to get into this next story?

602
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 2: La?

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00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: La la la? Also, Riley, I mean this for real?

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00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: What if I after this stream? We got ice cream?

605
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 2: I'm not buying this, okay, I mean it for real?

606
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no no no. Let's talk.

607
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 2: Let's talk. Okay, story time, Okay, this person right here. Okay.

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00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: We're at the premiere of what was it? What was

609
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: the movie?

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00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 1: Uh?

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00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 2: The idea of you? The idea of you just stream,

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00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: that's the one we went to for Spotify. We're there,

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00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: we're like having a good time. We're there watching the movie,

614
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: and then Sophia looks right at me. She goes, Riley,

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Speaker 2: what if we got crumble cookies after this?

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Speaker 1: And I'd say crumble cookies. I said ice cream?

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00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: Okay, she said ice cream? She you know, lay not snack.

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00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my gosh, that sounds like a

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Speaker 2: brilliant idea. Downtown La ice cream. Why not? Well we

620
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: talked for a little bit and then I get you

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Speaker 2: not fifteen minutes later, I mentioned always go get ice cream.

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Speaker 2: She says, I'm too tired now. She put this in

623
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Speaker 2: my mind, and it was like, I can't do it.

624
00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm tired.

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00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: We were taking different cars and it was just they

626
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Speaker 1: could have made it happen. I had to drive Sam's

627
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Speaker 1: car and I don't know how to work at desline.

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00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: It's self drive. You don't even drive it, man, dude.

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Speaker 1: But but today I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: I don't I'm not. I'm not. I don't want ice cream.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get ice cream cause you're gonna

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Speaker 2: we're gonna because this is what's gonna happen. I'm gonna

633
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 2: have to put all this stuff back upstairs and then

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00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna be like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, if I'm gonna tell you, you can say no

636
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Speaker 1: right now. But I'm gonna tell you after this dream.

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00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, let's go get ice cream, and you

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00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: can you can say no or not?

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00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 2: Should I? I don't, I'm just I'm just I've just

640
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: been hurt. Should I trust Sophia?

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00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: I want ice cream? Well, I specifically want like like

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00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: uh a frozen yogurt I mean, like kind of like

643
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: a men cheese mood or like a what's another frozen

644
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: you agurt place?

645
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: Yogurt land yogurt land mood? I want like a tart

646
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 2: there with my first day with that's so sweet. Any Ways,

647
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 2: I really want I want it. You can go by yourself.

648
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: Then, okay, fine, it will, but it would be fun

649
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Speaker 1: if we both went.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for having a kid when

652
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: my ex wife is going through menopause?

653
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: NA show her what's up? Rub it in her face, man.

654
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: Rub it in her face.

655
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: You can't have kids, but I can't.

656
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: I get it whatever I want. Pigeon General, thank you

657
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: for the five buck tip o raspberry sorbet you don't

658
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: have the rich Oh that sounds delicious. You guys should

659
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: try doing stupid true crime. It's all about the most

660
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: stupid criminals. Or let's not meet is one of my favorites.

661
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: You should definitely do that and join the Pigeon Army

662
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: today and fly high above those groud love us. I

663
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: agreed with your first half of your sentence, but I

664
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: didn't like the other half. The second half was was

665
00:33:55,640 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: messed up. Dutchess Casanta, says Sophia me. She wants you

666
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: to go get ice cream rilly and bring it back

667
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: for rope. That's not what I mean. I want to

668
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: go out and get frozen yogurt. I want to go

669
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: on a little trip. I've been in the sun. I

670
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: deserve a little treat. Quite frankly, we.

671
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 2: Got girl Scout cookies from now.

672
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: I need a cold treat. It's too hot. I'm overheating,

673
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: so to Fried Patricia Fried oreos are the best.

674
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: Thank you, Patricia. What did Patricia say, uh, you gave

675
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 2: us a fifteen oh tip for ice cream things.

676
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that she'd goes straight to our pockets.

677
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 2: I got you.

678
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: My ex wife, forty five female and I forty three male,

679
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: are in the process of divorce. We have two kids

680
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: in high school. She started to hate me whoa during

681
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: our last year of marriage. Along with mood swings and

682
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: just being mean. Only thing I could think of at

683
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: the time was that she's being hormonal. She doesn't like

684
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: when I tell her she's being hormonal. She would get defensive.

685
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: I told her to see a doctor.

686
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: What I do think anyone would like to have you like,

687
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 2: your hormones are acting up?

688
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah no, yeah, that's probably not a fun thing to.

689
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 2: Hear, Sophia, you're overreacting.

690
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: I would be annoyed. Calm down, I would be annoyed.

691
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: Only I can say that I am overreacting. Yeah, yeah,

692
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: Only I can say that I'm having mood spangs. No

693
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: one else can say that. But let's get back to

694
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: the story. I told her to see a doctor.

695
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 2: She refused.

696
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: I don't think she would have listened to me. I

697
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: gave her an ultimatum to go to therapy and go

698
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 1: see a doctor or we're done. She asked for divorce.

699
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: Oh wow, not escalated. I didn't argue. I told her, fine,

700
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: if that's what she wants. She told me, Oh, I'm

701
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: a mediocre husband and she's better off alone. Oh that

702
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: actually defines me. I'm a mediocre husband. I'm not very

703
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: good luck looking. I'm not a millionaire. I never cheated,

704
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: So I guess I'm a bad husband, just mediocre.

705
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: Oh dude, sad body.

706
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: She filed the petition for divorce. Oh, Sarah Sandborn, I

707
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: thought you said you don't deserve that cultree. Sarah Sandborn says,

708
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: I do deserve that CULTUREA. Don't forget to reapply sunscreen.

709
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:21,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that right now.

710
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 2: It's funny. Uh, I will never ask a woman to

711
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 2: see a doctor now because of this lesson learned. Listen,

712
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,760
Speaker 2: never tell your significant other to go to the doctor.

713
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: They may divorce you. I guess that's what happened. We're

714
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 2: gonna say, go to the doctor. I'm getting a divorce.

715
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: I'm getting that's what happens every time. Like I haven't

716
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: smeared this in but whatever. Then a few months later,

717
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 1: she suddenly withdrew it and told me that she's having

718
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: second thoughts. Nah, you gotta have the second thoughts before

719
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: you send out those papers.

720
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: See, if you went to the doctor, you would be

721
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:01,959
Speaker 2: having these second thoughts.

722
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, Scooter Kid says Riley needs sunscreen. Riley doesn't

723
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: need sunscreen. Riley's completely under the umbrella.

724
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm jay chilling, I'm gai the sun. I'm having

725
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: a great time. I'm gonna be in the sun tomorrow.

726
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: I'll think about putting it on tomorrow.

727
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: No, I will make you then.

728
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

729
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: I filed the petition myself because I met a woman,

730
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: thirty six female it was nice to me, which came

731
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: as a shock to my system. No, he's oh, he's like,

732
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: I'm just a mediocre guy.

733
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 2: I like that. The first thing was she was nice

734
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 2: to me. He was nice to me.

735
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: That was crazy.

736
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 2: She's beautiful, great pain. She's just nice to me. Yeah.

737
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: I couldn't have gone back to my ex wife after that.

738
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: Turns out my ex wife's sister convinced her to see

739
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: a doctor as she discussed about her period irregularities with her.

740
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: She was going through paramenopause and she just started HRT

741
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: started dragging the process. So we have been going through

742
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: divorce for like forever Demonica Kirsty says, you can still

743
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: burn in the shade.

744
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but watch me, I need a tan not as

745
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: fast all caramelized. See, I get burnt really bad, and

746
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 2: then over the day I caramelized and everyone loves it.

747
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: I feel like complete shade. You should still I always

748
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: put on sunscreen, regardless of whether or I go outside

749
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: him out.

750
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 2: That is the same as a roof. I never put

751
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 2: on sunscreen when I'm inside, basically inside right now.

752
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, tell me that fact. I will give Riley sunscreen.

753
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: I just meant that I deserve it more because I've

754
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: been full sun. You should still put it on, though.

755
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm doing great.

756
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 1: So where was I My girlfriend found out she's pregnant.

757
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 1: My girlfriend found out? Wait what what she the girlfriend

758
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:53,240
Speaker 1: found out she's pregnant?

759
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 2: WHOA the girl, not.

760
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: The wife, the ex wife. So so what's so he's

761
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: getting divorced. So he's getting divorced. TLDR is getting divorced

762
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: to his wife that hasn't gone through yet, and he

763
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,840
Speaker 1: found a girlfriend during this process, Yes, and his girlfriend

764
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: is now pregnant.

765
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: WHOA, Yeah, that's that's what I responded to. Yeah, what

766
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: what what? I'm confused. No, I was just explaining I

767
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,240
Speaker 2: thought you were confused. No, No, I was like, whoa,

768
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: this is crazy if they said what.

769
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: No, Okay, we're on the same page my gra I

770
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: told her that I'm a mediocre dude. That's why my

771
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: ex what my ex left me? No, dude, you have

772
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: to improve your confidence. Bro.

773
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 2: Let's get back buddy, Let's go to the gym. Yeah,

774
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: would show that you can lift heavy things. Equals not mediocre.

775
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: So true. She told me that she is also a

776
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: mediocre woman, and she wants to raise a mediocre kid

777
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: with me and live in a mediocre house and live

778
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: a mediocre life. Ah. That's it's giving everything everywhere all

779
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: at once. When he's like I just like in an

780
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: other life, I would have been fine doing taxes with you.

781
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: That's what it's giving.

782
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 2: That's so sweet. Oh my god, I love it.

783
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 1: I love it. Pachter says, Riley, you've literally gotten more

784
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 1: tan since the beginning of the stream. Doesn't look great,

785
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: doesn't he look good? Uh, says think it's celebrating your

786
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: one month of membership. Skin cancer doesn't care you're in

787
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: the shade.

788
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: Riley, Yeah, it does. One of my family.

789
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: It runs in my family, which is why I always

790
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: have sunscreen.

791
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, he works a sawmill. He's still putting it on.

792
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should always wear You should always have like

793
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 1: a a face sunscreen in your in your skin care routine.

794
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: I always put face on.

795
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 2: I don't need a skin routine.

796
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: You should put sunscreen on you.

797
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 2: See this face is raw dogged everything I know.

798
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: But don't you want, Like, don't you want good skin

799
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: when you're older?

800
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have to worry about that right now.

801
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, why because it'll happen later. She is now my

802
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: fiance Whoa and wife as as soon as I get

803
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: divorced Whoa. I thought news of her pregnancy will make

804
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: my ex understand that our marriage ended, but she went

805
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: crazy about it. Wow, she's now claiming I abandoned her

806
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: when she needed me the most, that I'm a bad

807
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 1: person for having a kid when she's going through metopause.

808
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: She left me first. No, I don't think she can

809
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 1: claim that he's abandoning her when she filed the papers,

810
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: she started this whole thing. He said, let's go therapy,

811
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: let's go to the doctor, let's figure this out, and

812
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: she said, no, you can't.

813
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 2: No takes you backsies, No takes you back. Excuse he

814
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: moved on?

815
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: You're too late.

816
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 2: It don't be like getting mad at him whenever you've

817
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 2: been calling him mediocre a whole relationship? What over that? Mmmm?

818
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: Roxy, thank you for the one buck tip, Riley, you're

819
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: the best, But no ask chat ebt real fast. If

820
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: you need sunscreen under an umbrella.

821
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 2: Bet, I'm doing that right now, do it.

822
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: But let's get into these moments. Uh oh a, Katie

823
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 1: Lynne also says, and he also begged her to get help. Yeah.

824
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 1: Beard Man Michael says, she told me I'm a mediocre

825
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: husband and she's better off alone. That actually definitely defines me.

826
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: Continuing with that quote, and the commoner says that should

827
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: have been the end of the story right there. She

828
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: left me first, enough said not the ahle Chaine gun

829
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 1: Samurai says she filed for divorce. Were you supposed to

830
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: crumple into a ball and not go on without her?

831
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: Sun Bear twenty five twenty five says, I honestly expect

832
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,439
Speaker 1: that she was a completely different person when she wasn't

833
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 1: on HRT and is basically woken up to realize she

834
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: blew up her entire life with a person she actually

835
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 1: loved and valued.

836
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 2: It's tragic.

837
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: My heart goes out to her. But it's not O

838
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: Pie's fault. Yeah, it's not like I understand that she

839
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: was going through something like going through a medical thing. However,

840
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: he's I don't think he should be expected to like

841
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: stay around until she figures that out and goes and

842
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: gets the help that she needs. Jake gal Nit says

843
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: this one percent. I know that hormones are crazy, how

844
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: they affect people with moods and other things, but it

845
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: isn't his fault. It happened. Particular Title forty two says,

846
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: not the Ahle. When an ultimatum is issued, that is

847
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: the last choice you get. She made her choice. Her

848
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 1: regret is her problem, not yours. Congrats on your mediocre

849
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 1: new family. I love this. Uh, don't forget about your

850
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,720
Speaker 1: other kids. They're going to need you. And then OPI

851
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: says thanks, have a great mediocre day. Honestly, boredom is underrated.

852
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: And there is an update.

853
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: Whoa well, oh my gosh, it's about yet world. Just

854
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 2: see okay real quick, yeh, I looked it up. Here's

855
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 2: what it said. I said, Should I have searched in

856
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: on her an umbrella. It said yes, but then after

857
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: that I was like, what if I'm only outside for

858
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: three hours? It now says being on her umbrella can

859
00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: have some production against direct sunlight, but it's still why

860
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 2: is to use sunscreen? Okay, here, what'll I put it on?

861
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 2: I fake? Okay? Oh my? What the heck was that? Sorry?

862
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: I was trying not to hit like a.

863
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 2: You put a lot of powerhole.

864
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: No, I did, because if I didn't put power, it

865
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: would have like hit a camera. I had to like

866
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: directly get it out of you.

867
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like, got a little float there.

868
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: Show I needed direct its Lady Morgan. They put the

869
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: two bucks green flags from Op's girlfriends slash fiance.

870
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 2: So true. Uh, so true.

871
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: But let's get into this update six days later. Uh

872
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 1: Kiwi Fox and Sophia sticker looks like a tear. She THOK,

873
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: that's what I'm going for. It's just my acne. I'm

874
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: trying to I'm trying to be ready for tomorrow so

875
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: that I don't have to wear my stars. I've been

876
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: traveling a lot since I posted, so I didn't get

877
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 1: a chance to read all of your responses. It seems

878
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: that people found my post too relatable. It stirred a

879
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: wide variety of emotions. I've been getting a lot of

880
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: messages whose wives are divorcing them after they went through menopause.

881
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 1: I feel for you, guys. I went through the same

882
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: confusion and chaos that is forced into your life when

883
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 1: your wife leaves you. I was never I never wanted

884
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: to take my own life. Though it may sound cliche,

885
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: but I have great appreciation for life. I believe in

886
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: moving forward, whatever it takes. Every day I have to

887
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: make a choice between dwelling on past, on the past,

888
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: or moving forward. It's not a hard choice. It's the

889
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: actions needed to fulfill that choice that are hard. So

890
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm not here to tell you that you're weak for

891
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: feeling depressed or wanting your old life back. You are

892
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 1: not weak. That brings me to people who dislike that

893
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: I moved on so fast as soon as my ex

894
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: wife filed for divorce. There was no going back. There

895
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: are some things that you can take that can never

896
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:53,959
Speaker 1: be taken back, even when you did those things during menopause. Yeah, sure,

897
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: I would never have taken her back even if I

898
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: was alone. Many people have sent me art about how

899
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: I should have actually handled my xo's issues. I admit

900
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: that I could have done way more for her. I

901
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 1: could have handled things differently. I guess that's where my

902
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: being mediocre husband comes in. She had the choice between

903
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 1: ocre husband and no husband, and she chose the latter.

904
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: I believe that even in her most confused state, there

905
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: has to be a central belief system, something she considered important.

906
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: I was not part of it. My kids definitely were.

907
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 1: She didn't abandon them. She considered them important, which makes

908
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 1: sense because to her I was nothing special, someone mediocre. Wow,

909
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: women who divorced their husbands during menopause just never really

910
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: cared that much about them. I read your articles, and

911
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: women have been happy about their decisions to divorce their husbands.

912
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: They blame it on the husband's faults and truth is

913
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: really irrelevant at that point. I get what you guys

914
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: are saying, but my wife is not a child. She

915
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 1: had the power to divorce me, and she did. I

916
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: don't think it's fair to expect husbands to fight even

917
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: after the wife files for divorce. As I said, some

918
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: things can never be changed back once done. I didn't

919
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 1: divorce her first. I may have been the worst husband

920
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: there is, but I didn't divorce her first. Regarding my kids,

921
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: when my ex wife filed for divorce, her behavior was

922
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: on the display for my kids to see. They know

923
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 1: exactly what happened when my ex wife changed her mind.

924
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: They did try to change my mind, but I told

925
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: them I will never take her back, so there is

926
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: no point. It took time, but they have accepted it

927
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: and have moved on. It's easier to be a victim

928
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: than expecting that your own choices led to where you are.

929
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: I have been guilty of it, and so has my wife,

930
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: my ex Now to the hard part, putting one foot

931
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,879
Speaker 1: after another. What other choices there? And there are some

932
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: comments to finish this story off and are stream off,

933
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: Sir Vertholo says, not the a hole all the way around.

934
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: Just take your time with a new girl. Man, I

935
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: feel like I'm reading too much into too little, but

936
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: take your time and getting to know her. Also, of course,

937
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: responding to there has to be a central belief system,

938
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: something she considered important. I was not part of it.

939
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: Commoner says this is very true. Many don't realize how

940
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: some folks have a default mentality to value what's important.

941
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: And you definitely aren't it. It sounds like she valued

942
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: your kids, which is one hundred percent cool. But I

943
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: don't know if you noticed this. She valued her sister's

944
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 1: endpoint input more than yours. Yeah, her sister told her

945
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: to go to the doctor and she did.

946
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 2: Yikes.

947
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: It makes you wonder when the next time it will

948
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 1: happen and how deep that will go. Ubar sixty eight says, congratulations,

949
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: good luck with a new family. What your ex wife

950
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: is dealing with are called consequences. Most people hate her

951
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: chronic cases. I didn't divorce her Verse but says no,

952
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: but you got a girlfriend and got her pregnant while

953
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: still married. That is the only thing I was like,

954
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: You didn't really wait until all of the divorce proceedings

955
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: went through. That was a little bit, yeah, a little

956
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: bit strange, But I think overall, I don't think he's

957
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: the a hole because she made a choice.

958
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

959
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 1: Jutter, shutter, thank you for the four buck tip, Riley,

960
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: he put the sunscreen on his skin? Or don't catch

961
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: live streams again? Silence of the lamb JK, of course.

962
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: But as a ginger, the sun is my natural enemy.

963
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 2: I feel you.

964
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm not a ginger, but it is also my natural enemy.

965
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: Just kat, thank you for the twenty five buck tip.

966
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: Someone needs to make Riley a leather bag meme a

967
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: leather bag. Oh oh, like you're gonna look like a

968
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: leather bag dude.

969
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 2: I promise you trust the process. You guys will be like, Wow,

970
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 2: I'm so glad Riley got into the sun and he

971
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 2: looks so tan and great. No in white, dude, me

972
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 2: curls hand and in white, you.

973
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: Gotta use that sunscreen.

974
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: Man.

975
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: Lisia says, thank you the five bucks and spicy cookie.

976
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: Think of the five buck tip. You can't treat people

977
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: like crap and expect them to.

978
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 2: Stay in your life.

979
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: Well, big big truth from you, big true facts from you.

980
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: But that but that is the end of the stream.

981
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: Oh I did yes, Thank you again, Lady Morgan. Though

982
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 1: that we've come to the end of the stream. Thank

983
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: you all for joining us on our outside stream. We

984
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: appreciate you all.

985
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 2: We're thinking about going outside more so maybe stay stick around, stick.

986
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 1: Around, but we're gonna we'll send you, guys pictures of

987
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: our run fair outfit. Let's have a fantastic day and

988
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: if you love us,